Tools to Use Competition to Your Advantage

May 22, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Use Competition to Your Advantage

Yes — you totally can!

Do you always turn everything into competition? If so, it might just be the thing stopping you from creating the life and living you truly desire. In this episode, we will talk about competition, as well as some of the phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness that you can utilize to start using it to your advantage. Competition isn’t always bad, my sweet friend. With the right tools, it can open you up to lots and lots of possibilities!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.This week, we are talking about Tools to Use Competition to Your Advantage. Yes.

[00:00:19] This is an invitation to a 10-month Book Club that I have starting June 1, 2022. It is called “Living the 10 Keys to [Total] Freedom.” The 10 Keys to Freedom — actually the “10 Keys to Total Freedom“— is a book by Gary Douglas and Dain Heer from Access Consciousness.® and it is literally 10 keys to total freedom. The title does not lie. It is so magical, and “no competition” is one of those keys. I wanted to just explore it in this radio show, give you maybe a taste of what the 10-month book club will be like.

[00:01:04] Basically, what we do is we go through each chapter in the book club, and this is the first time I’m doing it this way. I’ve been doing book clubs for a couple of years now. They’re amazing!

This time, I am taking a chapter a month. Usually, I do a chapter in a week. This book is like no other book, my sweet friends. This book is… wowza. I know, for me anyway, I will require way more time with each chapter and really, truly to live that key. And then of course, as the months go on, the keyS.

[00:01:43] Now, I have been sharing the 10 keys to total freedom for 10 years because it’s actually in the Foundation Manual. I’ve been talking about it and certainly using the tools to a certain degree, and I’m ready to go way, way, way, deeper. Way, way, way deeper.

In fact, I just finished up attending a 10-month book club on the 10 Keys to Freedom. I’m not ready to be done yet, which is how this was all inspired. It’s like, “Let’s go further!”

That invitation, you’ll see a link above or below. If you don’t see one, reach out to me. I will get you that link so you can look at it.

[00:02:24] Now, the reason that I’m actually doing this radio show in my office is ’cause I’ve wrote some things down from the chapter of No Competition. With this book and with many of the books in Access Consciousness®, it’s actually based off of a teleseries. In 2012 — yes, 10 years ago — Gary and Dain had a teleseries called the “10 Keys to Total Freedom,” and then they made it into a book.

[00:02:53] And so, what I do when I do a book club is I go through the teleseries, and then I go through the chapter, and then we get together and I just share bits and pieces and then whatever questions that you might have or insights, awarenesses, whatever it is

.

Basically, what I’ve done is I wrote down some things in the No Competition chapter. Now, I’m just giving you a little, tiny synopsis. There’s going to be so much, my sweet friends. Honestly, a call a week for a month. Some months are four calls, some months are five calls, depending on that month, because that really is how much is required. Probably, we could do a year a chapter. That just probably wouldn’t be as fun.

[00:03:38] Anyway, what I want to talk about is some tidbits of competition and what competition is from the book and the teleseries. So, competition. This is a shocking one. Anytime you need to be right or you’re trying to be right, you’re competing. When you’re trying to win and not lose, you’re competing. When you’re getting upset and making the other person wrong, which every time we get upset, that’s what we’re doing – we’re doing competition. Here is a mind blowing one: When we’re doing conclusion, we’re competing. Whoo.

Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:34] Now, if you’re not familiar – www.accessconsciousness.com. Go check out all of the pieces. There’s so much information. The thing I just said – right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds – that is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works.

But basically, it’s like waving a magic wand and all of the energies, all of the stuff that was coming up as I was reading through what competition is or when we’re doing competition, all of that starts getting cleared, like waving a magic wand and it works beautifully.

[00:05:11] We’ve recently added the word POVADs, and that is an acronym for POints of View that you’re Avoiding and Defending, which is a whole other topic. I did a radio show a couple of weeks. We’ll link to it somewhere so you can check it out if you would like more information about avoiding and defending.

In my 11 years playing with these amazing tools of Access Consciousness®, the Clearing Statement has never been changed. In fact, it’s been 14 years since it was changed. This is such a magical topic and worth going to listen to that radio show. All right.

[00:05:47] So now, you’ve got an idea of when you’re competing. I know for me, the biggest one as I was reviewing this chapter really was when I needed to be right. Although it’s something that I am a million times better at, it’s still something that I choose way too much.

The acknowledgement when I’m aware that I’m choosing it, that I’m actually competing, has allowed me to stop it in the moment that I acknowledged that. So for me, this is huge having that extra tool – just to acknowledge.

[00:06:31] Usually I’ll be honest—usually, it’s with regards to Hubby. There’s something I need to be right about and as soon as I recognize that energy — I’m very familiar with the energy now. Now, when I can go, “Oh, there’s that energy! Would I like to compete with Hubby?” No. So then, I can drop it easily.

That was one of the biggest for me, personally, is really looking at that and going, “You know what? If I need to be right, I’m competing.” Crazy!

[00:07:03] Now, also from the chapter, Gary and Dain talk about what competition does. When we’re competing, (1) we’re killing our creative capacities, (2) you’re killing what you could receive in the world, (3) we’re creating a lot of crap, (4) we’re killing our business; and (5) we’re killing our future.

This was the big one for me: you can’t be the contribution you be. Yeah. Again, let’s go back to needing to be right with Hubby. I can’t be a contribution when I need to be right because I’m competing.

Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:08:00] Now, one of the things that they talk about in the chapters [is] that to be the antidote to competition is to actually ask a question. Shocking! I know, right? It’s what we talk about all the time in Access. It really is just being present with the energy. Whether you’re the one who’s doing competition or you’re aware of competition, question is the thing that will change it.

[00:08:26] Let’s say you’re aware of competition. You could actually ask, “What’s going on here? How can I change this? How can I handle this?”

If it’s you that’s doing the competition, then again, the tool of just recognizing that I’m killing being a contribution, I’m killing my business, I’m killing my life, I’m killing my creative capacities, that’s a pretty big enough gift to be able to change it. If it isn’t, there’s so many other tools that you can use. You can just really look at, “What’s actually going on here?”

[00:09:05] Because when we compete, when we’re doing competition, it’s from the energy of being less than. We don’t ever compete with people that we feel in a sense, like, the same as, or on the same level as where we feel like we’re as. We don’t compete in those situations. It’s when we’re feeling less than. When we feel like that person is greater than us or better than us, that’s when we compete.

Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:09:51] So, that’s also something to look at. For me personally, I had this—I often refer to it as a “theme.” It was a choice. I chose to feel left out a lot growing up, and then into my teens and certainly into my adult years, I continue to choose that. I refer to it as a theme because it was a similar energy that I chose over and over and over.

That energy – me choosing left out – often match the energy of less than, which then it was constant competition. However, I wasn’t doing competition in the way that most people would think. Competition – often we think of that, it’s like fighting and forcing, and “I’m going to show that I am good enough!” and “I am going to show that I am a contribution” or that sort of stuff.

[00:10:40] That’s not how I did it. I went, “Oh, poor me! “Sucks to be me.” “They’re better than me and I’m nothing.” Now, okay. Maybe it wasn’t as blatant as that, and that was very close. Energetically, it was.

I did that and people would often say, “Well, that’s not competition.” It actually is. It’s the same energy. It’s just that it’s not the fighting. It’s not what we often identify as competition as.

[00:11:11] In my family, I can remember growing up and I have two older sisters. When I was 9, my parents had another baby, and then another one right after that. And so, two older and two younger.

I can remember sitting at the dinner table and my one sister had all these amazing stories about her day and what had went on and who did what. Everybody around the table was very involved in her stories.

For a while, I would attempt to match that. I would attempt to come home with the stories to be as interesting, to not feel left out, all that stuff. And then, I can actually remember stopping and actually starting to withdraw.

[00:11:57] Both of those are competition. I was competing when I was like, “Okay, what story can I tell? How can I get people to like me as much as her?” I mean, it was insane, and whatever. And then, also going, “All right, you know what? They want to listen to her? Fine. I’ll just withdraw.”

Same energy, and we don’t often acknowledge it to be. If you would have asked me back then, I would have told you I was not competing. I was superior. I was not even going to play that game. And I totally was!

[00:12:29] You might even want to start acknowledging when you’re competing. You could even ask: Universe, show me where I’m competing. Just show me. Not so that you can make yourself wrong. So that you can start being aware that you have another choice. You don’t have to compete. You can, there’s nothing wrong with it. We’re going to talk shortly about the tools to use competition to your advantage, but it’s not about making you wrong ever.

[00:13:03] The other thing that I have come up in a lot of my classes and such is where people will ask about competition, like, people competing with them.

They’ll say so-and-so is competing with me in my business and trying to take my clients or stuff like that. It’s very interesting what Gary and Dain talk about in the book with regards to this and let me read it to you.

Gary says, “Saying this person is competing with me is not an awareness. It’s a judgment. You can ask-” Remember, the antidote is question “-ask: What am I doing or being to create this? What am I aware of that I’m not willing to have total awareness of? What am I creating or generating that’s contributing to their feeling this way?“

Yeah. You can totally use competition to your advantage, in this case, with those questions. And then, you could look at what’s required.

[00:14:11] I remember years ago, I was traveling to another country to do some classes. I had hosts at that location. We were having our weekly check-in meeting, and they were telling me about a fellow Certified Facilitator who lived in that area that was doing some interesting things around the classes that we were going to have in that area.

At first they said, “What should we do? How can we stop this?” We’re matching that energy. I was like, “Well, if we don’t play with it, that’s going to create greater. So, let’s acknowledge what’s going on, but we don’t need to play with it. We don’t need to make that person wrong. We don’t need to be right. Let’s just let it be.”

[00:15:00] And then afterwards, on my own, I didn’t use these specific questions, but I started looking at, “What is actually going on?” Like, if somebody’s choosing that. In this case, I knew this fellow CF and it was an unusual choice from what I had experienced with her. So, I just got curious, like, what’s going on that somebody would choose this?

I recognized quite quickly that that person had really built up that area of where she lived with interest in Access Consciousness® with the classes. There was a lot of people who’d been to classes that knew about it because of what she had chosen for months and years. I was like, “Wow!” Wow, that is phenomenal.

[00:16:00] I reached out to her and I just said, “I need to thank you so much for what you’ve done in that area to really allow the interest to be there. You’ve done all the hard work and now, I’m just so grateful.”

And it was true. I wasn’t making it up. It wasn’t like, “Oh, well, how can I get her?” It wasn’t. It was truly, like, once I acknowledged it, I was like, “Wow, I never looked at it like that before.” I just shared that with her and it changed everything.

[00:16:30] That’s basically what the questions that Gary’s suggesting. That’s basically what it is, like, what was I doing that was creating that? Well, I wasn’t acknowledging what she had done in that area to really exponentializes the information about Access. I didn’t have to go in and start educating people about Access Consciousness®. She’d done that.

It was such a huge space and such a huge awareness for me, also, that I continued to do that. When I would get invited to areas where there was somebody who had done that in that area, I would reach out to them and I would just say, “Thank you so much for what you’ve done here because it is huge for somebody to do that. I’m so grateful.”

[00:17:21] Really looking at that, if you are a person who is saying, “Oh, this person’s competing with me,” take a moment. What’s actually going on?

[00:17:28] Now, we’re not saying at all that you’re wrong or that you shouldn’t be doing what you’re doing. I wasn’t wrong to say yes to the invitation to go facilitate classes there. That whole situation gave me so much awareness. So if you looked at, let’s say, it’s one person that’s competing, and you got really spacious and present with that, what could you actually create?

[00:17:57] You might never contact that person. In my situation, it was super light to do so. It made a lot of sense to do so. In your situation, it might not and it might give you more information. It might give you way more information to really get a sense of that.

I’ve heard of other people, too, that had a similar where they’re really aware of somebody competing. They just follow the energy and they invite that person to co-facilitate with them. Yeah.

[00:18:26] Again, you’ve got to follow what you know. You’ve got to ask questions. It might never make sense for you, but just to start being aware of it. Because what could we create if we drop those barriers?

[00:18:39] To me, that’s what I do when I’m competing is I put up the barriers. Again, for me, a lot of it’s like, “Well, I’m less than and I’m nothing” and all the stories that I used to tell myself. I’m so grateful that I would say 95% of the time, that’s not in my world anymore. I can certainly be aware of it, but to play with it as though it’s mine like I used to? It’s very, very different. How does it get any more magical than that? Yes.

[00:19:09] Really with that, if you’re feeling it from someone else, then use those questions. Really check in. What else is going on and what can you be and do different to change it?

[00:19:20] Now, the “generative competition,” you might’ve heard us talk about before, is actually where we start out-creating. It’s such a simple question. I’ve got on my Reminder app. It reminds me every morning at 6:00 AM to ask:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can me and my body be to out-create myself for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

Ask everyday to out-create you.

[00:20:02] Now, the other thing that I ask is I ask my business to out-create itself, and then you can also ask to out-create other people. That’s not competition. That’s what we call “leapfrogging.”

[00:20:19] Let’s say somebody sees a class that I’m offering. Let’s say it’s a 1-day class on changing your point of views about money. Somebody sees that and they go, “Whoa, that’s really cool! What if I offered it as a 3-day class and I added in stuff about business and magic,” let’s say?

Now, some people could call that competition and it could be. The person could be doing it from, “Oh, I need to be better than her!” It could be, but if you’re truly doing it from the spaciousness of you, from the leapfrogging, it’s just looking at something going, “Wow! Here’s how I could change that. Here’s how I could do that different.” That feels super fun, and then actually just taking action and doing it.

[00:21:12] It’s something that’s been talked about with the Certified Facilitators and Access Consciousness® that I just love is leapfrogging.

If I see somebody doing something similar to me, I don’t get offended. I actually celebrate because they’ve taken a little bits of pieces of the energy of the creation and then went, whoosh, and leapfrogged over me. That is so magical, and I have done it! I don’t mean just other people.

[00:21:41] Honestly, it’s the way. If we break it all the way down, we do that with the tools of Access Consciousness®. Every video that I’ve ever done, every class that I’ve ever done using the tools, everything that I’ve ever done where I shared the tools, I was out-creating something. We could go all the way back to Gary Douglas, who was the founder. What if it’s not wrong? What if it’s not bad?

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:22:22] Another thing that I hear a lot is they go, “Oh no, you know that so-and-so is offering a Bars class so I can’t.”

What?! If we only had one Bars Facilitator in the world, that would be ridiculous. If we only had one Bars Facilitator in the city or town that you lived in, that would be ridiculous.

[00:22:43] I used to live in a town called Vermilion, Alberta. Population [is] about 5,000, and I think that includes the surrounding area. It’s a fairly small town. We must’ve had 50 hairdressers and about 50 liquor stores.

‘Okay, that might be a bit of a stretch with the liquor stores, but there was a lot and all of them were busy – hairdressers and liquor stores – because every one of us is looking for a certain energy. Whether we know that or not, it doesn’t matter. We’re, we’re looking for an energy.

[00:23:21] If you’re willing to recognize that you being you is going to be different than the Bars Facilitator down the road, or the Certified Facilitator, or the car sales person, or the Amazon seller, whatever it is that you do, then you can actually, again, going back to all this information, you can be the contribution that you truly be because you’re not playing less than.

You’re not going, “Oh well, they know more than me” or “They sell more than me” or “They have more followers than me.” All of that is ridiculous competition. Making you less than, making sure that you’re going to do competition where you could just look at, “Okay, what would be fun for me? What would I like to do? What would create greater here?” You go back into question and have so much more of you in whatever it is that you’re offering.

[00:24:17] Now, I’m talking about it, kind of from competition from a business space. But as I talked about with my family, I competed with my siblings, I’ve competed with my parents, I compete with Rodney, which is Hubby.

Not a lot of people know that his real name is Rodney. I’ve started calling him Hubby which seems like forever ago. And so often, I’ll get the question of, “Is that his real name?” It’s not. It’s Rodney, but I still refer to him as Hubby ’cause that’s fun for me.

[00:24:44] Anyway, we compete in all sorts of areas in all sorts of ways. That’s why even asking, “Universe, show me where I’m competing” because sometimes it might be just about turning it. It might be just turning it from competing to generative competition, which again, is that out-creating.

[00:25:06] Let’s say you’re a Bars Facilitator, and you are seeing on social media somebody who had 50 people in their class. You get really excited by that. You could ask: What would it take to out-create that class?

What you’re asking is what would it take for me to choose to be more of me than that person was willing to be of them when they created that class? That’s what outcreation is. You’re asking to be more of you.

[00:25:39] I will often do that. When I see something that just lights me up, that somebody else has chose: What would it take to out-create that? It’s not about what would it take to be better than them, what would it take to be more successful than them. That’s all competition and not going to feel yummy.

What would it take to out-create them? What would it take to be more of me than they were willing to be of them in that moment? That’s where the magic is, my sweet friends.

[00:26:07] As I mentioned, this is an invitation to the book club, 10 months deep dive, Living the 10 Keys to Total Freedom. You will get weekly calls with me where you can ask questions. We’ll go through the book. I’ll share bits and pieces from the teleseries that maybe wasn’t included in the book.

There will also be a Personal Clearing Loop from me each month based on that month of whatever the key is that month. That will be there.

You will also get a PDF about living the tools from that chapter. It’ll be basically just suggestions on how to use the tools that they talk about in the book, different ideas and ways that you can actually live them in your life and your living. If that sounds fun, find the link. If you don’t see it, let me know and I will get it for you.

[00:26:57] Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. I wonder what our lives and our living would be like if we were willing to use competition to our advantage as if by magic?

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Energetic Tools to Create Magic in Your Business

May 15, 2022 | Radio Show

Energetic Tools to Create Magic in Your Business

It can be beyond what you’ve imagined possible.

If you’ve been here for a while, you’ll know that business is one of my favorite topics to play with! And so for this episode, I will be sharing some of the tools I use from Access Consciousness when I’m needing a little ✨magic dust✨ in the business, whether I’m launching or upgrading one. Play with it, have fun with it, and see the possibilities it can open up for you and your business!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you. This week, I am sharing Energetic Tools to Create Magic in Your Business.

[00:00:16] I have been playing in this business for 20 years. Actually, September 2022 will mark my 20th anniversary in this business. I say “this business” because I have done some sort of self-employment since I was a child. I have always had some other business going on. Now, I’ve been employed and always had something else, too. Business is one of my most favorite topics to play with.

[00:00:43] The first tool that I want to talk about is something called a “bell jar.” This is an energetic tool from Access Consciousness®, where you basically put a bell jar over something to keep it separate for whatever.

Now, you can use it in many different ways. The thing that I really want to talk about though, or really want to stress in this is if you’re using it because “you can’t handle it” or “you’re too weak” or “you’re nothing” and whatever it is you’re putting it over as better or bigger than you, that’s a problem. Using a bell jar is never about playing a victim. It’s using a bell jar to give you some space to change whatever it is.

[00:01:23] For example, the way that I used a bell jar — this was so many years ago, probably 17 years ago in my business. There was a gal who was close to me. She lived close to me and she also would play in my business at certain times, helping me out with different things.

She started a similar business and I had so much competition with her in my head. Back then, I wouldn’t have admitted it to anybody because I was horrified at what crazy I had going on in my world about her and her business.

What I came to realize though, was that it actually wasn’t mine. I was in her universe in her world. There was lots of crazy in her world. I was playing with it as though it was mine.

[00:02:10] She said to me — at one point, she said, “I want a business just like yours,” which seemed like a very kind thing to say. I actually asked Gary Douglas, the founder of Access Consciousness®, about it when I was in a class with him. This was back in 2013. I asked him about it because it stayed with me. There was something about it that I just kept going back to, in my mind, the comment that she’d made. He said, “So, does she want a business just like yours, or does she want your business?”

I was like, oh my gosh, she actually wants my business! This really was this intense and crazy and bizarre mess of “I’m wrong and I’m competitive” and then, “Well, she’s wrong and she’s…” like, it was crazy.

[00:02:56] What I chose to do was I actually used a bell jar. So, I put a bell jar on her. This wasn’t a bell jar on her life, her living, any of that. But it was a bell jar on her with regards to me, until I could get stronger in who I was at the time, and recognizing that there’s room for all of us and I wasn’t playing with her crazy and all the insanity that was going on, just to give myself that space. Once I got there — once I got to all of that crazy being gone, I just changed the bell jar.

[00:03:33] It’s one of the ways — I look at that as a great example because I’m not sure what I would have chose had I continued to play in that competition, crazy, she’s wrong, I’m wrong, we’re both wrong – all of that insanity, because that energy is a very heavy, heavy energy and a very icky energy.

By using the bell jar, I was able to change it into getting the confidence in myself, getting the space for myself and then, being able to carry on. Whatever she was going to choose once that bell jar was gone, it was irrelevant because I had me. I was confident in me. This was a huge, huge gift.

Again, if you’re using it because you’re a victim to somebody or to a situation, don’t use it. But if it’s just to find your feet or to get that space for you, then it’s a magical tool that can create so much more.

[00:04:32] Another magical tool that I have used is being out of control.

Now, I know that that sounds like a very bizarre thing. However, recognize in business and in your life, the more that you’re trying to control, the more that you’re trying to get right, the more that you’re trying to force in a way that you think it should be, you’re actually limiting what’s possible. So, if you really allow your business to choose for itself, to create itself, and to co-create with it—you’re not leaving it on its own, but you’re, co-creating with it—,it’s such a different space for magic.

[00:05:09] What I did, and I continue to do this to this day and will probably do for the rest of my life, is this clearing:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can me and my body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of form, structure, significance, out of linearities, and out of concentricities for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all 9, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

If you’re not familiar, that is the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness®. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. It’s a magic wand, my sweet friends. It’s amazing.

[00:05:49] Once you are willing to get out of control, or at least get more and more out of control, then your business is so much more magical. Your business will grow and be beyond what you’ve never imagined possible.

[00:06:07] Another magic trick that I use is what I just call an “energetic exercise” basically, and it’s different for each one of us. I’m going to show you how I do it. However, you’ve got to play with it and find the way that works for you.

Personally, I’m very, very visual. When I do energetic exercises, I’m doing things in my head. I’m imagining and playing with them energetically. That’s how I do them. Some of you, it might be more of a feeling or perceiving with the energy. Some of you might just be more of a knowing. There is no right or wrong way with this. It really is just an energetic exercise.

[00:06:47] Let’s do one together right now: Imagine something that you would like in your business today. Imagine that you have a class or you have a product you’re selling — something that you would like someone to come and purchase. Okay? We’re just going to get the energy of the thing. Whether it’s a class or a product or something, get the energy of that. And now, we’re going to ask it to contribute. Yeah.

Again, this is just an energy thing. Don’t worry if you’re doing it right or wrong, don’t get caught up in that. Just know that as we’re doing it, as I’m saying it, you’re doing it. You’re playing with us here.

[00:07:21] We’ve got the energy of it, we’re asking it to contribute, and now we’re going to drop any barriers that we might have. I just use these words:

“Barriers down, barriers down, barriers down. All levels, layers, lifetimes, universes, realities, barriers down.”

Just imagine dropping them all. So, I’m the oneness I truly be with the thing, with myself, with oneness, and then I’m just energetically asking and pulling to the thing.

I’m going to use a class for myself right now. I’m energetically pulling to it anybody who doesn’t even know they’re looking for it. We don’t have to figure out who that is. We don’t have to just do one person. All the people who don’t even know they’re looking for it, and I’m just energetically pulling them to it. Again, I’m asking the class to contribute to pull them in, also. And then, we just let it go.

We don’t keep doing it. We don’t force it. We don’t make it happen. We don’t go check our email to see if somebody bought it. We just do the energetic exercise, and then we let it go.

[00:08:27] I also have a gift for you of Questions to Ask your Business Every Day for Success. If you would like those, you can find the link above or below. If you don’t see a link, then you can reach out and I will send it to you so you can grab those.

[00:08:42] Another energetic tool that I use every day in my business is an “energy pull.” Very similar to the energetic exercise we just did, but this is an energy pull where you just get the sense of the business, the sense of what you would like the business to be like, the sense of what the business would like to be like, and then just energetically pulling to it everyone and everything that will contribute to it growing like that or being like that.

[00:09:10] Again, this is just something that we do. We have fun with it, and then we let it go. You can do it in three seconds. You can do it in the shower. You can do it driving. You don’t need to take special time, or be apart or separate, or close your eyes. You can do it however you would like to.

You can use it on individual things like, you know, a class or certain products or things like that, or the business as a whole. Maybe your bank accounts. I mean, truly, there is no limit what you can do with this energetic tool, guys. Play with it. Have fun with it.

Those are just a few of the energetic tools that I use to play with my business to create way more magic in the business.

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Tools to Receive More from the Universe

May 8, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Receive More from the Universe

Receive more and more and MORE!

A lot of us have been taught no to ask nor demand, and to be happy with what’s handed to us even if we don’t really like it at all. It’s not the way to go if you’re looking to increase your receiving. That is why for this episode, I’m sharing my go-to tools from Access Consciousness that we can all utilize to start receiving and having more than we’ve never imagined possible. The universe has so much in store for us, my sweet friends. Now is the time to unlock that!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:11] Tools to Receive More from the Universe. Yeah. Let’s first start talking about what or who is the universe.

This is a different take on it, possibly than you’ve heard before. For me, when I speak about the universe or I ask the universe to assist me with things, it’s really about it being everything. I’m asking everything, including me. So, I’m part of the universe.

[00:00:40] I am not asking a big energy outside of me that’s greater than me because there’s no energy greater than you, my sweet friend.

It’s you and everything. I’m asking the earth, the trees, the animals, the buildings, the cars, the pollution, all of it including me and everything. When I’m receiving from the universe and asking the universe, it’s all about from everything. So, little bit of a different take, possibly.

[00:01:09] Now, the first tool to receive more from the universe? Ask. Ask, my sweet friends. I know this is such a bizarre concept. Of course, it’s not. It really is one of the things that you want to start recognizing that you probably weren’t taught to do.

In fact, possibly, you were taught to do the opposite. Don’t ask. Be happy with what you’re given. Just sit back and smile when they give you something even if it isn’t what you would like. Stop it. It truly is about asking for what you would like.

[00:01:49] There are multiple ways to ask. There’s no one way that’s better than the others. It’s whatever way you would like, whatever way feels natural.

You can ask from the energy of, like, what would it take?

What would it take for more paying clients to show up right away?

What would it take for more money to show up right away?

[00:02:11] Like, you can ask it in that form. You can also ask specifically and say, “Universe, surprise and delight me with more paying clients showing up today.”

Universe, surprise and delight me with more money showing up right away.

Whatever it is you’d like to ask for. I’m using clients and money but you can talk — you can ask about body stuff. You can ask about relationship stuff. There’s no limit to these tools ever. That’s the coolest thing about these tools.

[00:02:40] Asking in whatever way feels natural for you, or maybe it doesn’t feel natural. Maybe it’s something that you need to start building a muscle for. So, maybe you want to use a reminder app on your phone or sticky notes around the house just to keep you in that spaciousness of asking.

[00:02:58] The way that I tend to ask more than any other way — not that it’s right, it’s just what feels the most natural to me — is I wonder, which I know doesn’t sound like an ask and it’s a huge way to ask.

I wonder what it would be like for more paying clients to show up right away? I wonder what that would be like?

I wonder what it would be like for more money and cash and wealth to show up right away? I wonder…

And then, you truly want to wonder, like, I mean, TRULY wonder. Don’t go into, “Well, I wonder what it would be like.” But it’s like that really heavy contraction. You’re not wondering at all.

I wonder what it would be like…

[00:03:41] And it’s also a really great tool to use — the asking, however way you want to ask — when you’re in the space of “Well, this won’t happen and this can’t happen” and “This is too hard and this isn’t working.”

Stop and go to questions. Start asking for what you would like, whatever way you would like.

I wonder what it would be like to have more ease with this?

I wonder what might be possible with this I’ve never even considered?

All the asking. That is tool number one: ask, ask, ask.

[00:04:13] Before we head to number two, I want to invite you to some amazing classes that I have coming up:

Online Foundation, May 17th to the 23rd.

Online Business Done Different – my very first one. I’m so excited. That is in June.

And, I also have a 10-month Book Club for the 10 Keys to Total Freedom, and it’s called “Living the 10 Keys to Total Freedom.“. And that starts June 1st.

So, you’ll find the link above or below. If you can’t find the link, reach out and I will get it for you. I would love to have you come play, my sweet friends.

[00:04:48] Another tool to receive more from the universe is “I’ll have that.” This is what you want to say and be the energy of when you’re experiencing, maybe you’re on social media and you see somebody that’s doing something really cool and it just lights you up. Ask: “Universe, I’ll have that.”

[00:05:12] Now, I often will say, “Universe, I’ll have that or something even greater for me.”

Let’s say I’m seeing somebody on a sailboat and it just, like, gets me super excited. Now, it might not be the sailboat piece. That might not be the piece for me. When I ask, “Universe, I’ll have that or something greater for me,” then maybe the greater for me is a motor boat or a canoe, or who knows? I mean, there’s something else.

[00:05:39] I like to just have that little bit extra on the end so that it opens it up because often when we’re seeing somebody with something super amazing and we get excited by it, it’s actually not the excitement of the specific thing. It’s the energy that they’re being, and there might be something different that creates that energy for us. So, I like to add that: Universe, I’ll have that or something greater for me. Yeah. It’s a way of asking and to me, it’s such a potent way to create as if by magic.

[00:06:15] Tool number three is about demanding of you and requesting of the universe. This means if there’s something you would like to receive.

Let’s say you have a lot of credit card debt and you’re just so ready to change that. The demand is of you to change it. And then, the request of the universe to contribute to changing that.

[00:06:44] When you ask for change and demanded of you, the universe starts to contribute to your request and drops the gifts of choice and possibility that lead the way to the creation of a different future. You have to demand it and choose it.

[00:07:03] But the moment you demand it and you request of the universe, everything changes. Now, you’ve become aware of choices you could be choosing, things you could be doing differently.

It’s such a magical way, but a lot of times people think they demand of the universe. The universe don’t take demand. The universe receives requests.

[00:07:27] So, demand of you to change the thing, receive the thing, actualize the thing, whatever it is, and then, request of the universe

.

No matter what it takes, I’m changing this — let’s say it’s the credit card debt. “No matter what it takes, I’m changing this.” And then, “What’s it going to take?”

Universe, show me.

Universe, show me what’s required.

What can I be and do different today to change this right away?

What action is required that I’ve never even considered?

Universe, show me who to talk to.

Universe, show me where to go.

…so that you are in this space of demanding of you, requesting of the universe. Action, choice, action, choice, action — all of it, to actually create and receive and have more than you’ve never even imagined possible.

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Avoiding and Defending

May 1, 2022 | Radio Show

Avoiding and Defending

What are you avoiding and defending?

Do you sometimes think you don’t have a choice? Here’s the thing, my sweet friend: you ALWAYS have a choice. It could be that you’re avoiding and defending, which makes it feel like you don’t have a choice. It hinders you from being aware of the infinite choices you actually have.

If that’s something you’re looking to change, tune in to this episode ‘cause we will be dropping another amazing tool from Access Consciousness® that you can utilize anywhere in your life that you’re avoiding and defending. HDIGABTT?

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:11] What are you avoiding and defending? This is a new hot topic in Access Consciousness® and, guys, it is changing shit as if by magic. Oh my goodness. Ah, I love it. I love it. Okay.

[00:00:26] So, the first thing that you want to recognize with this avoiding and defending is that with anything in our life that isn’t working the way that we would like it to be working, we are both avoiding and defending simultaneously.

That is why this clearing works so well because a lot of times, we think it’s just one way. We think we’re just defending something or we’re maybe just avoiding something but in actuality, we’re defending and avoiding at the same time. Unless you change that, you’re going to be in what we call a “no choice universe.” It’s going to seem like there’s no other choice available.

[00:01:10] You might hear us talk in classes about “Just choose! Just choose! You know that c-word? Just choose!” When you are both avoiding and defending, there is no choice in your universe. Well, just that choice. That’s the only choice. That’s it.

The more that you get out of the avoiding and the defending, that’s where you become aware of the infinite choices. There’s always infinite choices. It’s just that when we are avoiding and defending, we’re not aware of them.

[00:01:49] Now, this topic has changed so much. The clearing of the avoiding and the defending has changed so much that Gary and Dain, the founders of Access Consciousness®, have actually added it to the Clearing Statement.

In my 11 years using these tools, living these tools, breathing these tools every day, I’ve never ever experienced a Clearing Statement change, so this is exciting. The Clearing Statement now is:

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:02:23] POVADs is points of views, avoiding, and defending. It’s the acronym. It’s okay if you forget to say it. Believe me, I’m on a whole learning curve with it now because I’ve been saying it one way for 11 years. Time to change that up.

You might even hear me say it without the POVADs a few times and that’s okay. It’s still got the energy. There’s enough people saying it. If you can, add it to it. Memorize it if you need to.

[00:02:53] Right now, I’m doing a 30×30 meeting. I’m running a clearing 30 times a day for 30 days. That’s really assisted me cause I actually have it written down on it so that I remember to actually say it. And soon, it will be part of it as if by magic.

[00:03:09] All right. Now, what exactly does this mean? Avoiding and defending. What the heck?

[00:03:16] Let’s say money isn’t the way you would like it to be, and you consider running this clearing. You might say something like What points of views am I defending and avoiding that’s holding this in existence? or What points of use am I avoiding and defending that’s creating this money problem?

You could change the word to “excessive debt” or whatever it is. You don’t have to say money problem. You can change the words to match the energy. So, those are a couple of ways that you can run it.

[00:03:54] Now, this came out in the Global Foundation in March, I believe, of 2022. A week later, Dain had a Choice of Possibilities class that I attended and he started doing them separately at times. He would say, What points of views are you defending with the money problem you are choosing? And then, he would wait for an awareness.

Now, this is huge and not always going to work. You’re not always going to have words. A lot of times, the crazy that we’re choosing is more of an energy. So, don’t get caught up in it if you’re not having awarenesses or words with that question. But do give yourself the space to have it in case it’s there.

[00:04:41] So, let me ask this of you: What points of views are you defending with the money problems you are choosing?

Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:05:03] Now, again, if you didn’t have anything come up, that’s totally cool. And it’s a great way to change it. Sometimes, what really changes something is when we actually have the awareness of what we’re doing. Sometimes, we can just run the clearing and not have any awareness attached to it, and away we go and it changes it. And sometimes, having the awareness is really the magic.

[00:05:29] So, what points of views are you avoiding with the money problems you are choosing? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

What points of views are you defending with the money problems you are choosing?Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

What points of views are you avoiding with the money problems you are choosing? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:06:28] Now, I would love to invite you to the new Foundation. My next Online Foundation is May 23-27, 2022. Come and play. I would love to have you.

If you can get here in person, we are having Pool Party Bars & Foundation in July 2022. You’ll find the link somewhere above or below. If you can’t find it, reach out and I will get it to you. I would love to see you in person, too, my sweet friends.

[00:06:55] So, defending. When we’re defending, we’re making it right. We want people to get that “our money problems are right! Don’t you understand? Look at the world right now.Look at the economy. There’s not enough money! There’s all these money problems! That’s why I have money problems — because everybody else has money problems!” That’s defending.

Avoiding is when you don’t even want to look at it. You’re just like, “[singing a beat]…money? What’s a money problem?”

[00:07:22] And this is the bizarre thing, guys. We’re doing both at the same time, avoiding and defending at the same time, which again, is why it keeps us locked up. That’s why there’s no other choice. There’s no choice beyond money problem when we’re avoiding and defending money problem. Oh my goodness.

Everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:07:59] In the Global Foundation when Gary and Dain first started talking about this, Gary suggested that we look at something with our body and he ran the clearing a few times.

He said, “Just become present with that thing that you would like to be different.” What I looked at was the extra weight.

There are still more there than I would like and what my body says my body would like. And yet, it really hasn’t changed in quite some time. I was still doing all the things that was changing it before.

[00:08:29] Anyway, I’m going to run this for you a couple of times. You can do a body thing. You can do a money thing. You can do a relation [thing]. It doesn’t matter. Just bring something to mind. But then I’ll talk about that experience for myself when Gary ran it for us.

What points of views are you avoiding and defending that is keeping that in existence? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

What points of views are you avoiding and defending that is keeping that in existence? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds

[00:09:45] For myself, when Gary was running that, what I realized—and I’ve realized it before, but I really, really acknowledged it in those clearings—was that I was really holding tight to what had worked before.

As many of you know, I’ve done alternate day fasting for a few years now. For the first year and a bit, it worked really well to change the scale. And then, it seemed to work well with shifting the body and doing different things. And then, it basically seemed to stop. What I never really looked at was.. now what? Now, what?

[00:10:29] So when Gary was asking that, I was looking at it with regards to my body and the weight on my body in specific. I was looking at, you know I’m avoiding another possibility. I’m avoiding that my body may be asking for something different. I’m defending that fasting was right. Oh, gosh. Even saying it out loud… my goodness. And yet, this is what I was doing.

So then what I started doing was like, “Okay, body. I’m really going to get out of the conclusion of this is the way, this is the right way, and that there’s somehow a wrong way and just be really loud. Really, show me.” And she has been. It’s been amazing, and the scale is changing again.

[00:11:14] It’s so magical when we get out of defending and avoiding because then, there’s one other choice. I mean, truly, what else is possible when we’re not in that place of defending and avoiding?

Yeah, because here’s the other thing that I realized for myself: How much energy are you using to avoid and defend? Right? Oh my goodness. Imagine if we utilize that energy in other ways. Yeah. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:12:01] This is such an amazing, amazing potent tool that you can utilize on anything. I’ve been talking about body and money, honestly, anywhere in your life. Anywhere you’re reacting, anywhere that you don’t feel like you have choice, anywhere that isn’t the way you would like it to be:

What points of views am I avoiding and defending that’s keeping this in existence?

What points of views am I avoiding and defending that’s creating this?

Or just what points of views am I avoiding with this?

What points of views am I defending with this?

[00:12:39] Try all the different ways, guys. There’s so many magical ways to use this. Use it. Honestly, if there is ever been a tool that I would recommend that you should use non-stop for like 30 days, it’s going to be this one.

Now of course, I would give you a million other tools, too, because they’re all so valuable and can change so much. And this one is huge. Now, if you use this tool, I would love to hear how you use it, what it changes for you. I love to hear the successes with these magical tools, my sweet friends.

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Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Apr 24, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Are you living your life for you?

Do you find yourself holding back because of what people might say about you? And if they do, do you take these comments to heart? If yes, this show is for you! In this episode, we’ll list down some of the tools from Access Consciousness® to help you stop other people’s judgment from controlling how you live your life, and eventually not give a flying fuck about it. Don’t let anything stop you from BEing you, my sweet friend.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] This week, we are talking about Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck. If you are a person that takes things personally, that avoids judgment, that doesn’t do things that might create judgment from other people, this show is for you, my sweet friend.

Yes, because it is time to start living your life. Any time that we’re giving fucks about what other people will think about us or say about us, we’re not living our life. We’re living for other people. We’re being controlled by other people’s judgment, which is why other people judge. Heck! It’s why we judge, my sweet friends. I know we don’t want to admit it, and it’s the energy behind it.

[00:00:55] So, tool number one. It’s a tool I talk about all the time and I’m not stopping talking about it anytime soon. It’s the tool from Access Consciousness®: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[00:01:08] Whenever you take it personal, whenever you receive some judgment — maybe you post something on social media and somebody comments, or you maybe won’t post something on social media in case somebody judges you, or you find out about somebody judging you from a friend or something like that, what you want to do is just take a moment.

If you need to go to the washroom or, you know, separate yourself from everyone that’s around and just go take a moment, get the energy of the judgment, of the resistance of it, of all of that, and go into interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting points of view, I have this points of view.

It can be interesting point of view or interesting points of views, either. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Just over and over and over until you don’t have that contraction in your world about it, until you can think about the situation without really a matter in your world, a care in your world. That’s ultimately what you’re looking for.

[00:02:20] Now, you may not get there right away. It might take you doing this a few times. It might take you doing this 50 times. It might take you doing this every hour for a week. Who knows? It doesn’t matter. There’s no kind of it-should-work-in-this-many-times.

It really is just utilizing this tool because every time you do it, it will start to unravel all of the places and spaces that you have made personal. [That] you’ve made about you that were never about you.

[00:02:50] When people judge us, it’s about their stuff related to what we’re choosing. No different than when we judge other people, it’s about our stuff in relation to what they’re choosing. So, it’s not personal.

We’ve been taught though to make it really personal and really wrap ourselves up into it and really look at how can I change so that person will like me or not have this judgment. Whoa, stop. No, use the tool: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

You can do it in your mind, you don’t even have to do it out loud, over and over and over until you have the space of you.

[00:03:31] Another tool to stop giving a fuck. This is a fairly new one in the last couple of years that we started using in Access Consciousness®. It’s a very simple question: Is this relevant? That’s all you need to ask.

[00:03:47] Again, let’s imagine you posted something on social media. Somebody made a judgment and you read it and you go, “Oh no!”

Truth, is this relevant?

Hmm… no. Okay, carry on. And then, you get to do whatever you would like to do with that.

If it’s on social media, you can go delete it. You could go block the person. You could comment. Whatever it is you’d like to do, you have total choice in that moment. There’s no right or wrong way to respond, and you don’t even have to respond.

[00:04:24] I have done all sorts of things. I just find whatever is going to create the most in that moment. Sometimes, I will respond and say thank you, which is a bit of a, well, I was going to say a bit of a manipulation, but it’s a total manipulation. Sometimes, I delete and block them. Sometimes, I just leave it.

And then usually, my other friends or people that are hanging out with me on social media, they’ll comment in kind of defense for me. I’m not sure if there’s anything else that I do. I mean there’s a few of those options, but it’s really whatever in that moment.

[00:05:00] But the first piece that I always look at is getting honest with me. I don’t want to do it from a reaction like, “Oh, I need to get rid of that comment! I don’t want anybody to see that!” I don’t ever choose from that energy.

That’s a muscle, I’ll be honest. Years ago, I didn’t choose from that. It was like, “Delete, delete, delete! I didn’t want anybody to see it!” Because part of it was that I bought it as true and real. If somebody was saying it, then it must be true and real. But what if it isn’t, guys? What if somebody is saying it just to say it?

[00:05:32] I’ve been talking for a while about TikTok. Now a few years ago, I put some videos here and there on TikTok. Lately, I’ve been a much more active on there. But I put one on there which was just a fun video of me putting on makeup.

Holy Dinah, did I receive judgment! In fact, to this day, I’ve never went and caught, like, I’ve never responded. I never did anything with them. It took me so off guard. I had no idea that people would actually choose that.

[00:06:02] None of the platforms that I’d been on before ever have that sort of insanity. So, it was really interesting. It was also a really good place for me to use interesting point of view, for me to be the space, for me to ask about, you know, is this actually relevant? and all of that.

But at the time, I just kind of set it aside and didn’t go on it for a while and just gave myself the space to really go, “Wow, this is another level of receiving! How does it get any better than that?”

[00:06:30] But that is the second tool — is really asking is this relevant? If you happen to get a ‘yes,’ then you could look at, “Okay, what’s required?” If it is relevant, then what’s required?

There may be something. There may be some sort of action to take. Just make sure that that isn’t relevant when you’re asking that, that your response is an awareness, not an answer that you think it should be, because maybe you’re upset about the comment.

[00:06:59] Another tool to stop giving a fuck is something that you want to be aware of with regards to recognizing you are your most valuable product.

I actually did a class on it very recently because this is something I was really looking out for myself in the last few months. It’s where I’ve made other people and other situations way more relevant than me, way more the valuable product than me when really, we are each our own most valuable product.

If we don’t acknowledge that and we don’t live that, then absolutely we are going to get really tied up in other people’s points of views. We’re going to get really tied up in other people’s judgements. We’re going to get really tied up in that space of what they think of us.

[00:07:48] However, if you are your most valuable product, if you recognize it and you acknowledge it and you live it, then what other people think or say about you really doesn’t have an effect on you because you’ve got your back, which is all about being your most valuable product. It means you never judge you. You always got you, which allows the universe also to always have you, to always have your back.

[00:08:20] These are really the tools just to start using. You don’t have to use them all. Pick one when that judgment comes up, when you’re giving too many fucks about things that aren’t required to give any fucks about. Really, start using one or maybe all of these tools to start changing it so that you have way more choice for you, because that’s what we’re looking for.

[00:08:43] It really is about stopping giving the fuck so that you can be you on the planet. You can create in whatever way you would like. You can do, have, be, and actualize everything beyond what you’ve never imagined possible when you stop giving the fucks.

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Tools When Life is Heavy

Apr 17, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools When Life is Heavy

Follow what lights you up!

There has been a lot of upset going on in the world for some time now. Add to that the personal worries we have to deal with in our daily lives. One can’t help but feel how “heavy” life seems to be right now.

If that sounds relatable, tune in to this episode as we talk all about the “heavy” stuff and some reaaallyyy potent tools from Access Consciousness® to help you breakfree from the drama-trauma and allow more magic to your life.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

This show is Tools When Life is Heavy. Yeah, and I know for a lot of people — not even just with the stuff in the world, just in their own world — life can seem heavy a lot. A lot.

And if you happen to catch last week’s radio show, you would have walked with me through some heaviness that I had in my world and all the things.

[00:00:40] Here’s the important thing to know about heavy. Heavy means there’s a lie attached. Heavy means there’s a lie attached. Heavy means there’s a lie attached.

Now, I am not repeating that because I’m forgetful. I am repeating that because most people do not stop and recognize that what we do is we assume that it’s heavy because of the upset attached, because of the story attached, because of all the crazy. That’s what we do. We assume that’s the heavy. It’s not, my sweet friends. That heavy is because there is a lie there.

[00:01:21] Now, it could be a 100% lie. It could be 2% lie. It could be anything. It’s just, you want to check in and you just ask, “What is the lie spoken or unspoken here?” You just need to acknowledge that there’s a lie.

If you are listening to the news and you start getting super, super heavy: What is the lie? No, it doesn’t mean that whatever story they’re showing right now is actually a lie. It doesn’t mean that. It could, doesn’t mean it [but] it could. It could, and it doesn’t necessarily.

[00:01:58] It could be, let’s say, you’re watching a news story and there’s something similar in your life. Let’s say you’re watching and somebody’s had all their possessions taken from them, like their house and stuff, because they weren’t paying their bills. And you maybe feel like money’s a bit tight.

You’re watching this news and all of a sudden, you’re going into your own story of “Oh my gosh, this is going to happen to me! I haven’t paid my mortgage last month and they’re going to come after me! They’re going to take everything!”

[00:02:31] What you’re doing is those lies you’re attaching, that’s the heavy. That’s our awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass! Stop it.” We want to get to the awareness of what is the lie.

You just recognize that, “Oh, okay. That’s the story I’ve attached. That’s what’s making it heavy. All right.” Stop, and then turn it into a question of like What else is possible?

[00:02:59] Let’s say with the money thing. What else is possible with my money stuff that I haven’t considered? We take it out of the drama-trauma, the story [and] into a question of like What else is possible I haven’t considered? You really want to strengthen this muscle, guys: to recognize that heavy is always a lie.

[00:03:21] This is the bizarre thing: if the whoever-the-power’s-that’d-be were going to come and take your house from you today and you thought about it, it would actually be light because it would actually be true. It’s a bizarre thing, but what’s true for us in that moment is light. What’s a lie is heavy. So, if it’s, if it’s heavy, guaranteed, there’s a lie in there. Guaranteed there’s a lie in there. Yeah.

[00:03:54] Right now on the planet — probably all the time on the planet, let’s be honest, but essentially right now — it seems there’s a lot of heavy. There’s a lot of things that we could put our attention on. There’s a lot of places where we can play with the story, the drama-trauma, the upset, all of it.

The question that you want to start asking when you recognize you’re in story, when you recognize that you’re telling lies, that that’s the heavy, ask: What can I add to my life right now to change this? Because if you’ve got time to play in the heavy, play in the story, make up all the drama-trauma, you’ve got too much time.

[00:04:36] I know that you might want to say to me, “But Glenyce I don’t have any more time! There’s no more time in my life! What are you talking about?” Yeah. It’s not even actually about time. It’s really about the energy of adding more and more and more.

If you’ll notice, like, when you’ve got something really fun or something you really enjoy doing, you always create the space for it. That’s what we’re looking at. How many more of those things can we add to our lives so we don’t play with the drama-trauma, we don’t play with the stories? That’s really—I mean, that’s the target, my sweet friends.

[00:05:12] I mean even this morning, I got up early and I went to the gym ’cause I knew later on, I knew I was recording the show today, I knew that I’ve got more calls this afternoon. I knew the rest of my day was full. If I didn’t go this morning, I probably wouldn’t have the space for it.

Now, let’s be honest. Years ago, I would have went, “I can’t go to the gym today. I know it just won’t work.” Now, I love it. It’s so much fun. I love all the gyms I can go to. I love all the possibilities there that I look at how I can fit it into my day. And that’s a different energy.

[00:05:48] So, that’s what we want to be asking: What can I add to my life right now to change this? And then, follow the energy. Follow what’s light, follow what really lights you up. You don’t know until you try it.

[00:06:01] This is the thing I hear from so many of you. “I don’t know what I like… I don’t know what would be fun for me… I don’t know.”

Of course, I’m being extreme here but let’s be honest, guys. You do not know until you try. So, definitely ask questions around it, of course, like Truth, if I choose this right now, will it create the future desire or decay the future desire?

Follow your awareness, of course, but don’t wait for you to know 110% that you will love it. Try it. Try it, and then you’ll know that choice creates the awareness. We’re often waiting for the awareness so we choose, but that is so slow, my sweet friends. It’s so, so slow. Such a slow way to create..

[00:06:51] I invite you to Online Foundation in May of 2022. You will find the link above or below with more information. I would love to have you come and play my sweet ,friends.

And of course, we also have the Bars & Foundation Pool Party in July of 2022. So again, you’ll find the link with more information and reach out if you don’t see a link or if you’ve got other questions. I would love to hear from you.

[00:07:16] So, when you’ve got the heavy going on, we want to ask: What’s the lie spoken or unspoken? We want to be asking: What can I add to my life? The other one that I use a lot, especially in the last month, is What am I aware of here?

What am I aware of here? Because we can become aware of something, and then again, we add that story to it, and then we distract ourselves with the story.

[00:07:44] Let’s say you had a business and you had a staff member working with you. Every time you thought about them, you started getting like a little bit pissy like, “Oh, they didn’t do that thing I asked them to do” or “They didn’t do it right” or whatever. Let’s say that’s not normally how you are with them or with people.

Instead of going into the, you know, continuing to distract yourself with that upset or going into, “Oh my gosh, what’s wrong with me? Why am I being so judgemental?” Stop. What am I aware of here? What is this? What was the ping of the awareness before you took it into all that crazy about the person? What are you aware of?

[00:08:26] Maybe you’re aware that they’re looking for a different job. Maybe you just popped into there, you’ve got the awareness that they’re looking for another job, and then you turn it into that distraction and story rather than just like, what if you were aware of that? Like, “Oh, they’re looking for another job. Okay, awesome.”

And then, it allows you to actually be in the space of, “Wow. Okay. If they choose to move on, would I like to replace them? Would I do something different?” You won’t be shocked when it occurs because you’re not pretending it’s not occurring if that’s what’s going on. Now, again, you’re just going to follow your awareness with it, but really watch for that spot before you take it into the drama-trauma.

[00:09:11] And this is why I use that question: what am I aware of here? It takes me back before the drama-trauma into, “Okay. So, what am I aware of?” I immediately don’t get words for it. I mean, we don’t always know specifically what I’m aware of.

But for me just asking that question, it changes so much because (1) I’m acknowledging that I’m aware of something and (2) I’m no longer playing with the drama trauma anymore which allows so much more magic. So much more magic.