Are You Willing to Succeed?
Will you choose it?
Will you choose it?
You might have been eyeing to do something for a while — maybe learn how to play an instrument, get another degree, or take on a new hobby. But when you do it, it turned out to be too hard, too easy, or it didn’t have the effect that you thought it would have. Then you spiral into the judgment of it, or yourself…
That sound familiar? It’s because I’ve been there, too. In this episode, I will share with you some of the magic from Gary Douglas’s Advanced How to Become Money Workbook that helped me get out of the judgment and create possibilities beyond what I’ve never imagined possible. ✨
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.
Depending [on] when you’re listening to this, happy 2022! Yes, we just celebrated the new year and [are] already into the magic of 2022. How the heck does it get any better?
[00:25] This week’s show — some magic from the Advanced How to Become Money Workbook. If you are watching the video of this, I just held up the book. If you’re listening, you don’t know that. But there is a workbook from Gary Douglas with Access Consciousness called the Advanced How to Become Money Workbook, and I go through it in group format about once or twice, or sometimes three times a year. We have another one coming up starting on January 14. We do a chapter a day for nine days. Yes, we are that insane, and it’s frickin magical.
[01:05] So, in the show, I wanted to share something. [I’m] just going to read a little bit here. Gary says: You start down a direction, and if it doesn’t turn out the way you think it should, you go into the judgment of it which then destroys the future you created.
[01:28] How does that relate to our life and our living? Well, let’s say you take a class to become a painter. Let’s say you’re taking a painting class. You take that class assuming and deciding and concluding that by taking that painting class, you’ll become a better painter, and then you’ll sell your paintings to make money.
But let’s say you take that painting class, and you don’t really love it that much. You don’t become a better painter, then what you do is you judge that you didn’t become a better painter. Basically, that didn’t work.
But then, you kill the future you created because maybe the draw [or] pull for that painting class was somebody in the painting class you are going to meet and co-create, I don’t know, a coffee business together or something. In your decision in conclusion that it didn’t work out — you didn’t become a better painter, and now you can’t make money painting — you’ve killed what was actually being created. Right? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
So, that is the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more about how it works but basically, it’s like a magic wand.
[03:04] As I was talking about that, you might have had some of your own experiences come to mind, or places where you’ve killed your creations or your futures. Based on your decision, it wasn’t the way it was supposed to be and all that energy comes up. Then we run the Clearing Statement and it starts to clear it so that you have more space so you can actually start choosing, choosing to create more and more and more.
[03:30] I’ll give you an example from my own life. This was back in 2013. I started my radio show with an online radio host — I’m not sure what you call them — called Voice America. Some of you, I know, have been listening that long and I’m so grateful.
[03:47] So, back in 2013, I got just a random e-mail from this amazing gal Karen. She said, “Hey, [I was] just looking on your site and I think you would do really well with a radio show.”
At the time, I mean, I knew nothing about anything to do with a radio show or talking to a camera for a long time or whatever. I was really, really confused with it all. I was like, “No way. I’m not doing it.”
But anyway, luckily, I was using these magical tools. I was willing to ask a question and I just asked, you know, Truth: What would my life be like in five years if I chose to say yes to the radio show, and if I didn’t choose? ‘If I chose to say yes’ was so much yummier and more, more expansive, and not choosing was *belch*, so I chose it.
[04:36] Now, when I chose it, at the same time, I was actually creating a space, like a business space, in a town called Lloydminster. You might have heard it on some of my previous shows — it was called the “Center of Possibilities.” And so, we were in the creation phase of that, getting some renovations on such done.
[04:56] My conclusion was that if I say yes to this radio show since it was so light and so yummy and so expansive, it must mean that by me choosing it, what would actually occur is my in-person classes at the Center of Possibilities would expand. That was the kind of the A + B = C.
Now, luckily again, I was using these tools and I was clearing points of view and all the things because if I wasn’t, then after three months—so I started with a 3-month contract with Voice America. It was like, within, you know, two and a half months, we were already looking at, “Do we do we extend it or do we end it?”
If I hadn’t been clearing my points of view and such, I would have actually not extended it because it didn’t create what I had decided it should. I didn’t—my in-person classes did not grow at all. But guess what did occur? Within a few months, I was traveling the world with the classes.
[06:08] I could have killed that future by going, “Well, that didn’t work. That was stupid,” and not signing up for the next contract and walked away feeling frustrated and all the things instead of, again, just going to the question of, “Okay, if I choose to extend my contract, [will it] create the future I desire [or] decay the future desire?” I got ‘create’, but I looked at what the hesitation was, and it was THAT. It was like, okay, well, somewhere along the way, I decided that having this radio show was basically the answer to growing my in-person classes.
[06:40] Honestly, I could not have considered that my radio show would have created a global business for me. There’s no way—that was not even in my world as a possibility. But look [at] what was able to be created when I didn’t stop that creation, when I didn’t basically judge it out of existence, when it was like, “Okay, well, this didn’t show up the way that I thought it would. What else is possible?”
[07:09] And so, one of the clearings that I use all the time — ALL THE TIME — is All the DJCCPCERRJs that I have about this, I destroy and uncreate them all.
D – decisions
J – judgments
C – conclusions
Other C – computations
P – projections
R – rejections
E – expectations
S – separations; and
RJs – refined judgments.
Those are just all the words of all that energy when I go, “Oh, if I say yes to this, then this will occur.” Those are all DJCCPSERRJs. Yeah.
Whatever you have going on in your life, whatever it is, if it’s not the way you would like it to be and even if it is — actually, no matter what’s going on:
All of the DJCCPSERRJs I have about this, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.
What that will start doing is unlocking those places so that you’re no longer killing the futures that are possible and the futures that are beyond what you never imagined possible.
[08:28] This, to me, is such a huge piece because prior to me studying the tools from Access Consciousness, I’ve always been a magical creator. But prior to Access, I was creating exactly what I was asking for. I would make vision boards and I would get very specific about all the things and then, I would create it or actualize it. But there was always this ‘thud’ like, “Oh, okay. Yay… I guess?”
[09:02] I mean, it sounds really ungrateful but there wasn’t a really expansive, yummy, delicious energy on it. The things would show up — the experiences, whatever I’ve asked for, it would show up and it’s like, “Huh, okay. This is it?” And then, I would judge myself so harshly because how dare I? I asked, I received, [and] I should be grateful — like all the crazy. And then once I started studying Access, then I started asking and getting out of the DJCCPSERRJs more and more. I started asking beyond what I never imagined possible.
[09:39] Having a global business — if you would have talked to me when I was, you know, signing the papers for my radio show back in July of 2013 and you would have said, “Oh, I bet this will change your business to a global business,” I’d laugh at you. I really would have — that was so beyond what I was willing to even consider.
So, how much is available to us that’s so beyond what we’re even willing to consider that if we didn’t kill those creations with the judgment, what else might be possible? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[10:24] I want to read another piece here in the same section. Gary says: This touches all the places where you thought you had to create something to do something and you start going, “Oh my God, what did I do wrong?”
So again, using my example, I could have looked at that and went, “Oh my god, my in-person classes have not grown. What did I do wrong?”
Then he says: What you did wrong was you decided that you did something wrong, and the future ended at that moment.
Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[11:07] We spend more of our lives ending our futures than creating the possibilities of them. We spend more of our lives ending our futures than creating the possibilities of them. Yeah.
[11:30] I’m so grateful when I look back at that. It’s not like back in 2013, I went, “Oh, I’m killing this future, I must create the possibility” — it’s not that. I can look back now [at] all of these years later and I can kind of see the different pieces and all of that. And now, with all the more awareness that I have, with the more information that I have, I can be really aware of when I’m using the DJCCPSERRJs to kill the future instead of going, “Wow, okay.”
[11:59] A tool from Access when you feel like you’re creating something that isn’t going the way you would like it to is a couple of questions: One, what is right about this I’m not getting? Like what is right about this I’m not getting? Right, wrong, good bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[12:19] What is right about this I’m not getting? Now, we’re not looking for an answer. We don’t need to sit down with a pen and paper and figure out all the things that are right — we just ask that. What it will do is get us out of the wrongness, out of the judgment, out of the harshness, and back into that energy of creation.
[12:38] The other question that you can ask, depending on the situation is Truth: Is this the change have been asking for?
Right? I know. Now, a lot of times we don’t want to ask that question because we don’t want to believe that we chose this, [that] this is based on our choice, this is based on what we were asking for. The level of freedom and space if you’re willing to ask that is magical. Truth: Is this the change I’ve been asking for?
[13:10] Because once again, same like what’s right about this I’m not getting, it gets you out of the judgment. It’s like, “Okay, you know what, this is the change I’ve been asking for. What would it take to have more ease with this? What might be possible with this that I’ve never even considered?” [It’s] just to shift it around, just to start lightening it up so that you’re no longer killing those futures, and you’re creating the possibilities beyond what you never imagined possible. Yeah, yeah.
[13:42] Now, if you’re brand new here, this is the Advanced How to Become Money Workbook. There is actually the basic or the first How to Become Money Workbook. You’ll want to start with this one, my sweet friends.
At the time that you might watch this, depending on when you watch it — if you watch it when it airs [or] when it first comes out or listen to it, then the How to Become Money Workbook, we’re just finishing up the 13 days. I usually do them like this — 13 days, a chapter a day, and then I followed up with the Advanced How to Become Money Workbook. They’re all available in my store for purchase OR you can just get on my e-mail list and get notified of the next time that we’re going to run these because there’s so much awareness every time I go through these workbooks. There’s so much awareness.
[14:33] All of the futures that you have been killing that would create beyond what you never imagined possible, will you destroy and uncreate all of that times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[14:48] If you want to go even farther with these magical tools, I have Online Foundation coming up in February 19-23. You can join us via Zoom — we do 4 hours a day just to keep it super easy for us over 5 days. So, that’s out there.
And then, of course, we’ve got the Pool Party Foundation. This is a Foundation class that I have here at my acreage. We have a big, beautiful pool here. It’s a pool party Foundation. We will have Bars right before. So those dates will be set, maybe even by the time you see this, those will be set. Lots of choices, guys.
[15:25] Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you and I wonder what is possible for each one of us in 2022 and beyond, beyond what we’ve never even imagined.
To more adventures!!!
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.
[00:12] Another show about money, my sweet friends. Yes, I’ve been talking about money a lot, and I will be talking about money a lot more. Truly, 2022, for me really, has this energy of being the richest year so far. Rich, of course, being in so many different ways — money, and cash, and wealth included, and so many different ways.
[00:39] This week’s show: What is your reality with money? Yeah. First off, let’s talk about what the heck that means because a lot of times when we talk about our reality or this reality, it seems a little bit confusing. Like, what the heck does that mean? Don’t we all have the same reality?
[01:29] Recently, I really became aware of this. I’ve been working with a group of people through the book called Living Beyond Distraction which is a book by Gary and Dain from Access Consciousness. It really is all about truly choosing beyond distraction. In it, it talks about how we really want to start acknowledging our differences, and if we don’t, what we end up doing is we use them against ourselves. We’d usually judge ourselves for them [and] we make ourselves wrong for them.
[02:01] What I realized last week when I was working with a person on a project, I was so clear about what was possible, like, so clear. I didn’t even stop for a moment to think that their reality wouldn’t be the same as my reality. Of course, it can be ease, and joy, and glory and of course, it can be done.
[02:28] The person I was working with was somebody who works on my webpage. They were designing some things and making some things happen. I knew exactly what I wanted — I was very clear on that — and they were very clear that it was a no, that it couldn’t be done, that it was impossible.
I’ve had this before with the same person and I didn’t clue in the first time. But this time, based on all the awarenesses and stuff we’ve been doing with that book, I really got [that] my reality is different. Her reality is not wrong, and my reality is not right. In this case, though, it’s my webpage. I know it can occur, and I know it will be done and it will be done. I just know that.
And so, in looking at that and being present with that, instead of judging me, instead of making me wrong or her wrong, I really just got to go, “Wow, I have a different reality here. I have a different world. I know this is possible.” I don’t know how because I don’t know anything about that world whatsoever. I just know it’s possible.
[03:35] And so then, when I was willing to be present with that and look at that and go, “Okay, how can i co-create this magic with this person who’s decided it’s not?” It just took me acknowledging that it’s a different world for me in this case, and that theirs is also different and I don’t need to fight it. I can actually just dance with it in a way that will create what I’m asking for what I know was possible. And sure enough, like that — it was possible.
[04:08] It’s just so amazing to me when we’re willing to not give up our reality — not say, “Oh they’re right” but also not go, “Well, they’re wrong” and fight them because that wouldn’t got me anywhere. It really is the sense of allowance and mixed with tenacity of like, “This is occurring.” It might have meant I needed to hire somebody else to do it —that could have been where it got to. [I’m] totally cool with that. Whatever it takes, I knew it was possible. We want to look at that. We talk about that in terms of like, What’s your reality with with money?
[04:44] What is your reality? You’re probably very aware of what everybody else’s reality around you is. There’s a lot of lack. There’s a lot of not enough. There’s a lot of fight. There’s a lot of push there. We get it, right? We know that one. But what’s yours? When you’re truly being you, what is money for you? How does it show up? It’s a totally different space than that limitation of “There’s not enough” and all that — that’s not your reality. So, what is your reality with money?
[05:19] Now, this is the cool part. You don’t have to figure that out. You can just start asking, “Universe show me.” Universe, show me my reality with money. Universe, show me what’s true for me with money. Universe, show me and you’ll start getting a sense of it. You will start getting a sense of it.
[05:40] I know for me, one of the things when I started really playing with that and really just asking with no expectation — just asking — what started showing up was this space of money [being] easy for me.
This one sounds so funny but it’s just—there’s always way more than what I spend. If I go and spend $100, there’s hundreds and hundreds of dollars that either show up or are already there. I mean, I’m trying to give words to something that isn’t really meant to give words to because [of] our realities, our energies… This is one aspect of mine — that there’s just always more than I can spend and never enough, which is this energy of it consistently flowing. That is mine.
[06:35] Now, do I always play there? No. Sometimes, I like to play in other people’s realities about money and be silly and all the things. But as I was asking that — and I probably started, I don’t know, probably a couple of years ago, where I really started asking about it — it changed so much. Once I got that energy, I’m like, “Oh my gosh.” I could like pinpoint, you know, times in my life where there shouldn’t have been money there. There shouldn’t have been [because] I had went and spent it all and [went], “Poor me, poor me.” [I’d] go to my bank account [and I] was like, “What? Where did this come from? What’s going on?” And now, I just get it.
[07:16] Now, can I always track it back to, you know, a source – you know, [that] it came in from this, or I sold this or this occurred? Not all the time. A lot of times, I can, because the other thing that I’m really, really good at is creating money. I’ve got capacities creating money #asifbymagic, totally. Probably you do, too, my sweet friends. You want to look at those things.
[07:40] For me, money would come in – absolutely. But it goes out really quickly, too. That’s the one that I really had to work at. Work isn’t maybe the right word, but really, CHOOSE towards. For me, how I did that was through putting away 10% of what came in. Whatever money came in each month, 10% would go into a separate bank account, kind of like a savings account. But I don’t really like that word, that’s not a fun word for me so I call it my “honoring of me account.” I would take it and I’d put it away and so, it just started building over time.
[07:40] Now, I also have capacities in spending it. What I had to train myself to do, though, like what I really had to take time and choose was to actually HAVE it. That [money] I’ve never had, until about 2014 when I really started looking at that.
We are usually pretty good at spending money. We’re usually pretty good at wanting money. Most of us are also pretty good at creating money. But the one that very few of us have ever been aware of even as a possibility was having money.
[08:52] We have a whole other radio show, I think it’s called The Secret of the 10% Account. I don’t even recall but it was a number of years ago. We’ll have a link somewhere.
And if you’re not familiar, we have show notes now, guys. You can either get onto my e-mail list and you’ll get them e-mailed to you every Sunday when the new radio show comes out. Or, they are on my webpage with each radio show just underneath — you can go and read them there however you would like to, but we have them there. There’ll be in the show notes. You can find the link to that other radio show, too.
[09:27] It’s something I talk a lot about — again, I talk a lot about money in general, and cash, and wealth — because it’s all about receiving. But really, that — the “having money” — is a huge one for many people that we just weren’t ever taught. And so, we get to teach ourselves. You really want to look at what is your reality with money.
What is YOUR reality with money? Not what is your parents’ [or] what are the people’s around you, but what is YOUR reality? Just [ask]: Universe, show me my reality with money. Universe, show me my reality with money — every day, all day, and then start acknowledging it. Start acknowledging whatever it is for you.
[10:07] You know, for me, the “having way more” is always there than what I spend. The other thing when I say that, guys, [is] I’m not a huge spender. I’m not sure that’s totally true — I spend my money on things that I get will create greater and feel really yummy to me. I don’t mean I go and spend, you know, hundreds [and] thousands of dollars a day — I just want to be clear on that. I’ve just got it like, you know, pouring in, because I’m just spending like crazy. I’m very aware of what I’m spending my money on and what it’s going to create, and that’s also been my reality.
[10:47] Now, I didn’t live there. Believe me — I did not live there. I spent all sorts of money all the time and ended up with lots and lots of credit cards, past expenditures, and debt, and all the insanity until I was willing to change that. But that really is something that I’m very aware of — I don’t just spend to spend money, because I’m happy to have money now. That is what I would say would be the difference when I wasn’t comfortable having it. I was spending it on anything and everything and all the things just to get rid of it. Now, I actually love, love, love having money, and cash, and wealth. Yes, that’s been one of the things.
[11:27] Oh, not [as much as traveling!]. For many years, I traveled to different countries all the time and facilitated different classes. I ended up with a lot of cash because people would come and they’d pay for the class in cash. I ended up with it in a lot of different currencies. It was super fun. Now, with the travel stuff for the past couple of years almost, I have not been traveling and there’s not been a lot of in-person stuff so the cash is very different.
I wonder what it would be like for it to start showing up just around the house as if by magic? Hmm… I wonder what that would be like?
Whatever you do, don’t wonder that for yourself, though. Don’t do it — only I can do it. [laughter]
Let’s ask the question in Access Consciousness:
What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can us and our bodies be to have money, and wealth, and cash show up as if by magic continuously? Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[12:35] Awesome! I would love to invite you — I’ve got so many money things coming up, guys Of course, we’ve got the Ultimate Manifest Your Money Goal Toolkit that’s available. We have the How To Become Money Workbook [for] 13 days, and then the Advanced How to Become Money Workbook [for] 9 days. That’s starting [on] January 1st and then after, starting the 14th will be the Advanced. And then of course, the Creating 2022 to Be your Richest Year So Far.
[13:06] So many awesome things, so come and play, guys! I would love, love, love to see you online or maybe in person. I mean, what the heck with that day! Have a great week, sweet friends and I look forward to chatting again next week.
What could you be choosing?