Tools to Be Willing to Be SEEN

Sep 25, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Be Willing to Be SEEN

Let you AWEsomeness shine.

If you’re someone who is hiding – hiding your gifts, your capacities, your business, or whatever it is, this episode is for you. Now is the time we change that with these tools from Access Consciousness® and unleash our magic to the world!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you.

Weird Tools to Be Willing to Be Seen. This is for all my friends out there who are hiding, whether you’re hiding-just hiding or maybe you’re hiding your gifts, your capacities, your magic, maybe you’re hiding your business? This show is for you if you are ready to change that.

[00:00:34] Now, I also have a brand new gift for you, my sweet friends. It is called the Ultimate Confidence in Business Guidebook, where I share five weird tools to show up confidently in your business so you can create profit with ease.

Yes, it is a guidebook. It’s ready for download. You’ll find a link above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out and I will get it for you. If it’s time for you to show up with confidence in your business to create a profit, that’s the guidebook for you.

[00:01:08] So, on to the show – weird tools. You know—if you’ve been here for a while, you know I share the weirdest of the weird tools. The really cool thing is, though, they work. They truly work.

[00:01:24] What you want to look at if you are hiding, if you aren’t willing to be seen is that in order to live the life you truly desire, in order to be the magic, in order to live the magic, the miraculousness that you truly be, you actually have to be willing to be seen. You have to be willing to be vilified. You have to be willing to be lusted after and all the other energies that most of the time we are refusing to receive.

[00:01:58] Here’s why: because any of those things I just listed or any of the energies you’re not willing to receive, that’s where you stop. That’s where you put up that barrier and say “no.”

Here’s the thing with barriers, guys. You cannot have barriers up to the bad and receive the good. One. There’s no such thing as good and bad – that takes judgment. But also, a barrier is a wall, meaning nothing’s getting out and nothing’s getting in—the good, the bad or the ugly.

What if instead, we change our points of views about it? What if instead, we start acknowledging that there is nothing good or bad or ugly—there’s just is? There just is.

[00:02:46] Tool number one – weird tool number one is to please start using Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[00:02:55] Of course, these tools are from Access Consciousness®. I should have said that earlier. This is one that I talk about more than any other tool. Any other tool, and I’ve been talking about these tools for 11 years! I’ve been talking about these tools. This is one that I talk about all the time and I personally use more than probably any other tool. It’s Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[00:03:14] If you have the point of view that if you post that post on social media, people might get mad at you, or be jealous of you, or hate you, or say something unkind on it. What you want to do is get that energy. Look at, okay, making that post, get present with it, get all that stuff that comes up with it…

Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

They’re gonna hate it. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

They’re gonna judge me. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

So and so won’t like it. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

..over and over and over until you don’t have a point of view. Until it’s just a choice.

[00:04:01] I’m not saying that you should do everything you’ve ever thought of doing like screw it all and just go post every post and do all the things. That’s not what I’m saying. What you want to recognize is that once you have no point of view, you’ll actually be the infinite awareness you truly be.

[00:04:17] You might know that right now’s not the time to make that post. You’d actually have that awareness, but it wouldn’t be from “I won’t make that post because so and so will be mad at me.” You’re no longer going to be controlled by other people. Imagine that! Imagine allowing people to have their points of views and it not affect you.

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. It’s like a magic wand, though. As I’m talking and all this stuff is coming up for you—thoughts, energies, and all the things—when I run that, it starts to clear it and clear it and clear it, so that you actually, ultimately have way more choice.

[00:05:06] The more that you can use that tool, the more ease and joy and glory your life will truly be. The more you’ll also be willing to be you. You’ll be willing to be seen. You’ll be willing to share what’s going on, or to put out there, or to not try to hide the more that you be the interesting point of view you truly be.

[00:05:28] Weird tool number two is all about Who are you being? If you look at that…

[00:05:35] Bring to mind something where you did the hiding, or the hesitation, or the “oh, what if so and so…” like, just one situation with that and just, okay.

Who are you being? Who is that? Is that actually you?

Right? It’s not, my sweet friends. There’s a tool that we talk about actually in the Bars class, the very first class in Access Consciousness®, where you start asking Who does this belong to? Like, who does this belong to?

[00:06:09] Next time you go into that energy of “Oh, what will they say?” or “What if they don’t like it?” or “What if…”

Who am I being here? or Who does this belong to?

They’re the same sort of question. Either one, start asking, guys. Who am I being here?

[00:06:24] You might have seen your mom, your dad, your siblings, caregivers, your grandparents, teachers, or whoever, it doesn’t matter. You might have seen them choose that. What we do is we go, “Wow, that’s the way to be here.”

[00:06:39] Okay, maybe you don’t do it like that but I remember that. Not so much cognitively like that, but I do remember looking around me going, “I actually don’t know how to be here, so how do I be here?” and I looked at the people around me and said, “Oh, that’s how I be here. That’s how I be here.”

[00:06:58] A lot of times, though, we’re looking at people and we’re being the people that maybe didn’t really choose what would’ve created greater. So, look at those places and spaces where you’re hiding and start asking Who am I being here, and if I wasn’t being them, what would I choose? What would I like to choose here?

[00:07:19] Another tool, kind of going along with it that we use in Access, is every morning when you wake up, ask Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures can I have?

[00:07:30] What that does is it allows you to look at, “Well, who am I today? Am I the person who hides? Am I the person who doesn’t put my business out there? Am I the person who doesn’t share with people about my classes, events, sessions, products, or whatever it might be? Am I that person?

Or am I the person who knows the value of me? Am I the person who knows the people who aren’t choosing the classes, sessions, products, or all of it, they’re the ones losing out? Am I that person?” or a billion other energies in between. But really, start to look at who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures can I have.

[00:08:14] That’s our normal state guys. Adventures is our normal state. You can have an adventure in your house. You don’t have to even leave your house. Right? Yeah.

[00:08:23] I would love to invite you to an upcoming Business Done Different that I have coming in London, England or online. You can join us either way. I would love to hug you in person or of course, via Zoom. It is [on] October 28th, 29th, and 30th of 2022. If you are watching this later on, I will have more on the go so you can check out the link above or below with the future dates, too.

[00:08:50] Weird tool number three is turn the one molecule.

Now, this is a little bit weird, weird, weird for people and yet, if you would just try it, like inspire yourself to choose it a couple times a day for like a week or so, and then you know what? You’ll be addicted. You’ll use it all the time.

It’s so simple to do. It’s just a little bit of a, like, you might want to call it a visualization, an energetic, or perceiving energy. It doesn’t matter but it’s an energy where you just get to play.

[00:09:21] I want you to think of a situation that you would have coming up in the future. Somewhere where you would maybe normally hide – you would normally stop yourself, normally not choose what you would like to choose. I want you just to bring that to mind, okay? I know when you bring stuff like that to mind, there’s a heaviness. I get it. I totally, totally get it and choose it anyway. Okay. So, there we go. Okay.

[00:09:49] Now you’ve got that kind of the energy of the event or the situation, okay, cool. What I’d like you to do is just energetically go above your body. I want you to go above your body, say a hundred kilometers or a hundred miles, and energetically turn around and look at that situation, that energy, that situation you were kind of bringing to mind. Okay?

[00:10:15] Now, what you’re going to do is you’re going to turn the one molecule that when you turn it, changes everything. Don’t worry, it’s not a figuring-it-out. It’s just an energy thing.

[00:10:26] So, you’re up above you, you’re looking down, you’re looking at the situation and you’re just going to go ahead and you’re going to turn the one molecule that when you turn it, changes everything.

[00:10:33] I’m using my hand ’cause that’s what I do just for fun. You do not need to do that at all. You don’t need to use your hands at all because you’re just doing it energetically. You basically just continuously turn the molecule like around and around, over, above, and bind, until it *whooosh.* Yeah.

[00:10:53] And then, check back in. There may be another one to turn. There may not be anymore. If there is, just go ahead and turn it…. Yeah, there you go. If there’s another one, go ahead and turn it… Yeah. Okay.

[00:11:08] Now, you’re going to go back. You’re going to come back down into your body. If you’re sitting, I want you to feel your feet on the floor, your bum on your whatever you’re sitting on… I’m going to put my hands together. I’m going to feel my hands together. You could feel them on your legs, whatever works for you. Basically, you want to feel three points in your body… yeah. What I want you to do is get back to that thing that you were doing—you were turning the molecule on.

[00:11:37] If there is any hesitation, any heaviness, anything left that isn’t what you would like it to be, what I would want you to do is take that heaviness, put it into like a metal tube. Put ends on the metal tube and then just shake the shit out of it, my friends.

You’re just shaking it so all that solidity is like breaking apart. Just shaking, shaking, shaking, shaking, shaking, allowing it to break apart and then I’m shaking it so much that the whole tube goes away, too. There you go. Yeah. Cool. Now, check back in with that thing. Right?

[00:12:11] Now. If, for chance, that didn’t change it or there’s still some, go back and redo it. There isn’t like, “Oh, you only need to do it three times” or “There’s only two molecules.” There’s nothing like that. It might also be that doing it not right now again, but maybe in 10 minutes or tomorrow would create greater. Just play around with it.

[00:12:31] But really, guys, it is such an incredible magic trick that you can use every day, all day on everything. ‘Cause what happens is when we have something in our life that isn’t going the way we would like it to, that solidity—that’s the energy, like, energetically, there’s a solidity there—turning the one molecule allows that solidity to start changing.

[00:12:55] And then, I’ve added the shaking it. I find sometimes that helps. Sometimes, it’s not necessary at all and sometimes, with that last little bit of heaviness or solidity, it just changes it.

[00:13:05] Just a reminder, go and download my new gift for you. The Ultimate Confidence in Business Guidebook. I’m so grateful to get it out there. All of these weird tools that will allow you to show up with confidence and create a profit in the business. How’s it get any better than that?

Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Owning Our Greatest Capacity

Sep 18, 2022 | Radio Show

Owning Our Greatest Capacity

I wonder what’s possible for us if we start owning our capacities…

Now is the time we all own, claim, and acknowledge our greatest capacities, sweet friends! Join me for another episode where we share and discuss the phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness® to open us up to more possibilities and get us on our way to being the magic we truly BE.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Owning Your Greatest Capacity. Yeah. The tools, of course, I’m going to share throughout this radio show are from Access Consciousness®.

[00:00:22] Something that we talk about a lot in Access Consciousness® is about acknowledging your capacities, acknowledging your strengths, acknowledging you.

The terminology can show up in different ways in clearings and stuff, and it’s “own, claim, and acknowledge” your capacities. You don’t have to use all those words, of course, but you might have heard it. If you’re familiar, you might have heard it in different clearings like that, where you want to own, and claim, and acknowledge your capacities.

[00:01:00] This morning as I was going through the reference materials, which is something I love to do—the reference materials are pretty much everything that’s ever been in a manual in Access Consciousness® that moves into the reference materials once it’s taken out of that manual. It’s stuff from, gosh, 25 more years ago in some cases, and some is from last week. It’s just everything in between. It’s just so magical.

[00:01:28] I was looking up capacities – something that’s been kind of popping around in my head for a while, and this is what I read. [It] was that our greatest capacity is change.

Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:01:53] That’s the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works.

[00:01:59] Now, this is something that I never really looked at before in terms of naming a capacity. I actually want to read to you from the reference materials. Gary says, (Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness®):

“A capacity is something you can access, but cannot define. Capacities are anything that you can do or be that will change anyone or anything. Anytime you’re looking for something that is a talent or ability, ask instead:

‘What capacity do I have here?’

‘What capacity do I have that will change this?’

‘What capacity do I have that will alter what’s going to show up here?’

These are primarily energies. If you ask for a capacity, you’ll get an energy, which is not definable.”

[00:02:55] To me, those questions really invite us into the change that is actually possible for us. If you’ve been around here for a while, chances are if you’re listening to this radio show, even if it’s your first time, you choose to change. You choose change on a regular basis, and that’s something that we really want to start owning and claiming and acknowledging.

[00:03:20] Otherwise, what we do is we look at what we haven’t changed and that’s where our focus is. Instead of going, “Wow, look at everything I’ve changed,” we go, “Ugh, I haven’t changed that thing yet” until we change that thing And we still don’t acknowledge it, then it’s going to be another thing, and another thing, and another thing, and what we start doing is we start using these capacities against us.

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:03:51] Again, capacities—I mean, you might hear people say, “I’ve got a capacity with money” or “I’ve got a capacity with bodies” or stuff like that. That’s awesome, too. But for the most part, as Gary says, they’re undefinable. So, it’s our capacities to change. That’s about as much as we can define, so people can have it to, you know, change money things, or to change body things, or a bazillion things. But really looking at it from acknowledging, claiming, and owning your greatest capacity, which is to change.

[00:04:24] You might have had, say, you had an upset in your family and you changed it. Now, of course, with stuff like that, you can only change yourself. I mean, you can attempt to change other people, but for the most part, it’s really about changing your stuff with it.

[00:04:40] The other night—actually, there’s two examples that I want to give and they’re so similar. One was about a week and a half ago. I was doing this thing that I would almost say I wasn’t aware that I was doing. Now, obviously on some level, I was, but it was this judgment of me of not choosing to move my body.

[00:05:08] For a long time, I’ve been moving my body a lot. Prior to that, not really at all. I mean, moving – I mean exercise. We just don’t call it exercise and Access. It’s really about moving often. If we say exercise, it’s kind of got [an] ick to it, so “moving” my body. But of course I move my body every day. I move my body when I do videos, all the things. But really, like, choosing to either go to the gym or go for my runs or all the things and I really hadn’t been choosing them.

[00:05:38] I caught myself, and I’m pretty sure I’d been going on for a while. I caught myself in this really icky judgment about it. When I say “caught myself,” it was like in the background, in my head going on. If I wasn’t being present, it was just going, going, going. I guess at one point I chose to be present with it and just went, “What the hell?”

[00:06:04] One of the ways that I have been choosing change lately is through the 10 Keys to Total Freedom, which is a book by Gary and Dain, founders of Access Consciousness®. We are on chapter four right now.

[00:06:19] I’ve got three tools that I use pretty much continuously for things. The first one is, “Hey, would an infinite being choose this?” Of course, an infinite being would not judge themselves for not choosing to exercise or move their body. So then the next question is “What’s the purpose?” Like, what am I getting out of it?

[00:06:38] When I asked that, what I got was this really basic response, I’m going to say, of, “Oh, I want to fit in. Oh, I want to be like everybody else,” and sometimes, those are actually awareness. Sometimes, those are actually the thing. However, in this case, I knew when I said it, it was like, “That’s not it.” It’s a “cool” answer. It’s the most common answer, but it wasn’t an awareness.

[00:07:06] I just spent some time with it. I just got present with it and really got curious, not from I’m wrong, not from I’m bad, really just like curious, like, okay. That voice going on in the back of my head, me judging me continuously – what’s the value? What am I getting out of that?

[00:07:28] What I recognized, and it took probably 5+ minutes of just being present with it, is that I had this really bizarre point of view that shame creates. That if I shame myself enough, I’ll choose something different. Ewww! Can I say [it] again? Ewww!

[00:07:54] Yeah. That was really this level of vulnerability that I… whew. Yeah. I’m so grateful. Looking at that and then—okay, so I’ll finish my story. So I did that. So those are the first two questions. Once I got the purpose, then the next key is “Everything is an Interesting Point of View.”

I just chose to be interesting point of view about that. You know, shame creates – interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

If I shame myself enough, I’ll choose something different. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… over and over and over with all the pieces that were there.

[00:08:35] And then, key number three is about Living in 10-second Increments. And so then the question is, “Hey, if I had 10 seconds to live the rest of my life right now, what would I choose?”

[00:08:46] Well, it wouldn’t be shaming me, let me tell you that! It just stopped it. It just stopped it. I’m actually going to rephrase that. I chose to stop it. Once I cleared that really interesting point of view, I chose to stop it.

The really cool thing is two days later, three days—I’m not sure. A few days later, I just picked up my running shoes and went out. It’s like, what? This is that ease? Of course, it’s been 11 years I’ve been using these tools. I know it’s that ease and it still surprises me.

[00:09:26] Fast forward to just the other day, I was doing a very similar energy about some money stuff. Once again, it’d probably been going on for a long time but that moment, I chose to be present with it.

Same thing – okay, would an infinite being choose to judge themself about money? Nope. What’s the purpose? Same thing. “Oh, I get to fit in. I’m like other people.” It’s like, no, that’s not the energy. Present with it, present with it, present with it… Oh my gosh. It was the same energy. It was that shame piece again.

[00:10:00] A couple things with this: one, you can have a point of view that is in every area of your life that you may require to clear in different ways. It’s not like once I cleared that point of view a couple weeks ago about moving my body with it, that it cleared everything obviously, ’cause it came up with this other piece. Again, that energy of, like, “Wow I have this point of view that if I shame myself enough about money, I’ll choose something different” or whatever it is, but that energy.

[00:10:34] So, you know, I followed the same steps and then really looking at it when I was reading this stuff about capacities and our greatest capacity to change and really going to, “Wow, I did not acknowledge the change that I chose with that experience with moving my body.”

I mean, I got it and it did change it, obviously, ’cause I’ve been moving my body ever since or exercising or, you know, allowing my body to show me what she would like with movement, but I didn’t truly acknowledge the capacity to change, you know?

[00:11:09] If you were to talk to somebody who didn’t know any of this sort of stuff, and you said to them—maybe they said to you, “I would really like to start exercising. I’ve been thinking about it for a year, or a month, or six years, or 60 years and I’m not doing it so I’ll probably never be able to do it,” and you were to say to them, “Hey, in about 10 to 11 minutes, we could change that.” What do you think the response would be? Crazy! We have to acknowledgize the change we choose.

[00:11:45] This is really a few—oh gosh, weeks, months, maybe? I know I was sitting by the pool when I did the radio show. It was summertime, 2022. It’s about acknowledging you. It’s really the clearing that I use every night to acknowledgize me. I don’t even recall it off the top of my head right now. I have my little Reminder app. It pops up. It’s amazing.

[00:12:07] With that that, even with that, even though I acknowledgize myself every night, I really didn’t, didn’t catch that one. Not that it’s right or wrong, but I wonder how much more magic we could be if we really started to acknowledgize the change that we choose.

[00:12:27] I don’t mean the change like, oh, I did this one thing a week ago or two weeks ago. It’s like, how about how many things you change every day? Like, holy. That might be actually, as I’m saying that, what I’m going add to that clearing on my Reminder app is like really to look at what did I change.

[00:12:44] Yeah. That feels yummy for me. Follow what works for you, but that feels really yummy for me ’cause acknowledging what we change, owning what we change, claiming what we change will ensure that it changes and stays changed and allows us to basically start new every day, rather than going backwards in a sense.

[00:13:09] I just wanted to invite you, and I brought my computer because I don’t recall all of it. I am coming to England in October. You don’t have to be in England to join me for all of this awesomeness.

We are going to be in Newcastle upon Tyne for an intro class called How to Unhide Your Magic – Ways to Manifest. In Liverpool, How to Increase Your Abundance #asifbymagic.

In Margate, we have two classes: one, Who Are You Not to Be Magical?; and the other one is The Magic of Creating Your Business Like No One is Watching.

And then, we have a few in London: one is How to Add Magic to Be a Happy Empath, then How to Create Magic with the Elementals. And then, we are going to finish up with Business Done Different which is a three-day class.

All those other classes that I listed are going to be probably two hours-ish. Again, join us in those locations. Join us online. There’s a special gift if you join us for all of the intro classes, So check it out. We’ll have a link above or below. It is called Glenyce’s #asifbymagic Tour of England. I am so excited. I would love to have you come and play.

[00:14:38] We’re also doing a free call for anybody who is interested called Do You Still Believe in Magic? Yeah. You’ll find the link above or below somewhere. If you can’t find it, reach out and I will get it to you so you can join us for that. Totally free for you, really to inspire us all back, forward. Forward is the correct term. Forward to the magic that we be and have always been.

[00:15:07] I wanted to run a clearing that I found in the reference materials that to me, just so speaks to what we’ve been talking about.

What out of control are you refusing that you truly could be choosing that if you would choose it, would change all realities and non-realities and manifest in totality as your capacity to change?

Everything that is, will you destory and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

One more time:

What out of control are you refusing that you could truly be choosing that if you would choose it, would change all realities and non-realities and manifest in totality as your capacity to change?

[00:15:56] We do require to be acknowledging how much we change and what we change and all of it. There’s so much more possible, guys. There is so much more possible. If we were willing to be the magic of us, we could change everything at any time with every breath we take. Yes.

[00:16:20] Now, a couple other questions. Early on at the beginning when I read from the reference materials, there were some questions in there. A couple that I wanted to add that you could add to your section of questions that you ask is: What capacity do I have that I’m not yet engaging? and How can I use my capacities to my advantage? Those will be great to add.

[00:16:50] It’s really where you want to look at… I don’t know. For me personally, you’ve heard me talk about it a million times possibly. I use my Reminder app and I use it all the time. I probably have, at this point 60, 70 reminders that pop up every day of questions to ask.

[00:17:07] Use what works for you. Maybe it’s something on your iPad. Maybe it’s a sticky note, whatever it is. People say to me all the time it’s so easy to forget. No. You’re just not choosing to remember. You’re not choosing to choose it and what’s required.

[00:17:24] For me, the Reminder app is what really got me to actually start choosing it every day. I looked at what do I require. Sticky notes aren’t really as good for me ’cause I’m not always in the same place every day. My Reminder app on my phone works great. I have an iPhone. I’m not sure if it’s on other phones and it came with my iPhone. It’s a free app. It’s not something I bought or downloaded separately.

[00:17:49] Yeah. All right. One more ’cause I just think this is delicious.

What capacity are you refusing that you truly could be choosing that if you would choose it, would change all realities and non-realities and manifest as everything in your life working amazingly and more life than you’ve ever had before?

Everything that is… Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:18:16] If you look at the areas of your life that aren’t the way you would like them to be, what are you required to change? That’s all it is. What do you require to change with that? That’s all it is.

[00:18:30] Now, I make that sound super simple. It can be. If you’re willing to be the capacity of change that you truly be, all of those areas of your life that aren’t the way you would like them to be… changed as if by magic, my sweet friends.

[00:18:44] I wonder what is possible for us and our capacities now. I wonder what it would be like for us to own and claim and acknowledge our greatest capacity of change with every breath we take.

Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:19:11] Once again, guys, I invite you to come and change with me as I travel around England, either in person or online or a mix of both. Maybe you can be in some of the areas, not all the areas. Maybe you can’t be in any of the areas ’cause you’re not anywhere near. Whatever it takes. I would love to see you hug you in person or hug you energetically.

[00:19:34] Have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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What Could You Claim, Own and Acknowledge about You

Sep 18, 2022 | TV Show

What would it be like if we all chose to be the magic we truly be?

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Tools to Start Valuing You

Sep 11, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Start Valuing You

Celebrate the magic you BE.

When was the last time you acknowledgized you? If that is something you’ve been struggling with, here’s another episode with more magical tools from Access Consciousness® to help you change that. We are all valuable, and we all contribute magic to the planet in our own different ways. Now is the time we celebrate that!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. If you’re watching this by video, hi! If you’re listening to this on a podcast, hi! It’s great to have you here.

[00:00:20] For anybody who doesn’t know, this is the radio show that has been running since 2013. In the last few years, we’ve added, of course, the video to it so you really can access it so many different ways.

[00:00:32] It’s on YouTube, of course. It’s on podcast under “Tools to Create a Better Life.” You want to search it on your favorite podcast app [ Apple | Spotify ] . You can find it in various groups and on my personal Facebook page. There’s probably other places, too, that I’m forgetting but just so you know, it’s [in] all the places.

[00:00:49] The most important place is actually my webpage – www.glenycehughes.com. There’s a thing that says “Radio Show” and it has all of the show notes. We’ve been doing this now for a few months, maybe longer? I don’t recall. By “we,” I mean my magical magician, Ericka, who plays in the business with me and just contributes so much. Big shout out to you, Miss Ericka. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[00:01:12] So, the tools to start valuing you. I sent out an email and I’m not sure I’ve ever had so much response to an email ever before. In the email, I actually acknowledged me. I actually talked about how I have value for me now.

[00:01:38] As many of you know, if you’ve been hanging around a while, I turned 50 in August so this has been a long time that I’ve not been valuing me. With that said, I have been choosing to value me more, and more, and more and more.

[00:01:58] In this video or in this email that I sent out, what I shared was that a couple months ago, there was a new acquaintance—a person that we were going to have dinner, and then she canceled the dinner. My first thought was, “Wow, she is really missing out.” I mean, wow for me to have that. I don’t mean I forced it like, “Oh, I should think this way. I need to.” No. It was just my, “Wow, she’s really missing out.”

[00:02:29] Now, I don’t mean I’m not missing out by not meeting her either. I don’t mean it was only a one way street. It was just like the acknowledgement of me in that moment and what I can be with people. What I BE with people, not can be. What I BE with people.

[00:02:47] I am so aware now how much hanging out with me in any way, shape, or form—whether you come to a class, or you hang out with me in the pool, or you meet me on an airplane or whatever, private coaching, any of it—I am so aware of the value that I bring. This is huge. This is huge, huge, huge, huge, huge.

[00:03:12] That was what the email was all about. I had so many people reply just going, “Oh my gosh!” I mean, one, this is really cool and amazing, and some were like, “Oh, wow! I’m gonna keep using the tools to get there!” and some was like, “Wow. Can you share more?”

[00:03:26] I was like, “Hey, you know what? I actually can!” I can do it on a radio show because I wonder how many people would really like to start valuing themselves.

[00:03:36] With that said, let’s talk about that for a moment. When we value ourselves, it does not mean that we devalue anybody else. It’s not like, “Okay, well, now that I’m valuing me, everybody else is crazy, wrong, bad, or not valuable.” That’s not it at all.

[00:03:53] If you don’t have you as your most valuable product, if you don’t have you as valuable in your world, then what you end up doing is putting your value into everyone else. You put everybody else on pedestals. You see everybody else as the source. You look outside of you for answers and direction and all the things rather than valuing you to know that you are valuable.

[00:04:22] You have value. You are valuable and you are valuable on the planet. If you don’t acknowledge that, then chances are you will distract yourself with basically the opposite of that – “I’m not valuable,” “I’m not worthy,” “I shouldn’t be here” blah, blah, blah… all the things. Yeah.

[00:04:44] Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

That is the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness®. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works but basically, what it does is it changes the energy.

[00:05:01] As I was talking about that, there was a lot of *ugh* energy on it. By running it, it starts to clear it. It doesn’t mean you only ever need to run it once. Sometimes, we need to do it multiple times just to recognize that it is such a phenomenal tool to change things.

[00:05:18] It was actually, gosh, probably seven years ago. I was in a class with Gary Douglas, the founder of Access Consciousness®. I’d went up to the microphone and I’ve asked questions over the years and of Gary in classes.

[00:05:35] He referred to me as Gle-nyce. Now, this is something a lot of people, if they read my name, that’s usually how they pronounce it. I’d never corrected him before. I don’t even recall if I corrected him or if somebody else said it, I don’t recall what happened.

[00:05:52] He just said to me… actually, I think I did. I think he said Gle-nyce, and I said it’s actually Glenyce. He stopped and he looked at me because, you know, I’d been asking him some questions for years. He stopped and he looked at me and he was like, “Why do you not value yourself enough to let me know what your name is?” Something like that.

[00:06:15] It took me aback because I never saw not correcting as not valuing me. I actually saw it as more… I would say, honoring? Or lazy, maybe? And depending on the person. To this day, I don’t always correct people. It really depends how much interaction we’re going to have.

[00:06:38] When I go to change in dress rooms like in clothes stores, I will actually, if they ask me my name because often they’ll write it on the door, I’ll tell them Kim. It’s just for ease for me but I could see what Gary was saying—not until he said it—how much I wasn’t valuing me. Somebody who I talked to, not often but often enough, and I never corrected him until that day.

[00:07:03] I really, really, really went into that. Not from a judgment of me place, but really looking at that from the curiosity of like, “Wow… wow. I have not valued me and my name.”

[00:07:15] My name to me is—I mean, I joke about it a lot and I love my name. I actually really love my name. I love that I’m almost one of the only Glenyces on the planet. I have heard that there is another one somewhere. There’s certainly some people with the same spelling, but it is actually pronounced Gle-nyce for them and so I love it and yet, I didn’t value me to tell him the correct pronunciation of my name.

[00:07:43] That really, I would say, was probably the start of it for myself to really start getting present with the places and the ways that I wasn’t valuing me. My favorite question, if you’ve been around here for a while, you’ve heard me ask this question a lot. I use it all the time. What I started asking was: What’s the value of not valuing me? I started just asking that of myself. What is the value of not valuing me? What am I getting out of it?

[00:08:13] I know that with that question, a lot of times it brings up this defense of, “I do value me!” and people will say, “Well, there is no value” and stuff like that, and I get it. But what you wanna do is get really vulnerable with yourself with that question if this is something you would like to choose more. If you’d like to value you more, what is the value of not valuing you? What’s it doing for you? Yeah. Yeah.

[00:08:40] It can be so many things. It could be what you saw your parents do to themselves, or what your parents did to you, or what other people and all of that. There’s all sorts of things that can come up. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what the value is. You just want to acknowledge it, and then if you like the Clearing Statement, I use the Clearing Statement to change it.

Everything that is, I destroyed and uincreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:09:08] That’s like tool number one. Start getting present with yourself and asking that question not from judgment, but just from the curiosity of like, “What is this? What is the value of not valuing me?”

[00:09:24] Now, if valuing you is something that you would like to be choosing more of, I invite you to any, of course, of the classes or sessions that I have. We have another Online/In Person Foundation coming up September 15th, 16th, 17th, and 18th.

[00:09:41] We also have Business Done Different coming up at the end of October, either in London, England, or online. I have many classes coming up around England. Yes, Hubby and I are going to travel around and do some classes and some site seeing. Of course, so many other classes.

[00:09:58] I have another Bars class coming up September 14th here at the acreage. There’s so many choices and possibilities.

I also offer 3-week coaching, I offer 3-month coaching, I offer 6-month coaching. There’s so many ways to play and I would love to play with you. Any questions about any of those, reach out and I will get back to you as soon as I can.

[00:10:21] Now, tool number two is a little bit similar and not, but it’s asking the question of If I did value me here, what would I choose? What that does is it starts to get you into the space of what you might choose if you valued you.

[00:10:39] Let’s say you were going out for your birthday dinner with friends and they said to you, “Hey, where do you wanna go? It’s your birthday. You get to choose.” You would maybe go straight to, “Oh no, it doesn’t matter. I’m happy to go wherever. I like anything.” Maybe that’s what you would normally do.

[00:10:56] Maybe take a moment. If I valued me here, what would I choose? If I valued me here, what would I choose? Start asking yourself. Looking at those situations or places doesn’t mean you have to even choose it. But if I was valuing me here, what would I choose?

[00:11:17] I used the birthday dinner as an example because that actually came up for me recently when Hubby and I finally had an evening to ourself where we could go for dinner. It’s my birthday dinner, so where did I want to go? I kept thinking of all the places he would like to go.

[00:11:35] It was so bizarre mostly because I didn’t really realize that I did that and maybe it just happened to be. I’m not really sure, but I was so aware of the places he likes to eat. And then, I started asking myself, “Okay. If I valued myself here, what would I choose?”

[00:11:55] And then, I started looking around. I actually asked in a Facebook group because there’s so many places that we go to often and I wanted somewhere new, and just found this most amazing roast beef buffet. Beautiful. Oh my gosh. All handmade, homemade. I mean, obviously not the roast beef, but you know what I mean.

[00:12:13] It was just so delicious that if I wouldn’t have been asking that question, I probably would’ve went somewhere. It still would’ve been great because I also like the places that Hubby likes to go, but just the different energy. It’s like, if I was really valuing me here, what would I choose?

[00:12:29] If you start asking that question but not from the place of, “I have to choose it,” just ask it from the place of, “IF I was… IF I did…” [It] doesn’t mean you have to, and maybe you will, and maybe you won’t, but at least you’ll start being present with you. You’ll start being vulnerable with you.

[00:12:48] Notice both of these tools have to do with vulnerability and a level of presence. That’s because that’s what this is. To value you, you have to be willing to be vulnerable with you. You have to be willing to be present with you.

[00:13:05] Now, I wanted to read something. This is from the reference materials from Access Consciousness®. In it, Gary says:

“If you think it’s inconceivable that you would be of value, then you will never value you.”

If you think it’s inconceivable for you to be of value…

Anywhere that you’ve decided it’s inconceivable for you to be of value, will you destroy and uncreate all that? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:13:40] And then, the question that follows that is:

“What is the value you have to offer that you’re not allowing to show up?

[00:13:50] What is the value that you have to offer that you’re not allowing to show up? Value doesn’t mean something in the business. It could, of course, but it doesn’t have to. It could mean lots of different things. What if we don’t try to define it? What if you just ask that of yourself every day? What is the value that I have to offer that I’m not allowing to show up?

Everywhere you’re not allowing it to show up, will you to destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:14:22] I have another tool, but I wanna talk about this book for a moment. This is something called a “Rocketbook Fusion.” I’m not sure how well you can see it, but these pages are actually erasable. Once I’m done with my notes and stuff—this was for the recent Foundation class that I facilitated. I just take a damp cloth that comes with it and I just wipe down the pages and it’s gone.

[00:14:51] I have used so much paper. I like to take physical notes—I like to hand write things when I’m in sessions or classes and all that sort of stuff, but it’s not something I would ever keep. So, I end up throwing out a lot of paper. Well, recycling, of course. But this book, I love so much. There will be a link for you if you want to check it out. I just think it’s magical.

[00:15:15] The other thing, and I have yet to do it with this book, but you can take… and I don’t know if you can see it. There’s a little QR code there. You could put something up here – you could write out your day or whatever it is and scan that, and it’ll actually put it wherever you want.

[00:15:35] I’ve got mine connected to my Google Docs. Again, I haven’t used it yet because this is mostly just handwritten stuff that I don’t need to keep, but I could. I love it so much. Anyway, I could go on and on, but I wanted to share this because I have it sitting beside me, and I just think it’s brilliant.

[00:15:51] The last tool that I’ll talk about—I mean, there’s so many tools with valuing you. The last tool is a tool that I use a lot in all sorts of different ways. This is one of them, and this is one that I was using back when I really started looking at valuing me with that experience with Gary.

[00:16:12] What I did was I would just sit energetically, like, just sit quietly, close my eyes, and energetically, I brought up the energy of not correcting him with my name. I brought that energy up. And then, what I would do was I would run the Crazy Phrase.

[00:16:31] The Crazy Phrase sounds crazy, hence the name. It’s Everything is the opposite of what it appears to be, and nothing is the opposite of what it appears to be. Everything is the opposite of what it appears to be, and nothing is the opposite of what it appears to be. You just say it over and over and over like that.

[00:16:48] What you want to bring up is that energy first. Right now, just take a moment. Bring up a situation or a relationship or somewhere where you know don’t value you. Okay? I know it feels icky, but let’s just run together:

Everything is the opposite of what it appears to be, and nothing is the opposite of what it appears to be.

[00:17:24] I find running it a few times and then going back to the energy, it’s usually changed and sometimes, it’s changed completely. Sometimes, it’s just changed a little bit. It doesn’t matter.

[00:17:34] But I do want to tap back into it, so to speak, so I’m aware of where it is now. So, I would just go back to that energy. Check in with it. If there’s still something there like a heaviness or an ick with it, then do the Crazy Phrase over and over.

[00:17:49] It’s such a magical way to change things that you maybe haven’t been willing to or known how to change. This isn’t where you have to, you know, you’re not dissecting it. You’re not judging it. You’re not doing anything except running the Crazy Phrase over and over.

[00:18:06] The way that I see the Crazy Phrase work is it’s like when you shake up a snow globe and there’s all these little pieces of snow going around—well, obviously not snow, but you know what I mean? What I see that as when we’re running the Crazy Phrase is all that solidity. All the solidity when I wasn’t valuing me, all of that solidity starts to break apart and dissolve and totally eliminate and go away.

[00:18:31] In my experience—you might have a different experience but in my experience, none of these tools a hundred percent the first time I used it. It worked in that it changed in that moment but again, this has been years of me choosing towards valuing me. It doesn’t mean it has to take you years – please be way quicker than me.

[00:18:54] When did I start valuing me? Honestly, I’m not really sure. It probably wasn’t the moment that that gal canceled and I went through, “Wow, she’s missing out!” It probably wasn’t then. It was probably before that.

[00:19:06] With this stuff too, we are changing. Every step of the way, there is change. There is noticeable change. There can be, so celebrate that, too. Don’t look for it being a certain way, or it has to or it won’t be, you can’t celebrate until you have it a hundred percent. I still don’t have it a hundred percent. I’m still getting it. I’m still in the process of choosing and changing it, and I’m celebrating where I’m at with it now. I wonder what else is possible with it that I’ve never even considered.

[00:19:37] I would love to hear from you. If you have been valuing you, if you’re going to use these tools, or maybe you’ve been using some tools, let me know. Of course, you can connect with me wherever you’re watching this. If it’s via podcast, you can always head to my webpage. There’s a contact form there and just reach out.

I’m so incredibly grateful for you all. I look forward to chatting again next week.