Tools When You Are Scared AF

Mar 20, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools When You Are Scared AF

Let’s change this!

Still spinning in that fear, crazy, scared-as-f*ck energy? Tune in to this episode ‘cause we’re listing down more magical tools from Access Consciousness® to assist us so we could start changing all that energy for ourselves. How does it get any better than that?! ✨

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:11] Tools When You Are Scared As Fuck. Something that you want to recognize with that scared energy or that fearful energy is you have a couple of questions you can ask yourself. First question: Truth, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, let me explain. I know that sounds weird. However, a lot of times what we’re calling fear is actually our body super excited about something.

[00:43] Let me give you an example: Years and years ago, I wanted to be a public speaker. I wanted to stand on stage and share inspiration with people. And then, I got my first invite—I was invited to speak on stage. “Oh, no, I can’t have that! I’m scared, I can’t do it! I have to say no!” – I had all of this insanity going on.

[01:08] Now, I didn’t have this tool back then. Luckily, I didn’t let it stop me. However, the question I could have asked myself back then is like, Truth, am I fearful, am I scared, or am I excited? Because in that situation, it was actually what was true. I was so excited—my body was so excited—but we’re so used to identifying that energy as fear that we don’t stop and ask a question.

[01:34] Please, my sweet friends, start asking Is this fear or is this excitement? If you get that it’s fear, don’t worry, I have another tool for you. When it reads as fear—it’s not excitement, it’s actually fear. What we’re doing is we’re distracting ourselves.

[01:52] To give you a silly example: if you’re walking in a city downtown late at night, and you’re walking around and you’re feeling icky that you just go, “Oh no, I’m just distracting myself. I shall continue to do whatever I would like!” No.

You actually want to look at [if] there is something else to choose. It could be that you’re distracting yourself and you could make a different choice. Maybe you get a taxi in that situation or something different. So, it’s not that we go, “Oh well, it’s no big deal.” We still pay attention to it, but we don’t distract ourselves with it.

[02:25] A lot of the stuff going on in the world right now that we might be choosing fear around are probably distractions. [It’s] because there’s nothing in that moment that we can—no, I shouldn’t say there’s nothing. There may be SOMETHING in that moment to do different.

[02:45] Let’s say you’re—what is that term now? Doomscrolling, I think? They call it [that] when you’re on social media or something, looking at all the, you know, “This is the worst thing ever and we’re all gonna die!” and all of that. Maybe the choice in that moment would be to stop doing that. That could be that, but you can check in [if there is] an action to take.

Maybe you are aware of something and there’s something to actually do. But it’s not ever about sitting in your house by yourself feeling scared as fuck. That’s never going to create greater — that’s only going to create more distraction and more of that icky energy.

[03:24] We really have to look at this, guys, because it’s something that we’ve probably found a way to just deal with. It’s like, “Oh well, that’s just what happens. I watch the news, and then I can’t fall asleep at night. And then, I wake up in the middle of the night and I worry some more” – we’ve got to stop that one. It adds the same energy—gives us more of THAT energy, of that doom-y, gloomy, icky energy.

[03:48] It’s not about putting on rose-colored glasses, either. We’re not going, “Oh, no. Everything in the world is perfect. Everybody’s happy and loves each other!” Please don’t do that. It’s about being aware. When we’re distracting ourselves, we’re not aware because we’re doing what I call “putting blinders on.”

[04:08] Let’s say you go on social media for a little bit. You see some stories and it’s like, “Oh my gosh! Okay, well, this is gonna happen and this is gonna happen, and then we’re all gonna die! This is gonna happen when we’re dead!” and you know, all that. We’re putting all these blinders on rather than going, “Okay, yeah. I’m willing to be aware of what’s going on without adding a story to it, so that we can actually start to be way more aware of what’s required to change it. What can we be and do different to change it? Such a powerful question, my sweet friends. Such a powerful question.

[04:43] I also have another radio show from years and years ago all about fear. We’ll link to that in the radio show notes.

If you’re not on my e-mail list, guys, get on my e-mail list! You get the show notes e-mailed to you and the show e-mailed to you every Sunday along with a bunch of other fun stuff on there in the show notes. Ericka, the magician in the business, goes through and transcribes everything I say, puts it all in there with links to things I talk about and all the things. So, come and join us!

[05:09] The other thing I would like to invite you to is—I’m laughing because of the title—I’ve got some Clarity Nights, I mean Afternoons coming up. In Access Consciousness®, we have this possibility of doing what’s called Clarity Nights. We would maybe get together in the evening, and we would talk about a topic and do a bunch of clearings and just get clarity around it. However, I’m going to have them in the afternoon. It’s just a fun play on it.

There’s 5 (five) for sure coming up. I may continue them after this, but we’ve got things like being The Most Valuable Product in your life, Choosing #asifbymagic, and a bunch more that I don’t recall right now. We’re just going to talk about them.

If you are in the area, if you are my neighbor, please come and play in person with me, my sweet friends. We’ll have them both online and in person at the same time. If you’re here, you can come play. If you’re not, you can join us online. You’ll find the link somewhere [and] if you can’t see it, reach out and I’ll get it to you.

[06:10] Back to the show! Okay, those are the two questions: One, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, that’s gonna read for some things, and for some other things: Am I distracting myself with this? If you get a yes, What other choice do I have?

Again, it might be to take some action. You might be recognizing that what you’re choosing in that moment isn’t creating greater and there’s a different action to take—cool. And then, it can be what can I be and do different to change this?

[06:39] The other thing with this: we want to recognize, again, especially because of everything going on in the planet, one of the other tools that we use all the time—I was gonna say a lot, but that’s not true; all the time—in Access Consciousness is Who does this belong to?

[06:54] Again, think of everybody on the planet who is scared as fuck right now. Yeah, that’s a lot of people. It’s a lot of people with that energy of scared as fuck. We are infinitely aware. We can pick up on that and then play with it as though it’s ours. Please, let’s stop that.

[07:13] What we want to do, again: Is this fear or excitement? If you get its fear, then What am I distracting myself from? and also Who does this belong to? It’s going to lighten up… Return to Sender with consciousness attached – that’s the tool.

[07:27] It’s such an easy tool – Return to Sender with consciousness attached, which means you’re returning it to whoever was the very first person to play with the energy, the distraction of scared as fuck. Cool! “With consciousness” means it’s being delivered back in a way that they could change it if they wish. Now, that part is not up to us. Our job – return to sender with consciousness attached. Let them choose whatever they’re going to choose and us to carry on.

[07:57] But really, [it’s] to start recognizing we have another choice. We have another choice. We can continue to play with scared as fuck and contract our life so small, or we can use some of these tools and make different choices and look at, “Okay, what is going to create the most here? What is going to create the most here? What can I be and do different to change this?

[08:20] The more that I change that energy that shows up in my life—that scared as fuck, the more that I’m willing to use these tools, it energetically ripples out and invites people around me and for miles and miles and forever and ever and ever to change it for themselves. So, what sort of contribution could we be if all of you listening start using these tools rather than playing with scared as fuck as though it’s real?

[08:48] We’re infinite beings. Scared isn’t a reality for us. We are infinite beings with infinite awareness, so we would make a different choice. We would just know—”Oh, there’s that energy. Okay, what can I be and do different to change this?”

But when we’re pretending we’re finite beings, that’s when it becomes a bit of a problem. That’s when we stick ourselves because we go into this energy of like, “Oh, I’m scared because of this and it’s because of this, and this is going to happen and this is going to happen” and then, it’s that spiral. It was called like that, you know, hamster on a hamster wheel, like you’re just going, going, going, and crazy, crazy, crazy. Honestly, it’s up to us to stop it.

[09:25] You’ve got some tools now, guys. Please if you’ve got any questions, let me know. You can post them below depending if you’re watching this video somewhere. If you’re listening on the podcast, then you can email them in info@glenycehughes.net, or just go to my webpage www.glenycehughes.com and you’ll see the Contact page. Send them in [and] I’m happy to do a follow-up show with any of these, guys, because this—let’s change this, my sweet friends. Let’s change this.

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Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

Apr 10, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

We always have a choice.

When we got our tax bill, it was a lot bigger than I imagined… and I was pissy. This is where the tools from Access Consciousness® come in handy! In this episode, I will not only share these tools but we will also walk through them TOGETHER. How fun is that?! 🤩

When we feel frustrated, angry, pissed, or some things aren’t going our way, know that there’s something else possible. We always have another choice. What would you like to choose now?

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:10] Oh boy, all right. Well, here it is — I’m pissy. I’m pissy right now. I know it sounds like I’m laughing, and I am laughing AND I’m pissy.

I just got off the phone with the accountant at going through personal tax stuff and got the information that Hubby will owe way more money in taxes than I imagined. How does it get any better than that?

[00:00:37] Why the heck would I come on here and do a radio show when I’m pissy about something? Because I would like you to walk along with me, my sweet friend. I would like you to see what is possible when you’re pissy, when you want it not to be the way it is, when you want it to be different, when you’re *frustrated noises* — all that. I thought it might be fun for you and I to go through this together.

[00:01:01] What you could look at while you’re here with me is if there’s anywhere in your life that you’ve got this going on. What you could do along with me is if there’s anything in your life that you don’t like where it’s at, or you would like it to be different, or you’re pissy about something—just come along with me.

[00:01:18] Now, I believe it was in the summer of 2022 (2021) [when] I did a Steps to a Self Session. We’ll link to that in the show notes if you want to go through kind of more an extended version of something.

This is going to be fairly quick because it’s just something right now. I believe the thing I did in the self session was something that had been going on for a while. I believe it was something to do with my back, with running. This one is more, Okay, in this moment, I’m pissy and I would like it to be different” and “I would like the situation to be different and now what?” All right.

[00:01:49] The first thing that I look at: the allowance of where I’m at. This is unusual but what if we could actually have allowance? It’s like, what if it’s okay for me to be not thrilled with that information? What if I can be in allowance of myself?

Step number one, for a couple of reasons: Because fighting it isn’t ever going to change anything. The other reason, though, is that we can’t change anything from fight—from that “this shouldn’t be this way” and “this is stupid” and “this is bad “and “the accountant made the mistake and it’s his fault.” That’s not—and it’s actually not. It’s not his fault. It couldn’t be his fault. It couldn’t be anybody’s fault. It’s just what is in this moment.

If I don’t put all of my energy into that space, then where could I put my energy? Oh yeah — into having allowance for me and where I’m at right now.

[00:02:43] All right. So, I’m pissy. The next step for me is to know that I can have allowance for that — absolutely. I can play with it, I can set a timer and give myself two minutes of the pissy-est I can get. I can do that, totally. In some situations, I actually do. This situation, I just know it’s time to change it.

[00:03:01] It’s been maybe 20 minutes since the time I got off the phone with him to setting up the camera and getting everything ready. It’s long enough to be pissy for me. It’s just not fun energy for me.

[00:03:11] Okay, what would I like? What would I like? Well, ultimately, I’d like not to pay that tax money. Okay, that’s one thing. One thing I could ask for: what magic is possible — could ask for that.

Now, what I’m looking for when I go there—so I’m energetically getting present with that, and I’m looking at that as like, “Does that change it? Does that actually change the energy for me?” It actually doesn’t. That’s fine. That’s great information.

[00:03:37] So, what then? What would I actually like? What am I actually asking for here? I’d actually like to know that I’m okay, that we’re okay no matter what. Now, that’s got an energy on it for me. Okay, cool. That’s a yummy place to start.

[00:03:51] I could actually look around in my world and actually prove to myself that we’re okay. If required, there’s many places we could pull that money out of. There’s many things we could sell to have that money. There’s all sorts of things. We actually even have that amount in the account and more and way more. So, are we okay? Yes.

[00:04:13] Again, this is kind of a bizarre thing to do. It gives me the space to go, “Okay, I’m not going to pull the money out of that account.” This is the one thing that I know about myself — I’m not doing that. I like the money in that account.

I really like money. I am one of the weirdest people on the planet. I really like money. I like having money. I like to look in that account and see all the money in that account. To take some of it out to pay a bill, I’m not choosing that because the other thing that I know about me is that I will create it. If it’s between pulling it out of that account and creating more money, I’ll just go create more money.

[00:04:54] It’s already getting lighter for me as I’m just talking about random things that I would normally just go through quietly in my head. I’m like, “Oh yeah. Okay, cool. I won — we’re okay. I can just go create that money. Okay.” So now, it’s lighter.

Now, I want to just take a moment with this because look at this: it’s lighter because I’m no longer in the lie.

Now, what was the lie with the pissy and the heavy and the icky about the the amount of tax he owes? It could be the amount. I mean the accountant was just giving me the rough number because he hasn’t put everything in, but [it’s] fairly close. Okay. So it could be the lie that that’s the amount — it could be.

[00:05:36] What I get more so is what I added to it. The stories that I added to it like, “We won’t be okay. Oh my gosh. If we’ve got this horrific tax bill, we won’t be okay!” That was the energy behind that for me, and that was the heaviness, that was the pissy. That was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass. You’re fine. Stop lying to yourself!” Right? Once I removed the lies. I’m like, “Oh, yeah. Okay. That’s super light. That’s super ease. Oh, awesome!”

Everything that might bring up for you, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

Now, that is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. It does so many things. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works, but basically it’s like waving a magic wand and getting rid of and destroying and uncreating all the stories, all of the crazy, all the energy, all the “you can but I can’t” or “I can’t because…” or all that stuff — it just gets rid of it all.

When we talk about stuff, especially money, there’s so many points of views that come up, so much insanity that running the Clearing Statement will really start to shift it.

[00:06:40] I would love to invite you to a creation that I’ve got coming up called Refusing Receiving. Yeah, I’m sure none of you do that.

It’s what we call in Access Consciousness® a “30×30,” meaning there’s a clearing that we’re going to run about refusing receiving 30 times a day for 30 days to really get the benefits of the clearing and really start choosing to receive beyond what we’ve never been willing to before.

What I’ve also added to this one is that about halfway through the 30 days, we’re going to have a Zoom Clearing Call, meaning we’re all going to hop on Zoom together and do clearings and whatever. I’ll facilitate whatever questions, whatever’s coming up around it because what I know with this clearing in particular is it’s going to bring up some stuff. There’s going to be more stuff that you’re going to want to clear. And so we’ve put this in the middle so that we can clear it all up and really start receiving beyond what we’ve never been willing to receive before.

There’ll be a link somewhere below, above, or in the show notes. I would love to have you join me, my sweet friends.

[00:07:49] The other piece with this all, of course, is a question that we use in Access Consciousness® all the time: who does that belong to?

Is it actually mine? Do I have any of these weird concerns and stories about money? No, unless of course I choose to, unless I want to play with them, unless I have some time to be pissy, unless I don’t have enough on the go. You get the idea, right?

[00:08:18] Really, it’s not mine. I could put my creative energy into creating the drama-trauma and the crazy and all of that, or I could go, “Hey, what would I like to create?” I’d like to have ease with this — done. I can choose ease with this. I can choose drama-trauma. Neither of those choices is right or wrong. They’re just choices.

It doesn’t matter if you’re looking at tax bills or you’re looking at a relationship problem, or if you’re looking at business thing. These tools work on everything, and the greatest piece of it—at least for myself—has been that I have choice. I always have choice.

[00:08:52] It doesn’t matter if I’m pissy or if I’m angry or if I’m wanting to kill somebody. Sometimes, it can be all those things. I always have another choice. I can stay in those energies. I can continue to choose them if I would like to, and I always know I have another choice. So, what choice—what would I like to create here?

[00:09:14] Of course, I talked earlier about not having the tax bill. Of course, that’s cool too. I’m totally open to that. Universe, what else is possible with this that I’ve never even considered? Absolutely. I also want to know that no matter what, NO MATTER WHAT comes my way, I always have a choice for ease.

Anywhere that you haven’t been willing to know you always have another choice, will you destroy and uncreate all that? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

[00:09:43] If we didn’t buy the stories, if we didn’t go into the trauma-drama or—wait a minute—if we STOPPED telling the stories, if we stopped playing with drama-trauma rather than NOT DOING it because that’s down the road. Let’s start with just choosing something different. What could we create if we got the muscle of going, “Hey, I don’t like this energy right now. What else could I choose?” That’s a beautiful muscle to have, guys.

[00:10:13] I’ll tell you what: if this would’ve occurred 10, 15 years ago, I wouldn’t have had that muscle. I didn’t have that muscle. It’s only been, I would say, in the last five or six years that I truly have this muscle to go, “Wait, I have another choice here.”

I only ever saw the choice for pissy or upset or drama-trauma. I only ever saw that choice. I mean, I didn’t even acknowledge it as a choice. Let’s be honest. It was like something would occur and then I would have to react and that was it. Whereas now, I know I have another choice and I can turn it around very quickly.

[00:10:51] Now, I could have probably turned it around quicker, but I did want to hop on and do this video to have you come with me [and] be able to go through these steps.

And this isn’t like every time you have a problem, do these exact steps. That’s not it at all, guys. I would just kind of, you know, what we call “pinging.” It was like, “Okay, so where do I look at? What do I go with?” I mean, you could start with “who does this belong to?” You could start there.

[00:11:14] For me, in this case, really acknowledging that we’re okay. They’re not going to come and take my house away from me for his tax bill. None of that. I mean, that’s pretty dramatic. That’s pretty extreme, and I like to know that. I like to have that information. That’s a really big piece for me to look at and to acknowledge and to recognize that there’s an energy of a story there.

It wasn’t going through my mind. I wasn’t going into, “Oh my gosh, we’re going to have to move. I won’t have a swimming pool!” It wasn’t any of that sort of crap. Energetically, it was. How do I know? Because of that pissy, because of that heavy, because of that *ugh*.

Because that was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass! You’re lying to you here! Let’s start being honest. What it actually is here?” Oh, we could just go pay that right now if we really wanted to. Now, what would I like to choose?

[00:12:08] Well, I’m going to go create that money! So, you might see some creation come out, like, you know, “Paying Hubby’s Tax Bill Call” or something like that. That would be super fun. Actually, I might create something like that now that the energy of this is even lighter, my sweet friends. It’s even lighter.

So, who knows? By the time this comes out, you might see right now on the video or if you’re listening to the podcast in the show notes, there might be a link to a creation to pay Hubby’s tax bill! That is so awesome. Oh my goodness. How does it get any better than that? I love that energy.

[00:12:48] Okay. So, there we go. What we’re looking to do is, and again, this isn’t like a step-by-step for everything. This is a steb-by-step that I use today in this moment:

(1) allowance for where I was and what I was choosing;

(2) the acknowledgement of what is actually true

(3) getting out of the stories; and then

(4) looking at what would I like to create? What would I like to choose here? And, paying attention to the energy behind it.

[00:13:10] Right? Because again, the automatic response is I just don’t want to pay a tax bill, but that didn’t have the energy match that I was actually looking for. Okay so then what? “Oh, I’d like to have ease with this.” Oh, well that. That — done.

Whether the tax bill is the amount the accountant gave us, maybe it comes in even more, whatever it is, maybe it comes zeroed out—who knows? Whatever it is, I know that I can choose ease no matter what and that is greater than any amount of non-tax bill. At least it is for me.

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Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business

Jun 26, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business

There’s so much more possibilities beyond!

For the past 20 years, I’ve rarely had more than one person playing in the business with me. Well, it’s just what I can control. Until recently, I finally hired nine (9) more magical people to join me in the team! HDIGABTT?! How did I do this, you ask? Tune in to this episode because I will be sharing how it all unfolded, as well as the phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness® that came in handy. You will be amazed how much more magic lies beyond what you can control, sweet friend.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business. Yes. I know.

[00:00:23] If you’ve been around here for a while, you know that control is something I talk about a lot and it’s something that I’ve been letting go of, a lot of, and still can do way, way more.

So, how did I do this? Well, how am I doing this is actually the better question ’cause that’s more accurate. How am I doing this? It’s an every-ten-second choice.

How this really started for me? Again, I’ve been choosing this and running clearings and making choices and all sorts of things.

[00:00:55] A few months ago, I attended the Joy of Business Certified Facilitator Training. It’s an Access Consciousness® class. It has its own set of work and classes and such which, of course, I am now a Business Done Different Facilitator! I have a class coming up in August, actually the end of July. July 30th, 31st, and August 1st.

If you can get here in person, pack your swimsuit. Come and play. If you are only able to join us online, that’s fine, too. We’ve got both options. We’d love to have you.

[00:01:31] I also have other classes on the book, so you’ll find a link or above or below or somewhere. If you can’t find it, reach out and I will get it to you.

[00:01:39] When I took that class, hiring had been on my mind for probably years. Honestly, for the past 20 years—I will be celebrating my business anniversary in September. For the past 20 years, I’ve rarely at one time had more than one person playing in business with me. I know that’s crazy, right?

It’s what I could control. If I’m just gonna be straight up honest here, it’s what I could control. If we’re gonna break it all down, that’s what was going on. I was able to control that.

[00:02:16] In the Joy of Business class that I attended in April, we talked about hiring. They ran some clearings from Access Consciousness and changed a lot.

And then, I read this section in the manual that basically said: Are you avoiding hiring to avoid all of those other people’s energies?

It was like, yeah. That was a huge “yes” in my world. It was, again, that control piece of if I only have one person, then I’m only managing, you know, their energies in my world as though it was something (1) that I had to manage or (2) that I couldn’t receive from. There’s so much crazy attached. But anyway, reading that sentence which is like, “That’s it.”

[00:02:59] What I looked at was, “Okay. Business, what would you like?” Business, what would you like? This is like tool number one: start communing with your business.

[00:03:12] I have so many programs and radio shows on this, guys, on how to commune with your business. You can check them out. We’ll have a link above or below somewhere so you can check them out.

[00:03:23] But really, it’s about including your business in your business. It’s about asking your business: Hey business, where would you like to have that class? Hey business, when would you like to put that class on? Like, including your business.

[00:03:37] And so, that’s what I was doing. I’ve been doing that for years, but I really intensified it. I really allowed it to facilitate me.

This is the thing that I would say is one of the billions of gifts that having a business does for us is if we let it, it can facilitate us into greater constantly. It can constantly facilitate us into greater if we’re willing. Yeah.

Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:16] That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works, but basically, it is like a magic wand that you’re waving and all of the stuff around, whatever it was about, starts to melt and go away.

So, tool number one: definitely communing with your business. Include your business in your business.

[00:04:39] Tool number two, which is very similar and different, is to receive from the business. Be the gifting to the business and also receive from it.

So many people do business as a separation. It’s like, I’m going to work from whatever, 9:00 AM until 5:00 PM. When I’m at work or doing my business things, then I will be doing those business things. When I’m done, I’m energetically gonna pull my energy out of my business and go do the other things.

[00:05:15] Guys, we’re infinite beings, which means we’re infinite energy, which means we can be present in our business, present with our family, present floating in the swimming pool outside. We can be all the things.

If we don’t separate, if we don’t pull our energy out of places and things and classes and radio shows and all the things, then you get to be all of it.

[00:05:41] In my case, if I was floating in my swimming pool and I was being all the energies and I was being present with all the energies, I would be aware the moment my little kitty Totty might need me. I would be aware when the business needed to make a phone call. I mean, there’s all sorts of things. If we don’t separate, that’s where the magic is.

[00:06:06] It’s very much like communing, and it’s different because you’re gonna be the gifting and the receiving. Now, with gifting and receiving, what a lot of people don’t recognize is it’s constant.

It’s not like I will gift now, and now, it is my turn to receive. That’s what we call the “give and take universe.’ That’s where most people operate in this reality. I will give you this, and then I will take this.

Gifting and receiving is when we don’t know who the gifter is, and we don’t know who the receiver is. It’s a totally different energy.

[00:06:38] For myself, as I was allowing the business to facilitate me and allowing to, you know, reminding myself to ask more questions and following the energy, I now not just have one person playing with me in the business. I have nine more. I actually have 10, I just realized that.

But yeah, I actually hired 10 people recently to do all sorts of different things. There’s so many things going on in my business. It’s so amazing. I’m so grateful.

[00:07:12] A lot of them weren’t getting done because there was just me and Ericka, my magician, I call her ’cause she does everything else. But just the two of us, there is just not enough time.

Now, with nine more doing all the thing, that’s joy. That’s joy right there, my sweet friends. I could not have got there until I was willing to let go of more control and allow the business to facilitate me.

[00:07:45] Business, show me. This would be another, probably tool number three we could say is Business, show me. Business, show me. Business, show me.

I also use it with everything. Body, show me. Universe, show me. Depending on what’s going on and I’m asking about, but that’s the energy. It’s like, show me, business. You would like to be even way more in the world? Show me, show me.

And then, it’s my job to pay attention and to follow the awareness. Follow the energy. That’s magic, my sweet friends. That is so much magic, and beyond what you can control.

[00:08:26] We really wanna look at that energy of what we often talk about in Access is “out of control”. If you’ve never done the How to Become Money Workbook, I highly recommend you checking it out. I will be doing another run through probably in September. I usually do it once or twice a year.

[00:08:43] There’s a whole section on being… in the book it’s called “being control”. But basically, what it is is being out of control. All that means is that nobody and nothing could ever control you, which means you have to have no points of views ’cause if you have a point of view that it should be sunny outside and it’s not sunny outside, you’re controllable. You’re pissy, you’re upset, you’re cranky, you’re whatever. It’s all the crazy, right?

If you’re willing to be out of control, then you’re going to be out of control and not controlled by anything, which means you get to be total magic.

[00:09:26] So, a clearing that you can use and I talk about this one all the time:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, possibilities, potencies, and power can me and my body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of form, structure, significance, out of linearities, and out of concentricities with total ease for all eternity?

Anything that doesn’t allow that… right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:09:51] Run that, run that, run that. Write it down. Go to the show notes. There’s show notes. It’s all written down for you already. Write it down. Put it on a sticky note. Put it on your Reminder app, pop up once an hour or something like that. Maybe even just once a day, if you wanna start small.

But run that clearing, guys. You will be amazed at actually how much more ease and joy and glory your life and living is when you are willing to be out of control. That’s where the magic is — beyond what you can control. Yeah, awesome.

[00:10:27] Okay. So, come and join me at Business Done Different or any of the other bazillion classes I have coming up, and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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A Question to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be

Jul 31, 2022 | Radio Show

A Question to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be

Do you acknowledgize yourself enough?

It’s easy to acknowledge the contribution that other people BE, but what about ourselves? We spend most of our lives spinning on how “wrong” we are or how “little” we contribute when in fact, there’s so much that we gift to the world. That is why for this episode, I’m sharing another phenomenal tool from Access Consciousness® that helped me get out of the judgment of me to finally acknowledgizing the contribution I truly BE to my life and living.

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

Yes, I am in my mermaid swimsuit at the pool ’cause it’s July and it’s beautiful here in Alberta right now, and so many pool days lately. How the heck does it get any better?

All right. So, How to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be? Yeah.

[00:00:34] I did a post recently about Hubby and I and how he had made a comment to a contractor that was looking at doing some work for us about how basically I’m the success – I’m the reason we have all of this magic. That’s very kind. However, it’s actually not true. What I know to be true is that if I didn’t have him, if he wasn’t part of this magical co-creation, it would be so much more difficult for me.

[00:01:10] That really is what we wanna acknowledgize for ourselves. I’ve really looked at how easy it is for me to acknowledgize the contribution that he BEs to me and the magic that we co-create with him. What about the contribution I BE? What about acknowledgizing that?

That’s really where this whole radio show was birthed. It was that we often missed that part. It’s ease for us to go, “Man, it would be so tough to not have that person in my world” or what the secretary does in the office, or all those sorts of things. It’s ease to do that for the most part, but it really is our job to acknowledgize us. Once we acknowledgize us, it’s gonna be so much more ease for us to actually, truly, truly gift that to other people.

[00:02:01] One of the things that I put on my Reminder app, you guys. If you’ve been around for a while, you know I use my Reminder app for everything, including clearings.

Every night at 9:00 PM, there’s a reminder. It used to just say “Acknowledge me,” and I didn’t find that that was so ease to do. I could spend a few minutes and just get the energy of what maybe I contributed to that day and such like that. However, I found a clearing from actually a long time ago, years and years ago. This is Access Consciousness®, if anybody isn’t familiar.

[00:02:34] This is the wording of it—I’ll see if I can remember it. We’ll definitely put the way that I say it in the show notes. If I don’t say it correctly, go to the show notes. You can get them in the email. They’re on my webpage, too. If you just go to www.glenycehughes.com > Radio Show > this specific show, it’ll be underneath. It’s basically:

What beyond this reality acknowledgement of me can I be for everything I contributed to today, for the magic that I contributed to, for the miracles that I contributed to, and for everything I’m choosing to be? Anything that doesn’t allow that, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:03:26] What that clearing does for me is it reminds me it’s beyond this reality. I can look at how, I’m not sure maybe I helped Hubby send a text to somebody. I can say, “Oh well, I contributed that way.” That is, yes, and how many beyond this reality ways did I contribute like that? Like, acknowledging all of it? So, yes, the assistance with the email and all of it. The more that we do that, the more that we’ll also be aware of the contribution we be.

Most of us, if you’re watching this or listening to this—of course, it comes out as video and a podcast, depending on how you consume this.

[00:04:14] Most of us that would be interested in this sort of a topic, it’s really is this space of spending most of our life in the wrongness of us, most of our life not acknowledging our contribution. In fact, most of our life, [we’re] judging that we aren’t a contribution, that there’s nothing that we do, that there’s nothing that we contribute and all of that judgment when really, there’s so much. It’s just that it often isn’t that linear way.

It can be, of course. We can help people emails, or clean their house, or do all sorts of things. What else? What else? There’s so many ways, and the more that you acknowledge yourself for it, the more ease it’s gonna be for you to be aware about it throughout the day.

[00:04:56] The other thing is you won’t then require anybody else to acknowledge it for you, and I think that that’s a huge [piece]. I know, for me, that’s a huge piece because I did spend a lot of years, probably more of my years, looking for that acknowledgement for somebody else.

If somebody else saw me as valuable, if somebody else noticed that contribution or noticed that just me being part of something changed it or contributed to it, then it was true. But if it was just me doing it, it’s not the same thing and yet, I have to be the one. I have to be the one for me first and then all of that, I can actually receive.

Everywhere you haven’t been willing to acknowledgize you as the contribution that you truly be in every area of your life and living and beyond, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:05:51] The other part is we don’t just contribute by being alive with a body. We contribute when we’re beings without bodies. We contribute there. There’s no limitation to our contribution.

[00:06:04] The other day, I went to a celebration of life for my sweet friend, Jen. Her and I had the same adoration of nice, hot sunshine and a cooler swimming pool.

Hubby and I stopped to pick up some flowers to take to the service. When I was getting them into the car, they were very, very high. When I was getting them into the car, I tipped it a little bit and I spilled some of the cold, cold, cold water, and it was a hot, hot day just like this. I was hot, hot, hot, and I poured this cold water right into my lap.

[00:06:40] I just knew that it was Jen contributing to a smile, to a laugh, and also to the cool water—very refreshing. I also had a dress on that wouldn’t have shown the water. How did I get so lucky? ’cause I looked at a different dress. There was another dress I was gonna wear and I was just like, if I’d have been wearing that dress, I would’ve looked like I peed myself, which would’ve been funny too, but this was such a gift.

So, Jen doesn’t have to be in body anymore to contribute and neither does any of the people that we knew or the beings and all of that.

[00:07:10] If we’re willing to receive from it all—the more we acknowledge us first, then we’ll receive even more. We’ll recognize it even more as if by magic.

I have a show from many, many years ago. We’ll put a link to it in the show notes. Gosh, what is the title? It’s something around acknowledgizing or acknowledgement. I say that so Ericka, one of my main magicians in the business, can find it and put it below. So, it really talks more in depth about acknowledging.

[00:07:42] But I wanted to do this show, really, to recognize that there’s always more. There’s always more. I’ve been acknowledgizing myself for a long, long time, years and years. And really, this kind of choice of doing it every day and recognizing that — a Reminder app saying, “acknowledge me,” not so much. But that clearing, that has really contributed.

That might not work for you. Know that you don’t have to do any of the things that I suggest. I just like to share my journey so that you guys know that it’s not like, “Oh, she started acknowledging herself in 2014 so she’s done that now.” It’s like, no, this is an ongoing journey.

[00:08:23] In fact, I heard Gary Douglas say once that we will often use the term, “Oh, I finally get that tool.” Like, I finally get it. I finally get acknowledging myself. What he suggests is to reword it, to be more accurate to what’s true which is “I’m getting that tool.”

Back in 2014, whenever it was that I really started acknowledgizing myself, I was getting that tool. 2022, all these years later, guys, I’m still getting that tool. There is no end point. There is no, “Oh, I got that one figured out. I can move on.” It’s continuous. Continuous.

[00:08:59] For me personally, it is continuous. It is about choosing greater and greater and greater. Sometimes, it’s coming back to tools that we’ve previously used. Sometimes, it’s the new tools that have come out. Sometimes, it’s the tools that you might have learned in your first Bars class that might have been 20 years ago, that maybe doesn’t seem relevant, but it’s hugely relevant.

The more that you’re choosing, the more that you’re looking to create greater, guys, this is the magic. This is the magic—the getting of the tools continuously without any end point, without any expectation, without any “This is it. I’ve got it.” It can create so much magic.

[00:09:37] I invite you so, so deeply, my sweet friends. If you have not attended or looking to repeat Foundation, I’ve got an Online Foundation coming up at the end of August. It’s online only, and it’s four hours a day so it makes it super ease to fit into your world. I so, so, so suggest it.

Again, for anybody who hasn’t taken it, you do require to have taken a Bars class. You do require that one, but you can take an Online Foundation, whether it’s your first time or your 50000000th time. You’re gonna be getting the tools in different ways. That’s what we do.

So, thank you so much for being here, guys. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Tools to Get Out of the Wrongness

Nov 6, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Get Out of the Wrongness

Beyond the wrongness, possibilities are waiting!

We’ve all found ourselves playing in the wrongness of us at some point… but what if we’re never been wrong? There is so much more we can be receiving once we start recognizing that, and with the magical tools from Access Consciousness®, anything is totally possible! Tune in to this episode because I’m sharing yet again more of these tools that you can use wherever and whenever you need them.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] I am standing in front of the ocean . If you’re watching this on video, I am on Margate Beach and this is the beautiful ocean behind me.

[00:00:22] So, Tools to Get Out of the Wrongness of You. Yeah, I know. This is something that so many of us are addicted to. There’s the church bells. Hopefully you can hear that in the background.

So many of us are addicted to the wrongness of us and going into the wrongness of us and constantly playing with the wrongness of us. What if, what if, what if we’ve never been wrong? Now, we may have made some choices that didn’t create what we desired. We may have done that, but what if we’ve never been wrong?

[00:01:04] One of the things with those things that we’ve judged ourselves as wrong for, if we don’t judge ourselves as wrong for them, guess what? We can receive from them. And guess what occurs when we receive from them? We receive the awareness from them. It creates something totally different rather than this whole idea that I was wrong, I made a bad choice.

[00:01:30] So earlier, and if you’ve been listening to the radio show for this month basically or [in] October, you would’ve heard me talk about travel here in England for the last month and such, and choosing flying in when there was a train strike, and then taking a coach and then spending a couple hours in a coach station because the coach was delayed. For any of you North Americans, that’s [a] bus station. Here in England, they call it a coach station. And so, that was not fun at all. I mean, we chose to have ease, joy, and glory with it and, ooh, not something we wanted to choose again.

[00:02:09] What it gifted us and with me not going into how wrong I was for it, what it gifted me was the awareness that that’s not how I desire to travel around England. What it invited us to was to actually rent a car for the majority of our trip. That wasn’t our plan.

[00:02:27] We had rented a car up in Newcastle at the beginning of our trip for a couple days so we could go out and see some sites of Vera shows. If you watch the murder mystery Vera, we love that series. There’s lots of beautiful scenery and we wanted to go to some of those locations. So we’d got the car for that. After the experience with the coach and all of that and the train strikes, we said, let’s just get a car for the rest of the trip, which is what we did.

[00:02:58] If I would’ve stayed in how wrong I was, I would never have received the awareness from that experience, and that’s ultimately what we’re doing. When we’re in the wrongness we’re not receiving. Yeah, right?

I know it’s tricky. It’s tricky because we think that receiving is something… often we think it’s something totally different. But that is one way that we ensure we don’t receive is through judgment. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:03:29] That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for information about how it works, but it’s like a magic wand, my sweet friends, and it’s so magical in what it can change for you and for anybody running it and for the people around us. When we run it, it’s so magical.

[00:03:48] It really is this space of recognizing that we always have a choice. We can judge ourselves for the choice we made or choices we made, or we can take a moment and just go, “Okay, so what awareness did I receive here? What awareness am I refusing here with this judgment that if I just stopped judging it, it would allow me to receive even more?” That’s kind of a long wordy way of it, but really just to recognize that those judgements are ensuring you don’t receive from whatever it is.

[00:04:27] If I’m judging that it’s too hot today — you know me, I’d probably never judge that. But if I was, then I’m not receiving from the sunshine. If I’m judging when it does rain here, then I’m not receiving from the rain, and it takes a lot of judgment to decide that sun is good and rain is bad. How do I know? Well, my God, I have spent pretty much my entire life in that judgment. Rain is bad and sun is good, and it’s ridiculous.

[00:04:53] I mean, the more that I become aware of the judgments that I’ve used and using, it’s so cool because it’s changing everything. It’s changing where I’m really willing to receive even more.

[00:05:08] That is a tool that, if you’re interested in changing this, start asking yourself: If I didn’t judge, how much more could I receive?

Do you have experiences from your past or situations where you’ve just spent so much time in judgment of you? Then take a moment with those and really look at that. If I didn’t judge this, how much more could I receive from it? What awareness did I receive here that I’ve been refusing?

[00:05:35] When we ask questions like that, we’re not asking from the place of we have to get an answer right away. We’re just asking the question. The awareness may not show up for some time. It may show up right away. Who knows?

But allow yourself that space. Give yourself that space to really be curious. Just be curious, like, if I didn’t judge this, what could I receive from it? Or maybe it’s a person. If I didn’t judge them, what could I receive from them? Yeah, yeah.

[00:06:08] It’ll start to give you this sense of what else is truly possible beyond judgment. That’s what we’re looking for, is beyond the judgment. Yeah. So that’s one tool. Start asking that.

[00:06:20] The other tool, and I talk about this all the time, guys. I just can’t not talk about it with regards to this. Of course, the tool of interesting point of view.

[00:06:31] When you recognize you’re in the wrongness, whether you’re in the wrongness of you or the wrongness of somebody else, it doesn’t matter, interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… over and over and over so you get out of that addiction, often is what it is.

[00:06:53] It’s this addiction to wrongness. It’s like we don’t know anything else. We only know wrongness and what if? What if we have other choices? I mean, we have a billion other choices with regards to everything. Same with the wrongness. We can choose to be in the wrong. That’s certainly one choice, and what else could we choose?

[00:07:13] Another tool, and this one isn’t probably talked about in this way, but I’m gonna talk about it in this way. It’s the tool of Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures am I going to have?

[00:07:25] This is a tool that we talk about in Access to do every morning. I’ve actually been changing it up a little bit. [I’m] a little bit more present with it so that when I’m in the wrongness, I actually say, “Well, who am I today?”

What I’m inviting myself to look at is who am I today? Am I the Judgy Judgerson that I’ve been choosing or am I the person who doesn’t judge, or a bazillion other things? But who am I today? And then of course, you can finish it with “…and what grand and glorious adventures…”

[00:07:54] What it allows me to recognize is that I have another choice. Maybe that addiction to judgment has been a big thing in my world for a long time, and right now I have another choice… and right now I have another choice… and right now I have another choice. We always have another choice. So, who am I today? Am I that person or am I someone else? Who would I like to be? If I was creating me today, who would I be? Yeah. Yeah.

[00:08:26] To me, it’s such a fun tool to start recognizing that we don’t have to be who we were. It’s often projected onto us that that’s the way it is. We are who we were, and that’s the way it’s gonna be forever and ever. Amen. We don’t have to be. We get to change every 10 seconds. We get to change every second, really. But ultimately we get to change constantly if we would like to. Who am I today? You can even ask Who am I right now? Just to start shifting and changing it so that you can get out of that wrongness.

[00:09:00] The other thing is the question of What’s right about this I’m not getting, or What’s right about me I’m not getting? Just another tool that you can use when you’re in the wrongness ’cause we’re not looking necessarily for what’s right. But ultimately, that question gets us out of the rightness and into the possibilities.

[00:09:21] What’s right about me I’m not getting? What’s right about this I’m not getting? Again, we just ask it. We’re not looking for an answer. We’re not gonna figure it out ’cause there isn’t a way to figure it out. We’re just asking so that there’s so many more possibilities with it rather than the wrongness, the wrongness, the wrongness.

[00:09:37] So there is some tools for you to play with to really start getting out of the wrongness, guys. The thing that I can say, like every other tool that we have, you have to use it. You may not be ready to get out of the wrongness or you may have more value in the wrongness so far. That’s okay. When you’re ready, these tools will be waiting for you.

[00:09:59] Have a fabulous rest of your week, and I look forward to chatting again next week.