Choice and Choosing

Nov 20, 2022 | Radio Show

Choice and Choosing

What will YOU choose?

We have always been taught to be careful when making decisions, because it can either make us or break us. What if instead of “deciding” things, we can start “choosing” to better find what works for us? Choose, receive the awareness, and choose again. Imagine the possibilities that opens up… how AWEsome is that?!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. This week, we’re gonna talk about choosing. Choosing and choice, and choosing.

[00:00:20] Yes, this is a Grinch tuque because I love it. If you can see in the background, there is Hubby and our sweet friend, Lexi. We have been playing with choice and choosing more than ever before, and one of the things that we’ve been choosing is something called “Trusted House Sitters,” which is basically a site where you can go and you can apply to do house and animal sitting around the world.

[00:00:52] We’d talked about it for years prior to Totty, our sweet kitty, passing away in September of 2022 as something we would do when she was no longer with us. We never guessed she would be gone so quickly. We actually started in England. We did one house sit – we had a dog and a cat, and chickens and ducks.

[00:01:19] This is our second one. We’re here in Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada and having so much fun with sweet Lexi. She is such a beautiful dog and so playful. Thankfully, the weather has been quite mild here so we’ve been able to enjoy her outside. Even though it might look like Hubby is being mean to her, she loves getting snow kicked out to her and catching it in her mouth. So, there you go.

[00:01:43] We are talking all about choice and choosing. It’s one of the things that I actually talk about a lot because choosing and choice is such a big part of us creating our dreams come true.

[00:01:58] When we first had the chance to look at this as a reality, as a possibility like traveling the world, just trying out different houses in different places with sweet animals to love, it was just from that energy of “I wonder what that would be like…,” not “This is the way it has to be,” “This is what we have to choose,” but like, “I wonder… I wonder if we would like it.” We talked about actually selling our beautiful home and doing it full time.

[00:02:32] In this 10 seconds, that’s what we’re continuously choosing towards with the awareness that choice is good for 10 seconds.

[00:02:43] We’re down here in Lethbridge. It’s about a five-hour drive from our house. Of course, we did one in England which is impossible to drive to, you know, being a flight away. We’ve got another one set up in Calgary in December and Edmonton near the end of November. We’re trying it out. It’s like when you choose, you can try your choice out. This is what it’s like. We get to try it out and so far, we are loving it.

[00:03:10] We’re also receiving so much awareness by choosing it. We know that although we love dogs and we love playing with dogs, we know we don’t want a lot of time with dogs. If you’ve never had the difference between a dog and a cat, our experience is dogs require a lot more like walks outside and all the things.

[00:03:35] Some people might disagree. Of course, if they’re dog people and they don’t like cats, that’s different, of course. But for us, we love all animals and our awareness is dogs are a lot more work. We will certainly say yes to dog sits when it feels yummy to do so, and probably for the longer ones, say months or two months or maybe even three months, probably not going to be for dogs. Who knows? Whatever. But again, it’s this choice. We get to choose, and we get to choose, and we get to choose again.

[00:04:06] This truly is something that you wanna look at in your life because often what we’re taught is that… no, we’re actually usually not even taught about choice. What we’re taught about is decisions. We make a decision. We say, “In the spring, we’re gonna sell our house and travel the world, doing house and pet sitting full-time along with me, of course, continuing with my business full-time, and that’s the way it is.” That’s a decision, and you don’t receive much in that decision. In fact, you don’t really receive anything. But if you’re choosing it and then you’re receiving the awareness, then you get to choose again.

[00:04:43] This isn’t about anything to do with what we’ve been doing so far. We don’t need to have any other choices to know. We would actually prefer to do this in the tropic somewhere, in the Canadian winter. We’re here right now so of course, we’re choosing it locally. We are enjoying winter, which is why I bought a fun little tuque.

[00:05:01] However, what we’re looking for for January, February, March is actually Arizona, Florida, Tennessee, California, those places so that we can enjoy the weather, too. Of course, if you know me at all, you know I’m also looking at places that have pools.

[00:05:19] This is just a really fun way to talk about choice, to really get you to recognize that you get to choose and you get to choose again, and you get to receive the awareness and then you get to choose again, and you get to choose again and you get to choose again, and awareness and choose and awareness.

[00:05:34] Maybe by spring, we’ll be like, “No, we’re not interested. We wanna be at home and get some more cats of our own.” Who knows? Anything is truly possible and the first step is making a choice.

[00:05:47] Now, some choices you can do like we are and get little baby pieces of it, so to speak. We get to try it out, see if it works. Some choices aren’t like that. Some choices, maybe you just energetically choose.

[00:06:00] This is what I’ve been telling some clients this week. Hey, for tomorrow, just live the day as if you chose A and then the next day, live as though you chose B. When we spend a few hours as though we’ve chose something, we’ll also start to get a sense of if it is actually for us or not. It’s just a different way of being on the planet, a different way of trying on choices like you would try on clothes just to give yourself a sense.

[00:06:30] The other thing that I think is so important for every one of us to know and to remember is it never shows up the way you think it will. It never shows up the way you think it will.

[00:06:40] If you hold on really tight to “I’m doing this and this is the way it’s going to be, and this is how it’s gonna turn out and this is what it’s gonna look like,” it’s not gonna be very fun for you. But if it’s like, “This feels fun. This feels cool. I’m gonna choose towards that,” then what else could you receive? What other way could it turn out? How could it turn out better than what you could expect?

00:07:04] I’ve got some coaching going on right now. I’ve called the program Beyond What You Desire Coaching. We all have an idea of what we would like. I shouldn’t say that – that’s not true. Sometimes, we have an idea of what we would like or we have some idea of energies of what we would like.

[00:07:21] However… there’s some dogs barking. I must check. It’s all good. Hubby’s got it.

[00:07:27] When we have that, we go into that space of what we would like. And then if we do it from the energy of what else is possible, guess what? Everything beyond what we desire gets to show up. What if we lived our lives beyond what we desire?

[00:07:51] I had maxed out at 24 at the Beyond What You Desire Coaching. I was doing a beta program. I’m actually expanding that. There’s a link above or below if you would like more information, or maybe you looked at it before and you’re kicking yourself that you didn’t get in. There’s more details about it now, guys, so go and check it out. I would love to have you come play.

[00:08:11] I wonder if you were willing to choose and choose and choose, and be maybe even judged as flighty or somebody who just is always changing their mind or whatever it is that you’ve used to stop you before, what could you create if you are willing just to choose and mess it up and receive awareness, and choose and choose and choose and choose again… I wonder how much magic you could create in your life, in your living, my sweet friend.

[00:08:41] Have a wonderful week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Do You Do Failure?

Apr 23, 2023 | Radio Show

Do You Do Failure?

Turn setbacks into success.

Failure is something we all experience at some point in our lives. That is why in this episode, listen in as I debunk myths surrounding failure and share tips on how you can turn any situation you think you might have failed around. Now is the time to stop spinning in this rabbit hole and receive more than you ever did before.

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[00:00:00] Do you do failure? As you can see on my t-shirt, I don’t do failure. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:17] If you’re listening to this as a podcast, I have a t-shirt on that literally says “I don’t do failure.” it was gifted to me from my friend, Monica Froese, and I love her programs. I love her stuff. I love her shop. She is the one who’s assisted me in creating my new Shopify store. Oh my gosh. She sent me this t-shirt and I love it, and it inspired me to do this week’s radio show all about failure.

[00:00:46] It’s something that I would say every one of us, maybe 99.9% of us, experience at some point. What I wanted to start off with was really debunking some myths about failure and then some tips for failure. Not like tips to fail, but tips to really turn that failure around.

[00:01:12] #1. The first myth is that failure is actually real.

I know. I’m gonna do a whole radio show on something that’s not real. But it’s something that we’ve bought as real for so long that it’s worth a whole radio show on.

[00:01:27] When I say failure isn’t real, I mean that when we judge that we failed, that’s when we fail. When something doesn’t go the way we would like it to and we receive that information, we receive the awareness from it, it’s actually a gift. It’s not a failure. To me, the trick of it is when you’re feeling like a failure, what you wanna look at is what could you receive from it. What could you receive from that situation?

[00:02:03] Myth #2 is that whatever you failed at means you’re not cut out for it.

That is such a lie. It could be lots of things. When we group it together and we say, “I tried to run a marathon and I didn’t do it,” it doesn’t mean you’re not cut out to run a marathon. It might mean you require different support. It might mean that you require a different strategy. It might mean a bazillion things. It doesn’t always mean you’re not cut out for it.

[00:02:43] We’ve really got to look at that because to me, it’s a mindset shift where you’re aware of something you would like, you tried it, and it didn’t turn out the way you would like it to. Throwing it out and saying, “No, I won’t do that again” or “I can’t do it” or “I’m not cut out for it” is so unkind to you.

[00:03:09] You could turn it around. Look at what would it take. What would it take to run a marathon? Body, what do you require to run a marathon? Turn it around. Ask your body. It’s your body that’s running the marathon, so include your body.

[00:03:25] Myth #3 is that failure is the end of the road.

That’s it. It’s done. You can’t do anything else. Better not try anything else. Let’s say you started a business and it didn’t work out the way you would’ve liked it to. Now, you have to go back to being employed… no, you don’t. There’s about a bazillion options between A and B. What else? What was it about the thing that you tried that didn’t work for you?

[00:03:58] Here’s the other thing that I know. When we are trying something out or when we’re choosing something, if we are not 100% in, we are really not going to get it very far. I don’t mean that you should force yourself to be 100% in. If you have to force yourself, you’re not. It probably won’t work for you anyway.

[00:04:26] It actually has nothing to do with failure, it has to do with being honest with yourself. What would you like? To me, there’s a level of self honesty required in our everyday life, in being successful in anything. It doesn’t matter if it’s business or anything.

[00:04:45] For myself, I’ve been playing a lot with this incredible — I call it a “magic wand” because I love it. It’s got a different frequency, it does a lot of healing, a lot of energetics, and a lot of magic, and it’s just incredible. I was looking at how to set up a business with it and I had some really cool ideas because that’s something I have a lot of.

[00:05:08] Luckily, I started looking at what that would all entail. To do it the way that I was gonna do it was like going to be a lot. A lot of my energy, a lot of time. I was like, “That’s not really so fun for me.” All of those pieces that were involved the way I was going to do it, it’s just like, “It’s not so fun for me.”

[00:05:33] If you would like information, reach out. I will get it for you and I will still sell them, but I’m not gonna do it the way that I had all those ideas for because I know it’s not fun for me. I’ve done that before. I’ve set things up that weren’t fun for me that seemed like a really good idea, and guess what? They didn’t work out because they weren’t fun for me.

[00:05:57] For me, there’s an energy with that. I don’t mean it’s like I sit around and do nothing and that’s the only way I’ll do business. That’s not it at all. I love to work. I love to work in my business. I actually call it “play,” but there are different things that I don’t love to do and I know myself well enough at this point to know that.

[00:06:18] Self honesty, to me, is such a huge piece of this whole failing thing because if we’re judging it as failure, we’re not being honest with ourself. We’re not looking at, “What of that could have I chose differently? What of that didn’t I desire to choose? What isn’t fun for me that I’m forcing myself to do?” I mean, there’s so many different ways that we can go with that.

[00:06:40] Myth #4: Failure is something to be ashamed of.

Now, this is huge guys. I actually discussed this on the last Real Conversations, Real Change. This is a monthly membership that I’ve got going on, and we talked a lot about shame and how we actually use it to stop ourselves.

[00:07:01] There are times when maybe we personally require assistance or help and we don’t reach out because we don’t want anybody to know what we’re going through. We want everybody just to think we’re great and happy, and everything’s perfect but that’s such bullshit.

If we’re ashamed of what we’ve failed at, we’re not ever gonna receive from it. We probably won’t sit down and talk with people who could give us some insight, give us some awareness, or maybe get some coaching, or go to a class on it, or whatever it is.

[00:07:35] If we just don’t allow ourselves to ever choose shame again and just recognize what it is — it’s just distraction. If I’m ashamed about something I failed at, what does that do for me? Nothing, except keeps me spinning in the shame, which never allows me to create greater.

The trick is to recognize there’s nothing ever to be ashamed of. Shame is just a distraction. What could you receive from that situation? Who could you talk to about it?

[00:08:06] Now, I don’t mean that if you’re going through something that you should, you know, say, post about it on Facebook, because there’s a lot of people that you probably don’t wanna share that with. But there will be people that you could and it could really allow you to grow as a person and grow in further choices in that area that you feel like you failed in.

[00:08:26] Myth #5: Failure is a reflection of your worth as a person.

Ah, stop it! Don’t go there. Don’t go there. It’s not! As I said earlier, I would say that every person on the planet has had a setback, felt like they failed, judged failure, or chose something and it didn’t work out the way that they wanted. Every one of us in one way, shape, or form has done that, so how could it be a reflection of us, of our self-worth?

[00:09:00] I mean, self-worth isn’t something I even usually talk about because it’s so mixed in. There’s so many lies attached to self-worth. But if I was going to define self-worth, the way that I’m speaking about it with this is self-worth is about how you be in all the situations.

[00:09:21] When you’re in a situation where you feel like you’re failing, how are you being in that situation? Are you hiding it? Are you ashamed? Are you playing small? Are you playing the victim or are you standing up going, “Holy shit… well, that didn’t work out the way that I would’ve liked it to. Now, what?” Big difference.

[00:09:42] I know for myself when I have done that. When I’ve been ashamed and tried to hide it and not want to talk about it. All I was doing to myself was spinning in the judgment of it. It was just going on and on in my head, and I did that with, you know, relationships. I did that with business stuff. I did that with friendship stuff.

[00:10:02] I mean, every area of my life I’ve done that with, and only in the past, probably 20 years, that I’ve really been willing to be way more honest with myself, willing to be way kinder to myself, and have that level of honesty with me and not from, “You know what? I was stupid” and blah, blah, blah. That’s not honesty, that’s judgment. But an honesty of like, “Wow this really didn’t turn out the way that I would’ve liked it to. Now what?”

Now what?

[00:10:34] Myth #6: Failure is always a bad thing.

Here’s the thing, guys. If you stop judging — let’s change that. If we stop judging good or bad, like, stopped using those references ever, everything would change because to say that success is good and failure is bad puts so many limits on what you could receive. Whereas if you don’t have that, if you choose something and it turns out better than you could imagine and you receive that, and you choose something and it turns out way worse than you could have imagined and you receive that, then none of it is good or bad. It’s all receiving. You get way more awareness, way more information.

[00:11:22] Recognize that in where you might be judging yourself with that, where you might be saying to yourself, “Oh, I’m so bad. I’m so wrong” or “I shouldn’t have chose that” or… stop it. Stop it. Failure is only failure if you’re judging it. Otherwise, it’s beautiful information. Incredible awarenesses are available when you’re willing to receive from it.

[00:11:47] Those are just some myths that I’ve come up with that really will allow you to start looking at all the lies you’ve told yourself about failure. And now for some tips on how to embrace it, how to really turn it around.

[00:12:03] #1 is embracing those things, situations, events, whatever, that you’ve judged as a failure.

Embrace them. Look at them. Get present with them. Get honest with yourself about them. It will truly change everything for you, because then all of those judgeable offenses that you’ve decided will no longer be judgeable offenses. You’ll be really present with, “Wow, you know what? I didn’t desire to do that, and I thought it was a good idea, or somebody suggested it so I did it” or whatever it might be, or “It was a really good idea. I loved it. It didn’t work out this way. How could it work out?”

Get to change it around you. You get to receive from it, receive all the awarenesses from it, and then turn it into whatever it is that you would like to turn it into.

[00:12:52] Tip #2: Pivot when necessary.

[00:12:56] Now, whenever I hear or say the word “pivot,” I think of the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. episode where they were trying to move a couch upstairs, that it would never go up and Ross kept saying, “Pivot! Pivot!” that’s always what comes to mind so I always have a little giggle with that word.

[00:13:13] Please be willing to pivot. I would say, and I’m gonna speak from a business standpoint right now, this is so necessary right now because everything is changing now. Everything has always changed, but I don’t know about you. It just seems like it’s changing more and more and more. What worked in business even six months ago isn’t really working now. So we have to be willing to pivot and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot. It’s not wrong. It’s not failing.

[00:13:46] If you see somebody who’s maybe never pivoted, maybe they have one business model and they’ve kept it that way, and it outcreates every year, good for them! Let’s celebrate them and recognize when we require to pivot.

[00:13:59] If we put our energy into competition or into “Why do they have that and I don’t,” that’s a really crappy use of your creative energy, my sweet friends. Put it into, “Okay, now what? Now what?”

[00:14:13] Here’s a little thing from me to you. If you’ve never recognized that change is what inspires you, you might wanna start looking at that. Now, I can’t say for sure that’s for you, but for most people who hang out with me, listen to my radio shows, come into my classes, all the things, change is what lights us up. Doing the same thing the same way over and over and over and over and over usually doesn’t work so well for us. You’ll only know for you about that.

[00:14:44] The other thing I wanted to mention as I talk about business is I’ve got a whole Business Success Series coming up. Yes. The link will be above or below. It’s just at time of recording, I don’t have it all figured it out so I can’t give you more information but we will have the link available by the time this comes up. You can click on it somewhere.

[00:15:06] It’s a whole series of classes. You can attend one of them or you can attend all of them, whatever you would like to do. It’s more tangible stuff like setting up sales pages with coupon codes, order bumps, affiliate links, and all the things. So, check it out. If you’ve got questions, just reach out.

[00:15:26] Tip #3: Remember why you’re choosing whatever it is you’re choosing.

Whatever it is you’ve decided you’ve failed at, why did you start in the first place? What was the energy behind it? What was the value of choosing it? What were you looking for? In business, you wanna look at that. What is your “why?” If you are creating a business similar to mine, what is your “why?”

[00:15:51] In TikTok, I actually created a whole video and I’ve got it pinned to the top so that if people are wondering about me me, they can watch why I do what I do. We’ll put a link to it here too, if you guys wanna watch that.

[00:16:04] It’s something that really will allow us to keep choosing when we’re clear on that. Now, I don’t always talk about figuring out your “why,” because a lot of times we end up using conclusion and judgment in it. However, it is something for you to look at.

[00:16:23] In short, for me, I spent a lot of my life not knowing, not even realizing there were any other possibilities… like, at all. Once I started, I took a Reiki class back in 2002, and it invited me to this whole new world. I go, “Wow… I want everyone who would like to know there’s another possibility.” I want everyone to know. Everyone who was like me, I would love them to know there’s always a bazillion possibilities. That’s my “why.”

[00:16:57] Look at what yours is in whatever it is you’re choosing, and that will allow you to really choose in those places and times where it feels like you’re having a setback or it’s not working, or you’re failing. That energy of the “why” will totally shift it for you, remind you, and assist you to move forward.

[00:17:17] Tip #4 is surround yourself with people who are choosing the similar experience that you are.

If it’s business, get in some business coaching. Get in some business masterminds. Get in a networking group. If it’s running marathons, go connect with those people that are doing it. Really find the support in whatever it is you’re choosing to really give yourself a boost, so that you can actually succeed at whatever it is or create whatever it is that you’re looking at.

[00:17:50] Often, we don’t allow support. We don’t even look at it as an option. But go back to that myth about being sh ashamed. What if we get rid of that, as I said already, and just choose? Surround yourself with the people who are choosing similar things, experiences, whatever that you’re choosing. That will totally contribute to you.

[00:18:13] Tip #5: Be kind to you.

There’s never, ever a reason to judge you. Ever. Ever. Can I say it enough? There’s never a reason to judge you. Stop it. It’s all about being kind to you. Choosing, receiving the awarenesses from that choice, choosing again. Choosing again, receiving the awareness, choosing again. No judgment required. In fact, judgment will only kill, as I’ve already said, so be kind to you. You will create so much more with that energy than self-judgment or judgment of any kind.

[00:18:55] Tip #6: Celebrate.

Celebrate what you chose. Don’t base it on celebrating only what you succeed at. Celebrate on your choices. What are you choosing? Even if they didn’t work out the way that you thought they would, it gives you way more awareness. Way more awareness.

[00:19:15] Back in 2013, I leased a space in the city that was close to where we were living at the time, Lloydminster, Alberta, and I really did it. It felt super light, super yummy, super expansive. I was following the energy.

What occurred about three months after — don’t even know if we were even in the building yet. We were doing some renos and stuff and I got my first invite to facilitate classes in Ireland.

[00:19:45] Oh my gosh. Of course I’m going to do that, which that then inspired all these other invites all around the world. We started traveling. Actually, back then it was just me because Hubby was working at the time so he wasn’t able to travel with me. I was traveling to all these other countries and there were months that I was paying the lease on this space that I didn’t even use it because I wasn’t home to use it.

[00:20:12] Now, I could have looked at that as a failure. But is it? No. Of course it’s not. Not for me. I had more of a desire to be traveling and facilitating classes around the world than I did to be going home every night.

[00:20:33] We could say, “Oh well then you must not have followed the awareness. You must have just concluded you needed…” No. The one thing I know for sure is that by leasing that space, it actually contributed to my global business. How? I have no clue. I just know that it did.

[00:20:50] The other piece with that is that we wrote a year and a half into the three year lease, and I went, “I don’t wanna do this anymore. This is crazy.”

So I phoned my realtor, also a great friend of mine, and I just said, “How do I get out of this? Is there a way? Can I? I don’t even know if I can get out of this!”

What he told me was, well, he gave me the options and he said, “You could find somebody to take it over completely,” and I’m like… that. I would like that.

Well, guess what? The same day, there was a person who’d previously had that space and had contacted my realtor friend and asked if there was any space in that building available. They took over the lease completely. I walked away after a year and a half. Flew away, I should say, on the airplane.

[00:21:42] Really, this is what I’m talking about. We could put a lot of energy into how much money I spent to create that space and all the time I didn’t use it and all the wasted money… No. I know the gift it was. I know the gift it was.

[00:21:59] This whole piece is really recognizing that you never fail EVER. Every choice you make is gifting you awareness. You may get the awareness to never make that choice again or to pivot. That’s cool, but stop judging that you’re failing.

[00:22:22] Now, I would love to invite you. I’ve got two upcoming Business Done Different classes. Both are available online, or May 5-7, 2023 in Calgary, Alberta AND online, or June 9-11 in Davidson, Saskatchewan, AND online. I would love for you to come play. There’s so many different ways to be in business than the way that we’re shown here.

[00:22:50] Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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3 Lies You Have Been Told About How to Grow Your Business

Aug 7, 2022 | Radio Show

3 Lies You Have Been Told About How to Grow Your Business

What lies are you buying into?

There’s a lot of information out there telling you how to grow your business, and it can be overwhelming to learn them all. Books will tell you that this is the “right way,” but some videos online will tell you otherwise. How do you go from there?

First, you have to know the “lies” about how to grow your business that you might be falling into. That’s why for this episode, I’m sharing some of these “lies” that I have personally bought into, and how the tools from Access Consciousness® helped me find what truly works for me and acknowledgize the magic of me.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] Do you ever feel totally overwhelmed with all the things you’re supposed to be doing in your business? All the “right ways” you’re supposed to be doing it? Yes. Today, I’m going to share three lies that you’ve been told about growing your business.

Maybe they’re not the lie for everybody, but for many of us, we do it very differently. I’ve been in business now [for] 20 years and I’ve taken all the courses, I’ve done all the things. I’ve read all the books, I’ve tried it all the ways I’m supposed to do it. I’m also here to say those may not be right for you.

[00:00:56] I do have a download — it’s a PDF. If you’d like to go grab it, it’s my gift to you. It’s got different questions that you can ask to exponentialize the growth, the success of your business each and every day. So, go and check it out. You’ll find the link above or below. If you don’t see it, reach out and I will get it to you.

[00:01:15] I know from my personal experience that we often think that because other people seem to be having success that what they’re doing in business must be the right thing. If we just do it like them, then we’ll have the success that we think that they’re having.

That becomes a problem because we think that those what I’m calling “lies,” and not lies for everybody. But if we buy a lie as true, we stick ourself, and then we basically just set ourself up to judge ourselves. We spin in this wrongness of, “Well, I did the steps one, two, and three they told me to do, or their book told me to do, or their video told me to do and it didn’t work so I must be wrong.” Guys, you’re never wrong. It’s just different. There’s just possibly another way, a different way for you.

Again, these lies are not lies that are for everybody. Some of them, it’s worked for some people, and I’m here to invite you to a possibility that if you are sticking yourself with these lies, if you’re trying to make them right for you and they’re not, let’s let them go. Let’s look at them a little bit differently.

[00:02:30] One of the biggest lies that I personally bought many, many years ago, I would say probably 2013, 2014, was that I had to be on every social media platform. I had to do it! That’s what I had to do. It was a lie for me because all I was doing was distracting myself from what was actually fun for me.

Facebook, I would say, has been a constant on my social media. I enjoy Facebook. I use it personally. I like being on there. It is a little bit lighter than some of the other ones for me. Years ago, when I was trying to be on every platform because that was the “right thing to do,” that was really difficult for me because I didn’t really get Instagram, and I didn’t really get LinkedIn, and all these things that I just didn’t get. It didn’t make sense to me.

[00:03:27] What I would try to do is make it all the same. Anything I put on Facebook, I would put on the other platforms, and it doesn’t work that way. The platforms have different ways and they’re constantly changing. Even what they were back in 2013, 2014 has changed millions of times. I’m actually a little bit more active on Instagram now, and then TikTok is one that I’ve used a little bit kind of on and off for a while.

[00:03:54] It’s looking at what are the ones that are fun or one that is fun for you? What do you use naturally? What do you go to personally? You don’t have to be on all of them. In fact, it’s probably going to just be a way to distract yourself from choosing what would work or what would create greater.

[00:04:14] That’s really the thing with all of these lies. For the most part, when I look at my own business in my 20 years experience, I was choosing to buy those lies as real and true for me to distract myself from growing even more. As much as I could say, “Oh well, that business mentor told me that and they were wrong” or “this book told me that and it’s wrong,” it’s not that. I chose them. There was a level of looking for distraction that I was also choosing. There’s no blame whatsoever. It’s just recognizing that maybe, just maybe, guys, we do things a little bit differently.

[00:04:50] So, that’s number one. Start looking at what platform, what social media platform lights you up. Where do you like to play? If it’s nowhere, that’s okay, too. That’s absolutely okay. You don’t have to have a social media platform. You just need to then find a way to be having those connections. People need to be able to find you and whatever you’re selling or whatever you’re offering. They have to know you’re there. So, how can they know you’re there?

[00:05:17] For some people, they just go to their local city networking meetings and that works for them. Some people can go to the grocery store and make five new connections in 20 minutes. Look at what is your way – what way is nurturing to you and your body and the business, not what way should I do it, or I need to figure out every platform, or I need to hire somebody to do all my social media management for me. Maybe? I’m not saying no, but really look at that. Again, there’s sometimes this idea is if the more I post on social media, the more successful my business will be. That’s probably not true.

[00:05:58] Again, check for you, and really recognize that there’s just so many people, especially if you spend any time [in] any of the social media platforms, really where people are telling us that you’ve gotta post five times a day, you’ve gotta be consistent, you’ve gotta do this, you’ve gotta do that. Guys, what do you know?

What do you know in business that you’ve been pretending not to know that if you would acknowledgize that you know, it would create and grow the business to be everything it’s asking for? Everything that doesn’t allow you to perceive, know, be, receive, and know it, will destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com and find out more information about how it works. It’s basically like a magic wand. Yes. All right.

[00:06:58] Speaking of Access Consciousness®, I have some amazing classes coming up in August. We moved the Business Done Different so it is now August 23, 24, and 25 online and here at my acreage in person. The pool will still be open. Friends, get here! Come on! Come on over! Pack your swimsuit!

[00:07:18] Also, August 23 is my 50th birthday. I will be spending it with everybody who joins us which I’m so, so, so excited to do. So, that is then, then the week after – August 28, 29, 30, 31 I’m not sure if there’s 31 days in August. But anyway, August 29 to September 2, not 28, is Online Foundation for four hours every morning in MY morning. Depending on where you’re at – Europe, that’s gonna be later afternoon, Australia, depending on where you are. Anyway, Online Foundation, the link will be above or below. If you can’t find it, reach out. I’ll get you the time links, also.

Come and play, my sweet friends. I would love, love, love to see you online, in person, whatever magic you can create there.

[00:08:10] Lie number two: the more that you do or hustle, the more your business will grow.

Let me tell you, guys, it’s the biggest lie that I’ve ever bought. It is so not true. Now, it might be true for those people who do not engage with all of the energies that are willing to contribute. What I mean by that is where we ask the universe, where we ask our business, where we ask the elementals, the energies. When we say, “Hey, what can you contribute to this? Hey, what magic can we co-create together with this?” Yeah.

[00:08:53] Just this morning, I was doing a couple [of] posts on Facebook about a call that I was doing this morning. I went and put it in one group and it just felt really heavy to put it there. I was like, “Oh, what is this?” So, I just asked this very, very simple question: What is this? What is this heaviness? I got that it wasn’t actually gonna create anything by posting it there. I was like, “Oh, okay.”

So then, I just energetically tapped into the class… Yeah. [It] just takes like a moment.

Okay, class. What would you like? …oh! We just did a little bit of an energy pull together. Then like three minutes, there was four new registrations come through. Yeah.

[00:09:39] I’m willing at this point—believe me, I was and I used to buy into the “hustle and work hard” and “work hard for your money.” I think there’s even songs about that. I used to do all those things and sometimes, I can still get caught up in it. Luckily though, I am willing to hear and receive from my business. I’m willing to get the energy of that heaviness like when I was gonna go post it. It was like, eugh. It just felt so icky. So, okay, what is this? It’s such a brilliant question to ask.

[00:10:06] Some people might go, “Oh, it’s heavy,” “Oh, I shouldn’t go,” “People don’t like when I post too much” or add all these stories to it, but what if it’s not that? What if it it was just the class saying, “Hey, there’s another way. In fact, there’s another way more ease way, way more natural for us way.”

So, when we look at having to do, do, do, instead of be and do… I’m not saying you’re not ever gonna do. I mean, I had to have the information out in the world for those four new registrations to find it. I had sent an email, I think yesterday? It was a very quick creation.

[00:10:43] Sometimes, my creations are like that. Sometimes, my creations are like, “Okay, we’re here now and we want to be out in the world tomorrow,” which was that this one came out on I think it was Saturday? Saturday morning. It was like, “We wanna come out tomorrow” which was the Sunday. I was like, “You know what, guys? Can we do it Monday? Can we have a little bit more space here?” which it was obviously okay with. It was just phenomenal and so cool. And so in that, it’s like, “All right. Yes, I will.”

I’m also willing to work with it. I’m not going, “Oh my gosh. It said Sunday, I have to do Sunday.” It’s like, “Give me a little bit more space here” because we also have to recognize that sending an email might contribute. I don’t know about you guys, but I don’t always read my emails for a couple days. I had done some stuff beforehand, and there was an element of being with it that was also required. The being and the doing… the being and doing together.

[00:11:43] This is why the question that I ask every day, multiple times a day: What can I be and do different today to… blah, blah, blah, whatever it is I’m looking for.

What can I be and do different today to actualize a certain amount of money today? To have more fun than I’ve ever had before?

Whatever it is, but what can I be and do different today? Great questions.

[00:12:09] When you look at that, really look at where have you decided you have to hustle, or you have to do, or you have to be busy in the business? Where have you made that valuable rather than being the energetic magic you? Yeah.

This is something I’ve just been playing with so much in the last probably week-ish. I’ve really started reconnecting with some energies that I hadn’t really been paying attention to, and really allowing that to really create with. I mean, the creation is at an all-time high for me, and it’s just phenomenal and I’m so grateful and it’s that.

It’s allowing all the energies to contribute, allowing the energy of your business to contribute receiving it all. Really, that’s what it boils down to. It’s receiving it all. There will be doing, of course, and there’s also a lot of being, a lot of energetics you can play with.

[00:13:06] One of the new creations is something that I’ve called like a One-One Personalized Energetic Exercise with Your Business where you and I sit down, we go on Zoom, and I basically create an energetic exercise by communing with your business and just taking you through whatever it is.

Again, you’ll find a link above or below. If that sounds fun for you, I’d love to play. It’s freaking phenomenal what has occurred with these energy pulls and the feedback I’m getting. Truly, what else is possible, my sweet friends, that we’ve never even considered?

[00:13:46] Lie number three: you are your business.

This is one I really, really bought into for years and years. I was what I now refer to lovingly as the “Bossy Bosserson.” I was the Bossy Bosserson. Whenever I thought of my business, it was me. It was just what I did. It was just me all by myself, totally separate. The business, me, just that.

[00:14:14] And then when I started studying Access Consciousness® back in 2011, it was a totally different invitation because it was looking at your business as a separate energy to you. I don’t mean we’re separate, but I’m not it. It’s not me.

It’s like having a baby, you know. If you’re a female, the baby grows inside of you, and then it comes out and then it goes out into the world over the years and does all the things. The business is the same idea, although not maybe quite the same, but it it’s separate. It’s not you. You get to co-create with it, but it’s not you.

[00:14:52] This changed everything for me, because what I hadn’t been willing to receive from was the most potent magical business partner I could ever have asked for that sat in the corner all by itself basically for 10 years until I was willing to say, “Hi.”

Luckily, it didn’t hold it against me. Our businesses are not like that. We get to co-create. I get to ask it what it would like. I get to commune with it. I get to say, “Hey, show me. Show me what you would like. Show me when you would like to be.”

[00:15:33] If I’m talking to a class or a creation, or like the one on Saturday wanting to be Sunday, it’s like, “Hmm, okay. Could we do Monday?” And you know what? If it had said no, I’d have totally done Sunday. I was also willing to be like, “Hey, could we?” This is really co-creation. You and the business get to play together, or businesses, and they all get to contribute. Yeah. Whew. Yeah.

[00:16:05] I would say probably just more so in the last couple years have I really recognized the level of receiving that the business invites me to that I just wasn’t willing, which was probably why I had it so separate for so long. I mean, I just saw me as it. I didn’t even see it as its own energy. In a way that’s separate, but it was like I was not willing to receive from it at all. I was working hard. I was pushing, I was forcing… oh my gosh. I feel exhausted just talking about it. Whereas now, it’s this beautiful co-creation of magic and miracles and everything that it’s asking to be with me. Yeah. [That’s] the best words I can give to that.

[00:16:55] All right. So, those are the three lies I wanted to talk about today. I really want you guys to start looking at this though for your own self. Really look at it for you. What are the lies you’re buying into? If you look at your business, what are the lies you’re buying into?

Maybe it’s none of what I just talked about, but maybe there’s other ones. Maybe there’s things – you read that business book, or you had that business coaching or whatever it was and you went, “Oh, this is the answer.” Look at that. Get present with that. Look at if there’s another way. If things are working with it, fine. Cool. That’s awesome.

[00:17:25] But if you’re judging you, if you’re going into the wrongness of you because something you’re doing isn’t right, or you must be wrong, stop it. Stop it. Just ask, “What lies have I bought here?” And then, start engaging and communing with the business. Hey business… hey business, show me, show me.

[00:17:48] Again, if you would like more of magic in business, join us for Business Done Different, August 23, 24, 25, online or in person, whatever works for you. I would love to have you.

[00:18:00] Don’t forget, if you haven’t already went and grabbed the questions on the PDF to Exponentialize the Business Success, all as a gift for you, my sweet friends.

So, have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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The Question that Changed My Business (this Summer)

Oct 17, 2021 | Radio Show

The Question that Changed My Business (this Summer)

What are the possibilities now?

For the first time in 19 years, I did not feel as excited as I used to towards my business… I remember even spending months trying to figure out “the problem” in hopes of fixing it. Until Heather Nichols, a fellow Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, asked me this question that TRULY changed my business. The question has gifted me SO MUCH — more magic has been occurring in the business (and in my life) since then!

If you’ve been wanting to change something in your business or anything in your life, ask this question all day, every day. What else is possible that you have never even considered?

In this episode, I will share about:

- [00:41] The “problem” I had in my business
- [03:37] The Question that Heather Nichols, Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, asked me that changed my business
- [06:28] How it has gifted SO MUCH in my business
- [08:59] Dealing with the awarenesess that come after The Question
  - More questions and tools you can utilize
  - Upcoming business AWEsomeness to help you
  - What is changing tracks + energetic contributions #getyourbutttoFoundation

Are you in business or looking to start your own? Join me in this 5-part program to turn your ideas into an actual class, program, or whatever creation it is that you can start offering to clients! We will go through the 5 (five) steps that I personally go through when a new class or program is asking to be created.

Don’t have an idea to work on yet? This FREE Private Podcast might help you get them out!

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[00:14] This week, what are we talking about? We’re talking about business and the question that changed my business this summer. Yeah.

Now, you don’t have to have a business to receive from this show because a lot of what I’m talking about will probably contribute to every area of your life. It certainly did mine, and it started in business. All right, let’s start at the beginning.

[00:41] Earlier this year, which is 2021 — depending on when you’re listening, I know a lot of times people listen later — I was not having the same sort of energy in the business that I’m used to. I’m used to this really creative flow of energy that is so inspiring and so delicious and just — I’m just so freakin’ grateful for. I just didn’t have much of that earlier this year.

I was asked this question in August — probably for maybe four or five months before that. It just wasn’t the same. It probably took me a little while to really get present with it. I would say — and I’m just guessing here because I don’t really remember but, you know — it probably started and then I thought, “Oh, you know, this will change” or it’s just “I’m tired” or it’s, you know, all the conclusions and stuff.

[01:38] And then when it didn’t change, that’s when I started looking at it. The thing is — what I did, though, is I looked at it from trying to fix the problem. Now, I know none of you are as silly as me but that’s what I was doing. I was looking at it as being a problem and how can I fix the problem. Yeah. So then, that didn’t work.

Spoiler alert: that does not work. Do not try to fix the problem because guess what? When you’re trying to fix the problem, what’s actually occurring is that you’re buying the lie that there is a problem, which means then you have to figure out what the problem is. And you can’t figure out what the problem is because the problem is a lie, so then you end up on this ridiculous hamster wheel. So, don’t look for the problem.

If you would like to hear more about this, check out this radio show, The Problem with Problems.

[02:31] And so, I spent a few months looking for the problem so I could fix the problem, so I didn’t have the problem anymore. It sounds so funny now. And at the time, I just wasn’t willing to be as aware as I am today. How does it get any better? So then what occurred was I started actually asking…

What is this? What is it going to take to change it?

If you would like to hear more about this tool, check out this radio show, What is THIS?

[02:58] Interestingly enough, once I started asking that — imagine that, guys. Questions work. I actually saw a class of a fellow Certified Facilitator — her name was Heather Nichols — and she was having a class called “Being the Athlete in Business.” I knew that that class was going to contribute something to changing this — not a clue [on] what but I knew something.

So when I took that class, I asked about this because that was the energy that was there for me. I asked about just not having the same energy. And [I’m] so freakin grateful, you know. The universe always has my back. It was the timing of it. I asked it on — I think, a Tuesday. Heather had just been at a Maestro meeting with Dr. Dain where they had this amazing conversation and this question was asked, so then Heather asked me.

[03:57] Before I tell you what the question is — if you are experiencing any of “that energy”: of just it being not so exciting, there’s not really the energy — and it doesn’t have to be [in] business. Remember, guys: you can use these tools on anything. Maybe that’s in another area of your life, maybe it is your business. Whatever it is, I just want you to kind of tap into that right now and then I’m going to ask you the same question that I was asked.

[04:24] Truth: Have you created everything that you came here to create?

Yeah. Now, there isn’t a right or wrong answer to that, guys. It’s not pass or fail. It can just give you some more information.

So when Heather asked me that, I actually like, had such a big — it was a mixed thing. I had a huge release in my body like, “Oh my gosh.” But then also, it was just — I just wanted to cry. It was just… it was so… it was just so much of a “yes” of a like a “Oh, finally” energy.

[05:01] The next moment is really like, “Oh my god, am I done here? Wait a minute, what? Thank goodness.” Don’t worry. If you got a “yes” too, not to worry. What it is now for us is — what would we like to create?

I don’t want to put a lot of words to this because it’s really trying to define something that’s undefinable. I am going to give it a few words.

When we have created everything we’ve come to create, now we have infinite choice. Now we could look at, “Hey, what would we like to create?” Maybe we came in with some decisions of what we had to create, or maybe we came in with some ideas. Maybe even we chose some things along the way and said, “Oh, I really want to create that.” And then when it’s done… it doesn’t mean we’re done. It can, but chances are it’s more now — at least it has been for me — of “What would I like to create now? What would I like to create?”

Now, of course, it doesn’t mean the things earlier that I created were from, you know, obligation, or that I had to. It was just… it was just the energy. Again, I don’t want to put too many words to that. But just know that if you got a “yes”, all it means now is you truly get to choose what you would like to create.

[06:28] It’s so interesting because [of] what that — but being asked that question and having that awareness gifted me. It’s changed everything internally and not externally so much. I’m still doing the same sort of business, I’m still offering the same sort of classes. There’s, you know, everything, kind of. If you were looking just external, it looks the same.

And [yet] it’s 1,000,000,000% different. Like the people that are showing up now, the clients I get to play with, the VIP sessions, the Foundation classes, the courses – all of these.

And the other thing — this is the magical, like magic beyond magic. I sat down in, I don’t know, maybe it was an hour, if that. And I planned out from that moment — which was again, beginning of August to December — what I was going to create. My business was so clear with me as to what it was asking to get created on the planet. It was [snapping] boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

You might have noticed on my upcoming events [that] I’ve got things more in the future than a week. Like, this is huge. Huge, because I’ve spent 19 years pretty much flying by the seat of my pants. Now, that’s not wrong at all, and I cannot tell you the ease that being that clear with my business has created — and I’ve been very clear with my business. Not so clear, though, future-related.

[08:09] So, I can get a hit now and know that it’s for, you know, in two weeks or something. Absolutely, that’s total ease for me. But to know now for December, to know now for November, like, it’s phenomenal for me. And actually by the time that you listen to this or watch this — depending on how you’re consuming it, you know, it may well be into 2022 — I’ve already got this whole magical creation for 2022. It’s like, how does it get any better than this?

Just by acknowledging that basically I had come… all the come… to create? No. I’d created all I had come to do and now, what would I like to choose? The magic of it, my sweet friends. Yes, yes, yes.

[08:59] So if you did get a “yes” when I asked that, just be present with that and look at what would you like and ask this:

What would I like to create now? If I could create anything, what would I like to create now?

Ask that a lot. Remember, we don’t ask questions for answers. We ask questions to receive awarenesses. You might not receive the awareness right away — that’s okay. Allow yourself the space to receive the awareness — and there’s probably going to be way more than one thing that you would like to create on the planet, my sweet friend. Yes.

If you would like to hear more about tools to be more aware, check out this radio show, Tools to Be Aware AF

[09:34] Now, I would also love to invite you if you are in business or would like to be in business and you would like to get an idea out into the world — a class, a creation, whatever you want to call it. I am renewing — that’s probably not the correct way to say it, but I’m gonna say it that way. Anyway, a program that I did earlier this year called “From Idea to Offer.”

It’s a 5-part program where we go through:

(1) Step one is all about communing with your business so that you can receive from it or from the creation — what it’s asking to be, and all the pieces. And then we talk about (2) creating invitations to it — all the stories you have, all the things. Then is the (3) graphic. So, sweet Ericka has created ten (10) graphic templates. And of those 10, each one has multiple sizes for all the different social media outlets. Then we’ve got a whole step on (4) sharing your class — how to get it out into the world. And then [the] (5) tools to add magic to your class.

So, five steps — we’re going to do it over five weeks. I would invite you to come and play now because once this round is done, it’s actually going to go up to $597 CAD. This will probably be the last time we do it live. Everything has workbooks and all the pieces. Anyway, you can find all the information on the link.

[11:07] I also have a FREE Private Podcast where you can listen to different podcasts on how to get ideas for your creations or your classes. I know many of you reached out after I did the original one and said, “Hey, I would have loved to [have] been there but I didn’t even have the idea.” So, there you go. Now, you can listen to the free podcast — you just need to opt in.

And just so you know, a free podcast is all about listening on — however you listen to podcast now. You don’t have to download anything else. You don’t need to do anything else. It’s just behind a door that I’ve got closed and once you choose to join us, you get the key to the door. It’s very simple.

I’ve had a lot of people really confused about private podcasts. It’s not confusing, guys. It’s frickin’ phenomenal. I love them. I use them for a lot of different programs.

[12:00] Now, back to the question that changed my business. Oh, I just cannot even tell you what it gifted to me, guys. It’s so phenomenal. As I was with it afterwards and looking at it, the other thing that I really got that match the energy — something we talk about in Access a lot — is changing tracks. The other energy that came up is that I had changed tracks in the business and I didn’t acknowledge it.

This is the thing: if we don’t acknowledge these things — if we don’t acknowledge what is going on, what is true, what we’re aware of, [or] what we’re creating, we end up using that against us. And so when I didn’t acknowledge (1) that I created everything I came to create; and (2) that I had actually changed tracks energetically, I kept looking — in a sense, I was looking backwards at the same track I was on before — trying to figure out how to do that again, rather than going, “Oh, I’ve changed tracks. Now what? Now what?” That’s the other thing you want to look at: one, you can do energetic contributions to change tracks.

[13:13] So, #getyourbutttoFoundation. I have another one coming up at the end of December online. How the heck did I get so lucky?

Where we talk about energetic contributions, there’s — so far, in the Foundation manual, they’ve got up to the 20. So there’s 3, 4, all the way up to 20 — you get the idea. 13 is about changing tracks.

[13:38] The biggest thing to be aware of with changing tracks is to recognize that when you do energetic contributions to change tracks, you don’t get to say what tracks you go to. This is like everything else in Access Consciousness®: these tools are to create greater, not for you to decide what will create greater and then only choose that. It’s not that. It’s about having no point of view just knowing that you’re choosing greater.

And so right now, if you would like to change tracks in whatever area — I’m going to keep it open so that you can choose for you. If you don’t have a business, you don’t have to do it for that. [It] could be in your money, could be with your body, could be with relationships, [or] with every area of your life. It could be business, whatever it is.

[14:24] So, we’re going to do some 13s — and I use my hands. If you’ve ever seen Dr. Dain. Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness, you might have seen him do a lot of stuff with his hands. He does a lot of energetic contributions. So, 13 is to change tracks.

Everywhere that you would like to change tracks, on 13, will you do that now?

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7…

Get really, really big, guys. Expand lots and lots and lots…

8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13…

Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

If you would like to hear more about the energetic contributions, check out this radio show, What is Contribution?

[15:15] I recently did an in-person — oh my gosh, in-person! Imagine that — class on changing tracks and… it was so incredible, guys. Like, so incredible. One of the awarenesses that we came to during that class is that for me — and I can only speak to my awareness with it. It was another person there that brought it up, but I was like, “Oh my gosh, that’s it.”

So, I will often say, you know, “Oh, it’s been 100 years since I saw that person” or “It’s been 100 years since I did that” or “It’s been 100 years since I went on that trip” or something like that. I’ll use that bizarre phrase – It’s been 100 years. What I now know is when I say that, what I mean is “I have since changed tracks.” Yeah.

Now, it’s not relevant, it’s not significant. But it was a huge awareness that day because sometimes when I would say it, I’d be like, “What am I– like, what? What is that? What does that? What do I mean by that?” And now I know: I’m just acknowledging that I’ve changed track since I saw that person, or I’ve changed track since I did that thing. How cool is that?

It also might be something that is true for you. You might have a phrase that you use. I’m trying to think of the other people in the class, what they said… “Oh, it’s been a different- It was a different lifetime” or “100 lifetimes ago” or something like that with lifetime — however it is. And it doesn’t mean- if it’s even a thing you do. But it was such a huge awareness for me to go, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying.”

So now, because there’s still times I say it, I have a little giggle, because now I know, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying. I’m actually saying I have changed tracks since then.” How cool is that? How cool is that?

And what does “changing tracks” really mean? It means that you’re, well, this is my- this is the way that I see it. I don’t want to say it means it, for sure. There’s probably lots of different definitions. But really, for me, I’ve changed who I BE.

[17:20] Before Heather asked me that question, I was being the Problem Solver. The Figure Out-er, the Wrongness, the Judger of Me, all of that. And then, once she asked me that question, I changed tracks. I changed to –and it’s just a choice — but I changed to — once I had that awareness, it was so easy for me to go, “Man, that’s it. That’s it.” And then the question is, “Okay, now what would I like to create?”

And so, we can change money tracks, like you’ve probably changed points of views about money. I know a big one that I often talk about, you know. I had this “I had to work hard for money.” Once I changed that, I changed tracks. Now I’m on the track that money is ease, or whatever it is — I don’t want to define it like that, but you get the idea.

[18:10] Because again, we can’t say, “Okay, I’m going to change tracks so that money is now ease.” It’s not that. If you got troubles with money, problems with money, if you’re trying to figure out something with money, do some 13’s to change tracks — whatever that’s going to look like, whatever that shows up as — so that you can truly be in that creation space, that magical space rather than, “Okay, I got to figure out this problem because once I figure out this problem, then it’ll be better.”

No.

Problems are lies, so you’ll always be in the problem.

So, everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.

[18:58] The other thing — the other way that I’ve been using the changing tracks tool is really, if I’m catching myself in that problem energy, if I’m doing that, then I’ll just ask

Truth: Have I changed tracks here? because again, it will allow me to acknowledge it. If I acknowledge it, then I can actually choose something totally different rather than spinning in the trying-to-figure-out-the-problem or whatever it is. Yeah, yeah.

[19:27] I wonder… I wonder what is possible the more that we’re willing to change tracks and also acknowledge that we’ve changed tracks. You know, I think a lot of times when we don’t — well, probably all the time — when we don’t acknowledge it, then we try to figure out how to get back to that old track. You can’t go backwards. You try, or maybe there’s somebody in our life that really would prefer us on that other track. [And] so we almost feel like we’re… we’re pulled to go to that other track rather than, “Okay, what would I like to choose here? What’s fun for me?”

What if you can actually be with somebody who’s on a different track than you? What if it’s not about having to have them on the same track or you having to be on the same track? It’s just you get to choose for you, they get to choose for them. Truly, what else is possible that we’ve never even considered?

[20:18] What else is possible with the business that we’ve never even considered? If you’ve been around for a while, you hear me say/ask that question with regards to so much. And honestly, this, I’m not sure that this podcast would be here if it wasn’t for that question. I’ll tell you the story in case you haven’t heard it.

[20:40] Back in 2013, I was sitting on my.. the other acreage that we owned, we had a little private deck on this beautiful hill — it was amazing. I was sitting there one morning and I was asking. I was feeling a little stuck in business. Things weren’t flowing, and I was like, “What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered?”

What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered? I just kept asking that, but it was such a space of like, almost meditation or something because I wasn’t looking for an answer. I wasn’t asking to fix something. It was just the lightness of it, over and over.

And that afternoon, I got a random e-mail from a radio show… place? Anyway, it’s called “Voice America” and they asked me. They said, “Hey, would you like to have a radio show on our station?” And I was like, “What?” You’re nuts!”

Anyway, they weren’t nuts. I did start my radio show in 2013. You can find that one. It’s called “The Glenyce Show.” You can search it on your favorite podcast app or you can find them — all the shows — on my web page. They’re all there.

When I chose not to be with Voice America anymore, then I came here to “Tools to Create a Better Life” that you’re listening to this now. You might be watching it on video, but you can also get in/subscribe on the podcast app. And if you do listen via podcast, I would love if you would go and leave a review — I’d be so grateful.

[22:15] These things — you know, the way that social media and all this stuff works right now — the more people that share it and talk about it and review it and like it and love it and all the things, the more people that it gets to. I would be so grateful if more and more people were like us and choosing to be more conscious and choosing to use these tools to create a better life and living and business and planet for all of us. So, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Have a fabulous week, sweet friends! I look forward to chatting again next week.

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