Tools When You Are Scared AF
Tools When You Are Scared AF
Let’s change this!
Still spinning in that fear, crazy, scared-as-f*ck energy? Tune in to this episode ‘cause we’re listing down more magical tools from Access Consciousness® to assist us so we could start changing all that energy for ourselves. How does it get any better than that?! ✨
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.
[00:11] Tools When You Are Scared As Fuck. Something that you want to recognize with that scared energy or that fearful energy is you have a couple of questions you can ask yourself. First question: Truth, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, let me explain. I know that sounds weird. However, a lot of times what we’re calling fear is actually our body super excited about something.
[00:43] Let me give you an example: Years and years ago, I wanted to be a public speaker. I wanted to stand on stage and share inspiration with people. And then, I got my first invite—I was invited to speak on stage. “Oh, no, I can’t have that! I’m scared, I can’t do it! I have to say no!” – I had all of this insanity going on.
[01:08] Now, I didn’t have this tool back then. Luckily, I didn’t let it stop me. However, the question I could have asked myself back then is like, Truth, am I fearful, am I scared, or am I excited? Because in that situation, it was actually what was true. I was so excited—my body was so excited—but we’re so used to identifying that energy as fear that we don’t stop and ask a question.
[01:34] Please, my sweet friends, start asking Is this fear or is this excitement? If you get that it’s fear, don’t worry, I have another tool for you. When it reads as fear—it’s not excitement, it’s actually fear. What we’re doing is we’re distracting ourselves.
[01:52] To give you a silly example: if you’re walking in a city downtown late at night, and you’re walking around and you’re feeling icky that you just go, “Oh no, I’m just distracting myself. I shall continue to do whatever I would like!” No.
You actually want to look at [if] there is something else to choose. It could be that you’re distracting yourself and you could make a different choice. Maybe you get a taxi in that situation or something different. So, it’s not that we go, “Oh well, it’s no big deal.” We still pay attention to it, but we don’t distract ourselves with it.
[02:25] A lot of the stuff going on in the world right now that we might be choosing fear around are probably distractions. [It’s] because there’s nothing in that moment that we can—no, I shouldn’t say there’s nothing. There may be SOMETHING in that moment to do different.
[02:45] Let’s say you’re—what is that term now? Doomscrolling, I think? They call it [that] when you’re on social media or something, looking at all the, you know, “This is the worst thing ever and we’re all gonna die!” and all of that. Maybe the choice in that moment would be to stop doing that. That could be that, but you can check in [if there is] an action to take.
Maybe you are aware of something and there’s something to actually do. But it’s not ever about sitting in your house by yourself feeling scared as fuck. That’s never going to create greater — that’s only going to create more distraction and more of that icky energy.
[03:24] We really have to look at this, guys, because it’s something that we’ve probably found a way to just deal with. It’s like, “Oh well, that’s just what happens. I watch the news, and then I can’t fall asleep at night. And then, I wake up in the middle of the night and I worry some more” – we’ve got to stop that one. It adds the same energy—gives us more of THAT energy, of that doom-y, gloomy, icky energy.
[03:48] It’s not about putting on rose-colored glasses, either. We’re not going, “Oh, no. Everything in the world is perfect. Everybody’s happy and loves each other!” Please don’t do that. It’s about being aware. When we’re distracting ourselves, we’re not aware because we’re doing what I call “putting blinders on.”
[04:08] Let’s say you go on social media for a little bit. You see some stories and it’s like, “Oh my gosh! Okay, well, this is gonna happen and this is gonna happen, and then we’re all gonna die! This is gonna happen when we’re dead!” and you know, all that. We’re putting all these blinders on rather than going, “Okay, yeah. I’m willing to be aware of what’s going on without adding a story to it, so that we can actually start to be way more aware of what’s required to change it. What can we be and do different to change it? Such a powerful question, my sweet friends. Such a powerful question.
[04:43] I also have another radio show from years and years ago all about fear. We’ll link to that in the radio show notes.
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[05:09] The other thing I would like to invite you to is—I’m laughing because of the title—I’ve got some Clarity Nights, I mean Afternoons coming up. In Access Consciousness®, we have this possibility of doing what’s called Clarity Nights. We would maybe get together in the evening, and we would talk about a topic and do a bunch of clearings and just get clarity around it. However, I’m going to have them in the afternoon. It’s just a fun play on it.
There’s 5 (five) for sure coming up. I may continue them after this, but we’ve got things like being The Most Valuable Product in your life, Choosing #asifbymagic, and a bunch more that I don’t recall right now. We’re just going to talk about them.
If you are in the area, if you are my neighbor, please come and play in person with me, my sweet friends. We’ll have them both online and in person at the same time. If you’re here, you can come play. If you’re not, you can join us online. You’ll find the link somewhere [and] if you can’t see it, reach out and I’ll get it to you.
[06:10] Back to the show! Okay, those are the two questions: One, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, that’s gonna read for some things, and for some other things: Am I distracting myself with this? If you get a yes, What other choice do I have?
Again, it might be to take some action. You might be recognizing that what you’re choosing in that moment isn’t creating greater and there’s a different action to take—cool. And then, it can be what can I be and do different to change this?
[06:39] The other thing with this: we want to recognize, again, especially because of everything going on in the planet, one of the other tools that we use all the time—I was gonna say a lot, but that’s not true; all the time—in Access Consciousness is Who does this belong to?
[06:54] Again, think of everybody on the planet who is scared as fuck right now. Yeah, that’s a lot of people. It’s a lot of people with that energy of scared as fuck. We are infinitely aware. We can pick up on that and then play with it as though it’s ours. Please, let’s stop that.
[07:13] What we want to do, again: Is this fear or excitement? If you get its fear, then What am I distracting myself from? and also Who does this belong to? It’s going to lighten up… Return to Sender with consciousness attached – that’s the tool.
[07:27] It’s such an easy tool – Return to Sender with consciousness attached, which means you’re returning it to whoever was the very first person to play with the energy, the distraction of scared as fuck. Cool! “With consciousness” means it’s being delivered back in a way that they could change it if they wish. Now, that part is not up to us. Our job – return to sender with consciousness attached. Let them choose whatever they’re going to choose and us to carry on.
[07:57] But really, [it’s] to start recognizing we have another choice. We have another choice. We can continue to play with scared as fuck and contract our life so small, or we can use some of these tools and make different choices and look at, “Okay, what is going to create the most here? What is going to create the most here? What can I be and do different to change this?
[08:20] The more that I change that energy that shows up in my life—that scared as fuck, the more that I’m willing to use these tools, it energetically ripples out and invites people around me and for miles and miles and forever and ever and ever to change it for themselves. So, what sort of contribution could we be if all of you listening start using these tools rather than playing with scared as fuck as though it’s real?
[08:48] We’re infinite beings. Scared isn’t a reality for us. We are infinite beings with infinite awareness, so we would make a different choice. We would just know—”Oh, there’s that energy. Okay, what can I be and do different to change this?”
But when we’re pretending we’re finite beings, that’s when it becomes a bit of a problem. That’s when we stick ourselves because we go into this energy of like, “Oh, I’m scared because of this and it’s because of this, and this is going to happen and this is going to happen” and then, it’s that spiral. It was called like that, you know, hamster on a hamster wheel, like you’re just going, going, going, and crazy, crazy, crazy. Honestly, it’s up to us to stop it.
[09:25] You’ve got some tools now, guys. Please if you’ve got any questions, let me know. You can post them below depending if you’re watching this video somewhere. If you’re listening on the podcast, then you can email them in info@glenycehughes.net, or just go to my webpage www.glenycehughes.com and you’ll see the Contact page. Send them in [and] I’m happy to do a follow-up show with any of these, guys, because this—let’s change this, my sweet friends. Let’s change this.
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Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class
Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class
Create more with your business.
I recently facilitated my first ever Business Done Different class and I’m soooo excited to share some of its brilliance to you, my sweet friends! Also, you might want to watch this on YouTube so you can get to enjoy the beautiful Lake Louise as you listen. HDIGABTT?!
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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.
Now, if you are watching this by video, you’ll notice I’m not in the video. In fact, this video, I took last August during my birthday celebrations at Lake Louise in Alberta, Canada. It’s so beautiful there, my sweet friends. If you get a chance, go.
[00:00:28] I am using a clip from my recent Business Done Different class as the radio show for a couple of things:
One, I would love to invite you to my upcoming Business Done Different classes. I have one here in Canada at my house, Pool Party Business Done Different, and it’s also available online, July 30th, 31st, and August 1st. I have one at the end of October in London, England. Also available online. So, check out the link. If you can’t find it, let me know and I will get it for you.
Now, sit back and listen to me share some brilliance from the Business Done Different manual, all about relaxation and business.
[00:01:18] Please know this class is about you and what you can create with your business. We don’t have the answers for how to create the business. We have the questions and tools to assist you in choosing something different.
[00:01:32] What if you destroyed and uncreated your business as it currently is? Destroy and uncreate everything you’ve decided you are in business, and even everything you are not in business. Destroy and uncreate all of your relationships in business with everyone you work with.
Everything that is, destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
[00:01:58] If that isn’t something in your daily routine already, guys, I highly recommend it. The wording that I do with this is a little bit different:
I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everyone and everything from every lifetime times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
[00:02:19] The reason that I do it like that is it covers everything. Otherwise, I’d be having to do it with, you know, my marriage, and with my family, and with my business, and with my money flows, and with blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. This way I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everything and everyone from every lifetime times a godzillion, and it just covers it all.
Now, if you are really struggling with something, then it might be a good idea to do this specifically on business once a day for 30 days. I always say to people [to] do the general one if things are going fairly ease, joy, & glory, but if there’s a spot that’s really bugging you, then do it specifically on that spot for 30 days and see if that changes it, too.
[00:03:05] What jails are you using to create the dominance of E=MC2 to prove that you have no connection to joy, creation, business, and money in order to brave the insanity of this world, to pretend to live rather than actually living are you choosing?
Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
This is what this reality is really an invitation: to pretend to live, to suffer, to survive, all of the things that probably we’ve all done to some degree or another. This really invites us to actually living.
[00:03:55] Living is like a forward energy. Living is the choosing of it, actually living, as opposed to most people on this planet are doing life, which of course is the same energy in most part as death.
Anywhere you’ve done your business from life and death rather than living, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
[00:04:23] What if you could do everything from a place of relaxation?
Relaxation is something we’ve been talking about in Access just for a couple years, and it really is the space of, for me anyway, no force, no push, no “how” like I don’t have to figure out how. It’s relaxation.
I can be relaxation in my swimming pool, but I can also be relaxation while I’m facilitating this class. I can be relaxation when I’m recording a radio show. I can be relaxation when I’m at a shopping mall.
It isn’t relaxing the way that when we think of the word “relaxation.” We often think of maybe going for a nap or playing, you know, outside of business, but really this invitation with relaxation is to recognize it’s something we be and it’s something that we can be continuously. No matter what we’re doing, we can be relaxation.
[00:05:29] There’s a huge energetic difference between somebody who sends out an email from push and force and somebody who sends out an email from relaxation. We all know that. You don’t have to be aware to know that you know that, you know?
If you talk to anybody in business—sorry, anybody who receives business emails, invitation emails, they’ll tell you. They may not have the words for it, but they’ll say stuff like, “You know what? I did see that one, but I just deleted it” or “I just didn’t get back to it.” It doesn’t mean it’s always, then it means it’s from force. It’s just often, energetically. We’re aware of that.
[00:06:10] So, be really aware in everything you’re choosing in business, whether you’re hiring people, whether you’re putting out a video, whether you’re writing an email, whether you’re facilitating a class. The more relaxation that you can be during that, the more ease it will be for you and the more of an invitation it will be.
[00:06:30] Relaxation does not mean that you do nothing. It’s more of a spherical awareness and receiving that allows the possibilities to come and almost just fall into your lap.
What if you could just allow things to fall into your lap with ease and joy and glory because of your demand of you and request of the universe, and then you live?
Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
[00:07:06] The founder, Gary, says that if the staff of Access Consciousness® were to relax, Access would grow by 75%.
So, let’s just take a moment. I want you to get the energy of your business. I’m gonna run some numbers.
Truth, if you were willing to relax, would your business grow more than 10%? More than 50%? More than 75%? More than a 100%?
Anything that doesn’t allow you to be the relaxation you truly be that will allow the business to grow, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.
[00:08:04] All right, there you have it. Now, what magic will you choose with your business and relaxation that has never been possible before, my sweet friends? I am so incredibly grateful.
[00:08:16] I invite you once again to join us for the Business Done Different classes, whether you’re online with me, whether you come here to my acreage and swim in my pool, or you join me in London, England, or however I see you. I can hardly wait to hug you, my sweet friend.
Have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.
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Tools to Change Anything
Tools to Change Anything
Change anything #asifbymagic
If you’ve been wanting to change something in your life, this episode is for you. Listen in as I share some amazing and easy-to-use tools from Access Consciousness that you can utilize to get you out of the problem and into the space and lightness to change anything as if by magic.
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here, whether you’re watching this as a video or listening to it as an audio.
This has been almost two years that we’ve been doing this and yet, every once in a while, I still want people to know that there’s lots of ways to consume this weekly show, podcast, or radio show—whatever you might want to call it. We’ve got YouTube, Facebook and Instagram, and—oh my gosh—all the things and then, of course, all of the podcast apps like Spotify, Apple, and all the other ones that I don’t know.
You can access this anywhere—you can search “Tools to Create a Better Life.” You could probably even search my name, if you can figure out how to spell it and find it that way.
[00:50] What are we going to talk about this week? Well, I am in the midst of facilitating yet another phenomenal Foundation class, which is one of the classes from Access Consciousness. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.accessconsciousness.com for more information about all the amazing classes. It’s really where all of the tools that I share on this radio show are from—they are life changing and amazing.
[01:14] So, Tools to Change Anything. Yep—anything, because that’s what these tools do. You can actually utilize these tools to change anything.
[01:28] You hear me share them in all sorts of ways—maybe you’ve been following me a bit on Instagram and my reels or on TikTok lately where I’ve been sharing magical money tricks which you can use on anything. One, you can go opt in and get the FREE downloads: I did a video, there’s a PDF with five questions, and there’s phone wallpaper with my #1 question for more money. You can go grab that—that’s a gift for you. Basically, these tools can be used on anything.
[01:56] First tool! Now, I wouldn’t say there’s any such thing as the number one tool of all tools. If I was gonna say that, it’s this one: interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.
How do you use this? Before I go into this, even if you’ve been here for a while, even if you’ve used this tool a million times, take a moment and listen. I know what you’re like because I’m like that, too. [You’re] like, “I know how to use that!” and then, you stop paying attention. But let’s all just be present for a moment… okay, there we go.
[02:42] What you’re looking at with interesting point of view [and] using this tool is any time that you have an interesting point of view—anytime you’re judging, you’re comparing, you’re projecting, you’re expecting, you’re insane, or whatever it is, whenever you’re not being the allowance that you actually be—you want to use this tool. It’s so simple, just [say it] in your head: Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.
That’s what I do: I give myself some space between saying it to give space to the energy, to start dissipating it. You could do it really quickly—*faster pace* Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view—it just might not create what you’re looking for. It may [but] you just want to check in. That’s always the thing—you always just want to check in with yourself. If it’s changing it, do it however it works. For me, I know that that space in between gifts it that.
[03:53] Let’s say you’re driving to work, and you’re annoyed because there’s heavy traffic. You’re annoyed because it’s snowing, you’re annoyed because you left your partner in a tiff or something—whatever it is, [it] doesn’t matter. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view…
[04:15] Bring that up, think about it and repeat that over and over and over, and allow yourself the space to change it. All you’re doing is identifying it’s just a point of view, which means it’s not real, it’s not significant, it’s not black and white. It’s just an interesting point of view. You do that enough times [and] it no longer has a hold over you. Now, you have more space to make a different choice.
Whatever the problem is, whatever the thing is that isn’t working, whatever it is that you would like to change, add interesting point of view to it.
[04:54] Let’s say it’s something that occurred last week. You’re not in that moment, you’re remembering it. You’re reliving it, possibly. Maybe you’re having—maybe this is just me, pretty sure it’s not, though—of like where you’re replaying it in your head. “I should have said this, I shouldn’t have said that”—like that insanity.
All you have to do is just think of that thing, that situation, that person, that whatever. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… over and over until it just changes it. It doesn’t matter if it’s past [or] you’re worried about something coming up in the future. Same thing—think about it, repeat that over and over.
[05:38] I said this already [and] I’m going to repeat it again, though. You do not have to say this out loud. In fact, if you’re saying it to somebody, you’re probably being a superior bitch and stop it. Stop it. A lot of times, people find these tools and they start using them. But then, they start basically killing everyone around them with them. That’s not what these tools are for. Just for you, just for fun, never tell anyone.
If you’re aware that the person talking to you is having an interesting point of view, don’t tell them they’re having an interesting point of view. That’s not kind. [Instead], you, in your head, can say interesting point of view, they have that point of view so you can have more space with it.
[06:21] That is one tool, and you hear me talk about it all the time if you’ve been around a while. If you’re new here, hi! [It’s] nice to meet you. Otherwise, it’s just one of those that can change anything so quickly in my experience.
06:36 The other way that I’ve used it is for body stuff. Let’s say I wasn’t feeling well. I would actually just focus on where I’m not feeling well. Let’s say I was feeling congested—like a cold-like thing—I would focus on that. Focus isn’t the right word—I would be PRESENT with it. That’s what I’m looking for—I’d be present with that energy, the congestion, and interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view…
So simple, my sweet friends, so simple. For me, it changes it very, very quickly. So, that’s one tool to change anything.
[07:16] Another tool, and I haven’t probably shared this all that much. It’s not one that I’ve really used a whole lot. But I was talking about it in the Foundation class this morning which is just popping into my mind now.
[07:27] Let’s say you’re in a situation that you would like to be different—you’re frustrated with it, you’re upset with it, it’s not what you’d like it to be. A question you can ask: What is funny about this that I’m not getting?
Yeah, right? It just changes it. [It’s] because there’s always something funny about it. If you’re stuck in the drama-trauma of the thing, then you’re in a very solid, heavy, icky energy. But by asking What’s funny about this that I’m not getting?, there’s that lightness.
[08:02] Ultimately, guys, that’s what we’re always looking for—more lightness. When we’re in the problem, when you’re in the drama-trauma, when we’re in the crazy, that’s the contractive and that’s the heavy. What about the lightness? What about the lightness, my sweet friends? What’s funny about this I’m not getting is such a quick way to change it.
[08:23] The other way—different sort of a question, but very same idea. What’s right about this I’m not getting? Same idea, just a different energy to it.
[08:34] I know a lot of people when they hear that, they [would go], “No! If we’re choosing consciousness, we don’t do right and wrong so I can’t ask that question.” You can, but you just want to recognize we’re not asking from the place of what’s right about this so we can figure out what’s right—not from that.
Usually, what we’re doing before we become aware to ask that question is we’re in the wrongness. “What’s wrong with me? What’s wrong with this situation? What’s wrong with this person?” When we change it to “What’s right about this?”, we change the energy of the situation.
[09:06] It just depends. What’s funny about this (I really like that one) and what’s right about this, either one of those will change any situation because again, when there’s contraction, once we change it to lightness, that’s where the awarenesses, that’s where the possibilities is, and that is where the magic is.
[09:26] Another tool is to recognize that your point of view is what’s creating your reality. It’s your point of view. You don’t have to figure out what your point of view is and change that. You could, that’s one way, but a really quick kind of way around that is when you recognize you’re in something—there’s something going on—you don’t like, you know you’re choosing it, you know you’re creating it. You could ask: If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I create? What magic could I be here?
[10:01] It changes it because we’re not taking our time to figure out all the interesting points of views we’re playing with. We’re just saying, “Hey, if I didn’t hold on to any of this, what magic could I be? What magic could I create?” which then, guess what? We go from the heavy contraction to the lightness which is what we’re looking for. The stuff that’s going to change it for us is getting into that lightness, and whatever it takes to get there.
[10:28] This is just one really quick way around it, really quick acknowledgement that we are the creators of our life. A lot of times when we’re in that icky-ness, when we’re in the problem, drama, etc, we’re playing a victim. We’re going, “Well, I will change this, but that person won’t let me” or “This wouldn’t be happening if they didn’t do this” or “If the government wasn’t that…”
If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I be?
[10:56] It changes everything. With questions, we’re not looking for answers. When I asked that, I’m not going, “Okay, so what magic could I be? Let me figure out the magic I could be.” It’s not gonna work like that. It’s just asking that question, we’re gonna go to the lightness, and then the universe is going to deliver the magic. Okay? Our job is just to ask the question, be the question, be the lightness, change anything that isn’t light into lightness, and the universe will do the rest.
[11:27] Another tool to change anything is to always be in the question of yourself of what would I like to create here?
There’s so much value in the problem—we put so much energy into the problem. I need to think about the problem, I need to figure out the problem, I need to spin on the problem, I need to talk about the problem with the 10 people around me, and then I’ll fix the problem. And then, I won’t have the problem. And then, I’ll choose something different.
Sorry, [it] doesn’t work that way. The only time you’ll choose something different is when you choose something different. The value that we’ve put into the problem is what we need to stop. We need to ask ourselves, “Hey, what would I like to create here?”
[12:13] Again, let’s go to the example of you’re driving to work and you’re upset about the traffic. It’s really heavy traffic and you’re late already. You’re in that place of “this is so stupid and I shouldn’t have to deal with his traffic” and “I hate traffic and I left early so I didn’t have to” and all that stuff. That energy is not going to change anything.
However, [try] asking what would I like to create here? It’s often the exact opposite of what you’re creating. It’s often like, “I’d like to have ease with the traffic. I’d like to get to my appointment on time” and that’s all you need to do—turn it into what you’d like to create and then ask for that. The way that I asked sounds a little bit different than an ask, but it’s still an ask.
I wonder what it would be like to get to the appointment on time…. I wonder what it would be like to have ease with driving right now….
[13:08] I wonder about it, which is similar to a question. You could [also] ask What would it take? What would it take to have ease with this right now? What would it take to get to my appointment on time? What magic could I be to get there on time? You’re turning it into your ask of what you would like, which is getting you out of the solidity of the problem and into the lightness once again. That’s what we’re looking for.
[Those are] some really simple, easy-to-use tools, my sweet friends, to get you out of the problem and into the space [and] the lightness to change it as if by magic.
[13:45] Depending on when you’re watching this, sweet friends, I would love to invite you to the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, Rejections Book Club that I have starting on March 8, 2022.
Of course, if you’re listening later, you can always access the recordings and stuff—[the] link will be the same. You’ll find that link somewhere [and] if you can’t find it, let me know.
[14:06] Pool Party Bars and Foundation [is] in July of 2022—come and play! Bring your swimsuit and just so you know, the class is not in the pool. I’m sorry for those of you who would like that, but it is not. The class is in the class space and then before class, at lunch break, and after class, the pool is open for your use. Just for anybody who thinks that we’re having class in the pool, we are not. How does it get any better?
[14:35] [I’d] also love to invite you to come and chat with me. You guys hear all sorts of stories about me. You probably know me quite well based on what I share in all my content and my classes and everything. And [so], I’ve opened up a weekly Zoom where I chat with you. Anybody who would like to, you’ll find the link. You can opt in and you’ll get the email.
We just hop on Zoom for five to seven minutes and you just tell me about you. I’ve got some really fun questions to ask you just so that I can start to get to know who you are because I missed that. I really, really missed that.
Anyway, have a fabulous week sweet friends and I look forward to chatting again next week
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Tools to Clear Secret Agendas
Tools to Clear Secret Agendas
Now is the time, my sweet friend.
Secret agendas are something I’ve been clearing and playing with for years—probably ever since I started using the tools from Access Consciousness, which has been… 11 YEARS! It’s been a long time and yet, there still so much to receive about it.
Join me on this week’s episode as we talk about secret agendas: what it is, where it might be lurking in your life, and of course, some magical clearings from Access Consciousness to help you change it and create the life and living you truly desire.
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.
[00:11] I’m laughing a little bit because if you’re watching this on video, I have a cup in front of me. It’s one of my cups, and it says “F*ck…” and it has a whole bunch of places you could put a check mark, like “f*ck you”, “f*ck this”, “f*ck it”, “fuck-a-doodle-doo”.
However as I’m sitting here, I’m wondering, “I’m not sure it’s going to read correctly in the video.” So, I just started to giggle as I hit record had to share that with you.
[00:38] Okay. What are we going to talk about today? Tools to Clear Secret Agendas. Now, I have done radio shows on secret agendas before. We will link them somewhere for you if you want to check them out.
[00:55] In a very recent class that I had with Access Consciousness, the Certified Facilitator Training in February of 2022, they spoke about secret agendas a little bit. I did what I do: if there’s a certain energy on something, I go and I do a little bit more research on it just to be a little bit more aware.
Oh, my gosh. I really am getting secret agendas on a level like I’ve never got before. It’s amazing. Truly, this is something I have been clearing and playing with for years and years and years, probably ever since I started using the tools from Access Consciousness, which has been 11 years. So, it’s been a long time and still, there still so much to receive about it.
[01:43] So, I wanted to do this show basically based on something that I read in the reference materials. If you’re not familiar, reference materials are things you can purchase from Access Consciousness after you take Foundation and then, after you take the Choice of Possibilities class. It’s all of the stuff that has been in the Manuals all of the years.
What I don’t recommend you doing—because I did this back in 2012—is printing it all off. I had binders and binders and binders of pages. Instead, keep them on your devices as PDFs, and they’re easy to search. Anyway, lesson learned.
[02:20] So, what I read and what I want to just talk about here—that’s why I have my computer with me, I want to share directly from it to make sure that I get it correct as I’m sharing it. But what I want to talk about first is like, what are secret agendas? What the heck are you talking about, Glenyce?
[02:41] Really, there are things that we decide, there are decisions we make and then, we’re never able to change that. Something as simple as, let’s say, you decided you don’t like the color blue. Maybe you were in another life and you decided you don’t like the color blue, then you’re not able to receive from blue or anything around blue, or even start to like the color blue based on that secret agenda.
[03:15]Now, of course, that’s kind of a silly example, because it’s just a color, what does it matter? Except this is every area of our life. Every area – we have secret agendas with money, we have secret agendas with people, we have secret agendas with our body, we have secret agendas with giving. And so, this is what I wanted to share with you.
[03:39] Gary Douglas says, “Secret agendas of giving are what stop us from receiving. If any part of your life is not abundant, you are giving something as a way not to receive.“
[03:58] “You’re giving something as a way not to receive.”
Ah, this was huge for me when I read that. Just looking at my life, of how much—and especially prior to using these tools from Access Consciousness—I would give, and give, and give. And then, I would be resentful. And then, I would make the other person wrong. And then, I would make myself wrong because I made the other person right. You get the insanity of this?
But really, how much are we giving to not receive? What if it’s not about just receiving either? What if it’s the gifting and the receiving and the receiving and the gifting?
[04:39] In this reality, we have what’s called “give and take.” I give you something and I take something from you, or I give you something [and] you take something from me, like, whatever way it is. That’s very unnatural for us. If you’re listening to this or you’re watching this, it’s a very unnatural energy for us.
[05:00] What is natural for us is “gifting and receiving,” which is what Gary’s talking about here. When we have a secret agenda with giving, we’re doing the “give and take” rather than the “gifting and the receiving.” The gifting and the receiving is where we don’t even know who the gift are is and who the receiver is.
[05:20] I always use this as an example when I talk about gifting and receiving. It’s this podcast—the radio show, for me, is the best example I have of gifting and receiving, although I probably have many more, but it’s the best example.
[05:34] If you’ve ever listened to a podcast or radio show, or watched a video where the person is doing give and take, it’s not that fun to listen to because there is this funky energy of “I’m giving you this but now I must take from you.” Some people do maybe a video to invite them to an offer that they have, and I always share my offers in here—again, if you’ve been here for a while, you know I do this—but it’s from this place of “Hey, here’s what I’ve got going on and I’d love you to come and play, but I’m not doing this so you will come to that.”
[05:34] People would say, “You’re giving us this information—you’re giving us content, and we’re taking it from you” or however you want to see it, like THAT energy. But it’s like no for me.
The reason that I’ve done this show since 2013, like, oh my gosh, is because as I’m gifting you this information, I’m receiving more as you receive this information. You’re gifting to me. Who’s the gift or who’s the receiver? I’m not sure. So, it’s a totally different energy than the giving and taking.
[05:37] That’s an example of give and take: I will give you some content, and then you will come to my stuff – that’s not going to last. That would not excite me to do a radio show every week for that. That just doesn’t have the energy—it’s that gifting and receiving that we’re looking for. If we have secret agendas with giving, then gifting and receiving would be very difficult.
[07:20] Let me run this clearing that Gary has also in the section:
What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a good zillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
(That is the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness, if you’re not familiar you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com to find out all about how it works.)
[07:57] What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[08:46] We’re talking about this in the sense of giving and receiving, and we have secret agendas anywhere in our life where there isn’t THAT flow. Where there isn’t what we would like it to be like, there are secret agendas there. It’s kind of difficult to put words to them in that sense. I gave the example of the blue book to kind of give you an idea, but that’s such a limited way of the secret agendas we have.
[09:21] One of the things that was talked about in the Certified Facilitator Training that Dain said was if you are making other people wrong, that’s a secret agenda. How often do we do that? Maybe that’s not really loud in your world, but how about making YOU wrong? Yeah, that’s a secret agenda, too. It’s EVERYWHERE. It’s everywhere.
[09:52] So, the number one tool, really—not that I usually put them in order or anything like that, and I would say that this would be where you want to start—is basically a fill-in-the-blank clearing. This is one of the things that I love from Access Consciousness: they create these energetic clearings that are really simple to use. We can just fill in the blank with whatever thing we have going on. I’m going to read it to you again to make sure that I get it correct:
What secret agenda with _____ – this is where you would put in whatever it is: with making myself wrong, with spending all my money, with hating my body, etc. Again, whatever you got going on in there.
What secret agenda with _______ do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute ______?
After the word “institute,” basically you want to put in what you would like it to be like. I’m going to use an example from the reference materials. Again, about receiving:
What secret agenda for [[never having the joy of receiving]] do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute [[as joyful living]]? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
You’re basically just following it up with the opposite of what you’re clearing, of what basically what you would like it to be. It’s two spots in that clearing to fill in the blank.
[11:26] Now, if you didn’t know this already, you can get the show notes to this. You can go to the web page where the radio show is, which is just www.glenycehughes.com. You’ll see Radio Show, click that, [and then] you can go to this week’s [episode] and the show notes are underneath.
[11:39] Or, they’re e-mailed to you every Sunday if you’re on my list. If you’re not on my list, there’ll be a link somewhere to get on my list to access these every Sunday in your email. If you prefer, just go to the webpage and you can access them there to find these clearings and the blank one so that you can start using this [and] really, to start changing all of the secret agendas.
They’re secret, you know—you’re not aware of them. The only way we become aware of them is to recognize something isn’t the way we would like it to be—we just know we have secret agendas there.
[12:14] Now, the other clearing that you might not be familiar with—or you might be, depending on how much you’ve been playing with these tools from Access—is “What JAILs are you using.” JAILs is an acronym [for] Judgments, Agendas, Inventions, and Lies. That’s another great clearing to use:
What JAILs are you using to create the dominance of E = MC2, creating the _____ you are choosing?
[12:41] You can keep it really simple like that. It’s the same idea: it’s clearing all of those energies, including the agendas. But if you want to specifically clear the secret agendas, then this clearing works really well. It’s basically, again, just to fill in the blank. You could write them down, you could record yourself on audio.
[13:03] On my phone, which is an iPhone, I use, I believe it’s called “Voice Record Pro.” We’ll have a link below with it—I’m not sure that we can even link to it. But basically, what you’re looking for when you want to do that is an app that you can record to, and then you can loop it. You can hit ‘play’ and tell it to not stop until you tell it to stop. That’s what you want.
[13:30] Now, if you really wanted to keep it super simple—maybe this is almost like too much and you can’t even—every time you recognize something isn’t the way you would like it to be – I destroy and uncreate all of the secret agendas I have with this right now. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You can keep it super, super simple like that, also.
[13:30] When we talk in Access about clearing loops, that’s what we’re doing. We’re looping the clearing over and over and over for greater and greater and greater clearing.
We’ll also put a link to all of the clearings that I sell. I sell a lot of ones that are specifically things I’ve worked on and changed. They’re called my Personal Clearing Loops because that’s what they are – my personal clearing loops that I’ve put into a way that you could listen to them. We’ll have a link with that, too. Basically, what you’re doing is clearing all of the energies with whatever it is you’re filling in the blanks with.
[14:31] The other thing that you want to start asking, if this is something you would like to become more aware of, is What is my secret agenda here? Now, we’re not necessarily looking for the words to explain what our secret agenda is. It’s just bringing to light (1) we’re acknowledging we have a secret agenda in whatever we’re dealing with, and (2) it’ll start to create more space for you to be able to choose something different.
[15:03] Anytime we acknowledge something, it changes everything. This is what you’re looking to do with this: get out of the “this is the way it is.” Right? Maybe you’ve never liked the color blue and it never made sense to you. Maybe your roommate wanted to paint the house blue because they love blue, and you got in a big fight and you haven’t talked to them since. This might start to make a little bit of sense.
[15:31] Again, we’re not saying that this is always what’s going on. It’s just probably a lot of the stuff that doesn’t make sense to you, the things that are like “what in the hell is going on here?” A question that I really catch myself asking and [I] change it when I do – “What the hell’s wrong with me?” [It’s] not a question to ask, my sweet friends. Please don’t ask that question. That’s not a question, but that is the energy often. When we’re operating from secret agendas, that’s often what’s going on, because those secret agendas are secret.
[16:09] We’re avoiding the color blue. We’re fighting with people who want to paint the house blue, and we’re ending friendships because of it. ” [What] the hell’s wrong with me?” No – What secret agenda do I have here? Or What secret agendas? It’s probably not just one, it’s probably many of them.
[16:28] The other thing that secret agendas do is they eliminate everything that could contribute. Right ,wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Again, what if blue could contribute to us? If we’ve got a secret agenda that we hate blue, we’re not allowing it to contribute because we’ve resisted it. We’ve pushed it out of our world.
[16:52] That fits for so many other things. Look at your life where you’re in resisting and reacting, or aligning and agreeing, where you’re making something right or you’re making it wrong – those are secret agendas. [It’s] because the only thing that’s natural for us is to have no point of view.
[17:10] I know it doesn’t often feel natural. It feels more natural to have the point of view. But really, that’s only because of what we’ve surrounded ourselves with and what goes on on the planet—that it seems natural, but it’s not natural. What’s natural is not having a point of view.
[17:27] So, when you have a point of view, you want to recognize that “Oh my gosh, what secret agendas do I have here?” or All of the secret agendas I have here, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You can just say POC and POD. You can shorten the Clearing Statement if all of those words are too many.
[17:48] Any choice or decision that you make that eliminates your awareness is where you have a secret agenda. This would be if you only fly on a certain airline. Let’s say you have points with— I have points with Star Alliance even though I haven’t flown in a few years. I get points when I fly on Star Alliance flights, so Air Canada is one of them—I’m Canadian so it’s one when we’re traveling long distances. That’s usually the airline we would take because that’s usually the airline that goes to those places from where we live.
[18:28] If I’m operating from a secret agenda to only collect points, this is my guide in life: I must collect the most airline points that I can, then I’m not aware if a different airline would actually create greater. I’ve shut that down. I’ve now got a secret agenda to only fly with Air Canada or with Star Alliance partners. That shuts out I don’t know how many airlines there are in the world and how many are Star Alliance, but that shuts out a lot of airlines.
[19:00] That’s what Gary’s talking about with this information. [It] is to start recognizing those places where you’re saying “this, not this” or “only this, never this.” It can be the certain people you hang out [with], the certain places you live, the airlines you travel, the food you eat—all the things. Those all become secret agendas.
[19:23] Think about it: we’ve lived trillions of lifetimes, which means we potentially have way more secret agendas running our life than what’s actually possible, which is the awareness and space and infinite choice. If there’s anywhere in your life where you don’t feel like you have choice: All the secret agendas I have here, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You get the idea.
[19:56] In the reference materials alone, when I searched— I just searched the word “secret.” I can’t even remember how many or—let me just see… no, it’s not there. It was [used] thousands and thousands of times in that one document, and it was only one document I was looking at that it had been utilized. Again, it’s not something we talk about as much anymore and yet, there’s a lot there—at least there was for me.
[20:23] Now, this may not read for you at all. Chances are if you’re still listening, it does. You want to be using that clearing and that fill-in-the-blank clearing. That’s the other thing, and I’ve said this clearing a million times. What I also know—I’ve seen it in other people and I’ve certainly seen it in myself—where I read something or I hear something and then when I repeat it, it’s not actually the same. So then, it’s like, “What are the secret agendas do I have with that information that I’m twisting it a little bit?”
[20:58] You might have seen that. If you’re familiar with the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, there’ve been people along the way that have went in and added words or taken out words or changed it up and it’s like, okay, and cool. I mean, that’s a choice that they have. It’s just interesting. I wonder what secret agendas they have with the Clearing Statement that… anyway, it’s just interesting.
[21:21] This is why I’m going back to my book and reading it to you: to ensure that I don’t have secret agendas with clearing secret agendas. So:
What secret agenda with ______ do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute _______?
(Again at the institute piece, that’s where you’d put what you would like.)
What secret agenda with [[never enough money]] do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute as [[way more money than you could spend and never enough as if by magic]]? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[22:04] Again, we’ll link to the other secret agenda. I know for sure there’s one show that I did. I’ve probably talked about it in other shows, but one specifically on secret agendas years and years ago. We’ll link to that if you’d like more information about this stuff.
[22:18] Now, I would love to invite you to some awesomeness that I’ve got coming up. Depending on when you listen to this, we are going to be running a clearing for 30 days 30 times a day. It’s all about being Hideously Successful. Yes. We start that [on] March 2, 2022. Of course, it’s available for purchase afterwards, too. You can always find it in my store.
[22:42] And then on March 8, we are going to do a 6-week Book Club on the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, Rejections – the PESJRs. It’s a book by Gary Douglas that really does a deep dive into more of this, really. Secret agendas, projections, expectations—all of those are all mixed up. We will go through that.
We’ll have two zooms a week, we’ll cover one chapter over two zooms each week for six weeks. That starts March 8, I believe. You can check out the link if you want more information. [I] would love to have your come play, my sweet friends.
[23:21] I also have a FREE gift for you: you can go and check out the Magical Money Tricks. There’s a video and a PDF with five questions that you can ask, and then some wallpaper for your phone that you can put with my #1 question to actualize money as if by magic. You’ll find the link to go and access that, too.
[23:45] So… I wonder what we could create if we allowed all of these secret agendas to be gone as if by magic. Anything that doesn’t allow that – right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
Have a great week, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again next week.
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