Giving Up Everything

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[00:00:00]: So, did I give up everything? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. I am at, if you’re watching the video, at this beautiful lake called Bright Sand Lake in Saskatchewan. Is very close to where I grew up, where many of my family members still live around. And hubby and I are here for a couple of weeks. We are petless. We are not doing a pet sit right now. We could not actually find one in the area. So we have rented a cabin here and I mean, it’s gorgeous. Now, it’s also very cloudy. So I did go in in the water yesterday in early June. It’s amazing. They call it a cold plunge. That’s really what it is.

 

[00:00:45]: So, anyway, did I really give up everything? I received an email from, someone who had came into my world when I was facilitating classes from Access Consciousness. Many of you are from that time, maybe before, and stayed with me or maybe, you know, came back after, I left Access Consciousness. However you’re here, I’m grateful you’re here.

 

But this person sent in this question that basically the way that I read it was, why did you give up everything? And I’m like, give up everything? And I realized that, you know, to some people, it might seem like I gave up everything. And I when I responded to the email, the first thing I said was I didn’t give up anything, and I no longer facilitate the classes.

 

[00:01:37]: And what it really made me look at so I’m so grateful. If you happen to be the one who sent in that question, please know how grateful I am for it because it really got me to look at it for from a different angle for myself because, wow, yes. People around me could really see it as that I gave up everything. I was a facilitator with access consciousness for over 10 years. I have 10 years of content out there that is me promoting Access Consciousness, whether it was my classes or, the founders classes or whatever. But it’s it’s all about the tools from Access Consciousness. So I gave up everything. And yet, I don’t feel like I gave up anything. In fact,

 

[00:02:19]: I feel like by me choosing to actually take a stand about something that I just don’t agree with. It just doesn’t sit right with me. When I think of consciousness, I do not think about cursing people to die because you disagree with them. So that is that is for any of you who didn’t watch my my video about it, last September or haven’t heard me talk about it. Or I have a 3 part series. We’ll put a link if you wanna purchase it and really deep dive into into all of it with myself, kind of my life beyond access consciousness.

 

There was a lot of me that I gave up to be a part of access consciousness, and that was my choice. So I’m not doing this as they’re wrong and and I’m I’m right and they’re horrible. It’s none of that. There’s there’s a lot of stories out there right now. The, Australian news I can’t remember the exact name

 

[00:03:15]: There’s a whole newspaper in Australia that is doing amazing articles about all the stuff that people should be aware of that, I was a little bit aware of, not not nearly aware of to the degree that it’s going on. But that’s not what I want to talk about it from. I really want to talk about it from what I chose. 

 

And what I chose was to really, basically, separate myself from me because it didn’t go with a lot of what was taught in Access Consciousness. So, when I first started, I was actually a professional medium. Meaning I talked to dead people, people paid me to talk to their dead people and do sessions. Now, I was ready to be done doing that, it was just I’d been doing it for over 10 years. I was ready to be done. And when I entered Access Consciousness,

 

[00:04:04]: one of the things that they spoke about was how disempowering that can be. And I really took that completely. Like, that’s disempowering and I need to stop. And again, this is all me, all my choice. And so I did. So I didn’t. I stopped doing mediumship readings. I didn’t stop right away. It was over a course of a few years until I built up my access business enough to be able to do that. So I did that. 

 

So I cut that off and I see that now. I see that one, I was looking for a way out because I was I was ready to be done, doing those sessions. So it was great for that. It gave me kind of a reason and and a justification for it, but it still cut off a piece of myself because connecting with the spirit world, dead people, angels, guides, whatever you wanna call them, that’s a huge part of my capacities. 

 

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And it wasn’t really until I started, stepping away from access that I started looking at what I had what I had given up, what I had cut off for myself to be within that organization. And to, in a lot of ways, especially early early on, to be liked and to be, seen as someone and, you know, all the crazy that goes along with that.

 

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So what I really see is that I didn’t give everything up. I didn’t let go of everything. I really came back to me with my choice of really seeing what is and really being present with what is. And not, again, not from that wrongness, not that not that any of what I chose was wrong. I don’t regret it at all. I don’t look at those 10 plus years and wish I chose something different. I really don’t. What I know is that, I mean, I gained a lot. There were so many gifts in it for myself.

 

[00:06:24]: And the tools, I don’t use a lot of them now. Some of them I do. The ones that I do use though are tools that were brought into access from other modalities and such. So I have done my research to see what what was brought in and what what actually works for me. Not from access tools are bad or wrong because they are not at all. They have helped many many people over the years. It’s just that a lot of times we take it as this is the access tool and yet actually it was brought in from something else, which great. That’s a lot of modalities do

that. They extrapolate where they go, you know, to different modalities and they bring in bits

and pieces and all of that. And so I just wanted to get clear with myself.

 

[00:07:09]: And then that way too, when I’m talking about it, if it’s not a tool that I’ve, in a sense, kind of created on my own, I’ve brought it in from another modality. I wanna be honest with that is. I wanna say, hey. This is a tool from Access Consciousness or from EFT training or I mean, there’s so many things that I’ve done over the years. 

 

And so, you know, kind of going back to that, like, did I give myself up? Did I just, you know, lose it all? And it’s like, I feel like I gained so much. I feel like I’m so much more of me now than I was ever before. And I would say a part of that is because I don’t judge those 10 plus years. I don’t see that as, you know, bad a bad choice or bad choices. It really is just the recognition that I I chose that. And there were so much to be grateful for the the as we would say in access, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Right? It’s not just like, oh, you know, those guys do a certain thing or they shouldn’t be doing that or any of that. There’s all of that, of course. 

 

And you could again, you can read all that stuff from the Australian paper, and I understand there’s more coming out and there’s videos and there’s all sorts of things. So you really want to kind of get the the bigger picture, be sure to check that stuff out. But you don’t have to either. So, you know,

 

[00:08:27]: So, you know, you don’t have to defend staying if if you’re within access consciousness and you want to stay there. Please just stay there. Enjoy it. You do not have to defend it or, you know, judge yourself for staying or anything. For some people, it’s their entire business. You know, for me, it was my entire business. And from the moment that I chose to no longer be an access consciousness certified facilitator, I had an entire year to start shifting and changing things within my business. 

 

Now if that would have been, you know, would have I done that on the day that that occurred? No. Because that’s not smart. Same as, you know, so many years ago when I when I knew that I was done being a professional medium, I didn’t stop the day that it was, like, clear that that was where I was going. It’s like I actually need to be I need to continue. This is our livelihood. So I need to look at how this fits. And because the event happened on the recertification of my license, I had an entire year. I knew I wasn’t recertifying, but I wasn’t. Nobody knew, basically, for that year, and that was more about planning for myself and setting myself up. And again, not because the tools are wrong or scary or bad or evil or any of that, they’re great tools. Absolutely.

 

[00:09:41]: So use what works. And really, what I what I often remind myself in any situation where I’m making a change is that for the most part I want to say a 100%, but I don’t think it’s fair to say a 100% because I’m sure there’s times where that’s not true. But for the most part, when we make a change, it actually does work out for the better. It does create greater. 

 

Now, it doesn’t necessarily mean in that moment it feels greater or that, or that it appears even greater. It might take a while. You know, if you go through a divorce, you may not actually get to that greater. You might not get there for a year or 2, but you’ll get there. I’m sure of it. Again, I can’t say a 100% of the time, but I would say most of the time, any change we make will invite us to greater invite us to greater of ourselves. 

 

[00:10:37]: And so in that case, it might be the greatness that that invites us to is to choose something different. We might choose a certain, you know, person to be our in, you know, a significant other for us and then realize that this isn’t that person. This isn’t who we would like. And so we make a different choice. So, again, it might not be in that moment that you’re saying, oh, this was greater, but it could get you to greater. And this is we talk a lot about this, hubby andI in our pet sitting adventures.

 

[00:11:07]: We actually have a brand new podcast. It is called paw prints and passports, exploring the world through pet sitting. So I’ll put a link above or below to, to check it out if you would like. And it’s one of the things that we talked about in our very first episode was you don’t know until you know. You don’t know until you try. 

 

So I didn’t even know looking after dogs that we didn’t have a fenced yard for, how difficult that was until I looked after dogs that we didn’t have a fenced yard for. So, if we if we get out of this idea that there’s there’s a right thing, there’s a right person, there’s a right situation, there’s a right time, there’s a right job, there’s a right like, if we get out of that idea, then everything can actually just be an invitation to something greater. Because now we know, we’re very clear, that if it says no fenced yard, we’re probably not going to apply.

 

[00:12:01]: However, doesn’t mean we won’t. We’re also flexible. If we know we have 3 days to fill between sits, we probably would take a sit that doesn’t have a fenced yard. Means a little extra work for those 3 days, but actually rather have that in a lot of cases than actually rent a hotel or something like that. 

 

So again, we’ve got to be flexible with it. We’ve got to just be open to the idea that if we’re willing to receive it, there’s so much that we’re being gifted constantly. If we don’t go into the wrongness of it, if we never see it as giving up everything or losing everything or, you know, this is the worst thing ever.

 

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And, of course, I’m gonna just preface that with this is I’m talking more general life stuff. Now there’s times where this is the worst thing ever. Of course, we you know, someone we love dies or something like that. Then those aren’t the times I’m talking about. I’m just talking about kind of general choices and such. And so then we could look at it as like, okay. And I love asking. Asking, alright, what what is this inviting me to?

 

[00:13:05]: And I love asking. Asking, alright, what is this inviting me to? What greatness is this inviting me to? And that question is actually from a friend of mine. Her name is Tanya. She’s brilliant. And she was in a class of mine years ago, and she had had a lot of, body problems going on. And she started asking that question. When most of it, to the degree her body that she was struggling with her body, most of us wouldn’t have just got out of bed. Like, that’s how bad it was in, you know, me looking in. And she started asking herself, okay. So what what is this greatness? What am I being invited to? What is my body inviting me to with this? What?

 

[00:13:43]: Like, brilliant. Because you get out of the victim of it into the possibilities of it. So if there’s anything in your life that you’re looking at and you feel like you’re lost everything or you gave up everything or you made a choice that wrecked everything, or it’s the end of the the world because you didn’t choose this thing, or whatever.

 

Please just stop and ask. Okay. What greatness is this inviting me to? What is possible now that wasn’t possible before? What am I aware of now that I wasn’t aware of before this?

 

[00:14:17]: Right? It just puts us into the what I often call is like that. We’re infinitely creative. So it puts us into that creative space, into putting our creative energy into creating greater than creating less. Because it’s I’m gonna say it’s easy to sit around and complain. It’s easy to say how horrible something is, how awful it is, to act like a victim. Just sit back and be like, oh, darn.

Too bad. Guess I’ll just sit here. Now, honestly, I’ll just sit here. You know, if you’re watching the video you’ll see I’m pointing to the lake. I’ll just sit here, but that’s a different that’s a different space. So yeah, there we are. There there’s my little spin on on giving up and letting go of everything. And, man, it’s just an invitation to greater. And especially when things are out of alignment for you. Like that letting that stuff go, having the courage to let that stuff go that truly doesn’t work for you. There’s a freedom there my friend that I cannot put words to.

 

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Links mentioned:

* Free Gift – Morning Routine to Manifest Your Dream Life

 

* Manifesting Membership

* Pawprints and Passports: Exploring the World through Pet Sitting

 

* My Life Beyond Access Consciousness

 

* Money, Power, Control and Sex: Inside Access Consciousness Australian News article

* 4 week Journey to Engaging with Your Energetic Team

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