Do You Do Failure?

Apr 23, 2023 | Radio Show

Do You Do Failure?

Turn setbacks into success.

Failure is something we all experience at some point in our lives. That is why in this episode, listen in as I debunk myths surrounding failure and share tips on how you can turn any situation you think you might have failed around. Now is the time to stop spinning in this rabbit hole and receive more than you ever did before.

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[00:00:00] Do you do failure? As you can see on my t-shirt, I don’t do failure. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:17] If you’re listening to this as a podcast, I have a t-shirt on that literally says “I don’t do failure.” it was gifted to me from my friend, Monica Froese, and I love her programs. I love her stuff. I love her shop. She is the one who’s assisted me in creating my new Shopify store. Oh my gosh. She sent me this t-shirt and I love it, and it inspired me to do this week’s radio show all about failure.

[00:00:46] It’s something that I would say every one of us, maybe 99.9% of us, experience at some point. What I wanted to start off with was really debunking some myths about failure and then some tips for failure. Not like tips to fail, but tips to really turn that failure around.

[00:01:12] #1. The first myth is that failure is actually real.

I know. I’m gonna do a whole radio show on something that’s not real. But it’s something that we’ve bought as real for so long that it’s worth a whole radio show on.

[00:01:27] When I say failure isn’t real, I mean that when we judge that we failed, that’s when we fail. When something doesn’t go the way we would like it to and we receive that information, we receive the awareness from it, it’s actually a gift. It’s not a failure. To me, the trick of it is when you’re feeling like a failure, what you wanna look at is what could you receive from it. What could you receive from that situation?

[00:02:03] Myth #2 is that whatever you failed at means you’re not cut out for it.

That is such a lie. It could be lots of things. When we group it together and we say, “I tried to run a marathon and I didn’t do it,” it doesn’t mean you’re not cut out to run a marathon. It might mean you require different support. It might mean that you require a different strategy. It might mean a bazillion things. It doesn’t always mean you’re not cut out for it.

[00:02:43] We’ve really got to look at that because to me, it’s a mindset shift where you’re aware of something you would like, you tried it, and it didn’t turn out the way you would like it to. Throwing it out and saying, “No, I won’t do that again” or “I can’t do it” or “I’m not cut out for it” is so unkind to you.

[00:03:09] You could turn it around. Look at what would it take. What would it take to run a marathon? Body, what do you require to run a marathon? Turn it around. Ask your body. It’s your body that’s running the marathon, so include your body.

[00:03:25] Myth #3 is that failure is the end of the road.

That’s it. It’s done. You can’t do anything else. Better not try anything else. Let’s say you started a business and it didn’t work out the way you would’ve liked it to. Now, you have to go back to being employed… no, you don’t. There’s about a bazillion options between A and B. What else? What was it about the thing that you tried that didn’t work for you?

[00:03:58] Here’s the other thing that I know. When we are trying something out or when we’re choosing something, if we are not 100% in, we are really not going to get it very far. I don’t mean that you should force yourself to be 100% in. If you have to force yourself, you’re not. It probably won’t work for you anyway.

[00:04:26] It actually has nothing to do with failure, it has to do with being honest with yourself. What would you like? To me, there’s a level of self honesty required in our everyday life, in being successful in anything. It doesn’t matter if it’s business or anything.

[00:04:45] For myself, I’ve been playing a lot with this incredible — I call it a “magic wand” because I love it. It’s got a different frequency, it does a lot of healing, a lot of energetics, and a lot of magic, and it’s just incredible. I was looking at how to set up a business with it and I had some really cool ideas because that’s something I have a lot of.

[00:05:08] Luckily, I started looking at what that would all entail. To do it the way that I was gonna do it was like going to be a lot. A lot of my energy, a lot of time. I was like, “That’s not really so fun for me.” All of those pieces that were involved the way I was going to do it, it’s just like, “It’s not so fun for me.”

[00:05:33] If you would like information, reach out. I will get it for you and I will still sell them, but I’m not gonna do it the way that I had all those ideas for because I know it’s not fun for me. I’ve done that before. I’ve set things up that weren’t fun for me that seemed like a really good idea, and guess what? They didn’t work out because they weren’t fun for me.

[00:05:57] For me, there’s an energy with that. I don’t mean it’s like I sit around and do nothing and that’s the only way I’ll do business. That’s not it at all. I love to work. I love to work in my business. I actually call it “play,” but there are different things that I don’t love to do and I know myself well enough at this point to know that.

[00:06:18] Self honesty, to me, is such a huge piece of this whole failing thing because if we’re judging it as failure, we’re not being honest with ourself. We’re not looking at, “What of that could have I chose differently? What of that didn’t I desire to choose? What isn’t fun for me that I’m forcing myself to do?” I mean, there’s so many different ways that we can go with that.

[00:06:40] Myth #4: Failure is something to be ashamed of.

Now, this is huge guys. I actually discussed this on the last Real Conversations, Real Change. This is a monthly membership that I’ve got going on, and we talked a lot about shame and how we actually use it to stop ourselves.

[00:07:01] There are times when maybe we personally require assistance or help and we don’t reach out because we don’t want anybody to know what we’re going through. We want everybody just to think we’re great and happy, and everything’s perfect but that’s such bullshit.

If we’re ashamed of what we’ve failed at, we’re not ever gonna receive from it. We probably won’t sit down and talk with people who could give us some insight, give us some awareness, or maybe get some coaching, or go to a class on it, or whatever it is.

[00:07:35] If we just don’t allow ourselves to ever choose shame again and just recognize what it is — it’s just distraction. If I’m ashamed about something I failed at, what does that do for me? Nothing, except keeps me spinning in the shame, which never allows me to create greater.

The trick is to recognize there’s nothing ever to be ashamed of. Shame is just a distraction. What could you receive from that situation? Who could you talk to about it?

[00:08:06] Now, I don’t mean that if you’re going through something that you should, you know, say, post about it on Facebook, because there’s a lot of people that you probably don’t wanna share that with. But there will be people that you could and it could really allow you to grow as a person and grow in further choices in that area that you feel like you failed in.

[00:08:26] Myth #5: Failure is a reflection of your worth as a person.

Ah, stop it! Don’t go there. Don’t go there. It’s not! As I said earlier, I would say that every person on the planet has had a setback, felt like they failed, judged failure, or chose something and it didn’t work out the way that they wanted. Every one of us in one way, shape, or form has done that, so how could it be a reflection of us, of our self-worth?

[00:09:00] I mean, self-worth isn’t something I even usually talk about because it’s so mixed in. There’s so many lies attached to self-worth. But if I was going to define self-worth, the way that I’m speaking about it with this is self-worth is about how you be in all the situations.

[00:09:21] When you’re in a situation where you feel like you’re failing, how are you being in that situation? Are you hiding it? Are you ashamed? Are you playing small? Are you playing the victim or are you standing up going, “Holy shit… well, that didn’t work out the way that I would’ve liked it to. Now, what?” Big difference.

[00:09:42] I know for myself when I have done that. When I’ve been ashamed and tried to hide it and not want to talk about it. All I was doing to myself was spinning in the judgment of it. It was just going on and on in my head, and I did that with, you know, relationships. I did that with business stuff. I did that with friendship stuff.

[00:10:02] I mean, every area of my life I’ve done that with, and only in the past, probably 20 years, that I’ve really been willing to be way more honest with myself, willing to be way kinder to myself, and have that level of honesty with me and not from, “You know what? I was stupid” and blah, blah, blah. That’s not honesty, that’s judgment. But an honesty of like, “Wow this really didn’t turn out the way that I would’ve liked it to. Now what?”

Now what?

[00:10:34] Myth #6: Failure is always a bad thing.

Here’s the thing, guys. If you stop judging — let’s change that. If we stop judging good or bad, like, stopped using those references ever, everything would change because to say that success is good and failure is bad puts so many limits on what you could receive. Whereas if you don’t have that, if you choose something and it turns out better than you could imagine and you receive that, and you choose something and it turns out way worse than you could have imagined and you receive that, then none of it is good or bad. It’s all receiving. You get way more awareness, way more information.

[00:11:22] Recognize that in where you might be judging yourself with that, where you might be saying to yourself, “Oh, I’m so bad. I’m so wrong” or “I shouldn’t have chose that” or… stop it. Stop it. Failure is only failure if you’re judging it. Otherwise, it’s beautiful information. Incredible awarenesses are available when you’re willing to receive from it.

[00:11:47] Those are just some myths that I’ve come up with that really will allow you to start looking at all the lies you’ve told yourself about failure. And now for some tips on how to embrace it, how to really turn it around.

[00:12:03] #1 is embracing those things, situations, events, whatever, that you’ve judged as a failure.

Embrace them. Look at them. Get present with them. Get honest with yourself about them. It will truly change everything for you, because then all of those judgeable offenses that you’ve decided will no longer be judgeable offenses. You’ll be really present with, “Wow, you know what? I didn’t desire to do that, and I thought it was a good idea, or somebody suggested it so I did it” or whatever it might be, or “It was a really good idea. I loved it. It didn’t work out this way. How could it work out?”

Get to change it around you. You get to receive from it, receive all the awarenesses from it, and then turn it into whatever it is that you would like to turn it into.

[00:12:52] Tip #2: Pivot when necessary.

[00:12:56] Now, whenever I hear or say the word “pivot,” I think of the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. episode where they were trying to move a couch upstairs, that it would never go up and Ross kept saying, “Pivot! Pivot!” that’s always what comes to mind so I always have a little giggle with that word.

[00:13:13] Please be willing to pivot. I would say, and I’m gonna speak from a business standpoint right now, this is so necessary right now because everything is changing now. Everything has always changed, but I don’t know about you. It just seems like it’s changing more and more and more. What worked in business even six months ago isn’t really working now. So we have to be willing to pivot and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot, and pivot. It’s not wrong. It’s not failing.

[00:13:46] If you see somebody who’s maybe never pivoted, maybe they have one business model and they’ve kept it that way, and it outcreates every year, good for them! Let’s celebrate them and recognize when we require to pivot.

[00:13:59] If we put our energy into competition or into “Why do they have that and I don’t,” that’s a really crappy use of your creative energy, my sweet friends. Put it into, “Okay, now what? Now what?”

[00:14:13] Here’s a little thing from me to you. If you’ve never recognized that change is what inspires you, you might wanna start looking at that. Now, I can’t say for sure that’s for you, but for most people who hang out with me, listen to my radio shows, come into my classes, all the things, change is what lights us up. Doing the same thing the same way over and over and over and over and over usually doesn’t work so well for us. You’ll only know for you about that.

[00:14:44] The other thing I wanted to mention as I talk about business is I’ve got a whole Business Success Series coming up. Yes. The link will be above or below. It’s just at time of recording, I don’t have it all figured it out so I can’t give you more information but we will have the link available by the time this comes up. You can click on it somewhere.

[00:15:06] It’s a whole series of classes. You can attend one of them or you can attend all of them, whatever you would like to do. It’s more tangible stuff like setting up sales pages with coupon codes, order bumps, affiliate links, and all the things. So, check it out. If you’ve got questions, just reach out.

[00:15:26] Tip #3: Remember why you’re choosing whatever it is you’re choosing.

Whatever it is you’ve decided you’ve failed at, why did you start in the first place? What was the energy behind it? What was the value of choosing it? What were you looking for? In business, you wanna look at that. What is your “why?” If you are creating a business similar to mine, what is your “why?”

[00:15:51] In TikTok, I actually created a whole video and I’ve got it pinned to the top so that if people are wondering about me me, they can watch why I do what I do. We’ll put a link to it here too, if you guys wanna watch that.

[00:16:04] It’s something that really will allow us to keep choosing when we’re clear on that. Now, I don’t always talk about figuring out your “why,” because a lot of times we end up using conclusion and judgment in it. However, it is something for you to look at.

[00:16:23] In short, for me, I spent a lot of my life not knowing, not even realizing there were any other possibilities… like, at all. Once I started, I took a Reiki class back in 2002, and it invited me to this whole new world. I go, “Wow… I want everyone who would like to know there’s another possibility.” I want everyone to know. Everyone who was like me, I would love them to know there’s always a bazillion possibilities. That’s my “why.”

[00:16:57] Look at what yours is in whatever it is you’re choosing, and that will allow you to really choose in those places and times where it feels like you’re having a setback or it’s not working, or you’re failing. That energy of the “why” will totally shift it for you, remind you, and assist you to move forward.

[00:17:17] Tip #4 is surround yourself with people who are choosing the similar experience that you are.

If it’s business, get in some business coaching. Get in some business masterminds. Get in a networking group. If it’s running marathons, go connect with those people that are doing it. Really find the support in whatever it is you’re choosing to really give yourself a boost, so that you can actually succeed at whatever it is or create whatever it is that you’re looking at.

[00:17:50] Often, we don’t allow support. We don’t even look at it as an option. But go back to that myth about being sh ashamed. What if we get rid of that, as I said already, and just choose? Surround yourself with the people who are choosing similar things, experiences, whatever that you’re choosing. That will totally contribute to you.

[00:18:13] Tip #5: Be kind to you.

There’s never, ever a reason to judge you. Ever. Ever. Can I say it enough? There’s never a reason to judge you. Stop it. It’s all about being kind to you. Choosing, receiving the awarenesses from that choice, choosing again. Choosing again, receiving the awareness, choosing again. No judgment required. In fact, judgment will only kill, as I’ve already said, so be kind to you. You will create so much more with that energy than self-judgment or judgment of any kind.

[00:18:55] Tip #6: Celebrate.

Celebrate what you chose. Don’t base it on celebrating only what you succeed at. Celebrate on your choices. What are you choosing? Even if they didn’t work out the way that you thought they would, it gives you way more awareness. Way more awareness.

[00:19:15] Back in 2013, I leased a space in the city that was close to where we were living at the time, Lloydminster, Alberta, and I really did it. It felt super light, super yummy, super expansive. I was following the energy.

What occurred about three months after — don’t even know if we were even in the building yet. We were doing some renos and stuff and I got my first invite to facilitate classes in Ireland.

[00:19:45] Oh my gosh. Of course I’m going to do that, which that then inspired all these other invites all around the world. We started traveling. Actually, back then it was just me because Hubby was working at the time so he wasn’t able to travel with me. I was traveling to all these other countries and there were months that I was paying the lease on this space that I didn’t even use it because I wasn’t home to use it.

[00:20:12] Now, I could have looked at that as a failure. But is it? No. Of course it’s not. Not for me. I had more of a desire to be traveling and facilitating classes around the world than I did to be going home every night.

[00:20:33] We could say, “Oh well then you must not have followed the awareness. You must have just concluded you needed…” No. The one thing I know for sure is that by leasing that space, it actually contributed to my global business. How? I have no clue. I just know that it did.

[00:20:50] The other piece with that is that we wrote a year and a half into the three year lease, and I went, “I don’t wanna do this anymore. This is crazy.”

So I phoned my realtor, also a great friend of mine, and I just said, “How do I get out of this? Is there a way? Can I? I don’t even know if I can get out of this!”

What he told me was, well, he gave me the options and he said, “You could find somebody to take it over completely,” and I’m like… that. I would like that.

Well, guess what? The same day, there was a person who’d previously had that space and had contacted my realtor friend and asked if there was any space in that building available. They took over the lease completely. I walked away after a year and a half. Flew away, I should say, on the airplane.

[00:21:42] Really, this is what I’m talking about. We could put a lot of energy into how much money I spent to create that space and all the time I didn’t use it and all the wasted money… No. I know the gift it was. I know the gift it was.

[00:21:59] This whole piece is really recognizing that you never fail EVER. Every choice you make is gifting you awareness. You may get the awareness to never make that choice again or to pivot. That’s cool, but stop judging that you’re failing.

[00:22:22] Now, I would love to invite you. I’ve got two upcoming Business Done Different classes. Both are available online, or May 5-7, 2023 in Calgary, Alberta AND online, or June 9-11 in Davidson, Saskatchewan, AND online. I would love for you to come play. There’s so many different ways to be in business than the way that we’re shown here.

[00:22:50] Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Questions to Ask to Create Magic in Your Business

Apr 16, 2023 | Radio Show

Questions to Ask to Create Magic in Your Business

What you ask will show up!

What’s a better way to start a business day? By asking questions! In this episode, I brought in my magical friends Krista, Kara, and Julie to share and discuss the questions we ask to start off our business days. Get your phones and notes, sweet friends, because you won’t want to miss these if you’re looking to bring more magic in your business and in every area of life, too!

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[00:00:00] Glenyce: If there were questions that you could ask every morning to create magic in your business, would you ask them? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so grateful that you are here. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Now, you are going to be listening to or watching, depending on how you are consuming this, a Facebook Live that I did with some hosts of the upcoming Business Done Different classes. We’ve got them coming up in Calgary, May 5-7, 2023. In Saskatchewan, June 9-11, 2023. Both of those are also available online.

Us four got together and chatted about the questions we ask every morning to create magic in our business, so enjoy!

[00:00:49] Glenyce: I’m Glenyce Hughes. I’m a Certified Facilitator with Access Consciousness®. I’m also a Joy of Business Facilitator, so I facilitate the Business Done Different classes. Both of these groups — both of these ladies — no, all three of these ladies will be hosting me for Business Done Different in the near future. In May, we’ve got May 5-7 in Calgary with Ms. Julie. If you wanna give a wave, Ms. Julie…

[00:01:17] Julie: Hello.

[00:01:18] Glenyce: That is online or in Calgary. And then in June 9-11 in Saskatchewan – Davidson, Saskatchewan. You might not have heard of it, but you’re missing out. That is with Krista and Kara. If you guys wanna give a wave.

[00:01:35] Krista: Hi, I’m Krista.

[00:01:36] Kara: Kara.

[00:01:38] Glenyce: I like to call them “The Magic Twins.” I actually think that’s their business name, too, but I do like to call them “The Magic Twins.”

Let’s just go around. Krista, if you wanna start, just do a little intro of you and maybe your time with using these magical tools. And then, we’ll just go around to each person.

[00:01:57] Krista: Okay. I’m Krista. We heard about Access Consciousness® in 2015 and we’ve been playing with the tools for a while. We’re actually both Bars Facilitators and just had a class yesterday.

[00:02:13] Julie: Awesome.

[00:02:17] Kara: I am Kara, Krista’s twin sister. Like Krista said, we’ve been playing with the tools since 2015. My favorite tool or question to start out with in the morning is “Earth, what can I contribute to you today in the most delightful kind of way?” And then the on 3 – 1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3. It just expands my world.

[00:02:46] Glenyce: Love it. Love it. Yes. We will come around with that, too. Ms. Julie, a little intro for you?

[00:02:52] Julie: Awesome. Thanks everyone for being here. My name is Julie Kaukinen. I’m an Access Bars Facilitator and I help people feel lighter, happier, more relaxed with the Access Bars tool — technique, sorry. I’ve actually did — yesterday was Day 63 doing Access Bars everyday. I’m trying to go for 100 and see what happens. Maybe my head will explode.

Glenyce, thanks so much for doing this. Well done. We’re all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed!

[00:03:19] Glenyce: Right, right. It’s 8:00 AM in our world, guys. I actually had to wake up to an alarm which is a very rare thing. I don’t usually even set an alarm, but I did, which is very good because I woke up to it ringing and thought, “Oh my goodness, this is weird.” But anyway, here we are. All right.

[00:03:37] Glenyce: One of the things that we talk a lot about in Access Consciousness® and of course, the Business Done Different classes, is really getting a sense of your business, and playing with the business, and co-creating with the business rather than being a “Bossy Bosserson” where you’re doing it all on your own, making it all, forcing it, making it work, controlling it, all of that insanity.

[00:04:02] Glenyce: One of the things that we all do and many people do that have these tools is start their day — and it doesn’t necessarily mean the moment they wake up but it could be. Start their business day with co-creating with the business where you’re maybe asking some questions or asking yourself some questions or getting, like Julie said, lighter energy.

[00:04:26] Glenyce: I’ll start by sharing a few of my favorites that I use. I don’t necessarily do the same thing every day. But a lot of the questions I do ask, and I use my favorite Reminder app on my iPhone. It’s nothing special. It comes with the iPhone. If you have an iPhone, it’s just called Reminder app. I put the questions in there to pop up at certain times of the day to remind myself because it’s pretty easy to forget these things.

[00:04:54] Glenyce: One of them that I ask every day is, “What can I add to my life today to grow my business right away?” We might think that when we’re asking that, it’s like, “What business thing could I add?” But notice I didn’t ask that. “What can I add to my life today to grow my business right away?”

[00:05:16] Glenyce: In that day, that might be a nap. That might be going shopping. There’s so many different things, but when we ask that question, it’s really about continuously adding to our life. The more, for the most part, that we have on the go, the more ease it’s going to be for everything around us to grow because we’re not putting all of our intensity into one thing.

[00:05:42] Glenyce: I often refer to it as if we had one plant and a jug of water, we’re gonna kill the plant, guys. You wanna have a hundred plants and a jug of water cuz then you don’t kill the one plant. They’re all gonna thrive. This is what we talk about adding to our life constantly.

[00:06:00] Glenyce: Another one — this one’s a little bit longer, but I like to ask it. “What choices can I make today to allow revenue to show up in my life in 2 years, in 10 years, 20 years, and what choices can I make today to allow money to show up right away?“

[00:06:21] Julie: Wow.

[00:06:22] Glenyce: Right? Right? All of these, again, are from Access Consciousness® where I got that. I just happen to write things down when I hear things and they might be in the reference materials. That might be in classes. Some, you know, Access friend might have said them. I write them down if they have an energy.

[00:06:39] Glenyce: I love that one because it’s inviting me to include my future. It’s not just about right now. It’s about what can I choose so there’s money two years, 10 years, 20 years and now.

And then, I also destroy and uncreate everywhere that I uninvited money yesterday. That doesn’t have to be a business one, but when we do that, what we do is anywhere that we didn’t receive yesterday, basically…

[00:07:07] Julie: Wow.

[00:07:08] Glenyce: … we’re destroying and uncreating it. And then one of my other ones, and this one’s a little dangerous, guys, so be cautious. “What would it take to receive more today than I have ever been willing before?” I say cautious because you’re asking to receive more and what we ask for shows up. Those are a few of the questions.

Krista, do you wanna start with whatever you do, however you start your day or business day?

[00:07:44] Krista: Sure. Like you Glenyce, it’s different every day. It depends what’s happening. I’ll just share what I did this morning because I, too, was gonna be woken by an alarm clock. It just happened to be my daughter’s instead of my own. I have no idea what happened to mine.

So I slept in and wanted to go to instant reaction about that, and panic and fear and all of that because I was coming over to Kara’s house. Kara and I are big energy feelers, I should say, and so that all felt really heavy to me.

[00:08:27] Krista: I really liked the light and heavy tool and just becoming aware of what I’m aware of, and then asking questions around it. Right away I was like, “Okay, this is really heavy and does not feel fun or light at all.” So then I was like, “All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory.”

“All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory” which is the mantra of Access Consciousness®. I just kept saying that and I’m like, “I have another choice here.” I literally have another choice. I could go down this dark road or I could just get up and move. I got ready so fast with such ease and joy and glory shockingly.

[00:09:12] Kara: Amazing how that happened.

[00:09:15] Krista: Yeah. Really, the light and heavy tool is something in my world lately. If it doesn’t feel light, then I go, “Who does this belong to?” “What is this?” Basically, the biggest thing is staying in question with everything.

[00:09:33] Krista: Now, what’s been hot in my world, and I’m sure in everybody else’s, is the presumptive realities and the need for reactive realities because I see all of the places that I’m just constantly reacting to, everything, and catching it now quickly.

[00:09:50] Kara: Yes, that’s the thing. That’s good.

[00:09:52] Krista: So that was kinda where I was at. And then I actually always listen to something every morning. I’ll go into YouTube and listen to one of my favorite Access people and what they have to say, and just listening to all the tools that are working in other people’s worlds and then picking something that works for me from that.

[00:10:16] Glenyce: Nice. I love that. I love that and yes, that – “All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory.” Look at the kitty! It’s contributing. Awww..

[00:10:26] Julie: It’s like, “Why are you not in bed still sleeping?!” Just kidding.

[00:10:32] Glenyce: It’s too early to be out! Yes. Yes. Awesome. How about you, Kara? I know you shared the Earth one earlier. Is there anything else?

[00:10:40] Kara: Yeah. Well, even backing it up to before I even wake up. One tool that I use — I have a Voice app on my phone. Most of us do. I have all sorts of different tools that I record my voice. Each night before I go to bed, I just look through it and see which question would contribute to me the most, and then I play it on a loop all night, which I find makes a huge difference in my day.

I’m like you guys, too. It’s different all the time. Another question that I love to ask is “Who or what can contribute to me today to make my life easier?” and “Who and what can I contribute to that will make more for me?” That one, I just love that question so much.

[00:11:32] Glenyce: That is amazing.

[00:11:35] Krista: There’s so many!

[00:11:37] Kara: There are so many. Oh, and “Universe, show me something I have been unwilling to receive today.” That one has been hot in my world, too.

[00:11:48] Glenyce: That’s amazing. That’s amazing. I was a little bit waiting for what you were gonna say when you said the tool you used before you wake up. I was like, “She is totally magical! What is she doing?” But I see you’re playing the loop. I love it. That is also magical, but I was just like, “Whoa.” So awesome. How about you, Ms. Julie?

[00:12:12] Julie: Oh man. As you guys are talking, it’s like just recognizing that when you ask, you actually do receive and not to doubt that. Anyway, that was a side note.

[00:12:25] Julie: This morning, I woke up with not enough time to do anything other than get on the Zoom, put a shirt on, go. I really, really have been doing this lately that before — I know sweetie, I love you — I wake up and grab my phone. I’ve found that as soon as I wake up, I’m grabbing phone and then it’s dictating my entire frigging day instead of me actually choosing what I would like to do today.

[00:12:54] Julie: Instead of this “You have to do this. You’re responding to an email now,” just taking a little moment to be like, “Hey, good morning body and world. What would I like to do and create today?” You know? I love that. It’s not just looking at my phone right away because I’m looking at this thing enough all day, thank you very much.

[00:13:17] Julie: The other question I like absolutely, I don’t even know what I would do without this question, is “Where’s my energy required today?” When I ask that, I’ll go into overwhelm of “I got so much stuff to do” and it’s gonna be so incapacitating, and then just, “But where’s my energy required?” It’s like, boop, boop, boop. You can get way more done when you’re being instead of just the doing, right? I just absolutely love that one.

[00:13:49] Julie: Glenyce, I don’t know if I got it from you back in the day, but it’s “All the projections, expectations…” that I have about me, what I should be doing, shouldn’t be doing, what I could never do… like, all that. I just find that especially in business, all the projections and expectations that I have about myself in regards to my business, I destroy and create them all. Just that frees me of yesterday.

[00:14:22] Kara: Love it.

[00:14:23] Julie: How cool. I love all the tools and even more so now that I’m saying this. Destroying and creating my relationship with myself and my business, my money flows — how about every relationship that I’ve ever related to, destroy and uncreate it!

[00:14:42] Krista: Yeah!

[00:14:44] Glenyce: Yeah, yeah. That’s such a great tool in all the ways when we destroy and uncreate our relationships, whether it’s with a person or a business or whatever. What happens in most relationships is that we continue creating like we did yesterday. When we destroy and uncreate our relationship with our business and everything it was to us today or yesterday or whenever you want to do it, what that allows then is this whole different world to show up. Your business and you together get to be different today rather than operating like you did yesterday.

[00:15:16] Glenyce: This is where I would say, especially right now working with a lot of people in business, is where a lot of people are really struggling because there’s changes going on and they’re trying to do what they did yesterday and have it work the same. And then when that doesn’t happen, they try to figure out what they’re doing wrong so they can fix it so it can be like it was yesterday. What if we just did something different? What if we allowed it to change? What if we destroyed it and uncreated the way it was and allowed it to be what it’s asking to be? I love that one, Julie.

[00:15:49] Julie: Wow. Yeah. How cool, all the tools. In every area of life. What I love is they work just smoking awesome with business, but it also works with my relationship with myself and everybody else. How cool.

[00:16:06] Glenyce: Yes. Yeah, and you talked about the presumptive realities and the need of reactive realities. There’s actually a whole handout of clearings for the Business Done different classes that go with the manual, just because they haven’t been added to the manual yet. But when we do the classes, people will also get that additional handout to really change things because it’s time.

[00:16:31] Glenyce: Again, the presumptive, we presume in business. How much we presume, how much we assume.” If it worked yesterday when I did a free intro call and then my class filled up, it’s gonna work again next week.” That’s a presumption and assumption and it’s gonna probably bite you in your ass. The choice of change really is such a big energy to me right now in business.

[00:16:58] Julie: Glenyce, it’s super funny because I was doing a Bars session with a woman like, I don’t know, was that last week? About halfway through, she got so… the presumptive reality clearings were changing so much.

[00:17:11] Julie: Usually, we just do a whole hour like a normal Bars session, you know? After half of it, she’s like, “Julia, can we take this up next week? I’m really creative right now, I gotta go do stuff!” And it was like, how it landed in her world.

It was just stuff like “What presumptive reality do you have that doesn’t allow you to basically expand out and just be yourself?” These clearings are working super fast. It’s what I’m really noticing so, wow.

[00:17:42] Glenyce: Yeah. Yeah.

[00:17:44] Krista: The whole presumptive reality and need of reactive reality has made me look at my body more, too, and how much I disinclude my body in absolutely everything.

[00:17:57] Krista: Again, even this morning like running out of time, one of my favorite things to do in the morning is to be like, “Body, can you just show me what you would like to wear today?” I spend so much time frustrated and trying on different outfits, not liking this and not liking that. Now, I’m just like, “Can you just show me what you wanna wear today, body? Can you show me what you wanna…” The eating part isn’t as good, but it does help with that, too, where it’s like, “Show me when you’ve had enough” and “Show me how you wanna move.”

[00:18:32] Krista: It’s just really, really, actually seeing that my body is not me. My body is within me. Everything that we do is for our body, not for us as an infinite being. So why not include your body in every part of your day?

It’s just crazy. We’ve never been told to. Now, I will tell my kids if they’re like asking me something like, “What should I wear?” I’m like, “Why don’t you just ask your body what it wants to wear?” And they’re like, “Oh, okay.”

[00:19:10] Glenyce: Awesome.

[00:19:10] Krista: It’s just wild!

[00:19:12] Glenyce: Yeah. Yeah. Everything you just said about your body could also be applied to business because how often do we think we’re the ones who need to make the decisions? We need to figure out when the Bars class should be. We need to figure out how to promote something. What if you asked the business? What if you gave your business a voice and let it guide you and show you? I love it, and I love it for body, too because there’s just so much that we override. So, awesome. Awesome. All right.

Well, I’m gonna share one more question and if you guys have anything else as we finish up.

[00:19:46] Glenyce: This is one that I probably use not necessarily in the morning, but I will do it once a day for sure. It’s “What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, possibilities, power, and potency can me, my body, and the business be to actualize at least…” and then I put in whatever number… “this month with total ease?”

[00:20:11] Glenyce: You could do it per day. You could do it per week. You could do it per year, whatever you like. You just usually do it per month. That’s one that I use all the time. It just allows me to receive it but also to remember what I’m asking for. It’s also why I love questions because it puts me back into, “Oh, wait. Wait a minute. I can actually ask for what I would like here.” Yeah. Yeah. Does anybody else have anything else as we finish up?

[00:20:39] Julie: You know, Glenyce, I loved it. I heard you talk about this years ago and I’ve just never forgotten it. It’s where you’re talking about being really, really, clear with what you actually need every month to create your life. Right?

[00:20:53] Julie: It’s funny that I know that you said that, you know, you were kind of going along and you thought, “Oh well, it was probably this number,” and it was so way off from what you thought. Until you actually got the crystal clear awareness of what you actually required every month, you said that when you asked for that, you’ve never gotten less than that. I thought that was so brilliant. Everything that doesn’t allow all of us to choose to do that…

[00:21:23] Kara: Yes!

[00:21:24] Glenyce: It’s actually something we talk about in Business Done Different. There’s a whole section in the manual, so yeah, let’s do it. Let’s do it.

[00:21:31] Julie: Right on. Cool.

[00:21:34] Krista: I’m very enthusiastic about this class coming because I have a lot of very interesting points to be around business and money, so bring it on!

[00:21:43] Kara: Yes!

[00:21:45] Glenyce: Cool. Awesome. Awesome, awesome. Well, thank you. And again guys, come and join us online in person. We’ve got Calgary, May 5-7. We’ve got Davidson, Saskatchewan, June 9-11. Either one is available online, too.

If you are a Bars Facilitator, it does count as a renewal class. There’s lots of different ways to renew your Bars Facilitator…ship? I don’t think that’s a word! But this does count as one of the classes that you can attend.

Thank you ladies so much for joining me. I’m so grateful. I wonder… I wonder what’s possible with the businesses now that has never been possible before.

[00:22:24] Julie: Amazing. Amazing. And Glenyce, I’m so excited for this presumptive reality business clearing hour. I’m so excited for that. Yes. Are you sure it’s $10? Did you miss a couple zeros there?

[00:22:39] Glenyce: I know, right? It will launch next week. Julie’s letting the cat outta the bag. Here we go!

[00:22:45] Julie: Oh, I’m sorry! Oh, I’m sorry!

[00:22:48] Glenyce: It’s okay, it’s okay.

[00:22:49] Krista: I’m like, “Did we talk about this?!”

[00:22:51] Julie: That’s so funny.

[00:22:53] Glenyce: Julie is in the know. There is a call coming up, but it will launch next week. You guys will see more about that. We’ll get you the information.

[00:23:02] Julie: My foot’s in my mouth.

[00:23:04] Kara: I’m impressed!

[00:23:13] Glenyce: Oh my goodness. All right, guys. Thanks so much.

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A Tool to Be More Magical with Molecules

Apr 9, 2023 | Radio Show

A Tool to Be More Magical with Molecules

Co-create with everything.

Everything has a consciousness of its own, which means it also has molecules that you can engage with to create all the awesomeness you can imagine possible. That’s why in this episode, we are going to talk about the tool to use to be more magical with molecules so you can start co-creating with anything and everything!

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[00:00:00] Would you like a tool so you can be more magical with molecules?

Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:16] Magic with Molecules also happens to be the name of a two-part class that I have coming up on April 22 and April 23, 2023. If you’re listening later, the replay will be available. We are gonna take a deep dive into being magic with molecules.

[00:00:34] What would a tool be to be magical with molecules? Well… talking to the molecules. I know. Right? Very simple, very simple.

[00:00:46] The thing is, a lot of people don’t recognize that everything – EVERYTHING – has a consciousness of its own. Whether it is your body, whether it’s a creation that you’re creating, whether it’s your house, a car – it doesn’t matter. Even the clothes you wear.

[00:01:05] Everything has a consciousness of its own, which means it has molecules of its own so that we can commune with them, we can communicate with them, we can talk with them, we can chat with them, whatever you wanna call it. You can engage with the molecules of the things, which then allows you to really co-create the magic that’s possible.

[00:01:29] Otherwise, we are separate. We’re trying to do it all on our own. We’re trying to make something work by ourselves. We’re being fiercely independent when it would probably create greater to actually be the gifting and receiving that we truly are.

[00:01:47] How do you talk or commune or chat with the thing? It’s no different than if you were talking to a person. Let’s say you’re selling your car. You can chat with your car. You can ask your car to bring whoever it would like to bring so that it would be sold to whoever it would like to own.

[00:02:08] This is the terminology which kind of sounds funny to us, but really if we if we really tap into the energy, everything around us that we say we own actually owns us. We’re the ones taking care of it. We’re the ones paying the bills, the mortgage, the payments, whatever it is. We’re the ones doing it so it actually owns us.

[00:02:29] You can ask your car, “Hey car, can you please bring to you whoever you would like to own next?” Now, there’s a gifting and a receiving. You’re asking, you’re receiving, you’re gifting. It’s gifting, it’s receiving. It’s a beautiful flow of energy.

[00:02:47] And then you might get the idea of, “Oh wow, I should post about this on social media,” and maybe that’s where the person sees it or something.

[00:02:56] It’s not that we sit on the couch and we say, “Okay car, go sell yourself.” I mean, you could try that. There’s nothing wrong with it. I’m just not sure it’s going to work as easily as if you were co-creating. “Hey car, who needs to hear that you’re for sale so that you can bring to you the person you would like to own?” It gets to be this incredible magic.

[00:03:21] One of the things that I know I have run into myself and many people that I coach run into is that once we start doing this – we start getting the magic of it, we start requesting, asking, and receiving and there’s this beautiful co-creation, then when it doesn’t occur in the time we’ve decided it should, that’s usually when we start going down the rabbit hole.

[00:03:43] What am I doing wrong? Why can’t I do this? Why aren’t I magical? I mean, there’s all sorts of questions that you really don’t want answered, guys. You really don’t want those ones answered. You really want to focus more on the energy of the creation itself.

[00:03:57] One of the things that I recognized years ago is that I would basically start co-creating with something and then go, “Why hasn’t it happened yet? What’s wrong with me that it hasn’t happened yet? What have I done wrong that it hasn’t happened yet?”

[00:04:12] What it would do is it would send that creation back to zero, so to speak. Every time I went into the energy of why hasn’t it happened yet, I was putting my energy into it not happening rather than acknowledging that it’s occurring, it just may not be on my timeframe.

[00:04:30] What you want to look at in situations like that is where else could you put your energy. Right? If we only have one thing we’re focused on, it can get pretty dangerous because all of our energy goes into that one thing, and often we can kill it just with that energy alone.

[00:04:47] I remember a few years ago, there was somebody that was talking about that and they said they use the analogy of having one house plant compared to having a hundred house plants.

[00:04:57] If you’re taking care of one house plant, it’s pretty easy with one jug of water to kill it because you’re putting it all into that one plant. But if you had a hundred house plants, it’s so much easier to keep them all alive because none of them you’re putting too much intensity, too much of your energy and killing it, so to speak.

[00:05:15] You want to recognize that, too. If you’ve got time to go into why hasn’t it happened, you’ve got too much time, my friends. You need to be continuously adding to your life so that you can really exponentialize your entire life, not just that one thing.

[00:05:31] I know for a lot of people it feels like you should just focus on one thing and then when that’s done, focus on another. That may not be the case in terms of these sorts of creations, if you’re co-creating with all the different things around you.

[00:05:46] Let’s say you’ve got a business, you’ve got other money flows, you’ve got relationships, you’ve got homes, and you’ve got just different ways that you play in your life. Start allowing all of those energies to contribute and really put your energy more… I don’t even know what the word is. Rather than just intensely on one thing, spray it out. Spray it. I’m not sure that’s the right word, but you know what I mean. So you’re not killing one thing. You’re really contributing to everything.

[00:06:22] When you catch yourself going into why hasn’t this happened yet, then stop. You could even ask:

“Truth, is this in process?”

“Truth, is this occurring?”

So that you can get the sense of if it is, okay, cool, then awesome. “What could I go and add to my life today” so that you’re adding something so you don’t have that intensity of one energy. That’s a tool from Access Consciousness. “What could I add to my life today?”

[00:06:50] You could put a ‘to’ that.

“What could I add to my life today to actualize this right away?”

“What could I add to my life today to receive this right away?”

Whatever the wording might be, or you can just keep it general.

“What could I add to my life today?”

Just start adding and adding and adding. It won’t mean the things you’re asking for are less important to you. In fact, it’ll probably allow you to receive things even quicker because your energy isn’t just in one thing and you aren’t killing it by overwatering it.

[00:07:25] Really, there’s two parts to this. It’s the communing with the thing, whatever it is. Sticking with the selling a car example: communing with it, engaging with it, asking it what it would like to asking it to bring in who it would like to own, asking it where you should post about it, or how to let people know that it’s for sale. You’re really co-creating.

[00:07:50] And then also, really being aware of your energy and what you are doing with your energy about the sale of the car. You’re waking up thinking about it, you’re in the shower thinking about it, you’re making breakfast thinking about it… that’s a lot. That’s a lot, so what else could you be adding so that you can really, I’m gonna say it again, spray your energy around?

[00:08:16] That sounds so funny. I just cannot think of the word that I mean when I say that so hopefully, you get the idea of what I’m trying to say or else maybe I’m making up something new. Spray your energy. We should go with that.

[00:08:30] With that, recognize that there’s so many more creations. There’s so many other things going on. What else could you be adding? What else could you be adding your energy to? What could they be contributing to the sale of the car as if by magic?

[00:08:46] It’s not just this really separate way of living which is what most of us were taught – to really live separately. If I’m selling my car, then my energy is in selling my car until the car is sold. And then once it’s sold, I move to the next thing and then that’s where my energy is. And then I move to the next. What if it’s not? What if we could actually add our energy everywhere?

[00:09:07] I don’t mean when I’m talking about not thinking about selling your car all day long. I don’t. I also don’t mean pulling your energy out of it. This is another thing we do is that if we go, “I shouldn’t think about that. I’m thinking about it too much,” we pull our energy out. We don’t wanna do that.

[00:09:24] We want to be energetically present with everything without that kind of overthinking, overprocessing, or too much focus in that area. We want to really have a spaciousness with it all to truly be the magic with molecules.

[00:09:42] Again, I invite you. I’d love to have you come play. “Magic with Molecules” – it’s a two-part online class. April 22-23, 2023. There is a bonus of a Clearing Loop of the Presumptive Realities and the Need of Reactive Realitines on Being Magical. And then of course, the class itself. You’ll get clearing loops from, from the class too.

[00:10:06] I wonder what magic with molecules we can be, my sweet friends. Have a great week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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What to Do When Business Changes

Apr 2, 2023 | Radio Show

What to Do When Business Changes

What else is possible?

What would you do when things in the business change? I am personally experiencing some shifts in the biz (and other areas in my life) lately, and these tools that I will be sharing in this week’s episode have been phenomenaaal in showing me what else is possible. Give ‘em a try, sweet friends!

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered what you should do when business starts to change?

Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:14] First, I have some business classes that I would like you to come and join me for. We have 3 different, 1 off Zoom calls, and then 2 different Business Done Different calls.

I’m gonna read the calls for you. There is:

Energetically Creating Your Business #asifbymagic that is April 4th at 10:00 AM Mountain Time; 4 Steps to Clarity in Your Business that is 10:00 AM Mountain Time on April 11th; and Breaking the Chains of Self-Doubt in Business that is April 18th at 10:00 AM.

And then, the Business Done Different in May 5th to 7th in Calgary, Alberta. Also, you can join us online so you don’t have to come in person. And then, June 9th to 11th in Saskatchewan. Again, also, you can join us online.

If you’ve got any questions about any of those, just reach out and you’ll find the links above or below. If you don’t see a link, of course, let me know and I will get it for you.

[00:01:09] Now, what to do when your business changes?

I did a call earlier this morning and one of the participants asked. Basically, their business used to generate a thousand dollars a month and it doesn’t anymore. It generates maybe 200. What she was looking at was basically “How can I fix it to make it do that again?”

“What am I doing wrong so it will generate a thousand dollars again?”

[00:01:39] Here’s the thing, guys. When we put our energy into fixing the problem, we’re gonna create more problem because that’s where our creative energy [is]. Each one of us, if you are watching this, you are creative beyond creative beyond creative. And often what we’re doing is we’re putting our energy into creating what we don’t desire.

[00:02:04] What you wanna look at when business changes isn’t so much “how can I fix it to make it go back to what it was,” it’s “what can I add?”

“What can I add to the business now?”

“What else is required?”

“What would be fun for me?”

[00:02:18] With all of the changes over the past few years, one of the things that I’ve noticed, I would say, in probably the past year…. now, this is in MY business, it doesn’t mean it has to be in yours. A lot of the people that would maybe choose the more, let’s say, expensive classes aren’t choosing them as often. So there’s difference.

[00:02:39] People aren’t spending the same money they used to, again, in my business. It doesn’t mean it has to be yours. But I’m willing to be aware, I’m willing to watch. I actually track things so I can see, I can notice when things are going different. So I started looking at, “What actually required in the business then?”

[00:03:00] What I started creating was more smaller, really focused training. I’ve got Quickie Magic Trainings, Quickie Business Trainings, and Quickie Money Trainings. Those have been very, very popular and very successful because it doesn’t take up much time for a person, they’re very specific to whatever the topic is about, and people can a quick win basically. That’s what I’ve noticed again in my business.

[00:03:29] Now, if I would’ve a year ago just sat around going, “How can I get more people to come to these bigger classes?” By bigger I mean just more expensive, say, a thousand dollars or more to attend the class. That’s not going to create, rather than just being present with what is, looking where the numbers are, and then looking at what’s fun for you to create with that.

[00:03:54] What I did with the Quickie Trainings is over a Boxing Day. I had a Boxing Day Sale and I sold them as a group – the Business, the Money, and the Magic as groups. I actually recorded them. We did the classes in January, and that worked really well.

And then what I did was I put them into my shop, so now they’re there for anybody to purchase. I usually have a weekly flash sale in my shop. Sometimes, one of those is the sale item.

[00:04:24] If we’re willing to acknowledge that we are these creative magical beings, then we don’t need to look at why something has changed and what we did wrong. We could look at, “Now what? Now what would I like to do?”

[00:04:40] It doesn’t mean there might not be something to change. Let’s you were getting coaching clients from affiliates. You stopped your affiliate program, and so then the coaching clients started to be less.

You could look at that and be like, “When I stopped the affiliate program, there were less people inviting and less people found out about me,” so maybe you look at, “What else is possible?” It doesn’t mean you have to go back to that affiliate program, but you stay in question of, “What else then? What else?”

[00:05:11] I think it’s so important in a sense to look at what else is fun for you. I don’t mean you should only do what’s fun for you because honestly in business, sometimes you’re gonna do the things. At least for me, there are things that I will do to do whatever it takes. They may not be so fun in the moment but we can ask for them to be fun.

[00:05:37] One of my favorite question, and this is from, gosh, I think 2011? Somebody gave me this question.

What would it take for this, whatever this is, to be more fun, phenomenal, and rewarding than I never imagined possible?

When I ask that about something, I’m opening up rather than going into, “I hate this. This is horrible.” I’ll actually use a different example than business.

[00:06:04] Last week, we had a showing on our acreage, which meant we needed to do some cleaning. I don’t like to clean; it’s not fun for me. I could go through my house in that energy of “I don’t like to clean, I don’t want to clean, I shouldn’t have to do this” like, all that crazy or “What’s it gonna take for this to be more fun, phenomenal, and rewarding than I never imagined possible?”

[00:06:27] One of the things that I got was to bring somebody in to do some of the things that I probably wouldn’t do like get up on ladders and wipe down light fixtures and different things like that. We happen to live not that far from Hubby’s grandchildren who are older. They’re in their 20s, some of them.

[00:06:43] And so we brought one of them out who was fabulous. It was so fun to do because she was doing the things I really knew I probably wouldn’t do. I’m honest with myself. I’m probably not gonna get up there and do that. She was doing those things well.

[00:06:56] I could put my time and energy into the things that I had to do. One of the things is clean out my closets. Those things. Nobody else could do that for me because they don’t know what I would like to keep and not keep.

[00:07:09] That question can really start to shift and change it. I don’t mean that if something changes, you just have to go, “This is the way it is.” You can still, of course, always please stay in question and recognize that sometimes it changes. Not from the conclusion, not from this is the way, it is, not from we’re coming into a recession so nobody’s spending. That’s not it. But if you are tracking, you will see what’s going on. You will notice the difference.

[00:07:35] The other thing that can go on, and this is something that I learned about. In 2003, I would say, I’d started my business. I’d been in business for about 10 months, and I wasn’t sharing all of my gifts in my business.

[00:07:52] One of the things that I could do that started randomly was I could do mediumship readings. I could talk to dead people. But I didn’t want anybody to know that.

[00:08:01] I was playing with it online. There was a group online that you just went in and did free readings, and you could get a sense if you were getting it correct. People would give you feedback and stuff. And so I loved it, but I didn’t want anybody around me to know that I was that weird.

[00:08:17] What happened was about 10 months into my business, I had to either tell people I was doing it or get a job because I’d got a small loan from the bank and that loan was coming to an end. I couldn’t have financially continued without either one of those: getting a job or telling people what I was doing.

[00:08:38] I felt very pushed into a corner. I felt like I didn’t have a choice. Of course, I had a choice. I could have just got a job. I did look. Don’t you kid yourself. I did look. Ultimately, I did then start telling the world that I was doing mediumship readings and it just catapulted my business.

[00:08:55] So sometimes, it might be that too. You might think, “All this change, oh, this was horrible,” but maybe there’s a direction that you’ve been asking to go in. I don’t mean that was done to me. I don’t mean that there was this big energy outside of me that said, “You have to do this.” It was me choosing it for me. It was me pushing me in a corner knowing I was never gonna let the world know if I didn’t have to.

[00:09:18] And so look at that in your own business, too. If things are changing, what is it you’d like to be doing? What is it that you said, “One day, I would…” Maybe you’ve been putting it off. Maybe there’s you pushing you in the corner to make some different choices with that.

[00:09:35] Again, I would love for you to come join us. Any of those 3, 1-off calls for business or either of the Business Done Different. I would love to see you in person or online. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. Have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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How to Talk to Your Creations

Mar 26, 2023 | Radio Show

How to Talk to Your Creations

The creations have something to say… 😉

If you’ve ever wondered how to “talk” to your creations, have your pen and paper at the ready because I will be sharing all about that in this week’s episode! Learn all about creativity, creation, and how to commune with it so the next time a creation comes knocking at your door and you let it in, you’ll be amazed how much more magic you can gift and receive once you co-create with it.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered how to talk to your creations? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:14] This week, we are talking about how to talk to your creations. It’s actually an invite to my upcoming membership, which is a monthly membership so you can start whenever, end whenever. It’s called “Real Conversations, Real Change.”

Basically, what I’ll be doing is exactly what I’m gonna share in this show. I’ll share a little bit of a tidbit of inspiration that I received that week, whatever it might be. Today happens to be about creativity and creations and communing. Something, of course, I’ve talked about a lot over the years if you’ve hung around me. If you’re new here, welcome!

[00:00:54] The source for my inspiration I will, of course, share it, also. But if you would like the links until you can listen in, it is going to be in the show notes. Make sure to go check those out.

If you don’t know, you can grab the show notes from the last, I’m not sure when we started them, a year ago? Six months ago? I’m not sure… for all the radio shows on my webpage. And then also if you’re on my weekly email, you get them delivered to you every Sunday.

[00:01:22] The inspiration for today’s show is from a YouTube video. It’s actually a TED Talk from Elizabeth Gilbert and it’s called “Your Elusive Creative Genius.” The snippet that I wanna talk about today is where she talks about a poet called Ruth Stone.

[00:01:41] Ruth had shared how when she was working on the farm in the fields in West Virginia, she would perceive a poem coming towards her, like, energetically coming towards her over the hills. She knew in order for her to be able to write out the poem, she had to get a pen and paper, meaning she had to run into the house and get the pen and the paper to write down the poem as it came over the hills to her.

That alone, to me, is just freaking amazing. I’ll speak more to that, but I also wanna finish the last piece.

[00:02:22] There were times where she would miss it. She would get to the house with the pen and the paper and it would be past her, on the way to another poet. Yeah. She would also have — there was at least one time, I don’t recall if there were many times or whatever, it doesn’t matter — where she got there just in time where she was able to energetically grab the end of the poem and she wrote it backwards.

Whoa. Whoa.

[00:02:58] This story has inspired me for years. I have watched that TED talk multiple times. I have tapped into the energy of that, especially with what Ruth is talking about where the creation is coming to her. This is what I wanna share with you.

[00:03:16] When we look at like how to be more creative or how to really tap into that, the biggest piece for me personally is to recognize that that creation is not just for me. I often use the terminology “the creation knocks on my door.” If that creation knocks on my door and if I don’t open it, it’s gonna find someone else’s door to knock on.

[00:03:46] When I first heard that, it gave me so much space to really recognize that I’m not the creation. The creation isn’t mine. The creation came to me. It knocked on my door, and then I either chose to co-create with it or I didn’t, or maybe I chose to co-create with it a little bit, whatever. It doesn’t matter.

[00:04:11] Recognizing that has allowed me to take the pressure off. There’s no pressure with that because much like for Ruth, as that poem goes by her and if she misses it, it’s just going to another place. It’s still gonna get written.

Oh my goodness.

[00:04:31] Look at that in your own life. Look at those times where maybe you were aware in a sense that it knocked on your door. Maybe there was a business idea or something. If you do run a business, something within the business that you were aware of, but you didn’t choose it.

Let yourself off the hook.

Like, hello? It went to somebody else. We get to choose and it gets to choose. The creation comes and knocks on the door.

[00:05:01] This is the way I see it: it knocks on the door of the person who it knows can co-create with it. I’m gonna use my terminology: knows it can co-create magic with it. It comes to us, but then if we don’t answer, it’s just gonna go find somebody else it can co-create magic with.

[00:05:22] That’s one piece that has just allowed me so much more space when I’m creating because I have a lot of creations come to me. I should probably start counting, but I would say probably 25 a day, 50 a day. I mean, there are so many things.

[00:05:41] All these years later, I can totally acknowledge when they’re knocking. I can even sometimes perceive like what Ruth talks about. She could perceive it coming over the hill. I don’t have it like coming over the hill. I’m not often working out in the fields. I’m never working out in the fields. I’m swimming in my pool sometimes, although I haven’t for months now because of the winter. It’s just spring now. Anyway, I digress.

[00:06:07] And so I can perceive it energetically out there. I know something’s coming. I don’t know what it is, but I can perceive it letting me know it’s coming. That in itself, and then whether I choose to answer or not is totally up to me and I love that. And then if I do answer the door, I’m no longer trying to do it by myself.

[00:06:34] When that creation knocks, what I used to do — I mean one, I didn’t even know it was knocking. I just saw it as, you know, me came coming up with a great idea and then me taking action and doing it all. Notice that – doing it all.

[00:06:48] It’s such a different energy because it’s like, “It knocked on my door so it’s aware that we can co-create magic together,” which means it would like to gift also. It’s gifting and receiving. And I get to gift and receive also, but I’m not doing it by myself. There is a lot of other energies – just the creation itself and all the other energies, the universe, everything that are willing to gift and receive and receive and gift. It’s all about that.

[00:07:21] It’s all about receiving to me. The knock on the door, the choosing it if it’s a “yes” and if it feels yummy, if it’s expansive, and then receiving from everything that will co-create with us, so to speak, to get it out in the world.

[00:07:38] That’s such a different way to create instead of, again, maybe you never did this, but for me it was always, “What do I have to figure out to do next?” and then “How can I do it all by myself?” I was just not receiving very much at all. I was receiving some, because I was still receiving the creation. I just didn’t acknowledge exactly what it was. I just thought it was me thinking some great ideas.

[00:08:07] That’s fine too, however you wanna do it. But if you would like more ease with the creation, if you would like to have way more fun, if you would like to really gift and receive the magic that’s possible, allow it to have a voice. Allow it to commune with you.

[00:08:24] You could say “talk to you.” Sometimes I will use that terminology. I’ll say “talk to it,” but it’s more of a communion. It’s more of a gifting and a receiving, and I will ask it.

[00:08:38] If I had a knock on my door for a new class, “Okay, cool. So, when?” and I would look at my calendar. Not look at my calendar as to when does it wanna be and that’s the only thing. No.

[00:08:50] I’m looking at my calendar, looking at when it would work for me, and then also asking the creation, looking at the dates that work for me. Okay. so when? We’re co-creating, with price and all of that. I mean, I play with all of those pieces and I include it and I include me too, which is a very different way to create for most of us.

[00:09:15] I wonder what magic might be possible in your everyday life — I’m talking about creations and a lot of times people assume that’s business. It’s not. I mean, we’re currently selling our beautiful acreage. That’s a creation, too. I could do it all myself or put it onto my realtor, it’s all his job – he needs it, or I could see it as this beautiful co-creation.

[00:09:36] Before we even talked to a realtor, the first thing I did was say, “Hey, acreage, house, whatever you want to call it… are you done with us?”

I got a huge “yes.” It was done with us.

I get that it so desires kids, which was really interesting because the previous acreage that we had was the same energy when it was complete with us. It wanted the kid energy around, and I get that for this place, too. So I was like, cool. Okay.

[00:10:06] I co-create with it. I ask it. Yes, it’s done with us. Okay. “So then, can you bring in who you would like to own?” which sounds funny. But if you look at the things that you “own,” you don’t. No, you’re working for them. I’ve been paying the mortgage here. The house was not paying the mortgage, so the house owns us. It’s a totally different energy.

[00:10:31] That’s very similar with creations. They’re a different energy than us. They have their own consciousness, so let’s co-create with them as if by magic.

[00:10:42] If we were in the membership call right now, this is where I would open it up for discussion where you could ask questions, where you could give your ideas, or maybe your own experiences where you created and commune and all of that. It becomes this, again, real conversations, real change.

[00:11:02] You would leave every membership call with a handout. On there, there’s gonna be whatever tools we talked about. There’s also gonna be a link to the inspiration so that you can listen to the full thing, whatever it is.

[00:11:16] In this case, it’s an audio or video I should say. In other cases, it might be a blurb from a book, so it’ll be a link to the book. There will be times where it might be just a conversation that I had with a friend or maybe with a client. Those things, obviously I won’t have links to those, you know? If it was a client conversation. I don’t actually record my friendship conversation so you wouldn’t get a link there, but you would get a writing of it just to be able to read it basically.

[00:11:46] I would love for you to come and join us on “Real Conversations, Real Change” Monthly Membership. You can start anytime. You can end any time. If you get in before March 31, you will get a $50 USD credit to my #asifbymagic Shopify store, just for being one of the first ones in. If you can’t find the link above or below, just reach out and I will get that link for you.

[00:12:13] Have a great week, everybody. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Why You Reject Money

Mar 19, 2023 | Radio Show

Why You Reject Money

There’s so many ways you could be rejecting money!

I know what you think – who would even want to reject money?! Certainly not me! But this is something that a lot of times we’re not even aware of doing. Even I had done it at some point! If that is something you would like to change, tune in to this episode because we will discuss all the ways you could be rejecting money and how you could open yourself up to receiving more.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered why you reject money? If so, stick around. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life. My name is Glenyce Hughes and I am so incredibly grateful that you are here.

[00:00:13] Yeah. Why you reject money and how to stop. I know. This is something that a lot of times we’re not even aware that we’re doing it because it can show up in so many different ways. We could be not receiving compliments. That’s a way of rejecting money.

[00:00:31] We could not be allowing people to gift us. Maybe they would like to take us out for dinner. Maybe we go, but in our mind we’re going, “Okay, I’ll take them out for dinner next week.” We find that way to not receive it, basically. We’re figuring out how to give it back. How to boomerang it, so to speak. There’s so many different ways that we can reject money.

[00:00:56] What you wanna start paying attention to is if that’s what you’re doing. Maybe you recognize that every time, if you have a business, let’s say, and you have a new client phone you. They’re asking if what you do could help them with something that they’ve got going on, and you automatically refer them on. That might be a way of rejecting money.

[00:01:18] Let me tell you how that showed up for me.

When I first started my business over 20 years ago, I would have people phone me just like that. They’d phone, and at the time I was doing reiki sessions and clinical hypnotherapy sessions.

[00:01:31] They would phone and they’d say, “Hey, I’ve got sciatica. Have you ever had success with reiki, with sciatica?”

I would say, “No, but do you know what? I know somebody who could help you,” and I would refer them on.

Now, that’s great if that’s actually true in the moment. But referring everyone on does not make a good business, my friends.

[00:01:53] That was one of the ways that I was rejecting money. I wasn’t willing to receive it. I wasn’t willing to receive them coming in. I wasn’t willing to receive, maybe me not being able to assist them with reiki or whatever they were asking about. We just wanna start paying attention to that.

[00:02:10] Now, the title of the show: “Why You Reject Money.” That’s a pretty blanket statement. Every one of us is gonna be a little bit different. But ultimately, receiving money is about receiving. Receiving.

[00:02:25] To receive money, we have to have a level of receiving that possibly is more than we’ve been willing, or maybe more than what people around us have been willing.

[00:02:37] We reject it (money) right away as a way to ensure that the people around us are comfortable with how much money we’re receiving. To ensure that we don’t receive more than we’re supposed to. Whatever the heck that means. There’s so many different energies.

[00:02:53] But one of the ones in all of the hundreds of thousands of people that I have worked with over the years, I would say the most common is they reject money because the value is in the story as to why they don’t have it than the value being in to actually choosing it.

[00:03:17] So, what does that mean?

If we have a story that we don’t have money because of a recession or a potential recession that’s going on — it’s one that we’re hearing quite often now at the time of recording.

[00:03:33] If we’re telling that story, if we’re saying, “My business is not bringing in the money,” or “My employer can’t pay me more because… ,” that’s a pretty quick notice, guys, that there’s a story going on. When you go to “because,” stop. Stop. That’s a story.

[00:03:54] If you really wanna change it, I mean TRULY change it — most people don’t. Maybe you’re different. Just for you. You don’t need to be saying this out loud to other people because it’s gonna sound weird. But what I’d like you to start doing is actually acknowledging what is true.

[00:04:13] Let’s say you are employed. You’ve asked your employer for money, and they say, “We don’t have the money for it because of the recession,” or whatever story they wanna give you.

[00:04:23] You want to say to you, “I don’t have more money because I’m not choosing more money” instead of “I don’t have more money because my employer isn’t paying me more because of a recession.”

[00:04:41] Can you get the difference between the two? The latter one, it makes you a victim. You can’t change that. What you can change is your choice.

[00:04:51] Now, does that mean that you’re gonna say, “I don’t have money because I’m choosing not to have more money,” and then suddenly it changes? I mean, it could, but chances are when you acknowledge what is, you acknowledge you are the creator of your money, then you might go, “Huh. Okay. Since that employer has said no to anymore, then what else? What else is possible?” You start actually going into question.

[00:05:17] Maybe you go find a totally different employment. Maybe you add on. Maybe there’s something that you love doing that you would add on to the side that would really contribute. There’s a bazillion ways to receive more money if you’re not in the story of whatever the “because” is.

[00:05:36] This is something you really wanna look at if you’re willing to change it. Remember, this is why you’re rejecting money and how to stop it. That’s number one.

[00:05:44] Start calling it like it is. “I don’t have more money because I’m not choosing more money.” That’s the only thing that you know to be true. You can’t say it’s because of the economy, because of your employer, because of business… STOP. All of that is giving up your power and you end up being a victim, and so it is. That’s the way it is for you.

[00:06:09] This is something that, I mean, I keep saying you, but please know, this is something that I have really shifted and changed with myself over the years. It’s to acknowledge what I am choosing and to acknowledge what I’m not choosing.

[00:06:23] When I’m not choosing it, I just acknowledge it. It’s not right, it’s not wrong. You’re not supposed to be doing something. You get to choose every 10 seconds. You get to choose every second you get to choose. You wanna look at that and really be present with that and call it like it is.

[00:06:39] Again, just for you. Announcing that to your friends and family might sound really weird, but you get to choose it for you. You get to acknowledge for you.

“Okay, I’m not choosing that right now.”

Ah… now, what else is possible? Now you can ask more questions.

[00:06:55] I would love to invite you to an upcoming class that I’ve got called “Money Does Not Give a Fuck.” It is all about this. It is all about getting out of pathetic, out of the lack, out of the scarcity, and into the potent creator of magnitude that you truly be. It is on April 1. If you’re listening to this or watching this later, the replay will be available. It’s $50 USD for the call, my sweet friends.

[00:07:24] We’re gonna be using a lot of the new stuff that came out in the recent Global Foundation at Access Consciousness®. Oh my goodness. Presumptive realities and needs of reactive reality. I mean, all the stuff. So, come and join us. You’ll find the link above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out and I will get it for you.

[00:07:42] With the changing of it, the stopping of rejecting money, really acknowledging what is true in that moment, the other thing that you wanna do with that is just be really present with when you are rejecting money. It doesn’t mean you have to not reject it. You don’t have to force yourself.

[00:08:03] But if you could start acknowledging – let’s say a friend comes up to you and they just say, “Wow, I just love your outfit. That is amazing!”

[00:08:11] If you aren’t able to receive that, if it’s really difficult — compliments are a tough thing for a lot of people to receive. If you know that, you just wanna acknowledge for you that you’re rejecting it and that’s okay. Just acknowledge it. That’s the first step.

[00:08:29] And then maybe when you’re on your own, you could really look at that and really look at what you could actually create if you received it. If you did drop those walls and barriers, that separation and just really receive their compliment.

[00:08:43] Now, compliments can sometimes be a bit tricky. Sometimes, when people are giving us a compliment, there isn’t a compliment there. Sometimes, there’s secret agendas attached. There’s lies attached. There’s some unkindness attached.

[00:08:59] You just wanna be present and really aware of what you’re choosing in that moment. If it is a rejection, if it’s just so difficult to receive it, just smile and nod or say “thank you” or do whatever, and get present with it.

[00:09:18] I get a lot of compliments out in the world. It’s really interesting. If I go out shopping and they can be about my glasses because as many of you know, I have lots of different pairs of glasses. It can be about the clothes I’m wearing. It can be about my hair. It is the most random stuff that people will come up to me and just tell me how great, whatever it is, looks, or how much they love it or whatever it is.

[00:09:45] I used to really struggle with that because, well, I did. I just really wasn’t willing to receive it. I was rejecting it. I was rejecting it, and it was really about being an allowance of it.

[00:10:00] The other thing that I had to do is acknowledge what was really going on. They say they like my glasses, my hair, whatever. What they’re aware of with me — most people, not everybody, but most people — is the difference of me. The energy that I be. The contribution that I be in those places and spaces. That’s the way that they acknowledge it. It’s the only way we know in this reality.

[00:10:29] It’s such a really cool energy because that’s what I realized a lot of that kind of rejection was from that it felt funky. It was like what they were saying didn’t really match the energy. Once I acknowledged what was really going on, then it’s like there’s a total match of the energy. It might be something like that for you, also.

[00:10:50] There might be something that you’re actually getting complimented on that isn’t maybe given words to. So, something to keep in mind with that.

[00:10:58] So, some home play for you. Start paying attention to when you’re rejecting money. You could see it even more openly rejecting energy, like the compliments, the dinner, the hug, whatever. Start paying attention. Start calling it like it is. Stop telling the stories. And then, start being in allowance. Start being present. Start being open to receiving even more.

[00:11:25] And come and join us for “Money Does Not Give a Fuck“! I would love to see you there. Have a wonderful week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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