Steps to Create 2024 to Be Your Most Magical Year So Far

Steps to Create 2024 to Be Your Most Magical Year So Far

Steps to Create 2024 to Be Your Most Magical Year So Far

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For the year-end episode, I’m sharing The Steps to Create 2024 to Be Your Most Magical Year So Far #asifbymagic to start the year right and create the life we all truly desire. Here’s to another year full of magic and AWEsomeness!!!

 

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[00:00:00] Would you like The Steps to Create 2024 to Be Your Most Magical Year So Far #asifbymagic? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here. Thank you so much. 

 

[00:00:17] Earlier this month, I did a call — a holiday gift for everybody on my email list — about The Steps and I have shortened it for the podcast here. If you would like the full version, you can find the link above or below and you will get the full audio and video. You will also get the Energetic Exercise that we did at the end. You will also receive the slides — yes, I put slides together for this. 

 

[00:00:44] Without further ado, Steps to Create 2024 to Be the Most Magical Year So Far. We always want to put so far at the end because we don’t want to say 2024 was the best year and it’s 2026 or something like that. This is truly “So far.” We’re gonna create it so far.

 

[00:01:07] If you happen to be watching this in 2026 or another year, please know all of this still applies. We just put 2024 because that’s the year we’re going into right now. It is December of 2023. It’s exciting — at least for me — to think about 2024 and the magic we can create, but please know these all work no matter where or when you are. 

 

[00:01:30] Some of you are new here, and I just want to do a quick little introduction of myself. I’m Glenyce Hughes and I used to have red hair. You can see in that photo. I have been facilitating people since basically 2002 through my business. I have done so many different things throughout all of those years but it’s all basically been the same theme of assisting people to create a magical life.

 

[00:02:00] I did that because I spent so many years, really, I’m going to say “suffering” – that sounds very dramatic, but really in that energy of it wasn’t possible. There was no possibilities. It was just “you’re just here, and then you die” type of thing. 

 

[00:02:15] And so, when I realized that it doesn’t have to be that way and we can choose a magical life, that’s what I started facilitating within the business, or started my business to facilitate that for people. 

 

[00:02:30] When I say ” for people,” I include myself in that too, because it really is. It’s just this huge gift to, to all of us. Even you sharing what your asks were, that is such a huge gift also because it inspires more for me. And then when I shared mine back, maybe there were some that inspired for you. We can really inspire each other to really create the magical lives that are possible. 

 

[00:02:57] At this point, Rodney and I — I call him “Hubby” — him and I, we travel the world full time now. We’ve sold everything pretty much, including our house and everything. Yes, even my swimming pool. But luckily, we go places where there’s other swimming pools. 

 

[00:03:15] We do this full time to pet and house sit around the world while I continue to run my business also because it can go anywhere with me, which I’m so grateful for. We get to snuggle fur babies and laugh a lot and check out cool things. That’s one of our favorite things of this. We’ve been full time now five or six months, I don’t even remember. We’ve just been able to find cool things in all the different areas. 

 

[00:03:41] We spent the last couple months in the U. S. and we will actually go back early next year and spend some time in Texas and elsewhere, and then probably head over to Europe and stuff.

 

[00:03:53] Things that I like. Strong coffee. I mean, really, really strong coffee. Belly laughing with family and friends, and floating and swimming pools. 

 

[00:04:03] I dislike long lines, crowds of people, and small talk, and icky smells. I have a super sensitive nose. Things you probably didn’t need to know about me, but now you do.

 

[00:04:15] All right. Now, the steps to create. We’re going to talk about each one individually, but I wanted to kind of give you an overview here. Number one is ask, number two is action – most people ignore that one, number three is receive, and number four is clarity.

 

[00:04:35] Now, I could probably make 400 steps, really. I mean, I’m just kind of touching on the basics today. But if you were to follow these, you would be creating towards the magical life you desire. We’ve kept them pretty basic for today, but I don’t mean basic in terms of not much information. I mean basic in terms of we don’t need 400 steps. Four is probably good for us. 

 

[00:05:01] Alright, so let’s talk about ASKING. What are the energies that you would like for 2024? 

 

[00:05:09] Now, I specifically put energies on here, guys. If you want to be writing down notes, or if you want to be writing in the chat, please feel free. You are open to utilizing this time that you’re here, whether you’re watching live or you’re listening later, or watching later to actually go through these steps right now. I won’t give time to go through, but of course, you know me, I talk a lot, so you’re gonna have time.

 

[00:05:34] Back to what I was saying. What energies would you like for 2024? 

 

[00:05:39] I specifically put “energies” as opposed to “what would you like for 2024” because that often trips us up. If we’re going to look at next year, again, whatever the year is, and what you would like for it, people go, “Well, I don’t know what I would like.” Okay, cool, but what are the energies? That, at least for me and most of the people that I work with, is a lot easier to tap into. 

 

[00:06:05] Now, if you know what the energies or what the specifics are — if you have some specifics, please write those down too. Maybe you know you would like a new career. Write that down. There’s nothing wrong with having specifics. It just often is what stops people from asking because they think they have to have specifics. 

 

[00:06:26] Years ago, I used to do a lot of Law of Attraction, which is great, but I really misused it in the sense that I thought I had to be like, okay, if I wanted a new car, let’s say, I had to figure out exactly what type of car I wanted, what size of tires I wanted, what the sound system should be like. I had it. It was crazy what I used to do with that. 

 

[00:06:52] What I find just to be so much easier is what are the energies? Even if let’s say you would like a new car, what are the energies of that? Oh, spaciousness. 

 

[00:07:03] For me, when I think of driving, and of course the last couple of months we’ve done a lot of driving, spaciousness. I like to feel spacious in my vehicle. I like to feel safe in my vehicle. I like it to be quiet in my vehicle. By that, I mean the road noise. We drive an Audi 25 and over the past little while, sometimes we’ve either been in other people’s vehicles or maybe we had a loaner when my car was skidding. A service or something. Whoo. Some of those are really noisy on the road. And so for me, these are things that I know. I like the quietness. 

 

[00:07:44] With your specifics, see if there’s energies you can list also. If you have no specifics, go straight to the energies. 

 

[00:07:53] Now, I just put some on here because I know when you get that question — What energies would you like in 2024? — it can kind of feel like you’re a deer in the headlights like, “I don’t know, I don’t know,” so I put some here. Some of them you might really, really resonate with, some of them you might not. You might have other ones, that’s totally okay. But we want to look at what are those energies. 

 

[00:08:17] And then for this, what you could do as we’re going through it right now, if you’re choosing to go through the steps with me, is pick one of those energies for the next steps. It’ll just be easier for you to keep it to one, but please go through this a few times. 

 

[00:08:34] You don’t have to go through it a hundred times if you have a hundred energies, but what are the big [ones]? You could even do what are the top three after we’re done here, but do one right now if you’re going through it with me. What’s the number one energy that you would like for 2024? Yeah. Yeah. 

 

[00:08:52] Now, sometimes we have this idea that there’s only one. If we’re talking about — I see Susan has here “abundance” and “joy.” I’m talking about, okay, we’ll just choose one. 

 

[00:09:10] Abundance and joy often go hand in hand, right? Again, you don’t have to just have the one. It just might be easier for the next steps. We’re not sure. Maybe the energies are so congruent for you, they go hand in hand, and that’s great also. 

 

[00:09:24] There really is no right or wrong with how you choose the energy you would like. A lot of people, even in the new year, will often identify a word for the year. You might even, you know, as you’re going through this, that might be what popped up for you. 

 

[00:09:38] Let’s say “abundance” was yours. Maybe that is your word for 2024 and you could keep that maybe on sticky notes around or a note on your phone or something just to kind of keep you in the energy of it or the remembering of it. Yeah. And then we’ve got “well being” and then “ease with body” and “health.” Yeah. If you could pick one energy right now, what is it for 2024 for you? What are you asking for? 

 

[00:10:09] Sometimes, it’s the exact opposite of what we’re not appreciating in our life right now. That’s sometimes the quickest way to find the energy. And that’s okay too, guys. 

 

[00:10:22] Some people would say, “Oh, no, I don’t want to focus on…” maybe what we might judge as the negative and we’d be like, “Oh, no, I don’t want to.” But what if that’s what gets you there? 

 

[00:10:30] What if you’ve been really struggling financially in 2023 and you really are tired of that, so then maybe it is “prosperity” or “abundance” or “rich” or something like that, because you know what you don’t like?

 

[00:10:46] Please count those, guys. Knowing what we don’t like is as valuable as knowing what we would like, and it’s energies or specifics or mix of both. 

 

[00:10:56] “Balance,” “empowerment,” we have “balanced health,” “friendships.” That’s awesome, guys. 

 

[00:11:03] All right, so first step, ask. What would you like for, in this case 2024?

 

[00:11:09] Next step is ACTION. 

 

[00:11:11] Now, I laughed earlier saying this is hugely the one that people ignore, and I mean I can speak for myself. This one, for so many years, I ignored. 

 

[00:11:22] Going back to my years within the Law of Attraction, I really thought if I did the figuring it out, got really specific with the car I wanted, wrote out everything, the tire size and all of that, and then just sat on the couch and hoped and prayed and wished… and it just never worked like that for me, guys. It just didn’t. 

 

[00:11:42] What I found is adding action. So, what’s required? If you look at that one energy — I’m going to use Hannah because she’s the last one who posted on the chat here with “friendships” — what is required to manifest more friendships? 

 

[00:11:57] Now, there’s three ways that we can take action. There’s probably more, but these are, I would say, the three that work when I look at this, when I look at taking action. There’s physical action to take often, there’s logical action to take often, there’s energetic action to take, and I’m gonna say and I’ll speak for myself here, 100 percent of the time.

 

[00:12:22] I always have an energetic action to take with with my asks. I may have a physical and I may have a logical, and the logical and physical may look the same. They may be the same sort of a thing and that’s totally fine. It’s just sometimes they’re a little bit different. 

 

[00:12:38] I put this example on because in your guys’ email responses to me, so many of you were asking for more money or money stuff or peace with money, abundance, prosperity, all of that, so I used it as an example. 

 

[00:12:51] A physical action that you could take if you would like to feel abundant. A physical action that you could take is get clear on the money that you owe and the interest rate of, say, each credit card. 

 

[00:13:03] Let’s say you’re not feeling abundant because you have a lot of credit card expenses. Okay, so physical action: get clear on it. 

 

[00:13:12] When I had a credit card — lots of them — and line of credits, and all of this, I had actually had a spreadsheet that I used, and I tracked what the interest rate of each one was, what the limit on each one was, and where I was at it, like how much I had on it, I should say, so I could be very clear on what was exact, what was actually going on, rather than putting my head in the sand. 

 

[00:13:37] So, physical action could [be] get clear. Logical action could be where you contact the credit card company and discuss lowering your interest rates. 

 

[00:13:47] Now, physical and logical in this case could be the same, right? That if you’re going to contact the credit card company, that’s also physical action. Again, physical and logical often work together or very similar, but I do like to separate them. 

 

[00:14:01] Of course, we’re going to add some what we could call “woo-woo” to it. For me, the energetic action then is I need to be shifting energetically into that abundance energy. 

 

[00:14:15] Something that I talk about a lot is familiar energy. If you have a familiar energy to credit card expenses, credit card debt, that’s a familiar energy. What often it takes to shift a familiar energy is to get more familiar with the energy you would like. 

 

[00:14:38] For me, I find the energetic exercises, that’s why I talk about them all the time, that’s why I do them all the time, because what I’m doing is I’m taking that energy I would like and making it more familiar for me.

 

[00:14:51] This past summer, we sold our home. Once all the paperwork and everything was done, then the lawyer put the money into our bank account. That occurred on a, I think it was a Wednesday. On the Saturday, I went into the bank account, I looked on Wednesday too and just did a little screenshot, sent it to Hubby, he was like, “WhoopIe!” and then just left it. And then on the Saturday, I went into the bank account and it was gone. 

 

[00:15:24] Our account was in the minus, which our account has never been in the minus. I’ve had a lot of credit card stuff previous to 2014. I used to live off credit cards, all of that. But in terms of bank accounts, never, ever had in the minus. Here, our account was in the minus of these hundreds of thousands of dollars. It was a long weekend here in Canada, so I had to wait until Tuesday. It was Saturday. I had to wait until Tuesday before I could talk to the bank. 

 

[00:15:57] What I was so aware of is that on the Wednesday when that money got deposited, it was, I’m going to say, an unfamiliar energy for me. So then when on Saturday it was gone, that was a familiar energy for me. I don’t mean like the shock of it being gone. That’s not familiar to me, but it not being there was more familiar. So I was so aware of that on the Saturday. 

 

[00:16:22] I mean, I didn’t really panic because what I assumed had happened is I should have maybe talked to the bank that this lump sum was coming in, so that’s kind of the story I told myself. So then I took those days and just kept doing energetic exercises to be more familiar with the energy of that money in my bank account as opposed to it not being there. 

 

[00:16:45] And then on Tuesday, what was really funny is when I did talk to the bank, she’s like, “I’ve never seen this before. I don’t know what happened.” I’m like, “You’re freaking me out.” But anyway, it was all fixed. It was actually a mistake by the bank itself. Anyway, just an example of familiar energy. 

 

[00:17:06] We need to be shifting those energies and that, to me, is where the energetic exercises come in. Okay. All right.

 

[00:17:14] So, that’s action. You might have a physical, you might have a logical, you might have 10 physical actions or 10 logical actions. There’s no limit on [it]. It’s not like it’s just one action. Sometimes it is, and sometimes it’s more. Sometimes there’s no physical or logical. Maybe it is just energetic. 

 

[00:17:34] I talk about energetic exercises [but] maybe you have your own way. The energetic exercise aren’t the only way. It’s just that’s my way. You might have a different way that you like to do that. But just recognizing that there’s going to be action. No matter what, there will be action to take for whatever energy that you’re asking for, or energies. All right. 

 

[00:17:56] So then RECEIVING is where awareness, presence, and tenacity come together. What that means is you need to be aware of where you’re blocking receiving and change it. 

 

[00:18:14] How we block receiving can be so interesting. It could be multiple ways. I just jotted a couple things down here.

 

[00:18:22] JUDGING is one of the biggest ways that we block receiving, meaning, let’s say somebody won the lottery in your town. You start going, “How come they get to win it and I never win it? Look at them, they don’t even need the money. They were born with a silver spoon in their mouth,” or whatever. Right? We’re blocking receiving. What if we could celebrate their receiving of that? What if that would actually expand us energetically to receive even more? 

 

[00:18:53] ZONING OUT is also a really interesting way that we can block receiving. Let’s say somebody says to you, “Oh my gosh, I really love your dress today.” You’re like, “Oh yeah, thank you,” or, “Oh yeah, I got it,” so and so. “Oh, it’s half price,” or where you just zone out. You’re not even present with the gift that they’re gifting you. 

 

[00:19:17] Or DISTRACTING YOURSELF. It’s another way. We can go on social media of some sort and really stop receiving. By that, I mean if we’re on social media, let’s say you’re on TikTok, and you’re watching some TikToks, you can be doing it from distraction. You could also be doing it from receiving. It’s just a different energy. If you’re looking to do it from receiving, get present. Be present while you’re there with that.

 

[00:19:47] Now, at least the way that I see it, there’s nothing wrong with distracting ourselves. I love watching different Netflix things or going on TikTok or social media. It’s just where am I when I’m doing it? Am I blocking receiving or am I actually enhancing my receiving or building my receiving muscles?

 

[00:20:09] Now, ways to change it. If you recognize that you’re actually blocking the receiving, then how can you change it? 

 

[00:20:16] One, my favorite way probably, in that moment, is drop your walls and barriers and receive it. 

 

[00:20:25] Yesterday, Hubby and I went out to a pet sit that will start on January 3rd about half an hour from here. We just went to meet the animals and meet the couple and walk through the house and do those sorts of things. 

 

[00:20:39] With pet and house sitting, it’s been a really interesting adventure because some people who have you come in. The way we do it is through something called “Trusted Housesitters.” We don’t actually get paid, okay? It is a win-win. We have a place to stay. They have all the things, and we get to hang out with animals. They get a win-win because they get to go away knowing that their animals are loved, their home is taken care of, all of that. For us, it’s a win-win. 

 

[00:21:12] Some people are a little bit different in it, where they might see it as they’re doing us a favor. Like, you get to stay at our house, so we’re doing you a favor. Luckily, we’ve had very few of those. 

 

[00:21:27] Usually they’re more this other way, which is, “I can’t believe you’re doing this for us. We are so grateful.” Now, that’s how we show up. We are so grateful. “I can’t believe you’re sharing your home and your pets with us.”

 

[00:21:40] When those two meet, when those two energies meet, it’s such a contribution because both of us are aware it’s a win-win and we’re both gifting and receiving. 

 

[00:21:50] Yesterday when we got there, it was beyond the win-win in their world. We haven’t actually experienced this from anybody yet where that they’re like, “What groceries can we get for you? What can we have here for you so that you’re comfortable? Could we get you gift cards? Can we get you blah, blah, blah…” Rodney and I were both in the space of like, “Oh gosh, no,” like the space of not receiving it.

 

[00:22:19] It probably took me about three minutes to recognize what we were doing because they were so grateful that we would come and stay and love their animals and their home as they do and they just wanted to gift us and shower us with gifts. It was so interesting because all of a sudden I realized we are blocking this. 

 

[00:22:40] [I] stopped and I just dropped my walls and barriers, and it’s an energetic thing for me. I’ve done it for so many years now that it’s quite quick. If it’s new for you, it might take you a little bit longer and you might have to find your way. 

 

[00:22:56] For me, I can energetically, I don’t even have to close my eyes. I’m doing that right now, but if I’m standing in front of somebody who’s offering to leave me gift cards for the grocery store, then I can just have my eyes open, but I can energetically feel or perceive my walls up and I can just drop them. 

 

[00:23:20] If you’re visual, you could imagine a bunch of bricks and then crash them down. You could imagine expanding beyond the walls and barriers, whatever you need to do. But it isn’t for me. It’s just an energetic recognition that I’m not receiving, and then shifting it so that I do. 

 

[00:23:39] What I started shifting it to is every time she kept saying something or he kept saying something like, “We’ll leave you this and we’ll go get you this sort of bread, and we’ll make sure we have this in the fridge,” I’d just be like, “Thank you. That’s very kind.” Every time I said that, I would expand out further. I would drop and push those barriers even farther because it was a huge invitation of receiving that was like, wow. Wow. It was so cool.

 

[00:24:05] What was even cooler is that when we left there, we went to a diner and had a meal. Rodney had ordered soup before his meal. We’ve been in there a few times, this is the first time we ever saw the owner. When she brought him the soup, she looked at me and she’s like, “Would you like some? I can bring you a bowl of soup if you would like.” 

 

[00:24:30] It was like, we’d already paid. It’s kind of one where you go up at the front, you order first and pay, and then you go sit down. Right away, I could feel that energy again. I’m like, “Sure, that would be great, thank you.” 

 

[00:24:42] And so she brought me soup, and then she brought me extra, oh, I can’t remember, salad or whatever it was. It was just like this whole energy of receiving it. “Thank you, that’s very kind. Thank you, that’s very kind.” 

 

[00:24:57] I don’t know about you guys, but when I’m not receiving, it gets really wonky in their world, too. Same thing for me. If the person who I’m attempting to gift to isn’t receiving, it gets wonky in my world. The more we’re willing to receive, the more we’re willing to gift and receive, the more ease it is in all of our lives. 

 

[00:25:22] And then, of course, another one of my favorites, an energetic exercise to shift it. 

 

[00:25:27] In those moments – standing in front of the house sit that we’ve got coming up, standing in front of that couple, I’m not going to take time to go do an energetic exercise and be like, “Can I just have a moment?” No, I don’t do that. 

 

[00:25:41] In those moments where it’s just like dealing with it in that moment, I’ll drop the walls and barriers. But then, I haven’t actually done it yet, but now I’m going to now that I remember. I’m thinking about it. I’m gonna do an energetic exercise to really receive for people that would like to gift and really look at how much farther I can receive it. How much farther can I expand into that? 

 

[00:26:06] The other thing that I have found really helpful when I’m not receiving is go do something completely different.

 

[00:26:13] Let’s say you’re in judgment. Let’s say you’re spinning in judgment, somebody won the lottery, and how dare they and you know… just go do something different. Go take a walk, go phone a friend, go watch some funny videos. Just go do something physically different to really break that habit almost in that moment.

 

[00:26:37] Those are just, again, a few suggestions on how to change when you recognize that you’re not receiving because really, with these spaces, it is this that we’re asking. 

 

[00:26:52] Whatever the energy is we’re asking for — I’m going to use “abundance” because I was talking about that. We’re asking for more abundance. In order to have more abundance or whatever it is you’ve asked for, there’s a level of receiving with that. That is so huge. This part is certainly important. Yeah. 

 

[00:27:13] We will end today with an energetic exercise. I will walk you through one of those, guys. All right. 

 

[00:27:20] So, CLARITY. Number four is basically, you’re gonna look back at steps one, two, and three. You’ve taken those steps, now what? Now, you need to look at okay, what is working? What is working with this? 

 

[00:27:35] Let’s say, again, we’re talking about abundance and you’ve done some energetic exercises around it. You’ve taken some action. You’ve talked to the credit card companies, all of that. 

 

[00:27:45] What is working? Maybe the credit card companies did lower the interest. Okay, cool. What isn’t working? Maybe you’re still putting money on them. Maybe you’re still using them. Okay, so what action’s required there? Maybe you’re required to cut them up or something like that. Okay. We’ve got to look at what is working, what isn’t working. 

 

[00:28:04] Sometimes, we’ve got to look at, has our ask changed? Maybe our ask was abundance, and we’ve talked to the credit card companies and we’re doing all the things, but maybe it’s like, it’s a little bit different now. Maybe it’s something like, I don’t know, peace with money. Maybe that more matches the energy of your ask now. Maybe you’ve got the energy of abundance, and now it’s about shifting it to something different for you. 

 

[00:28:29] And then always, always, always, are there different actions to take? Because if there are, then you want to be aware of those and be taking those. 

 

[00:28:39] Now, everybody does this sort of stuff differently. I track everything. I’m a big, big tracker. I really think that the more we track things, the more that we’re going to add magic to it. I have spreadsheets about this stuff for myself. I laugh because it sounds so bizarre, I’m sure to some people, but it’s how I track it. 

 

[00:29:08] What I know for myself is if I don’t track it, I’m not going to change it. I’m not actually probably even interested in changing it, I’m just giving lip service. The things that I track are the things that will change. Always, always, always. Because by tracking it, I’m adding awareness. 

 

[00:29:25] What I would suggest with something like this, you don’t have to be as weird as me with a spreadsheet, but you could use a note on your phone. You could set a reminder every week or every month. I wouldn’t do it longer than a month, but weekly might be too much. But once a month, go and check out. Go look at those energies you’ve been asking for. Look at what the actions you have been taking. Look at the actions you haven’t been taking. What’s required? 

 

[00:29:50] Go through these questions: What’s working? What isn’t? Has the ask changed? Are there different actions to take? Because the other piece with all of this is we often will actualize or manifest our ask, and then guess what? We don’t even recognize it because we haven’t tracked it. We haven’t paid attention.

 

[00:30:09] Another word for tracking could be presence. We haven’t got present with it. For me, the best way, the easiest way to be present with it is to track it. You might have a different way, but just know that if you are doing a little bit of this work and then you just leave it and then you may be re-watching this in a year and you haven’t done anything with it in between, that’s probably not going to work near as well as if you’re willing to be present with it.

 

[00:30:38] Those are the steps. I’m just going to go back to the first slide here. Asking, action, receiving, clarity, and then basically repeat, repeat, repeat. We, of course, are talking about this as creating 2024 to be the most magical year so far as if by magic, but you could do it for anything if you want to. 

 

[00:31:04] If you look at that ask, you know, whether it’s steps to create the abundance you would like, to create the job you would like, to create whatever it is, these are the steps no matter what the what the topic is. These are the steps that you can go through. 

 

[00:31:21] Once again, if you would like the downloads, the energetic exercise, all of it, you can go to the link above or below. If you don’t see a link, just reach out and I will get it for you. 

[00:31:31] Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again soon.

 

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A Weird Question to Increase Your Confidence

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Will you ask this?

Are you struggling with lack of confidence? Spinning in doubt? This weird question might help you out! In this week’s episode, I will be sharing this tool that helped increase my confidence, as well as more magical tips and tricks you can use to be confident as f*ck.

 

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[00:00:00] Would you like a weird question to ask to increase your confidence? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. Truly, truly grateful. 

 

[00:00:17] I know some of you have been listening for years and years, and I just want to send a big hug to all of you, whether it’s years and years, or this is the first one, or whatever it may be, I’m just so incredibly grateful.

 

[00:00:30] So, a weird question to ask to boost your confidence, and this is actually Noah St. John’s. He came up with this idea of “afformations” instead of affirmations, and I have always loved them. 

 

[00:00:50] Now, if you have been a long time listener, you might have heard me speak with Noah St. John back in July of 2013. Yeah, over 10 years ago. Holy. That was one of my very first podcasts that I did. I invited him on the show. I was shocked when he said yes, and I’m just so grateful. 

 

[00:01:13] So, afformations are turning something into a question, and it’s got an energy of an affirmation, you know? An affirmation is something we usually state as something we would like. “I am toned and sexy,” or something like that. What Noah St. John has found to be way more effective, myself included, is to turn it into a question. 

 

[00:01:42] Because what happens is our brain is always searching for the questions that we ask. Always. It’s just unfortunate because most times we’re asking questions that we don’t want answered. 

 

“Why am I not toned?”

 

“Why am I not sexy?”

 

Those are not questions you want your brain to be putting energy into figuring out, my sweet friends. Let’s ask the questions we would like. 

 

[00:02:06] Here’s the question that I want to give you that’s from the whole title of this, right? The question to be confident as fuck. “Why am I always so confident?”

 

Why am I always so confident? 

 

Why is confidence so easy for me? 

 

Why do I always feel so confident in every situation? 

 

[00:02:27] You get the idea? Now, notice that. Okay, let’s do this and do this with me. 

 

I am confident. I am confident. 

 

Now for me, there’s a little bit of an expansion with that, absolutely, but it comes back down. There’s an expansion and then it clunks in again. 

 

[00:02:49] Try this: “Why am I always so confident?” 

 

That to me, there’s such an expansiveness. It’s such a lightness. It always makes me giggle. “Why am I always so confident?” Or, of course, if you like my terminology, “Why am I always confident as fuck?” because I love that.

 

[00:03:10] Oh, I just had a woman today. I’m just in a different online class today. I’m attending it and I was just sharing the title of my course and she said, “I don’t know what ‘AF’ is. Would the people who would be taking the course know what it is?” I’m like, “Yep, they sure would.” 

 

[00:03:33] So AF – Confident as Fuck. This is also an invitation, guys. Come and play. We’ve got the “Confident as Fuck: 5 Weeks to Crusing Imposter Syndrome and Truly Succeeding in Business and Life.” Come and play. We’ll start in January. Of course, if you’re listening to this later or watching this later, however you’re consuming this, it’ll be recorded also. So, check it out. 

 

[00:04:00] But that’s really what we’re looking for is that turning it into an afformation. For me, it gives it this lightness. It gives us this expansiveness. 

 

[00:04:09] I’m now giving my brain something to do. Something to figure out why am I always confident as fuck, where we will start receiving the evidence continuously, because that’s what we’re asking for. Our brain will constantly find the answers. 

 

[00:04:26] So, let’s start asking the questions that we would like answered. Why am I always so confident as fuck? Why is confidence so easy for me? Why does confidence come so naturally for me? 

 

[00:04:40] Now, one of the bonuses for the Confident as Fuck program is the list of the top ten of the doubts or the limitations that we have with this sort of stuff and how to turn those into affirmation. If that’s something you’d like, go check out the bonuses. 

 

[00:04:57] There’s another really cool one. It’s a whole calendar for every day in 2024. There’s an actionable step to build your confidence. And then of course, there is a Confident as Fuck energetic exercise. Go check those all out. 

 

[00:05:11] But is really what we want to be doing, is turning these things into questions so that we are actually putting our creative energy into what we would like, which in this case is being more confident.

 

[00:05:25] So, again, noticing that when we state, “I am confident,” not as much energy, at least not for me, as to, “Why am I always so confident? Why is confidence so easy for me?” I just love the energy of those. 

 

[00:05:42] When we’re looking at building something, in this case, building confidence, this is not something you do once and expect it to change everything dynamically 100%. I’m not saying it can’t, it’s just if you’ve struggled with doubt, if you’ve struggled with lack of confidence, chances are you have asked certain questions that you probably didn’t want answers to for years and years and years. It will take some time to shift it. I don’t mean it will take years and years and years. I just mean it’s going to take some time. 

 

[00:06:19] You could even be writing down some afformations so that when you are spinning in the doubt, spinning in the frustration, spinning in the unworthiness, the lack of, you’ve got some go to’s right there. You don’t have to, in that heavy energy, try to figure out what an afformation is because sometimes that heavy energy is going to contribute to us staying in that heavy energy. Having some on hand, maybe a note on your phone or something like that, is a great idea. 

 

[00:06:49] It can be just simple where you could just basically do the opposite. If you’re asking, “Why am I failing in business?,” [then] “Why am I succeeding in business? Why is business success so natural for me?” We could just, you know, take it to the complete opposite. 

 

[00:07:07] It kind of is going to depend how far down the rabbit hole you are with the spinning in the doubt and the limitations to know if you can shift it on your own, or if you’re going to maybe need kind of an outside resource or something like that, but it’ll just give you that idea that, you know, there is a way to shift it. There is a way to change it in that moment. 

 

[00:07:26] If this sort of stuff interests you, you may be interested in my “Ultimate Confidence Cheat Sheet for Entrepreneurs” where I’ve got five proven ways to stop spinning in doubt and start feeling confident as fuck. That is a freebie. The link will be above or below. If you don’t see a link, just reach out and I’ll get it for you. I would love to have you have that so that you have that resource. You have a resource that’s right there. 

 

[00:07:55] And of course, afformations is one of those because yeah, that’s how magical I think that they are. That’s how magical they are. Not that I think that they actually are.

 

[00:08:04] Of course, with afformations, you can use them any time throughout the day as required. You also might want to start your day with some and maybe at, you know, intervals throughout the day just to get into that habit of asking those questions. 

 

[00:08:19] Especially since they can seem a little bit silly or a little bit bizarre, so to speak, because of the wording of them like, “Why am I always feeling confident” or “Why is confidence so easy for me?” That’s a little bit of, maybe a bizarre question that we’re used to because we’re used to being like, “Why do I not have any confidence? Why am so unworthy?” We were so used to asking those heavy questions. It might take some muscle building, so to speak, to get you intointo asking these afformations. 

 

[00:08:55] With that myself, I’ve always found just getting in the habit. How can you create that habit? 

 

[00:09:01] I have spoken at length for years about how I create habits. My favorite way is of course the Reminder app on my phone. This pops up at a certain time, whatever I’ve set it for. Ask affirmation or it could just say, “afformations.” I don’t necessarily have to have a specific one I ask all the time, but just something to get you in the habit of creating the habit of asking. 

 

[00:09:26] And then what occurs with that is you will start to notice that that becomes more of your set point than the doubt and the distraction and the upset and the frustration and all of that, but it takes us with what I often call that “tenacity.” The tenacity to be like, “You know what? Yes, I’m doing this no matter what.” 

 

[00:09:50] The other thing that I talk a lot about is “familiar energy.” And so, familiar energy, to me, is if you’ve spent most of your life doubting and feeling unworthy and in frustration and all of that, that’s a very familiar energy. When we add something like this, like asking afformations that could assist us to change that familiar energy, sometimes we resist it because the familiar energy is so… familiar. Imagine that. But it’s so much more valuable because we’re so familiar with it, we’re so comfortable with it. 

 

[00:10:29] This is where the tenacity comes in. This is where how can you create it as a habit? This is where, for me, the Reminder app popping up to remind me. You could use sticky notes. It doesn’t matter. But what do you need to do? What action can you take to shift that familiar energy to go beyond the comfort of that familiar energy into what you would actually like?

 

[00:10:50] That’s something you’ve got to look for yourself. It does take the tenacity, but let me tell you guys, it is so worth it. It’s so worth it to change it and to actually be feeling confident more than you’re not. That’s magic, my sweet friend. 

 

[00:11:10] I would love to have you come and play in January. Again, the Confident as Fuck program. And then of course, there’s the freebie guide you can go download. Links are above or below. 

[00:11:20] Have a great week. I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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Why You Should Be Bragging

Why You Should Be Bragging

Why You Should Be Bragging

Are you celebrating YOU?

All our lives, we have been taught that bragging is “bad,” “wrong,” and all the things, but hear me out. What if it’s actually the missing piece to celebrating YOU? Join me in this week’s episode as we talk about bragging so we can all start acknowledging the magic that we BE.

 

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[00:00:00] Why you should be bragging. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. 

 

[00:00:13] Yeah, why you should be bragging? I know that most of us were probably taught as children that bragging is very, very wrong. In fact, it’s maybe even like a judgeable offense if you are a bragger. I believe there’s even like bragger bragger — no, that’s liar liar. Okay. But anyway, we’ve mostly been told that it’s wrong. I’m here to say, what if it’s not? What if that’s actually a missing piece of you really celebrating you? 

 

[00:00:47] Now, do I mean that we have to go on social media or walk up to people and start talking about how amazing we are, great we are? You could, of course, but that’s not actually what I’m talking about. 

 

[00:00:59] What I’m talking about in this case is what about you bragging to you about you? What a different concept. I know. It’s just that we downplay our gifts, our capacities, our accomplishments, our victories, whatever you want to call them. We downplay them so much that we don’t even celebrate them. We don’t even recognize that we’ve done something that is celebratory because we’re so used to downplaying them. We’re so used to making them like, “Oh, it’s just no big deal. It’s just no big deal.:” 

 

[00:01:39] I was recently working with a client and she has this huge following on social media. In our session, she was talking about how she has so little people on her email list. Okay?

 

[00:01:57] Now, that may be the case, but she was doing it as how much less she is, how wrong she is that she has nobody. I’m like, “But look at that group. Look at that group.” She said, “Oh well, no, that’s because of whatever…” and really downplayed it rather than going, “Wow.”

 

[00:02:19] And then of course, in that case, a question can be how to move them from the Facebook group onto her email list if that’s what you’re looking for. But the first step, the first step, is acknowledging what you’ve done, what you’ve created. 

 

[00:02:35] I know that most of us, again, are taught that we’re to focus on what isn’t working or what is not where we would like it to be. But you know what? We’ll never, ever, ever be completely happy and satisfied with where we’re at. And let’s celebrate that, too. 

 

[00:02:56] Now, I’m going to explain that a little bit because it kind of sounds like, “What? That’s it? I’ll never be happy and satisfied?” That’s not it. It’s just that every one of us — if you’re still watching this a few minutes in, we’re listening to this, however you’re consuming this, you’re still here, then you would like more out of your life constantly. I mean constantly, and I think we should celebrate that. 

 

[00:03:22] I’m the same way. The same way. I can achieve some goal or dream or victory or something, and then it’s like, “All right. Now, what? Now, what?” and there’s the next thing. We’re like that. That’s just who we are. Let’s celebrate that. 

 

[00:03:39] But also, when we do have reached that goal or accomplished the dream or whatever it is, let’s also celebrate that instead of downplaying like, “Oh, that just happened because so and so did whatever,” or “I mean, that wasn’t really me.” It’s like… oh. 

 

[00:03:55] I remember years ago, it was 2002 when I took my first Reiki class. It was so drilled into us in that class, and I continued drilling it as I facilitated Reiki classes in the years after, that we were never, ever, ever to acknowledge ourselves if somebody had anything occur in that Reiki session. If somebody came in with a headache and they had a Reiki session and they didn’t have the headache after, we were always to say, “Oh, it wasn’t me. It was the energy.” 

 

[00:04:33] Now, on one hand, I totally get that. It is not probably healthy to say, “Oh, that was totally me,” because it’s not if there’s a whole mix, right? If we are doing Reiki or any sort of energy work on someone else, it’s a mix. It’s that person receiving it and us and all the things. 

 

[00:04:53] But to totally cut it down every time — and I was so stuck in it, I’m going to say, that somebody who knew nothing about any of this – they tried Reiki for the first time because they hadn’t had success with anything else out there, and they just tried it and they just said after, “Wow, I feel so good,” my response to that wasn’t “You’re welcome.” It wasn’t “I’m happy about that.” It was “It wasn’t me. It wasn’t me.” 

 

[00:05:21] I mean, it sounds so ridiculous now, but that is the energy of it. I had been taught and I had really taken it on that somehow I would — I don’t know what would happen to me if I said, “Oh, I’m glad that we created that” or “I’m glad that that’s occurred,” or received some of my part in that. 

 

[00:05:43] Yeah, right? I mean, there’s so much where we downplay, where we cut off, and it’s like, what if we could actually acknowledge ourselves, celebrate what we did do in that session? 

 

[00:05:57] I don’t mean we have to figure out what we did in that session because stuff like energy work is not really figure-out-able. That’s the magic of it. But also, not pretend that we weren’t part of the magic there because we totally were part of the magic there. Yeah. 

 

[00:06:12] When I talk about why you should brag, this is what I’m talking about. This is where you need to be celebrating you. The more that you celebrate you, the more that you’re going to achieve whatever it is you would like to achieve.

 

[00:06:28] I have a sweet little kitty here. You might hear her. I don’t know if you can hear that or not, but she’s so cute. I’m currently in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, and at a friend’s house who happens to have a kitty, and she happens to be away right now, so we’re kind of pet sitting. Not kind of, we totally are. 

 

[00:06:47] But anyway, so, bragging for you. Now, I have recently created this really cool daily actionable calendar to be confident as fuck. It is a bonus for anybody who joins us for the Confident as Fuck, the 5-week program that’s coming up starting in January of 2024. If you’re listening to this later, of course, it’s been recorded. You can find it on the same link above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out.

 

[00:07:16] But I’ve created this calendar. Every day for 365 days, there’s an actionable step to take to become confident as fuck, to really get that energy. One of the things that I’ve put on there and that’s really inspired this radio show because I thought many people, when they read it, will be like, “No,” is to phone a friend and have a bragging contest. 

 

[00:07:41] Right? Like, why the hell not? And of course, you want to choose the friend wisely. You want it to be somebody who’s maybe choosing like you are in certain ways so that they’re willing and able and excited to do it, and they know that it’s not a competition but that it’s for fun, and it’s building this muscle to really celebrate you, to be confident as fuck, and it can contribute to them also. Like, what if you did? 

 

[00:08:08] Imagine giving yourself — let’s say you phone a friend and you go five minutes each and maybe you, I don’t know, just choose whoever to go first. I was going to say draw straws, but you’re not in the same room so it doesn’t matter however you want to do it. 

 

[00:08:21] The first one goes and they just brag. Brag, like, really get the energy of, like, “Wow, this week I showed up to this meeting and I was prepared and I had everything that I wanted to cover, and I made sure that when they spoke about something I disagreed with that I spoke up,” you know? 

 

[00:08:43] It doesn’t have to be when things go perfect either. It could be like, “You know what? I showed up at the meeting. I wanted to cover these three topics. We didn’t get to the third one. I was really frustrated with myself after. Next time, I know that I’m going to make sure that this occurs.” Right? 

 

[00:08:58] Bragging doesn’t have to be about when did good, when you were perfect. It’s not about that, but it’s about acknowledging. It’s about acknowledging and celebrating and just getting the energy that you succeed every freaking day. 

 

[00:09:14] You succeed every freaking day, but you don’t see those successes. You don’t acknowledge those successes. You wipe them off. You don’t even look back.

 

[00:09:25] Imagine you, whatever, a year ago, five years ago, 10 years ago, whatever’s going to bring up the most energy for you, is that you back then? Would have they done this week what you did? 

 

[00:09:37] I’ll tell you for me, no. No. No. The way that I’m choosing to show up now, the way that I’m choosing to live now, the way that I’m choosing to ask for what I would like and allow people around me to be uncomfortable and be demanding in certain ways when it’s appropriate for me, I never would have done that. Maybe a year ago, a little bit a year ago, but five years ago? No. Ten years ago? Oh my gosh, no.

 

[00:10:10] This week, I still caught myself a few times, when I was asking for what I knew someone else was uncomfortable for, saying “I’m sorry.” I caught myself doing that and I was like, huh? Okay, I didn’t stop it in the moment. I heard myself say it. “I’m sorry, can you help me with this?” And then went afterwards like, wow, I don’t need to be sorry. I can just say, “Hey, can you help me with this?” 

 

[00:10:35] Or with some of them — they were medical professionals that I was around. What I started doing was say, whatever their name is, “May I ask you a question?” And that just changed it because I don’t [go], “Hey, I’m sorry, I have a question.” No. May I ask you a question? That allows them to make the choice if I can or can’t. 

 

[00:10:56] It also starts it off on a different energy than when I walk in and I go, “Oh, I’m sorry…” what the hell? No, I’m not sorry. I’m actually grateful that I have a question. Really grateful. 

 

[00:11:05] What was so cool is that the day after I caught myself saying “I’m sorry” a couple times in regards to asking questions, I ran into a family member in the hospital. She works there and I think we were just chatting about different things and I just was asking about something specific. 

 

[00:11:26] She said, “You know, questioning is really the best thing. You’ll you’ll never, ever go wrong by asking questions.” And I was like, oh, okay, this is really cool. I mean, I know that, and sometimes when I’m in, say, unfamiliar situations, it’s a little bit different and I can kind of lose that.

 

[00:11:43] My dad’s in the hospital, he had some surgery, everything’s going wonderfully, just in case you’re going, “What’s happening that you’re in a medical institution talking to professionals?” That’s what’s going on. All is well and I’m so grateful. Just wanted to cover that so we didn’t have any panic in anybody’s world.

 

[00:12:01] So, yeah. So, bragging about you to you or to friends or maybe you like to post on Facebook. You’ll see a lot of my posts can be about bragging. It could be seen as bragging – absolutely. I’m okay with that. There’d have been a time I wasn’t okay with that. I’m okay with that now. Okay, if people want to judge that, if they think it’s wrong, no problem. 

 

[00:12:24] I know for me that it builds my confidence every freaking day the more that I celebrate me to me. If I want to put it out in the world, cool also, but that part isn’t necessary. Just an additional if you’d like to. 

 

[00:12:40] Once again, I would love to have you join me. Confident as Fuck, five weeks to crushing imposter syndrome so you can truly succeed in life and business as if by magic. That starts January, 2024. Again, it is going to be available as a recording afterwards also. And of course, if you would like just the calendar part, that’s available also. Links are above or below. Yeah. 

[00:13:06] Have a great week, sweet friends. Keep bragging. I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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Is This Why You Are Hiding?

Is This Why You Are Hiding?

Is This Why You Are Hiding?

Show up and be all of you.

Are you hiding parts or pieces of you? Why could that be? Tune in to this episode as we discuss all about this hiding energy and some magical tips and tricks on how you can turn it around. There is no better time than now to be all of us, sweet friends!

 

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[00:00:00] Are you hiding because of past experiences? Welcome to Tools To Create A Better Life With Myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here. 

 

[00:00:11] If you are watching the video, that is the arch from St. Louis, Missouri in the background. Yeah, how cool is that? Alright. So, are you hiding because of past experiences? 

 

[00:00:22] I’ve had four different people that I’ve worked with over the past week that have had that sort of hiding energy. Something had occurred in the past and because of that, what they did was they chose to hide instead of be themselves, instead of be who they are in the world, in their business, whatever it may be. And so, it made me wonder how many people, how many of you have had experiences where you then chose to hide based on that. 

 

[00:00:54] One of them, I would say this was probably three of the four, there was something that occurred as a child and they were magical. Maybe they saw their grandparent who had died and they let their parents know that they were with them or something, and it scared their parents. So then, the child took that as it was wrong and bad and shut it down, and then have continued to shut down that energy. 

 

[00:01:21] You want to look at that if this is something you’d like to change and that’s something you remember, or maybe you don’t even remember the experience but there’s an energy as I talk about it. Something you want to be aware of with that, because those can really keep that, you know, as I’ve been talking about a lot lately, is this imposter syndrome where we really stop ourselves from shining, from being all of us. 

 

[00:01:45] You know, my own experience, and I’ve got many shows, if you go back in the last few weeks, about my own, and I didn’t even know I was choosing imposter syndrome. For me, I was echoing other people’s work. That was how it was showing up for me. I wasn’t aware of it. 

 

[00:02:00] But for a lot of people, it’s this. They’ve had basically some sort of an experience where they were told they were bad and wrong for whatever went on and they started shutting it down. And then as they grew into adults, they either never really looked at it or they remembered it, they were aware of it, but they didn’t know what to do with that because that’s a pretty big energy. 

 

[00:02:22] You can imagine if you were a young child and somebody that you cared about had died, and then you energetically saw them or you physically saw them or you connected with their energy and you shared that with people who you love. You expected the joy, you expected the happiness, you expected a totally different response, then being shut down for it. [You] can’t imagine how you would take that forward. 

 

[00:02:50] So, how do you change that now? One of it is just acknowledge it. Acknowledge the magic that it was for you, even if nobody else did. This, to me, is something that we all have to do for ourselves. We really have to look at what we know is magic for us and not look outside of us. 

 

[00:03:13] That’s not really the easiest thing to do. I get that. I get that. We’ve been taught that that’s what we’re supposed to do. That’s how it’s supposed to be in this world. If we’re good, if we’re right, then the outside world will let us know instead of us acknowledging it for ourselves.

 

[00:03:32] That’s, I would say, the first thing you want to look at is whatever that experience was, acknowledge it for you. Acknowledge the magic you were in that. Acknowledge what was really going on. 

 

[00:03:44] For a lot of people — I’m going to stick with that example of seeing and energetically connecting with someone who had died. 

 

[00:03:51] For a lot of people, that’s a really scary thing. It actually had nothing to do with you as the child. I know you took it on. I know you took it very personal. I know you made it about you, but it had nothing to do with you. It had to do with their own fear. Their own points of views, their own belief systems, whatever it might be.

 

[00:04:13] Sometimes, there’s this automatic response with stuff like that because this world tells us it’s so wrong. This world tells us when somebody dies, they’re dead, they’re gone, or they have other ideas of it. There’s some religions that believe if you can connect, then you’re the devil or you’re doing the work of the devil and different stuff like that.

 

[00:04:33] There’s so much stuff out there instead of just acknowledging like, “Hey, you know what? I am magical as fuck. I was able to connect,” and maybe you still are — I am, I was, whatever, able to connect, “and that is magical.” 

 

[00:04:48] Have some grace for yourself. Have some allowance for yourself. You don’t have to make the people or person right or wrong for the other part. That’s their stuff. Let that be, but really acknowledge you for it, and really get in that sense of how would you like that magic to show up now? 

 

[00:05:08] Because here’s the thing: you BE magical. You BE magical. I was so magical I just brought a big noisy train in so I paused for a little bit. Hopefully, it’s going to be this quiet for now.

 

[00:05:22] When we look at that and we acknowledge ourselves and we acknowledge the magic that we were or we are, however you want to word it, then it allows you to be more of that, where you can actually start to really utilize those capacities. 

 

[00:05:40] When I say capacities, I don’t mean just if you had a situation similar to what I was talking about. It could be in any way. 

 

[00:05:47] Maybe you were singing. Maybe you were singing in the shower and your family made fun of you and you started shutting down. You’ve got capacities with singing. Now, maybe you want to get a voice coach or maybe there’s something there. Or maybe it actually has nothing to do with the singing itself, but it’s like just allowing yourself to be you wherever you would like to be you.

 

[00:06:08] Here’s the thing with other people’s judgments. When people do that… Let’s say you’ve sung in the shower and then your family judged you, it can be a few things. But for the most part, it’s that they wouldn’t do that. They wouldn’t do that. That’s all it means, but we make it so personal. We take it as though they know what they’re talking about. That they’re right and we’re wrong. 

 

[00:06:33] Let’s just stop that, guys. Let’s look at those times where we’ve done that and just let it go. 

 

[00:06:38] A lot of times when I’m working with these clients that I was talking about this week, what I would ask them to do with those energies, with that stuff, with those memories, that contraction, I’ve just asked them [to] let’s just go ahead and melt it. Let’s just melt it, you know? 

 

[00:06:52] If you think of that situation or situations where people did that, just… Go ahead and melt it. You don’t even have to know what you’re doing. Just energetically melt it so that you don’t have to be at the effect of it anymore so that you can really start to shine. You can really get out of this imposter syndrome and really shine as you without all those crazy limitations of “I can’t do this, I shouldn’t do this, this is wrong, this is right.” 

 

[00:07:22] It’s like… What if there’s no right or wrong? What if it’s just about you being you in whatever way you would like that to be?

 

[00:07:33] Yeah. Yeah, that’s a lot of energy that just came up with that. So, would you go ahead and just melt that? Would you just go ahead and melt all the reasons and justifications you have for not doing that? All of the becauses, all of the “But didn’t you know, Glenyce, blah, blah, blah…” Let’s just melt all of that so that you can actually, actually be you and shine as you on this planet.

 

[00:08:02] I invite you to my upcoming 5-week program called “Confident As Fuck,” where we’re going to crush imposter syndrome. Each week is a different topic and there’s been some bonuses added. If you haven’t looked at the sales page lately, go check them out. I believe there’s three or four new bonuses added.

 

[00:08:23] It’s so exciting, guys. I’m so thrilled with everybody who’s chosen it so far. We start January 2nd, 2024. If you’re listening later, of course, it’s all recorded and everything. There’ll be a link above or below, but I would love to have you come play to really start shifting this so that you can let go of that past.

 

[00:08:42] So often we have this kind of energetically where we’re constantly looking behind us to choose our future. And what if we stopped? What if we started just choosing our future? 

 

[00:08:53] What if we just started creating what we would like to create rather than the limitation of looking behind us and going, “Oh, but that one time I sang in the shower, they made fun of me. That one time I talked about so-and-so being here with us, they, they told me I worked for the devil” or something like that? 

 

[00:09:12] I actually got a letter like that once. In case you didn’t know, I spent about 10-12 years actually being a professional medium. I was probably a year or two into it, so I was fairly new at it.

 

[00:09:26] It just started one day, the month of my very first radio show. It’s called “Tell Her I Love Her.” If you want more about that, that link will be somewhere. If you don’t find these links, guys, just reach out, I’ll get them for you. 

 

[00:09:38] And so… I got a letter and it wasn’t signed or anything, but it was that. It was that I was working for the devil and that I needed to stop and that it was wrong and all those things.

 

[00:09:49] I remember it so clearly because what I remember it being was basically, here’s a reason you could stop. Here’s a reason you could not do this anymore. It’s like the universe was giving me an out if I wanted it.

 

[00:10:04] What I did from just this real potency — I still remember the energy because I didn’t even read it all. It was like pages. Well, it wasn’t this thick but it was thick, pages and pages long. And so, I basically went to the very end and read the last paragraph or so, and it was like, oh, okay. I see. I see this isn’t welcome to the world. This is a “You’re all wrong.” 

 

[00:10:26] What I did is I just started ripping it up into the tiniest pieces and put it into a canister thing, and I burnt it. That was like my way of saying no. I know that what I’m doing is creating greater. I know that this isn’t the work of the devil. I just knew it. It was so clear for me.

 

[00:10:48] If we could have that clarity with everything in our life, with everything in our life, even the people who tell us we’re wrong or bad or we shouldn’t or we’re not supposed to, just know that that is their stuff. Know that that is their stuff. 

 

[00:11:02] The way that I see it at this point is if there was ever a time to be all of us, now is the time, guys. Now is the time. 

 

[00:11:12] I’m sure that you see all the things going on in the world as I do. I don’t speak about it mostly because I have no clue what to say. It’s not that I’m oblivious, it’s not that I’m pretending, it’s not that I’m oversimplifying anymore. That’s a big thing I used to do, yes.

 

[00:11:35] When we do shit like, “Well, that’s just a choice,” no. That’s oversimplification. That’s very unkind. I’m aware of it. I do what I can in the ways that I can, and let’s do more. Let’s shine more. Let’s be all of us even more now because that is what I get will really shift and change all of this is more of us being us and shining in ways that maybe we never even knew was possible. 

 

[00:12:10] So again, come and join me in the Confident as Fuck, 5-week program starting January 2nd. If you don’t see the links above or below, just let me know and I will get them for you. 

[00:12:19] Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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How a Hero Inspired Me

How a Hero Inspired Me

How a Hero Inspired Me

Let’s all be heroes today.

It was a pretty normal morning in my hotel room when I overheard two women right outside my door. One of them, whom I started calling “Hero,” said something that took me to tears and had me looking at my own life. Let me tell you all about it in this episode and hopefully, it inspires you, too!

 

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[00:00:00] How a hero inspired me. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. 

 

[00:00:13] Yeah, so we are still in the United States on our travels, pet and house sitting. We have the cutest little, I believe, long-haired dachshund right now in St. Louis, Missouri. Oh my gosh. I’ll put a little video on here of him. Oh my gosh. 

 

[00:00:32] Anyway, last night, because our sit didn’t start until today, we spent the night in a hotel close by. This morning — very early in the morning, I was sitting at the desk in the hotel and I could hear two women out in the hallway. I’m pretty sure they were standing right by my door because it was like I was sitting in the middle of them. It was very, very clear what they were saying. 

 

[00:00:58] Basically, what had occurred, as much as I could get, was the one woman was treated very poorly by the desk clerk. Very, very poorly, let me just say. The other woman — these are two strangers — obviously saw that occur. 

 

[00:01:20] When they were in the hallway, the one who I have called “Hero,” — yes, I have renamed her as “Hero” — she was very intensely sharing with this woman that that is not okay and what she should do instead. 

 

[00:01:42] Apparently what had occurred is this desk clerk [was] very, very unkind to this one woman, and the woman went upstairs and was crying. She was crying out in the hallway on her way back to her room. 

 

[00:01:53] Hero stepped in and said, “Listen, you can’t be doing that. You can’t just let somebody to treat you like that and come up here and cry.” She said, “You go back down there. You make sure that you see the policies.” There were some things that were said and charges that were made in terms of financial charges for additional guests and all these things.

 

[00:02:19] Hero was so… inspirational, but also like, holy. [Glenyce laughs] You would definitely know if Hero spoke to you in that way. She was so passionate about it and so clear in terms of like, “No, you don’t take that shit. You do not take that shit. You actually don’t take that shit.”

 

[00:02:44] At one point she said to this woman, and this is the part that just really, it just took me to tears. She said, “I don’t even know you, and you are my sister.” 

 

[00:02:57] What? “I don’t even know you, and you are my sister.” Guys, imagine. Imagine a world where we lived that. Where we looked at everybody, female or male or non-gender — I don’t know the proper term, I apologize — and we said, “I don’t know you but I got your back.” That’s what she was saying. I don’t know you and I have your back. 

 

[00:03:30] There’d be some people who maybe would say, “Hero didn’t have that woman’s back because she is hard on her.” She was hard on her but damn, was it good. It was the hardness that most of us would never ever give, but probably should. 

 

[00:03:51] There’s probably times in our lives where we should give it to ourselves or we should give it to somebody else. That woman this morning — I mean, at least from what I could hear through the door. I mean, honestly, I wanted to open the door and clap, but it really would have been inappropriate, but that is like that. 

 

[00:04:09] Hero required, like, she deserved a standing ovation for her just having this woman’s back. The other woman required to know that yes, Hero has her back, but so do the rest of us. And it’s okay to say, “No, this doesn’t work.” [Just] because somebody’s a desk clerk, because somebody has a role in assisting you with your hotel room, it doesn’t give them the right to treat you poorly. It doesn’t give them the right to make charges up.

 

[00:04:43] I mean, this whole story isn’t about that occurred. It was really about Hero and how she didn’t know her and [yet], she was her sister. 

 

[00:04:57] I just looked at my own life, and especially traveling as much as we have in these past few months, where I wouldn’t go out of my way to be unkind. That’s just not who I am. But sometimes, there’s just no kindness. Sometimes I’m matching the energy of people around me. 

 

[00:05:19] What Hero reminded me of this morning was matching the energy of people around me is not okay. It’s not an excuse because each one of us — sisters, brothers, others, whatever, it doesn’t matter — would like more. I know because you’re still watching or listening to this. I know you would like more. You wouldn’t be here right now if you didn’t. 

 

[00:05:53] We would like more. We need to be more. We need to be more [like] Hero. We need to call people out when they need to be called out, and not from betterness or anything but from, “Hey, I’ve got your back but let’s step the fuck up.”

 

[00:06:12] No, you don’t go upstairs crying, and maybe you do. Honestly, that would be something I would need to do. I’d need to go cry and do that, and then I could go. That’s exactly [what] this woman [did]. 

 

[00:06:22] Again, I’ve overheard in the hallway. I’m just sitting right in my desk. That’s all I was doing. I wasn’t eavesdropping. I could not help it. I did hear her talk to somebody else. She just said, “Oh, I went down and got this information, and it still didn’t quite sound like the information…” 

 

[00:06:40] Honestly, I was wishing that Hero would go downstairs with her, but I also realized that Hero can’t be there all the time. Hero gave this woman the kick in the ass, I’m going to say, that she needed. What she does with that is totally up to her. 

 

[00:06:58] I’m not saying it would be easy, because it’s not. There’s so few of us that appreciate confrontation, but that’s the problem. We don’t like confrontation, so we get the people that will walk all over us. We get the people who will treat us unfairly. We get the people who will charge us for things that don’t need to be charged for, shouldn’t be charged for, are not legal to charge for. 

 

[00:07:23] I hear at one point she’s like, “You should sue them!” I’m like, okay, I think you might be going a little far with this woman right now. She can’t hear that, but anyway. 

 

[00:07:33] And so I was so inspired by this. “I don’t even know you, and you are my sister.” 

 

[00:07:44] I’ve spent the rest of the day looking at everybody including myself, including Hubby. I’ll be honest. At times, guys, we spend a lot of time before we spent a lot of time together. Now, we spend a lot of time together. There’s times where I’m not seeing him as a sister, which sounds really wrong. But you know what I mean? Like, you know, there isn’t a kindness at all. And it’s like, what if… what if I could change that? 

 

[00:08:21] What if every person on the street, every person I interacted with everywhere, I could have their back? And then taking it a step further… what if I had that for myself? 

 

[00:08:36] I was kind of having this — I’m a very visual person so I sometimes have… I don’t know what you call them, daydreams or thoughts in my head about the visual things. I was visually imagining, what if it was one person? I know it wasn’t, but what if it was? 

 

[00:08:55] What if that woman was standing in front of a mirror in the hallway and I took it as two people. What if she’s talking to herself? What if we actually talked to ourselves like that? What if we had our own backs the way that Hero had this other woman’s back? What if we said the hard things? What if we said, “You don’t come up here and cry. You go deal.” 

 

[00:09:19] I mean, she didn’t say this, but basically she said, “You put on your big girl panties and you deal.” She had kids with her, the other woman. She said, “You don’t want your kids doing this. You don’t want your kids seeing this. You want your kids to see that you’ve got them and they’ve got you and you can deal.” 

 

[00:09:36] And it was just… I’ve got words, obviously. I’ve said many words now about it, but the words really cannot say everything that I received from this morning. 

 

[00:09:49] Especially in the past few months for myself, there’s just so much going on in the planet that honestly at times I think, what’s the point? What’s the fucking point? Everybody’s killing. Everybody’s hating. Everybody’s separating. There’s so much, there’s so much. 

 

[00:10:11] And then, Hero, this morning, she restored part of the humanity, that this is a thing. That there’s still people on the planet who would do this for somebody. 

 

[00:10:26] I wouldn’t have done that. If I would have interacted, if I would have seen what went on, I would have, if I had the chance, had a conversation with the woman who had went through it, but it wouldn’t have been like that. It would have been probably a lot more of like, “Hey, are you okay? Can I help you?” It would have been more that energy, not this like, boom, that Hero had. And damn, that was good. 

 

[00:10:50] That was so much. So much more than… so much more to change it, I guess is what we could say, because there’s a kindness we can be when somebody who’s went through something that we can really contribute to and assist with in certain ways. 

 

[00:11:10] But when you call it like it is and you say what’s required and you don’t give room for wallowing — I’m not sure if that’s the word, but that’s the energy of it — and you make it really clear what’s required, that woman then had the confidence to go back down to the front desk and deal. She went and did the thing that she probably never in a million years would have done without Hero saying what she did. 

 

[00:11:39] If Hero would have just come in and comforted her, I mean, there would have been something there, but nothing to the degree of getting her to go back down to the front desk and deal. Like, wow. That takes a level of energy and kindness and like, wow. Just… wow is all I have to say, and just how inspired I am by it all. 

 

[00:12:03] I did a little post shortly after on Facebook about it and I said at the end of the post, “Let’s all go be heroes today.” So guys, let’s all go be heroes today.

 

[00:12:14] Man, I tell you what. If by any chance the trucker that was at that hotel in Missouri who I’m calling “Hero” — I believe she said she drove an 18-wheeler. I think it’s an 18-wheeler. I think it was [in] Claysville, Missouri, the hotel I was at -, Quality Inn. 

 

[00:12:38] If she happens to be watching this, I just gotta say thank you. Thank you for showing me what else is possible. Thank you for inviting me to a level of kindness and potency, and having someone you don’t even know’s back that I didn’t even know was possible. Thank you, thank you, and thank you. Gosh. If we’re ever somewhere together, I would love to buy you a drink.

[00:13:12] So, there we go guys. There is the inspiration that I received this morning at, I don’t know, 7:30 in the morning. It was amazing. Have a great week. I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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What is Perfectionism Costing You?

What is Perfectionism Costing You?

What is Perfectionism Costing You?

Spoiler alert: A lot!!!

Let me tell you now, sweet friends, it takes a TON of time and energy to be a perfectionist. Is it really worth all that? Tune in to this episode where we discuss this and the tools you can use to manage, and possibly overcome, perfectionism so you could open yourself up to more magic and possibilities.

 

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[00:00:00] What does being a perfectionist cost you? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life With Myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. 

 

[00:00:11] Yes, if you’re watching this on a video, I am swinging. We are at a house and pet sit in Melbourne, Florida. They have a tiki bar with swings, a big ol’ pool over there, and the sweetest little puppy named Max, who is 119 in human years.He’s sleeping, as he does a lot. 

 

[00:00:31] So, what does being a perfectionist cost you? A lot. A lot. Whether you’re being a perfectionist in your business, in your personal life, it doesn’t really matter. If you look at the time and the energy you put into being the perfectionist, it’s costing you a lot of that time and energy.

 

[00:00:51] Where is that really coming from? Being a perfectionist is often from this place of controlling ourselves, this place of needing to be right, and it takes 110% judgment to do that. 

 

[00:01:05] So… if that is you, if you are a perfectionist, if you know that you have to do things and redo them and do them and redo them and have all the judgment in there, what you might want to start looking at is if that was a friend of yours and they were showing you, let’s say you’re doing a video for business. If they showed you that video, what would you do? What would you say? Would you tell them to re-record it? 

 

[00:01:32] Now, in some cases, absolutely. There’s been times where I’ve restarted videos, of course, restarted podcasts, of course, or clipped out something I said in the middle of it. 90% of the time, I don’t have to do any of that. I just sit down and start talking and we clip off the very beginning and, of course, me getting into the swing, nobody needs to see that, and then the very end. But 90% of the time, that’s it.

 

[00:01:55] And then, there’s 10% of the time where it’s like, man, that just didn’t fit what I was saying or I didn’t find the words and it just doesn’t make a very good audio or video or whatever it is. 

 

[00:02:06] It’s not that re-recording or doing something again is necessarily wrong. It’s just what’s the energy behind it. If you need it to be perfect, one, you’re not going to get stuff out there. It’s going to cost you a lot in business because you’re going to be very slow. 

 

[00:02:23] One of the things that I find so interesting on, say, TikTok. Now, there’s lots of different social media platforms and I’m just speaking directly about TikTok right now. If you were to watch some of the videos on there, there are some where they intentionally make a mistake because it gets more views, it gets more comments. 

 

[00:02:46] What I mean by that is if you watch a cooking video and they’re, say, cutting up a lemon, they’ll actually leave the sticker on the lemon so that people go into their comments and say, “Oh my gosh, you missed the sticker on the lemon. Oh, you just drank that,” or whatever it is. It’s really funny. It’s a bizarre thing. The perfect, what we might define as “perfect” or “polished” isn’t actually the things that get the engagement. 

 

[00:03:14] I would say, for me, if I was going to guess why that would be is because we know we’re not perfect. We know nobody is perfect. If somebody’s coming across in their video or in their business that they’re perfect, it’s not going to speak to the same people. It’s not going to have the same energy. 

 

[00:03:35] Will there be some people? Of course, because we’re maybe looking to get a little bit better. But 100% perfect, polished all the time? Probably not. 

 

[00:03:44] The other thing that you want to look at is… in my experience, and a lot of people will tell you this, is that it’s the story that gets people engaged with. Again, I’m speaking about it from a business standpoint. It’s the story that gets people engaged. If you have to be perfect, you’re probably not sharing those stories where you weren’t perfect. 

 

[00:04:08] Now, I stumbled across this by accident. When I first started this podcast back in 2013, oh my goodness, what I started doing was just sharing my stories. Sharing of where I was at and how I changed it. 

 

[00:04:22] I didn’t do that because I read a book. I didn’t do that because a business mentor told me to do that. All those years ago, I wasn’t working actually with business mentors. I was just doing what was fun for me. What I found was sharing the story, sharing the problem where I was at and how I changed it. It’s what people were really interested in.

 

[00:04:41] Again, if we go back to being a perfectionist — and there’s certainly radio shows, podcasts, videos that I’ve put out where it was like, “Oh no, I know how to do this and here’s how you do this, and now go do this.” They’re not so fun to watch compared to “Here’s where I was struggling, here’s how I changed it, and here’s how you could change it too.” 

 

[00:05:03] Going back to the title of the show, what is being a perfectionist costing you? A lot. A lot of time. A lot of energy. A lot of creativeness. That judgment and that wrongness that we put ourselves in is actually killing all of our creations. It’s killing our possibilities.

 

[00:05:24] Again, I’ve been speaking to it from a business standpoint which, yes, absolutely, but it doesn’t have to be. This could be your personal life, too. 

 

[00:05:33] If your house always has to be perfect to the point where you don’t have people over because it’s not perfect or you feel shame if somebody stops in unannounced, then that’s costing you your mental health. That’s costing you your sanity. 

 

[00:05:49] Now, all of this, how do you change it? How do you change it? 

 

[00:05:52] To me, first step with everything is really looking at acknowledging it. Being like, “Wow, I’m trying to be perfect here” or “I think I need to be perfect here” or “I should be perfect here, isn’t that interesting?” Call it what it is. “I’m doing this, interesting.” “I’m doing this and I’m wrong,” no. “I’m doing this and interesting. Okay, cool.” 

 

[00:06:17] You could look at, “Okay, so what would I like it to be like?” Hmm, I’d like to be okay with people stopping in unannounced. Okay, what is that actually going to take? The house being perfect all the time? No, that’s not it. It’s being okay with what is. 

 

[00:06:36] And also looking at, in this case, people stopping by unannounced are probably friends. What if you look at those friends? Are they coming over to judge your space? If they are, then maybe they’re not so much friends. But probably not. They’re just coming to see you. They don’t care what your house is like. 

 

[00:06:53] Now, in some cases, you might really just not be happy with the way your house is and you would rather it be different before people came over. Cool, then what can you put in place to get it, to change it so that you can have guests that are unannounced? 

 

[00:07:08] Now, I say that [and] I’m laughing at myself in my head because I’m not a huge fan of unannounced guests and it has nothing to do with the state of my home or other people’s homes as it is now. It really has to do with my comfort level of having people unannounced. 

 

[00:07:28] As I’m saying that, please know you don’t have to be okay with unannounced guests. You can have it be where it just doesn’t work for you and you ask people to let you know when they’re coming by. That’s totally fine. But if you’re doing it from the shame or you need to be perfect, that’s a different energy. 

 

[00:07:43] Acknowledging what is – okay, here’s where I’m operating from. How would I like to be operating? How would I like this to be? Start looking at that instead. 

 

[00:07:52] The other thing is a lot of people who are perfectionists, of course, they might have received that message growing up. You might have had a parent tell you that you need to be perfect, you need to get it right. That might’ve been really drilled into you. I get that that can be a huge factor for some people. 

 

[00:08:11] It’s great to say, “Oh, I’m just going to acknowledge what it is,” and I get that that could be bigger for you. Please know that’s okay if it is, and that you might want to look at what’s required to change that, to change that programming. 

 

[00:08:25] There might be a different therapist, or A therapist. There might be somebody who can assist you with it. There might be a book to read. There’s a bazillion things. We want to look at that, too. We don’t want to, the word is called “bypass,” where we just go, “Oh no, I’m fine and I’m just going to not be a perfectionist.” No. If that’s really drilled into you and that’s really where you’re operating from, that’s a different story. 

 

[00:08:47] The other place that perfectionists can be coming from for a lot of people is the Impostor Syndrome. I did an amazing free training this week and it’s available for download. You’ll find the link above or below. It’s called “A Tool to Crush Impostor Syndrome.” 

 

[00:09:02] It was so much fun. Oh my goodness. You might want to go check that out and see if that fits for you. See if there’s some magic in there to really assist you with that. 

 

[00:09:13] But that’s one of the places where it can come from. It’s just having this idea that you’re not valuable as you are, so you need to then be perfect to be valuable. What if that’s just this huge lie? Like, huger than huge than huge lie that many people have been buying into because you don’t need anything added, ever, to be valuable, my sweet friend. You are valuable just by being. You are valuable just by being. 

 

[00:09:47] If you want to start paying attention to the places where you’ve decided you’re not valuable, or that you need to add things to be valuable, that’s a really great place to start looking at the imposter syndrome, too.

 

[00:09:58] Now, I’m not saying that every person on the planet is operating from imposter syndrome. Studies have shown 82% of the people on the planet are operating from imposter syndrome. 

 

[00:10:08] There are people like Taylor Swift — yes, I’m a new Swiftie. I’ll be going to her concert next year, 2024. Very excited. There’s like Tom Hanks. These big names who, if you see them perform, you just think they have it all. They’ve got it all figured out. They’re totally confident in who they are. Sometimes, yeah. Like every one of us, sometimes, yes, and sometimes, no. 

 

[00:10:36] Along with that free training, what that is inviting everyone to is a new program that I’ve got starting in January of 2024. If you’re watching or listening to this later, it will be available, of course, in a course form. It’s called “Confident as Fuck.” It’s a 5-week program where we will crush imposter syndrome so you can truly succeed in business and life. 

 

[00:11:00] If you’d like more information, again, that link will be above or below, but do check out that free training. There’s a lot of information in there to really start shifting it, and that tool is magical no matter what area of your life. No matter how you’re dealing, how you’re showing up with this imposter syndrome. 

 

[00:11:18] Just to recap, what I’d like you to look at if you’re struggling with this perfectionist stuff is start acknowledging when you’re choosing it. Start acknowledging when you’re operating from it. And then look at, “Okay, what would I like it to be like? How would I like that to be?” 

 

[00:11:33] If you’re not putting videos out – let’s say you’re recording videos and you’re not putting them out because they’re not good enough, how would you like it to be? Well, probably putting them out. Then just do it! Just do it. 

 

[00:11:44] Remember the people who, on purpose, cut up a lemon that still has this sticker and put it in a blender so that they get more engagement. If you’re messing it up, you’re probably going to get more engagement, and how much fun can that be? How much fun can you have with all of this? 

 

[00:11:59] Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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