Do you have an upper limit problem?

Did you know your upper limit doesn’t usually show up in big dramatic moments?

It shows up in small ones.

A quick reaction.
A split-second decision.
An uncomfortable moment when someone offers support.

In this episode, I share a simple lunch story that revealed one of my own patterns around receiving. We had just spent hours talking about allowing the Universe to gift us… and then I was faced with the possibility to receive – and my system went straight into control.

You’ll hear practical, everyday examples of how upper limits show up, including:
💥 accepting compliments
💥 asking for help
💥 letting someone support you
💥 receiving kindness without managing the situation

Join the Upper Limit Experiment (6-week study group):
Starts April 2, 2026
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* Upcoming Classes and Events

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* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

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Do you have an upper limit problem?

If things start going well… and then suddenly feel hard, stressful, or off – this episode will hit.

In this episode, I break down why your system resists success, happiness, money, and ease – and what’s actually happening in that moment where everything shifts.

You’ll learn how to recognize the pattern, interrupt it, and start allowing good things to last.

Inside this episode:
💥 Why success can trigger stress instead of ease
💥 The “internal thermostat” for money, happiness, and love
💥 How self-sabotage shows up (and why it’s not random)
💥 The exact moment the pattern begins—and what to do there
💥 Real examples from business, relationships, and everyday life

Join the Upper Limit Experiment (6-week study group):
Starts March 26, 2026
💥 click here for details

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You are invited:

* Upcoming Classes and Events

Be Sure to Check Out:

* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

If you liked this episode, you can now show some love (and support the radio show at the same time!) by Buying Me a Coffee ☕ How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

What if it isn’t what you think?

If you feel valuable only when you’re useful, this episode will help you see why.

Many capable women build their identity around being the one who handles everything. The one people rely on. The one who fixes problems, anticipates needs, and shows up for everyone.

At first it looks like generosity.

But often it’s something else.In this episode, I talk about the difference between generosity and overgiving, and why overgiving is often a protection pattern in the nervous system. 

You’ll learn:

• why overgiving feels automatic

• how being needed can become your identity

• why receiving support or money can feel uncomfortable

• the hidden cost of always being the reliable one

• small shifts that help you move from overgiving to receiving

This isn’t about becoming selfish or giving less.

It’s about learning to give from choice instead of pressure.

And learning to receive without feeling like you have to earn your place.

If you’re ready to practice this work consistently, we do this inside Magic School for Manifestors, where we regulate the nervous system, rewire patterns, and expand your capacity to receive.

Join us in Magic School for Manifestors

Free Gift for YOU – Morning Routine to Manifest Your Dream Life #asifbymagic

You are invited:

* Upcoming Classes and Events

Be Sure to Check Out:

* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

If you liked this episode, you can now show some love (and support the radio show at the same time!) by Buying Me a Coffee ☕ How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

What else is possible?

Do you ever feel like something bad is about to happen… even when everything is fine?

In this episode, we’re talking about the pattern of waiting for the other shoe to drop – not as a mindset issue, but as a nervous system response.

You’ll hear real examples from my own life:
👉 Why I couldn’t take a day off (even when I planned one)
👉 Why free time turned into busy work
👉 What happened when I posted clearly in pet sitting groups and got unkind comments
👉 How visibility can trigger bracing
👉 Why calm can feel like a pause before impact

This is about recognizing when your system treats ease as unsafe – and learning how to respond differently so the pattern can actually shift.

If you:
🫣 Struggle to relax when things are going well
🫣 Overwork when there’s space
🫣 Justify yourself when visible
🫣 Replay conversations looking for mistakes
🫣 Panic when income starts to stabilize

This episode will help you see what’s really happening. And most importantly, what to do instead.

If this resonates, join me for the live training:
👟 How to Stop Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop 

✨ Join the 2-part program: How to Ask so the Universe Responds 

Join us in Magic School for Manifestors

Free Gift for YOU – Morning Routine to Manifest Your Dream Life #asifbymagic

You are invited:

* Upcoming Classes and Events

Be Sure to Check Out:

* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

If you liked this episode, you can now show some love (and support the radio show at the same time!) by Buying Me a Coffee ☕ How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

Have you ever wondered??

How the Universe Responds isn’t about asking harder.
It’s about where you’re asking from.

In this episode, I share a real moment that exposed a pattern many people miss:
You can be asking… and still be postponing the response.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
👉 Why asking from “almost” creates stall
👉 How future-based asking dilutes momentum
👉 What changes when you ask from present-tense choice
👉 Why explanation and justification slow things down
👉 How engagement shifts the response you receive

This conversation isn’t about mindset tricks or positive framing.
It’s about presence, clarity, and letting your request be seen.

✨ Join the 2-part program: How to Ask so the Universe Responds 

Join us in Magic School for Manifestors

Free Gift for YOU – Morning Routine to Manifest Your Dream Life #asifbymagic

You are invited:

* Upcoming Classes and Events

Be Sure to Check Out:

* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

If you liked this episode, you can now show some love (and support the radio show at the same time!) by Buying Me a Coffee ☕ How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

What if you don’t have a mindset problem?

Wanting more can feel exciting for seconds, then heavy, embarrassing, or overwhelming.

That reaction is not mindset failure. It’s a nervous system response.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
👉 Why wanting more can trigger self-sabotage
👉 How your body decides if “more” feels safe or unsafe
👉 Why guilt and shame show up right after desire
👉 What to do when daydreaming leads to shutdown
👉 A simple way to calm your system so wanting more stops feeling threatening

If you’ve ever thought:
🧐 “Why do I shut down when I want more?”
🧐 “Why does desire feel unsafe?”
🧐 “Why do I stop myself right as things feel good?”

This will explain it. This conversation is about nervous-system safety, not forcing positivity or pushing harder. Watch to the end for a practical regulation tool you can use daily.

Join us in Magic School for Manifestors

Free Gift for YOU – Morning Routine to Manifest Your Dream Life #asifbymagic

You are invited:

* Upcoming Classes and Events

Be Sure to Check Out:

* My fun creations on Amazon – a You are Magical AF coloring book and 4 different notebooks

If you liked this episode, you can now show some love (and support the radio show at the same time!) by Buying Me a Coffee ☕ How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.