Tools to Lose Weight

Nov 21, 2021 | Radio Show

Tools to Lose Weight

What if it doesn’t have to be a struggle?

Let’s be honest: we all wanted to lose that extra weight at some point. I, for one, have spent years and years of my life looking for ways to lose weight. But it wasn’t until last year (2020) that I finally, really started to change my body.

I’m not going to recommend any weight loss programs or diets. You will need to find what works for you and your body, hence these unusual tools from Access Consciousness to aid you. Tune in to this episode to find out more, because this might be the information you and your body have been asking for!

In this episode, we will be talking about:

- [02:34] BEing Gratitude
- [07:07] Communing with your body
- [12:14] Checking your points of view
- [13:42] Being “too much”
- [20:30] Asking your body

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so grateful for you. Thank you so much for being here. I know I say that at every show, and I think I probably have since I started in 2013 — that’s a lot of shows.

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If you listen via a podcast app, you will want to find both shows. There’s one that’s called Tools to Create a Better Life which is where you’re listening to this one right now. And then, there’s also one called The Glenyce Show — that one was from 2013 to, I think, 2017-ish. If you listen [via a] podcast app, go do that thing.

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[01:11] All right. What are we talking about this week? Unusual Tools to Lose Weight. Now, *clears throat* pardon me. I don’t often use that term. I talk about changing your body, specifically changing your body with your body.

Let’s be honest: most people — maybe not most — many people are looking to lose weight, and so I thought, “Let’s just do a show about it.” It’s something that I’ve been doing over the past almost two years. That seems like, wow, and I’ve been doing it with unusual tools.

[01:56] Years and years ago when I was 9, I was put on my first diet which was all about not being overweight anymore or losing the weight from judgment. Let me tell you how that went. Well, it wasn’t until I was 48 — last year — that I really started to change my body. All that was created when I was looking to lose weight from judgment was — yep, you guessed it — more weight.

[02:34] That is actually Tool #1 – is that you’ve got to be looking at your body through the eyes of gratitude. You really want to be present with your body, not from how wrong it is, how fat it is, how ugly it is, how awful it is, like all that stuff. Stop it. Stop it. [For] one, it’s never going to change it.

I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again, a million times: Every thought you think, every word you speak, every energy you Be is an ask of the universe. If you’re looking in the mirror and judging how fat you are, guess what you’re asking for? Yeah. And then, guess what you get to do? Judge you more when it doesn’t change or when it increases. So, stop it. Stop it right now. What if we could be grateful for our bodies?

[03:33] Now, a comment was made a few years ago by Gary Douglas, who is the founder of Access Consciousness where all these yummy tools that I share are from. He said something that really, really, really pissed me off. He said, “You are the creator of your body. Why would you judge your creation?”

At that time, I was very aware that I was the creator of my money stuff. I was creator of my life, I was creator of my business — I had owned that sh*t. But the creator of my body? What? It really was in my face, and [it] took me a while to really get present with.

The example that he used, which also stayed with me, obviously, is that if a five-year-old was finger painting a picture, and they gave it to you, would you judge it? No, of course, we don’t do that. We’re so happy and we’re so excited and we just love what they did for us. We do that with our body. then we turn around and judge it and judge it and judge it — judging our own creation.

[05:07] This unusual tool #1 is really BEing gratitude. That sounds funny, I know, unless you’ve been around me for a while. That’s a weird statement, BEing gratitude. What the heck?

The thing is that often [when] we do gratitude, more likely what we’re doing is judgment, but we’re calling it gratitude. When we make a gratitude list, it’s often from judgment. I always use the example that back in the years when I would do a gratitude list, if Hubby had done something that made me happy that day, then he made the list. But hot damn, if he didn’t, he’s off the list. So, it wasn’t actually a gratitude list. It was a judgment list disguised as gratitude.

More so if we BE gratitude. Don’t look at your body and go “I’m grateful I have big toes” or “I’m grateful I’ve got great eyes” or something like that. Just look at your body and BE gratitude. Just BE gratitude.

[06:13] Sometimes for me, if I’m not in that space, I do bring something to mind that gets me there in an instant. My little kitty Totty, she gets me there in an instant. If I know that I’m not BEing gratitude and I would like to start BEing gratitude, then I’d get Totty. Or if she’s in the room, I could look at her. Boom, I’m there. That’s such an invitation.

But again, it’s not from the doing of it, it’s reminding me of the energy of BEing gratitude. The more that you can BE gratitude — not just for your body, just BEing gratitude — the more ease it will be to lose the weight. [It’s] because it’s not then from the judgment that it has to change. It’s really from the invitation of what would you like to create? What would your body like to create?

[07:07] And so, this is unusual tool #2: it’s all about communing with your body. Communing is very similar to communicating and totally different. How’s that? Communing is basically gifting and receiving — allowing your body to gift you the information about what it would like, and also gifting your body information.

It’s a gifting and a receiving. I use the word information, it’s not probably totally accurate. But there’s a beautiful energy in the gifting and receiving, and the allowance of your body. [It] has a consciousness of its own. Your body has some desires and some wishes and what it would like. If you’re willing to commune with it, it can guide you.

[07:56] A couple of months ago, I was facilitating a Foundation class, and we did it in the afternoon — from 1:00 P.M. ’til 5:00 P.M. my time, which was kind of an unusual time. Normally, I do mine in the morning, and the class asked to be then, so I did that AND on my fast day. Most of you know that I alternate-day fast, which means one day I have an “eat day” [as] it’s called, and one day, I have a “fast day.”

It was a fast day, and normally on my fast days around five o’clock, I just go and have a really nice bath. Often when you’re fasting, you get really chilly as the day progresses so it’s a perfect time to bath. After I finished the class, I came upstairs. I had a little chat with Hubby and I said I’m going to go downstairs and have my bath. I walked towards where I would go downstairs to my bathtub— yes, we each have our own bathtub — and I stopped, I picked up my running shoes, and I went out for a run.

[08:57] That’s an example of communing with my body. I didn’t ask my body, “Hey, would you like to have a bath?” I was really doing it from the conclusion of “This is what I do at five o’clock on fast days” and I didn’t even really notice that I was doing it. Obviously, my body did. [And] so she was like, “No, I’d rather go for a run.”

I have asked her to override my limitations, to override my insanity. I have given her full permission to be in control of what is hers and what she would like to be, do, and all of that. That’s been over the years, guys. This isn’t something I just did the first day I learned about communing. Let me tell you [that] there was a level of control that I had to be willing to let go of.

[09:46] That can occur, but also, you can just be asking like, Hey body, truth: Would you like a bath right now? Truth: Would you like to go for a run? You know, so you’re communing. You’re allowing your body to have a sense say in what’s going on with it. There’s so much that goes on with our bodies that we could be co-creating with our bodies.

[10:09] Now, if this is something you would like more of and you would like to work personally with me, I do offer a VIP Day for Changing Your body WITH Your Body. It’s frickin’ magical, I love it! We get to spend a whole bunch of time together [and] you end up with your own magic trick book — all the things. Anyway, there’s a link somewhere, go and find it.

If you want more information [or] if you can’t find it, just reach out and I’ll send you the link. I would love to play with you and your sweet body. It’s all about really tapping you in to how your body speaks to you and how you can continuously hear it and receive from it and all the pieces.

[10:56] Now, if you’re new to this, you could just start communing with your body about what it would like to wear. When you go to your closet in the morning, just get, like, from a playfulness and be like, “Body, what would you like to wear today?” You might be really drawn to something [or] you might notice that you already had it on your mind earlier.

Here’s the thing: our body is pretty much always communing with us anyway. It’s when we start tapping into it [that] we might recognize things and ways that maybe we thought we’re thinking, or maybe we just thought we got sick of a food we were eating. It’s often our body’s way of letting us know whatever it would like.

[11:39] So, just start playing with it. Let it be really light and really playful. Guys, this is not about, again, judging, okay? In order to change anything, you have to take judgment out of the picture. If you can have play, and fun, and lightness with communing with your body, it’s going to create so much magic for you that you’re going to want to do it more and more. It’s going to assist you to choose it over and over and over just based on how much ease it creates in your sweet life. Yes.

[12:14] Now, another unusual tool to lose weight is to really look at what those points of view are that’s holding the weight there. There’s so many, like, I cannot tell you, over these past almost two years, the points of view that I have cleared about weight loss and having less. And still, there’s more to do. How do I know? My body’s not quite where she would like to be just yet.

It’s not about anything in particular. It’s not to say [that] every person who has extra weight, it’s because they have this point of view, blah, blah, blah. It’s never that – it’s never that. It’s weird, unusual stuff.

[12:59] So, how could you get to know what your points of view are? Well, the cool thing is, when you play with the tools from Access Consciousness, you don’t necessarily have to figure them out. What you want to be aware of is what’s going on when you’re thinking about your body, when you’re thinking about the weight, when you’re thinking about maybe food, like, what is going on in here?

Once you tap into that energy — again, you don’t have to figure out what’s going on here, [you] just want to be aware of the energy. Then, we use this magical tool that I talk about all the time: Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[13:42] Right now for myself, I’ve been doing a little bit longer fasts on my eat days. Hmmm… that sounds confusing. I have been doing once a month for a few months — five months, I think —of a five-day fast. This month would, you know, normally I would have done another one, and my body said no. I was like, “Okay, what would you like?” It was more around- rather than a 38-hour fast and then having an eat day, it’s more around a 48-hour fast and having one meal, and then having another fast of 40 hours or such — [it] just depends on what my body asks for.

That is a different energy for me. It sounds so funny — I can do a five-day but a 48-hour seems, like, that’s a lot. I was looking at that the other day when I got to about hour 46 and was like okay, what is this? What is this? It was just this energy of like, to eat in that moment was going to, like… I don’t even really know how to put it in words. But energetically… “sighs* Hoooo.

It was interesting, then I got even more curious of [it]. What if I decided [what] that *buzzing sound* energy is and how that I shouldn’t have it, that it’s wrong to have it, that it’s bad to have it? I looked at all of those pieces because I can go five days at least five days without food. I know that’s not a problem. So, why, when I was going to break it at 48 hours, was at 46 being weird? It was a no — so I always check in with my body, you know, did body desire to eat then? Because it could totally, and it was a no, so okay.

[15:36] Then, I got curious around like, “What is this? What is that?” and just recognizing that without the food, there’s a lot of energy. There’s a lot more intensity. There’s a lot more… Again, this is really difficult to put into words, guys, but lot more of… me. Yeah.

And so, by eating and knowing I was going to eat, it was desiring to have that quicker. But it wasn’t actually consciousness, it was a limitation, a point of view, whatever we want to call it, that I shouldn’t be that much. That’s really the energy as I’m talking about it. I shouldn’t be that much, I need to tone it down. Everything that brings up will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and, beyonds.

(That is the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement. To know more about it, you go to www.theclearingstatement.com.)

[16:42] That’s really what that energy was. The more that I BE that, the more that I get to be present with when I’m looking to shut it down and what’s going on that I’m looking to shut it down. Again, always for me, it’s always what asking my body about when it would like to eat. I might look at tomorrow having a 48-hour fast, but if my body at 24 hours or 12 hours or two hours or 82 hours, says, “We can eat now” or “I’d like to eat now,” then I do it.

It’s never about “I have to do this” — it really is that communion, but really recognizing those points of views. If you know that you eat when you’re stressed, know food doesn’t have anything to do with extra weight. If you’re using it as a way to deal with something, and it doesn’t work for your body, that’s where the extra weight may come from. It’s this level of presence and this level of vulnerability with yourself that if you’re willing to be that, again, you’ll change everything, guys. You will change everything.

[17:53] I’ve talked about gratitude, and I’ve talked about vulnerability. There’s these five elements of intimacy that we talk about in Access Consciousness: vulnerability, allowance, gratitude, trust, and honor. I recently did a 5-part series on them in relation with your body. We’ll have the link here somewhere — go check it out, guys. Honestly, probably one of the best series that I have done so far. It blew my mind. Yeah, there’s just so much.

[18:25] And so in that moment, once I was curious with it and I played with it and I looked at it, then I started playing with like, “What would it be like to be too much all the time?” What would that be like? Universe, show me what it would be like to be too much all the time.

But anyway, when we look at that, and we’re willing to clear the points of views, be honest with ourselves, [and] not make anything significant — I could look at that and go, “Oh my gosh, I don’t want to be too much. I bet you that was because so and so said this to me when I was four years old” or this happened — I could do that. Sometimes that’s relevant to have the awareness to clear it. But a lot of times, it’s just a distraction in of itself. It’s really about just being present with it, clearing it, and now, what can I choose?

[19:17] I was working with a client yesterday and she was talking about putting on some classes, and I said, “Well, what’s the value of not sharing your classes and putting it out into the world?”

She said, “I don’t want to be too much.”

I said, “But you are too much.”

Let’s acknowledgize, guys. We are too much.

[19:38] I got my order from Sephora yesterday. Yes, there’s a huge sale. I have more orders coming, oh my gosh. I am too much. I am too much. I’ve always been too much, I will always be too much. I don’t mean just with make up — in all the ways. Probably just like you, my sweet friend, but we’re told it’s wrong. We’re told to tone it down. Turn it down, be less, fit in, be like the other people. Please, sweet friends, please be too much.

What energy, space, consciousness, stories, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can you and your body be to be the too much that you truly be? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[20:30] The last tool we’re going to talk about today, although I could share millions of them, is to start asking your body to show you. Body, show me. Show me what you would like to look like. Body, show me what you require to change whatever it is it would like to change.

If you know your body’s asking to be smaller – Body, show me what we require. And then, be aware. When you see something pop up in your social media feed that feels yummy, or you go to the library and a book is really attractive to you, or your friends are talking about something like a new juice cleanse or something — and I don’t mean it has to be that. I’m just pulling stuff out of my ass to talk about here with that, but there’s so many different ways and shapes and things that can come in about what your body actually requires.

[21:25] That’s how mine showed up with the fasting. It was this feather touches of a friend telling me that she was fasting, although she was doing 30-day fasts. I’m not there yet – not sure ever will be. But that wasn’t it, you know. It still was a few more months of little, little feather touches, and then going to the library. The only book left in the library about weight loss was something called “Alternate Day Fasting“. Imagine that.

[21:50] If you include your body in showing you, like, Body, show me. Body, show me what it would take for this to be more ease than I never imagined possible. Those are points of view you want to look at, too, guys, because if you got the point of view that it’s hard to lose weight or you have to struggle or you have to suffer or you have to go without [food] — those are all interesting points of views that you want to be running Interesting point of view, I have this point of view on over and over and over and over because it doesn’t have to be. It can be total ease and joy and glory unless you’ve decided that it can’t.

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Tools to Actualize Everything You Want

Nov 14, 2021 | Radio Show

Tools to Actualize Everything You Want

Actualize anything you desire with total ease, joy, and glory.

Have you been asking for something for a while now but hasn’t actualized yet? You might need to look at a few things:

- Is that what YOU really want?
- What should you be doing to contribute to it actualizing?
- Have you really, TRULY asked???

There’s one thing I know for sure—when we desire something, we will get it QUICKLY. Lucky for us, there are easy-to-use tools from Access Consciousness that can assist us with actualizing everything we want. 😉

In this episode, we will discuss the following tools:

- [00:38] Tool #1: Is this mine?
- [04:22] Tool #2: Am I Willing to Receive This?
  - [05:11] Tool #2.1: Who Am I Being?
  - [06:00] Tool #2.2: Who Would I Lose?
- [07:28] Tool #3: What Can I Add to My Life?
- [12:03] Tools #4: Clear the DJCCPSERRJs
- [16:33] Tool #5: Ask…
- [21:01] Tool #6: Engage with the Elementals

If today’s tools and topic sounded yummy to you, I invite you to join my LIVE Energy Pulls to Engage with the Elementals to Create Magic or, you can always #getyourbutttoFoundation – I have another Online Foundation coming up this December 2021 and would love for you to join us. Love this episode? You can now support the radio show by simply Buying Me a Coffee. How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here — I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

If you’re watching this by video, you might know – maybe not, but today’s Halloween. This is, of course, airing later. But I dressed up as an elemental today, and we’ll actually talk about them in this show in a little bit. This show is all about Tools to Actualize Everything You Want.

[00:38] Tool number one—and so you guys know, they are in no way, shape, or form in order. These are just kind of popped up as I was looking at what I wanted to share today. I could probably do 16 different radio shows on this topic and still have a ton of tools, because there’s so many of the tools that we use in Access Consciousness [that] are about actualizing. They’re about creating what you desire [and] receiving everything you desire.

So, tool number one. This, to me, is something that you want to be really aware of. When you look at what you would like to actualize, the question you want to start asking is Truth: Is this mine?

[01:26] I know, it sounds weird. However, we are infinitely aware. We can pick up the neighbor’s headache, we can pick up somebody in a different reality, [or] problem with money. I mean, we can pick up all sorts of insanity. We can also pick up other people’s dreams and hopes and wishes and desires and wants. That’s how magical we are.

[01:52] If you have been asking for something for a while and it hasn’t actualized it, ask: Truth: Is this mine? Is this my ask?

One thing I know about you and I know about me is that if we desire something, we’re going to get it pretty quickly. Now, there might be some stuff that requires some timing, whatever, all of that—fine. But if it’s been on your desires for say, more than three months or so, check in: Is this actually mine?

[02:28] Let’s say you’ve been asking for a family holiday in Hawaii. You ask: Is this mine? and you get ‘no’. It might be that just part of that is different. Maybe it’s not Hawaii, maybe you would like a family holiday in Greece—something like that. Truth: Is this mine—it doesn’t mean none of it is yours, you might just want to question a little bit more if there is. If none of it is yours, please just take it off.

[02:59] Here’s the thing: we’ll never create [and] we’ll never actualize what isn’t ours. If we keep it on our list and it’s not ours, what we’ll do is we’ll end up judging ourselves. Rather than acknowledging it’s not ours, we go, “Oh, I’m so wrong. I’m so bad. I’m so horrible. I don’t have this thing. I really would like it, but it’s not happening. I must be…” Blah, blah, blah.

Be honest with yourself. If it’s not yours, take it off. It might show up in a different way, there might be another way to ask it, then that’s great.

[03:33] I also do this whole creation afternoon or part of the last day of Foundation. I’ve got another one coming up at the end of December. #getyourbutttoFoundation wherever, whenever, with whoever—of course, there’s many of us facilitators around the world. I do have one though, at the end of December. We’ll put a link somewhere. If you’re listening to this later—because I know some of you do—there will be a link to something that will get you to my upcoming classes because I always have Foundation coming up. That is how much I love it.

And so, this is one of the things that I go through with people and I get them to look at in this creation time that we do. I get them to make a list, I get them to look at, “Okay. Truth: Is this mine?”

[04:22] Now, the next tool on the list that I have is actually also from that same creation session. Let’s say you get a ‘yes’, it’s yours. Truth: Am I willing to receive this?

Now, this is where I see a lot of people freak out because they go, “I don’t want to ask that because if it’s a ‘no’, it means I can’t have it.” No. Actually, it doesn’t mean anything except that there might be some points of views to clear so that it’s then a ‘yes’. Okay? That’s all it means. That’s it, that’s all, that’s it, that’s all. But you have to acknowledge first if you’re not willing to receive it because if you get [that] you’re not, then we can go other places, but you first have to acknowledge it.

[05:11] Let’s say you’re asking for a million-dollar-a-year business. Truth: Is this mine? You get a ‘yes’. Okay, cool. Now – Truth: Am I willing to receive it? Let’s say you get a ‘no.’ What are some other questions you could ask? Okay, so, some of my favorites: Truth: Who am I being when I’m not willing to receive a million-dollar-a-year business?

You might have family members come to mind. You might have, I don’t know, a school teacher. You might have somebody you don’t even have a name for, but there’s an energy there. It doesn’t matter if or who or what pops up. You just need to destroy and uncreate it.

Everything that is, I destroy and uncreate it all times a good zillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[06:00] Some other ones that I have for that one is Truth: If I actualized it, who would I lose?

Sometimes, we have these weird points of views—maybe from other lifetimes or other experiences in our current life, whatever it is—that we did lose somebody. Maybe we had we actualized a million-dollar-a-year business in another lifetime, and then our dog died. We concluded that if we wouldn’t have the million-dollar business, then our dog wouldn’t have died, then we go, “Never again.”

[06:39] Even though these questions don’t necessarily make sense, or who pops in when you ask it doesn’t make sense, that’s okay. That’s okay. You’re just clearing the bizarreness, and that’s really what we want to get beyond and then whatever else you might have come up with that. So, if you get you’re not willing to receive it, you know—Who am I being? Who would I lose? What would I lose? There might be other things, too—just be willing to clear it.

[07:05] I also have various programs on receiving. We’ll put a link somewhere. It’s something I have talked about a lot [and] facilitate to people a lot around. It’s because when we’re willing to receive everything, then we’ll actualize everything we desire. That’s really what this is about. We’ll put a link to some of those programs.

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[07:28] Just [be] willing to ask that. No, it’s not a conclusion, or you don’t have to stop there like, “Oh, I’m not willing to receive it, darn.” No, you just want that information. And then, you can go to step two which is clearing those points of views [and] asking more questions, so that you can get to where you are willing to receive it.

[07:50] Tool number three is something that’s a little bit different, but it is so important. What you want to start asking is: What can I add to my life today to actualize blah, blah, blah, right away? – whatever it is that you’re looking for. What can I add to my life today to actualize a million-dollar-a-year business right away? Ask that a lot and then follow whatever pops in.

[08:20] If you suddenly see a painting class and it’s a ‘yes’, say yes to that. You suddenly hear about a running group and it’s a ‘yes’, go to that. Like, it’s not logical. This is where a lot of times we think, “Okay, well, if I’d like to add something to my life that would actualize a million-dollar-a-year business…” and it has to be business-related. Maybe it’s staff, maybe it’s [a] graphic designer, but like, no. No. Stop trying to be literal!

Energy doesn’t work literally. Energy works energetically. You might see that painting class and you go to it, and then you meet somebody who’s got this really cool invention or whatever—you get the idea. Start asking that a lot, and start adding to your life more and more and more.

[09:11] The other thing that occurs when we’re actualizing things is that we can get really limited in what we are putting our energy in. We often will start contracting our energy, thinking that the less I’ve got—I’m scattered, so to speak—the more that will occur. So, the more that I focus on my business every day and I’m intent on my business every day, I will actualize it to be the million-dollar-a-year business. It very rarely works like that. In fact a lot of times, the more intense, the more focus, the more contracted you get, it kills whatever it is that you’re doing that with.

So, the more that you have on the go, the more you’re going to whatever—paint classes, run classes, yoga, fun with family, fun with friends, painting your house, like whatever it is—the more you are adding in every area of your life and living, the more quickly you can actualize things because you’re not limiting by [focusing] on one thing.

[10:24] Oh, gosh. Imagine that you had a new friend. You enjoyed the new friend; you enjoyed being around them, but you were their only friend. They had no contact with anybody else. You were it. Ugh! Already I did just like, “Oh no!” That’s not easy on my body.

It’s the same as with your stuff. When you’re actualizing the million-dollar-a-year business—it’s something that keeps coming to mind, but maybe you want a new horse or you want a new house, and you’re just zeroing in on that one thing, that’s too much. That’s not going to work that way. The more that you can have so many other creations going—you can be adding to your life continuously.

[11:15] It’s not scattered, guys. I know this reality tells us it’s scattered. But I promise you it’s not scattered. It’s actually a way to really allow ourselves to get out of our head and into the living of our life, and allow those things to show up as if by magic.

What can you be adding to your life today to actualize everything you desire with total ease and joy and glory? Anything that doesn’t allow you to add it to your life with total ease and joy and glory continuously, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[12:03] Tool number four is something—if you’ve listened to me before, maybe you’ve only listened to one show, you’ve probably heard me talk about it. You want to be clearing constantly all of the DJCCPSERRJs which is all of the decisions, judgments, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections, expectations, separations, refined judgments that you have about something.

[If] you have about actualizing a million-dollar-a-year business, that you have about getting a horse, whatever it is, you want to be clearing those constantly.

[12:43] For anybody who hasn’t heard, we are now doing show notes. If you are on my e-mail list, you will be getting them e-mailed to you every Sunday. You can go and download them from the link in the weekly e-mail if you would like. All of these tools will be talked about in there, that acronym – DJCCPSERRJs – will be broken down in there.

There will also be a link to a radio show where I talked about these in much more depth. There’ll also be a radio show linked to the discussion of What Can I Add to My Life because I did a whole radio show on that.

[13:21] And also, the show notes aren’t just in the e-mail section. You can also go to my web page and find this radio show in the Radio Show section, and then they’ll be underneath. You can find those there. There’s lots of different ways, but if you would like them e-mailed directly to you, come and join me on my e-mail list. You’ll find a link here somewhere. If you can’t find it, just e-mail or message or smoke signal and I will get it to you.

[13:50] Back to the DJCCPSERRJs. The less decisions, judgments, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections, expectations, separations, refined judgments that you have about anything, the more ease it can show up.

All of the DJCCPSERRJs that you’ve been using to ensure you don’t actualize what you would like, will you destroy and uncreate all those times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[14:26] Notice the energy on that. Now, that sounds so bizarre, right? Why would I work against myself? Why would I use DJCCPSERRJs to ensure I don’t actualize what I would like?

You know what? We don’t use the question ‘why’ around here because it just doesn’t work. What you do want to recognize is that sometimes you’re so cute and not so bright, that you actually don’t create what you would like. It’s maybe more ease to fit in, it’s maybe more ease to do what other people are doing, it’s maybe more ease to suffer because that’s what your friends and family are doing. I mean, I know it sounds ridiculous, guys, but we do all sorts of cute things. It doesn’t matter why. What you want to recognize is when you’re doing it so that you can make a different choice.

[15:19] That is also where the DJCCPSERRJs – running that clearing will contribute. Put that on a sticky note, put it on the app on your phone like the Reminder app. Do it so you’re doing it a lot.

Any area of your life that is not ease and joy and glory, you’ve got DJCCPSERRJs stopping you from creating it and actualizing it as ease, joy, and glory. It’s just about clearing those things. That’s all it is. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[15:53] There’s also another reason that I talk about this all the time guys. It’s because it actually creates the change that’s possible. It truly does. If you were to commit to yourself to clear the DJCCPSERRJs about the one area of your life that’s not working, and you did that 10 times a day for 30 days, you would have a completely different life by the end of it. It wouldn’t just change that area — it would change all sorts of other areas, too. It’s amazing what occurs when we just really get rid of those DJCCPSERRJs.

[16:33] Alright, tool number five is all about asking. I know people do not like to ask for what they would like — it’s the funniest thing to me. I don’t mean it’s the funniest thing to me like I asked for what I would like all the time. I mean, even including me. It’s the funniest thing how often we focus on the problem, we spin in the problem, we share the problem we [frustrated sounds] the problem, but we don’t ask or what we would like and how this shows up, and it always makes me giggle.

If you and I have had this interaction, please know I’m not laughing at you. I’m laughing with all of us who do it because they will come on a call with me and they will go, “Okay, Glenyce, I’ve got this problem and it’s this bad. It’s this problem…” like this. Then it’s like this, and then there’s a problem with it over here like this. There’s this problem too, adding in this problem and this problem, and then they stop talking. And your question is?

Again, please know I’m not laughing at you, guys. I do this, too. It’s like somehow, if we just talk about the problem enough, it would change it. No, it doesn’t. [singsong tune] No, it doesn’t. No, it doesn’t. No, it doesn’t. Sorry. Know that you have to start asking for what you would like.

[18:16] Now, it can be super simple. It can be turned into a I wonder… So, let’s say you’re spinning in a problem about business — let’s stick with business. I frickin’ love business.

Let’s say you’re in that problem — there’s not enough business. There’s not enough business because of this and this and this. If only there was enough of this over here, I’d have more business, but I don’t because of this and there’s this. You’re spinning in the business problem. Stop.

I wonder what it would be like to have more business than I can handle with total ease.

I wonder what it would be like for business to double this month with total ease enjoying glory.

I wonder what it would be like to have a business that’s so successful, I need to add more staff.

I wonder what it would be like to be the most successful business owner on the planet.

Do you see what I’ve done here, guys? I’ve went from the spinning in the problem, which is not creating anything except more problems, into I wonder questions.

[19:47] You can also use the What would it take… questions. You might have heard people say, What would it take to have a really successful business? What would it take for my business to double this month? Something like that.

This is just a personal thing: When I asked What would it take… questions, it seems to bring my brain to the party. Suddenly, my brain starts thinking and figuring it out. I don’t use them — I just don’t find it works for me. I just turned it to I wonder… When I ask that, there’s just like, I wonder [and] there’s no thinking. It’s just, “I wonder what that would be like.”

[20:23] So, turn your spinning problems into a very simple ask. What that does is a couple things: One, it gets you asking for what you would like but also, it gets you present with what it is you would like. Even in those times when people come on the call and they tell me their problem, problem, problem, problem, and I’d say, “Okay, what’s your question?” What would you like here?” 90% of them don’t have anything. They’re like, “Oh, I’m not sure.” So, it’ll start you getting present with what is it you would like. What is it you would like?

[21:01] Now, the last tool I’m going to share today [and] certainly not the last tool that I could share about this—we could talk for days (#getyourbutttoFoundation)— is engage with the elementals, which is the class that I did today. The link will be somewhere.

It was phenomenal—you get a handout, I give all sorts of different processes and questions, and it’s amazing, absolutely amazing. I also explained engaging, I explained elementals, I explained engaging with elementals to create magic. It’s all the pieces; it’s amazing.

[21:36] When you’re looking at that in terms of a tool to actualize what you want, engaging with the elementals is a huge piece. [It’s] because engaging with the elementals, very simply put, is allowing yourself to receive from everything.

There are these energies that desire to contribute to us. When we engage with them, when we invite them to the party, when we say, “Yes, please. Contribute to actualizing a million-dollar-a-year business”, they can. It’s this beautiful dance of gifting and receiving, and receiving and gifting and possibilities and magic and so, so much, guys. Yes, yes.

And so, the more that you engage with the elementals in actualizing what you what you want, the quicker it can show up—the more magic, the more miracles, the more possibilities, all of all of that…yeah.

Anywhere you haven’t been willing to engage with the elementals, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[22:54] Yes, so much beautiful energy with that, guys. Yeah, and sometimes when we do calls when I play with this and elementals and energies come in and all of that, there’s all this stuff that goes on with [the] energy that I play with, and it’s just so much fun. Yeah, yeah.

How much space can you occupy to engage with the elementals? Anything that doesn’t allow that… Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

Truly, what magic is possible that is never been possible before? Yeah.

[23:36] I also did a weekly video. Those also get sent out every Sunday and—my weekly video—we’ll link it here to A Question You Can Ask with The Elementals to Increase Your Cash Flow. We will link to that video here somewhere, you can check for that.

All of the links that I talked about, of course, they’re on my webpage. If you’re listening to this via a podcast, they’ll be in the show notes. If you go to the actual podcast, you’ll see it there. If you can’t, just message me [and] I will get you that or my team will get you the link so that you can access all of this yumminess.

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can you and your body be to actualize everything you desire with total ease and joy and glory? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, we destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

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Tools to Create a Magical Marriage

Nov 7, 2021 | Radio Show

Tools to Create a Magical Marriage

Are you distracting yourself with it?

For starters, my marriage with Hubby isn’t perfect. I have spent YEARS of my life with one foot out of the marriage—shocking, I know! Now, I don’t even think about leaving anymore. I have never been more grateful for Hubby and the life I share with him.

How did we even get here? Listen in to this week’s episode as I share some of our married life stories, learnings, and, with the help of the tools from Access Consciousness, our journey towards a magical marriage.

In this episode, we will discuss:

- [09:50] Tool #1: Allowance
- [11:28] Tool #1.1: IPOV
- [12:38] Tool #2: Let them do whatever the f*ck they want!
- [16:33] Tool #3: Being “aggressively” present
- [22:41] Tool #4: Include YOU

You can still join the Living Beyond Distraction Book Club where we will take a deep dive on resentment, relationship, and all the “distractor implants” you might be spinning on. Or, you can always #getyourbutttoFoundation – I have an upcoming Online Foundation this December 2021 and would love for you to join us.

If you love this episode, you can now support the radio show by simply Buying Me a Coffee. How does it get any better than that?! I’m excited and would be so grateful to receive a cup of coffee from you, my sweet friend.

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[00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, GlenyceHughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:11] This week – Tools to Create a Magical Marriage, or a relationship or connection, whatever communion, whatever you might want to call it.

This is on my mind because Hubby and I just celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary. I honestly don’t even know what the heck, like, 24 years! I don’t often feel like, I [am] even 24 years old so how could I be actually married for 24? And we dated for, I believe, 4 years before we got married. Something’s not adding up here.

I don’t know about you guys, but the older the years are on the calendar or the length of time from when I was born, to [the] current day, as that gets farther and farther apart, I don’t ever feel like that. But anyway, doesn’t matter.

[01:12] So, first thing I want to preface this whole show with is that please know [that] where Hubby and I are today is not where we have always been. Oh no. I have a radio show called The Time I Almost Left Hubby, and you’ll hear me say in that it wasn’t one time.

[01:35] For a lot of years, I spent with one foot out of the marriage. It was always about I need to leave him, I need to leave. He’s not the same—I would call it “vibration”—as me. He doesn’t have the same interest as me. He’s what[ever.] There was always—he was always wrong. I’m gonna call it like it is right here, friends. He was always wrong, (sighs) and that’s hard. That’s hard to be with that.

And I don’t mean that I’m wrong for that, I don’t mean that. I don’t mean anything. It’s just when I look at that, there’s so many pieces to that to have that place be where I lived, like, at least 90% of my time – and I’m not kidding. I know that might be like, “Oh, Glenyce, no.” Yes! Yes, I was that insane. And actually, back then it was insane.

[02:36] Now, what I know it as is something that we call in Access Consciousness, the tools that I share, as distraction. I was just distracting myself with our marriage – that’s all I was doing. And so, rather than creating more and creating bigger and creating yummier, I put my energy into creating crap.

This is what many of us do—you might hear yourself in this. If we don’t have enough on the go—and for many of us, that’s way more than we have on the go—what we do is we start to create crap. Yep. We are obsessive-compulsive creators, but if we’re bored, it’s obsessive-compulsive creators of crap, my sweet friends.

That is one of the things that was going on back then that I didn’t have words for. I didn’t know, I just thought he was wrong and then in that, I would be wrong. The moment I judged him, I would then make me wrong. It was just as horrendous. Hamster wheel of ick, absolute ick, my sweet friends.

[03:45] I want to start with that because I know a lot of people assume — because they’ve maybe only been in our lives the past few years — that hubby and I have always been this. We have not been this, and there’s times we’re not this. Like, there’s times where we’re not. What you might see me post on Facebook [is] when we are. I don’t post on Facebook when we’re not.

Now, what I don’t do is I don’t post on Facebook that we had an argument or something like that. That’s not it either at all. I will talk about it after, definitely. Always—I shouldn’t say always, but the big stuff – absolutely.

Just so you know, if you see a picture of us smiling together [and] all of that, we are in that moment. I don’t fake that sh*t. I can’t, actually. You can read—you know me like a book. It’s very ease for me to read. No, it’s very ease—you get it. You can read me, like, I just—I can’t hide that stuff, and I don’t actually have an interest in hiding it, either.

[04:46] The one thing that I am so incredibly grateful for with Hubby is that when I started my radio show back in 2013—what in the actual hell here, like, that’s a lot of years ago and yet, here I am, still talking—is that he gave me full permission to share everything and anything. I’m so grateful for that because if I had to filter our lives, that would be a little bit difficult.

I do that with other people—friends, family, stuff like that—where [if] I don’t have permission, I’ll filter it and kind of talk around it. But for him and I, it’s so much more ease for me just to say it all with whatever it is. By him doing that—if you listen back in those shows, guys, you’ll hear the good, the bad, and the ugly. Absolutely.

Where we’re at now—I mean, gosh, 28 years later, Holy Hannah—I never would have imagined we would be here in this space where I don’t ever think of leaving. That’s huge compared to [when] that was pretty much my every second thought for years and years. It doesn’t even cross my mind [anymore].

[05:55] In fact, last night, we were sitting around the fire. Just so you guys also know, these shows come out a couple weeks later after they’re recorded for the most part. Some of what you’re hearing now, it might have actually occurred a couple of weeks ago. Our actual anniversary was October 23. The date I’m talking about right now is October 24 of 2021. I also know sometimes you guys listen way later.

[06:21] And so, we were sitting around the fire last night. I said to him—and I was just like so curious—I was like, “I wonder where we would be if we hadn’t connected?” Like, if I hadn’t taken the job.

I took a job at Vermillion, Alberta, Canada for people with disabilities. It was the only place—I sent out 100 resumes after becoming a registered psychiatric nurse and it was the only place that asked for an interview. Yes, that is how bad it was back in 1993 for nursing. If I hadn’t taken that, if I hadn’t sent my resume there, if him and I had never met, where would we be?

[07:04] It was really interesting because we were like—we had nothing. We had nothing. I don’t mean like, “Oh, that’s so good. It means we’re meant to be together.” I don’t mean that at all. It was just really interesting because I don’t have—like, “Oh my gosh, if I wouldn’t have met him, I totally would have moved to wherever” and done, like, none of that, which is also awesome.

I think [it’s] because we don’t have those regrets that I know some people do in relationships—where maybe they gave up something for the other person, so then they always kind of hold that as something like, “If I wouldn’t have married you, I would definitely have moved to, I don’t know, Jamaica or something.” Jamaica is where we got married, so that’s why it’s on my mind. We just didn’t have that.

[07:48] The only two things—and we laughed and we laughed and we laughed—was Hubby’s “Well, what I do know is I wouldn’t have a swimming pool.”

This is a joke between him and I because the swimming pool—it isn’t a lot of work anymore, but the first year we had it, it seemed like a lot of work and it’s all Hubby work. He was the one doing all the things. The only thing I do at the pool is I balance the chemicals. Otherwise, he deals with everything else. When you’re learning something like that, it seemed like it was overwhelming. And so, it’s always been this joke between us that the pool is just mine—it really is, and he would not have it if I was not in the picture. We laughed about that.

[08:29] The other thing, as we talked more about it, he said, “You know, the other thing is I wouldn’t have eaten at Olive Garden as many times as I have.” Which, again, is very true because it’s my favorite restaurant, not his. I shouldn’t say favorite restaurant. Of the restaurants we go to in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, it is one that we tend to go to—I really enjoy their stuff, not my favorite. My favorite is a place in Airdrie, Alberta, Canada called Paros on Main, and it’s a Greek restaurant. It’s so delicious. But anyway, not what you’re probably interested in with the show, but going off and off and off.

When I look at that—when I look at kind of like, the tools that I use in my everyday life in the marriage, one is that allowance, like infinite allowance for me and for him.

[09:25] Here’s the thing that nobody ever told me—and maybe it’s just me, but I know it’s not—is that you’ll still get annoyed with the other person. You still do. No matter that you care for them, no matter that you’re grateful for them, no matter that they contribute to your life and you’re living, you’re still going to get annoyed with them. Not kidding.

[09:50] Allowance, when you get annoyed with them, for you is huge because what I was doing previously—prior to me using the tools or even knowing what the tools of Access Consciousness is, I would make me really wrong. He would do something—say something, whatever—I would get annoyed, I’d go to the judgment of him, and then the judgment of me because I judged him. Exhausting.

[10:19] Now, what I realize is it’s nothing. I can be annoyed with him – that’s actually okay. It doesn’t mean we have to end our marriage. It doesn’t mean he’s a horrible person. It doesn’t mean I’m a horrible person. I just got annoyed – that’s it. It’s about the allowance for me and for him.

Whatever is annoying me, it’s just allowance about that, and allowance that I’m annoyed. Suddenly, there’s a whole new world available because I don’t have to put any energy into that stuff—to put any energy into that whatsoever. I can just be like, “Okay, cool.”

I don’t have to say something to him. I don’t have to tell him he needs to change. I used to think that was my job. Yeah, fire your ass. If you’re still operating there, my friends, and you’d like to have the relationship contribute to you and the other person and everyone around you, fire your ass from telling them that they’re wrong. Please, I beg of you. It’s horrific, anyway. That is tool number one, that’s the one that I use the most is allowance.

[11:28] The tool that I use to get there, if required—sometimes, it’s just recognizing like, “Oh wow, I’m annoyed. Okay.” That’s it, I don’t need to do anything else. But if I am annoyed, and then I’m kind of spinning in it, or I’m like [grumbles], or I kind of want to tell him he’s wrong, that’s when I will use Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

I know many of you have heard me talk about this before. Many of you are longtime listeners, I’m so grateful for you, and some of you are new listeners. I’m so grateful for you. And so, that’s definitely the tool, “Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.” I just use it in my head, I do not say it out loud to him. This is where I see so many people are so unkind because they go, “Well, I’m being superior so, interesting point of view, I have this point of view.” Please don’t do that, especially with that voice. That’s annoying. So…

Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

…over and over and over until the annoyance [or] the whatever has gone in. That, to me, is the tool that can get me to allowance quicker than anything else. So, so quick.

[12:38] The other tool—and this is something we talked about in Foundation. And of course, I have one coming up at the end of December 2021, December 27 to December 31. We’re going to bring in 2022 with a bang, my sweet friends. You can find the link somewhere, reach out if you can’t find it and we will get you info.

[12:56] [The other tool] is to recognize that one of the greatest gifts that can be given from somebody else and that we can give somebody else is let them do whatever the f*ck they want to do, and they let you do whatever the f*ck you want to do. This is huge.

This is something, for the most part I would say, that Hubby and I have always had. I’ve never felt that he should do it differently, or that he shouldn’t have different hobbies or things like that. Same with me, he’s never said I shouldn’t do anything. There’s never ever been that, so I’m grateful for that. It’s a huge piece.

[13:49] If you have that for the other person and they don’t have that for you, then that’s something you want to look at, and look at what else is possible and what changes are possible and what conversations to have to create that. But really, look at that, like, to the degree you don’t—I was gonna say, like, to the degree that Hubby doesn’t even come to family photos with my family.

Now, I don’t say that as ,like, you know, because he’s not part of the family. It’s just it’s not fun for him. That’s a lot of people—I have a huge family. They’re loud, they’re intense. It’s not fun for him. If I said to him, “Could you come? It would mean a lot to me,” he would be there in a heartbeat. He may not love it, but he would be there. But I don’t actually need him to. I don’t need him in those photos.

And so, it’s like really looking at those pieces and the things that are really important to you that you would like, and the things that maybe aren’t important to you but maybe this reality tells you they should be.

[14:49] For many years I made him—yeah, truly, I made him, forced him, judge him into it [or] whatever for him to come to the family events and all the things because that was what you’re supposed to do if you’re married.

Don’t you spend every waking moment together possible? (No.) Don’t they have to come to your family events, even though it’s not fun for them? (No.) Don’t you have to go to all of the events they love doing so you have the same interest all the time? (No.)

I’ve been really extreme, guys. Honestly, there was a time it was just the way it was supposed to be, and it’s not important to me.

[15:30] You will just want to look at that—those things that are important to you, then have those conversations. Those things [that] aren’t, let them go. You might have family and friends who have points of views about it. Okay, that’s their points of views—tell them whatever they need to hear. Just so that you can actually just let your person—your love, your partner, whatever you want to call them—be who they would like to be and do whatever the f*ck they want to do, and they [will] let you do whatever the f*ck you want to do. There’s so much allowance in that.

[16:02] Also, the minute that we’re not saying you need to do this, there’s so much more space for the other person to choose what works for them. The minute we say you have to do this—think of yourself: if your partner said to you, “You have to come to this work event with me, or this hike with me, or this whatever with me.” Even if you wanted to go initially, the minute they said you have to, you [will] probably be like, “Yeah, no. Not gonna happen.” Yeah.

[16:33] So, allowance is number one—to letting each other do whatever the f*ck the other wants to do—that’s going to create a lot of space. Then, another tool is really to be present with the person. We call it an Access “aggressively present.”

[16:53] This is [the] one that I really choose towards every day. It’s one that still takes a muscle for me. That is there ’cause I—I’m not going to give it an excuse. I’m not going to give an excuse. I don’t even have to be on my phone, though. I can even just be looking at him, and not really paying attention or being present with what he’s saying. He, on the other hand, can hear me say something and then six months later, [he] remembers I said that thing, and we’ll go by the thing that I said I wanted six months ago because he just saw it.

[17:38] I mean, it’s a level of presence. It’s being present with the person when you’re with them. Again, this is something—this is a place for me to really continue to choose towards. Again, whatever that is, I don’t need to add a story to it. But that is something that I have noticed—the more that I’m willing to choose it, the more that I’m willing to be present with him, the more that it contributes to us, which of course, it makes sense.

It doesn’t have to be a lover we’re talking about. You can be present with your kid—you’ve probably seen or maybe even had your own experience with your own kids. I know sometimes, we go to a restaurant or something and we see the parent with the kids and the parent may be just on their phone. The kid has, you know, acting out or doing something to get their attention. It’s no different for the rest of us.

[18:36] I even have on my habit tracker app on my phone to put my phone down. It’s not like— yes, I use my phone a lot, absolutely, and not so much when I’m with him just naturally. There are still times where I will maybe take it up when we’re watching—I say ‘up’ because we go upstairs, we redone our loft and made it as a beautiful TV room.

When we go upstairs to watch a movie, it’s actually [to] leave it at the table so that for those few hours, it doesn’t need to be there as something that I pick up. And that’s part of that aggressive presence. Now, of course, we’re watching the movie. We’re not necessarily being present in the way that I’m talking about. We are, because we’re present with the movie.

So this is something, again, this is a tool that I am choosing more and more and more , and recognizing also where I’m not being it elsewhere. OR where I’m being it [like] in business even, or in my money flows, or something like that, because if I’m choosing it with one person, chances are I’m choosing it in many other different ways and forms.

[19:46] Something that I wanted to add in, and it isn’t necessarily about the phone, but it can be. [It’s] because a lot of times, we’re on our phone in front of the person and they’re sitting there, and we’re looking and it can feel disconnecting or whatever we might want to call it. That might not be the case in your case, but just something to be aware of with that.

Hubby doesn’t so much go to his phone like that. It’s not something he will choose. Again, he’s much more willing to be present in different situations than I’ve been so how’s it get any better? What magic is possible with all of that that I’ve never even considered? I’m so grateful.

[20:35] One of the things that we started—you might have heard on the show already—is called a Buy Me a Coffee. You can find a link somewhere if you would like to buy me a coffee. It launched a few weeks ago, and in the first couple of days that it came out, we’ve had a few people buy us coffees.

What I loved is that everybody that bought us coffees actually bought them for us, even though I don’t talk about it as ‘buy Hubby and I coffee.’ Everybody has, and I just love that.

So today when we went to town, we went and got ourselves coffees. Mine is from Starbucks, his is from McDonald’s. That’s just something fun that we’ve been doing, and I just love that everybody has included him in that. It’s just so cool.

Anyway, I just wanted to share that for some random reason. Also, so that you can buy me coffee—if you’d like to buy me a coffee, that would be cool. You don’t have to include Hubby, but it’s kind of cool when people do.

[21:33] I remember years ago, I think it was a second time I facilitated classes in Ireland. I had went into the building to facilitate the classes. He (Hubby) was walking away from the building. There was a group of people that he’d never seen before, but because they’d seen us on Facebook and I talked about him in the radio shows all the time and stuff, that they were yelling at him down the street, “Hubby! Hubby!” He was walking along and he said, “Finally, I realized they were talking to me.”

It’s just really funny to kind of see how included he is even though he’s not in these videos with me. He is very, very much a part of the business and of course, obviously, my life and my living. I’m so grateful that you guys include him, too. Thank you for that.

[22:22] For anybody who wonders because I always call him Hubby—I have done that for years and years and years—his first name is Rodney, Rodney Hughes. But he does prefer Hubby with the people, you know, my friends and stuff like that. It’s been fun that way, too.

[22:41] All right, so, the final tool that I am going to talk about today is—something unusual—to include you. Yes.

Most people—especially most people listening to this show—have done a really good job of including everybody else in their life, but they forget to include themselves. One of the ways that I do this—and I don’t ask this question as whatever awareness I have with it is the thing I choose, but it just reminds me to include me—is:

“If I was choosing for me here, what would I choose? If I was choosing for me here, what would I choose?”

What that means is if you are willing to include you, what would you choose? It doesn’t mean you’re going to choose it. It just means you’re going to start becoming aware of what you would actually choose in these situations.

[It’s] so that you can start getting a sense if you’ve ever had somebody say, “Hey, if you could do anything for fun, what would you do?” You’d be like, “Uh…” But if we said, “Hey, if your spouse could do anything for fun, what would they do?”, you could list 10 things.

[24:07] This is what I’m talking about. Most of us are very good at knowing what the other person would like, so start including you. And then, guess what? There’s no resentment because you’ve included you.

You’ve looked from what we call the “Kingdom of We”—[or] the bigger picture and you’ve went, “Okay, I would like this, they would like this, what could we choose here?” and it becomes a whole different dynamic rather than [asking] what do they need, what would they like, [or] what makes them happy, which then pushes all the energy out, and then you start getting resentful.

[24:42] Interestingly enough, resentment, and also what I talked about earlier with relationship as a distractor—those are both something we call distractor implants. You can still join us – we’ve got the Living Beyond Dsitraction—I have it beside me—Living Beyond Distraction Book Club coming up starting November 15. We are going to do a chapter a week – two calls per chapter for a six-week deep dive into living beyond distraction. Guys, it’s so time. It is so time.

Whether you’re doing relationship as a distractor, you’re doing resentment, you’re doing guilt, you’re doing business, you’re doing peace—yes, peace can be a distractor implant because a lot of people decide they can’t be peaceful until… yeah, crazy. So, come and join us. We’d love to have you.

[25:44]

Yes, yes, yes. I hope that you can use some, if not all, of those tools in creating your magical marriages or relationships or connections or communions—whatever you might want to call them.

Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Tools to Choose Beyond Doubt

Oct 31, 2021 | Radio Show

Tools to Choose Beyond Doubt

What else can we choose?

Doubt is one of the many things people I work with often talk about. Especially with all the crazy going on the planet right now, it’s just waaay too easy and tempting to go down that rabbit hole.

In case you’re already playing with it (like I do, not gonna lie), these tools from Access Consciousness will help you start choosing beyond doubt. Remember, doubt is designed to distract you and ensure you never create greater. Will you choose to doubt you… or trust you?

In this episode, I will cover:

- [02:41] The thing about doubt
- [04:39] Acknowledgizing you
- [10:09] When you’re choosing doubt…
- [14:06] What is the value of doubting you?
- [17:48] BEing the spaciousness

I invite you to join us on the Living Beyond Distraction Book Club where we will take a deep dive on distractor implants, doubt being one of them. Or, you can always #getyourbutttoFoundation – I have an upcoming Online Foundation this December 2021 and would love for you to join us.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:16] In case you’ve been playing with some insanity like I have, this show is all about Tools to Choose Beyond Doubt. Yes. I specifically titled that because normally, I would call it something like “Tools to Deal with Doubt,” but it’s not about dealing with doubt. You can’t deal with doubt. It’s about choosing beyond the doubt.

[00:43] Now, why can’t you deal with doubt? Because it is one of the distractor implants. We talk about it in Access Consciousness Foundation (#getyourbutttoFoundation). Of course, I have another one coming up. The next one — at the time of this recording anyway — is the end of December 2021, and it is online. So how does it get any better than that? You’ll find a link somewhere. If not, reach out – I will get it for you.

[01:16] I am also offering a 6-week deep dive into this amazing book – Living Beyond Distractions by Gary Douglas and Dain Heer from Access Consciousness. Yes, my friends, it is time.

We’re going to go and do two calls each week on each of the sections – there’s anger, rage, fury, hate, blame, shame, regret, guilt, addictive, compulsive, obsessive perverted points of views, love, sex, jealousy, peace, fear, doubt, business and relationship. I may have missed some, but I’m not sure. Anyway, those are all the distractor implants, and all of them are in sections. We’re going to do a call on each — two calls on each section per week — to really get that deep dive and really start changing this insanity of playing with these distractor implants.

[02:10] This show though is all about choosing beyond doubt. I chose doubt because it is the one that when I work with clients — people come to classes, all of that — it’s the one that I hear the most from people.

I play in it also [but] not nearly as much as I used to. I am so grateful for using these tools for over 10 years now and what that has contributed to my life, my living, the business, money flows, body, and all the things. Especially lately, there has been some times that I’ve been playing with doubt. Which tells me, there’s a lot of it going on on the planet right now because I am infinitely aware just like you, my sweet friends.

[02:41] The thing you really want to recognize with doubt — we’ve talked about it already, and I’ll talk about it again — is that you can’t deal with it. You can’t clear it. You can’t talk about it enough to change it. Doubt is meant to distract you. It’s designed to distract you.

When you look at it — when you go, “Okay, I’m not going to doubt anymore. What can I do to stop doubting?” [and] all of that, you’ve really got to recognize it’s a choice to choose beyond the doubt. It’s a choice to choose beyond the doubt. You’ve got to be willing to choose it.

[03:42] One of the things that you want to recognize with doubt is that it is all about ensuring that you don’t acknowledge that you are potent as f*ck, that you are the creator of your life and you’re living, that you are infinitely aware, that you have the ability to ask a question and tap into your infinite awareness and infinite knowing. That’s what doubt does. It’s designed to distract us from all of that. Yeah, that’s a lot.

Everything that brings up – everywhere you’ve been valuing doubt more than acknowledgizing you as the potent motherf*cker you truly be, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[04:39] We’re not taught in this reality to acknowledgize our potency, to acknowledge that we’re the creator of our life or living, to acknowledgize that we know. We know. For each one of us, we know.

We’re not taught that. We’re taught that we don’t know. We’re taught that we should find somebody who knows more than us and they can tell us what to do or what to think or all that insanity. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[05:14] Some of you, I know, know this already. You’ve been listening to my shows for years and you get it. Some of you are new here, maybe, and just don’t really know. I just want to speak for a moment in case you’re not acknowledging it.

There’s a lot of energetics that go on as I speak. Speaking is a capacity that I BE, that many people BE, and that I BE. When I speak, I change energies. A lot of people will say to me, “Oh, I love the sound of your laugh,” “When I hear your voice, I feel so good,” “When I listened to that show, I fell right asleep” or all those things. It took me a long time to really start to acknowledgize what magic I’m actually creating and being when I speak.

So please know when you’re listening to this — unless you’re driving, lay down and have a nap if your body is asking for one. Close your eyes if you would like to, if it’s going to create more. Put it on low in the background. There’s so much more going on than you just receiving the information verbally. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

The funny thing is there would have been a time — probably when I first started recognizing that — that I went to… I wouldn’t have shared it. Now, why wouldn’t I share it? Because I would have doubted it was true. See how insane this doubt is? At this point, I don’t doubt it. I know it – I live it, I breathe it, I know it, I trust me and I know it.

[06:53] Really, start looking in your life to where you could be acknowledgizing you because that will put doubt out the window, too. When you can really start trusting you to know that you know and acknowledgizing you, there’s no space for doubt. There’s no space for doubt whatsoever.

Everywhere you’ve made space for doubt and used it to distract yourself, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[07:28] Some tools with that: One, I’ve talked about a little bit already, is really, please, start acknowledgizing the magic of you. Start acknowledgizing the potency of you. You are the creator of your life and living and I don’t say that so that you judge you.

Okay, this isn’t about going into, “Oh my gosh, I created that crappy thing. This is horrible. I must be awful.” It’s not that. It’s going, “Okay, cool. I created that. Now what would I like to create?” because if you stay stuck in the drama-trauma of something you created that you didn’t appreciate, guess what? You’re just distracting yourself again.

[08:06] I mean, oh my gosh. Honestly, this is why I facilitate these classes. This is why this book and the book club is so important right now more than ever before. I would say it’s because it’s so everywhere. This distraction is everywhere. The invitation to distract ourselves is everywhere.

Look at social media. Yes, you can utilize social media as something that creates greater in your life. Absolutely – I do it every day. You can also use social media to distract yourself.

It’s the same with the distractor implants that I spoke of earlier. It’s not… so, business is one of them. It’s not that everybody who’s choosing business right now is choosing to be in distractor implant with it. No, it’s just that many people are. And until you recognize it and acknowledge it, and recognize when you’re choosing it and acknowledge when you’re choosing it, then can you actually start to change it. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[09:16] There is a lot of energy on this, you guys, and I love that. I absolutely love that because really, what are we changing just by having this conversation? Just by being willing to look from, maybe a different angle or a different perspective or a different energetic standpoint with it? Like “Okay, okay.”

[09:35] Distractor implants… things that distract us are designed to ensure that we never create greater, because you can’t be in doubt and create greater at the same time. It’s one or the other. Oh, my gosh. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You either trust you or you doubt you. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[10:09] So, it’s another tool. One, the first tool I talked about is really starting to acknowledge the potency of you, the magic of you, that you are the creator of your life and living. Start acknowledgizing that. Number two is you can start just paying attention to when you’re choosing doubt, and choose something else. [It] doesn’t mean it has to be about that thing.

[10:33] If you’re doubting — let’s say you’re looking at going to, you know, on a new career path and you’re doubting the career path that you would like. You’re going, “Oh, I wouldn’t be very good. I’m too old. I’m… I don’t really have the skills. It’s going to be too much money. I’m going to be too old when I’d done the…” whatever. Like, you’re in that space. Start acknowledging when you’re there. Like, just in that moment, “Wow, okay. I’m choosing doubt right now. I’m choosing to doubt this right now. Okay. What else could I choose here?“

Now, it doesn’t mean you go, “Okay, well, then I have to choose my career path right now.” No, because honestly, sometimes guys, it’s not about that. Sometimes it’s actually about leaving that thing, letting it sit for a while energetically, and moving to something totally unrelated. Maybe you go watch some Netflix, maybe you go have sex with your partner, maybe you go into your swimming pool if it’s not winter, like it is here. Okay, it’s not winter yet, but soon.

Like, you’d go do something totally else, because it’ll get you out of what I call the “mindfucking” where you’re just going over and over. You’re basically trying to figure it out. What happens when we’re trying to figure something out is we’ve engaged our mind. Yeah, our mind will never contribute to us guys.

[11:53] It’s our awareness that we’re looking for. We’re looking for the infinite awareness, the infinite knowing. If we’re looking, if we’re being really focused, and we’re really trying to figure something out, we’ve eliminated our awareness and we’ve eliminated our knowing. “What other choice do I have here?” Go do something else.

[12:17] In fact, I was working with a client the other day and I suggested to him to actually take some time, like, take a week before he looked at the situation again. Mostly because every time he did, he went straight down the rabbit hole and all the wrongness. He pulled all these, you know, reference points and all the insanity. It’s like, “Stop. Just stop. We did some great work together, now give yourself a week. If it comes up clear points of views, whatever. But don’t try to… don’t, don’t go there. Not yet.” Just that space. Sometimes space, guys, is the greatest gift we can give ourselves.

[12:55] I have been doing a lot of walking outside over the last week. That space, and I mean — I actually have a lot of space. I have a lot of space in our house – it’s like a 4,000 square feet house. I have a lot of space in our yard – we’ve got almost six acres here. I’ve got a lot of space in my head because of the tools I’ve been using. But actually going outside and walking for 45 minutes or so a day, that has also contributed to so much more space.

Just give yourself some space. Give yourself some space.

[13:29] Now, you might not have physical space — doesn’t matter, you can still give yourself some space. When we’re asking, you know, what else could I choose here, you recognize you’re choosing doubt. What else could I choose here? You might not get a big booming voice from above. In fact, I never do. It’s always just asking another question. So might get, like, Truth: go for a walk? Truth: go watch Netflix? Truth: go for an app? Like, you might want to ask some specific thing just to get a sense for yourself of what it might be, and then go choose that. Go choose that.

[14:06] The other tool — and this is something that I would say is looking, you know — it’s kind of a deeper dive into it but asking yourself in that moment, like, What is the value of doubting myself right now? What am I getting out of that?

Now, it’s not a logical response. It’s kind of a strange question. If you haven’t hung around me much, you might not quite get it. If you’ve hung around me, you know I talk about that question all the time, because it can create so much space.

But really, recognize that there’s a value to everything we have in our life, even the things we call as problems, even the things we say we don’t want, even the things we say are horrific. There’s a value or they wouldn’t be there.

So, if we’re really willing to be vulnerable with ourselves and honest with ourselves – What is the value of doubting myself? What am I getting out of it?

[14:57] Oh, you know what? I’m just going to give some examples that I’ve heard from clients or even myself over the years.

“It slows me down.” There’s a lot of people who play with doubt from this energy of slowing themselves down because if they didn’t doubt – if they just chose and chose and chose and chose and chose and chose, they would be out creating everybody on the planet by 100%. And now, I can say that and we can go, “Wow, that’d be awesome!” A lot of us haven’t actually really got present with that and really cleared whatever insanity might be in the way with that.

Everything that brings up – everywhere you haven’t been willing to outcreate everybody on the planet by 100% will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[15:51] Really, getting that sense. The other tool that you can use with that question, if it’s required, is Who am I being when I doubt myself? Yeah.

Everyone you’re mimicking, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[16:14] What occurs is, we maybe grow up with people who doubt themselves. We maybe hang out with people who doubt themselves. We maybe married people who doubt themselves. Whatever it is, we start mimicking that as though that’s the way we should be, that’s the right way to be because we see it.

Usually, it’s not a cognitive thing that we think, “Oh I’m going to be like that person.” It just occurs. So, we want to make sure that we acknowledge who we’re being if there is somebody —- and might not be, and if there is, just clear:

Everywhere I’m mimicking that person, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[16:51] Just because somebody else, or maybe your entire family, chose to doubt themselves, it doesn’t make it right. It doesn’t make it wrong, but it certainly doesn’t make it right either. It’s just a choice. It’s just a choice. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[17:09] Now, another tool that I like with this is What do I know here?

What do I know? When you’re doubting yourself and you catch yourself doubting yourself, “Okay, what do I know here?” Yeah, because in that moment when we ask that – what do I know here? – we may not have the information come into our head, but there is going to be a knowingness. There is knowing – we do know. We do know. There’s something that we know. What do I know here? It’ll create more space. Remember: space is our friend.

[17:48] Now, I say that — I want to give this other tool, that is to do a space. Once you create more space — once you have more space, whether it’s like, in that moment — maybe you clear a point of view or you become aware that you’re mimicking somebody like, “Oh my gosh, that was never right.” And you’re kind of… what you want to run is:

Everywhere I would feel this space again, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[18:21] Because what happens is we start getting a sense of what I would call our “normal energy“. It’s like… normal’s not the best word, but you know what I mean. That’s how we normally feel – we have a certain energetic feeling to us. When we start creating more space, if that’s not part of that, it can feel weird and we fill it back up with heaviness.

So once we create space, make sure you are asking: Everywhere I would fill this space up, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds because what that will do is it’ll allow you to have that space and have that be your new normal. And then, more and more and more spaciousness. You’d be more and more and more who you BE, and you won’t be trying to fill it up like you may have in the past. Yeah. Yeah.

[19:18] So, let’s just recap so I remember what we’ve talked about.

The (1) first one is to acknowledge you as the potent motherfucker you truly be. (2) Two, start getting a sense of the doubt and when you’re choosing it and What other choice could I choose here? Yeah, and then (3) asking What is the value of doubting myself with this? Who am I being when I doubt myself? And then of course,(4) the spaciousness and being the spaciousness and choosing to be that spaciousness over and over because doubt and spaciousness will not go together either, guys. And then, not filling that spaciousness back up – not filling up that space again with that heavier energy. Yeah.

[20:14] Because imagine the magic you could create if you never doubted you again. If you never slowed yourself down again, if you never pretended that you were less than – imagine that.

[20:39] A few weeks ago when I was actually out on a walk, we have some dogs in the area that aren’t always on a leash in their house or in their yard. Sometimes, they’re just roaming around. There’s these two pit bulls that, I would say, are probably out more than any others. I often carry a little bottle of… it’s like coyote or dog spray, just in case. That day, I didn’t have it with me.

Now, in the moment that I saw them, I was not grateful I didn’t have it. But what I am so grateful for is that as I saw them, and I was actually out running, there happened to be — I mean, I think I would have figured it out, but it was interesting anyway. There was another gentleman walking on the road.

There’s not a lot of people out on the road walking or it’s not even a very… not a lot of people driving, either, but he happen to be walking. He was walking [and] the dogs were behind him, so I was hoping they were his dogs. But they weren’t. They didn’t seem like it because they weren’t very close to him.

Anyway, as I was running, he said to me, “Hello, are those your dogs?”

And I said, “Oh, I was hoping they were your dogs.”

He said no and he said, “Can I suggest you stop running?” because I was running towards them. What he realized was that, of course, it would be a bigger threat if I was running. And so I was like, “Yep. Good. Thank you.”

And so I started walking, and I didn’t have my spray.

I even phoned hubby because he was in town. I knew he was coming home. I thought if he was a minute or two away, I would wait. He was not. He was probably an hour away. So I just thought, “Okay, so what can I be and do different in this situation?”

[22:29] I realized that as I was standing there, you know, hoping the dogs were the other guy’s or phoning Hubby, I was doing it from very much a “pathetic” energy, very much from a victim energy. What was going to create the change was to actually be the potency of me.

Now, not aggressive like… not running after the dogs – not that energy. But be the potency of me, meaning “I am going to walk past you, and you’re going to stay over there.” Because of the energy I was willing to be – I was willing to be all of me, I was willing to be this *big* energy, but not in their face. I just perceived that that was really important.

So I was like, “Here I am. I’m taking up my space, and your space is over there, and you be there and I be here.” It was such a magical energy, guys because as I beat it, they started walking away. But they still watched me, they were still aware of me. They were still not going to let me go into their space, which was fine. I didn’t need in to their space, I just wanted to get around them to my yard. It was so phenomenal.

[23:47] So when I talk — you know, the tool number one I was sharing about being that, be that. Be that. Imagine there’s some dogs or snakes or whatever it is that you might have some energy around that want their space and you want yours, be that spaciousness. Be that energy. I just get [that] if we’re willing to be that more, what magic we could actually create in every area of our life?

[24:16 I’m not fighting, I’m not pushing – I didn’t have to chase after the dogs to have my space, and they didn’t need to chase after me to have theirs. I made it very energetically known they were going to get their space but they better get the fuck out of mine. It was just beautiful.

[24:34] I’m so grateful, now, that I didn’t have my spray because I would have just went straight to that which was a little bit of the energy of victim. Now, I still walk with it, absolutely, because there’s going to be some dogs that’s not going to be this… that’s just not going to be, and I’m okay with that. I’m so grateful in that situation that I got that energy and I looked at — when I got home I was like, “Man, every area of my life that I’m not willing to be that…”

It’s not about dogs. It’s about where we allow ourselves to go into doubt that we be that powerful, that we be that potent, that we get to have the space on the planet. That’s ours. That works for us, that creates greater. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

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Tools to Know What Makes You Happy

Oct 24, 2021 | Radio Show

Tools to Know What Makes You Happy

What would you choose?

What makes you happy? What sparks joy for you? What lights you up?

These are simple questions that some people struggle to find the answer to. If you’re one of them, this episode is for you. You just have to know where and how to look, and these tools from Access Consciousness will guide you in this journey to know what that is for you. You will be surprised to know how much of what makes you happy can be in places you least expect it to be. *wink*

In this episode, I will cover:

- [04:04] Why we don’t know what makes us happy
- The three (3) tools from Access Consciousness to know what makes you happy
  - [05:53] Tool #1
  - [13:14] Tool #2
  - [18:35] Tool #3
- Clearings to help you create and add joy to your life

To know what makes you happy, you have to:

Educate yourself on “distractor implants”
Clearing the DJCCPSERRJs, trying everything, and choosing
Ask: “Universe (and body), show me…”

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:12] So, I have a few new things to share. One, we now have show notes for the radio shows — I believe it started in maybe late August of 2021 or early September of 2021. But you can actually go to my web page > Radio Shows, and when you click on each one, you’ll find the show notes there. They’re time stamped. All the awesomeness is available for you at your fingertips. And if you are listening to this on a podcast, you can go to the show notes on the podcast, and it’ll take you to those exact notes. Yeah, there we go. That’s number one.

[00:58] Number two new thing around here, if you’re not in the know, is that the weekly email that I send out has been “up-leveled,” let’s call it that. So we have, of course, the weekly video that I’ve been doing for years. We also, of course, will put in the weekly radio show in there.

Now, we’ve added — there’s a little Success Story from from a client or somebody who’s attended a class in there. There is [also] the Clearing that I’m Using that week. Now, of course, I use more than one clearing in a week. But [it’s] just the one that pops for everybody that will be listening so, that’s in there. And also, What’s Inspiring Me – so, something — maybe there’s a podcast I listened to [or] a program. There’s so many options it’s going to be.

So, if you are not part of my e-mail list, get your butt on my email list! What are you waiting for? You can find more on a link somewhere here. You can go to www.glenycehughes.com and there’ll be the opt in page. We’d love to have you with us.

[02:07] Now, number three new thing around here is you can now Buy Me a Coffee. How’s it get any better than that? I didn’t even know this was a thing. I heard about it recently and I was like, “I am excited to receive coffees from all of my listeners around the world.” How the heck did I get so lucky?

So, if you go to the web page: www.buymeacoffee.com/ttcabl — and you’ll find the link somewhere here too for that also — I would so be grateful for a cup of coffee from you. How does it get any more magical than that?

[02:54] All right, here we are. Now, what is the show this week? I’ve actually wrote down a few notes so you might see me look at them here. But the show is Tools to Know What Makes You Happy. Yeah, because that’s a big thing for a lot of people. A LOT of people. And I actually used to have that, too — “I don’t know what it is. I don’t know what would make me happy. I don’t know. As soon as I know, then I’ll choose it and I’ll be happy.”

Ah, so a few things — we got to unpack some of that first, my friends. One, nothing and no one can make you happy. It’s actually a choice. So, I use that as a title. However, it’s really about what makes you joyful, what really creates joy and adds joy to your life. That’s the energy we’re going to be speaking to. And with that, the very first piece of that that you want to look at is THAT– all the “thats”.

[04:04] When we don’t know what creates joy in our life or what makes us happy, it’s probably because we have spent a lot of time in everybody else’s universe, which means we are looking more at everybody else around us and what would make them happy [or] what brings joy to their life. And you know, at one point, I probably would have told you this is more of a woman’s thing than a man’s thing. But at this point, I’ve worked with enough men to know this is equal. This is equal.

A lot of men do this and a lot of women do this, where we are so much more invested in the other person than ourselves. We see them as more valuable than us so we start to become more aware of what they would like [or] what works for them. And then you might get asked even, like, “Hey, where would you like to go for dinner?” And you’re like a dear in the headlights, “I-I don’t know, where do you want to go!?” Because you don’t even know that — you haven’t even taken time to be with you to know what that is.

Now for some people, it doesn’t matter where they go for dinner so that’s fine. But I’m really talking about that energy of like you’ve lost you. You don’t know where you will be. You don’t know what makes you happy but you could give me a list of 100 things [for] the people that you care about.

So first off, let’s clear all that energy with The Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness.

Everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.

[05:53] Yeah, the first step is clearing that insanity. And then, it’s about really — and this is going to be tool number one, which is — it’s kind of a big tool, guys. It’s one that I will tell you right now, and will change every area of your life, if you’re willing. Tool number one is to actually educate yourself on something called the “distractor implants.”

[06:19] I know right? So, this is something we talk about in Access Consciousness. We talked about it in The Foundation class. So, #getyourbutttoFoundation. I’ve got one coming up — of course I’ve always got one coming up. The next one, at this moment anyway, is December 27 to December 31 [2021]. It’s online, it’s 4 hours a day. Morning in North America, afternoon in Europe. Depending on where you are in Australia, I think somewhere in the middle of the night? [It] just really depends.

[05:53] And it also — there’s a book called “Living Beyond Distraction” by Gary Douglas and Dain Heer. So, those are the founder [and] co-founder of Access Consciousness and they’ve got this beautiful book all about it. We are actually going to do a deep dive starting November 15. We’re going to have two calls a week on each chapter — there’s six chapters — and we’re just gonna go there, my friends. So, I invite you to join us for that. Also, again, you’ll find the link somewhere.

If you’re listening to this in the future, you can always find it in my store. If you’ve got any questions, always reach out.

[07:28] But that is tool number one – is to educate yourself on the distractor implants because if you’re not familiar with them, chances are — and even sometimes when we are familiar with them, chances are we are operating from them.

Say you’re operating from a distractor implant within your relationship. You will only choose what will create in the relationship. You won’t even be aware of what would create more from a much bigger energy. That’s what distractor implants do: they are designed to distract us from creating greater. They keep us stuck in an energy and what I call like “on a hamster wheel”, you know, where you’re just stressing about something over and over and over and over and over but you’re not actually doing anything to change it. That’s a distractor implant.

Once you get a sense of what they are and how to change them, it becomes this totally different space. You’ll still be aware of maybe what the other person in the relationship would like. You will still be aware of that, but you won’t give yourself up for it if it doesn’t work for you. You have so many more choices available once you become aware of the distractions that you’re operating from and change them. And so if you would really like to know what makes you happy — honestly, I’m not kidding — that is step number one. Yes.

All of the distractor implants that you’re operating from to ensure you never know what makes you happy, what contributes joy, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.

[09:30] If you never operated from a distractor implant ever again, you would be the infinite being – you’d be infinitely aware of the infinite choices available, with the infinite possibilities. Yeah. There’s so much that can change.

[09:49] I have been… clearing, I guess? I’m not sure that’s the correct word. But that – clearing the distractor implants in my life since 2012. I attended the very first telecall with Gary and Dane back in 2012 about the distractor implant. I always tell the story in my Foundation because it’s funny to me.

Back in 2012, that was before Zoom — I know, imagine a life before Zoom — but it was on the phone. And so, I would phone in on the line, the line that everybody else phoned in on. I would put myself on mute, I would put it on speakerphone, and I would literally lay my head on my desk. Not even kidding. I couldn’t keep my head up. That is how much I was operating from distractor implants every area of my life.

Now, my favorites. My favorites to play with was the business as a distractor. Oh my gosh, guys – I use that all the time. Relationship was a huge distractor. For me, I love to distract myself with “Should I leave? Should I go? Should I leave? He’s not vibrating at the same level as me. I must leave. He doesn’t read the same books as I did. Yes, I must leave. I don’t want to do the same things he does. I must…” Oh my gosh, you get the sense.

[11:12] In fact, I have a radio show. I’m not… I don’t even recall what year it’s from, but it is called “The Time I Almost Left Hubby.” We’ll put a link to that in the show notes, of course, so that you can go and listen to that one if that reads for you at all. Spoiler alert: It was not just one time. It was maybe, I don’t know, 15-20,000 times a day. Yeah. Okay, maybe that’s extreme, but you get the idea. It was literally how I was distracting myself from creating greater instead of going, “Okay, this relationship doesn’t work. I’m out” and making that choice or going, “Oh, this relationship works. I’m in” and making that choice. It was so much more valuable to distract myself. Yes, insane. (#cutenotbright) Yeah, so those were my favorites.

[12:07] The other one was jealousy. Jealousy was a huge energy. We also have a show called “The Green-Eyed Monster.” We’ll link to that radio show, too. That’s all about the jealousy and how I changed it for myself. Those were the ones I played with.

[12:24] And so listening to Gary and Dain on the telecall series was… it started to unravel. Believe me, I didn’t change everything in that telecall series. I still am using the tools to clear the distractions that I’m playing with at times. I’m probably about 1,000,000,000% less at the effect of them, and still there’s times.

These are really something that you want to do a deep dive. You really want to educate yourself and study them. Again, join us for the Book Club, get the book, go to Foundation, join us in Foundation, or whatever you need to do. Educate yourself because that will be a huge piece for you in really starting to get a sense of what creates and and contributes joy to your life in your living. Yes. All right, so check my notes here.

[13:14] Number two — this is a big one that I see a lot of people do and honestly, I did the same thing. We go, “Okay, I would like to be happier but I don’t know — I don’t know what creates more happiness. I don’t know what that would be. I don’t know what makes me happy. I don’t know, I’ll just sit here and wait until I know.” Spoiler alert again: choice is what will create the awareness. You won’t know until you try something.

What you want to start doing is looking around and going — okay, so let’s say you hear about a painting class. All right? Truth: if I choose that painting class today, will it create the future I desire or decay the future I desire? If you get create, go. Go create right now, go. If you get decay, then it just doesn’t mean today. It doesn’t mean you could never take a painting class. It’s just not today. That’s why we specifically ask Truth: if I choose this today, if I choose this right now, will it create the future I desire or decay the future I desire? That’s how you want to ask everything.

Now, the thing that usually trips people up with this is that they conclude about things. They go, “Oh well, I don’t like to paint so I wouldn’t take a painting class.” So even though painting classes might be the thing that really lights your entire world up, you have blocked yourself from receiving that. The clearing that I use all the time on everything — and I suggest people use all the time on everything:

All of the decisions, judgments, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections, expectations, separations, refined judgments that I have about that, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[15:15] Yeah. If you want all those fancy words, you can go to the show notes as I said earlier and access them.

[15:22] I assume that I’m using painting because that beautiful piece of art behind me, if you’re watching this video, is something I painted. Actually, yes. You can buy a copy of it if you like. I’ve got a whole store with a whole bunch of really inappropriate mugs and such that you can go [to]. The link will be somewhere. If you can’t find it, let me know.

I didn’t know that I could even paint, let alone that I loved it. It was actually a friend of mine who was doing a lot of painting that really inspired me to try it out. And then recently, I’ve been playing with Procreate, which is an app on the iPad, and I bought an iPad eight months ago. I’ve barely used it – I wasn’t even sure in that in the moment when I was buying it what it was for. I was just aware it was going to create greater to purchase it. And now, it so happens I bought the exact one with all the storage I required to do all this fancy artwork on my iPad.

If you watch the last couple of weeks videos, those art pieces in the back, those were from Procreate. I used my video editing and I put the image that I’d created in a frame and I put it here. It was so much fun to play with and I’ve just been loving it. Again, I didn’t know until I tried it.

[16:47] The other one I didn’t know until I tried it — this one honestly still shocks me. A year later — well, not quite a year. Almost a year later, snowshoeing. I know! I did not know. Last year, we didn’t do any traveling. Normally, we would go away in the winter so I could have some pool time and kind of fill up before I had to wait for my pool to open here in the summer, here in Canada. And last year, we didn’t [travel] due to, you know, the travel restrictions and such.

We were here all winter long and I knew I had to choose something different because sitting indoors all winter long in Canada, hoping and wishing that summer would come, is not a great use of my creative capacities. So I looked at what was all possible and the one that read was snowshoeing, which I chose and I love. Once we close the pool down here a few weeks ago, that was like, “Oh, now the snow can come. I’m ready to get my snowshoes out.”

[17:54] So please, guys, be willing to try everything because you don’t know what will create joy. You don’t know what will add and contribute. You might have some ideas — definitely try those, but also be willing to ask about the things you have resistance about. Like me with snowshoeing, those sorts of things.

Everything you haven’t been willing to try, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

And then of course the question is Truth, if I choose this right now, will it create the future I desire or decay the future I desire? Again, those will be in the show notes too, guys.

[18:35] All right, so number three, so I remember. This is one that I would suggest if this is a topic that you’ve really been interested in. You’ve really been wondering how to have more happiness or joy or create that really yummy, delicious energy that matches those words.

[Ask] every day: Universe, show me. Show me what will add joy to my life. Show me what will add laughter to my life. Show me what will add orgasmic energy to my life. Whatever the word is, or whatever matches the energy, ask every day. Maybe multiple times a day – Universe, show me. The other one that I like to ask is Body, show me. Universe, show me. Body, show me. You could do Universe and body, show me what will contribute joy to our life.

The more you ask, the more it will start to show up. Then again, we go back to you’ve got to be willing to ask if it’s going to create the future desire; if you get a yes, then choose it. Choose it, get out of the DJCCPSERRJs, and just choose it. You don’t have to choose that 100 times; you can just choose it once. Get a sense – you’ll know right away if it’s creating the future you desire or not. And that will add so much.

[19:57] I know for myself like the swimming pool for me is a huge one. Like, I never knew how much it would contribute. Prior to having a home that had a swimming pool, we would spend –you know, depending – maybe a month, maybe two months, maybe two weeks, depending on the year — [on] places that had swimming pools.

If you would have asked me then, I probably would have told you that it would — like, having it for short periods contributed more. Because if I had it for a long period, I probably wouldn’t use it as much. I mean, I’m not sure what I would have said but I don’t think — I know I did not know the contribution to having a home with a swimming pool. I had no clue until we had it and what that actually contributed to my life and my living. There’s not actually words and of course, there’s many other things but that’s the greatest example in my life along with this whole Procreate thing, this app that’s on the iPad, which is like an art app. It has added so much because it’s that energy – it’s that energy that I don’t have words for but it’s absolute joy and creation and vibrancy and intensity and yumminess and all those energies that actually create your life. I

It’s nurturing for my body, whether I’m in the swimming pool or I’m playing on Procreate or I’m snowshoeing or all the other things that add to my life. Like, there’s so much nurturing and kindness and expansion in my world with those things. And the more that we can add that energy to our life, the more we’ll be that energy consistently. Everything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all, my sweet friends? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Yeah.

Of course, painting for myself – painting on my face for myself, having so much fun in the makeup room. Now that the pool is closed, I do that way more often because in the summer, I don’t want makeup on – I’m in the pool.

[22:15] So you know, there’s just so much I could say with this. But really, recognizing step one is definitely — become aware of the distractor implant so you can stop distracting yourself and start choosing what would be fun for you, and then looking at trying everything and really getting out of the lies and the limitations and the points of views that are probably not yours any way that you can’t or you shouldn’t or you’re too old. I mean, oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, that is a huge one for so many people.

All the lies you bought or sold that you are too old to have fun, to be joyful, will you just destroy and uncreate all that? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[23:05] You know I’m thinking of, there’s a like a “meme” like, if somebody tells you, you know, you’ve put too much sugar on your cereal, you should kick them out of your life because you don’t need that sort of negativity. I always giggle [with] those. It’s kind of the same thing, like if somebody tells you you’re too old to wear crazy makeup or to wear certain clothes or to swim in a bikini or to I don’t know – skydive, whatever it is. If they’re telling you that, get them out of your life.

Okay, that might be extreme but you know what I mean. Stop listening to them. Stop listening to them. Please. This is your life. This is for you, and if you’re not living your life for you, then chances are you are not listening to this radio show at this point so I don’t need to speak. You would have turned it off much earlier. But truly, look at that. Look where you’re not living for you and look at what it would be like if you did.

Now I don’t mean “in exclusion of.” I don’t mean you’re living for you so everybody else is excluded. I just mean in your life, would you consider for a moment including you? Everything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[24:24] Include you in your life and your living. Include you in the magic that you create on the planet. Include you in the miracles that you add, that you BE. Anything that doesn’t allow that – Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

Oh my gosh, guys. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I look forward to playing with you somewhere online or maybe somewhere on this beautiful planet soon. Have a great week. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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The Question that Changed My Business (this Summer)

Oct 17, 2021 | Radio Show

The Question that Changed My Business (this Summer)

What are the possibilities now?

For the first time in 19 years, I did not feel as excited as I used to towards my business… I remember even spending months trying to figure out “the problem” in hopes of fixing it. Until Heather Nichols, a fellow Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, asked me this question that TRULY changed my business. The question has gifted me SO MUCH — more magic has been occurring in the business (and in my life) since then!

If you’ve been wanting to change something in your business or anything in your life, ask this question all day, every day. What else is possible that you have never even considered?

In this episode, I will share about:

- [00:41] The “problem” I had in my business
- [03:37] The Question that Heather Nichols, Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, asked me that changed my business
- [06:28] How it has gifted SO MUCH in my business
- [08:59] Dealing with the awarenesess that come after The Question
  - More questions and tools you can utilize
  - Upcoming business AWEsomeness to help you
  - What is changing tracks + energetic contributions #getyourbutttoFoundation

Are you in business or looking to start your own? Join me in this 5-part program to turn your ideas into an actual class, program, or whatever creation it is that you can start offering to clients! We will go through the 5 (five) steps that I personally go through when a new class or program is asking to be created.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[00:14] This week, what are we talking about? We’re talking about business and the question that changed my business this summer. Yeah.

Now, you don’t have to have a business to receive from this show because a lot of what I’m talking about will probably contribute to every area of your life. It certainly did mine, and it started in business. All right, let’s start at the beginning.

[00:41] Earlier this year, which is 2021 — depending on when you’re listening, I know a lot of times people listen later — I was not having the same sort of energy in the business that I’m used to. I’m used to this really creative flow of energy that is so inspiring and so delicious and just — I’m just so freakin’ grateful for. I just didn’t have much of that earlier this year.

I was asked this question in August — probably for maybe four or five months before that. It just wasn’t the same. It probably took me a little while to really get present with it. I would say — and I’m just guessing here because I don’t really remember but, you know — it probably started and then I thought, “Oh, you know, this will change” or it’s just “I’m tired” or it’s, you know, all the conclusions and stuff.

[01:38] And then when it didn’t change, that’s when I started looking at it. The thing is — what I did, though, is I looked at it from trying to fix the problem. Now, I know none of you are as silly as me but that’s what I was doing. I was looking at it as being a problem and how can I fix the problem. Yeah. So then, that didn’t work.

Spoiler alert: that does not work. Do not try to fix the problem because guess what? When you’re trying to fix the problem, what’s actually occurring is that you’re buying the lie that there is a problem, which means then you have to figure out what the problem is. And you can’t figure out what the problem is because the problem is a lie, so then you end up on this ridiculous hamster wheel. So, don’t look for the problem.

If you would like to hear more about this, check out this radio show, The Problem with Problems.

[02:31] And so, I spent a few months looking for the problem so I could fix the problem, so I didn’t have the problem anymore. It sounds so funny now. And at the time, I just wasn’t willing to be as aware as I am today. How does it get any better? So then what occurred was I started actually asking…

What is this? What is it going to take to change it?

If you would like to hear more about this tool, check out this radio show, What is THIS?

[02:58] Interestingly enough, once I started asking that — imagine that, guys. Questions work. I actually saw a class of a fellow Certified Facilitator — her name was Heather Nichols — and she was having a class called “Being the Athlete in Business.” I knew that that class was going to contribute something to changing this — not a clue [on] what but I knew something.

So when I took that class, I asked about this because that was the energy that was there for me. I asked about just not having the same energy. And [I’m] so freakin grateful, you know. The universe always has my back. It was the timing of it. I asked it on — I think, a Tuesday. Heather had just been at a Maestro meeting with Dr. Dain where they had this amazing conversation and this question was asked, so then Heather asked me.

[03:57] Before I tell you what the question is — if you are experiencing any of “that energy”: of just it being not so exciting, there’s not really the energy — and it doesn’t have to be [in] business. Remember, guys: you can use these tools on anything. Maybe that’s in another area of your life, maybe it is your business. Whatever it is, I just want you to kind of tap into that right now and then I’m going to ask you the same question that I was asked.

[04:24] Truth: Have you created everything that you came here to create?

Yeah. Now, there isn’t a right or wrong answer to that, guys. It’s not pass or fail. It can just give you some more information.

So when Heather asked me that, I actually like, had such a big — it was a mixed thing. I had a huge release in my body like, “Oh my gosh.” But then also, it was just — I just wanted to cry. It was just… it was so… it was just so much of a “yes” of a like a “Oh, finally” energy.

[05:01] The next moment is really like, “Oh my god, am I done here? Wait a minute, what? Thank goodness.” Don’t worry. If you got a “yes” too, not to worry. What it is now for us is — what would we like to create?

I don’t want to put a lot of words to this because it’s really trying to define something that’s undefinable. I am going to give it a few words.

When we have created everything we’ve come to create, now we have infinite choice. Now we could look at, “Hey, what would we like to create?” Maybe we came in with some decisions of what we had to create, or maybe we came in with some ideas. Maybe even we chose some things along the way and said, “Oh, I really want to create that.” And then when it’s done… it doesn’t mean we’re done. It can, but chances are it’s more now — at least it has been for me — of “What would I like to create now? What would I like to create?”

Now, of course, it doesn’t mean the things earlier that I created were from, you know, obligation, or that I had to. It was just… it was just the energy. Again, I don’t want to put too many words to that. But just know that if you got a “yes”, all it means now is you truly get to choose what you would like to create.

[06:28] It’s so interesting because [of] what that — but being asked that question and having that awareness gifted me. It’s changed everything internally and not externally so much. I’m still doing the same sort of business, I’m still offering the same sort of classes. There’s, you know, everything, kind of. If you were looking just external, it looks the same.

And [yet] it’s 1,000,000,000% different. Like the people that are showing up now, the clients I get to play with, the VIP sessions, the Foundation classes, the courses – all of these.

And the other thing — this is the magical, like magic beyond magic. I sat down in, I don’t know, maybe it was an hour, if that. And I planned out from that moment — which was again, beginning of August to December — what I was going to create. My business was so clear with me as to what it was asking to get created on the planet. It was [snapping] boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

You might have noticed on my upcoming events [that] I’ve got things more in the future than a week. Like, this is huge. Huge, because I’ve spent 19 years pretty much flying by the seat of my pants. Now, that’s not wrong at all, and I cannot tell you the ease that being that clear with my business has created — and I’ve been very clear with my business. Not so clear, though, future-related.

[08:09] So, I can get a hit now and know that it’s for, you know, in two weeks or something. Absolutely, that’s total ease for me. But to know now for December, to know now for November, like, it’s phenomenal for me. And actually by the time that you listen to this or watch this — depending on how you’re consuming it, you know, it may well be into 2022 — I’ve already got this whole magical creation for 2022. It’s like, how does it get any better than this?

Just by acknowledging that basically I had come… all the come… to create? No. I’d created all I had come to do and now, what would I like to choose? The magic of it, my sweet friends. Yes, yes, yes.

[08:59] So if you did get a “yes” when I asked that, just be present with that and look at what would you like and ask this:

What would I like to create now? If I could create anything, what would I like to create now?

Ask that a lot. Remember, we don’t ask questions for answers. We ask questions to receive awarenesses. You might not receive the awareness right away — that’s okay. Allow yourself the space to receive the awareness — and there’s probably going to be way more than one thing that you would like to create on the planet, my sweet friend. Yes.

If you would like to hear more about tools to be more aware, check out this radio show, Tools to Be Aware AF

[09:34] Now, I would also love to invite you if you are in business or would like to be in business and you would like to get an idea out into the world — a class, a creation, whatever you want to call it. I am renewing — that’s probably not the correct way to say it, but I’m gonna say it that way. Anyway, a program that I did earlier this year called “From Idea to Offer.”

It’s a 5-part program where we go through:

(1) Step one is all about communing with your business so that you can receive from it or from the creation — what it’s asking to be, and all the pieces. And then we talk about (2) creating invitations to it — all the stories you have, all the things. Then is the (3) graphic. So, sweet Ericka has created ten (10) graphic templates. And of those 10, each one has multiple sizes for all the different social media outlets. Then we’ve got a whole step on (4) sharing your class — how to get it out into the world. And then [the] (5) tools to add magic to your class.

So, five steps — we’re going to do it over five weeks. I would invite you to come and play now because once this round is done, it’s actually going to go up to $597 CAD. This will probably be the last time we do it live. Everything has workbooks and all the pieces. Anyway, you can find all the information on the link.

[11:07] I also have a FREE Private Podcast where you can listen to different podcasts on how to get ideas for your creations or your classes. I know many of you reached out after I did the original one and said, “Hey, I would have loved to [have] been there but I didn’t even have the idea.” So, there you go. Now, you can listen to the free podcast — you just need to opt in.

And just so you know, a free podcast is all about listening on — however you listen to podcast now. You don’t have to download anything else. You don’t need to do anything else. It’s just behind a door that I’ve got closed and once you choose to join us, you get the key to the door. It’s very simple.

I’ve had a lot of people really confused about private podcasts. It’s not confusing, guys. It’s frickin’ phenomenal. I love them. I use them for a lot of different programs.

[12:00] Now, back to the question that changed my business. Oh, I just cannot even tell you what it gifted to me, guys. It’s so phenomenal. As I was with it afterwards and looking at it, the other thing that I really got that match the energy — something we talk about in Access a lot — is changing tracks. The other energy that came up is that I had changed tracks in the business and I didn’t acknowledge it.

This is the thing: if we don’t acknowledge these things — if we don’t acknowledge what is going on, what is true, what we’re aware of, [or] what we’re creating, we end up using that against us. And so when I didn’t acknowledge (1) that I created everything I came to create; and (2) that I had actually changed tracks energetically, I kept looking — in a sense, I was looking backwards at the same track I was on before — trying to figure out how to do that again, rather than going, “Oh, I’ve changed tracks. Now what? Now what?” That’s the other thing you want to look at: one, you can do energetic contributions to change tracks.

[13:13] So, #getyourbutttoFoundation. I have another one coming up at the end of December online. How the heck did I get so lucky?

Where we talk about energetic contributions, there’s — so far, in the Foundation manual, they’ve got up to the 20. So there’s 3, 4, all the way up to 20 — you get the idea. 13 is about changing tracks.

[13:38] The biggest thing to be aware of with changing tracks is to recognize that when you do energetic contributions to change tracks, you don’t get to say what tracks you go to. This is like everything else in Access Consciousness®: these tools are to create greater, not for you to decide what will create greater and then only choose that. It’s not that. It’s about having no point of view just knowing that you’re choosing greater.

And so right now, if you would like to change tracks in whatever area — I’m going to keep it open so that you can choose for you. If you don’t have a business, you don’t have to do it for that. [It] could be in your money, could be with your body, could be with relationships, [or] with every area of your life. It could be business, whatever it is.

[14:24] So, we’re going to do some 13s — and I use my hands. If you’ve ever seen Dr. Dain. Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness, you might have seen him do a lot of stuff with his hands. He does a lot of energetic contributions. So, 13 is to change tracks.

Everywhere that you would like to change tracks, on 13, will you do that now?

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7…

Get really, really big, guys. Expand lots and lots and lots…

8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13…

Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

If you would like to hear more about the energetic contributions, check out this radio show, What is Contribution?

[15:15] I recently did an in-person — oh my gosh, in-person! Imagine that — class on changing tracks and… it was so incredible, guys. Like, so incredible. One of the awarenesses that we came to during that class is that for me — and I can only speak to my awareness with it. It was another person there that brought it up, but I was like, “Oh my gosh, that’s it.”

So, I will often say, you know, “Oh, it’s been 100 years since I saw that person” or “It’s been 100 years since I did that” or “It’s been 100 years since I went on that trip” or something like that. I’ll use that bizarre phrase – It’s been 100 years. What I now know is when I say that, what I mean is “I have since changed tracks.” Yeah.

Now, it’s not relevant, it’s not significant. But it was a huge awareness that day because sometimes when I would say it, I’d be like, “What am I– like, what? What is that? What does that? What do I mean by that?” And now I know: I’m just acknowledging that I’ve changed track since I saw that person, or I’ve changed track since I did that thing. How cool is that?

It also might be something that is true for you. You might have a phrase that you use. I’m trying to think of the other people in the class, what they said… “Oh, it’s been a different- It was a different lifetime” or “100 lifetimes ago” or something like that with lifetime — however it is. And it doesn’t mean- if it’s even a thing you do. But it was such a huge awareness for me to go, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying.”

So now, because there’s still times I say it, I have a little giggle, because now I know, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying. I’m actually saying I have changed tracks since then.” How cool is that? How cool is that?

And what does “changing tracks” really mean? It means that you’re, well, this is my- this is the way that I see it. I don’t want to say it means it, for sure. There’s probably lots of different definitions. But really, for me, I’ve changed who I BE.

[17:20] Before Heather asked me that question, I was being the Problem Solver. The Figure Out-er, the Wrongness, the Judger of Me, all of that. And then, once she asked me that question, I changed tracks. I changed to –and it’s just a choice — but I changed to — once I had that awareness, it was so easy for me to go, “Man, that’s it. That’s it.” And then the question is, “Okay, now what would I like to create?”

And so, we can change money tracks, like you’ve probably changed points of views about money. I know a big one that I often talk about, you know. I had this “I had to work hard for money.” Once I changed that, I changed tracks. Now I’m on the track that money is ease, or whatever it is — I don’t want to define it like that, but you get the idea.

[18:10] Because again, we can’t say, “Okay, I’m going to change tracks so that money is now ease.” It’s not that. If you got troubles with money, problems with money, if you’re trying to figure out something with money, do some 13’s to change tracks — whatever that’s going to look like, whatever that shows up as — so that you can truly be in that creation space, that magical space rather than, “Okay, I got to figure out this problem because once I figure out this problem, then it’ll be better.”

No.

Problems are lies, so you’ll always be in the problem.

So, everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.

[18:58] The other thing — the other way that I’ve been using the changing tracks tool is really, if I’m catching myself in that problem energy, if I’m doing that, then I’ll just ask

Truth: Have I changed tracks here? because again, it will allow me to acknowledge it. If I acknowledge it, then I can actually choose something totally different rather than spinning in the trying-to-figure-out-the-problem or whatever it is. Yeah, yeah.

[19:27] I wonder… I wonder what is possible the more that we’re willing to change tracks and also acknowledge that we’ve changed tracks. You know, I think a lot of times when we don’t — well, probably all the time — when we don’t acknowledge it, then we try to figure out how to get back to that old track. You can’t go backwards. You try, or maybe there’s somebody in our life that really would prefer us on that other track. [And] so we almost feel like we’re… we’re pulled to go to that other track rather than, “Okay, what would I like to choose here? What’s fun for me?”

What if you can actually be with somebody who’s on a different track than you? What if it’s not about having to have them on the same track or you having to be on the same track? It’s just you get to choose for you, they get to choose for them. Truly, what else is possible that we’ve never even considered?

[20:18] What else is possible with the business that we’ve never even considered? If you’ve been around for a while, you hear me say/ask that question with regards to so much. And honestly, this, I’m not sure that this podcast would be here if it wasn’t for that question. I’ll tell you the story in case you haven’t heard it.

[20:40] Back in 2013, I was sitting on my.. the other acreage that we owned, we had a little private deck on this beautiful hill — it was amazing. I was sitting there one morning and I was asking. I was feeling a little stuck in business. Things weren’t flowing, and I was like, “What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered?”

What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered? I just kept asking that, but it was such a space of like, almost meditation or something because I wasn’t looking for an answer. I wasn’t asking to fix something. It was just the lightness of it, over and over.

And that afternoon, I got a random e-mail from a radio show… place? Anyway, it’s called “Voice America” and they asked me. They said, “Hey, would you like to have a radio show on our station?” And I was like, “What?” You’re nuts!”

Anyway, they weren’t nuts. I did start my radio show in 2013. You can find that one. It’s called “The Glenyce Show.” You can search it on your favorite podcast app or you can find them — all the shows — on my web page. They’re all there.

When I chose not to be with Voice America anymore, then I came here to “Tools to Create a Better Life” that you’re listening to this now. You might be watching it on video, but you can also get in/subscribe on the podcast app. And if you do listen via podcast, I would love if you would go and leave a review — I’d be so grateful.

[22:15] These things — you know, the way that social media and all this stuff works right now — the more people that share it and talk about it and review it and like it and love it and all the things, the more people that it gets to. I would be so grateful if more and more people were like us and choosing to be more conscious and choosing to use these tools to create a better life and living and business and planet for all of us. So, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Have a fabulous week, sweet friends! I look forward to chatting again next week.