Tools When You Are Scared AF

Mar 20, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools When You Are Scared AF

Let’s change this!

Still spinning in that fear, crazy, scared-as-f*ck energy? Tune in to this episode ‘cause we’re listing down more magical tools from Access Consciousness® to assist us so we could start changing all that energy for ourselves. How does it get any better than that?! ✨

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:11] Tools When You Are Scared As Fuck. Something that you want to recognize with that scared energy or that fearful energy is you have a couple of questions you can ask yourself. First question: Truth, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, let me explain. I know that sounds weird. However, a lot of times what we’re calling fear is actually our body super excited about something.

[00:43] Let me give you an example: Years and years ago, I wanted to be a public speaker. I wanted to stand on stage and share inspiration with people. And then, I got my first invite—I was invited to speak on stage. “Oh, no, I can’t have that! I’m scared, I can’t do it! I have to say no!” – I had all of this insanity going on.

[01:08] Now, I didn’t have this tool back then. Luckily, I didn’t let it stop me. However, the question I could have asked myself back then is like, Truth, am I fearful, am I scared, or am I excited? Because in that situation, it was actually what was true. I was so excited—my body was so excited—but we’re so used to identifying that energy as fear that we don’t stop and ask a question.

[01:34] Please, my sweet friends, start asking Is this fear or is this excitement? If you get that it’s fear, don’t worry, I have another tool for you. When it reads as fear—it’s not excitement, it’s actually fear. What we’re doing is we’re distracting ourselves.

[01:52] To give you a silly example: if you’re walking in a city downtown late at night, and you’re walking around and you’re feeling icky that you just go, “Oh no, I’m just distracting myself. I shall continue to do whatever I would like!” No.

You actually want to look at [if] there is something else to choose. It could be that you’re distracting yourself and you could make a different choice. Maybe you get a taxi in that situation or something different. So, it’s not that we go, “Oh well, it’s no big deal.” We still pay attention to it, but we don’t distract ourselves with it.

[02:25] A lot of the stuff going on in the world right now that we might be choosing fear around are probably distractions. [It’s] because there’s nothing in that moment that we can—no, I shouldn’t say there’s nothing. There may be SOMETHING in that moment to do different.

[02:45] Let’s say you’re—what is that term now? Doomscrolling, I think? They call it [that] when you’re on social media or something, looking at all the, you know, “This is the worst thing ever and we’re all gonna die!” and all of that. Maybe the choice in that moment would be to stop doing that. That could be that, but you can check in [if there is] an action to take.

Maybe you are aware of something and there’s something to actually do. But it’s not ever about sitting in your house by yourself feeling scared as fuck. That’s never going to create greater — that’s only going to create more distraction and more of that icky energy.

[03:24] We really have to look at this, guys, because it’s something that we’ve probably found a way to just deal with. It’s like, “Oh well, that’s just what happens. I watch the news, and then I can’t fall asleep at night. And then, I wake up in the middle of the night and I worry some more” – we’ve got to stop that one. It adds the same energy—gives us more of THAT energy, of that doom-y, gloomy, icky energy.

[03:48] It’s not about putting on rose-colored glasses, either. We’re not going, “Oh, no. Everything in the world is perfect. Everybody’s happy and loves each other!” Please don’t do that. It’s about being aware. When we’re distracting ourselves, we’re not aware because we’re doing what I call “putting blinders on.”

[04:08] Let’s say you go on social media for a little bit. You see some stories and it’s like, “Oh my gosh! Okay, well, this is gonna happen and this is gonna happen, and then we’re all gonna die! This is gonna happen when we’re dead!” and you know, all that. We’re putting all these blinders on rather than going, “Okay, yeah. I’m willing to be aware of what’s going on without adding a story to it, so that we can actually start to be way more aware of what’s required to change it. What can we be and do different to change it? Such a powerful question, my sweet friends. Such a powerful question.

[04:43] I also have another radio show from years and years ago all about fear. We’ll link to that in the radio show notes.

If you’re not on my e-mail list, guys, get on my e-mail list! You get the show notes e-mailed to you and the show e-mailed to you every Sunday along with a bunch of other fun stuff on there in the show notes. Ericka, the magician in the business, goes through and transcribes everything I say, puts it all in there with links to things I talk about and all the things. So, come and join us!

[05:09] The other thing I would like to invite you to is—I’m laughing because of the title—I’ve got some Clarity Nights, I mean Afternoons coming up. In Access Consciousness®, we have this possibility of doing what’s called Clarity Nights. We would maybe get together in the evening, and we would talk about a topic and do a bunch of clearings and just get clarity around it. However, I’m going to have them in the afternoon. It’s just a fun play on it.

There’s 5 (five) for sure coming up. I may continue them after this, but we’ve got things like being The Most Valuable Product in your life, Choosing #asifbymagic, and a bunch more that I don’t recall right now. We’re just going to talk about them.

If you are in the area, if you are my neighbor, please come and play in person with me, my sweet friends. We’ll have them both online and in person at the same time. If you’re here, you can come play. If you’re not, you can join us online. You’ll find the link somewhere [and] if you can’t see it, reach out and I’ll get it to you.

[06:10] Back to the show! Okay, those are the two questions: One, is this fear or is this excitement? Now, that’s gonna read for some things, and for some other things: Am I distracting myself with this? If you get a yes, What other choice do I have?

Again, it might be to take some action. You might be recognizing that what you’re choosing in that moment isn’t creating greater and there’s a different action to take—cool. And then, it can be what can I be and do different to change this?

[06:39] The other thing with this: we want to recognize, again, especially because of everything going on in the planet, one of the other tools that we use all the time—I was gonna say a lot, but that’s not true; all the time—in Access Consciousness is Who does this belong to?

[06:54] Again, think of everybody on the planet who is scared as fuck right now. Yeah, that’s a lot of people. It’s a lot of people with that energy of scared as fuck. We are infinitely aware. We can pick up on that and then play with it as though it’s ours. Please, let’s stop that.

[07:13] What we want to do, again: Is this fear or excitement? If you get its fear, then What am I distracting myself from? and also Who does this belong to? It’s going to lighten up… Return to Sender with consciousness attached – that’s the tool.

[07:27] It’s such an easy tool – Return to Sender with consciousness attached, which means you’re returning it to whoever was the very first person to play with the energy, the distraction of scared as fuck. Cool! “With consciousness” means it’s being delivered back in a way that they could change it if they wish. Now, that part is not up to us. Our job – return to sender with consciousness attached. Let them choose whatever they’re going to choose and us to carry on.

[07:57] But really, [it’s] to start recognizing we have another choice. We have another choice. We can continue to play with scared as fuck and contract our life so small, or we can use some of these tools and make different choices and look at, “Okay, what is going to create the most here? What is going to create the most here? What can I be and do different to change this?

[08:20] The more that I change that energy that shows up in my life—that scared as fuck, the more that I’m willing to use these tools, it energetically ripples out and invites people around me and for miles and miles and forever and ever and ever to change it for themselves. So, what sort of contribution could we be if all of you listening start using these tools rather than playing with scared as fuck as though it’s real?

[08:48] We’re infinite beings. Scared isn’t a reality for us. We are infinite beings with infinite awareness, so we would make a different choice. We would just know—”Oh, there’s that energy. Okay, what can I be and do different to change this?”

But when we’re pretending we’re finite beings, that’s when it becomes a bit of a problem. That’s when we stick ourselves because we go into this energy of like, “Oh, I’m scared because of this and it’s because of this, and this is going to happen and this is going to happen” and then, it’s that spiral. It was called like that, you know, hamster on a hamster wheel, like you’re just going, going, going, and crazy, crazy, crazy. Honestly, it’s up to us to stop it.

[09:25] You’ve got some tools now, guys. Please if you’ve got any questions, let me know. You can post them below depending if you’re watching this video somewhere. If you’re listening on the podcast, then you can email them in info@glenycehughes.net, or just go to my webpage www.glenycehughes.com and you’ll see the Contact page. Send them in [and] I’m happy to do a follow-up show with any of these, guys, because this—let’s change this, my sweet friends. Let’s change this.

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How to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Shit Crazy

Mar 13, 2022 | Radio Show

How to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Shit Crazy

Now is the time to be the magic of us.

There has been A LOT going on in the world for a while now, even more so these days. I’ve come across a lot of people, myself included, wondering what to do in the midst of it all. How do we go on with creating our life and living while being aware of what’s going on?

This is where the magical tools from Access Consciousness come in handy! In this episode, I will be sharing some of these tools to assist us so we can continue thriving even during these trying times. HDIGABTT?! ✨

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[04:47] Tool #1

[09:30] Tool #2

[18:52] Tool #3

[23:16] Tool #4

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so, so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:14] This week’s show, with all the stuff going on in the world right now, [is] Tools to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Sh*t Crazy. Yeah, yeah. Truly, what else is possible with all of this, my sweet friends, that we have never even considered?

[00:40] I have had so many conversations with people, whether they just reach out to me privately or I’m working with them one to one or group calls, whatever it is, where people are not sure what to do when the world is going bat shit crazy. Now, the world has been going bat shit crazy for a while—probably forever, really. There’s always been some sort of drama-trauma. Right now, at least for me and many other people around me, it’s louder and bat shittier, crazier than ever before.

[01:15]mAnd so, a lot of people are asking, “What do I do, Glenyce? How do I continue to thrive? How do I continue to celebrate my successes? How do I continue to build my business? How do I do this when I’m aware of what’s going on?” which is, really, how this whole show got birthed. [It’s] because I was looking at that for myself, also.

[01:40] I saw a fellow business person post something and I was so inspired by it. This is not exactly what she said, but it’s close. [It] was: “I’m not sure what to do in this situation. I’m not sure how to continue to market my business, work with my clients, and live as though basically nothing’s going on when we all know there’s a lot going on.”

And [then], she said, “What I’m going to do is I’m going to continue to contribute to everyone else who’s choosing to be aware of it, and to continue forward while being aware of it all.”

[01:46] Contributing in all the ways that work—for her—is what she meant, and continuing on. Not stopping, not using it as an excuse, not going down the rabbit hole but actually [being] aware that it’s going on [while] contributing in whatever ways and not stopping.

[01:46] Now, there’s going to be some of you that that actually would make sense to not, so please do what actually works for you. That’s really the ultimate of all of this: do what works for you. I’m also going to share some tools to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy because honestly, anything less than that is then contributing to that—the world going bat shit crazy.

[02:52] I was really inspired by that (1) because I was really unsure, also really, what to do. I think it was like a week ago, I was even like, “Do I even send out an email like my weekly newsletter? Do I send that out? What would actually be a contribution here?” And when I saw her post, I was like, “Actually, me not sending out that newsletter wouldn’t contribute.”

My weekly newsletter, if you’re not on it, get on it—hello?! Also, it has things that are inspiring me, it has the art that I created that week, it has this radio show—a link to it. You get it as soon as it’s available. [There are] all sorts of other items and stuff that I don’t even recall right now. So, me not sending that out didn’t actually make sense to me.

[04:17] As usual, these tools are in no way, shape, or form, or whatever I might have them, I might save them as number 1-2-3 but they’re all useful. Use the ones that work, try them out. If you’re not sure, try them. If you’re new here, these tools are from Access Consciousness, and you can go to www.accessconsciousness.com for more information about how they work. Basically, it’s all just a bunch of amazing magic tricks that you can use to change anything.

[04:47] A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy is one of my all-time favorites—I talk about it all the time. If you’re not new here, you’ve heard me talk about it before. You’ll hear me talk about it again. It is the tool of interesting point of view.

[05:05] This is where when you become aware of something that you actually have a point of view about, something that you’re judging, something that you’re going, “This is wrong and horrible and shouldn’t be going on!” and that energy. Here’s the thing: It’s the same energy as the thing. What we want to be really aware of is when we are adding energy to the bat shit crazy. We want to then use this tool to stop it, which is very simple.

[05:39] When you recognize that—let’s say you turn on the news, you read the newspaper, or somebody’s sharing something they saw on social media about it. You start going into “this is horrible” and “this is awful.” Stop… and say this—you can say it to yourself, you can say it out loud, it doesn’t matter how you say it, just say it:

Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

You’re going to say it 5, 10, [or] maybe 50 times. What you’re looking to do is actually change the energy of whatever it is you’re judging. When we’re adding energy to something like this by judging it that it’s wrong, it’s horrible, it shouldn’t be going on, that’s what we need to change.

[06:32] Now, does that mean we’re going to get to the place where we just sit back and go, “Ah, no big deal. It’s not happening to me, so who cares?’ That’s not what we’re going to get to. We can’t get there—that’s not something that will ever be possible for us [because] we actually have infinite caring.

[06:49] What you want to recognize is that when you get out of the judgment, you’ll actually be aware then of what’s possible. You’ll be aware of what’s going to create greater. You might suddenly come across a charity to donate to, an idea of putting together something that would contribute to a group of people, or there’s a billion [other] things. But all the while we’re in the wrongness of the thing, we’ll never ever, ever, ever change it.

[07:19] So, our tool for this one is interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Let’s do it together. I want you to bring up something. It doesn’t have to be about the bat shit crazy that’s going on in the planet right now. It might be something very personal to you— it might be something that you’re struggling with, a specific situation, a money thing, a relationship thing, whatever. Just bring up one for the purpose of us doing this together right now. Okay? Bring up that energy, bring up the judgment, whatever that is for you. I’m going to bring up something, also… Okay, there we go. Together:

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view.

Now, check back in. If that situation still [has] lots of judgment and energy, continue with it until it’s gone.

[08:35] What I find often [that] occurs, though, is that it changes, and then there’s maybe another piece to it. Let’s say we were mad at our spouse for not taking out the garbage and we’re doing it. And then all of a sudden as we’re doing it, we start thinking about the time that they also didn’t wash the car like they said they were going to or something like that. We can kind of go into other places and run it there, too.

Just do it until you have that spaciousness—until you get to be present with you. That’s what we’re looking for with this tool. It is such an easy way to change things so that you can then be more aware of what’s required in whatever situation—any situation, especially with the bat shit crazy going on.

[09:30] A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy is the energetic contributions from Access Consciousness. These are like magic—they change things as if by magic. They’re phenomenal. Now, they’re exactly what they sound like: an energetic contribution. You’re going to contribute energetically.

[09:56] When I very first started studying Access Consciousness back In 2011, I didn’t use these for many years. I bet it was 3 or 4 years before I truly started using the energetic contributions. It didn’t make sense to me—I didn’t feel like I was doing anything, so I didn’t do them until I did.

It might be that you don’t find them as useful. It might be that you love them and use them all the time. It might be you’ve never heard of them before and you just want to try them out [or] whatever. What I recommend is if you’ve been like I was for all those years and kind of avoiding them, maybe try like a 30-day challenge with yourself of choosing to use them once a day just to check it out.

[10:42] I also have a radio show from many years ago, I don’t even recall what it’s called. I do know it’s all about the energetic contributions. We’ll link to that.

You could also find it in the radio show notes. If you’re on my e-mail list, you get them e-mailed to you on a PDF every Sunday. If you’re not, you can find them on my web page with this radio show. They’re underneath and you can read them there.

[11:07] Energetic contributions—there’s many, many of them in Access Consciousness. If you’re ever, ever interested, you will find them in the Access Consciousness Foundation class. I facilitate that—they’re amazing, my sweet friends.

I have one coming up on the books right now in July called the Pool Party Bars & Foundation. No, we do not swim during class, but you can swim before and at lunch and after class. That’s why it’s called the Pool Party class here at my acreage.

It may be also offered online. It really depends what Access Consciousness chooses as we get closer to that. I’ll also of course have more coming up. You’ll find the link somewhere.

[11:48] What these energetic contributions do is they allow us to be the magic of us energetically. When you are in that space of the bat shit crazy—when you’re in that energy, when you’re joining in, when you’re spinning in the “what is going to happen, what if this happens, what if that happens, what if that doesn’t happen?”, whatever that is, when you’re there, you can energetically contribute.

[12:23] There’s many different numbers—we’re gonna just talk about the number 3 for the sake of this show. It’s basically where you energetically contribute—I like to use my hands. Dr. Dain Heer who’s the co-founder of Access Consciousness, he has all sorts of videos and radio shows and all the things about energy and energetically contributing and all of that. If you ever see him on video, you’ll see his hands are moving all the time. He’s doing all of this. A 3—what we’re going to do together today is we’re going to contribute this 3 energy, which is like taking a lightning bolt and blowing apart the solidity of a situation.

[13:14] Now, here’s the thing, though, and this is the thing with every tool that we use in Access Consciousness: you don’t want to have a point of view about what it should do. We’re going to do some 3s together, but you don’t want to have the assumption that it’s going to make this happen or that happen or make this not happen or any of those things. We want to be really, really, really total space when we’re doing a 3 because if we do a 3 for what we think is the best or the way we think it should turn out, we’re actually really limiting what could occur.

[13:56] When we decide from our head what should be going on, that’s very limited. Our head—our mind can only make a decision based on what we can see or what has occurred before. That’s very limited.

What could occur on the planet in the next second could blow all of our mind, could be so beyond this reality, could be that it’s just so magical that we can’t even comprehend it because it hasn’t occurred, and because our mind can only comprehend what’s occurred. So, what we want to do when we energetically contribute is have no point of view about how it should occur.

[14:45] Sometimes, things get worse before they get better. There’s so many things. When we’re doing this energetic contribution, this 3 to contribute, it’s just that: it’s to contribute with no point of view about what that contribution would be. Yeah. Okay.

[15:05] With that right now, again, you can think personally, you can think globally, whatever, however you want to use this 3 together right now. We’re just going to bring up the energy of a situation—that solid, which is any situation that you would see as bat shit crazy. There’s solidity there, so it doesn’t matter. You can pick a very specific thing or a global thing. We’re just going to do some 3s together.

[15:33] What I do when I do energetic contributions—when I BE energetic contributions is [a] more accurate definition, but it doesn’t sound right. When I BE this, what I do is I bring to mind the energy of it—not necessarily to mind, but the energy of the situation.

[15:53] I’m going to do it globally. I’m bringing up all that energy, all that solidity. Now, I’m being really present with me, with my body, with me as the infinite being I truly be, being really present. I am going to contribute… whatever is going to contribute. You can do this with me.

1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3.

Basically, I just do it like that until I can perceive a shift. Now, what’s that shift? Who knows? I’m not going to define it, I’m not even sure. It just is a shift. That’s all we’re looking for.

[16:40] Now, a few ways that you can use 3s—really magical. If when you wake up in the morning you wake up tired, you can actually do 10 of the 3s, like, just contribute. The wording you could say is something like I’m contributing to anything that doesn’t allow my body to feel rested. 1 2 3… 1 2 3… and then do 10 of them. You could word it like that. You don’t even have to word it. You could just wake up feeling kind of crappy and just go, “Anything this is… 1 2 3… 1 2 3…” You can do it like that. There’s so many ways.

[17:17] The other way [is] years ago, I used to have really bad knee problems back in 2015. What I would do when I was walking and it felt really, really painful is every step I took, I would go 3… 3… 3… 3. Now, I meant with my feet—I wasn’t doing this with my hands. When I was walking, every step that I took, energetically I would be saying 3, 3, 3. I would be contributing with every step that I took.

There was a lot of times back then I was walking through airports, I was walking blocks and blocks to different places where I was facilitating classes and stuff. There was a lot of time where I spent walking that I would do those 3s. It would change it so much just by doing the 3s with every step I took.

[18:06] Again, you can use these in any way that you can, that you can find. There’s no right or wrong way to using these. There’s just being them—using them, being them.

Again, in that older radio show, I think we go up to number 7 in that show or something. Then in Foundation, we go all the way up to number 20. Once you take Foundation, you can move on to Choice of Possibilities, which is then I think it goes up to 24 or something at this point. I mean there’s so many numbers, there’s so many different ways that contribute. But for now for this show, just use 3s on anything that’s solid. Anything that seems bat shit crazy, use 3s.

[18:52] A tool to thrive when the world is bat shit crazy [is] asking this question: What is the beautiful energy underneath this? What that does is it takes us out of the wrongness. It takes us out of the judgment and it puts us into the space of possibilities.

[19:16] Often when something is bat shit crazy, or we’re seeing it as that, there’s so much judgment—there’s all that solidity, it’s all of that harshness, it’s all of that intensity. When we start asking what is the beautiful energy underneath this, then the universe can actually show us. The universe can actually show us what the beautiful energy is. There’s always beautiful energy.

Once we get the energy of that, now we’re out of the judgment. We’re out of the solidity, we’re out of the harshness [and] into the beautiful energy of it, which is where we can then contribute. We can actually be the contribution.

[20:00] Now, what does being the contribution mean? [It] just means BEing with no point of view, with no judgment, with no solidity—BEing. In that space, you’d actually have an awareness of what that actually could be like. If you were BEing a contribution… it’s not a doing, it’s a BEing. You might then come across something that you could contribute to like, maybe there’s money to contribute to a charity. Maybe there’s an action to take that would contribute. Maybe there’s a setting up a different charity-type thing. I mean, there’s so many things that could be.

[20:50] That’s what you want to recognize: when we’re in the space of the beautiful energy, meaning we’re not in the judgment, we’ll become aware of what’s actually going to change it. This reality has really, really taught us that the only way to change something is through judgment. We have to judge it, and judge it, and judge it. And then through that judgment, we can change it. That’s not actually true. It’s not actually true. You’ll never change anything through judgment, you’ll only add to it.

[21:28] The more that we’re in the space of the beautiful energy, the more that we’ll be the contribution, that then we’ll be aware of if there’s actually anything else to do, if there is an action step. Sometimes there isn’t, sometimes there is. It’s a totally different space. It’s a totally different energy.

[21:51] Just like all the tools that I share, this tool can be used on anything. If you’re having an upset with somebody at work, ask just [with] yourself [or] in your mind: what is the beautiful energy underneath this? It’s going to take you out of the wrongness of the situation and put you into the spaciousness, the possibilities. Whatever might contribute, you’d actually be aware of it, and then you could take the action.

Really, when when we look at all the bat shit crazy on the planet right now, what is the beautiful energy underneath it all? What is the beautiful energy underneath it all?

[22:42] Like every question that we ask in Access Consciousness, we’re not looking for an answer. We’re not going to try to figure it out. We’re just asking what is the beautiful energy underneath this all. We’re allowing the universe to deliver that to us in whatever way it can.

[It] might not be [in] the moment you ask a question, might not be for an hour, might not be for three days—it doesn’t matter. We’re going to stay in the question. The question will always, always create greater. The answer, the trying-to-figure-it-out, the involving of your mind, that’s where it becomes a limitation.

[23:16] A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy: The Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness. Now, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. It’s beautifully described there. If you’re new here or if you’ve been around a while but you’ve never visited that page, please go. Dr. Dain. Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness, does a great job of explaining it.

[23:44] Basically, the wording is—I’ll give you the wording first:

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

That’s the Clearing Statement. You can say it in whatever way you would like. You can say Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, you could say Good and Bad, Right and Wrong, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds—however you want to say it. The way that you’ll always hear me say it, just because that’s how I memorize that all those years ago: Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[24:15] Basically, it’s like a magic wand. If you’re driving to work, you’re trying to fall asleep at night, or you’re sitting watching TV but your mind is going and you’re freaking out about what might happen with the world, what might go on, what won’t ever happen, or you’re in that space, you don’t even have to do anything except repeat the Clearing Statement over and over.

[24:40] There’s various ways so if you haven’t memorized it, you don’t have to. You can keep it really simple and just say the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement—you could do that.

[24:53] The other thing you could do [is] just go: POC and POD, POC and POD, POC and POD. That’s a very short version of the Clearing Statement.

If you’re like me [and] a little bit OCD, maybe a lot OCD, I say the whole thing: Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds over and over and over.

[25:18] What that does is it clears all the insanity. It clears all the crazy, clears all my points of views. It clears all the points of views I’m aware of, it clears all the crazy, and it allows me to be me. It is something that I highly recommend. If [it] feels yummy to you that you memorize it, or you use the shortened version or whatever, and repeat it and repeat it, and repeat it.

[25:44] Here’s the thing: we often do this thing of deciding that something has value that it doesn’t. We’ve decided—a lot of us, not all of us, but many of us have decided—there’s value in worrying about something that’s totally out of our control. There’s value in talking about how horrible something is that we can’t change. Specifically, there’s value in thinking about it and thinking about it and worrying ourselves sick about it. That’s the value we’ve decided.

[26:20] It’s not actually true. There’s no value in that because there’s nothing that we can do about that external stuff out there. What can we do, though, is take care of us.

What can we do is use the Clearing Statement in our mind or out loud, whatever works, in that moment over and over to get out of the insanity, to get us back to the space of us, to get us back to our awareness of what we could be or do different to contribute, to [a] totally different space of being.

[26:53] It’s something that actually takes choice. We actually have to choose it. We actually have to look at where are we putting our attention. What are we doing with our energy? Does it actually work? Does it actually work anymore? Does it actually work to stress about something that we ultimately can’t do anything about in this moment? No. Okay, so what can we do?

Well, we can take care of ourselves which—here’s the kicker—will ultimately contribute to that thing changing. Yeah. We actually have all this magic but we’re using it against us most of the time than for us.

All the magic that you be, that you’ve been using against you rather than for you, will you destroy and uncreate all of that times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[27:53] This is one of the ways that we use the Clearing Statement. We ask a question like that, and then we clear all the energy that comes up around it so that we can actually be us. We can actually be us—we can actually start utilizing that magic for us, for the planet, [and] for the possibilities. Yes, yes, yes. It is so time, my sweet friends. If there was ever a time, now is the time for us to be the magic of us.

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Tools to Change Anything

Mar 6, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Change Anything

Change anything #asifbymagic

If you’ve been wanting to change something in your life, this episode is for you. Listen in as I share some amazing and easy-to-use tools from Access Consciousness that you can utilize to get you out of the problem and into the space and lightness to change anything as if by magic.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here, whether you’re watching this as a video or listening to it as an audio.

This has been almost two years that we’ve been doing this and yet, every once in a while, I still want people to know that there’s lots of ways to consume this weekly show, podcast, or radio show—whatever you might want to call it. We’ve got YouTube, Facebook and Instagram, and—oh my gosh—all the things and then, of course, all of the podcast apps like Spotify, Apple, and all the other ones that I don’t know.

You can access this anywhere—you can search “Tools to Create a Better Life.” You could probably even search my name, if you can figure out how to spell it and find it that way.

[00:50] What are we going to talk about this week? Well, I am in the midst of facilitating yet another phenomenal Foundation class, which is one of the classes from Access Consciousness. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.accessconsciousness.com for more information about all the amazing classes. It’s really where all of the tools that I share on this radio show are from—they are life changing and amazing.

[01:14] So, Tools to Change Anything. Yep—anything, because that’s what these tools do. You can actually utilize these tools to change anything.

[01:28] You hear me share them in all sorts of ways—maybe you’ve been following me a bit on Instagram and my reels or on TikTok lately where I’ve been sharing magical money tricks which you can use on anything. One, you can go opt in and get the FREE downloads: I did a video, there’s a PDF with five questions, and there’s phone wallpaper with my #1 question for more money. You can go grab that—that’s a gift for you. Basically, these tools can be used on anything.

[01:56] First tool! Now, I wouldn’t say there’s any such thing as the number one tool of all tools. If I was gonna say that, it’s this one: interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

How do you use this? Before I go into this, even if you’ve been here for a while, even if you’ve used this tool a million times, take a moment and listen. I know what you’re like because I’m like that, too. [You’re] like, “I know how to use that!” and then, you stop paying attention. But let’s all just be present for a moment… okay, there we go.

[02:42] What you’re looking at with interesting point of view [and] using this tool is any time that you have an interesting point of view—anytime you’re judging, you’re comparing, you’re projecting, you’re expecting, you’re insane, or whatever it is, whenever you’re not being the allowance that you actually be—you want to use this tool. It’s so simple, just [say it] in your head: Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

That’s what I do: I give myself some space between saying it to give space to the energy, to start dissipating it. You could do it really quickly—*faster pace* Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view—it just might not create what you’re looking for. It may [but] you just want to check in. That’s always the thing—you always just want to check in with yourself. If it’s changing it, do it however it works. For me, I know that that space in between gifts it that.

[03:53] Let’s say you’re driving to work, and you’re annoyed because there’s heavy traffic. You’re annoyed because it’s snowing, you’re annoyed because you left your partner in a tiff or something—whatever it is, [it] doesn’t matter. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view…

[04:15] Bring that up, think about it and repeat that over and over and over, and allow yourself the space to change it. All you’re doing is identifying it’s just a point of view, which means it’s not real, it’s not significant, it’s not black and white. It’s just an interesting point of view. You do that enough times [and] it no longer has a hold over you. Now, you have more space to make a different choice.

Whatever the problem is, whatever the thing is that isn’t working, whatever it is that you would like to change, add interesting point of view to it.

[04:54] Let’s say it’s something that occurred last week. You’re not in that moment, you’re remembering it. You’re reliving it, possibly. Maybe you’re having—maybe this is just me, pretty sure it’s not, though—of like where you’re replaying it in your head. “I should have said this, I shouldn’t have said that”—like that insanity.

All you have to do is just think of that thing, that situation, that person, that whatever. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… over and over until it just changes it. It doesn’t matter if it’s past [or] you’re worried about something coming up in the future. Same thing—think about it, repeat that over and over.

[05:38] I said this already [and] I’m going to repeat it again, though. You do not have to say this out loud. In fact, if you’re saying it to somebody, you’re probably being a superior bitch and stop it. Stop it. A lot of times, people find these tools and they start using them. But then, they start basically killing everyone around them with them. That’s not what these tools are for. Just for you, just for fun, never tell anyone.

If you’re aware that the person talking to you is having an interesting point of view, don’t tell them they’re having an interesting point of view. That’s not kind. [Instead], you, in your head, can say interesting point of view, they have that point of view so you can have more space with it.

[06:21] That is one tool, and you hear me talk about it all the time if you’ve been around a while. If you’re new here, hi! [It’s] nice to meet you. Otherwise, it’s just one of those that can change anything so quickly in my experience.

06:36 The other way that I’ve used it is for body stuff. Let’s say I wasn’t feeling well. I would actually just focus on where I’m not feeling well. Let’s say I was feeling congested—like a cold-like thing—I would focus on that. Focus isn’t the right word—I would be PRESENT with it. That’s what I’m looking for—I’d be present with that energy, the congestion, and interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view…

So simple, my sweet friends, so simple. For me, it changes it very, very quickly. So, that’s one tool to change anything.

[07:16] Another tool, and I haven’t probably shared this all that much. It’s not one that I’ve really used a whole lot. But I was talking about it in the Foundation class this morning which is just popping into my mind now.

[07:27] Let’s say you’re in a situation that you would like to be different—you’re frustrated with it, you’re upset with it, it’s not what you’d like it to be. A question you can ask: What is funny about this that I’m not getting?

Yeah, right? It just changes it. [It’s] because there’s always something funny about it. If you’re stuck in the drama-trauma of the thing, then you’re in a very solid, heavy, icky energy. But by asking What’s funny about this that I’m not getting?, there’s that lightness.

[08:02] Ultimately, guys, that’s what we’re always looking for—more lightness. When we’re in the problem, when you’re in the drama-trauma, when we’re in the crazy, that’s the contractive and that’s the heavy. What about the lightness? What about the lightness, my sweet friends? What’s funny about this I’m not getting is such a quick way to change it.

[08:23] The other way—different sort of a question, but very same idea. What’s right about this I’m not getting? Same idea, just a different energy to it.

[08:34] I know a lot of people when they hear that, they [would go], “No! If we’re choosing consciousness, we don’t do right and wrong so I can’t ask that question.” You can, but you just want to recognize we’re not asking from the place of what’s right about this so we can figure out what’s right—not from that.

Usually, what we’re doing before we become aware to ask that question is we’re in the wrongness. “What’s wrong with me? What’s wrong with this situation? What’s wrong with this person?” When we change it to “What’s right about this?”, we change the energy of the situation.

[09:06] It just depends. What’s funny about this (I really like that one) and what’s right about this, either one of those will change any situation because again, when there’s contraction, once we change it to lightness, that’s where the awarenesses, that’s where the possibilities is, and that is where the magic is.

[09:26] Another tool is to recognize that your point of view is what’s creating your reality. It’s your point of view. You don’t have to figure out what your point of view is and change that. You could, that’s one way, but a really quick kind of way around that is when you recognize you’re in something—there’s something going on—you don’t like, you know you’re choosing it, you know you’re creating it. You could ask: If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I create? What magic could I be here?

[10:01] It changes it because we’re not taking our time to figure out all the interesting points of views we’re playing with. We’re just saying, “Hey, if I didn’t hold on to any of this, what magic could I be? What magic could I create?” which then, guess what? We go from the heavy contraction to the lightness which is what we’re looking for. The stuff that’s going to change it for us is getting into that lightness, and whatever it takes to get there.

[10:28] This is just one really quick way around it, really quick acknowledgement that we are the creators of our life. A lot of times when we’re in that icky-ness, when we’re in the problem, drama, etc, we’re playing a victim. We’re going, “Well, I will change this, but that person won’t let me” or “This wouldn’t be happening if they didn’t do this” or “If the government wasn’t that…”

If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I be?

[10:56] It changes everything. With questions, we’re not looking for answers. When I asked that, I’m not going, “Okay, so what magic could I be? Let me figure out the magic I could be.” It’s not gonna work like that. It’s just asking that question, we’re gonna go to the lightness, and then the universe is going to deliver the magic. Okay? Our job is just to ask the question, be the question, be the lightness, change anything that isn’t light into lightness, and the universe will do the rest.

[11:27] Another tool to change anything is to always be in the question of yourself of what would I like to create here?

There’s so much value in the problem—we put so much energy into the problem. I need to think about the problem, I need to figure out the problem, I need to spin on the problem, I need to talk about the problem with the 10 people around me, and then I’ll fix the problem. And then, I won’t have the problem. And then, I’ll choose something different.

Sorry, [it] doesn’t work that way. The only time you’ll choose something different is when you choose something different. The value that we’ve put into the problem is what we need to stop. We need to ask ourselves, “Hey, what would I like to create here?”

[12:13] Again, let’s go to the example of you’re driving to work and you’re upset about the traffic. It’s really heavy traffic and you’re late already. You’re in that place of “this is so stupid and I shouldn’t have to deal with his traffic” and “I hate traffic and I left early so I didn’t have to” and all that stuff. That energy is not going to change anything.

However, [try] asking what would I like to create here? It’s often the exact opposite of what you’re creating. It’s often like, “I’d like to have ease with the traffic. I’d like to get to my appointment on time” and that’s all you need to do—turn it into what you’d like to create and then ask for that. The way that I asked sounds a little bit different than an ask, but it’s still an ask.

I wonder what it would be like to get to the appointment on time…. I wonder what it would be like to have ease with driving right now….

[13:08] I wonder about it, which is similar to a question. You could [also] ask What would it take? What would it take to have ease with this right now? What would it take to get to my appointment on time? What magic could I be to get there on time? You’re turning it into your ask of what you would like, which is getting you out of the solidity of the problem and into the lightness once again. That’s what we’re looking for.

[Those are] some really simple, easy-to-use tools, my sweet friends, to get you out of the problem and into the space [and] the lightness to change it as if by magic.

[13:45] Depending on when you’re watching this, sweet friends, I would love to invite you to the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, Rejections Book Club that I have starting on March 8, 2022.

Of course, if you’re listening later, you can always access the recordings and stuff—[the] link will be the same. You’ll find that link somewhere [and] if you can’t find it, let me know.

[14:06] Pool Party Bars and Foundation [is] in July of 2022—come and play! Bring your swimsuit and just so you know, the class is not in the pool. I’m sorry for those of you who would like that, but it is not. The class is in the class space and then before class, at lunch break, and after class, the pool is open for your use. Just for anybody who thinks that we’re having class in the pool, we are not. How does it get any better?

[14:35] [I’d] also love to invite you to come and chat with me. You guys hear all sorts of stories about me. You probably know me quite well based on what I share in all my content and my classes and everything. And [so], I’ve opened up a weekly Zoom where I chat with you. Anybody who would like to, you’ll find the link. You can opt in and you’ll get the email.

We just hop on Zoom for five to seven minutes and you just tell me about you. I’ve got some really fun questions to ask you just so that I can start to get to know who you are because I missed that. I really, really missed that.

Anyway, have a fabulous week sweet friends and I look forward to chatting again next week

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Tools to Clear Secret Agendas

Feb 27, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Clear Secret Agendas

Now is the time, my sweet friend.

Secret agendas are something I’ve been clearing and playing with for years—probably ever since I started using the tools from Access Consciousness, which has been… 11 YEARS! It’s been a long time and yet, there still so much to receive about it.

Join me on this week’s episode as we talk about secret agendas: what it is, where it might be lurking in your life, and of course, some magical clearings from Access Consciousness to help you change it and create the life and living you truly desire.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:11] I’m laughing a little bit because if you’re watching this on video, I have a cup in front of me. It’s one of my cups, and it says “F*ck…” and it has a whole bunch of places you could put a check mark, like “f*ck you”, “f*ck this”, “f*ck it”, “fuck-a-doodle-doo”.

However as I’m sitting here, I’m wondering, “I’m not sure it’s going to read correctly in the video.” So, I just started to giggle as I hit record had to share that with you.

[00:38] Okay. What are we going to talk about today? Tools to Clear Secret Agendas. Now, I have done radio shows on secret agendas before. We will link them somewhere for you if you want to check them out.

[00:55] In a very recent class that I had with Access Consciousness, the Certified Facilitator Training in February of 2022, they spoke about secret agendas a little bit. I did what I do: if there’s a certain energy on something, I go and I do a little bit more research on it just to be a little bit more aware.

Oh, my gosh. I really am getting secret agendas on a level like I’ve never got before. It’s amazing. Truly, this is something I have been clearing and playing with for years and years and years, probably ever since I started using the tools from Access Consciousness, which has been 11 years. So, it’s been a long time and still, there still so much to receive about it.

[01:43] So, I wanted to do this show basically based on something that I read in the reference materials. If you’re not familiar, reference materials are things you can purchase from Access Consciousness after you take Foundation and then, after you take the Choice of Possibilities class. It’s all of the stuff that has been in the Manuals all of the years.

What I don’t recommend you doing—because I did this back in 2012—is printing it all off. I had binders and binders and binders of pages. Instead, keep them on your devices as PDFs, and they’re easy to search. Anyway, lesson learned.

[02:20] So, what I read and what I want to just talk about here—that’s why I have my computer with me, I want to share directly from it to make sure that I get it correct as I’m sharing it. But what I want to talk about first is like, what are secret agendas? What the heck are you talking about, Glenyce?

[02:41] Really, there are things that we decide, there are decisions we make and then, we’re never able to change that. Something as simple as, let’s say, you decided you don’t like the color blue. Maybe you were in another life and you decided you don’t like the color blue, then you’re not able to receive from blue or anything around blue, or even start to like the color blue based on that secret agenda.

[03:15]Now, of course, that’s kind of a silly example, because it’s just a color, what does it matter? Except this is every area of our life. Every area – we have secret agendas with money, we have secret agendas with people, we have secret agendas with our body, we have secret agendas with giving. And so, this is what I wanted to share with you.

[03:39] Gary Douglas says, “Secret agendas of giving are what stop us from receiving. If any part of your life is not abundant, you are giving something as a way not to receive.“

[03:58] “You’re giving something as a way not to receive.”

Ah, this was huge for me when I read that. Just looking at my life, of how much—and especially prior to using these tools from Access Consciousness—I would give, and give, and give. And then, I would be resentful. And then, I would make the other person wrong. And then, I would make myself wrong because I made the other person right. You get the insanity of this?

But really, how much are we giving to not receive? What if it’s not about just receiving either? What if it’s the gifting and the receiving and the receiving and the gifting?

[04:39] In this reality, we have what’s called “give and take.” I give you something and I take something from you, or I give you something [and] you take something from me, like, whatever way it is. That’s very unnatural for us. If you’re listening to this or you’re watching this, it’s a very unnatural energy for us.

[05:00] What is natural for us is “gifting and receiving,” which is what Gary’s talking about here. When we have a secret agenda with giving, we’re doing the “give and take” rather than the “gifting and the receiving.” The gifting and the receiving is where we don’t even know who the gift are is and who the receiver is.

[05:20] I always use this as an example when I talk about gifting and receiving. It’s this podcast—the radio show, for me, is the best example I have of gifting and receiving, although I probably have many more, but it’s the best example.

[05:34] If you’ve ever listened to a podcast or radio show, or watched a video where the person is doing give and take, it’s not that fun to listen to because there is this funky energy of “I’m giving you this but now I must take from you.” Some people do maybe a video to invite them to an offer that they have, and I always share my offers in here—again, if you’ve been here for a while, you know I do this—but it’s from this place of “Hey, here’s what I’ve got going on and I’d love you to come and play, but I’m not doing this so you will come to that.”

[05:34] People would say, “You’re giving us this information—you’re giving us content, and we’re taking it from you” or however you want to see it, like THAT energy. But it’s like no for me.

The reason that I’ve done this show since 2013, like, oh my gosh, is because as I’m gifting you this information, I’m receiving more as you receive this information. You’re gifting to me. Who’s the gift or who’s the receiver? I’m not sure. So, it’s a totally different energy than the giving and taking.

[05:37] That’s an example of give and take: I will give you some content, and then you will come to my stuff – that’s not going to last. That would not excite me to do a radio show every week for that. That just doesn’t have the energy—it’s that gifting and receiving that we’re looking for. If we have secret agendas with giving, then gifting and receiving would be very difficult.

[07:20] Let me run this clearing that Gary has also in the section:

What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a good zillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

(That is the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness, if you’re not familiar you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com to find out all about how it works.)

[07:57] What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

What secret agenda of giving do you have to maintain the limitations of receiving you currently have that no one is allowed to perceive, know, be, and receive? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[08:46] We’re talking about this in the sense of giving and receiving, and we have secret agendas anywhere in our life where there isn’t THAT flow. Where there isn’t what we would like it to be like, there are secret agendas there. It’s kind of difficult to put words to them in that sense. I gave the example of the blue book to kind of give you an idea, but that’s such a limited way of the secret agendas we have.

[09:21] One of the things that was talked about in the Certified Facilitator Training that Dain said was if you are making other people wrong, that’s a secret agenda. How often do we do that? Maybe that’s not really loud in your world, but how about making YOU wrong? Yeah, that’s a secret agenda, too. It’s EVERYWHERE. It’s everywhere.

[09:52] So, the number one tool, really—not that I usually put them in order or anything like that, and I would say that this would be where you want to start—is basically a fill-in-the-blank clearing. This is one of the things that I love from Access Consciousness: they create these energetic clearings that are really simple to use. We can just fill in the blank with whatever thing we have going on. I’m going to read it to you again to make sure that I get it correct:

What secret agenda with _____ – this is where you would put in whatever it is: with making myself wrong, with spending all my money, with hating my body, etc. Again, whatever you got going on in there.

What secret agenda with _______ do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute ______?

After the word “institute,” basically you want to put in what you would like it to be like. I’m going to use an example from the reference materials. Again, about receiving:

What secret agenda for [[never having the joy of receiving]] do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute [[as joyful living]]? Everything that is, we destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

You’re basically just following it up with the opposite of what you’re clearing, of what basically what you would like it to be. It’s two spots in that clearing to fill in the blank.

[11:26] Now, if you didn’t know this already, you can get the show notes to this. You can go to the web page where the radio show is, which is just www.glenycehughes.com. You’ll see Radio Show, click that, [and then] you can go to this week’s [episode] and the show notes are underneath.

[11:39] Or, they’re e-mailed to you every Sunday if you’re on my list. If you’re not on my list, there’ll be a link somewhere to get on my list to access these every Sunday in your email. If you prefer, just go to the webpage and you can access them there to find these clearings and the blank one so that you can start using this [and] really, to start changing all of the secret agendas.

They’re secret, you know—you’re not aware of them. The only way we become aware of them is to recognize something isn’t the way we would like it to be—we just know we have secret agendas there.

[12:14] Now, the other clearing that you might not be familiar with—or you might be, depending on how much you’ve been playing with these tools from Access—is “What JAILs are you using.” JAILs is an acronym [for] Judgments, Agendas, Inventions, and Lies. That’s another great clearing to use:

What JAILs are you using to create the dominance of E = MC2, creating the _____ you are choosing?

[12:41] You can keep it really simple like that. It’s the same idea: it’s clearing all of those energies, including the agendas. But if you want to specifically clear the secret agendas, then this clearing works really well. It’s basically, again, just to fill in the blank. You could write them down, you could record yourself on audio.

[13:03] On my phone, which is an iPhone, I use, I believe it’s called “Voice Record Pro.” We’ll have a link below with it—I’m not sure that we can even link to it. But basically, what you’re looking for when you want to do that is an app that you can record to, and then you can loop it. You can hit ‘play’ and tell it to not stop until you tell it to stop. That’s what you want.

[13:30] Now, if you really wanted to keep it super simple—maybe this is almost like too much and you can’t even—every time you recognize something isn’t the way you would like it to be – I destroy and uncreate all of the secret agendas I have with this right now. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You can keep it super, super simple like that, also.

[13:30] When we talk in Access about clearing loops, that’s what we’re doing. We’re looping the clearing over and over and over for greater and greater and greater clearing.

We’ll also put a link to all of the clearings that I sell. I sell a lot of ones that are specifically things I’ve worked on and changed. They’re called my Personal Clearing Loops because that’s what they are – my personal clearing loops that I’ve put into a way that you could listen to them. We’ll have a link with that, too. Basically, what you’re doing is clearing all of the energies with whatever it is you’re filling in the blanks with.

[14:31] The other thing that you want to start asking, if this is something you would like to become more aware of, is What is my secret agenda here? Now, we’re not necessarily looking for the words to explain what our secret agenda is. It’s just bringing to light (1) we’re acknowledging we have a secret agenda in whatever we’re dealing with, and (2) it’ll start to create more space for you to be able to choose something different.

[15:03] Anytime we acknowledge something, it changes everything. This is what you’re looking to do with this: get out of the “this is the way it is.” Right? Maybe you’ve never liked the color blue and it never made sense to you. Maybe your roommate wanted to paint the house blue because they love blue, and you got in a big fight and you haven’t talked to them since. This might start to make a little bit of sense.

[15:31] Again, we’re not saying that this is always what’s going on. It’s just probably a lot of the stuff that doesn’t make sense to you, the things that are like “what in the hell is going on here?” A question that I really catch myself asking and [I] change it when I do – “What the hell’s wrong with me?” [It’s] not a question to ask, my sweet friends. Please don’t ask that question. That’s not a question, but that is the energy often. When we’re operating from secret agendas, that’s often what’s going on, because those secret agendas are secret.

[16:09] We’re avoiding the color blue. We’re fighting with people who want to paint the house blue, and we’re ending friendships because of it. ” [What] the hell’s wrong with me?” No – What secret agenda do I have here? Or What secret agendas? It’s probably not just one, it’s probably many of them.

[16:28] The other thing that secret agendas do is they eliminate everything that could contribute. Right ,wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Again, what if blue could contribute to us? If we’ve got a secret agenda that we hate blue, we’re not allowing it to contribute because we’ve resisted it. We’ve pushed it out of our world.

[16:52] That fits for so many other things. Look at your life where you’re in resisting and reacting, or aligning and agreeing, where you’re making something right or you’re making it wrong – those are secret agendas. [It’s] because the only thing that’s natural for us is to have no point of view.

[17:10] I know it doesn’t often feel natural. It feels more natural to have the point of view. But really, that’s only because of what we’ve surrounded ourselves with and what goes on on the planet—that it seems natural, but it’s not natural. What’s natural is not having a point of view.

[17:27] So, when you have a point of view, you want to recognize that “Oh my gosh, what secret agendas do I have here?” or All of the secret agendas I have here, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You can just say POC and POD. You can shorten the Clearing Statement if all of those words are too many.

[17:48] Any choice or decision that you make that eliminates your awareness is where you have a secret agenda. This would be if you only fly on a certain airline. Let’s say you have points with— I have points with Star Alliance even though I haven’t flown in a few years. I get points when I fly on Star Alliance flights, so Air Canada is one of them—I’m Canadian so it’s one when we’re traveling long distances. That’s usually the airline we would take because that’s usually the airline that goes to those places from where we live.

[18:28] If I’m operating from a secret agenda to only collect points, this is my guide in life: I must collect the most airline points that I can, then I’m not aware if a different airline would actually create greater. I’ve shut that down. I’ve now got a secret agenda to only fly with Air Canada or with Star Alliance partners. That shuts out I don’t know how many airlines there are in the world and how many are Star Alliance, but that shuts out a lot of airlines.

[19:00] That’s what Gary’s talking about with this information. [It] is to start recognizing those places where you’re saying “this, not this” or “only this, never this.” It can be the certain people you hang out [with], the certain places you live, the airlines you travel, the food you eat—all the things. Those all become secret agendas.

[19:23] Think about it: we’ve lived trillions of lifetimes, which means we potentially have way more secret agendas running our life than what’s actually possible, which is the awareness and space and infinite choice. If there’s anywhere in your life where you don’t feel like you have choice: All the secret agendas I have here, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. You get the idea.

[19:56] In the reference materials alone, when I searched— I just searched the word “secret.” I can’t even remember how many or—let me just see… no, it’s not there. It was [used] thousands and thousands of times in that one document, and it was only one document I was looking at that it had been utilized. Again, it’s not something we talk about as much anymore and yet, there’s a lot there—at least there was for me.

[20:23] Now, this may not read for you at all. Chances are if you’re still listening, it does. You want to be using that clearing and that fill-in-the-blank clearing. That’s the other thing, and I’ve said this clearing a million times. What I also know—I’ve seen it in other people and I’ve certainly seen it in myself—where I read something or I hear something and then when I repeat it, it’s not actually the same. So then, it’s like, “What are the secret agendas do I have with that information that I’m twisting it a little bit?”

[20:58] You might have seen that. If you’re familiar with the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, there’ve been people along the way that have went in and added words or taken out words or changed it up and it’s like, okay, and cool. I mean, that’s a choice that they have. It’s just interesting. I wonder what secret agendas they have with the Clearing Statement that… anyway, it’s just interesting.

[21:21] This is why I’m going back to my book and reading it to you: to ensure that I don’t have secret agendas with clearing secret agendas. So:

What secret agenda with ______ do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute _______?

(Again at the institute piece, that’s where you’d put what you would like.)

What secret agenda with [[never enough money]] do you have that maintains and entrains what you cannot change, choose, and institute as [[way more money than you could spend and never enough as if by magic]]? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[22:04] Again, we’ll link to the other secret agenda. I know for sure there’s one show that I did. I’ve probably talked about it in other shows, but one specifically on secret agendas years and years ago. We’ll link to that if you’d like more information about this stuff.

[22:18] Now, I would love to invite you to some awesomeness that I’ve got coming up. Depending on when you listen to this, we are going to be running a clearing for 30 days 30 times a day. It’s all about being Hideously Successful. Yes. We start that [on] March 2, 2022. Of course, it’s available for purchase afterwards, too. You can always find it in my store.

[22:42] And then on March 8, we are going to do a 6-week Book Club on the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, Rejections – the PESJRs. It’s a book by Gary Douglas that really does a deep dive into more of this, really. Secret agendas, projections, expectations—all of those are all mixed up. We will go through that.

We’ll have two zooms a week, we’ll cover one chapter over two zooms each week for six weeks. That starts March 8, I believe. You can check out the link if you want more information. [I] would love to have your come play, my sweet friends.

[23:21] I also have a FREE gift for you: you can go and check out the Magical Money Tricks. There’s a video and a PDF with five questions that you can ask, and then some wallpaper for your phone that you can put with my #1 question to actualize money as if by magic. You’ll find the link to go and access that, too.

[23:45] So… I wonder what we could create if we allowed all of these secret agendas to be gone as if by magic. Anything that doesn’t allow that – right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

Have a great week, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Tools to Get Out of Control

Feb 20, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Get Out of Control

Be uncontrollable!

Imagine a life where nothing and no one can control you, not even you… how magical would that be?! Listen in to this episode as we talk all about CONTROL: what is it, how to get out of it, and some tools from Access Consciousness that you can use on the daily to change everything control-related!

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:12] This week is all about Tools to Get Out of Control. I know for some of you, you might have stopped listening already. You might have said, “No, I need to be in control, Glenyce! You don’t understand! Stop talking!” I get it—I totally get it, my sweet friends.

[00:37] Control has been controlling me since before I can remember. This is kind of the first piece with control: Whatever, whoever we’re trying to control has control over us. Shall I repeat that? Whoever or whatever we’re trying to control has control over us. I know.

This is such a mindfuck of what we’ve actually been taught—at least, what I was taught. Somewhere along the way, somehow I was taught that the more control I had, the more in control I was, the better my life would be, the better everything around me would be, the happier everyone around me would be, the happier I would be. I’m here to tell you—although I probably don’t have to—it’s the exact opposite. The more out of control I allow myself to be, the more ease, the more magic, the more space, the more of everything that I’m asking for.

[01:50] So, [an] interesting story. If you watch my weekly videos, you might remember fairly recently [that] I actually talked about feeling like a success, and setting myself up in different choices I was making so that I felt like I was a success.

[02:09] For example, choosing to watch the scale. Let’s say from a place of being a success, [it] isn’t probably the best choice because I can’t control the scale. However, I can control—let’s say the marker instead is how many times I go for a walk or how many times I do my workout videos or something like that, because that I do have control over. The scale, I have no control over her.

So, I talked to and share the video about that, and about really setting yourself up for success if that’s something you require. I’ve come to realize, in the past few years, how much that actually contributes to my life. If I feel like I’m successful with something, I’m going to continue to choose it. It’s going to be light, yummy, and expansive in terms of choosing it.

[03:06] However, what I recognized yesterday—Hubby and I are doing a class in stained glass. If you’ve never done this, I recommend it. I actually am enjoying it NOW. I’m enjoying the class NOW. Why now? Because I feel successful. Yesterday was our second class. [In] the first class, the first hour was basically [about] how to do the things [and] some practice. The second hour was getting started on the project that we had chosen.

[03:41] In that second hour, I wasn’t getting very far. Things weren’t fitting together. The project that I chose was maybe a little bit more difficult than what I could have chosen. Anyway, it wasn’t fitting, and I left there frustrated. In fact, I even had the thought [that] maybe when I arrived for the second class, I’m actually going to change my piece because I’m not feeling successful.

[04:09] Yesterday, we go in and I was ready to try it anyway [to] see how I went, and it was working. It started to work really, really well. I was like, “Oh my gosh, I’m feeling successful! This is so good! Okay!” As soon as I have that success, there’s that lightness. I want to do more of it and I want to continue choosing it.

[04:30] I had a lot of space in those hours. I went in early so I had extra time. I had a lot of space in there just to be present with what I was working on, but also things going on in my world. I started really looking at that need to feel successful. Guess what? It’s control! D*mn it, it’s control. Even when I think I’m not doing control, sometimes I’m doing control. It was just this “oh my god energy” of like, “Wow…wow.”

[05:07] I didn’t even realize that that’s what I was doing. [It’s] because when the pieces, you know, the stained glass pieces are fitting together, I’m in control. It’s working [and] I’m moving forward. If they’re not fitting together, I don’t have any control. I can ask for help, I can change my pattern, I can do all sorts of things—but I’m not ultimately in that control energy that I didn’t even recognize it was. So then, I was like, “What if, though, that success—that, basically, is just a need for control? What if that isn’t actually creating the future I desire?”

[05:49] Now, I don’t mean that I should set myself up for not succeeding. It was just this huge awareness of how much I’m still controlling, and that I had really—basically, right down to the bare bones—judged if something was going my way, that was right. If it wasn’t? Yeah, you guessed: it was wrong. [It’s] such a different way of really being present with it and really going, “Wow, what if the pieces not fitting together actually gives me more awareness of how to use the tools?”

[06:28] That’s ultimately—I mean, when it wasn’t working the first week, and then yesterday, what was so interesting was it was working much better but still, there were some conks.

There was a lady that went up to the—so, we grind the pieces, you cut them, and then you grind them to really fit. I kept using the same grinder, possibly another control, another thing of that energy. And then, a lady went and used it. As I turned to go, she was at it. I was a little bit annoyed because it’s two steps from where I’m working. The other one that I went to—because all the other ones over there were busy—was 20 steps the other way. *Oh my gosh, how did I manage?*

[07:18] Anyway, [I] went to the other one. Well, that machine—that grinder, whatever it is, I’m not even sure how the grinders work—is way better. It grinds it so much better, so much quicker. I was like, “Oh my goodness!”

In my conclusion of “this isn’t working,” “I picked too hard of a pattern,” there was no question. There was not even a question of which grinder to use. It was like, “Well, this one’s two steps.” I mean, it wasn’t even that thought—it was just right there. That’s the one I’ll use until she used it, and then I went and use the other one. It’s like, “Oh my gosh, I’m gonna be using this one forever!” Not a question, my friends.

[08:00] It’s just this huge awareness of all the places and spaces of control and of course, I’m not doing just in stained glass. I’d love to tell you that was it but I promise you, I’m doing it in that class [and] I’m doing it in lots of different areas of my life. In those few hours yesterday, I was really looking at “Where am I decided that I need that success? What if I didn’t? What is the not success actually gifting me?”

There is an energy for you, my sweet friends. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[08:40] So, that’s the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. Basically, all of that energy that comes up when I talk about something like this, when I run it, it clears it. [It] starts to dissipate it so that we have more space and we have more awareness, and that’s ultimately what we’re always looking for – [it] is more space and more awareness.

[09:02] Looking at that with every area of my life, it was really magical. What is it gifting me? What is it not working? In Access, we ask the question “What’s right about this I’m not getting?”

In that case, if I would have maybe done that in the first class, maybe I would have found that other grinder sooner or change something else or whatever. Again, it’s still not wrong, the way I did it. it gave me this beautiful awareness of all the control I’m still doing. I mean truly, what a gift that is.

[09:36] So, [here’s] the clearing that I want to run a few times. It is so magical—it is so changing everything control-related.

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can us and our bodies be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of form, structure, significance, out of linearities, and other concentricities for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[10:15] Now, that clearing truly has changed so much for me. It wasn’t until a couple years ago that I actually started using it, like truly started using it. Actually, [I] did a call on it. We’ll put a link because, of course, you can purchase the recordings.

But it wasn’t until then that I actually finally memorized all those words. I didn’t have them all memorized, even though I’d probably repeated that clearing thousands of times over my years as a Certified Facilitator with Access Consciousness. I finally chose, like, really chose, to change the control stuff, which I did—which I totally did.

[10:56] Obviously, there’s still some more—which, again, I’m so grateful for—that we can really not go to the judgment. Not “Oh my gosh, I thought I changed that. What’s wrong with me?” It’s not that at all, guys. We just go, “Wow, okay, cool.” There’s still some more.

Chances are this control thing—at least for me, I don’t want to speak for you. But at least for me, it’s gonna be a long, long time, my sweet friends. And that’s okay. It’s not right. It’s not wrong.

[11:21] The other thing that I want to say about control is for you to really recognize that control is not wrong, okay? Control is actually a capacity. It’s just that we’re often using it AGAINST us and not FOR us. We want to start choosing control when it’ll create greater, not when it will create less, which is really with that whole success piece that I was looking at.

[11:48] [This is] when it creates less—when I go, “Okay, well, I’m not succeeding. I need to succeed in order to continue,” that’s a huge limitation. I mean, how many possibilities, how many experiences have I not chosen, not stepped into because I wasn’t feeling like a success? How many times have I stopped because I wasn’t feeling like a success? Then all of my decisions, judgments, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections, expectations, separations, [and] refined judgments that I have about all of that, ignite and then, I stop. Oh, I feel exhausted just talking about that.

Everything that is, will you destroy and create it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[12:38] Now, I would love to invite you: we are doing a book club on the Projection Expectation Separation Rejections and Judgments book by Gary Douglas from Access Consciousness. We start, I believe, it’s March 8 or something like that. You’ll find the link below or above. If you can’t find it, reach out [and] we’ll get it to you.

It’s going to be amazing, my sweet friends. That book and all of those that I call the DJCCPSERRJs, all of those are what really limit us and really stop what’s possible. The more that you’re willing to let this go, which will also assist you in letting go of control, that’s where the magic is. So, check that out for more information. Depending, of course, when you’re watching this, it’s always available for purchase after, also.

[13:27] The other thing that I would love to invite you to is the Hideously Successful Clearing. We are going to be running it starting March 2, 30 times a day for 30 days.

Yeah, it’s time to change that crazy. It’s time to be willing to be hideously successful, which of course, also out of control. Yes, not hideously successful while controlling everything. Let’s change it all, my sweet friends, let’s change it all. You’ll find the links above or below, wherever.

[13:58] One more thing, I also have available for you—a gift for you is the Magical Money Tricks. I’ve got a video of 10 of them, I’ve got a PDF of five questions, [and] I also have wallpaper for your phone [with] the #1 question that I think everybody should be asking all day long about money. If you would like that, you’ll find the link above or below, you can go grab it. [It’s] my gift to you, my sweet friends.

[14:26] Back to control. What I want to talk about with that is what is out of control? It is having no point of view about anything. There’s not much there, really. That’s not going to take any work at all. Not work, just choice.

[14:45] Really, if you look at that—having no point of view—go back to my example of the stained glass and the glass pieces not fitting together in my first week at all. Like, at all. If I didn’t have a point of view, how much more space is there with that? How much more ease is there with that? How many more questions could I ask either of the instructors or of the machines, or of myself, or of the project? A lot. Yeah, totally.

I’ve got all this space now to have no point—I’ve got all this space. I have no point of view, which means I have total space, which means I have total awareness, which means everything is possible.

[15:30] But when I’m looking through the lens of “this isn’t working, it should be working”—basically, when we think “this isn’t working,” the other energy is “it should be working.” And now, the energy is contracted. Now, there’s no space. There’s no other possibilities. There’s just my choice for frustration, and all the other ideas of “maybe I’ll change my pattern,” “I’ll do something else,” “I’m not feeling successful.” Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[16:10] The other thing when you are out of control, no one and nothing can control you, not even you. If you have no point of view about anything, nobody can control you.

[16:26] Right now here in Canada… now, depends on when you’re listening to this because I’m recording a little bit earlier. I’ve got a Certified Facilitator training coming up in the next few days, so I’m about a week and a half earlier than I normally record. But right now here in Canada, there’s truckers all over, especially in Ottawa, Ontario, and also in Alberta, and who knows where else. [They’re] really, really, really getting stronger and stronger in their demand to stop the mandates.

[17:00] Now, for me, I know the greatest gift I can be is to have no point of view. This is not necessarily the most easy to choose when there’s so much right and there’s so much wrong. There’s so much proof of what’s right, and there’s so much proof of what’s wrong. There’s so many, you know, media outlets saying, “Here’s what’s going on…,” and then there’s so many other media outlets going “Here’s what’s going on…” There’s so much of that—there’s so many ways to be invited into right and wrong and good and bad.

[17:36] I know the greatest gift I can be is to have no point of view. I have a preference, I have an awareness. But when I join that it’s right or I join that it’s wrong, that’s where I stop being magical, and that really is the space of being out of control. If you’re out of control, you can be that space, you can be that magic. You’re still going to be aware—you’re not shutting your awareness off, you’re just not controlled anymore.

18:08 This is the funny thing: When you are controlled—when you do have a point of view, you don’t have the access to the awareness that’s actually there. That, actually, is what limits you rather than the opposite of what we think it is. Oh my goodness.

Everything all of that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[18:33] If you are looking to get out of control, [here’s a] couple things:

Maybe you’re like me and you weren’t even aware you were doing it. You could start asking—and this is my new ask: Universe, show me where I am doing control so that I can get reminded all day long, and then I have a choice.

Once I’m aware I’m choosing it, then I can check in: “Hey, does this create the future I desire or decay the future I desire?” If it’s creating it, I can continue. If it’s not, I can let it go. That is, I would say, step number one if we’re going to do them in steps to run that clearing all the time.

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can be and my body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of forum, structure, significance, out of linearities, out of concentricities for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[19:34] Another question that I have been using and will continue to use: If I was willing to be out of control here, what magic could I create? You can look at your money situation, you can look at your body situation, you can look at the stained glass project and ask that. You can look at anything and ask that question.

[19:59] You’re not looking for an answer—in case you’re not familiar, we’re not asking that so we can figure it out. We’re asking that so we are allowing the awareness, the possibilities, the magic, the universe, all of it to show up to contribute to us being the magic that we truly be.

[It’s] because, guys, I promise you, the more out of control that you’re willing to be, the more magic you will be. The more magic you’ll create, the more ease your life will be, the more magical your life will be. Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[20:37] For anybody who doesn’t know: If you would like the show notes, make sure you are on my e-mail list. They come out every Sunday with the radio show. You can access them right in that e-mail. Just go straight [to it], it’ll just say “Download the Show Notes,” I think or something like that. You can receive them.

If you’re listening to this [and] you’re not on my list yet, and you go and get on it and you would like these, then just send me an e-mail or send me a message, reach out on social media. We will send this week’s show to you. We’ll send you that e-mail so you can grab that Dropbox account because by the time this e-mail goes out, this show is… yeah, you know what I mean? *laughter* The e-mail will have gone out with this show. If you’re listening to it, that won’t be the e-mail you get but we can get it to you so that you can access all of this.

It’s basically a transcript [of] almost everything, not the uhms and the ahhs. But everything else, hopefully, is in that, and I mean hopefully, my uhms and ahhs are taken out. Everything else is in there: the clearings that I run, the information that I give. I know a lot of people prefer to read rather than listen or watch. Whatever your preference, baby, we got you covered.

[21:48] So, one more time for fun:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can be and my body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of forum, structure, significance, out of linearities, out of concentricities for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, we destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.

[22:15] So, [that’s] some tools to play with to really get out of control, my sweet friends. I wonder what magic would be possible if we were willing to be out of control… I wonder what magic we could create on the planet… I truly wonder, my sweet friends.

Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you, And I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Energetic Tools to Create Anything You Desire

Feb 13, 2022 | Radio Show

Energetic Tools to Create Anything You Desire

Open yourself to possibilities!

Years ago, Hubby and I were looking for an acreage around Vermillion. I had this long list on what it should have, and one of them was it should be a 10-minute drive from Vermillion where Hubby works at the time.

We did find one that had almost everything on the list, and it was lovely. The funniest thing, though, is 1-2 months after moving in, Hubby got a job 30 minutes in the opposite direction.

When we decide something has to be this or that way, it can actually limit what the universe can deliver. In this episode, we will go over some energetic tools from Access Consciousness so we could learn to let go of control and open ourselves to all the possibilities we’ve never considered before.

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

So, Energetic Tools to Create Everything You Desire. What the heck are energetic tools? Basically, it’s just different ways to play with energy to invite whatever it is that you would like. Now, here’s the thing that most people don’t want to hear: When we are asking—when we’re inviting, when we’re dreaming big—the biggest part to really having it show up is to let go of the specifics of what it is.

[00:51] For example, years ago—2002, I guess? 20 years ago—no, must have been 2004. Anyway, a long time ago, when Hubby and I were looking for an acreage around Vermillion, Alberta, which is where we used to live, we had—I had a very long list. I said ‘we’ but no, really, it was me. I had a very long list. I think there were 26 things on there, like very specific. It had to have so many bedrooms, it had to have so many bathrooms.

The one that I remember specifically is it had to be less than [a] 10-minute drive from Vermillion. At the time, Hubby was working in Vermillion and would often have to go in early in the morning. Morning is not his sweet spot, so he wanted not to have a big drive for those mornings he did have to go in. [And] so, we put on our list ‘less than 10-minute drive from Vermillion to the acreage.

[01:51] Anyway, [we] found this beautiful acreage. It ticked off, I believe, almost all of them, if not all of them—I don’t recall. The funniest thing, though, is that 1-2 months after we moved in there, Hubby got a job 30 minutes in the other direction. It was just so funny. As I was starting to study more and more energy stuff and really recognizing how—when we decide what is the right way [or] what is the right thing, how much that can actually limit it.

Had we maybe asked a little bit different—maybe, you know, been a little bit more open with that—that might have been different. I’m still so grateful for that acreage. It is beautiful. We were there [for] many, many years. We loved it. It’s just one of those funny things that I think about.

[02:47] Fast forward from 2004 when I had 20-something on my list to when we moved into this acreage. When we were looking, if I remember correctly, we had 3 or 4 specifics. One—this was a deal-breaker for me—the internet had to be good because at the acreage in Vermillion, whenever there were leaves on the trees which was spring, summer, [and] fall, the internet was not very good. [It’s] just the way that it passed through the trees. So, my deal breaker for here was it had to have good internet.

[03:21] The other thing that was important to me was that I had a whole separate space for my business, which I do. The basement pretty much is our business—my business. And then, Hubby’s. His only ask, really, was he either wanted a workshop or he wanted space to build one. Those were kind of and that’s it. Everything else, we just said, “Show me what else is possible, Universe.”

[03:44] I played with the energy—I used all sorts of energetic tools, but not from the place of “this is the way it has to be.” Same with the internet, if we would have seen this place and there was no way to get good internet here—[if it] was just impossible or like at the other place [we] would have to take trees down to get it—we just wouldn’t have chose it. It just doesn’t work for me or didn’t back then. [It] still doesn’t to not have internet that I can rely on and do fun stuff online. So, it’s this huge gift of really knowing what works for you with this space of letting everything else go.

[04:23] It didn’t matter how big this house was. We didn’t have on our list—I honestly could tell you I wouldn’t have had [it] on my list—a beautiful swimming pool outside. That’s a whole other story for a whole other day. But that was just something I didn’t know was possible here in Alberta, Canada where it’s winter, which seems to be a lot of the time. Mostly, I think because it’s February right now and “It’s time!” You just get really excited for spring when you live in Canada.

So, there you go. There’s an example of when you get really specific, you really lock up what the universe can deliver. The more that you can let go of control—it doesn’t mean you don’t have preferences or you don’t have asks, because you do. You just don’t want to limit them with “it has to be exactly this.”

[05:15] When we do that, usually, it’s a couple things: One, we’ve either seen somebody else create something like that, and we’ve decided that that’s the answer, that’s the good part, or that’s the best way to have it. Or, we’re operating from maybe something we’ve created in the past.

Maybe we had a really good vacation in Mexico one time. Now, we’re always looking to go back to Mexico to recreate that rather than what else is possible that I’ve never even considered, which takes us maybe to Mexico, maybe to Europe, maybe to Australia, who the heck knows? There’s so many other possibilities when we’re open to it and still asking for what we would like.

[05:54] So, some energetic tools. Really, the number one one that we use in Access Consciousness all the time—or at least I do, many of us that do use these tools—is something called the “energy pull.” I have other radio shows on it, I have other videos on it, all sorts of things. We’ll link to those below.

[06:14] What I want you to just recognize is it’s exactly what it sounds like: energy pull. You can get the energy of the thing you’re asking for. Now, PULL it to you. Right? It’s that simple, guys, there’s nothing fancy about it. It’s really just getting the energy and pull, again though, with no decision that it has to be that.

[06:48] Again, when we were looking for this acreage or looking for an acreage, I could get the energy of it. I was tapping into the energy of this space, but I didn’t know where it was. I couldn’t find it on the listings. The realtor couldn’t find it. I didn’t say, “Here’s the energy, can you go find it?” although that would be cool. It just wasn’t there.

Now, I was swapping with a friend and her and I were doing verbal processing which is, again, Access Consciousness. You talk about something and you clear it and all of these amazing things. Her and I were swapping and I was complaining probably about not finding an acreage yet. And so, she asked me a brilliant question. She said, “Truth: Is it for sale yet?” I got ‘no.’ Oh my goodness.

[07:42] Suddenly, all that intense pressure that I was doing it wrong, or it wasn’t working, all that insanity just went away because it just wasn’t for sale yet. In fact, this place came on sale on a Saturday. We put our offer in on Monday, so pretty much the moment that it was posted. We saw it, we booked in to come and see it on the Monday. We came and saw it, we made an offer before we left: full price. That’s where I was with this place. It was like, “Yes, this.”

[08:16] I don’t mean it’s always like that or anything where it’s wrong. If it isn’t, that’s where it was. But for probably a good month if not more, I had so much judgment that we weren’t finding it, that I was missing it, all the crazy when really, it just hadn’t been listed yet. That’s where I come to this energy pulls, like, I could energetically perceive it. Even though it didn’t have a ‘for sale’ sign on yet, it was there.

[08:45] Really, going back to those decisions and conclusions that we were talking about, get the energy of what you’re asking for [and] start pulling it to you, which is a BEing not a doing. Okay? We do energy pulls, but it’s a BEing. You can be pulling energy while you’re doing dishes, while you’re falling asleep at night, while you’re going for a run. You don’t have to just do them, like sit quietly and do them—you can add them.

[09:15] The trick, I would say at least in my experience, is to get the energy of the thing. Let’s use something a little bit different, like a lover. Let’s say you’re looking for a new lover or more lovers or something like that. So, you just energetically expand out. Don’t worry, as I’m saying it, you’re already doing it with me and you’re tapping into those.

Maybe you’re only looking for one new lover and maybe you tap into five—that’s okay. It doesn’t mean you have to say ‘yes’ to all five, but you just become aware of that and then you pull them in. And of course my favorite phrase—as if by magic. You just start pulling people and things and events and experiences and all sorts of magic to you as if by magic, and then they can show up. And then, you still have choice.

[10:13] Here’s the thing: you might pull in five lovers [but] it doesn’t mean you have to have five lovers. You could say ‘no’ to all of them. You’re just doing your part—you’re pulling them in. They can show up through a dating app, they could show up at the grocery store, they could show up to clean your driveway. I mean, there’s a billion ways they could show up, we’re just going to pull and we’re going to allow that magic to unravel.

[10:37] So, that is one, and probably the energetic tool that I would say I use the most. Although it’s kind of hard to say, the other one that I use—and this one I know, for some people, doesn’t maybe feel very nice. Or maybe, there’s just a lot of points of views. I’m going to share it anyway because I do think it’s really valuable for those of us who are willing.

[11:01] We all have what’s called “killing energy.” We all have “healing energy,” and we all have killing energy.

Now, if you’re like me, you were brought up that the killing energy was the worst thing ever. The word “kill”—the idea of killing, murder, [and] all of that is like the absolute worst. Like, if I could have done the worst thing on the planet, that would be it. And I agree—I’m not saying we should go murdering people, this is not what I’m talking about. There is an energy, a killing energy, that’s available to each one of us that we BE that if we’re willing to BE it in those situations, that can actually create a lot of magic.

[11:41] If you have some sort of disease in your body, chances are the killing of that disease is what’s actually going to create greater. Now, not always. Sometimes, it’s the healing of it. Sometimes, it’s the killing of it.

You don’t need to figure it out, okay? Don’t try to get your mind involved and have all this like, “Oh, am I doing it right or wrong?” or “What’s going on?” You just want to recognize that we all BE killing energy.

That killing energy can create so much when we’re willing to do it—when we’re willing to BE it, not DO it. This is not—again, I am not in any way telling you to kill anyone or anything. It’s an energetic killing. Again, if you have cancer of some sort, check in if killing the cancer would create greater or healing. [It] could be both, could be just one—doesn’t matter.

[12:38] You want to recognize—and this is, to me, I would say one of the most underutilized, energetic capacities that we BE because there’s so many interesting points of views around it. A lot of times when we talk about it, people go straight to the logic of it. I’m not talking logical, I’m talking energetic.

[12:57] You can KILL a conversation. I did that a couple of summers ago on like, I did it on purpose. It was really cool for me to experience it because I’d never really used my killing capacities that way.

There was just [being] with extended family and a big group of people, and one of the people started a conversation that was racist. If you would have looked at me, I did nothing different—I still sat the same, I still did the same, everything was the same. But energetically, it was like the biggest *kaboom!*of killing energy that I’ve ever been cognitively aware of delivering at something. I didn’t deliver it at the person, I delivered it at the energy of the conversation.

[13:52] It was split second—I didn’t think about it. This was so *boom!* It was like *boom!* and nothing else was said. It was like the person didn’t say anything. It was the most interesting thing because my experience in those situations is that one person says something like that, and then other people add to it. And then, there’s those of us who don’t like it. Maybe we get up and leave or whatever, there’s all the crazy.

[14:22] Could have I just said, “Hey, we don’t want to talk about that. We don’t talk like that here” or something like that. Possibly. Not sure that would have been quite as well received as the kill and done and it was just over. There’s so many different ways to BE that killing energy. When we don’t have a point of view about it so much like I was talking about earlier—we don’t want to decide like, “Oh, I must kill this person” or “I must kill this situation.” It’s not that. It’s just the energy of “What’s required?”

[14:52] Again, it was so split second for me. I didn’t think about it beforehand. I didn’t go, “Okay, well, what’s going to be the best here? Do I talk to them twice? Say something? Do I stand up and fight that?” Not that I would have—maybe I would have? I’m not sure. It just seems funny to me to think about that.

But, it was just so *boom* – there it was. That really, to me again, comes with not having a point of view. I no longer—believe me, I used to. I no longer have a point of view about killing energy, so I can have access to it whenever it’s going to create greater. I can BE it in the flash, like that. Once it’s over, I’m done.

[15:35] Again, in the past, when a family member’s friend [or] whoever would maybe make a racist comment, if I didn’t say or do anything, then I would be in the crazy of “I’m horrible. I’m just as bad as them. I shouldn’t be making those statements.” Of course, I go into [the] judgment of them, which doesn’t create greater, and judgment of me, all the crazy.

This way, with delivering that, stopping the conversation, it being done, it was done. It was absolutely done. Let me tell you, the magic that that creates in my world—to not spin in something—is huge. To know that I contributed to changing it was huge. Truly, what else is possible?

[16:21] I’m not saying those situations are always going to be an energetic killing. There’s going to be times we’re saying, “Hey, this doesn’t work” or “Hey, we need to stop this” or “That doesn’t work around here,”whatever. There’s times and places for that. There’s times and places for killing energy. There’s all sorts of other ones, also—just going to move my microphone back up a little bit. There’s all of these pieces of, like, the energetics that we BE.

[16:46] So, we’ve talked about energy pulling, we’ve talked about BEing the killing energy, which, again, the healing energy, too, because we’re that, also. If you get the sense in a situation where that is the energy that’s required, BE that. In fact, even talking about them like this is a little bit limiting, because we’re kind of going, “Okay, here’s your choices: you can either do an energy pull—you can killing energy, you can healing energy,” whatever else I might talk about. That’s not it at all.

[17:20] Energetic tools is recognizing that you’re energy, you’re energetic. Energy is your first language. If you would like to change something, and you don’t have a point of view about it, you really can just ask, “What energy could I BE here to change this?”

[17:38] Notice we’re not saying— I just looked outside, it’s snowing outside. Years ago, if I was starting to use these tools, I would have said something like, “What energy can I be for it to stop snowing?” because I decided that summer is the only appropriate season on the planet. Crazy, I know, but I had a lot of points of views about it. So, we don’t ask that because that’s not actually letting go of control.

[18:05] What energy can I be to change this? — that’s a totally different energy. That might mean we get a huge blizzard. That might mean who knows what else? I mean, there’s a billion things. We’re just opening it up by using energetic tools, either specific ones I’ve kind of talked about or just being the energy that changes things. Oh, guys, the things you can create—the things, the magic.

[18:32] But again—and I keep repeating this and I do it on purpose because I’ve worked with so many people around the world, I know—you all want to control it. And I do, too. Although, I’m a million times better, like, so much better just to really let it go. It was interesting.

[18:48] About a week ago—a little over a week ago—I’ve been waiting on a treadmill for about two and a half months. Yes. The delivery driver phoned but I didn’t even know it was out for delivery. They told me they would phone ahead of time that it was coming out the next day—all the things—so I didn’t answer the phone. I’m just not a phone person. So, [it] didn’t get delivered that day.

So then, they make a plan a couple days later. “Okay, we’ll bring it the next day.” “Okay, cool.” Hubby and I are home all day—no delivery. The next day, we head out to [where] we’re taking stained glass glasses—so cool. When did they phoned? They’re sitting at our gate when we’re at the class.

[19:39] Normally, I would be, “Okay, what’s it gonna take for it to arrive?”, doing all the control pieces. And what I said to my friend is, “I know that the universe has my back.” This is one thing I know for sure. Always. So, I wonder what is possible with this that I’ve never even considered. I’m not asking for it to show up—I’m keeping it quite open for whatever. It’s just a really bizarre situation. Truly, what else is possible with it that I’ve never even considered?

[20:14] I have asked my body, “Hey, body, if you would like it (because she’s the one who’s going to enjoy it), can you bring it?” I’ve asked the treadmill itself, “Hey, if you’d like to come, can you get yourself here?” I’ve engaged and I’ve employed the other energies involved with it with really this spaciousness of, “Okay, what else is possible that I’ve never even considered?” Of course, my preference is it shows up. So, there’s this huge dance of it all and pulling it and all of it, and the willingness to receive all the pieces.

[20:50] Again, in the past, I would have gotten so mad. SO mad. “They’ve had it over a week, what the hell?” and all the points of views and all the stuff that actually kills it. This would be killing it in a way that I wouldn’t want it to be killed, you know? Complaining and frustrating and all those energies that basically just push it away. Instead, it’s like, “Okay, what else is possible that I’ve never even considered? I wonder what magic I’ve never even considered with this…”

[21:22] A few energetic tools. The number one, really though, is just to be asking What energy could I BE here to change this?

Just so you know, you probably won’t get a response to that. You’re just going to BE the energy, like in the moment you ask that, you’re going to BE that energy. That’s the cool thing about questions – you ask, and you’ll BE it, like what energy could I BE here to change this? Boom, you BE it. It’s changing. Now, let it go. Let go of the control, my sweet friends. Yes.

[21:58] A couple things I]want to invite you to: Of course, Online Foundation. February 19-23, 4 hours a day [for] five days. Oh my gosh, I’m so excited. So, so excited for it.

[22:08] And then of course, in March, we have the Are You Ready to Have it All? which is the Book Club, a 6-week book club. We’re gonna meet twice a week for the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, and Rejections.

[22:23] We’ve got that book club and then on March 2. [For] once a day for 30 days, starting March 2, we are going to run a Hideously Successful Clearing. There’s also like I’m not obnoxious with money and another part that I forget. So, [there’s] lots coming up guys. You’ll find the link somewhere [and] if you don’t, just reach out and I will get them to you. I would love, love, love to have you come and play.

[22:47] The dates are set for the Pool Party here in July. If you can get to Canada, if you can get to Alberta, pack your swimsuit and come in July. We’re going to Pool Party Bars. If I remember correctly, that’s July 6 or 7. Following is the Pool Party Foundation, which is 4 days because we’re going to do the full days.