How to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Shit Crazy

How to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Shit Crazy

How to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Shit Crazy

Now is the time to be the magic of us.

There has been A LOT going on in the world for a while now, even more so these days. I’ve come across a lot of people, myself included, wondering what to do in the midst of it all. How do we go on with creating our life and living while being aware of what’s going on?

 

This is where the magical tools from Access Consciousness come in handy! In this episode, I will be sharing some of these tools to assist us so we can continue thriving even during these trying times. HDIGABTT?! ✨

 

Time stamps:

[04:47] Tool #1

[09:30] Tool #2

[18:52] Tool #3

[23:16] Tool #4

 

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so, so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. 

 

[00:14] This week’s show, with all the stuff going on in the world right now, [is] Tools to Thrive When the World is Going Bat Sh*t Crazy. Yeah, yeah. Truly, what else is possible with all of this, my sweet friends, that we have never even considered? 

 

[00:40] I have had so many conversations with people, whether they just reach out to me privately or I’m working with them one to one or group calls, whatever it is, where people are not sure what to do when the world is going bat shit crazy. Now, the world has been going bat shit crazy for a while—probably forever, really. There’s always been some sort of drama-trauma. Right now, at least for me and many other people around me, it’s louder and bat shittier, crazier than ever before. 

 

[01:15]mAnd so, a lot of people are asking, “What do I do, Glenyce? How do I continue to thrive? How do I continue to celebrate my successes? How do I continue to build my business? How do I do this when I’m aware of what’s going on?” which is, really, how this whole show got birthed. [It’s] because I was looking at that for myself, also. 

 

[01:40] I saw a fellow business person post something and I was so inspired by it. This is not exactly what she said, but it’s close. [It] was: “I’m not sure what to do in this situation. I’m not sure how to continue to market my business, work with my clients, and live as though basically nothing’s going on when we all know there’s a lot going on.” 

 

And [then], she said, “What I’m going to do is I’m going to continue to contribute to everyone else who’s choosing to be aware of it, and to continue forward while being aware of it all.” 

 

[01:46] Contributing in all the ways that work—for her—is what she meant, and continuing on. Not stopping, not using it as an excuse, not going down the rabbit hole but actually [being] aware that it’s going on [while] contributing in whatever ways and not stopping. 

 

[01:46] Now, there’s going to be some of you that that actually would make sense to not, so please do what actually works for you. That’s really the ultimate of all of this: do what works for you. I’m also going to share some tools to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy because honestly, anything less than that is then contributing to that—the world going bat shit crazy. 

 

[02:52] I was really inspired by that (1) because I was really unsure, also really, what to do. I think it was like a week ago, I was even like, “Do I even send out an email like my weekly newsletter? Do I send that out? What would actually be a contribution here?” And when I saw her post, I was like, “Actually, me not sending out that newsletter wouldn’t contribute.” 

 

My weekly newsletter, if you’re not on it, get on it—hello?! Also, it has things that are inspiring me, it has the art that I created that week, it has this radio show—a link to it. You get it as soon as it’s available. [There are] all sorts of other items and stuff that I don’t even recall right now. So, me not sending that out didn’t actually make sense to me. 

 

[04:17] As usual, these tools are in no way, shape, or form, or whatever I might have them, I might save them as number 1-2-3 but they’re all useful. Use the ones that work, try them out. If you’re not sure, try them. If you’re new here, these tools are from Access Consciousness, and you can go to www.accessconsciousness.com for more information about how they work. Basically, it’s all just a bunch of amazing magic tricks that you can use to change anything. 

 

[04:47] A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy is one of my all-time favorites—I talk about it all the time. If you’re not new here, you’ve heard me talk about it before. You’ll hear me talk about it again. It is the tool of interesting point of view. 

 

[05:05] This is where when you become aware of something that you actually have a point of view about, something that you’re judging, something that you’re going, “This is wrong and horrible and shouldn’t be going on!” and that energy. Here’s the thing: It’s the same energy as the thing. What we want to be really aware of is when we are adding energy to the bat shit crazy. We want to then use this tool to stop it, which is very simple. 

 

[05:39] When you recognize that—let’s say you turn on the news, you read the newspaper, or somebody’s sharing something they saw on social media about it. You start going into “this is horrible” and “this is awful.” Stop… and say this—you can say it to yourself, you can say it out loud, it doesn’t matter how you say it, just say it: 

 

Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view. 

 

You’re going to say it 5, 10, [or] maybe 50 times. What you’re looking to do is actually change the energy of whatever it is you’re judging. When we’re adding energy to something like this by judging it that it’s wrong, it’s horrible, it shouldn’t be going on, that’s what we need to change. 

 

[06:32] Now, does that mean we’re going to get to the place where we just sit back and go, “Ah, no big deal. It’s not happening to me, so who cares?’ That’s not what we’re going to get to. We can’t get there—that’s not something that will ever be possible for us [because] we actually have infinite caring. 

 

[06:49] What you want to recognize is that when you get out of the judgment, you’ll actually be aware then of what’s possible. You’ll be aware of what’s going to create greater. You might suddenly come across a charity to donate to, an idea of putting together something that would contribute to a group of people, or there’s a billion [other] things. But all the while we’re in the wrongness of the thing, we’ll never ever, ever, ever change it. 

 

[07:19] So, our tool for this one is interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Let’s do it together. I want you to bring up something. It doesn’t have to be about the bat shit crazy that’s going on in the planet right now. It might be something very personal to you— it might be something that you’re struggling with, a specific situation, a money thing, a relationship thing, whatever. Just bring up one for the purpose of us doing this together right now. Okay? Bring up that energy, bring up the judgment, whatever that is for you. I’m going to bring up something, also… Okay, there we go. Together:

 

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view.

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view. 

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view.

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view. 

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view.

Interesting point of view, we have this point of view. 

 

Now, check back in. If that situation still [has] lots of judgment and energy, continue with it until it’s gone. 

 

[08:35] What I find often [that] occurs, though, is that it changes, and then there’s maybe another piece to it. Let’s say we were mad at our spouse for not taking out the garbage and we’re doing it. And then all of a sudden as we’re doing it, we start thinking about the time that they also didn’t wash the car like they said they were going to or something like that. We can kind of go into other places and run it there, too. 

 

Just do it until you have that spaciousness—until you get to be present with you. That’s what we’re looking for with this tool. It is such an easy way to change things so that you can then be more aware of what’s required in whatever situation—any situation, especially with the bat shit crazy going on. 

 

[09:30] A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy is the energetic contributions from Access Consciousness. These are like magic—they change things as if by magic. They’re phenomenal. Now, they’re exactly what they sound like: an energetic contribution. You’re going to contribute energetically. 

 

[09:56] When I very first started studying Access Consciousness back In 2011, I didn’t use these for many years. I bet it was 3 or 4 years before I truly started using the energetic contributions. It didn’t make sense to me—I didn’t feel like I was doing anything, so I didn’t do them until I did. 

 

It might be that you don’t find them as useful. It might be that you love them and use them all the time. It might be you’ve never heard of them before and you just want to try them out [or] whatever. What I recommend is if you’ve been like I was for all those years and kind of avoiding them, maybe try like a 30-day challenge with yourself of choosing to use them once a day just to check it out. 

 

[10:42] I also have a radio show from many years ago, I don’t even recall what it’s called. I do know it’s all about the energetic contributions. We’ll link to that. 

 

You could also find it in the radio show notes. If you’re on my e-mail list, you get them e-mailed to you on a PDF every Sunday. If you’re not, you can find them on my web page with this radio show. They’re underneath and you can read them there. 

 

[11:07] Energetic contributions—there’s many, many of them in Access Consciousness. If you’re ever, ever interested, you will find them in the Access Consciousness Foundation class. I facilitate that—they’re amazing, my sweet friends. 

 

I have one coming up on the books right now in July called the Pool Party Bars & Foundation. No, we do not swim during class, but you can swim before and at lunch and after class. That’s why it’s called the Pool Party class here at my acreage. 

 

It may be also offered online. It really depends what Access Consciousness chooses as we get closer to that. I’ll also of course have more coming up. You’ll find the link somewhere. 

 

[11:48] What these energetic contributions do is they allow us to be the magic of us energetically. When you are in that space of the bat shit crazy—when you’re in that energy, when you’re joining in, when you’re spinning in the “what is going to happen, what if this happens, what if that happens, what if that doesn’t happen?”, whatever that is, when you’re there, you can energetically contribute. 

 

[12:23] There’s many different numbers—we’re gonna just talk about the number 3 for the sake of this show. It’s basically where you energetically contribute—I like to use my hands. Dr. Dain Heer who’s the co-founder of Access Consciousness, he has all sorts of videos and radio shows and all the things about energy and energetically contributing and all of that. If you ever see him on video, you’ll see his hands are moving all the time. He’s doing all of this. A 3—what we’re going to do together today is we’re going to contribute this 3 energy, which is like taking a lightning bolt and blowing apart the solidity of a situation. 

 

[13:14] Now, here’s the thing, though, and this is the thing with every tool that we use in Access Consciousness: you don’t want to have a point of view about what it should do. We’re going to do some 3s together, but you don’t want to have the assumption that it’s going to make this happen or that happen or make this not happen or any of those things. We want to be really, really, really total space when we’re doing a 3 because if we do a 3 for what we think is the best or the way we think it should turn out, we’re actually really limiting what could occur. 

 

[13:56] When we decide from our head what should be going on, that’s very limited. Our head—our mind can only make a decision based on what we can see or what has occurred before. That’s very limited. 

 

What could occur on the planet in the next second could blow all of our mind, could be so beyond this reality, could be that it’s just so magical that we can’t even comprehend it because it hasn’t occurred, and because our mind can only comprehend what’s occurred. So, what we want to do when we energetically contribute is have no point of view about how it should occur. 

 

[14:45] Sometimes, things get worse before they get better. There’s so many things. When we’re doing this energetic contribution, this 3 to contribute, it’s just that: it’s to contribute with no point of view about what that contribution would be. Yeah. Okay. 

 

[15:05] With that right now, again, you can think personally, you can think globally, whatever, however you want to use this 3 together right now. We’re just going to bring up the energy of a situation—that solid, which is any situation that you would see as bat shit crazy. There’s solidity there, so it doesn’t matter. You can pick a very specific thing or a global thing. We’re just going to do some 3s together. 

 

[15:33] What I do when I do energetic contributions—when I BE energetic contributions is [a] more accurate definition, but it doesn’t sound right. When I BE this, what I do is I bring to mind the energy of it—not necessarily to mind, but the energy of the situation. 

 

[15:53] I’m going to do it globally. I’m bringing up all that energy, all that solidity. Now, I’m being really present with me, with my body, with me as the infinite being I truly be, being really present. I am going to contribute… whatever is going to contribute. You can do this with me.

 

1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3… 1 2 3.

 

Basically, I just do it like that until I can perceive a shift. Now, what’s that shift? Who knows? I’m not going to define it, I’m not even sure. It just is a shift. That’s all we’re looking for. 

 

[16:40] Now, a few ways that you can use 3s—really magical. If when you wake up in the morning you wake up tired, you can actually do 10 of the 3s, like, just contribute. The wording you could say is something like I’m contributing to anything that doesn’t allow my body to feel rested. 1 2 3… 1 2 3… and then do 10 of them. You could word it like that. You don’t even have to word it. You could just wake up feeling kind of crappy and just go, “Anything this is… 1 2 3… 1 2 3…” You can do it like that. There’s so many ways. 

 

[17:17] The other way [is] years ago, I used to have really bad knee problems back in 2015. What I would do when I was walking and it felt really, really painful is every step I took, I would go 3… 3… 3… 3. Now, I meant with my feet—I wasn’t doing this with my hands. When I was walking, every step that I took, energetically I would be saying 3, 3, 3. I would be contributing with every step that I took. 

 

There was a lot of times back then I was walking through airports, I was walking blocks and blocks to different places where I was facilitating classes and stuff. There was a lot of time where I spent walking that I would do those 3s. It would change it so much just by doing the 3s with every step I took. 

 

[18:06] Again, you can use these in any way that you can, that you can find. There’s no right or wrong way to using these. There’s just being them—using them, being them. 

 

Again, in that older radio show, I think we go up to number 7 in that show or something. Then in Foundation, we go all the way up to number 20. Once you take Foundation, you can move on to Choice of Possibilities, which is then I think it goes up to 24 or something at this point. I mean there’s so many numbers, there’s so many different ways that contribute. But for now for this show, just use 3s on anything that’s solid. Anything that seems bat shit crazy, use 3s. 

 

[18:52] A tool to thrive when the world is bat shit crazy [is] asking this question: What is the beautiful energy underneath this? What that does is it takes us out of the wrongness. It takes us out of the judgment and it puts us into the space of possibilities. 

 

[19:16] Often when something is bat shit crazy, or we’re seeing it as that, there’s so much judgment—there’s all that solidity, it’s all of that harshness, it’s all of that intensity. When we start asking what is the beautiful energy underneath this, then the universe can actually show us. The universe can actually show us what the beautiful energy is. There’s always beautiful energy. 

 

Once we get the energy of that, now we’re out of the judgment. We’re out of the solidity, we’re out of the harshness [and] into the beautiful energy of it, which is where we can then contribute. We can actually be the contribution. 

 

[20:00] Now, what does being the contribution mean? [It] just means BEing with no point of view, with no judgment, with no solidity—BEing. In that space, you’d actually have an awareness of what that actually could be like. If you were BEing a contribution… it’s not a doing, it’s a BEing. You might then come across something that you could contribute to like, maybe there’s money to contribute to a charity. Maybe there’s an action to take that would contribute. Maybe there’s a setting up a different charity-type thing. I mean, there’s so many things that could be. 

 

[20:50] That’s what you want to recognize: when we’re in the space of the beautiful energy, meaning we’re not in the judgment, we’ll become aware of what’s actually going to change it. This reality has really, really taught us that the only way to change something is through judgment. We have to judge it, and judge it, and judge it. And then through that judgment, we can change it. That’s not actually true. It’s not actually true. You’ll never change anything through judgment, you’ll only add to it. 

 

[21:28] The more that we’re in the space of the beautiful energy, the more that we’ll be the contribution, that then we’ll be aware of if there’s actually anything else to do, if there is an action step. Sometimes there isn’t, sometimes there is. It’s a totally different space. It’s a totally different energy. 

 

[21:51] Just like all the tools that I share, this tool can be used on anything. If you’re having an upset with somebody at work, ask just [with] yourself [or] in your mind: what is the beautiful energy underneath this? It’s going to take you out of the wrongness of the situation and put you into the spaciousness, the possibilities. Whatever might contribute, you’d actually be aware of it, and then you could take the action. 

 

Really, when when we look at all the bat shit crazy on the planet right now, what is the beautiful energy underneath it all? What is the beautiful energy underneath it all? 

 

[22:42] Like every question that we ask in Access Consciousness, we’re not looking for an answer. We’re not going to try to figure it out. We’re just asking what is the beautiful energy underneath this all. We’re allowing the universe to deliver that to us in whatever way it can. 

 

[It] might not be [in] the moment you ask a question, might not be for an hour, might not be for three days—it doesn’t matter. We’re going to stay in the question. The question will always, always create greater. The answer, the trying-to-figure-it-out, the involving of your mind, that’s where it becomes a limitation.

 

[23:16]  A tool to thrive when the world is going bat shit crazy: The Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness. Now, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. It’s beautifully described there. If you’re new here or if you’ve been around a while but you’ve never visited that page, please go. Dr. Dain. Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness, does a great job of explaining it. 

 

[23:44] Basically, the wording is—I’ll give you the wording first:

 

Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. 

 

That’s the Clearing Statement. You can say it in whatever way you would like. You can say Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, you could say Good and Bad, Right and Wrong, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds—however you want to say it. The way that you’ll always hear me say it, just because that’s how I memorize that all those years ago: Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.  

 

[24:15] Basically, it’s like a magic wand. If you’re driving to work, you’re trying to fall asleep at night, or you’re sitting watching TV but your mind is going and you’re freaking out about what might happen with the world, what might go on, what won’t ever happen, or you’re in that space, you don’t even have to do anything except repeat the Clearing Statement over and over. 

 

[24:40] There’s various ways so if you haven’t memorized it, you don’t have to. You can keep it really simple and just say the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement, the Access Consciousness Clearing Statement—you could do that. 

 

[24:53] The other thing you could do [is] just go: POC and POD, POC and POD, POC and POD. That’s a very short version of the Clearing Statement. 

 

If you’re like me [and] a little bit OCD, maybe a lot OCD, I say the whole thing: Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds over and over and over. 

 

[25:18] What that does is it clears all the insanity. It clears all the crazy, clears all my points of views. It clears all the points of views I’m aware of, it clears all the crazy, and it allows me to be me. It is something that I highly recommend. If [it] feels yummy to you that you memorize it, or you use the shortened version or whatever, and repeat it and repeat it, and repeat it. 

 

[25:44] Here’s the thing: we often do this thing of deciding that something has value that it doesn’t. We’ve decided—a lot of us, not all of us, but many of us have decided—there’s value in worrying about something that’s totally out of our control. There’s value in talking about how horrible something is that we can’t change. Specifically, there’s value in thinking about it and thinking about it and worrying ourselves sick about it. That’s the value we’ve decided. 

 

[26:20] It’s not actually true. There’s no value in that because there’s nothing that we can do about that external stuff out there. What can we do, though, is  take care of us. 

 

What can we do is use the Clearing Statement in our mind or out loud, whatever works, in that moment over and over to get out of the insanity, to get us back to the space of us, to get us back to our awareness of what we could be or do different to contribute, to [a] totally different space of being. 

 

[26:53] It’s something that actually takes choice. We actually have to choose it. We actually have to look at where are we putting our attention. What are we doing with our energy? Does it actually work? Does it actually work anymore? Does it actually work to stress about something that we ultimately can’t do anything about in this moment? No. Okay, so what can we do? 

 

Well, we can take care of ourselves which—here’s the kicker—will ultimately contribute to that thing changing. Yeah. We actually have all this magic but we’re using it against us most of the time than for us. 

 

All the magic that you be, that you’ve been using against you rather than for you, will you destroy and uncreate all of that times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.  

[27:53] This is one of the ways that we use the Clearing Statement. We ask a question like that, and then we clear all the energy that comes up around it so that we can actually be us. We can actually be us—we can actually start utilizing that magic for us, for the planet, [and] for the possibilities. Yes, yes, yes. It is so time, my sweet friends. If there was ever a time, now is the time for us to be the magic of us.

 

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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here, whether you’re watching this as a video or listening to it as an audio. 

 

This has been almost two years that we’ve been doing this and yet, every once in a while, I still want people to know that there’s lots of ways to consume this weekly show, podcast, or radio show—whatever you might want to call it. We’ve got YouTube, Facebook and Instagram, and—oh my gosh—all the things and then, of course, all of the podcast apps like Spotify, Apple, and all the other ones that I don’t know. 

 

You can access this anywhere—you can search “Tools to Create a Better Life.” You could probably even search my name, if you can figure out how to spell it and find it that way. 

 

[00:50] What are we going to talk about this week? Well, I am in the midst of facilitating yet another phenomenal Foundation class, which is one of the classes from Access Consciousness. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.accessconsciousness.com for more information about all the amazing classes. It’s really where all of the tools that I share on this radio show are from—they are life changing and amazing. 

 

[01:14] So, Tools to Change Anything. Yep—anything, because that’s what these tools do. You can actually utilize these tools to change anything. 

 

[01:28] You hear me share them in all sorts of ways—maybe you’ve been following me a bit on Instagram and my reels or on TikTok lately where I’ve been sharing magical money tricks which you can use on anything. One, you can go opt in and get the FREE downloads: I did a video, there’s a PDF with five questions, and there’s phone wallpaper with my #1 question for more money. You can go grab that—that’s a gift for you. Basically, these tools can be used on anything. 

 

[01:56] First tool! Now, I wouldn’t say there’s any such thing as the number one tool of all tools. If I was gonna say that, it’s this one: interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. 

 

How do you use this? Before I go into this, even if you’ve been here for a while, even if you’ve used this tool a million times, take a moment and listen. I know what you’re like because I’m like that, too. [You’re] like, “I know how to use that!” and then, you stop paying attention. But let’s all just be present for a moment… okay, there we go. 

 

[02:42] What you’re looking at with interesting point of view [and] using this tool is any time that you have an interesting point of view—anytime you’re judging, you’re comparing, you’re projecting, you’re expecting, you’re insane, or whatever it is, whenever you’re not being the allowance that you actually be—you want to use this tool. It’s so simple, just [say it]  in your head: Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. 

 

That’s what I do: I give myself some space between saying it to give space to the energy, to start dissipating it. You could do it really quickly—*faster pace* Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view—it just might not create what you’re looking for. It may [but] you just want to check in. That’s always the thing—you always just want to check in with yourself. If it’s changing it, do it however it works. For me, I know that that space in between gifts it that. 

 

[03:53] Let’s say you’re driving to work, and you’re annoyed because there’s heavy traffic. You’re annoyed because it’s snowing, you’re annoyed because you left your partner in a tiff or something—whatever it is, [it] doesn’t matter. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… 

 

[04:15] Bring that up, think about it and repeat that over and over and over, and allow yourself the space to change it. All you’re doing is identifying it’s just a point of view, which means it’s not real, it’s not significant,  it’s not black and white. It’s just an interesting point of view. You do that enough times [and] it no longer has a hold over you. Now, you have more space to make a different choice.

 

Whatever the problem is, whatever the thing is that isn’t working, whatever it is that you would like to change, add interesting point of view to it. 

 

[04:54] Let’s say it’s something that occurred last week. You’re not in that moment, you’re remembering it. You’re reliving it, possibly. Maybe you’re having—maybe this is just me, pretty sure it’s not, though—of like where you’re replaying it in your head. “I should have said this, I shouldn’t have said that”—like that insanity. 

 

All you have to do is just think of that thing, that situation, that person, that whatever. Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… over and over until it just changes it. It doesn’t matter if it’s past [or] you’re worried about something coming up in the future. Same thing—think about it, repeat that over and over. 

 

[05:38] I said this already [and] I’m going to repeat it again, though. You do not have to say this out loud. In fact, if you’re saying it to somebody, you’re probably being a superior bitch and stop it. Stop it. A lot of times, people find these tools and they start using them. But then, they start basically killing everyone around them with them. That’s not what these tools are for. Just for you, just for fun, never tell anyone. 

 

If you’re aware that the person talking to you is having an interesting point of view, don’t tell them they’re having an interesting point of view. That’s not kind. [Instead], you, in your head, can say interesting point of view, they have that point of view so you can have more space with it. 

 

[06:21] That is one tool, and you hear me talk about it all the time if you’ve been around a while. If you’re new here, hi! [It’s] nice to meet you. Otherwise, it’s just one of those that can change anything so quickly in my experience. 

 

06:36 The other way that I’ve used it is for body stuff. Let’s say I wasn’t feeling well. I would actually just focus on where I’m not feeling well. Let’s say I was feeling congested—like a cold-like thing—I would focus on that. Focus isn’t the right word—I would be PRESENT with it. That’s what I’m looking for—I’d be present with that energy, the congestion, and interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… Interesting point of view, I have this point of view… 

 

So simple, my sweet friends, so simple. For me, it changes it very, very quickly. So, that’s one tool to change anything. 

 

[07:16] Another tool, and I haven’t probably shared this all that much. It’s not one that I’ve really used a whole lot. But I was talking about it in the Foundation class this morning which is just popping into my mind now. 

 

[07:27] Let’s say you’re in a situation that you would like to be different—you’re frustrated with it, you’re upset with it, it’s not what you’d like it to be. A question you can ask: What is funny about this that I’m not getting? 

 

Yeah, right? It just changes it. [It’s] because there’s always something funny about it. If you’re stuck in the drama-trauma of the thing, then you’re in a very solid, heavy, icky energy. But by asking What’s funny about this that I’m not getting?, there’s that lightness. 

 

[08:02] Ultimately, guys, that’s what we’re always looking for—more lightness. When we’re in the problem, when you’re in the drama-trauma, when we’re in the crazy, that’s the contractive and that’s the heavy. What about the lightness? What about the lightness, my sweet friends? What’s funny about this I’m not getting is such a quick way to change it. 

 

[08:23] The other way—different sort of a question, but very same idea. What’s right about this I’m not getting? Same idea, just a different energy to it. 

 

[08:34] I know a lot of people when they hear that, they [would go], “No! If we’re choosing consciousness, we don’t do right and wrong so I can’t ask that question.” You can, but you just want to recognize we’re not asking from the place of what’s right about this so we can figure out what’s right—not from that. 

 

Usually, what we’re doing before we become aware to ask that question is we’re in the wrongness. “What’s wrong with me? What’s wrong with this situation? What’s wrong with this person?” When we change it to “What’s right about this?”, we change the energy of the situation. 

 

[09:06] It just depends. What’s funny about this (I really like that one) and what’s right about this, either one of those will change any situation because again, when there’s contraction, once we change it to lightness, that’s where the awarenesses, that’s where the possibilities is, and that is where the magic is. 

 

[09:26] Another tool is to recognize that your point of view is what’s creating your reality. It’s your point of view. You don’t have to figure out what your point of view is and change that. You could, that’s one way, but a really quick kind of way around that is when you recognize you’re in something—there’s something going on—you don’t like, you know you’re choosing it, you know you’re creating it. You could ask: If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I create? What magic could I be here? 

 

[10:01] It changes it because we’re not taking our time to figure out all the interesting points of views we’re playing with. We’re just saying, “Hey, if I didn’t hold on to any of this, what magic could I be? What magic could I create?” which then, guess what? We go from the heavy contraction to the lightness which is what we’re looking for. The stuff that’s going to change it for us is getting into that lightness, and whatever it takes to get there. 

 

[10:28] This is just one really quick way around it, really quick acknowledgement that we are the creators of our life. A lot of times when we’re in that icky-ness, when we’re in the problem, drama, etc, we’re playing a victim. We’re going, “Well, I will change this, but that person won’t let me” or “This wouldn’t be happening if they didn’t do this” or “If the government wasn’t that…” 

 

If I didn’t have a point of view here, what magic could I be? 

 

[10:56] It changes everything. With questions, we’re not looking for answers. When I asked that, I’m not going, “Okay, so what magic could I be? Let me figure out the magic I could be.” It’s not gonna work like that. It’s just asking that question, we’re gonna go to the lightness, and then the universe is going to deliver the magic. Okay? Our job is just to ask the question, be the question, be the lightness, change anything that isn’t light into lightness, and the universe will do the rest. 

 

[11:27] Another tool to change anything is to always be in the question of yourself of what would I like to create here? 

 

There’s so much value in the problem—we put so much energy into the problem. I need to think about the problem, I need to figure out the problem, I need to spin on the problem, I need to talk about the problem with the 10 people around me, and then I’ll fix the problem. And then, I won’t have the problem. And then, I’ll choose something different. 

 

Sorry, [it] doesn’t work that way. The only time you’ll choose something different is when you choose something different. The value that we’ve put into the problem is what we need to stop. We need to ask ourselves, “Hey, what would I like to create here?” 

 

[12:13] Again, let’s go to the example of you’re driving to work and you’re upset about the traffic. It’s really heavy traffic and you’re late already. You’re in that place of “this is so stupid and I shouldn’t have to deal with his traffic” and “I hate traffic and I left early so I didn’t have to” and all that stuff. That energy is not going to change anything. 

 

However, [try] asking what would I like to create here? It’s often the exact opposite of what you’re creating. It’s often like, “I’d like to have ease with the traffic. I’d like to get to my appointment on time” and that’s all you need to do—turn it into what you’d like to create and then ask for that. The way that I asked sounds a little bit different than an ask, but it’s still an ask. 

 

I wonder what it would be like to get to the appointment on time…. I wonder what it would be like to have ease with driving right now…. 

 

[13:08] I wonder about it, which is similar to a question. You could [also] ask What would it take? What would it take to have ease with this right now? What would it take to get to my appointment on time? What magic could I be to get there on time? You’re turning it into your ask of what you would like, which is getting you out of the solidity of the problem and into the lightness once again. That’s what we’re looking for. 

 

[Those are] some really simple, easy-to-use tools, my sweet friends, to get you out of the problem and into the space [and] the lightness to change it as if by magic. 

 

[13:45] Depending on when you’re watching this, sweet friends, I would love to invite you to the Projections, Expectations, Separations, Judgments, Rejections Book Club that I have starting on March 8, 2022. 

 

Of course, if you’re listening later, you can always access the recordings and stuff—[the] link will be the same. You’ll find that link somewhere [and] if you can’t find it, let me know. 

 

[14:06] Pool Party Bars and Foundation [is] in July of 2022—come and play! Bring your swimsuit and just so you know, the class is not in the pool. I’m sorry for those of you who would like that, but it is not. The class is in the class space and then before class, at lunch break, and after class, the pool is open for your use. Just for anybody who thinks that we’re having class in the pool, we are not. How does it get any better?

 

[14:35] [I’d] also love to invite you to come and chat with me. You guys hear all sorts of stories about me. You probably know me quite well based on what I share in all my content and my classes and everything. And [so], I’ve opened up a weekly Zoom where I chat with you. Anybody who would like to, you’ll find the link. You can opt in and you’ll get the email. 

 

We just hop on Zoom for five to seven minutes and you just tell me about you. I’ve got some really fun questions to ask you just so that I can start to get to know who you are because I missed that. I really, really missed that.

 

Anyway, have a fabulous week sweet friends and I look forward to chatting again next week

 

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