Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Apr 24, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Are you living your life for you?

Do you find yourself holding back because of what people might say about you? And if they do, do you take these comments to heart? If yes, this show is for you! In this episode, we’ll list down some of the tools from Access Consciousness® to help you stop other people’s judgment from controlling how you live your life, and eventually not give a flying fuck about it. Don’t let anything stop you from BEing you, my sweet friend.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] This week, we are talking about Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck. If you are a person that takes things personally, that avoids judgment, that doesn’t do things that might create judgment from other people, this show is for you, my sweet friend.

Yes, because it is time to start living your life. Any time that we’re giving fucks about what other people will think about us or say about us, we’re not living our life. We’re living for other people. We’re being controlled by other people’s judgment, which is why other people judge. Heck! It’s why we judge, my sweet friends. I know we don’t want to admit it, and it’s the energy behind it.

[00:00:55] So, tool number one. It’s a tool I talk about all the time and I’m not stopping talking about it anytime soon. It’s the tool from Access Consciousness®: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[00:01:08] Whenever you take it personal, whenever you receive some judgment — maybe you post something on social media and somebody comments, or you maybe won’t post something on social media in case somebody judges you, or you find out about somebody judging you from a friend or something like that, what you want to do is just take a moment.

If you need to go to the washroom or, you know, separate yourself from everyone that’s around and just go take a moment, get the energy of the judgment, of the resistance of it, of all of that, and go into interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting points of view, I have this points of view.

It can be interesting point of view or interesting points of views, either. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Just over and over and over until you don’t have that contraction in your world about it, until you can think about the situation without really a matter in your world, a care in your world. That’s ultimately what you’re looking for.

[00:02:20] Now, you may not get there right away. It might take you doing this a few times. It might take you doing this 50 times. It might take you doing this every hour for a week. Who knows? It doesn’t matter. There’s no kind of it-should-work-in-this-many-times.

It really is just utilizing this tool because every time you do it, it will start to unravel all of the places and spaces that you have made personal. [That] you’ve made about you that were never about you.

[00:02:50] When people judge us, it’s about their stuff related to what we’re choosing. No different than when we judge other people, it’s about our stuff in relation to what they’re choosing. So, it’s not personal.

We’ve been taught though to make it really personal and really wrap ourselves up into it and really look at how can I change so that person will like me or not have this judgment. Whoa, stop. No, use the tool: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

You can do it in your mind, you don’t even have to do it out loud, over and over and over until you have the space of you.

[00:03:31] Another tool to stop giving a fuck. This is a fairly new one in the last couple of years that we started using in Access Consciousness®. It’s a very simple question: Is this relevant? That’s all you need to ask.

[00:03:47] Again, let’s imagine you posted something on social media. Somebody made a judgment and you read it and you go, “Oh no!”

Truth, is this relevant?

Hmm… no. Okay, carry on. And then, you get to do whatever you would like to do with that.

If it’s on social media, you can go delete it. You could go block the person. You could comment. Whatever it is you’d like to do, you have total choice in that moment. There’s no right or wrong way to respond, and you don’t even have to respond.

[00:04:24] I have done all sorts of things. I just find whatever is going to create the most in that moment. Sometimes, I will respond and say thank you, which is a bit of a, well, I was going to say a bit of a manipulation, but it’s a total manipulation. Sometimes, I delete and block them. Sometimes, I just leave it.

And then usually, my other friends or people that are hanging out with me on social media, they’ll comment in kind of defense for me. I’m not sure if there’s anything else that I do. I mean there’s a few of those options, but it’s really whatever in that moment.

[00:05:00] But the first piece that I always look at is getting honest with me. I don’t want to do it from a reaction like, “Oh, I need to get rid of that comment! I don’t want anybody to see that!” I don’t ever choose from that energy.

That’s a muscle, I’ll be honest. Years ago, I didn’t choose from that. It was like, “Delete, delete, delete! I didn’t want anybody to see it!” Because part of it was that I bought it as true and real. If somebody was saying it, then it must be true and real. But what if it isn’t, guys? What if somebody is saying it just to say it?

[00:05:32] I’ve been talking for a while about TikTok. Now a few years ago, I put some videos here and there on TikTok. Lately, I’ve been a much more active on there. But I put one on there which was just a fun video of me putting on makeup.

Holy Dinah, did I receive judgment! In fact, to this day, I’ve never went and caught, like, I’ve never responded. I never did anything with them. It took me so off guard. I had no idea that people would actually choose that.

[00:06:02] None of the platforms that I’d been on before ever have that sort of insanity. So, it was really interesting. It was also a really good place for me to use interesting point of view, for me to be the space, for me to ask about, you know, is this actually relevant? and all of that.

But at the time, I just kind of set it aside and didn’t go on it for a while and just gave myself the space to really go, “Wow, this is another level of receiving! How does it get any better than that?”

[00:06:30] But that is the second tool — is really asking is this relevant? If you happen to get a ‘yes,’ then you could look at, “Okay, what’s required?” If it is relevant, then what’s required?

There may be something. There may be some sort of action to take. Just make sure that that isn’t relevant when you’re asking that, that your response is an awareness, not an answer that you think it should be, because maybe you’re upset about the comment.

[00:06:59] Another tool to stop giving a fuck is something that you want to be aware of with regards to recognizing you are your most valuable product.

I actually did a class on it very recently because this is something I was really looking out for myself in the last few months. It’s where I’ve made other people and other situations way more relevant than me, way more the valuable product than me when really, we are each our own most valuable product.

If we don’t acknowledge that and we don’t live that, then absolutely we are going to get really tied up in other people’s points of views. We’re going to get really tied up in other people’s judgements. We’re going to get really tied up in that space of what they think of us.

[00:07:48] However, if you are your most valuable product, if you recognize it and you acknowledge it and you live it, then what other people think or say about you really doesn’t have an effect on you because you’ve got your back, which is all about being your most valuable product. It means you never judge you. You always got you, which allows the universe also to always have you, to always have your back.

[00:08:20] These are really the tools just to start using. You don’t have to use them all. Pick one when that judgment comes up, when you’re giving too many fucks about things that aren’t required to give any fucks about. Really, start using one or maybe all of these tools to start changing it so that you have way more choice for you, because that’s what we’re looking for.

[00:08:43] It really is about stopping giving the fuck so that you can be you on the planet. You can create in whatever way you would like. You can do, have, be, and actualize everything beyond what you’ve never imagined possible when you stop giving the fucks.

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Tools When Life is Heavy

Apr 17, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools When Life is Heavy

Follow what lights you up!

There has been a lot of upset going on in the world for some time now. Add to that the personal worries we have to deal with in our daily lives. One can’t help but feel how “heavy” life seems to be right now.

If that sounds relatable, tune in to this episode as we talk all about the “heavy” stuff and some reaaallyyy potent tools from Access Consciousness® to help you breakfree from the drama-trauma and allow more magic to your life.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

This show is Tools When Life is Heavy. Yeah, and I know for a lot of people — not even just with the stuff in the world, just in their own world — life can seem heavy a lot. A lot.

And if you happen to catch last week’s radio show, you would have walked with me through some heaviness that I had in my world and all the things.

[00:00:40] Here’s the important thing to know about heavy. Heavy means there’s a lie attached. Heavy means there’s a lie attached. Heavy means there’s a lie attached.

Now, I am not repeating that because I’m forgetful. I am repeating that because most people do not stop and recognize that what we do is we assume that it’s heavy because of the upset attached, because of the story attached, because of all the crazy. That’s what we do. We assume that’s the heavy. It’s not, my sweet friends. That heavy is because there is a lie there.

[00:01:21] Now, it could be a 100% lie. It could be 2% lie. It could be anything. It’s just, you want to check in and you just ask, “What is the lie spoken or unspoken here?” You just need to acknowledge that there’s a lie.

If you are listening to the news and you start getting super, super heavy: What is the lie? No, it doesn’t mean that whatever story they’re showing right now is actually a lie. It doesn’t mean that. It could, doesn’t mean it [but] it could. It could, and it doesn’t necessarily.

[00:01:58] It could be, let’s say, you’re watching a news story and there’s something similar in your life. Let’s say you’re watching and somebody’s had all their possessions taken from them, like their house and stuff, because they weren’t paying their bills. And you maybe feel like money’s a bit tight.

You’re watching this news and all of a sudden, you’re going into your own story of “Oh my gosh, this is going to happen to me! I haven’t paid my mortgage last month and they’re going to come after me! They’re going to take everything!”

[00:02:31] What you’re doing is those lies you’re attaching, that’s the heavy. That’s our awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass! Stop it.” We want to get to the awareness of what is the lie.

You just recognize that, “Oh, okay. That’s the story I’ve attached. That’s what’s making it heavy. All right.” Stop, and then turn it into a question of like What else is possible?

[00:02:59] Let’s say with the money thing. What else is possible with my money stuff that I haven’t considered? We take it out of the drama-trauma, the story [and] into a question of like What else is possible I haven’t considered? You really want to strengthen this muscle, guys: to recognize that heavy is always a lie.

[00:03:21] This is the bizarre thing: if the whoever-the-power’s-that’d-be were going to come and take your house from you today and you thought about it, it would actually be light because it would actually be true. It’s a bizarre thing, but what’s true for us in that moment is light. What’s a lie is heavy. So, if it’s, if it’s heavy, guaranteed, there’s a lie in there. Guaranteed there’s a lie in there. Yeah.

[00:03:54] Right now on the planet — probably all the time on the planet, let’s be honest, but essentially right now — it seems there’s a lot of heavy. There’s a lot of things that we could put our attention on. There’s a lot of places where we can play with the story, the drama-trauma, the upset, all of it.

The question that you want to start asking when you recognize you’re in story, when you recognize that you’re telling lies, that that’s the heavy, ask: What can I add to my life right now to change this? Because if you’ve got time to play in the heavy, play in the story, make up all the drama-trauma, you’ve got too much time.

[00:04:36] I know that you might want to say to me, “But Glenyce I don’t have any more time! There’s no more time in my life! What are you talking about?” Yeah. It’s not even actually about time. It’s really about the energy of adding more and more and more.

If you’ll notice, like, when you’ve got something really fun or something you really enjoy doing, you always create the space for it. That’s what we’re looking at. How many more of those things can we add to our lives so we don’t play with the drama-trauma, we don’t play with the stories? That’s really—I mean, that’s the target, my sweet friends.

[00:05:12] I mean even this morning, I got up early and I went to the gym ’cause I knew later on, I knew I was recording the show today, I knew that I’ve got more calls this afternoon. I knew the rest of my day was full. If I didn’t go this morning, I probably wouldn’t have the space for it.

Now, let’s be honest. Years ago, I would have went, “I can’t go to the gym today. I know it just won’t work.” Now, I love it. It’s so much fun. I love all the gyms I can go to. I love all the possibilities there that I look at how I can fit it into my day. And that’s a different energy.

[00:05:48] So, that’s what we want to be asking: What can I add to my life right now to change this? And then, follow the energy. Follow what’s light, follow what really lights you up. You don’t know until you try it.

[00:06:01] This is the thing I hear from so many of you. “I don’t know what I like… I don’t know what would be fun for me… I don’t know.”

Of course, I’m being extreme here but let’s be honest, guys. You do not know until you try. So, definitely ask questions around it, of course, like Truth, if I choose this right now, will it create the future desire or decay the future desire?

Follow your awareness, of course, but don’t wait for you to know 110% that you will love it. Try it. Try it, and then you’ll know that choice creates the awareness. We’re often waiting for the awareness so we choose, but that is so slow, my sweet friends. It’s so, so slow. Such a slow way to create..

[00:06:51] I invite you to Online Foundation in May of 2022. You will find the link above or below with more information. I would love to have you come and play my sweet ,friends.

And of course, we also have the Bars & Foundation Pool Party in July of 2022. So again, you’ll find the link with more information and reach out if you don’t see a link or if you’ve got other questions. I would love to hear from you.

[00:07:16] So, when you’ve got the heavy going on, we want to ask: What’s the lie spoken or unspoken? We want to be asking: What can I add to my life? The other one that I use a lot, especially in the last month, is What am I aware of here?

What am I aware of here? Because we can become aware of something, and then again, we add that story to it, and then we distract ourselves with the story.

[00:07:44] Let’s say you had a business and you had a staff member working with you. Every time you thought about them, you started getting like a little bit pissy like, “Oh, they didn’t do that thing I asked them to do” or “They didn’t do it right” or whatever. Let’s say that’s not normally how you are with them or with people.

Instead of going into the, you know, continuing to distract yourself with that upset or going into, “Oh my gosh, what’s wrong with me? Why am I being so judgemental?” Stop. What am I aware of here? What is this? What was the ping of the awareness before you took it into all that crazy about the person? What are you aware of?

[00:08:26] Maybe you’re aware that they’re looking for a different job. Maybe you just popped into there, you’ve got the awareness that they’re looking for another job, and then you turn it into that distraction and story rather than just like, what if you were aware of that? Like, “Oh, they’re looking for another job. Okay, awesome.”

And then, it allows you to actually be in the space of, “Wow. Okay. If they choose to move on, would I like to replace them? Would I do something different?” You won’t be shocked when it occurs because you’re not pretending it’s not occurring if that’s what’s going on. Now, again, you’re just going to follow your awareness with it, but really watch for that spot before you take it into the drama-trauma.

[00:09:11] And this is why I use that question: what am I aware of here? It takes me back before the drama-trauma into, “Okay. So, what am I aware of?” I immediately don’t get words for it. I mean, we don’t always know specifically what I’m aware of.

But for me just asking that question, it changes so much because (1) I’m acknowledging that I’m aware of something and (2) I’m no longer playing with the drama trauma anymore which allows so much more magic. So much more magic.

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Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

Apr 10, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

We always have a choice.

When we got our tax bill, it was a lot bigger than I imagined… and I was pissy. This is where the tools from Access Consciousness® come in handy! In this episode, I will not only share these tools but we will also walk through them TOGETHER. How fun is that?! 🤩

When we feel frustrated, angry, pissed, or some things aren’t going our way, know that there’s something else possible. We always have another choice. What would you like to choose now?

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:10] Oh boy, all right. Well, here it is — I’m pissy. I’m pissy right now. I know it sounds like I’m laughing, and I am laughing AND I’m pissy.

I just got off the phone with the accountant at going through personal tax stuff and got the information that Hubby will owe way more money in taxes than I imagined. How does it get any better than that?

[00:00:37] Why the heck would I come on here and do a radio show when I’m pissy about something? Because I would like you to walk along with me, my sweet friend. I would like you to see what is possible when you’re pissy, when you want it not to be the way it is, when you want it to be different, when you’re *frustrated noises* — all that. I thought it might be fun for you and I to go through this together.

[00:01:01] What you could look at while you’re here with me is if there’s anywhere in your life that you’ve got this going on. What you could do along with me is if there’s anything in your life that you don’t like where it’s at, or you would like it to be different, or you’re pissy about something—just come along with me.

[00:01:18] Now, I believe it was in the summer of 2022 (2021) [when] I did a Steps to a Self Session. We’ll link to that in the show notes if you want to go through kind of more an extended version of something.

This is going to be fairly quick because it’s just something right now. I believe the thing I did in the self session was something that had been going on for a while. I believe it was something to do with my back, with running. This one is more, Okay, in this moment, I’m pissy and I would like it to be different” and “I would like the situation to be different and now what?” All right.

[00:01:49] The first thing that I look at: the allowance of where I’m at. This is unusual but what if we could actually have allowance? It’s like, what if it’s okay for me to be not thrilled with that information? What if I can be in allowance of myself?

Step number one, for a couple of reasons: Because fighting it isn’t ever going to change anything. The other reason, though, is that we can’t change anything from fight—from that “this shouldn’t be this way” and “this is stupid” and “this is bad “and “the accountant made the mistake and it’s his fault.” That’s not—and it’s actually not. It’s not his fault. It couldn’t be his fault. It couldn’t be anybody’s fault. It’s just what is in this moment.

If I don’t put all of my energy into that space, then where could I put my energy? Oh yeah — into having allowance for me and where I’m at right now.

[00:02:43] All right. So, I’m pissy. The next step for me is to know that I can have allowance for that — absolutely. I can play with it, I can set a timer and give myself two minutes of the pissy-est I can get. I can do that, totally. In some situations, I actually do. This situation, I just know it’s time to change it.

[00:03:01] It’s been maybe 20 minutes since the time I got off the phone with him to setting up the camera and getting everything ready. It’s long enough to be pissy for me. It’s just not fun energy for me.

[00:03:11] Okay, what would I like? What would I like? Well, ultimately, I’d like not to pay that tax money. Okay, that’s one thing. One thing I could ask for: what magic is possible — could ask for that.

Now, what I’m looking for when I go there—so I’m energetically getting present with that, and I’m looking at that as like, “Does that change it? Does that actually change the energy for me?” It actually doesn’t. That’s fine. That’s great information.

[00:03:37] So, what then? What would I actually like? What am I actually asking for here? I’d actually like to know that I’m okay, that we’re okay no matter what. Now, that’s got an energy on it for me. Okay, cool. That’s a yummy place to start.

[00:03:51] I could actually look around in my world and actually prove to myself that we’re okay. If required, there’s many places we could pull that money out of. There’s many things we could sell to have that money. There’s all sorts of things. We actually even have that amount in the account and more and way more. So, are we okay? Yes.

[00:04:13] Again, this is kind of a bizarre thing to do. It gives me the space to go, “Okay, I’m not going to pull the money out of that account.” This is the one thing that I know about myself — I’m not doing that. I like the money in that account.

I really like money. I am one of the weirdest people on the planet. I really like money. I like having money. I like to look in that account and see all the money in that account. To take some of it out to pay a bill, I’m not choosing that because the other thing that I know about me is that I will create it. If it’s between pulling it out of that account and creating more money, I’ll just go create more money.

[00:04:54] It’s already getting lighter for me as I’m just talking about random things that I would normally just go through quietly in my head. I’m like, “Oh yeah. Okay, cool. I won — we’re okay. I can just go create that money. Okay.” So now, it’s lighter.

Now, I want to just take a moment with this because look at this: it’s lighter because I’m no longer in the lie.

Now, what was the lie with the pissy and the heavy and the icky about the the amount of tax he owes? It could be the amount. I mean the accountant was just giving me the rough number because he hasn’t put everything in, but [it’s] fairly close. Okay. So it could be the lie that that’s the amount — it could be.

[00:05:36] What I get more so is what I added to it. The stories that I added to it like, “We won’t be okay. Oh my gosh. If we’ve got this horrific tax bill, we won’t be okay!” That was the energy behind that for me, and that was the heaviness, that was the pissy. That was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass. You’re fine. Stop lying to yourself!” Right? Once I removed the lies. I’m like, “Oh, yeah. Okay. That’s super light. That’s super ease. Oh, awesome!”

Everything that might bring up for you, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

Now, that is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. It does so many things. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works, but basically it’s like waving a magic wand and getting rid of and destroying and uncreating all the stories, all of the crazy, all the energy, all the “you can but I can’t” or “I can’t because…” or all that stuff — it just gets rid of it all.

When we talk about stuff, especially money, there’s so many points of views that come up, so much insanity that running the Clearing Statement will really start to shift it.

[00:06:40] I would love to invite you to a creation that I’ve got coming up called Refusing Receiving. Yeah, I’m sure none of you do that.

It’s what we call in Access Consciousness® a “30×30,” meaning there’s a clearing that we’re going to run about refusing receiving 30 times a day for 30 days to really get the benefits of the clearing and really start choosing to receive beyond what we’ve never been willing to before.

What I’ve also added to this one is that about halfway through the 30 days, we’re going to have a Zoom Clearing Call, meaning we’re all going to hop on Zoom together and do clearings and whatever. I’ll facilitate whatever questions, whatever’s coming up around it because what I know with this clearing in particular is it’s going to bring up some stuff. There’s going to be more stuff that you’re going to want to clear. And so we’ve put this in the middle so that we can clear it all up and really start receiving beyond what we’ve never been willing to receive before.

There’ll be a link somewhere below, above, or in the show notes. I would love to have you join me, my sweet friends.

[00:07:49] The other piece with this all, of course, is a question that we use in Access Consciousness® all the time: who does that belong to?

Is it actually mine? Do I have any of these weird concerns and stories about money? No, unless of course I choose to, unless I want to play with them, unless I have some time to be pissy, unless I don’t have enough on the go. You get the idea, right?

[00:08:18] Really, it’s not mine. I could put my creative energy into creating the drama-trauma and the crazy and all of that, or I could go, “Hey, what would I like to create?” I’d like to have ease with this — done. I can choose ease with this. I can choose drama-trauma. Neither of those choices is right or wrong. They’re just choices.

It doesn’t matter if you’re looking at tax bills or you’re looking at a relationship problem, or if you’re looking at business thing. These tools work on everything, and the greatest piece of it—at least for myself—has been that I have choice. I always have choice.

[00:08:52] It doesn’t matter if I’m pissy or if I’m angry or if I’m wanting to kill somebody. Sometimes, it can be all those things. I always have another choice. I can stay in those energies. I can continue to choose them if I would like to, and I always know I have another choice. So, what choice—what would I like to create here?

[00:09:14] Of course, I talked earlier about not having the tax bill. Of course, that’s cool too. I’m totally open to that. Universe, what else is possible with this that I’ve never even considered? Absolutely. I also want to know that no matter what, NO MATTER WHAT comes my way, I always have a choice for ease.

Anywhere that you haven’t been willing to know you always have another choice, will you destroy and uncreate all that? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

[00:09:43] If we didn’t buy the stories, if we didn’t go into the trauma-drama or—wait a minute—if we STOPPED telling the stories, if we stopped playing with drama-trauma rather than NOT DOING it because that’s down the road. Let’s start with just choosing something different. What could we create if we got the muscle of going, “Hey, I don’t like this energy right now. What else could I choose?” That’s a beautiful muscle to have, guys.

[00:10:13] I’ll tell you what: if this would’ve occurred 10, 15 years ago, I wouldn’t have had that muscle. I didn’t have that muscle. It’s only been, I would say, in the last five or six years that I truly have this muscle to go, “Wait, I have another choice here.”

I only ever saw the choice for pissy or upset or drama-trauma. I only ever saw that choice. I mean, I didn’t even acknowledge it as a choice. Let’s be honest. It was like something would occur and then I would have to react and that was it. Whereas now, I know I have another choice and I can turn it around very quickly.

[00:10:51] Now, I could have probably turned it around quicker, but I did want to hop on and do this video to have you come with me [and] be able to go through these steps.

And this isn’t like every time you have a problem, do these exact steps. That’s not it at all, guys. I would just kind of, you know, what we call “pinging.” It was like, “Okay, so where do I look at? What do I go with?” I mean, you could start with “who does this belong to?” You could start there.

[00:11:14] For me, in this case, really acknowledging that we’re okay. They’re not going to come and take my house away from me for his tax bill. None of that. I mean, that’s pretty dramatic. That’s pretty extreme, and I like to know that. I like to have that information. That’s a really big piece for me to look at and to acknowledge and to recognize that there’s an energy of a story there.

It wasn’t going through my mind. I wasn’t going into, “Oh my gosh, we’re going to have to move. I won’t have a swimming pool!” It wasn’t any of that sort of crap. Energetically, it was. How do I know? Because of that pissy, because of that heavy, because of that *ugh*.

Because that was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass! You’re lying to you here! Let’s start being honest. What it actually is here?” Oh, we could just go pay that right now if we really wanted to. Now, what would I like to choose?

[00:12:08] Well, I’m going to go create that money! So, you might see some creation come out, like, you know, “Paying Hubby’s Tax Bill Call” or something like that. That would be super fun. Actually, I might create something like that now that the energy of this is even lighter, my sweet friends. It’s even lighter.

So, who knows? By the time this comes out, you might see right now on the video or if you’re listening to the podcast in the show notes, there might be a link to a creation to pay Hubby’s tax bill! That is so awesome. Oh my goodness. How does it get any better than that? I love that energy.

[00:12:48] Okay. So, there we go. What we’re looking to do is, and again, this isn’t like a step-by-step for everything. This is a steb-by-step that I use today in this moment:

(1) allowance for where I was and what I was choosing;

(2) the acknowledgement of what is actually true

(3) getting out of the stories; and then

(4) looking at what would I like to create? What would I like to choose here? And, paying attention to the energy behind it.

[00:13:10] Right? Because again, the automatic response is I just don’t want to pay a tax bill, but that didn’t have the energy match that I was actually looking for. Okay so then what? “Oh, I’d like to have ease with this.” Oh, well that. That — done.

Whether the tax bill is the amount the accountant gave us, maybe it comes in even more, whatever it is, maybe it comes zeroed out—who knows? Whatever it is, I know that I can choose ease no matter what and that is greater than any amount of non-tax bill. At least it is for me.