Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

Apr 10, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Clear the Drama with an Unexpected Tax Bill

We always have a choice.

When we got our tax bill, it was a lot bigger than I imagined… and I was pissy. This is where the tools from Access Consciousness® come in handy! In this episode, I will not only share these tools but we will also walk through them TOGETHER. How fun is that?! 🤩

When we feel frustrated, angry, pissed, or some things aren’t going our way, know that there’s something else possible. We always have another choice. What would you like to choose now?

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:10] Oh boy, all right. Well, here it is — I’m pissy. I’m pissy right now. I know it sounds like I’m laughing, and I am laughing AND I’m pissy.

I just got off the phone with the accountant at going through personal tax stuff and got the information that Hubby will owe way more money in taxes than I imagined. How does it get any better than that?

[00:00:37] Why the heck would I come on here and do a radio show when I’m pissy about something? Because I would like you to walk along with me, my sweet friend. I would like you to see what is possible when you’re pissy, when you want it not to be the way it is, when you want it to be different, when you’re *frustrated noises* — all that. I thought it might be fun for you and I to go through this together.

[00:01:01] What you could look at while you’re here with me is if there’s anywhere in your life that you’ve got this going on. What you could do along with me is if there’s anything in your life that you don’t like where it’s at, or you would like it to be different, or you’re pissy about something—just come along with me.

[00:01:18] Now, I believe it was in the summer of 2022 (2021) [when] I did a Steps to a Self Session. We’ll link to that in the show notes if you want to go through kind of more an extended version of something.

This is going to be fairly quick because it’s just something right now. I believe the thing I did in the self session was something that had been going on for a while. I believe it was something to do with my back, with running. This one is more, Okay, in this moment, I’m pissy and I would like it to be different” and “I would like the situation to be different and now what?” All right.

[00:01:49] The first thing that I look at: the allowance of where I’m at. This is unusual but what if we could actually have allowance? It’s like, what if it’s okay for me to be not thrilled with that information? What if I can be in allowance of myself?

Step number one, for a couple of reasons: Because fighting it isn’t ever going to change anything. The other reason, though, is that we can’t change anything from fight—from that “this shouldn’t be this way” and “this is stupid” and “this is bad “and “the accountant made the mistake and it’s his fault.” That’s not—and it’s actually not. It’s not his fault. It couldn’t be his fault. It couldn’t be anybody’s fault. It’s just what is in this moment.

If I don’t put all of my energy into that space, then where could I put my energy? Oh yeah — into having allowance for me and where I’m at right now.

[00:02:43] All right. So, I’m pissy. The next step for me is to know that I can have allowance for that — absolutely. I can play with it, I can set a timer and give myself two minutes of the pissy-est I can get. I can do that, totally. In some situations, I actually do. This situation, I just know it’s time to change it.

[00:03:01] It’s been maybe 20 minutes since the time I got off the phone with him to setting up the camera and getting everything ready. It’s long enough to be pissy for me. It’s just not fun energy for me.

[00:03:11] Okay, what would I like? What would I like? Well, ultimately, I’d like not to pay that tax money. Okay, that’s one thing. One thing I could ask for: what magic is possible — could ask for that.

Now, what I’m looking for when I go there—so I’m energetically getting present with that, and I’m looking at that as like, “Does that change it? Does that actually change the energy for me?” It actually doesn’t. That’s fine. That’s great information.

[00:03:37] So, what then? What would I actually like? What am I actually asking for here? I’d actually like to know that I’m okay, that we’re okay no matter what. Now, that’s got an energy on it for me. Okay, cool. That’s a yummy place to start.

[00:03:51] I could actually look around in my world and actually prove to myself that we’re okay. If required, there’s many places we could pull that money out of. There’s many things we could sell to have that money. There’s all sorts of things. We actually even have that amount in the account and more and way more. So, are we okay? Yes.

[00:04:13] Again, this is kind of a bizarre thing to do. It gives me the space to go, “Okay, I’m not going to pull the money out of that account.” This is the one thing that I know about myself — I’m not doing that. I like the money in that account.

I really like money. I am one of the weirdest people on the planet. I really like money. I like having money. I like to look in that account and see all the money in that account. To take some of it out to pay a bill, I’m not choosing that because the other thing that I know about me is that I will create it. If it’s between pulling it out of that account and creating more money, I’ll just go create more money.

[00:04:54] It’s already getting lighter for me as I’m just talking about random things that I would normally just go through quietly in my head. I’m like, “Oh yeah. Okay, cool. I won — we’re okay. I can just go create that money. Okay.” So now, it’s lighter.

Now, I want to just take a moment with this because look at this: it’s lighter because I’m no longer in the lie.

Now, what was the lie with the pissy and the heavy and the icky about the the amount of tax he owes? It could be the amount. I mean the accountant was just giving me the rough number because he hasn’t put everything in, but [it’s] fairly close. Okay. So it could be the lie that that’s the amount — it could be.

[00:05:36] What I get more so is what I added to it. The stories that I added to it like, “We won’t be okay. Oh my gosh. If we’ve got this horrific tax bill, we won’t be okay!” That was the energy behind that for me, and that was the heaviness, that was the pissy. That was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass. You’re fine. Stop lying to yourself!” Right? Once I removed the lies. I’m like, “Oh, yeah. Okay. That’s super light. That’s super ease. Oh, awesome!”

Everything that might bring up for you, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

Now, that is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. It does so many things. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works, but basically it’s like waving a magic wand and getting rid of and destroying and uncreating all the stories, all of the crazy, all the energy, all the “you can but I can’t” or “I can’t because…” or all that stuff — it just gets rid of it all.

When we talk about stuff, especially money, there’s so many points of views that come up, so much insanity that running the Clearing Statement will really start to shift it.

[00:06:40] I would love to invite you to a creation that I’ve got coming up called Refusing Receiving. Yeah, I’m sure none of you do that.

It’s what we call in Access Consciousness® a “30×30,” meaning there’s a clearing that we’re going to run about refusing receiving 30 times a day for 30 days to really get the benefits of the clearing and really start choosing to receive beyond what we’ve never been willing to before.

What I’ve also added to this one is that about halfway through the 30 days, we’re going to have a Zoom Clearing Call, meaning we’re all going to hop on Zoom together and do clearings and whatever. I’ll facilitate whatever questions, whatever’s coming up around it because what I know with this clearing in particular is it’s going to bring up some stuff. There’s going to be more stuff that you’re going to want to clear. And so we’ve put this in the middle so that we can clear it all up and really start receiving beyond what we’ve never been willing to receive before.

There’ll be a link somewhere below, above, or in the show notes. I would love to have you join me, my sweet friends.

[00:07:49] The other piece with this all, of course, is a question that we use in Access Consciousness® all the time: who does that belong to?

Is it actually mine? Do I have any of these weird concerns and stories about money? No, unless of course I choose to, unless I want to play with them, unless I have some time to be pissy, unless I don’t have enough on the go. You get the idea, right?

[00:08:18] Really, it’s not mine. I could put my creative energy into creating the drama-trauma and the crazy and all of that, or I could go, “Hey, what would I like to create?” I’d like to have ease with this — done. I can choose ease with this. I can choose drama-trauma. Neither of those choices is right or wrong. They’re just choices.

It doesn’t matter if you’re looking at tax bills or you’re looking at a relationship problem, or if you’re looking at business thing. These tools work on everything, and the greatest piece of it—at least for myself—has been that I have choice. I always have choice.

[00:08:52] It doesn’t matter if I’m pissy or if I’m angry or if I’m wanting to kill somebody. Sometimes, it can be all those things. I always have another choice. I can stay in those energies. I can continue to choose them if I would like to, and I always know I have another choice. So, what choice—what would I like to create here?

[00:09:14] Of course, I talked earlier about not having the tax bill. Of course, that’s cool too. I’m totally open to that. Universe, what else is possible with this that I’ve never even considered? Absolutely. I also want to know that no matter what, NO MATTER WHAT comes my way, I always have a choice for ease.

Anywhere that you haven’t been willing to know you always have another choice, will you destroy and uncreate all that? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.®

[00:09:43] If we didn’t buy the stories, if we didn’t go into the trauma-drama or—wait a minute—if we STOPPED telling the stories, if we stopped playing with drama-trauma rather than NOT DOING it because that’s down the road. Let’s start with just choosing something different. What could we create if we got the muscle of going, “Hey, I don’t like this energy right now. What else could I choose?” That’s a beautiful muscle to have, guys.

[00:10:13] I’ll tell you what: if this would’ve occurred 10, 15 years ago, I wouldn’t have had that muscle. I didn’t have that muscle. It’s only been, I would say, in the last five or six years that I truly have this muscle to go, “Wait, I have another choice here.”

I only ever saw the choice for pissy or upset or drama-trauma. I only ever saw that choice. I mean, I didn’t even acknowledge it as a choice. Let’s be honest. It was like something would occur and then I would have to react and that was it. Whereas now, I know I have another choice and I can turn it around very quickly.

[00:10:51] Now, I could have probably turned it around quicker, but I did want to hop on and do this video to have you come with me [and] be able to go through these steps.

And this isn’t like every time you have a problem, do these exact steps. That’s not it at all, guys. I would just kind of, you know, what we call “pinging.” It was like, “Okay, so where do I look at? What do I go with?” I mean, you could start with “who does this belong to?” You could start there.

[00:11:14] For me, in this case, really acknowledging that we’re okay. They’re not going to come and take my house away from me for his tax bill. None of that. I mean, that’s pretty dramatic. That’s pretty extreme, and I like to know that. I like to have that information. That’s a really big piece for me to look at and to acknowledge and to recognize that there’s an energy of a story there.

It wasn’t going through my mind. I wasn’t going into, “Oh my gosh, we’re going to have to move. I won’t have a swimming pool!” It wasn’t any of that sort of crap. Energetically, it was. How do I know? Because of that pissy, because of that heavy, because of that *ugh*.

Because that was my awareness saying, “Hey, dumb ass! You’re lying to you here! Let’s start being honest. What it actually is here?” Oh, we could just go pay that right now if we really wanted to. Now, what would I like to choose?

[00:12:08] Well, I’m going to go create that money! So, you might see some creation come out, like, you know, “Paying Hubby’s Tax Bill Call” or something like that. That would be super fun. Actually, I might create something like that now that the energy of this is even lighter, my sweet friends. It’s even lighter.

So, who knows? By the time this comes out, you might see right now on the video or if you’re listening to the podcast in the show notes, there might be a link to a creation to pay Hubby’s tax bill! That is so awesome. Oh my goodness. How does it get any better than that? I love that energy.

[00:12:48] Okay. So, there we go. What we’re looking to do is, and again, this isn’t like a step-by-step for everything. This is a steb-by-step that I use today in this moment:

(1) allowance for where I was and what I was choosing;

(2) the acknowledgement of what is actually true

(3) getting out of the stories; and then

(4) looking at what would I like to create? What would I like to choose here? And, paying attention to the energy behind it.

[00:13:10] Right? Because again, the automatic response is I just don’t want to pay a tax bill, but that didn’t have the energy match that I was actually looking for. Okay so then what? “Oh, I’d like to have ease with this.” Oh, well that. That — done.

Whether the tax bill is the amount the accountant gave us, maybe it comes in even more, whatever it is, maybe it comes zeroed out—who knows? Whatever it is, I know that I can choose ease no matter what and that is greater than any amount of non-tax bill. At least it is for me.

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Tools to Create a Magical Day

Apr 3, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Create a Magical Day

Add a little sparkle to your day!

Stressing about something you’ve got coming up? Turn it around by using these magical tools from Access Consciousness®! With these tools, we will get rid of all the icky energies—the decisions, judgments, conclusions, etc.—and create the AWEsome day (and life and living) that you truly desire.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you listeners, whether you’re new here, you’ve been here a while, or maybe you’ve been listening since I started this show in 2013. Yes.

Now, in case you don’t know, you can go to my web page www.glenycehughes.com and find every show. Download it, listen to it.

You can also go to any podcast app and there’s actually two different shows. One is called The Glenyce Show, and one is called this – Tools to Create a Better Life. So on my webpage, all the shows on the podcast app, they’re actually over two different shows. So, there you go.

This Tools to Create a Better Life is the one that gets added to each week. The Glenyce Show doesn’t get added to anymore, but there’s years and years of shows on there that will change everything as if by magic. Yes.

[00:01:03] This week, we are talking about Tools to Create a Magical Day. Now, this is actually inspired by my most loved, listened to, downloaded show called 10 Tips — I believe 10 Tips to Create a Magical Day. We’ll have a link to that in the show notes.

If you’re not familiar, you can get the show notes emailed to you every Sunday if you’re on my email list and if not, you can go to www.glenycehughes.com and find the show notes connected to this radio show.

[00:01:40] This one might be duplicating — I’m not sure. I didn’t actually re-listen to the show from all those years ago. These are ones that I actually use myself personally, and this is how I start my day pretty much every day. Let me change it: this is how I start my day every day I’d like to create a magical day.

[00:02:00] I know that a lot of times we think that if we have the tools, we’re going to use them all the time and never stop. Sometimes, I don’t use them all.

Now, probably 90% of the time I use them. That’s probably where I’m at now if I was going to give myself a percentage. And there’s still days — probably not a whole day. There’s still times where I value the drama-trauma more than using the tool to change it. Guess what? I’m not wrong. I’m not bad. It’s not the most horrific thing I could ever do. It’s not, guys. So please, give yourself some space.

If you’ve been new to these tools, or maybe you’ve been using them for a long time and you don’t use them a hundred percent, it’s still not a judge-able offense. You’re still not a judge-able offense. You’re still not wrong.

That’s why I wanted to share that, guys. It’s that every one of us is on a journey. Whatever we are, wherever we are in our journey. I have had access to these tools for 11 years and prior to that, many other tools, and I still don’t use them a hundred percent of the time. Big deal. How’s it get any better?

[00:03:12] So, let’s start. A tool to create a magical day is look at when you wake up in the morning and you’re thinking about your day — maybe you’ve got a calendar or you’re looking at— you’re just laying in bed, thinking about what you’re doing that day. Anything that doesn’t feel yummy, doesn’t feel expansive, doesn’t feel like you want to hop out of bed and do it, what I want you to do is just get the energy of that thing.

[00:03:44] Let’s say you’ve got a meeting with your boss later that day and you’ve got some concerns around it. Maybe you’ve decided it’s going to be a bad meeting, or maybe you’re aware that they’re going to talk to you about maybe a pay cut or something like that.

What we do with that is we have all of these energies. We have all of these decisions and judgments and conclusions and all the stuff. What we want to do is get rid of those.

[00:04:15] What I do is I just bring up the energy of the thing. I just think about it. That’s basically the quickest way to do it. I just think about it and then all my crazy comes up with it. And then, I use what’s called “the crazy phrase” in Access Consciousness®, which means I just repeat it over and over.

[00:04:31] Here’s the crazy phrase, super simple to use. In fact, think of something right now that you’ve got coming up. Maybe not today, maybe tomorrow, whatever. Something that you’ve got, some of that energy around. Let’s do it together, okay?

Everything is the opposite of what it appears to be and nothing is the opposite of what it appears to be.

[00:05:16] Now, you just continue using the crazy phrase over and over until it changes the energy of it, until you can think about that upcoming event with really no energy on it. “Okay, I’ve got a meeting with the boss later.” That’s what we’re looking for with the crazy phrase.

You don’t have to say it out loud. You can just repeat it in your mind. You can do it while you’re driving, while you’re with a group of people, you can do it in the shower. It doesn’t matter. You want to just be using that to break up all of that energy about the upcoming event.

[00:05:47] The other way you can use that tool is if you can’t fall asleep at night, if you’re stressing about something or worried about something, or your mind is just going [crazy gesture]. Repeat the crazy phrase over and over. It’ll put you straight to sleep.

[00:05:59] Another tool to have a magical day is to start asking questions. Really get in the space of I wonder what’s possible today that I’ve never even considered?

What would it take to have more fun today than I’ve ever had before?

What would it take for today to be more fun, phenomenal, and rewarding than I never imagined possible?

What else is possible with this event I’ve got coming up today that I’ve never even considered?

You can mix and match in and put all sorts of specific events in those questions. You can keep it open. It doesn’t really matter.

[00:06:50] The way that I see it is that our mind is like a two-year-old. Our two-year-old is often in this space of “this is wrong and this is wrong” and “this is going to go wrong” and “this is bad and this is bad” and “this is going to be worse” and all of this crazy.

We can’t just take that away. If you’ve ever spent time with a two year old and they’re playing with something that isn’t safe for them to play with, you can’t just walk up and yank it out of their hands. You can, but that’s not going to be fun for you. What you want to do is replace it. So, you take the sharp knife out of their hands and you give them a teddy bear.

[00:07:31] This is how I deal with that mind of mine. I take the sharp knives out while giving my mind something else to do, which is how I use these questions.

[00:07:42] Let’s say you’re driving to work and you’re worried about this meeting you’ve got coming up with your boss, and you’re in that space where your two-year-old is playing with knives.

“It’s going to go so bad.”

“It’s going to go so horrible.”

“It’s going to be difficult.”

“I’m going to lose.”

“They’re going to fire me.”

Whatever it is, doesn’t matter. Take the knives away, and go to question:

I wonder what it would be like for this meeting to be more magical than I’ve never imagined possible?

I wonder what it would be like for both my boss and I to be happy after the meeting?”

I wonder what it would be like for both my boss and I to be happy during and after the meeting?

Whatever it is that you would truly like, make sure you’re asking for that because that can change everything. Everything. If you’re willing to get into the question, the universe is always responding to our questions 100% of the time.

[00:08:44] Often though, what we’re doing is we’re asking questions that we don’t actually desire responses to. We don’t actually want that to occur, but we’ve trained our two-year-old to go into the worst case scenario. We’ve trained ourselves to be caught up in trauma and drama and trauma and all the crazy, rather than turn it to question which allows the universe to deliver that.

“I wonder what it would be like for both my boss and I to be happy during and after the meeting?” The universe can deliver that if you’re willing to ask for it, but it means taking the knives away and allowing yourself to ask for what you would like.

[00:09:30] For so many people, they’re not actually willing to be that present. There’s so much more value in the trauma-drama, of an upset with a boss so that they can go talk to their co-workers and they can talk to their friends and they can talk to their family. They can talk to their, I don’t know, dietician about how wrong their boss is.

[What] if we stopped valuing drama-trauma and started valuing questions and being the question? Truly, just [by] asking “What is possible here I’ve never even considered?” which is why I love the “I wonder” so much.

[00:10:04] That’s often what I’m replacing the crazy with my two-year-old is the “I wonder what it would be like for this to turn out better than I’ve never imagined?” That allows all of the possibilities that allows you to create a magical day, my sweet friends.

[00:10:22] A couple of things I would like to invite you to is Clarity Nights every Wednesday. Starting March 30th, we are going to have Clarity (Nights) Afternoons. If you’re in North America, they’re in the afternoon. You can join live here at our acreage, or you can join live via Zoom. We do have all the proper equipment. So the sound is awesome no matter if you’re in the room or if you’re online.

[00:10:46] And then of course, we have—yes, we do—Pool Party Bars and Foundation is set for July 2022. Yes. That might also be—Foundation might also be online. I’m not sure yet. Access hasn’t said if we’ll be able to continue to do online Foundations for them but for now, it is live. The dates are set. You can find the link. If you’ve got any questions, just reach out.

[00:11:11] Another tool to have a magical day is something that we call an Access Consciousness® the “energy pull.” This one might seem a little bit weird… and use it. Just use it. You will see how not weird it is. Maybe it’s still weird and it works.

[00:11:30] What you want to do—and you can do this before you get out of bed. You can just lay in bed for a few moments or you can do it in the shower when you’re driving to work—it doesn’t matter. But what I would like you to do is get the energy of what you would like your day to be like.

You might have some specifics: you might have that meeting with the boss later that you have on your mind, and you really like that to go really well and to walk away really happy after it. And, you don’t have to have specifics. But what is the energy you would like your day to be like?

[00:12:04] The way that I like to ask it of myself is “What would I like my day to be like today?” Not what would I like my day to LOOK like. What would I like my day to BE like?

[00:12:19] What do I like my day to be like?

Oh, I’d like it to be expansive. Yeah. There’s an energy with that for me. That was just like, ah, yeah. Okay, that yumminess. Yep.

I’d like it to be sunshiny. That doesn’t mean I’d like it to be sunshiny outside but for me, sunshiny is actually an energy. That might not be something that works for you, it doesn’t matter, but that’s just the energy that—the word I can give to that energy. It’s like, ah, yeah.

So there’s an expansive, there’s a sunshiny for me. There’s a laughter energy for me. The more I can laugh in a day, the more magical my day is. So there’s that energy—that laughing, giggly energy, that energy. Oh yeah. Yeah.

[00:13:01] And then there’s also this energy and I’m giving words right now to energies that I don’t necessarily have words for. For the purpose of this, I’m giving it words but just so you know, you don’t have to have words for this, guys. I’m just doing it for the purpose of this.

And there’s this magic energy which for me is like this potent, magic energy. Those are the few energies that are coming up as I’m asking right now.

[00:13:27] I’m getting all of those energies and we can do it very quickly:

What would I like my life—what would I like my day to be like today?

Boom, we’ve got it. Then, what we do is we start energetically pulling that in, yeah, which is more of a being than a doing.

[00:13:44] Don’t get caught up if you don’t really understand it. Don’t worry. The more you play with it, the more ease it’ll become for you. You just start pulling all of those energies towards you. Yep, just pulling them in—above you, below you, every direction around you, and you’re pulling them into you, your body, your being, your day. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:14:10] Now, if you have some specifics—if you’re going to a meeting with the boss, what I also like to do then—I’m I’m my boss and I don’t often meet with myself, so it doesn’t really fit, but I’m just being silly—is I actually get the energy of that meeting and I actually pull all of those energies into that meeting.

Again, I know it’s a being, not a doing, but I’m doing the best I can to give you the words so that you can play around with this and find your way. There’s no right or wrong way with this.

[00:14:44] We’ll put a link to an energy pull that I did. Oh gosh, it was one of the very first YouTube videos I did in my Weekly Inspiration videos that I do. Back in, I’m not sure, maybe it was 2015, 2016? I’m not even sure, but it’s called something like Creating Your Future and I’m in Australia. I’m standing on the beach and I do an energy pull for your life and your living. We’ll put a link to that so you can go and watch that and get a bigger version of it if you would like one, but it can be that simple.

[00:15:17] “What would I like my day to be like today?” and pull all those energies and then anything you’ve got going on in the day, specific that you would like to add, extra energies or more of those energies, and then you can do that all day long.

[00:15:31] Let’s say it’s 10 minutes before the meeting with the boss. You can go into the washroom and—not that you have to do this separate, but sometimes we would like to especially if we’re just starting out— you can go and you can pull all those energies in again. Yeah. Yeah.

This is one of the most magical ways to create your day, to create your life, your living, to create everything you truly desire as if by magic.