How Expectations Are Killing Your Business

Oct 16, 2022 | Radio Show

How Expectations Are Killing Your Business

Don’t let these expectations sabotage you.

When it comes to expectations, you have to be mindful, sweet friend. These expectations you have in every area of your life may be holding you back, even blocking your view of the infinite possibilities beyond. So, tune in to this episode as we talk about expectations and how to stop it from “killing” the magic in the business and other areas of your life with the help of these phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness.®

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:11] How Expectations Are Killing Your Business. Yes.

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[00:00:59] So, how expectations are killing your business from the Business Done Different – Joy of Business class that I am facilitating in London, England, or you can join us online [on] October 28th, 29th, and 30th, 2022.

If you are listening to this or watching this later, you can check out the link above or below because all of my classes are listed there. I have these coming up all the time.

[00:01:28] So, no expectations in business – that’s the topic here in the manual and it says:

Look at all the places you go to expectation of you or somebody else, and the projections of what it should be or what it shouldn’t be. What does that create? What’s the value of creating separation? The judgment?

[00:01:51] Yeah. If you’ve been around here for a while, you’ve heard me talk about my Reminder app, and I have a reminder that goes off every day. It invites me to clear all of my expectations of the business and of money.

[00:02:08] This is a fairly recent add. I’ve probably only been clearing them, say, for the past month from the Reminder app, which means that I’m doing it every day rather than just kind of higgledy piggledy as you might say in England. Actually, maybe not just England, but that’s one of my husband’s phrases and I never heard it until I met him.

[00:02:28] And so I’m doing it really cognitively every day for a while now. It’s really brought to light how many expectations that I have, not just of me or other people, but actually the expectations I have of the business, and in my case, the businesses ’cause I have a few different ones. And then also, the expectations that I have of money. What? What an interesting thing to put an expectation on, or probably honestly, multiple expectations.

[00:03:01] All of the expectations that you have of your business or businesses and of money, will you destroy it and uncreate all those times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®.

[00:03:14] I do that every day. I clear that every day just to be in the habit of clearing them. But also, what I find it helps me out is throughout the day when I’m doing the expecting, I can start to become aware of it. I can start to go, “Oh wow, interesting. Okay. I just expected that putting that post on Facebook would do this, or putting this class here would do this” or all of that instead of going from question, like, from no expectation. Just from, “Hey, will putting this post on on Facebook create the future desire or decay the future desire?” if it’s going to create it, then put it on but don’t have an expectation.

[00:03:55] Because often we go, let’s say, we have the awareness. We have a hit to make this post on Facebook. We do it but energetically, there’s all of these expectations we’re delivering. “Oh, I’m going to put this here and then I’m going to have 10 people sign up for my class” or “I’m going to put this on Facebook, and then people are going to ask me about my product” or like all of these things rather than, “Hey, it’s going to create the future I desire.” Whatever the heck that means, put it on Facebook. Truly, that’s the energy of living from no expectation

[00:04:26] If you’re one that does it with money like I’ve talked about—this has been a thing for me—or become aware of it… it’s probably been a thing for me for a long, long time. But, like, what is that? What are those expectations of money? Yeah. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:04:46] That is the clearing statement from Access Consciousness.® If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. But basically, it just starts clearing away as I’m talking about this stuff.

You might notice it starts to get a bit heavy. You might get a little bit tired. You maybe start fighting with me like, “You don’t know what you’re talking about, Glenyce! I have to expect of my staff! They won’t know what to do otherwise!” That’s where we want to be writing the clearing statement.

[00:05:09] Just look at your own life. When people expected something from you, did you choose to do it with joy? Maybe you’re not like me. But boy, oh, boy! If somebody tells me to do something or has the expectation I’m going to do something, I usually do the exact opposite, even if it’s going to create greater to do the thing. What if we had no expectations of anybody ever, including ourselves? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:05:46] I just want to run a couple of these clearings here.

How many expectations did you wake up with this morning? Everything that doesn’t allow you to perceive, know, be, receive that, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

How many of you are using judgment of you to stop you and slow you down so you can never, ever claim, own, acknowledge the capacities and the brilliance that you be? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

How many of you would rather the business fail than step into your potency to perceive, know, be, and receive what the business requires to exponentialize it? Ouch. Right? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:06:44] Truly, if you had no expectations of you, or the business, or money, or your classes, or your creations, or your staff, or the people around you, or your kids, or your family, or the earth, or anything, how much more magic could you receive? How much more could you actually perceive and know and receive and be?

[00:07:09] Energetically, those expectations are like a wall between you and that thing. Even just sticking with the expectations of the business, every expectation that you have of the business is putting up another wall between you and it, which makes it very difficult to commune with it, to to hear it, to let it be the most magical business partner that it can be. Yeah. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:07:38] Now, many of you heard me say this before, and it’s one that I use all the time. All of the DJCCPSERRJs that I have about this, whatever this is in that moment, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:07:54] All of the decisions, judgements, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections, expectations, separations, refined judgements—that’s what that acronym is—I destroy and uncreate it all so that you can start having that spaciousness of you.

[00:08:10] Because with all of those DJCCPSERRJs, those are all walls between you and the thing you’re doing that to. It could be another person, it could be yourself, it could be your business, it could be money, whatever it is. The more that you clear that, the more you’re going to be aware. The more you’re going to be aware of the infinite possibilities. The more magic you’re going to be able to create with the business. The more magic that you’re going to receive, and everything will start showing up with total ease, joy, and glory without those walls and barriers.

Everything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

Because what is truly possible with the business that you’ve never even considered? Yes.

[00:09:02] Again, if you would like, go and grab my free gift for you – the Ultimate Confidence in Business, which is a bunch of weird tools to really allow you to show up confidently to be you in business, that will then allow the profit to show up. Yes, profit, my sweet friends.

[00:09:20] And then of course, Business Done Different. Come and join me live and in person wherever. I would so love to have you. Have a great rest of your day and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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How Lies Kill Your Possibilities

Jan 29, 2023 | Radio Show

How Lies Kill Your Possibilities

Are you being honest with yourself?

I used to live my life in lies – the kind where I choose not to be aware of what is actually happening around me just so I could go on believing that everything is perfect the way it is when in reality, there’s a lot more that I could be creating. Sound familiar? Tune in to this episode to know more about how lies kill your possibilities and how you can start getting honest with yourself!

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:11] How lies are killing your possibilities. This is a topic that I couldn’t have spoken about 10 years ago. I lived my life in lies, and I don’t mean the lies that I’m six feet tall when I’m not even barely five foot one. Not those lies, but the lies where we don’t choose to be aware of what is actually going on. What is actually being created, what is actually turning out or happening in that sense.

[00:00:48] What I mean is if something is going on.. Let’s say, I’ll use weight for example. There’s been times where I’ve lost some weight, and then I stopped getting on the scale so that I didn’t have to be aware when I was gaining the weight back. It’s not right or wrong, it’s just a choice that I know that I have made countless times in the past. This is something that I would often do to myself to ensure that I could stay in the lie.

[00:01:22] Even from a business standpoint, this is where data can be really great because you can actually start to be aware of things that you maybe wouldn’t otherwise be aware if you weren’t tracking them.

[00:01:37] If you have, like, the size of your email list, from a business standpoint, if you’d like to be increasing that, that’s great. You just might wanna track it so you know which way it’s going. Maybe you do something: maybe you do a free opt-in, which means people give you their email address and they get a free audio download, let’s say.

[00:02:01] If you track how many people come in on that, and then, let’s say a month later you do something else where they get a PDF handout instead, then you can look at those two and go, “Okay, well, the PDF handout really seemed to bring in two or three times more compared to the audio download.” It gives you information.

[00:02:21] This is what I’m talking about. When we lie to ourselves, it kills possibilities. I don’t mean you have to track everything. I do. I love tracking. You guys know that. If you’ve been around for a while, I love tracking things. It keeps me present and aware, but you don’t have to.

[00:02:40] What you do wanna look at is [if] what you’re telling yourself [is] really true. For a lot of businesses—I work with a lot of people in business, obviously. There’s been a lot of change in their businesses. Even for myself, what I have seen is the quicker we come out and become aware of that, the quicker we let ourselves know that, the quicker that we can then become aware of the possibilities and what else we might like to choose, what else we could change, what else is possible.

[00:03:16] It doesn’t mean that there’s a story attached. We don’t have to say, “There’s a recession and nobody’s buying my stuff.” Not that, but recognize. A year ago when I had that similar class, there was 200 people, and this year there was 100 people. We get curious: Okay, what is that?

[00:03:37] The thing that I look at for myself with a lot of that, and this kind of sounds funny, is I look at, is it still fun for me? Because we can get into this idea that once it works, we should just keep doing it. What if that’s not the case?

[00:04:00] For me, I know that my business thrives when I’m having fun. I know that. If I love what I’m doing, what I’m choosing, what I’m creating, my business will thrive. So that’s usually the first thing I look at when something changes. Am I still having fun with this? Do I still enjoy this? Would I like to continue with this? I look at that.

[00:04:20] If those are Yeses, then okay, so then what else? There might be limiting beliefs or limiting points of views in there to clear. It might be something like that. It might also be that something else has changed, so then you just get curious and you look at it. You look at what’s required to change it so that you’re not in the fantasy of, “Oh no, everything’s the same.”

[00:04:47] This is why I talk about the tracking, because that tracking becomes a part of the information. I took a class last week and as many of you know, I’m starting up a Shopify shop. It should be ready. I’m so excited for February 1st, 2023. And so I took a class last week about setting it up and all the pieces.

[00:05:15] She does this level of data collection that I’ve never seen before. I mean, Wow. I was so inspired. What it really showed me was that she would know something is changing within a week of it changing. That is how thorough her data is.

[00:05:41] This is more from a shop perspective and the sales that are coming in, but not just the sales that are coming in. What’s the email that was sent out to about that? How many clicks? How many purchase? All the pieces that when she would like to go and send another email about that similar product, she can go and look at her data and see which one worked. There’s just so many pieces to it.

[00:06:08] A lot of that is form and structure. Yes. We want to add the form and the structure. As I often call it, “add the logic with the woo.” I do both. I don’t do the data to the degree she does, and I’m going to with my shop, absolutely, because I can really see the value of it. I can really see how much quicker things can be.

[00:06:30] However, with the question, with the woo in there, with following the energy, the lightness, and really merging them together even more so that we’re not in the fantasy.

[00:06:43] Let’s be honest, usually the fantasy is that either everything’s perfect the way it is if it isn’t, and also if it isn’t, then the fantasy usually is, “I’m wrong and I’m bad. It’s not working because I’m wrong and I’m bad.”

[00:07:01] No. It could just be it’s time to change something. In my case, it couldn’t be just that it’s not fun anymore, so it’s time to change something instead of it being like some personal like I’m wrong and bad and that’s why it changed. No, it’s probably I’m just not having fun anymore. As soon as that fun changes for me, man, I show myself very quickly.

[00:07:23] Look at that in your own life and be willing to be honest with you about one, if you’re having fun with whatever it is, but also the awareness.

[00:07:34] This is where, again, the tracking, and I’ve talked a lot about tracking money. I track the money that comes in, I track the money that goes out. I have a very clear awareness of our money so that I can also be aware of when things like that start to shift and change so that I’m not shocked.

[00:07:53] I do that because I used to not. I used to live, I used to call it “my head up my ass.” In fact, we have a radio show called “Get Your Head Out of Your Ass” about this back from May 2014. I remember that clearly because it was when I actually chose to get clear about my money so that I wasn’t shocked anymore. I wasn’t shocked when this huge credit card bill would come in and be like, “What? How did that happen? How did that happen?” No, no. Now, I’m aware of it all. I’m tracking it.

[00:08:25] The level of space and peace by tracking things, for me anyway, it’s huge. You may not enjoy starting, getting it started, or setting it up or whatever, but just recognize that if it’s something that you are living in the lies or living in the fantasies of things being the way they aren’t, check in with yourself as to maybe there’s way more possibilities when you’re willing to be aware of what it is, whatever it is.

[00:09:01] I’ve talked about money, business, and weight. You can use it on anything. Again, you don’t have to track it. You just wanna be aware of what’s required to stay aware of it and present with it. For me, that’s tracking.

[00:09:18] Anyway, just wanted to share that with you in case it’s something you’ve been looking at, especially in January. We’re in January of 2023 at this time of recording. A lot of times people are looking at their last year and they’re going into the wrongness of themself and it’s like, no. Just look at what is, get present with. How are you gonna stay aware of it? How are you gonna stay present with it? And then what’s required? What would you like it to be like? Merge the logic with the woo, my sweet friends. Merge them. Yes.

[00:09:47] If you are in business and you would like to join us, I have a training coming up on January 31st, and it will be available in the shop once it is complete about “How to Get Paid to Create Your Product.” Yes, and there’s lots of different pieces to it. There’ll be a link above or below. You can check it out.

[00:10:09] Of course, we have the 5-week “Beyond What You Desire” Coaching with me. I would love to coach you, my sweet friends. That link again is above or below. Have a great week and I look forward to chatting again next week.