3 Lies You Have Been Told About How to Grow Your Business

Aug 7, 2022 | Radio Show

3 Lies You Have Been Told About How to Grow Your Business

What lies are you buying into?

There’s a lot of information out there telling you how to grow your business, and it can be overwhelming to learn them all. Books will tell you that this is the “right way,” but some videos online will tell you otherwise. How do you go from there?

First, you have to know the “lies” about how to grow your business that you might be falling into. That’s why for this episode, I’m sharing some of these “lies” that I have personally bought into, and how the tools from Access Consciousness® helped me find what truly works for me and acknowledgize the magic of me.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] Do you ever feel totally overwhelmed with all the things you’re supposed to be doing in your business? All the “right ways” you’re supposed to be doing it? Yes. Today, I’m going to share three lies that you’ve been told about growing your business.

Maybe they’re not the lie for everybody, but for many of us, we do it very differently. I’ve been in business now [for] 20 years and I’ve taken all the courses, I’ve done all the things. I’ve read all the books, I’ve tried it all the ways I’m supposed to do it. I’m also here to say those may not be right for you.

[00:00:56] I do have a download — it’s a PDF. If you’d like to go grab it, it’s my gift to you. It’s got different questions that you can ask to exponentialize the growth, the success of your business each and every day. So, go and check it out. You’ll find the link above or below. If you don’t see it, reach out and I will get it to you.

[00:01:15] I know from my personal experience that we often think that because other people seem to be having success that what they’re doing in business must be the right thing. If we just do it like them, then we’ll have the success that we think that they’re having.

That becomes a problem because we think that those what I’m calling “lies,” and not lies for everybody. But if we buy a lie as true, we stick ourself, and then we basically just set ourself up to judge ourselves. We spin in this wrongness of, “Well, I did the steps one, two, and three they told me to do, or their book told me to do, or their video told me to do and it didn’t work so I must be wrong.” Guys, you’re never wrong. It’s just different. There’s just possibly another way, a different way for you.

Again, these lies are not lies that are for everybody. Some of them, it’s worked for some people, and I’m here to invite you to a possibility that if you are sticking yourself with these lies, if you’re trying to make them right for you and they’re not, let’s let them go. Let’s look at them a little bit differently.

[00:02:30] One of the biggest lies that I personally bought many, many years ago, I would say probably 2013, 2014, was that I had to be on every social media platform. I had to do it! That’s what I had to do. It was a lie for me because all I was doing was distracting myself from what was actually fun for me.

Facebook, I would say, has been a constant on my social media. I enjoy Facebook. I use it personally. I like being on there. It is a little bit lighter than some of the other ones for me. Years ago, when I was trying to be on every platform because that was the “right thing to do,” that was really difficult for me because I didn’t really get Instagram, and I didn’t really get LinkedIn, and all these things that I just didn’t get. It didn’t make sense to me.

[00:03:27] What I would try to do is make it all the same. Anything I put on Facebook, I would put on the other platforms, and it doesn’t work that way. The platforms have different ways and they’re constantly changing. Even what they were back in 2013, 2014 has changed millions of times. I’m actually a little bit more active on Instagram now, and then TikTok is one that I’ve used a little bit kind of on and off for a while.

[00:03:54] It’s looking at what are the ones that are fun or one that is fun for you? What do you use naturally? What do you go to personally? You don’t have to be on all of them. In fact, it’s probably going to just be a way to distract yourself from choosing what would work or what would create greater.

[00:04:14] That’s really the thing with all of these lies. For the most part, when I look at my own business in my 20 years experience, I was choosing to buy those lies as real and true for me to distract myself from growing even more. As much as I could say, “Oh well, that business mentor told me that and they were wrong” or “this book told me that and it’s wrong,” it’s not that. I chose them. There was a level of looking for distraction that I was also choosing. There’s no blame whatsoever. It’s just recognizing that maybe, just maybe, guys, we do things a little bit differently.

[00:04:50] So, that’s number one. Start looking at what platform, what social media platform lights you up. Where do you like to play? If it’s nowhere, that’s okay, too. That’s absolutely okay. You don’t have to have a social media platform. You just need to then find a way to be having those connections. People need to be able to find you and whatever you’re selling or whatever you’re offering. They have to know you’re there. So, how can they know you’re there?

[00:05:17] For some people, they just go to their local city networking meetings and that works for them. Some people can go to the grocery store and make five new connections in 20 minutes. Look at what is your way – what way is nurturing to you and your body and the business, not what way should I do it, or I need to figure out every platform, or I need to hire somebody to do all my social media management for me. Maybe? I’m not saying no, but really look at that. Again, there’s sometimes this idea is if the more I post on social media, the more successful my business will be. That’s probably not true.

[00:05:58] Again, check for you, and really recognize that there’s just so many people, especially if you spend any time [in] any of the social media platforms, really where people are telling us that you’ve gotta post five times a day, you’ve gotta be consistent, you’ve gotta do this, you’ve gotta do that. Guys, what do you know?

What do you know in business that you’ve been pretending not to know that if you would acknowledgize that you know, it would create and grow the business to be everything it’s asking for? Everything that doesn’t allow you to perceive, know, be, receive, and know it, will destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com and find out more information about how it works. It’s basically like a magic wand. Yes. All right.

[00:06:58] Speaking of Access Consciousness®, I have some amazing classes coming up in August. We moved the Business Done Different so it is now August 23, 24, and 25 online and here at my acreage in person. The pool will still be open. Friends, get here! Come on! Come on over! Pack your swimsuit!

[00:07:18] Also, August 23 is my 50th birthday. I will be spending it with everybody who joins us which I’m so, so, so excited to do. So, that is then, then the week after – August 28, 29, 30, 31 I’m not sure if there’s 31 days in August. But anyway, August 29 to September 2, not 28, is Online Foundation for four hours every morning in MY morning. Depending on where you’re at – Europe, that’s gonna be later afternoon, Australia, depending on where you are. Anyway, Online Foundation, the link will be above or below. If you can’t find it, reach out. I’ll get you the time links, also.

Come and play, my sweet friends. I would love, love, love to see you online, in person, whatever magic you can create there.

[00:08:10] Lie number two: the more that you do or hustle, the more your business will grow.

Let me tell you, guys, it’s the biggest lie that I’ve ever bought. It is so not true. Now, it might be true for those people who do not engage with all of the energies that are willing to contribute. What I mean by that is where we ask the universe, where we ask our business, where we ask the elementals, the energies. When we say, “Hey, what can you contribute to this? Hey, what magic can we co-create together with this?” Yeah.

[00:08:53] Just this morning, I was doing a couple [of] posts on Facebook about a call that I was doing this morning. I went and put it in one group and it just felt really heavy to put it there. I was like, “Oh, what is this?” So, I just asked this very, very simple question: What is this? What is this heaviness? I got that it wasn’t actually gonna create anything by posting it there. I was like, “Oh, okay.”

So then, I just energetically tapped into the class… Yeah. [It] just takes like a moment.

Okay, class. What would you like? …oh! We just did a little bit of an energy pull together. Then like three minutes, there was four new registrations come through. Yeah.

[00:09:39] I’m willing at this point—believe me, I was and I used to buy into the “hustle and work hard” and “work hard for your money.” I think there’s even songs about that. I used to do all those things and sometimes, I can still get caught up in it. Luckily though, I am willing to hear and receive from my business. I’m willing to get the energy of that heaviness like when I was gonna go post it. It was like, eugh. It just felt so icky. So, okay, what is this? It’s such a brilliant question to ask.

[00:10:06] Some people might go, “Oh, it’s heavy,” “Oh, I shouldn’t go,” “People don’t like when I post too much” or add all these stories to it, but what if it’s not that? What if it it was just the class saying, “Hey, there’s another way. In fact, there’s another way more ease way, way more natural for us way.”

So, when we look at having to do, do, do, instead of be and do… I’m not saying you’re not ever gonna do. I mean, I had to have the information out in the world for those four new registrations to find it. I had sent an email, I think yesterday? It was a very quick creation.

[00:10:43] Sometimes, my creations are like that. Sometimes, my creations are like, “Okay, we’re here now and we want to be out in the world tomorrow,” which was that this one came out on I think it was Saturday? Saturday morning. It was like, “We wanna come out tomorrow” which was the Sunday. I was like, “You know what, guys? Can we do it Monday? Can we have a little bit more space here?” which it was obviously okay with. It was just phenomenal and so cool. And so in that, it’s like, “All right. Yes, I will.”

I’m also willing to work with it. I’m not going, “Oh my gosh. It said Sunday, I have to do Sunday.” It’s like, “Give me a little bit more space here” because we also have to recognize that sending an email might contribute. I don’t know about you guys, but I don’t always read my emails for a couple days. I had done some stuff beforehand, and there was an element of being with it that was also required. The being and the doing… the being and doing together.

[00:11:43] This is why the question that I ask every day, multiple times a day: What can I be and do different today to… blah, blah, blah, whatever it is I’m looking for.

What can I be and do different today to actualize a certain amount of money today? To have more fun than I’ve ever had before?

Whatever it is, but what can I be and do different today? Great questions.

[00:12:09] When you look at that, really look at where have you decided you have to hustle, or you have to do, or you have to be busy in the business? Where have you made that valuable rather than being the energetic magic you? Yeah.

This is something I’ve just been playing with so much in the last probably week-ish. I’ve really started reconnecting with some energies that I hadn’t really been paying attention to, and really allowing that to really create with. I mean, the creation is at an all-time high for me, and it’s just phenomenal and I’m so grateful and it’s that.

It’s allowing all the energies to contribute, allowing the energy of your business to contribute receiving it all. Really, that’s what it boils down to. It’s receiving it all. There will be doing, of course, and there’s also a lot of being, a lot of energetics you can play with.

[00:13:06] One of the new creations is something that I’ve called like a One-One Personalized Energetic Exercise with Your Business where you and I sit down, we go on Zoom, and I basically create an energetic exercise by communing with your business and just taking you through whatever it is.

Again, you’ll find a link above or below. If that sounds fun for you, I’d love to play. It’s freaking phenomenal what has occurred with these energy pulls and the feedback I’m getting. Truly, what else is possible, my sweet friends, that we’ve never even considered?

[00:13:46] Lie number three: you are your business.

This is one I really, really bought into for years and years. I was what I now refer to lovingly as the “Bossy Bosserson.” I was the Bossy Bosserson. Whenever I thought of my business, it was me. It was just what I did. It was just me all by myself, totally separate. The business, me, just that.

[00:14:14] And then when I started studying Access Consciousness® back in 2011, it was a totally different invitation because it was looking at your business as a separate energy to you. I don’t mean we’re separate, but I’m not it. It’s not me.

It’s like having a baby, you know. If you’re a female, the baby grows inside of you, and then it comes out and then it goes out into the world over the years and does all the things. The business is the same idea, although not maybe quite the same, but it it’s separate. It’s not you. You get to co-create with it, but it’s not you.

[00:14:52] This changed everything for me, because what I hadn’t been willing to receive from was the most potent magical business partner I could ever have asked for that sat in the corner all by itself basically for 10 years until I was willing to say, “Hi.”

Luckily, it didn’t hold it against me. Our businesses are not like that. We get to co-create. I get to ask it what it would like. I get to commune with it. I get to say, “Hey, show me. Show me what you would like. Show me when you would like to be.”

[00:15:33] If I’m talking to a class or a creation, or like the one on Saturday wanting to be Sunday, it’s like, “Hmm, okay. Could we do Monday?” And you know what? If it had said no, I’d have totally done Sunday. I was also willing to be like, “Hey, could we?” This is really co-creation. You and the business get to play together, or businesses, and they all get to contribute. Yeah. Whew. Yeah.

[00:16:05] I would say probably just more so in the last couple years have I really recognized the level of receiving that the business invites me to that I just wasn’t willing, which was probably why I had it so separate for so long. I mean, I just saw me as it. I didn’t even see it as its own energy. In a way that’s separate, but it was like I was not willing to receive from it at all. I was working hard. I was pushing, I was forcing… oh my gosh. I feel exhausted just talking about it. Whereas now, it’s this beautiful co-creation of magic and miracles and everything that it’s asking to be with me. Yeah. [That’s] the best words I can give to that.

[00:16:55] All right. So, those are the three lies I wanted to talk about today. I really want you guys to start looking at this though for your own self. Really look at it for you. What are the lies you’re buying into? If you look at your business, what are the lies you’re buying into?

Maybe it’s none of what I just talked about, but maybe there’s other ones. Maybe there’s things – you read that business book, or you had that business coaching or whatever it was and you went, “Oh, this is the answer.” Look at that. Get present with that. Look at if there’s another way. If things are working with it, fine. Cool. That’s awesome.

[00:17:25] But if you’re judging you, if you’re going into the wrongness of you because something you’re doing isn’t right, or you must be wrong, stop it. Stop it. Just ask, “What lies have I bought here?” And then, start engaging and communing with the business. Hey business… hey business, show me, show me.

[00:17:48] Again, if you would like more of magic in business, join us for Business Done Different, August 23, 24, 25, online or in person, whatever works for you. I would love to have you.

[00:18:00] Don’t forget, if you haven’t already went and grabbed the questions on the PDF to Exponentialize the Business Success, all as a gift for you, my sweet friends.

So, have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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A Question to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be

Jul 31, 2022 | Radio Show

A Question to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be

Do you acknowledgize yourself enough?

It’s easy to acknowledge the contribution that other people BE, but what about ourselves? We spend most of our lives spinning on how “wrong” we are or how “little” we contribute when in fact, there’s so much that we gift to the world. That is why for this episode, I’m sharing another phenomenal tool from Access Consciousness® that helped me get out of the judgment of me to finally acknowledgizing the contribution I truly BE to my life and living.

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

Yes, I am in my mermaid swimsuit at the pool ’cause it’s July and it’s beautiful here in Alberta right now, and so many pool days lately. How the heck does it get any better?

All right. So, How to Acknowledgize the Contribution You Be? Yeah.

[00:00:34] I did a post recently about Hubby and I and how he had made a comment to a contractor that was looking at doing some work for us about how basically I’m the success – I’m the reason we have all of this magic. That’s very kind. However, it’s actually not true. What I know to be true is that if I didn’t have him, if he wasn’t part of this magical co-creation, it would be so much more difficult for me.

[00:01:10] That really is what we wanna acknowledgize for ourselves. I’ve really looked at how easy it is for me to acknowledgize the contribution that he BEs to me and the magic that we co-create with him. What about the contribution I BE? What about acknowledgizing that?

That’s really where this whole radio show was birthed. It was that we often missed that part. It’s ease for us to go, “Man, it would be so tough to not have that person in my world” or what the secretary does in the office, or all those sorts of things. It’s ease to do that for the most part, but it really is our job to acknowledgize us. Once we acknowledgize us, it’s gonna be so much more ease for us to actually, truly, truly gift that to other people.

[00:02:01] One of the things that I put on my Reminder app, you guys. If you’ve been around for a while, you know I use my Reminder app for everything, including clearings.

Every night at 9:00 PM, there’s a reminder. It used to just say “Acknowledge me,” and I didn’t find that that was so ease to do. I could spend a few minutes and just get the energy of what maybe I contributed to that day and such like that. However, I found a clearing from actually a long time ago, years and years ago. This is Access Consciousness®, if anybody isn’t familiar.

[00:02:34] This is the wording of it—I’ll see if I can remember it. We’ll definitely put the way that I say it in the show notes. If I don’t say it correctly, go to the show notes. You can get them in the email. They’re on my webpage, too. If you just go to www.glenycehughes.com > Radio Show > this specific show, it’ll be underneath. It’s basically:

What beyond this reality acknowledgement of me can I be for everything I contributed to today, for the magic that I contributed to, for the miracles that I contributed to, and for everything I’m choosing to be? Anything that doesn’t allow that, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:03:26] What that clearing does for me is it reminds me it’s beyond this reality. I can look at how, I’m not sure maybe I helped Hubby send a text to somebody. I can say, “Oh well, I contributed that way.” That is, yes, and how many beyond this reality ways did I contribute like that? Like, acknowledging all of it? So, yes, the assistance with the email and all of it. The more that we do that, the more that we’ll also be aware of the contribution we be.

Most of us, if you’re watching this or listening to this—of course, it comes out as video and a podcast, depending on how you consume this.

[00:04:14] Most of us that would be interested in this sort of a topic, it’s really is this space of spending most of our life in the wrongness of us, most of our life not acknowledging our contribution. In fact, most of our life, [we’re] judging that we aren’t a contribution, that there’s nothing that we do, that there’s nothing that we contribute and all of that judgment when really, there’s so much. It’s just that it often isn’t that linear way.

It can be, of course. We can help people emails, or clean their house, or do all sorts of things. What else? What else? There’s so many ways, and the more that you acknowledge yourself for it, the more ease it’s gonna be for you to be aware about it throughout the day.

[00:04:56] The other thing is you won’t then require anybody else to acknowledge it for you, and I think that that’s a huge [piece]. I know, for me, that’s a huge piece because I did spend a lot of years, probably more of my years, looking for that acknowledgement for somebody else.

If somebody else saw me as valuable, if somebody else noticed that contribution or noticed that just me being part of something changed it or contributed to it, then it was true. But if it was just me doing it, it’s not the same thing and yet, I have to be the one. I have to be the one for me first and then all of that, I can actually receive.

Everywhere you haven’t been willing to acknowledgize you as the contribution that you truly be in every area of your life and living and beyond, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®

[00:05:51] The other part is we don’t just contribute by being alive with a body. We contribute when we’re beings without bodies. We contribute there. There’s no limitation to our contribution.

[00:06:04] The other day, I went to a celebration of life for my sweet friend, Jen. Her and I had the same adoration of nice, hot sunshine and a cooler swimming pool.

Hubby and I stopped to pick up some flowers to take to the service. When I was getting them into the car, they were very, very high. When I was getting them into the car, I tipped it a little bit and I spilled some of the cold, cold, cold water, and it was a hot, hot day just like this. I was hot, hot, hot, and I poured this cold water right into my lap.

[00:06:40] I just knew that it was Jen contributing to a smile, to a laugh, and also to the cool water—very refreshing. I also had a dress on that wouldn’t have shown the water. How did I get so lucky? ’cause I looked at a different dress. There was another dress I was gonna wear and I was just like, if I’d have been wearing that dress, I would’ve looked like I peed myself, which would’ve been funny too, but this was such a gift.

So, Jen doesn’t have to be in body anymore to contribute and neither does any of the people that we knew or the beings and all of that.

[00:07:10] If we’re willing to receive from it all—the more we acknowledge us first, then we’ll receive even more. We’ll recognize it even more as if by magic.

I have a show from many, many years ago. We’ll put a link to it in the show notes. Gosh, what is the title? It’s something around acknowledgizing or acknowledgement. I say that so Ericka, one of my main magicians in the business, can find it and put it below. So, it really talks more in depth about acknowledging.

[00:07:42] But I wanted to do this show, really, to recognize that there’s always more. There’s always more. I’ve been acknowledgizing myself for a long, long time, years and years. And really, this kind of choice of doing it every day and recognizing that — a Reminder app saying, “acknowledge me,” not so much. But that clearing, that has really contributed.

That might not work for you. Know that you don’t have to do any of the things that I suggest. I just like to share my journey so that you guys know that it’s not like, “Oh, she started acknowledging herself in 2014 so she’s done that now.” It’s like, no, this is an ongoing journey.

[00:08:23] In fact, I heard Gary Douglas say once that we will often use the term, “Oh, I finally get that tool.” Like, I finally get it. I finally get acknowledging myself. What he suggests is to reword it, to be more accurate to what’s true which is “I’m getting that tool.”

Back in 2014, whenever it was that I really started acknowledgizing myself, I was getting that tool. 2022, all these years later, guys, I’m still getting that tool. There is no end point. There is no, “Oh, I got that one figured out. I can move on.” It’s continuous. Continuous.

[00:08:59] For me personally, it is continuous. It is about choosing greater and greater and greater. Sometimes, it’s coming back to tools that we’ve previously used. Sometimes, it’s the new tools that have come out. Sometimes, it’s the tools that you might have learned in your first Bars class that might have been 20 years ago, that maybe doesn’t seem relevant, but it’s hugely relevant.

The more that you’re choosing, the more that you’re looking to create greater, guys, this is the magic. This is the magic—the getting of the tools continuously without any end point, without any expectation, without any “This is it. I’ve got it.” It can create so much magic.

[00:09:37] I invite you so, so deeply, my sweet friends. If you have not attended or looking to repeat Foundation, I’ve got an Online Foundation coming up at the end of August. It’s online only, and it’s four hours a day so it makes it super ease to fit into your world. I so, so, so suggest it.

Again, for anybody who hasn’t taken it, you do require to have taken a Bars class. You do require that one, but you can take an Online Foundation, whether it’s your first time or your 50000000th time. You’re gonna be getting the tools in different ways. That’s what we do.

So, thank you so much for being here, guys. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Energetic Exercise to Be Way More Confident in Business

Jul 24, 2022 | Radio Show

Energetic Exercise to Be Way More Confident in Business

Overcome self-doubt with this energetic exercise!

In this episode, join me as I take you through an energetic exercise – what is it, how to do it, and also how you can create them for yourself. Not only can you use this for your business, but also to create, actualize, have, be, or do anything you desire in any area of your life and your living. How magical is that, my sweet friends?!

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Before I get hundreds of messages, if you’re watching this on video, this shawl–yes. How beautiful is this? My sweet friend, Karen, gifted it to me and she does take special orders. Her contact information is below. She is in Canada, however, [she] can ship worldwide. So, get yourself one of these.

Of course, it doesn’t have to be these beautiful unicorn colors that I love so much. It can be whatever you would like. Not sure if the camera can pick it up, but there’s beautiful silver gone throughout it all. I mean, amazing. Amazing!

(You may send Karen Olineck a message on Facebook or contact her via phone – 403 901 6406.)

[00:00:49] Anyway, Energetic Exercise to Be Way More Confident in Your Business. Yes.

Many of you know, I am now a Joy of Business Certified Facilitator which is using the tools from Access Consciousness® in business. Also, many of you know, and have done business classes with me, that I’ve been playing with these tools in business for actually 11 years. Prior to that, I have actually been in business for 20 years in September of 2022. I have some experience and I have a bazillion capacities with business and with energetic exercises. When you mix them together, how the heck does it get any better than that?

[00:01:33] That is really what this show is about, where I’m gonna take you through an energetic exercise and also talk a little bit about how you can create them for yourself. This isn’t something that you have to do with somebody else. This is something you can actually be the magic of. You can be the energetic exercise of whatever it is you’d like to create, or actualize, or have, or be, or do in your business or in your life and your living. Yes.

[00:02:01] I want to talk a little bit about energetics. What we often do in business is we do what everybody else does, which is very much the doing. We do the posting on social media, we do the talking to other people, we do the networking. We do all the things, and that is a part of it. However, what’s even more of a contribution, in my experience, is that when we BE and DO.

[00:02:36] To me, the BEing is doing from relaxation. If you didn’t catch last week’s radio show, check it out. It’s all about relaxation in business. It’s the doing from the energy that it’s going to create, not from the expectation. If I post four times on social media, I’ll get one client – that’s expectation. If it feels super yummy to post on social media, that’s being and doing.

[00:03:15] With the energetic exercises, at least the way that I do them, it’s really about you looking at what you would like to create and energetically creating that without the expectation, without the conclusion, without the “this is the way it has to happen.” You’re basically inspiring yourself to choose whatever it is you’d like to choose, and then you’re really letting go of control, which I know is a really big thing for a lot of people. Yeah.

[00:03:51] Here’s a clearing from Access Consciousness® that I recommend people run 30 times a day for 300,000 bazillion lifetimes:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, potencies, and power can you and your body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of forms, structure, significance, out of concentricities, and out of linearities for all eternity? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:27] I have tons of—well, I’m not sure tons. I have many radio shows about control. We’ll put a link below to a few of them and of course, in the show notes.

Guys, if you’re not on my email list, get on my email list! What the heck? Every Sunday, you get the link to the new show and you also get access to the radio show notes. Everything I say in this show, every link I talk about, every clearing I run, it is in those radio show notes. We’ll have a link somewhere above or below for you to join my email list, too, if you’re not there already.

[00:05:01] When we’re playing with this—when we’re playing with the energetics of it, what we’re doing is, again, that asking and the receiving. The receiving really has to be done from no control. It has to be done from no expectation.

A lot of times when people play with energetic exercises or energy pulls, we’re doing it from that, “I’m gonna do this, and then this is gonna happen.” A + B = C, and we’ve got to stop that. We really have to, yes, be aware of what you’d like, ask for what you’d like and then allow it to show up however magically it can show up. The terminology I usually use is “beyond what I’ve never imagined possible.” I’ve imagined a lot of things possible. I would like it to show up beyond what I have never imagined possible. Oh, yeah.

[00:06:03] A really quick way to tap into that is to ask: What else is possible with this that I’ve never even considered? What else is possible with this beyond what I’ve never even considered? Get in the habit of asking that every day, all day about everything.

You think I’m kidding? I’m not. I am not kidding, actually. Yeah. I mean, I’m 11 years in to playing with these tools on a daily basis and only in the last few months have I really, actually, truly shown up with some specific questions every damn day. What it’s creating in my world is beyond, beyond, beyond. That’ll be another radio show.

[00:06:51] However, really recognize that your mind is going constantly. Our minds are going constantly. So, let’s give them something to play with. Let’s give them something that would actually create greater instead of the limitations of “Oh, this is so horrible” and “this is so bad” and “this is so awful.” Let’s give them something, like, what else is possible here beyond what I’ve never imagined possible? Yeah. Or, play with these energetic exercises.

[00:07:18] If you would like some more of these energetic exercises, I have recently started a Telegram group where I’ll be doing lots of really fun things. It’s a free group to join, and I’m gonna be offering some energetic exercises with business next week. It’ll be the last week in July of 2022. However, you can join and grab them anytime you would like if you’re watching this later. It’s just a fun way to really invite you to really recognize that you’ve got these capacities too. You can utilize this in any which way you would like to, so come and join me.

We’ll have the group to the Telegram group below somewhere. If you can’t find it, always reach out. You can Facebook message me. You can email me. Go to my webpage www.glenycehughes.com – there’s a contact form. It’s actually hard to not find me. I’m everywhere!

[00:08:11] Anyway, let’s get to the energetic exercise. This is an energetic exercise to be way more confident in your business. This is something that I hear from so many people. It’s that they would love to do… maybe they’d love to do a video like this, but they’re too shy. Maybe they’d love to do a post, inviting people to their class but what if somebody says they don’t like that? Or they don’t wanna seem pushy or all this stuff, which it all goes down to this confidence.

[00:08:41] For me, confidence isn’t something you can learn. It’s not like you could just do the energetic exercise and then be confident 100% of the time in the next minute. Maybe I shouldn’t limit it, but recognize that confidence, also, is built. It’s something that you’ve gotta be choosing every day and showing up every day, or maybe not every day, that might be a bit extreme. You’ve gotta show up. You’ve gotta build that muscle, too.

Again, we’re talking about being and doing. This is the being part. This is where we start to play. This is where we invite the energies in. We invite ourselves to show up as we would like to and then when we are in those situations, it’s so much more ease.

[00:09:24] Okay. So, just taking a moment, closing your eyes as long as it’s safe to do so—you’re not driving or doing something that you need them open for—and thanking your sweet body. Just take a moment and just thank your sweet body for putting up with you. Ah, yeah.

Now, energetically expand out into the room that you’re in… and into the building that you’re in. Basically, what that means is you just become present with it all. You become aware of it. You’re expanding energetically.

Now, expand energetically into the entire country that you’re in… and into the entire Earth, like, all the way down to the very, very, very center of the Earth with that beautiful dirt and crystal energy, up to the continents and the oceans and the cities and the people in the animals and the nature, up to the sky.

And then, energetically expand out into all of you as the infinite being you truly be. Whew. Yeah. Now, expand out even farther than that. Expand out farther than you’ve ever expanded in any lifetime.

[00:10:39] Just know the moment that I say it, you already BE it. You already expand. Yeah. The more that you can practice, even just the expansion stuff, guys, the more magic your life will be because in order to judge and to buy into limitations and stories, we actually have to contract. The more expanded, that’s where the magic is.

[00:11:00] All right. From this expansion space, what I would like you to do is… just get a moment. Take a moment and really get the energy of what being confident in your business would be like. What would that be like? Not look like, not feel like, but what would that be like if you were choosing confidence in your business, in every area of your business, what would that be like? Yeah.

[00:11:29] For many of us, it’s just an energetic thing. It’s not like, oh, it would be this and this and this, although it might be, but it’s much more of just an energy of this beautiful expansion, this incredible expansion of being confident in every area of our business. Ooh! How’s it get any better than that, my sweet friends? Yes. Yes.

[00:11:52] Now, what I’d like you to do is tap in to all of the lifetimes. You don’t even have to believe in past lives for this to contribute. Tap into all the lifetimes where you were the most confident business person on the planet. Yeah, or galaxy or universe, doesn’t matter. Just tap into all those lifetimes. Again, the moment I say it, you already be it.

Now, what I’d like you to do is bring that confidence from all those other lifetimes. Just bring it into the present moment. Bring it to you right now. All of that energy, all of those energies that were available to you, that you could choose in those lifetimes because you were willing to be the confidence you truly be, bring that all in now to you right now. Yeah.

Anything that doesn’t allow that, Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

Once again, get the energies. All those energies that are present for you, available to you now, which then allows way more choices, allows way more possibilities, way more magic, you being the confidence that you truly be in your business… Oh, my gosh. Yes.

[00:13:07] Now, what I would like you to do is just bring to mind something that you maybe don’t feel confident in the business. Maybe posting on social media is an ease for you, or doing videos aren’t ease for you, or creating classes or whatever it might be for your business, networking, whatever. Bring up just a situation that you would normally not choose confidence in. Just bring that up.

Now, that confidence you were just being, that confidence that you were just aware of, all those energies, all that magic, what I would like you to do is put all of that into this situation right now. So, you’re energetically delivering that so that it’s there for you in that situation.

Now, take it out into every area of your business, even the areas where you’re super confident already. Just expand it in there. Oh yeah, there you go. There you go. There you go. Yep. Every area.

Now, take it out into your life and living so that you can be confident in every area of your life, you’re living, and the business, and beyond. Yeah. Yeah.

Noticing the more that you expand it, the more that you be it, the more that you be it . The more that it’s here now, the more that you can choose it now, the more that it can contribute now, and it’ll be available in every situation. You can choose it in every situation from this moment forward.

Anything that doesn’t allow that, Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

Yeah. Yeah. There you go. Whenever you’re ready, you can just open your eyes.

[00:14:46] That is how ease an energetic exercise is. With them, because I do them so often, I walk people through them often—a client, one to one sessions, all the things—I just talk. I just talk. I don’t have it pre-written out. I don’t have it figured out what I’m gonna say.

You might require to, because it might be new for you. You might wanna jot some things down. You might wanna go to the show notes and look at how it’s all done up and do it similar or totally different, doesn’t matter. There’s no right or wrong way, just so that you can start playing with that because the energetics is a part of it. The doing is a part and the being and together, TOGETHER, that’s where the magic is, my sweet friends.

[00:15:27] Again, I invite you to join us for the Telegram group where there’ll be some free energetic exercises and other stuff coming up in the future, also.

[00:15:37] I would love to invite you to Business Done Different. We’ve got one coming up here, July 30th, 31st, and August 1st, 9:00 AM until 2:00 PM my time. So, MST every day. Also available online. If you can get here in person, let’s swim! We can swim after class. We can have a pool party Business Done Different, but also available online.

[00:15:59] And then in October—yes, my sweet friends! It’s very exciting. I am gonna be traveling England. I am going to be going to places like Newcastle, and Liverpool, and Bristol, and Margate, and London, of course, and traveling, doing all sorts of awesomeness and classes. We’re gonna do a Business Done Different. October 28th, 29th and 30th. Again, in person and online. I would love to hug you, my sweet friend. If online works, I will hug you energetically.

[00:16:33] If you’ve got any questions about any of that, you can check the links. It will be below. If you don’t see any links or if you’re watching or listening to this and that links are not part of it, then just reach out. Contact me and I’m happy to get them to you.

Have a wonderful week sweet friends, and I wonder what magic is possible now.

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Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class

Jul 17, 2022 | Radio Show

Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class

Create more with your business.

I recently facilitated my first ever Business Done Different class and I’m soooo excited to share some of its brilliance to you, my sweet friends! Also, you might want to watch this on YouTube so you can get to enjoy the beautiful Lake Louise as you listen. HDIGABTT?!

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Now, if you are watching this by video, you’ll notice I’m not in the video. In fact, this video, I took last August during my birthday celebrations at Lake Louise in Alberta, Canada. It’s so beautiful there, my sweet friends. If you get a chance, go.

[00:00:28] I am using a clip from my recent Business Done Different class as the radio show for a couple of things:

One, I would love to invite you to my upcoming Business Done Different classes. I have one here in Canada at my house, Pool Party Business Done Different, and it’s also available online, July 30th, 31st, and August 1st. I have one at the end of October in London, England. Also available online. So, check out the link. If you can’t find it, let me know and I will get it for you.

Now, sit back and listen to me share some brilliance from the Business Done Different manual, all about relaxation and business.

[00:01:18] Please know this class is about you and what you can create with your business. We don’t have the answers for how to create the business. We have the questions and tools to assist you in choosing something different.

[00:01:32] What if you destroyed and uncreated your business as it currently is? Destroy and uncreate everything you’ve decided you are in business, and even everything you are not in business. Destroy and uncreate all of your relationships in business with everyone you work with.

Everything that is, destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:01:58] If that isn’t something in your daily routine already, guys, I highly recommend it. The wording that I do with this is a little bit different:

I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everyone and everything from every lifetime times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:02:19] The reason that I do it like that is it covers everything. Otherwise, I’d be having to do it with, you know, my marriage, and with my family, and with my business, and with my money flows, and with blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. This way I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everything and everyone from every lifetime times a godzillion, and it just covers it all.

Now, if you are really struggling with something, then it might be a good idea to do this specifically on business once a day for 30 days. I always say to people [to] do the general one if things are going fairly ease, joy, & glory, but if there’s a spot that’s really bugging you, then do it specifically on that spot for 30 days and see if that changes it, too.

[00:03:05] What jails are you using to create the dominance of E=MC2 to prove that you have no connection to joy, creation, business, and money in order to brave the insanity of this world, to pretend to live rather than actually living are you choosing?

Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

This is what this reality is really an invitation: to pretend to live, to suffer, to survive, all of the things that probably we’ve all done to some degree or another. This really invites us to actually living.

[00:03:55] Living is like a forward energy. Living is the choosing of it, actually living, as opposed to most people on this planet are doing life, which of course is the same energy in most part as death.

Anywhere you’ve done your business from life and death rather than living, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:23] What if you could do everything from a place of relaxation?

Relaxation is something we’ve been talking about in Access just for a couple years, and it really is the space of, for me anyway, no force, no push, no “how” like I don’t have to figure out how. It’s relaxation.

I can be relaxation in my swimming pool, but I can also be relaxation while I’m facilitating this class. I can be relaxation when I’m recording a radio show. I can be relaxation when I’m at a shopping mall.

It isn’t relaxing the way that when we think of the word “relaxation.” We often think of maybe going for a nap or playing, you know, outside of business, but really this invitation with relaxation is to recognize it’s something we be and it’s something that we can be continuously. No matter what we’re doing, we can be relaxation.

[00:05:29] There’s a huge energetic difference between somebody who sends out an email from push and force and somebody who sends out an email from relaxation. We all know that. You don’t have to be aware to know that you know that, you know?

If you talk to anybody in business—sorry, anybody who receives business emails, invitation emails, they’ll tell you. They may not have the words for it, but they’ll say stuff like, “You know what? I did see that one, but I just deleted it” or “I just didn’t get back to it.” It doesn’t mean it’s always, then it means it’s from force. It’s just often, energetically. We’re aware of that.

[00:06:10] So, be really aware in everything you’re choosing in business, whether you’re hiring people, whether you’re putting out a video, whether you’re writing an email, whether you’re facilitating a class. The more relaxation that you can be during that, the more ease it will be for you and the more of an invitation it will be.

[00:06:30] Relaxation does not mean that you do nothing. It’s more of a spherical awareness and receiving that allows the possibilities to come and almost just fall into your lap.

What if you could just allow things to fall into your lap with ease and joy and glory because of your demand of you and request of the universe, and then you live?

Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:07:06] The founder, Gary, says that if the staff of Access Consciousness® were to relax, Access would grow by 75%.

So, let’s just take a moment. I want you to get the energy of your business. I’m gonna run some numbers.

Truth, if you were willing to relax, would your business grow more than 10%? More than 50%? More than 75%? More than a 100%?

Anything that doesn’t allow you to be the relaxation you truly be that will allow the business to grow, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:08:04] All right, there you have it. Now, what magic will you choose with your business and relaxation that has never been possible before, my sweet friends? I am so incredibly grateful.

[00:08:16] I invite you once again to join us for the Business Done Different classes, whether you’re online with me, whether you come here to my acreage and swim in my pool, or you join me in London, England, or however I see you. I can hardly wait to hug you, my sweet friend.

Have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Tools When You Don’t See the Fucking Point Anymore

Jul 10, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools When You Don’t See the Fucking Point Anymore

Be the magic you truly be.

If you’re in that space where you just can’t help but wonder what the f*ck’s the point to it all, you are not alone. In this episode, I will share with you some of the magical tools from Access Consciousness that can help you change that! We are potent creators of magnitude after all – it’s time to be creating the reality we’ve always known possible for us!

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

I am in the city of Calgary right now. You would not believe that. This is such an amazing space. We’re here for the 3-Day Body Process Class with Kalpana. Oh, my goodness! How does it get any more beautiful than this?

[00:00:22] Tools When You Don’t See the Fucking Point Anymore. Yes. This is inspired by the Roe vs. Wade being overturned and my own process through this. Yes, I am Canadian. Yes, I live in Canada. Yes, that is something that went on in the US. I am a person, and I’m not stupid. I know that this will potentially impact us Canadians and everyone.

I also don’t wanna speak only about that. This really truly is tools that you can use to change when you’re in that space of, “What the fuck’s the point?” Whether it’s what the fuck’s the point in living, what the fuck’s the point in doing what I’m doing, what the fuck’s the point in any area of your life, these are tools that can change it.

[00:01:18] Now, the first one is one that you may ignore or you may not even want to acknowledge, but it’s all about your potency. This is something that I would say has been a huge tripping point for myself because I didn’t acknowledge it as potency.

Growing up, I was often called “angry,” or told I was angry and I shouldn’t be angry. “Good girls aren’t angry.” And so, I had a lot of really mixed messages that I was angry, [which] was (1) big lie, and (2) that I shouldn’t be that energy was another huge lie.

[00:01:55] I bought that and I really started to judge anger. I really started to separate from anger. I wouldn’t allow myself to be angry, and I wouldn’t allow other people around me to be angry or if they were, I would separate from them.

Here’s the thing with that energy, guys. A lot of times, it’s a potency that we’re being, but it seems like anger. And so then, we distract ourselves with it. We say, “Oh, well, I shouldn’t be this, it’s wrong,” all the things. Really, it’s not. That potency that we be is one of the greatest capacities that we have. One of the greatest capacities that we have.

[00:02:38] Often why we’re told not to be angry is because they don’t want that capacity. They don’t want us to be that—THAT. And so as an adult, I mean, nearing few months from 50, I’ve really started to expand into that energy because no matter what, for all these years, I’ve made it bad and wrong and all the things. It’s still there. It still comes up, especially in situations like what’s going on in the US with that and many things in Canada, too. Believe me, this is not just a US thing. But all these things that this energy that comes up.

Often, what I do—the autoresponder to it is to judge me, and then judge whatever the situation is. That only distracts us from actually creating greater. That’s all we’re doing with that.

[00:03:36] So really, if this reads for you, if you know this is you, please start looking at that. Please look at how much you’re distracting yourself with the thing or with the upset rather than going, “All right, how much more of me can I be right now? How much more potent can I be right now?” Instead of contracting it and dulling it down, expand it and expand it and be it.

[00:04:03] I often call it like “swim” in it. I mean, I’m not physically swimming in it, but energetically I’m swimming in it instead of that contraction. It’s the swim, it’s the expansion, it’s the allowance of it ’cause that’s what will change that sort of shit from going on. If we’re willing to be our capacity, if we’re willing to be our potency, that’s what would stop it. In fact, if we were willing to be it, that wouldn’t even allow it.

[00:04:30] It’s just that so many of us have really bought the lie that that is wrong and bad and we shouldn’t, and people have told us that and we’ve had experiences and all the things, but what if we let that the fuck go? What if our question — and this is another great tool with something like this going on. Actually, this is a great tool every day, to be honest. It’s Who am I today? and What grand and glorious adventures am I going to have?

[00:04:57] Who am I today? I’m not the person who used to play pathetic yesterday, or last year, or whenever. Who am I today? I get to choose. I could choose that pathetic. Absolutely, I could. What else could I choose? Who am I today? If I didn’t have a history of playing pathetic, if I didn’t have a history of shutting down my potency, who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures can I have?

[00:05:22] Looking at the what you might call anger and all that energy that comes up when you’re in that space of, like, what the fuck’s the point, and then looking at, “Okay, well, who am I today? Am I the person who handled it like that, or who would I like to be today?

[00:05:36] The other thing we really got to look at is this question of What is the beautiful energy underneath this? What is the beautiful energy underneath this?

Now, I don’t say that so that we make it right. I will never make this right, but it will give us more space. Ultimately, if you’re looking to change anything, whether it’s something that’s a global thing or it’s something in your own personal life or whatever, it starts with more space.

By asking What is the beautiful energy underneath this?, there’s more space. But again, we’re not asking from that place of, “Now, it’s right. There’s a reason for it. Everything happens for a reason.” It’s none of that, and give yourself more space. Okay, so, what’s the beautiful energy underneath this?

[00:06:24] Now, here’s a question. Please write this down. Put it on your Reminder app. What can I be and do different today to change this?

[00:06:35] Again, going back to the first part I was talking about, we often put our creative energy into “this is wrong” and “this is bad” and “it shouldn’t happen.” We phone our friends, or we make videos about it, or we go on TikTok or whatever. We find all the people to align and agree with us or the other way – “This is good! This is the best thing ever,” and we do the same thing.

What if instead, we start asking, “What can I be and do different to change this?”

[00:07:01] What can I be and do different to change this? It isn’t often something specific in that moment. It can be, but a lot of times just by asking that, the universe always responds to our asks. If you’re willing to ask, the universe will deliver. It might be in the next moment. It might be in 10 minutes. It might be the next day. It might be in 30 days. Who the hell knows?

But by asking that, (1) you’re not distracting yourself with the drama-trauma. You’re not playing pathetic. You know you’re a powerful motherfucking creator of magnitude. By asking that, there will be some awarenesses that come up. There will be some things that you can go, “Okay. Yep. That, and whatever it is.”

[00:07:47] That will also, at least it does for me, gets me out of that feeling like a victim. Feeling like I can’t do anything. Feeling like it’s all being done to me. Like I have no choice. Guys, we’re infinite being with infinite choice. Infinite beings with infinite choice. It can be really distracting to tell yourself you don’t have choice.

That is where a lot of the energies behind all of this crap that’s going on, all of this shit that’s going on. That’s where those energies want you to be because the more that you believe you’re a victim, the more that you play the victim, guess what? The more victim you will be. That’s where they would like you. They want you in that pathetic place, because then, they have control.

[00:08:35] The more that you’re willing to be the potency of you, the more that you’re willing to know that you can change any fucking thing.

The more that you’re willing to ask Who am I today? Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventure am I gonna have? and What can I be and do different to change this, that is being the creator of your life and your living. That is being the magic and the miracle that changes what we know doesn’t create greater on the planet. Yeah.

Everything that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs and beyonds.

That is the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness®. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works.

[00:09:17] Guys, let’s do this. Let’s do this in whatever way, shape, or form it is for you, let’s fucking do this. Let’s be the potencies that we truly be. Let’s be the magic that we truly be. Let’s create the reality that we have always known was possible way beyond this bullshit. Way, way beyond this bullshit.

[00:09:40] Thank you so much for being here, guys. I’m so incredibly grateful that you are on this journey with me, and I wonder what the fuck else is possible now? I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Tools to Need and Tug

Jul 3, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Need and Tug

Tug your desires TO you.

A lot of people believe that if you need something – if you desire it, then you must be forceful and have to have it now. In reality, all that does is push it away. What if you just need… and tug? In this episode, we will discuss all about “need and tug,” and the phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness that you can use to tug everything you desire to you.

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:11] Tools to Need and Tug Everything You Desire to You.

That “need and tug” is actually from Access Consciousness®. If you’re not familiar, www.accessconsciousness.com is a great place to start exploring.

[00:00:27] There’s a book that Gary Douglas wrote called “The Place.” Now, if you haven’t read it, I highly recommend it.

In that book, there is a guy who is needing some money to get his car fixed. The people that he’s spending time with show him this – I mean, we could call it a “magic trick.” We could call it a capacity. We could call it a BEing. I mean, there’s so many things you could call it, but basically it’s where what you need, you can energetically tug to you.

The way they showed him to do it was they had him hold a vial that had some gold in it in one hand and a vial that had nothing in it in the other hand, so that he could start getting a sense of the energy of gold and then obviously, the energy of nothing. And then, he could pan or put his hands above the earth and start getting a sense of if there was gold in that spot, because he knew the energy of gold.

Does that give you any ideas, my sweet friends? Yes. What if you could take it to everything? Like really, if you were desiring a lover that really contributed to your body, you could tug that in, too. I mean, there’s nothing that you can’t and don’t already tug in.

[00:01:58] This is the thing with need and tug. You are already tugging to you everything. It’s just that most times, you’re putting your energy on drama-trauma and tugging more of that in. Problems? [You’re] tugging more of those in.

[00:02:16] It’s really about you starting to get aware of what you would actually like to create, or have, or be, or do on the planet. The more that you’re aware of it – the more that you play with it energetically, the more ease it’s gonna be to tug it in. Yeah.

[00:02:38] Tool number one is you want to have no significance. No point of view about what you’re asking for.

This is a big one for a lot of people because there’s this space of if you would like it – if you’re needing it, if you’re desiring it, then you must be forceful and have to have it now, but all that does is push it away. Yeah, yeah.

[00:03:02] The way it’s described in the book is like playing like kids do when they’re building sandcastles. They’re just building sandcastles to have fun. Maybe somebody will come and knock it over. Maybe the waves will come and take it away. It doesn’t matter – they’re just playing. They’re just in that space of lightness and wonder and play.

What if we could create our lives like that? What if that was the space of possibilities for our lives? Yeah.

[00:03:30] That is really tool number one: is look at the things that you’ve decided that you need, or would like, or desire, whatever word you would like to use, and get rid of the significance of it. Get the lightness of it. If you can’t, then that’s gonna give you some information.

What you could ask in those situations is “What’s the value of making this more significant than me?” What that will start to do is allow you to recognize that you are the only thing that is significant in your life and living. That’s it.

[00:04:03] If you put that significance on—let’s say you’re asking for money or a new house or a new lover or whatever—you’re giving your power away in those situations. It’s really about you and you acknowledging your value in your life and how everything else can be like icing on the cake or like a sandcastle.

That is tool number one: you want to really find the lightness, get rid of the significance, and look at it as though you’re playing with sand castles on the beach.

[00:04:34] Now, tool number two I’ve actually talked a little bit about already, and it’s really about getting the energy of what you were asking for. What is it you would like? What is that energy? Just get the energy of it.

Let’s do it together right now. Just look at something or an energy you would like, a new lover, new house, money, whatever it is. Just get the energy. The way that I like to word it is What would your life and living be like if you had that? Yeah. That often just gives me the energy.

[00:05:10] Lately, I’ve been asking for ease, and joy, and glory. That’s what I’ve been asking for. ‘Cause you see, often what we do is we ask for the thing, and I actually did a radio show not that long ago about this. I don’t even recall the title, but we will link to it. We’ll find it. It’ll be in the show notes which you can find on my webpage or if you’re on my email list, they get delivered to you every Sunday.

[00:05:33] And so with that, it’s asking for all the things that you think will give you the ease, and the joy, and glory, rather than just asking for ease, and joy, and glory. That’s what I’ve been asking for a lot lately.

When I look at that and I go, “Okay, what would my life and living be like if every moment was ease, and joy, and glory?” I don’t even have to say much words. It’s already there. It’s like, “Oh, yeah. That.”

[00:06:00] Like the guy in the book, I have the energy of what it’s like to have gold. I have that. I have that energy. It’s like, “Yeah, I know what that’s like. Okay, cool.” Basically, what I do is I just tug that in. All the people, all the places, all the experiences, everything that’s gonna contribute that to my life, I energetically tug it in. Yeah.

[00:06:26] In fact, last week, I did a call—an energetic exercise with a group of people, whatever we wanna call it. It was called Tug Your Ask. Guys, if you weren’t part of that, there’ll be a link somewhere above or below.

It was about 15 minutes, I think? The energetic exercise itself? I did some talkings before we started, then I did the energetic exercise. I spliced it out so you can use it over and over. The feedback that I have been getting is phenomenal. Check that out if you would like. But basically, you’re doing that. You’re getting the energy of your ask and then you’re tugging it in.

[00:07:02] Now, I would love to invite you to an upcoming 3-part series. It is called Actualization in Business which is need and tug in business. It’s just that energy – need and tug is like actualization. We’re gonna do it over three parts because there’s a lot to this. There’s a lot of points of views to clear first to be able to get to where we’re going.

Join us. Again, link is above or below or somewhere. If you can’t find it, reach out and I will get it to you.

[00:07:34] Tool number three is actually a question. I listen to a call series with Gary Douglas from Access Consciousness® about need and tug, and he said this question. I actually put it on my Reminder app. It pops up every morning for me to ask this. I want to read it for you guys:

What tug do I need to create? Or have to have _____ show up with ease?

[00:08:00] Like every question and Access Consciousness®, we’re not looking for an answer. You’re just gonna ask that question. Yeah. And then, you’re just gonna allow whatever that is. Whatever it is. How I kind of end it is I say:

Anything that doesn’t allow me to perceive, know, be, receive, and tug it now, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

…which is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works. It’s like a magic wand. It’s amazing, my sweet friends. If you know nothing about it, and if you know everything about it, go to that page. There’s always more to learn.

[00:08:46] The other thing that I wanna talk about for a moment, for some of you, you’ve attended Foundation and you know that we don’t use the word “need” very often. In fact, it’s one that we’re suggested not to use because of the significance of it. If you need something, then you can’t live without it. There’s all that energy.

Just know that the word “need,” in this case a need and tug, is actually more like “desire.” Like, you desire it and you’re tugging it in. Remember the energy of building sandcastles and not having a point of view of what happens to them? That’s the way we’re speaking of need and tug in this experience. With need and tug, it’s more like desire and tug.

[00:09:28] Thank you so much for being here, guys. I am so incredibly grateful and I look forward to chatting again next week.