Weird Tools to Reduce Stress

Mar 27, 2022 | Radio Show

Weird Tools to Reduce Stress

Are you willing to be all of you?

How do you cope with stress? With everything going in the world right now, it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed and seek ways to handle life’s stressors. If you’re under a lot of stress lately or helping someone deal with it, tune in to this episode as we list down some of the magical tools from Access Consciousness® to assist us with reducing stress.

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[00:00] Hello and Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes! Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. This week’s show is Weird Tools to Reduce Stress.

Now, if you’re new around here, they will probably sound weird. To anybody who’s been around for a while, or maybe even listened for the 9 years I’ve had this radio show—oh my goodness, how did that happen?—these are not weird to you at all. You’ve probably even heard me speak of some of them before.

I share them as a way, really, not that you have to use every one. If you even just find one that you’re willing to try and you use that, that’s enough. That’s enough—just anything to reduce that stress.

[00:52] Now, what do I mean by stress? Honestly, really, simply put: anywhere, anytime that you’re not willing to be all of you. Anywhere that you’re contracting energetically, anywhere that you’re upset, anywhere that you’re doing insanity in your head—or maybe it’s coming out of your mouth, doesn’t matter—all of that, to me, is stress.

[01:15] For some of us, it shows up as us not sleeping well at night. For some, it shows up as drinking alcohol a lot or constantly, or maybe there’s street drugs. There’s so many things: there’s excessive shopping, and there’s so many ways that can show up. Really, using these tools or a tool—one of these—to change that can really start to give you so many things.

[01:41] I know for myself—I’ve been using these tools from Access Consciousness® since 2011, so that’s been 11 years. It has been one of the greatest gifts to really get a sense of being able to change it. No matter what’s going on in my life, no matter what upset I’m choosing or insanity I’m choosing, or it seems like totally out of control things going on in the world, I still have a choice. I have some tools that I can use to change it for me in that moment.

[02:14] A weird tool to reduce stress: Who does this belong to? Ask that question. Here’s the thing: We are brought up—I would say most of us, if not all of us—believing that if it’s going on in our world, if it’s going on in our body, if it’s going on in our head, it’s ours. It has to be ours. Of course, it has to be ours… or does it? What if it’s actually not?

[02:44] Here’s the other way to be with that: We are infinite beings with infinite awareness, which means we’re aware of everything and everyone all the time. That hip pain that might have started for you 10 years ago, that you’ve done everything to change but it hasn’t changed, Who does that belong to? Is that actually yours?

We can do this crazy thing of going and energetically pulling pain out of people’s bodies. We energetically become aware that they have pain and we take it out and we put it into our body.

[03:20] That’s why when we do all the things—all the right things—and it doesn’t change, please ask this question: Truth, who does this belong to? If it lightens up, it’s not yours. That’s it — it’s so simple. I know we like to make it so much harder than that. I know we do, but it doesn’t have to be. Truth, who does this belong to? Ah, [it] lightens up. All right.

[03:48] And then, the next word: Return to sender with consciousness [attached]. We’re asking it to go back to the very first person who ever bought that lie or that pain or that insanity or that upset or whatever it is—it doesn’t matter. We’re returning it all the way back. We’re talking lifetimes and lifetimes and lifetimes ago.

Returning it to them “with consciousness attached” meaning they can change it if they wish. So, it’s a huge gift we’re giving back. We’re returning to sender with consciousness, my sweet friends.

[04:23] Now, I know—again, I’ve been using these tools for 11 years and it actually took me quite some time to really start getting that tool, to really start getting what was actually going on because here’s the thing that I’ve found for myself: [you’re gonna have your own experience but for myself] anything that isn’t yummy and expansive and delicious and orgasmic and all the things, it’s not ours. It’s not ours.

[05:0]0 Again, if you’ve had hip pain for 10 years or money problems for your entire lifetime or upset with a sibling for 20 years, it’s still not yours. You bought it as yours all those years ago. You bought it as yours all those years ago, and it’s not. Really, this tool—I know, remember I said it’s weird—it can change everything. EVERYTHING for you. Yeah.

The tool, very simply, is when you have something come up—you’ve got some stress going on? Who does this belong to? If it lightens up – Return to sender with consciousness attached.

[05:44] A weird tool to reduce stress is to start asking yourself when you’re in those stressful moments—take a moment: Is this really true?

[You] see, a lot of times the things we’re stressing over are really stories we’ve added. There might be a part of it that’s actually true, but then we add all of this insanity that creates more and more and more stress. Instead of going into that space, what if you start asking Is this really true? and then get really present with what part of it is true.

[06:26] Let’s say you text somebody, and you ask them if they would like to go out on a date. You see that they read the text but they don’t respond. Uh-oh, now’s the story time. “They don’t like me,” “I shouldn’t have asked them,” “I’m wrong,” “They’re wrong!”

[06:51] I mean, we do all of this stuff, all of the insanity when really, if we were to use this tool and just go, Is this really true? No. The only thing we know that’s true in that situation [is] we didn’t receive a text back. That’s the only thing we know is true. We don’t even know they didn’t send one! Technology can do all sorts of things – they could have sent one.

[07:18] If you really, really would like to converse with that person and find out what’s going on, call them. I know, believe me, I’m the first one to not answer the ringing telephone. However, if you really are desiring to not have that stress, get the information, make the phone call. Stop playing with the stories that you’re so used to playing with, that you’ve made so relevant in your life. Those are not relevant, guys.

[07:51] This is something you really want to start—again, if reducing stress is something you would like to do, you’ve got to stop with the stories. Get really present with what you actually know is truth—the facts—and then, get the rest of the information if it’s required.

There’s gonna be some situations, you just need to acknowledge what is true—this tiny, tiny bit that’s true—and it’s over. It’s done. You’re not going to spin in it anymore.

[08:19] A weird tool to reduce stress is to ask this question: What can I add to my life today to change this right away? Yeah. Again, I told you – weird.

However, the thing is most of us require so much on the go. It’s dangerous for us to be bored. I know it’s dangerous for me to be bored. If I’m bored, I make up so many stories. I make up so much drama-trauma. I have time to play around with all this—STOP. Just stop. Stop with that insanity. What can I add to my life today to change this right away? And then, start adding things. It’s not going to be logical. It might be—there might be some logical things.

[09:07] Let’s say you spend a lot of time stressing about your body. You start asking what can I add to my life to change this right away? You see an advertisement for a new gym opening up in your area. That feels really yummy and expensive. That can seem kind of logical, but a lot of times, it isn’t. It’s not logical. It’s just you start asking every day.

[09:27] I have a Reminder app on my phone that at 7:00 AM every morning, [it] pops up a little screen that says What can I add to my life today? just to remind me to ask that because it’s very easy. At least for me, it’s been very easy to NOT ask that question and then get into all the trauma-drama and the stories and *grunting noises*. What can I add to my life today to change this right away? If you’ve got time to stress, you’ve got too much time, my sweet friends.

[10:03] I would love to invite you guys to some Clarity Nights Afternoons that I’ve got coming up! We are doing 5 in a row every Wednesday starting March 30. You can join us via Zoom, or come hang out with me here! The pool isn’t open yet. I mean, really, it would be very chilly. But come and hang out with me if you’re local — I would love to have you come.

We’re going to do these Clarity “Nights,” which is every Wednesday at 1:00 PM my time here in Alberta. You can check the link below for your local time. They’re all recorded.

Along with getting them, you also receive my Personal Clearing Loop to each one. Each one is where we’re going to take a deep dive and go through whatever the topic is. These are 5 topics that I really been choosing towards and changing and looking for something different. Hence, the reason I’m choosing this and the personal clearing loops that are part of it.

Now, you can join just for [the price of] one! You can join for all five—if you join for all five, you pay for four and you get the fifth one FREE. How’s it get any better than that?! If you can’t find the link above or below, just let me know and I will send you all the information. We’d love to have you come play, my sweet friends.

[11:25] A weird tool to reduce stress: this is the mantra from Access Consciousness. Repeat it, repeat it, repeat it: All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory. All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory. All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory.

[11:49] Now, that may sound like an affirmation. It’s different than an affirmation. Often an affirmation [is] where we’re stating something that we don’t actually know to be true. We don’t actually believe [it] to be true, so we’re stating it and we’re trying to prove it. So, it’s a really funky energy. Whereas this mantra: All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory meaning all of it: the shit, the yummy, and everything in between comes to me with ease, joy, and glory. It’s a totally different space.

[12:25] 10 times in the morning, repeat it: 10 times in the evening, repeat it; and then anytime throughout the day where you’re choosing stress. Just change those stressful thoughts and thinking and all of that to All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory. It’s also great to use if you’re trying to fall asleep at night and you’re not falling asleep at night. It’s [a] great tool to use because it will assist you to fall asleep at night. It’s great to use.

[12:55] Maybe you’re in [a] really heavy traffic and you’re stressed about that, or you’re stressed about being late because you’re in heavy traffic or whatever it is, you’re in a fight with somebody, you’re in upset with somebody – All of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory. In your mind—you don’t even have to say it out loud. You can if you would like, but just in your mind will work and it will change it.

[13:15] Years ago, I use that tool—again, I use my Reminder up morning and night. I challenged myself to 30 days because I didn’t really get it. It didn’t really make sense to me. I mean, I’m just repeating a bunch of words. What the hell.

[13:32] I encourage you to try 30 days in a row. First thing in the morning [for] 10 times, right before you go to sleep [for] 10 times, and then anytime throughout the day that you require it. I cannot tell you the magic that that created for me and continues to create for me. It’s one of my go-tos when I have any sort of upset or anything isn’t the way that I think it should be or all the crazy. All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory.

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Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Apr 24, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck

Are you living your life for you?

Do you find yourself holding back because of what people might say about you? And if they do, do you take these comments to heart? If yes, this show is for you! In this episode, we’ll list down some of the tools from Access Consciousness® to help you stop other people’s judgment from controlling how you live your life, and eventually not give a flying fuck about it. Don’t let anything stop you from BEing you, my sweet friend.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:10] This week, we are talking about Tools to Stop Giving a Fuck. If you are a person that takes things personally, that avoids judgment, that doesn’t do things that might create judgment from other people, this show is for you, my sweet friend.

Yes, because it is time to start living your life. Any time that we’re giving fucks about what other people will think about us or say about us, we’re not living our life. We’re living for other people. We’re being controlled by other people’s judgment, which is why other people judge. Heck! It’s why we judge, my sweet friends. I know we don’t want to admit it, and it’s the energy behind it.

[00:00:55] So, tool number one. It’s a tool I talk about all the time and I’m not stopping talking about it anytime soon. It’s the tool from Access Consciousness®: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

[00:01:08] Whenever you take it personal, whenever you receive some judgment — maybe you post something on social media and somebody comments, or you maybe won’t post something on social media in case somebody judges you, or you find out about somebody judging you from a friend or something like that, what you want to do is just take a moment.

If you need to go to the washroom or, you know, separate yourself from everyone that’s around and just go take a moment, get the energy of the judgment, of the resistance of it, of all of that, and go into interesting point of view, I have this point of view. Interesting points of view, I have this points of view.

It can be interesting point of view or interesting points of views, either. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Interesting points of view, I have these points of view. Just over and over and over until you don’t have that contraction in your world about it, until you can think about the situation without really a matter in your world, a care in your world. That’s ultimately what you’re looking for.

[00:02:20] Now, you may not get there right away. It might take you doing this a few times. It might take you doing this 50 times. It might take you doing this every hour for a week. Who knows? It doesn’t matter. There’s no kind of it-should-work-in-this-many-times.

It really is just utilizing this tool because every time you do it, it will start to unravel all of the places and spaces that you have made personal. [That] you’ve made about you that were never about you.

[00:02:50] When people judge us, it’s about their stuff related to what we’re choosing. No different than when we judge other people, it’s about our stuff in relation to what they’re choosing. So, it’s not personal.

We’ve been taught though to make it really personal and really wrap ourselves up into it and really look at how can I change so that person will like me or not have this judgment. Whoa, stop. No, use the tool: interesting point of view, I have this point of view.

You can do it in your mind, you don’t even have to do it out loud, over and over and over until you have the space of you.

[00:03:31] Another tool to stop giving a fuck. This is a fairly new one in the last couple of years that we started using in Access Consciousness®. It’s a very simple question: Is this relevant? That’s all you need to ask.

[00:03:47] Again, let’s imagine you posted something on social media. Somebody made a judgment and you read it and you go, “Oh no!”

Truth, is this relevant?

Hmm… no. Okay, carry on. And then, you get to do whatever you would like to do with that.

If it’s on social media, you can go delete it. You could go block the person. You could comment. Whatever it is you’d like to do, you have total choice in that moment. There’s no right or wrong way to respond, and you don’t even have to respond.

[00:04:24] I have done all sorts of things. I just find whatever is going to create the most in that moment. Sometimes, I will respond and say thank you, which is a bit of a, well, I was going to say a bit of a manipulation, but it’s a total manipulation. Sometimes, I delete and block them. Sometimes, I just leave it.

And then usually, my other friends or people that are hanging out with me on social media, they’ll comment in kind of defense for me. I’m not sure if there’s anything else that I do. I mean there’s a few of those options, but it’s really whatever in that moment.

[00:05:00] But the first piece that I always look at is getting honest with me. I don’t want to do it from a reaction like, “Oh, I need to get rid of that comment! I don’t want anybody to see that!” I don’t ever choose from that energy.

That’s a muscle, I’ll be honest. Years ago, I didn’t choose from that. It was like, “Delete, delete, delete! I didn’t want anybody to see it!” Because part of it was that I bought it as true and real. If somebody was saying it, then it must be true and real. But what if it isn’t, guys? What if somebody is saying it just to say it?

[00:05:32] I’ve been talking for a while about TikTok. Now a few years ago, I put some videos here and there on TikTok. Lately, I’ve been a much more active on there. But I put one on there which was just a fun video of me putting on makeup.

Holy Dinah, did I receive judgment! In fact, to this day, I’ve never went and caught, like, I’ve never responded. I never did anything with them. It took me so off guard. I had no idea that people would actually choose that.

[00:06:02] None of the platforms that I’d been on before ever have that sort of insanity. So, it was really interesting. It was also a really good place for me to use interesting point of view, for me to be the space, for me to ask about, you know, is this actually relevant? and all of that.

But at the time, I just kind of set it aside and didn’t go on it for a while and just gave myself the space to really go, “Wow, this is another level of receiving! How does it get any better than that?”

[00:06:30] But that is the second tool — is really asking is this relevant? If you happen to get a ‘yes,’ then you could look at, “Okay, what’s required?” If it is relevant, then what’s required?

There may be something. There may be some sort of action to take. Just make sure that that isn’t relevant when you’re asking that, that your response is an awareness, not an answer that you think it should be, because maybe you’re upset about the comment.

[00:06:59] Another tool to stop giving a fuck is something that you want to be aware of with regards to recognizing you are your most valuable product.

I actually did a class on it very recently because this is something I was really looking out for myself in the last few months. It’s where I’ve made other people and other situations way more relevant than me, way more the valuable product than me when really, we are each our own most valuable product.

If we don’t acknowledge that and we don’t live that, then absolutely we are going to get really tied up in other people’s points of views. We’re going to get really tied up in other people’s judgements. We’re going to get really tied up in that space of what they think of us.

[00:07:48] However, if you are your most valuable product, if you recognize it and you acknowledge it and you live it, then what other people think or say about you really doesn’t have an effect on you because you’ve got your back, which is all about being your most valuable product. It means you never judge you. You always got you, which allows the universe also to always have you, to always have your back.

[00:08:20] These are really the tools just to start using. You don’t have to use them all. Pick one when that judgment comes up, when you’re giving too many fucks about things that aren’t required to give any fucks about. Really, start using one or maybe all of these tools to start changing it so that you have way more choice for you, because that’s what we’re looking for.

[00:08:43] It really is about stopping giving the fuck so that you can be you on the planet. You can create in whatever way you would like. You can do, have, be, and actualize everything beyond what you’ve never imagined possible when you stop giving the fucks.

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Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business

Jun 26, 2022 | Radio Show

Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business

There’s so much more possibilities beyond!

For the past 20 years, I’ve rarely had more than one person playing in the business with me. Well, it’s just what I can control. Until recently, I finally hired nine (9) more magical people to join me in the team! HDIGABTT?! How did I do this, you ask? Tune in to this episode because I will be sharing how it all unfolded, as well as the phenomenal tools from Access Consciousness® that came in handy. You will be amazed how much more magic lies beyond what you can control, sweet friend.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Tools to Go Beyond What You Can Control in Business. Yes. I know.

[00:00:23] If you’ve been around here for a while, you know that control is something I talk about a lot and it’s something that I’ve been letting go of, a lot of, and still can do way, way more.

So, how did I do this? Well, how am I doing this is actually the better question ’cause that’s more accurate. How am I doing this? It’s an every-ten-second choice.

How this really started for me? Again, I’ve been choosing this and running clearings and making choices and all sorts of things.

[00:00:55] A few months ago, I attended the Joy of Business Certified Facilitator Training. It’s an Access Consciousness® class. It has its own set of work and classes and such which, of course, I am now a Business Done Different Facilitator! I have a class coming up in August, actually the end of July. July 30th, 31st, and August 1st.

If you can get here in person, pack your swimsuit. Come and play. If you are only able to join us online, that’s fine, too. We’ve got both options. We’d love to have you.

[00:01:31] I also have other classes on the book, so you’ll find a link or above or below or somewhere. If you can’t find it, reach out and I will get it to you.

[00:01:39] When I took that class, hiring had been on my mind for probably years. Honestly, for the past 20 years—I will be celebrating my business anniversary in September. For the past 20 years, I’ve rarely at one time had more than one person playing in business with me. I know that’s crazy, right?

It’s what I could control. If I’m just gonna be straight up honest here, it’s what I could control. If we’re gonna break it all down, that’s what was going on. I was able to control that.

[00:02:16] In the Joy of Business class that I attended in April, we talked about hiring. They ran some clearings from Access Consciousness and changed a lot.

And then, I read this section in the manual that basically said: Are you avoiding hiring to avoid all of those other people’s energies?

It was like, yeah. That was a huge “yes” in my world. It was, again, that control piece of if I only have one person, then I’m only managing, you know, their energies in my world as though it was something (1) that I had to manage or (2) that I couldn’t receive from. There’s so much crazy attached. But anyway, reading that sentence which is like, “That’s it.”

[00:02:59] What I looked at was, “Okay. Business, what would you like?” Business, what would you like? This is like tool number one: start communing with your business.

[00:03:12] I have so many programs and radio shows on this, guys, on how to commune with your business. You can check them out. We’ll have a link above or below somewhere so you can check them out.

[00:03:23] But really, it’s about including your business in your business. It’s about asking your business: Hey business, where would you like to have that class? Hey business, when would you like to put that class on? Like, including your business.

[00:03:37] And so, that’s what I was doing. I’ve been doing that for years, but I really intensified it. I really allowed it to facilitate me.

This is the thing that I would say is one of the billions of gifts that having a business does for us is if we let it, it can facilitate us into greater constantly. It can constantly facilitate us into greater if we’re willing. Yeah.

Everything that just brought up, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:16] That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. You can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for more information about how it works, but basically, it is like a magic wand that you’re waving and all of the stuff around, whatever it was about, starts to melt and go away.

So, tool number one: definitely communing with your business. Include your business in your business.

[00:04:39] Tool number two, which is very similar and different, is to receive from the business. Be the gifting to the business and also receive from it.

So many people do business as a separation. It’s like, I’m going to work from whatever, 9:00 AM until 5:00 PM. When I’m at work or doing my business things, then I will be doing those business things. When I’m done, I’m energetically gonna pull my energy out of my business and go do the other things.

[00:05:15] Guys, we’re infinite beings, which means we’re infinite energy, which means we can be present in our business, present with our family, present floating in the swimming pool outside. We can be all the things.

If we don’t separate, if we don’t pull our energy out of places and things and classes and radio shows and all the things, then you get to be all of it.

[00:05:41] In my case, if I was floating in my swimming pool and I was being all the energies and I was being present with all the energies, I would be aware the moment my little kitty Totty might need me. I would be aware when the business needed to make a phone call. I mean, there’s all sorts of things. If we don’t separate, that’s where the magic is.

[00:06:06] It’s very much like communing, and it’s different because you’re gonna be the gifting and the receiving. Now, with gifting and receiving, what a lot of people don’t recognize is it’s constant.

It’s not like I will gift now, and now, it is my turn to receive. That’s what we call the “give and take universe.’ That’s where most people operate in this reality. I will give you this, and then I will take this.

Gifting and receiving is when we don’t know who the gifter is, and we don’t know who the receiver is. It’s a totally different energy.

[00:06:38] For myself, as I was allowing the business to facilitate me and allowing to, you know, reminding myself to ask more questions and following the energy, I now not just have one person playing with me in the business. I have nine more. I actually have 10, I just realized that.

But yeah, I actually hired 10 people recently to do all sorts of different things. There’s so many things going on in my business. It’s so amazing. I’m so grateful.

[00:07:12] A lot of them weren’t getting done because there was just me and Ericka, my magician, I call her ’cause she does everything else. But just the two of us, there is just not enough time.

Now, with nine more doing all the thing, that’s joy. That’s joy right there, my sweet friends. I could not have got there until I was willing to let go of more control and allow the business to facilitate me.

[00:07:45] Business, show me. This would be another, probably tool number three we could say is Business, show me. Business, show me. Business, show me.

I also use it with everything. Body, show me. Universe, show me. Depending on what’s going on and I’m asking about, but that’s the energy. It’s like, show me, business. You would like to be even way more in the world? Show me, show me.

And then, it’s my job to pay attention and to follow the awareness. Follow the energy. That’s magic, my sweet friends. That is so much magic, and beyond what you can control.

[00:08:26] We really wanna look at that energy of what we often talk about in Access is “out of control”. If you’ve never done the How to Become Money Workbook, I highly recommend you checking it out. I will be doing another run through probably in September. I usually do it once or twice a year.

[00:08:43] There’s a whole section on being… in the book it’s called “being control”. But basically, what it is is being out of control. All that means is that nobody and nothing could ever control you, which means you have to have no points of views ’cause if you have a point of view that it should be sunny outside and it’s not sunny outside, you’re controllable. You’re pissy, you’re upset, you’re cranky, you’re whatever. It’s all the crazy, right?

If you’re willing to be out of control, then you’re going to be out of control and not controlled by anything, which means you get to be total magic.

[00:09:26] So, a clearing that you can use and I talk about this one all the time:

What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, possibilities, potencies, and power can me and my body be to be out of control, out of definition, out of limitation, out of form, structure, significance, out of linearities, and out of concentricities with total ease for all eternity?

Anything that doesn’t allow that… right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:09:51] Run that, run that, run that. Write it down. Go to the show notes. There’s show notes. It’s all written down for you already. Write it down. Put it on a sticky note. Put it on your Reminder app, pop up once an hour or something like that. Maybe even just once a day, if you wanna start small.

But run that clearing, guys. You will be amazed at actually how much more ease and joy and glory your life and living is when you are willing to be out of control. That’s where the magic is — beyond what you can control. Yeah, awesome.

[00:10:27] Okay. So, come and join me at Business Done Different or any of the other bazillion classes I have coming up, and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class

Jul 17, 2022 | Radio Show

Inspiration from My Business Done Different Class

Create more with your business.

I recently facilitated my first ever Business Done Different class and I’m soooo excited to share some of its brilliance to you, my sweet friends! Also, you might want to watch this on YouTube so you can get to enjoy the beautiful Lake Louise as you listen. HDIGABTT?!

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[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

Now, if you are watching this by video, you’ll notice I’m not in the video. In fact, this video, I took last August during my birthday celebrations at Lake Louise in Alberta, Canada. It’s so beautiful there, my sweet friends. If you get a chance, go.

[00:00:28] I am using a clip from my recent Business Done Different class as the radio show for a couple of things:

One, I would love to invite you to my upcoming Business Done Different classes. I have one here in Canada at my house, Pool Party Business Done Different, and it’s also available online, July 30th, 31st, and August 1st. I have one at the end of October in London, England. Also available online. So, check out the link. If you can’t find it, let me know and I will get it for you.

Now, sit back and listen to me share some brilliance from the Business Done Different manual, all about relaxation and business.

[00:01:18] Please know this class is about you and what you can create with your business. We don’t have the answers for how to create the business. We have the questions and tools to assist you in choosing something different.

[00:01:32] What if you destroyed and uncreated your business as it currently is? Destroy and uncreate everything you’ve decided you are in business, and even everything you are not in business. Destroy and uncreate all of your relationships in business with everyone you work with.

Everything that is, destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:01:58] If that isn’t something in your daily routine already, guys, I highly recommend it. The wording that I do with this is a little bit different:

I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everyone and everything from every lifetime times a godzillion. Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:02:19] The reason that I do it like that is it covers everything. Otherwise, I’d be having to do it with, you know, my marriage, and with my family, and with my business, and with my money flows, and with blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. This way I destroy and uncreate my relationship with everything and everyone from every lifetime times a godzillion, and it just covers it all.

Now, if you are really struggling with something, then it might be a good idea to do this specifically on business once a day for 30 days. I always say to people [to] do the general one if things are going fairly ease, joy, & glory, but if there’s a spot that’s really bugging you, then do it specifically on that spot for 30 days and see if that changes it, too.

[00:03:05] What jails are you using to create the dominance of E=MC2 to prove that you have no connection to joy, creation, business, and money in order to brave the insanity of this world, to pretend to live rather than actually living are you choosing?

Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

This is what this reality is really an invitation: to pretend to live, to suffer, to survive, all of the things that probably we’ve all done to some degree or another. This really invites us to actually living.

[00:03:55] Living is like a forward energy. Living is the choosing of it, actually living, as opposed to most people on this planet are doing life, which of course is the same energy in most part as death.

Anywhere you’ve done your business from life and death rather than living, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad ,all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:04:23] What if you could do everything from a place of relaxation?

Relaxation is something we’ve been talking about in Access just for a couple years, and it really is the space of, for me anyway, no force, no push, no “how” like I don’t have to figure out how. It’s relaxation.

I can be relaxation in my swimming pool, but I can also be relaxation while I’m facilitating this class. I can be relaxation when I’m recording a radio show. I can be relaxation when I’m at a shopping mall.

It isn’t relaxing the way that when we think of the word “relaxation.” We often think of maybe going for a nap or playing, you know, outside of business, but really this invitation with relaxation is to recognize it’s something we be and it’s something that we can be continuously. No matter what we’re doing, we can be relaxation.

[00:05:29] There’s a huge energetic difference between somebody who sends out an email from push and force and somebody who sends out an email from relaxation. We all know that. You don’t have to be aware to know that you know that, you know?

If you talk to anybody in business—sorry, anybody who receives business emails, invitation emails, they’ll tell you. They may not have the words for it, but they’ll say stuff like, “You know what? I did see that one, but I just deleted it” or “I just didn’t get back to it.” It doesn’t mean it’s always, then it means it’s from force. It’s just often, energetically. We’re aware of that.

[00:06:10] So, be really aware in everything you’re choosing in business, whether you’re hiring people, whether you’re putting out a video, whether you’re writing an email, whether you’re facilitating a class. The more relaxation that you can be during that, the more ease it will be for you and the more of an invitation it will be.

[00:06:30] Relaxation does not mean that you do nothing. It’s more of a spherical awareness and receiving that allows the possibilities to come and almost just fall into your lap.

What if you could just allow things to fall into your lap with ease and joy and glory because of your demand of you and request of the universe, and then you live?

Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:07:06] The founder, Gary, says that if the staff of Access Consciousness® were to relax, Access would grow by 75%.

So, let’s just take a moment. I want you to get the energy of your business. I’m gonna run some numbers.

Truth, if you were willing to relax, would your business grow more than 10%? More than 50%? More than 75%? More than a 100%?

Anything that doesn’t allow you to be the relaxation you truly be that will allow the business to grow, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.

[00:08:04] All right, there you have it. Now, what magic will you choose with your business and relaxation that has never been possible before, my sweet friends? I am so incredibly grateful.

[00:08:16] I invite you once again to join us for the Business Done Different classes, whether you’re online with me, whether you come here to my acreage and swim in my pool, or you join me in London, England, or however I see you. I can hardly wait to hug you, my sweet friend.

Have a fabulous week and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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4 Secrets You Didn’t Know About Money

Aug 28, 2022 | Radio Show

4 Secrets You Didn’t Know About Money

Start actualizing money #asifbymagic.

This week, we are spilling some tea about money that might actually be stopping it from showing up in your life. Tune in to this episode to learn more about the tips and tools from Access Consciousness® and the How to Become Money Workbook that contributed to me finally actualizing all the money, wealth, and cash I desire #asifbymagic.

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you.

[00:00:12] Four secrets that you didn’t know about money. This is an invite to my upcoming “How to Become Money Workbook” class that we’ve got starting on September 13, 2022. Of course, if you’re watching this later, it’s always recorded.

If you have not played with this workbook yet, get this workbook, all right? It is freaking magical. It is from Gary Douglas, the founder of Access Consciousness®, and… just wow. Just wow. I go through it with a group of people at least twice a year. I go through it on my own. I have been through it hundreds, if not thousands of times. That is how magical it is. What it does is it invites you to a whole different level of allowance, of no point of view about money.

[00:01:08] Okay, so secret number one—and these are in no order whatsoever. Secret number one is that money doesn’t have value unless you give it value.

[00:01:20] Now, here’s the thing. On the planet, there’s been a lot of value given to money. Certain amounts of money have more—well, the more money you have, the more valuable it is or the more valuable you are for having it. All of that insanity when really, if you just take a moment with money and… it’s like paper, or here in Canada, it’s kind of plastic. The actual cash is kind of plastic, or people use their credit cards which are plastic. So much is done online nowadays there’s not even money touched. It’s just numbers on a screen online. And yet, we give it so much value.

[00:02:01] The problem with that is that anything we make more valuable than us, we become a victim to it. Whether it’s a person, or money, or an event, or an experience, it doesn’t matter. We become a victim to it. We become basically what I like to call—we’re “money’s bitch.” If we’re making it more valuable than us, if we’re making it more significant than us, we’re its bitch. Yeah.

[00:02:33] A few years ago, I did a call series called “Stop Being Money’s Bitch.” I believe it’s called that. We’ll put a link below. It’s all previously recorded. It’s phenomenal. But do check that out ’cause it’s about that. It’s about stopping to make it more valuable than us, recognizing we’re the most valuable—we are the most valuable in our life. Okay? For us.

[00:02:56] You, in your life, are the most valuable. Me, in my life, [is] the most valuable. But really recognizing that not money, not where you live, not who you’re sleeping with, not what you do – none of that is valuable. But when you give it value, you become less than it. You become it’s bitch. Yeah.

[00:03:15] That’s a secret that most people don’t recognize because it only has the value you give it. What if you stop giving it the value of being more than you? What if you just recognize it as money?

[00:03:30] Secret number two is that your points of views about money is what’s creating your reality.

Dr. Dain Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness®, he said for years, your point of view creates your reality which is basically what I just said. Your points of views about money is what’s creating your financial reality. Yeah. Not the government, not the circumstances, not your job, not the business, not the wife, the husband—nothing. It’s your points of views.

[00:04:03] You could get really excited about this and go, “Wait a minute. If it’s my points of views that are creating my financial reality, what points of views could I change to create the financial reality I would like?” There’s a question, my sweet friends!

[00:04:22] Another way to ask that is you could look at a money thing you’ve got going on and you could ask yourself, “What is the point of view that I’m operating from in this situation?“

I know for myself personally because I’ve been using that for years. It’s actually one of the tools in the How to Become Money Workbook. There’s so many tools in the How to Become Money Workbook. I know! A lot of people read it and don’t even recognize it, and maybe they even read it 50 times [and] they don’t even recognize it.

[00:04:51] I actually went through it word by word and wrote out each tool that’s in there. I think there’s something like 45 or so. I don’t remember for sure, but it’s like [a] huge amount of tools in there! But that’s one of them, like, What is the point of view that I’m operating from creating this?

[00:05:13] The thing with points of views, guys, is we get to change them. We get to change them. If there’s a point of view—let’s say you go to lack. Let’s say that’s the point of view. That’s one of mine that’s been there for years that comes up often. It’s this lack mentality, this lack point of view. There’s not enough. There’s not enough. There’s not enough.

Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

There’s not enough. There’s never enough. There’s not enough. There’s never enough. There’s not enough. There’s not enough. There’s not enough.

Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view.

That’s how you can change points of views. It’s so quick. It’s so ease. The trick, really, is to recognize when you’re operating from a point of view.

[00:06:22] [In] my experience, it’s so easy to buy the lie that that’s just the way it is. “Oh, well, the government did this and that’s why we don’t have any money.” Everybody goes, “Oh yeah, that’s why. Yeah. Yeah.” That’s an interesting point of view but everybody’s talking about it like it’s reality, like it’s just the way it is! It’s not. It’s an interesting point of view.

[00:06:45] That is a secret that most people aren’t even willing to acknowledge is that their points of views are what’s creating their financial reality. You want to change it? Change your point of view.

[00:06:55] The third secret is the more you want money, the less you’ll have it.

The word “want” actually means “to lack.” Lack the money. I want more money – I lack more money. The universe responds, sweet friends!

[00:07:16] This is something I learned in my years and years and years studying the tools of Access Consciousness®. It’s to really start getting present with the definition of words. The word want, if you were to look it up, it has, I believe, 27 different definitions that mean “to lack.” Only one of them actually means “to have.” So, stop “wanting” money and start “choosing” money.

I’m choosing money today.

What can I be and do different today to actualize more money right away?

I’m having more money today.

[00:07:53] Start using words that are actually true. Often when we use the word want, if you just change that to actualize, that’s more what you’re really meaning. “I would like to actualize more money.” “I’m actualizing more money.” That means it’s showing up.

[00:08:10] “Want” means “to lack.” Now, how can you use this for you? Let me tell you. It’s something that we do in all Foundation classes and such, and it’s: I don’t want more money.

Say it along with me. We’re gonna say it 10 times.

I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money. I don’t want more money.

…which will lighten you up because that’s actually what’s true. You don’t lack money. You don’t lack money. You don’t! Now, how can I say that so blatantly? How can I say that as though it’s fact? It takes us to secret number [four]: money is energy.

[00:08:59] Money isn’t “energy” and “everything is energy, and it’s okay to have money because it’s energy.” It’s not that. I used to do that. I used to really reason and justify me receiving money by that – “Oh, money is energy” and all that significance.

[00:09:15] No, money is just energy. Money has no different energy than dog shit. That’s also something that’s talked about in this book about how it’s no different. My body is energy. This beautiful sweater from my sweet friend Karen is energy. My microphone is energy. The trees outside are energy. The dog shit—I don’t think we have any in our yard, but we probably got cat shit out there somewhere—is energy. It’s just energy. Money is energy.

[00:09:46] That’s how I know you don’t lack money. You don’t lack energy! You don’t lack energy. You don’t lack money. I don’t want money. And then looking at money is energy.

[00:09:59] If we don’t make it significant, go back to secret number one. If we clear our points of views about it, if we stop wanting it and start choosing it, then money can show up as if by magic.

[00:10:14] When I say “as if by magic,” I don’t mean that I’m going to close my eyes and I’m gonna open them and there’ll be, you know, millions of dollars in front of me. Although, let’s take a moment and give that a sec. Damn! What would it take? I’m not saying it’s not possible, but what you want to recognize is that it isn’t about that.

[00:10:33] So often people go, “Okay, well, money is energy and I just want it as if by magic so I’m gonna sit on my couch, I’m not gonna do nothing, and I’m just gonna wish and hope and pray and it’s gonna show up.”

[00:10:43] That has not been my experience so far. I ask. I take action. I continuously clear my points of views. I continuously be different energies. I actualize. I receive. There’s being and doing as part of it. There’s two pieces to it and way more. That’s pretty limiting to say there’s two.

[00:11:11] Please recognize that if you’re just sitting around hoping, wishing, praying that it shows up in front of you when you close your eyes for 10 seconds ’cause you’ve asked for it, that might not be it. You might want to start asking: What can I be and do different today to actualize the money I’m asking for right away?

[00:11:30] Something else that I learned. There was one time—oh gosh. Three? Four? I’m not even sure how many years ago, that I actually went through the 13 questions in the workbook every day with a group of people for a hundred days. Yes, I am that much. As you can also tell on my makeup, I’m just that much. I’m just that much.

[00:11:54] What I finally received—the awareness I finally had after probably 60 times of going through the questions was money is energy. Money is everything. Money is all the things I mentioned before and everything else. Cash, though, is cash.

[00:12:15] If you would like to pay your rent, you probably want to be asking for cash, also. If you hear me, you’ll often hear me say money and wealth and cash. Cash is money, but so is a hug. So is a rainstorm. So is cat shit, dog shit. Those things can all show up in a day and I want to make sure I’m asking for the cash I would like, also.

I wonder what it would be like for all of the money and all of the wealth and all of the cash that you’ve never even considered asking for showing up as if by magic?

What could you be and do different today to actualize all of the money, the wealth, and the cash that you would like?

Yeah. Yeah. Awesome, guys.

[00:13:08] Again, I invite you come and play. We’ve got 13 weeks of the How to Become Money Workbook. We’re gonna go through a chapter a week and we are going to do an energetic exercise related to that chapter each week. How’s it get any better than that?

Information is above or below. If you don’t see it or you’re listening to this audibly, it is in the show notes, or you can reach out to me and I will get it for you.

Have a great week, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again next week.