
How to Follow the Energy
Do you know how to follow the energy?
Do you know how to follow the energy?
What are the infinite possibilities?
When you trust the universe, it will open you up to a gazillion possibilities you have never even considered. In this episode, Glenyce discusses these tools from Access Consciousness you can utilize to do exactly that – trust the universe and create the future you desire.
[00:26] You can only ever trust yourself. The minute you put your trust into something or someone else, you’ve already given your power away. It’s because by doing so, you also shut off your awareness. You trust them and put up these “blinders” rather than asking yourself if you’re willing to trust you with regards to them.
[01:11] You can trust the universe, because YOU ARE IT. It isn’t about this big energy outside of you that’s greater than you, dictating your life. The universe is everything around us, including us. We are not separate, we are oneness. Therefore, this is really about the tools to trust you.
[02:04] Trust is knowing that you will always do what you’ve always done as opposed to this reality’s meaning of trust which is blind faith. When you trust people when they say they would or wouldn’t do something, there’s those blinders that you need to take off. Trust is knowing that the person, the situation, the event, or the universe will always do what it’s always done.
[05:48] There were lots of times that I didn’t trust me until I started playing with the tools from Access Consciousness. I really got a sense of what trust is: (1) I only trust me; and (2) I’m willing to be honest with me when I’m actually trusting me in regards to something else.
[08:04] When we do trust that people will do what they’ve always done, we don’t want to project that on them. There is an energetic difference between trusting and expecting a person to do what they’ve always done, and that is being totally open to any possibility.
[09:39] Know that trust is knowing that you will always do what you’ve always done. In the case of other people, that they will always do what they’ve always done. The universe will do what it’s always done.
The universe has your back to the degree that you have your back.
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Having your back means you don’t judge you or you don’t judge at all. The thing about judgment is even though you think they’re yours, they’re not. Your only job is to let them go through.
[11:52] When we become aware of us being judgmental, let it go up. You can use the tool of Who does this belong to? Return to sender with consciousness or Interesting point of view, I have this point of view over and over. Stop playing with the judgment as though it’s yours. Those judgy points of view are not yours. But the minute you play with them, they become yours.
13:28 Our awareness might show up differently. You might be more of a knower than a perceiver. A Perceiver perceives the energy of lightness and heaviness while a Knower gets it in a split second. However, what we often do is we’ve heard the idea of light and heavy so much that we try to make that real and the only way.
[14:10] Start looking at how you read your awareness. There’s no right or wrong way to your awareness, you just want to start honoring it.
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Once we play with our awareness, we start to get a sense of what is true for us. The next tool would be to start asking everything. Truth: Will it create the future desire decay the future desire? You ask that of everything – that is trusting the universe.
[15:07] Once you start choosing to create the future you desire, guess what shows up? The future you desire.
But first… clear the points of view!
[16:50] Often, what we have is the fantasy of what we think it should be or the fantasy of what we would like it to be rather than truly asking a question. You want to make sure that you’re clearing the points of view before you ask the question. Run this: All of the decisions, judgments, conclusions, computations, projections, rejections expectations, separations, and refined judgments that I have about this, I destroy and uncreate them all. Right, wrong, GOOD, BAD, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
[19:38] Another question you can run is: What energy, space, consciousness, choice, magic, miracles, mysteries, and possibilities can you and your body be to allow the abundant universe to provide you with a multiplicity of possibilities designed to support and encompass your growth, your awareness, and your joyful expression of life? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up as if by magic we destroy and uncreate it all. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine POD POC, shorts, boys and beyonds. You’re allowing the abundant universe to provide you with all of these beautiful possibilities. Truly, how does it get any more magical than that?
[21:05] When it doesn’t show up the way we think or decided it’s supposed to, we often wonder what we did wrong, or that we screwed up. That’s never going to create the future you desire.
[21:39] You want to be asking What is right about this I’m not getting? because when you’re willing to ask that, a whole multiplicity of possibilities get to show up because the universe has your back. The more that you’re willing to get out of the wrongness, the more of your back the universe can have.
[22:26] When it seems like it’s not going the way that you thought it should based on what you chose, ask: Truth, is this the change I’ve been asking for? It never shows up the way we think it will, so be willing to stay aware by asking the questions. That will allow you to trust you more every day, which then will allow you to trust the universe, which then will allow you to be all of you and generate, create and actualize the life you truly desire.
For the first time in 19 years, I did not feel as excited as I used to towards my business… I remember even spending months trying to figure out “the problem” in hopes of fixing it. Until Heather Nichols, a fellow Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, asked me this question that TRULY changed my business. The question has gifted me SO MUCH — more magic has been occurring in the business (and in my life) since then!
If you’ve been wanting to change something in your business or anything in your life, ask this question all day, every day. What else is possible that you have never even considered?
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[00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
[00:14] This week, what are we talking about? We’re talking about business and the question that changed my business this summer. Yeah.
Now, you don’t have to have a business to receive from this show because a lot of what I’m talking about will probably contribute to every area of your life. It certainly did mine, and it started in business. All right, let’s start at the beginning.
[00:41] Earlier this year, which is 2021 — depending on when you’re listening, I know a lot of times people listen later — I was not having the same sort of energy in the business that I’m used to. I’m used to this really creative flow of energy that is so inspiring and so delicious and just — I’m just so freakin’ grateful for. I just didn’t have much of that earlier this year.
I was asked this question in August — probably for maybe four or five months before that. It just wasn’t the same. It probably took me a little while to really get present with it. I would say — and I’m just guessing here because I don’t really remember but, you know — it probably started and then I thought, “Oh, you know, this will change” or it’s just “I’m tired” or it’s, you know, all the conclusions and stuff.
[01:38] And then when it didn’t change, that’s when I started looking at it. The thing is — what I did, though, is I looked at it from trying to fix the problem. Now, I know none of you are as silly as me but that’s what I was doing. I was looking at it as being a problem and how can I fix the problem. Yeah. So then, that didn’t work.
Spoiler alert: that does not work. Do not try to fix the problem because guess what? When you’re trying to fix the problem, what’s actually occurring is that you’re buying the lie that there is a problem, which means then you have to figure out what the problem is. And you can’t figure out what the problem is because the problem is a lie, so then you end up on this ridiculous hamster wheel. So, don’t look for the problem.
If you would like to hear more about this, check out this radio show, The Problem with Problems.
[02:31] And so, I spent a few months looking for the problem so I could fix the problem, so I didn’t have the problem anymore. It sounds so funny now. And at the time, I just wasn’t willing to be as aware as I am today. How does it get any better? So then what occurred was I started actually asking…
If you would like to hear more about this tool, check out this radio show, What is THIS?
[02:58] Interestingly enough, once I started asking that — imagine that, guys. Questions work. I actually saw a class of a fellow Certified Facilitator — her name was Heather Nichols — and she was having a class called “Being the Athlete in Business.” I knew that that class was going to contribute something to changing this — not a clue [on] what but I knew something.
So when I took that class, I asked about this because that was the energy that was there for me. I asked about just not having the same energy. And [I’m] so freakin grateful, you know. The universe always has my back. It was the timing of it. I asked it on — I think, a Tuesday. Heather had just been at a Maestro meeting with Dr. Dain where they had this amazing conversation and this question was asked, so then Heather asked me.
[03:57] Before I tell you what the question is — if you are experiencing any of “that energy”: of just it being not so exciting, there’s not really the energy — and it doesn’t have to be [in] business. Remember, guys: you can use these tools on anything. Maybe that’s in another area of your life, maybe it is your business. Whatever it is, I just want you to kind of tap into that right now and then I’m going to ask you the same question that I was asked.
Yeah. Now, there isn’t a right or wrong answer to that, guys. It’s not pass or fail. It can just give you some more information.
So when Heather asked me that, I actually like, had such a big — it was a mixed thing. I had a huge release in my body like, “Oh my gosh.” But then also, it was just — I just wanted to cry. It was just… it was so… it was just so much of a “yes” of a like a “Oh, finally” energy.
I don’t want to put a lot of words to this because it’s really trying to define something that’s undefinable. I am going to give it a few words.
When we have created everything we’ve come to create, now we have infinite choice. Now we could look at, “Hey, what would we like to create?” Maybe we came in with some decisions of what we had to create, or maybe we came in with some ideas. Maybe even we chose some things along the way and said, “Oh, I really want to create that.” And then when it’s done… it doesn’t mean we’re done. It can, but chances are it’s more now — at least it has been for me — of “What would I like to create now? What would I like to create?”
Now, of course, it doesn’t mean the things earlier that I created were from, you know, obligation, or that I had to. It was just… it was just the energy. Again, I don’t want to put too many words to that. But just know that if you got a “yes”, all it means now is you truly get to choose what you would like to create.
[06:28] It’s so interesting because [of] what that — but being asked that question and having that awareness gifted me. It’s changed everything internally and not externally so much. I’m still doing the same sort of business, I’m still offering the same sort of classes. There’s, you know, everything, kind of. If you were looking just external, it looks the same.
And [yet] it’s 1,000,000,000% different. Like the people that are showing up now, the clients I get to play with, the VIP sessions, the Foundation classes, the courses – all of these.
And the other thing — this is the magical, like magic beyond magic. I sat down in, I don’t know, maybe it was an hour, if that. And I planned out from that moment — which was again, beginning of August to December — what I was going to create. My business was so clear with me as to what it was asking to get created on the planet. It was [snapping] boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
You might have noticed on my upcoming events [that] I’ve got things more in the future than a week. Like, this is huge. Huge, because I’ve spent 19 years pretty much flying by the seat of my pants. Now, that’s not wrong at all, and I cannot tell you the ease that being that clear with my business has created — and I’ve been very clear with my business. Not so clear, though, future-related.
[08:09] So, I can get a hit now and know that it’s for, you know, in two weeks or something. Absolutely, that’s total ease for me. But to know now for December, to know now for November, like, it’s phenomenal for me. And actually by the time that you listen to this or watch this — depending on how you’re consuming it, you know, it may well be into 2022 — I’ve already got this whole magical creation for 2022. It’s like, how does it get any better than this?
Just by acknowledging that basically I had come… all the come… to create? No. I’d created all I had come to do and now, what would I like to choose? The magic of it, my sweet friends. Yes, yes, yes.
[08:59] So if you did get a “yes” when I asked that, just be present with that and look at what would you like and ask this:
Ask that a lot. Remember, we don’t ask questions for answers. We ask questions to receive awarenesses. You might not receive the awareness right away — that’s okay. Allow yourself the space to receive the awareness — and there’s probably going to be way more than one thing that you would like to create on the planet, my sweet friend. Yes.
If you would like to hear more about tools to be more aware, check out this radio show, Tools to Be Aware AF
[09:34] Now, I would also love to invite you if you are in business or would like to be in business and you would like to get an idea out into the world — a class, a creation, whatever you want to call it. I am renewing — that’s probably not the correct way to say it, but I’m gonna say it that way. Anyway, a program that I did earlier this year called “From Idea to Offer.”
It’s a 5-part program where we go through:
(1) Step one is all about communing with your business so that you can receive from it or from the creation — what it’s asking to be, and all the pieces. And then we talk about (2) creating invitations to it — all the stories you have, all the things. Then is the (3) graphic. So, sweet Ericka has created ten (10) graphic templates. And of those 10, each one has multiple sizes for all the different social media outlets. Then we’ve got a whole step on (4) sharing your class — how to get it out into the world. And then [the] (5) tools to add magic to your class.
So, five steps — we’re going to do it over five weeks. I would invite you to come and play now because once this round is done, it’s actually going to go up to $597 CAD. This will probably be the last time we do it live. Everything has workbooks and all the pieces. Anyway, you can find all the information on the link.
[11:07] I also have a FREE Private Podcast where you can listen to different podcasts on how to get ideas for your creations or your classes. I know many of you reached out after I did the original one and said, “Hey, I would have loved to [have] been there but I didn’t even have the idea.” So, there you go. Now, you can listen to the free podcast — you just need to opt in.
And just so you know, a free podcast is all about listening on — however you listen to podcast now. You don’t have to download anything else. You don’t need to do anything else. It’s just behind a door that I’ve got closed and once you choose to join us, you get the key to the door. It’s very simple.
I’ve had a lot of people really confused about private podcasts. It’s not confusing, guys. It’s frickin’ phenomenal. I love them. I use them for a lot of different programs.
[12:00] Now, back to the question that changed my business. Oh, I just cannot even tell you what it gifted to me, guys. It’s so phenomenal. As I was with it afterwards and looking at it, the other thing that I really got that match the energy — something we talk about in Access a lot — is changing tracks. The other energy that came up is that I had changed tracks in the business and I didn’t acknowledge it.
This is the thing: if we don’t acknowledge these things — if we don’t acknowledge what is going on, what is true, what we’re aware of, [or] what we’re creating, we end up using that against us. And so when I didn’t acknowledge (1) that I created everything I came to create; and (2) that I had actually changed tracks energetically, I kept looking — in a sense, I was looking backwards at the same track I was on before — trying to figure out how to do that again, rather than going, “Oh, I’ve changed tracks. Now what? Now what?” That’s the other thing you want to look at: one, you can do energetic contributions to change tracks.
[13:13] So, #getyourbutttoFoundation. I have another one coming up at the end of December online. How the heck did I get so lucky?
Where we talk about energetic contributions, there’s — so far, in the Foundation manual, they’ve got up to the 20. So there’s 3, 4, all the way up to 20 — you get the idea. 13 is about changing tracks.
[13:38] The biggest thing to be aware of with changing tracks is to recognize that when you do energetic contributions to change tracks, you don’t get to say what tracks you go to. This is like everything else in Access Consciousness®: these tools are to create greater, not for you to decide what will create greater and then only choose that. It’s not that. It’s about having no point of view just knowing that you’re choosing greater.
And so right now, if you would like to change tracks in whatever area — I’m going to keep it open so that you can choose for you. If you don’t have a business, you don’t have to do it for that. [It] could be in your money, could be with your body, could be with relationships, [or] with every area of your life. It could be business, whatever it is.
[14:24] So, we’re going to do some 13s — and I use my hands. If you’ve ever seen Dr. Dain. Heer, the co-founder of Access Consciousness, you might have seen him do a lot of stuff with his hands. He does a lot of energetic contributions. So, 13 is to change tracks.
Everywhere that you would like to change tracks, on 13, will you do that now?
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7…
Get really, really big, guys. Expand lots and lots and lots…
8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13… 13…
Anything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a gazillion? Right, wrong, good, bad, all-nine, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds.
If you would like to hear more about the energetic contributions, check out this radio show, What is Contribution?
[15:15] I recently did an in-person — oh my gosh, in-person! Imagine that — class on changing tracks and… it was so incredible, guys. Like, so incredible. One of the awarenesses that we came to during that class is that for me — and I can only speak to my awareness with it. It was another person there that brought it up, but I was like, “Oh my gosh, that’s it.”
So, I will often say, you know, “Oh, it’s been 100 years since I saw that person” or “It’s been 100 years since I did that” or “It’s been 100 years since I went on that trip” or something like that. I’ll use that bizarre phrase – It’s been 100 years. What I now know is when I say that, what I mean is “I have since changed tracks.” Yeah.
Now, it’s not relevant, it’s not significant. But it was a huge awareness that day because sometimes when I would say it, I’d be like, “What am I– like, what? What is that? What does that? What do I mean by that?” And now I know: I’m just acknowledging that I’ve changed track since I saw that person, or I’ve changed track since I did that thing. How cool is that?
It also might be something that is true for you. You might have a phrase that you use. I’m trying to think of the other people in the class, what they said… “Oh, it’s been a different- It was a different lifetime” or “100 lifetimes ago” or something like that with lifetime — however it is. And it doesn’t mean- if it’s even a thing you do. But it was such a huge awareness for me to go, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying.”
So now, because there’s still times I say it, I have a little giggle, because now I know, “Oh, that’s what I’m saying. I’m actually saying I have changed tracks since then.” How cool is that? How cool is that?
And what does “changing tracks” really mean? It means that you’re, well, this is my- this is the way that I see it. I don’t want to say it means it, for sure. There’s probably lots of different definitions. But really, for me, I’ve changed who I BE.
[17:20] Before Heather asked me that question, I was being the Problem Solver. The Figure Out-er, the Wrongness, the Judger of Me, all of that. And then, once she asked me that question, I changed tracks. I changed to –and it’s just a choice — but I changed to — once I had that awareness, it was so easy for me to go, “Man, that’s it. That’s it.” And then the question is, “Okay, now what would I like to create?”
And so, we can change money tracks, like you’ve probably changed points of views about money. I know a big one that I often talk about, you know. I had this “I had to work hard for money.” Once I changed that, I changed tracks. Now I’m on the track that money is ease, or whatever it is — I don’t want to define it like that, but you get the idea.
[18:10] Because again, we can’t say, “Okay, I’m going to change tracks so that money is now ease.” It’s not that. If you got troubles with money, problems with money, if you’re trying to figure out something with money, do some 13’s to change tracks — whatever that’s going to look like, whatever that shows up as — so that you can truly be in that creation space, that magical space rather than, “Okay, I got to figure out this problem because once I figure out this problem, then it’ll be better.”
[18:58] The other thing — the other way that I’ve been using the changing tracks tool is really, if I’m catching myself in that problem energy, if I’m doing that, then I’ll just ask
Truth: Have I changed tracks here? because again, it will allow me to acknowledge it. If I acknowledge it, then I can actually choose something totally different rather than spinning in the trying-to-figure-out-the-problem or whatever it is. Yeah, yeah.
[19:27] I wonder… I wonder what is possible the more that we’re willing to change tracks and also acknowledge that we’ve changed tracks. You know, I think a lot of times when we don’t — well, probably all the time — when we don’t acknowledge it, then we try to figure out how to get back to that old track. You can’t go backwards. You try, or maybe there’s somebody in our life that really would prefer us on that other track. [And] so we almost feel like we’re… we’re pulled to go to that other track rather than, “Okay, what would I like to choose here? What’s fun for me?”
What if you can actually be with somebody who’s on a different track than you? What if it’s not about having to have them on the same track or you having to be on the same track? It’s just you get to choose for you, they get to choose for them. Truly, what else is possible that we’ve never even considered?
[20:18] What else is possible with the business that we’ve never even considered? If you’ve been around for a while, you hear me say/ask that question with regards to so much. And honestly, this, I’m not sure that this podcast would be here if it wasn’t for that question. I’ll tell you the story in case you haven’t heard it.
[20:40] Back in 2013, I was sitting on my.. the other acreage that we owned, we had a little private deck on this beautiful hill — it was amazing. I was sitting there one morning and I was asking. I was feeling a little stuck in business. Things weren’t flowing, and I was like, “What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered?”
What else is possible with the business that I’ve never even considered? I just kept asking that, but it was such a space of like, almost meditation or something because I wasn’t looking for an answer. I wasn’t asking to fix something. It was just the lightness of it, over and over.
And that afternoon, I got a random e-mail from a radio show… place? Anyway, it’s called “Voice America” and they asked me. They said, “Hey, would you like to have a radio show on our station?” And I was like, “What?” You’re nuts!”
Anyway, they weren’t nuts. I did start my radio show in 2013. You can find that one. It’s called “The Glenyce Show.” You can search it on your favorite podcast app or you can find them — all the shows — on my web page. They’re all there.
When I chose not to be with Voice America anymore, then I came here to “Tools to Create a Better Life” that you’re listening to this now. You might be watching it on video, but you can also get in/subscribe on the podcast app. And if you do listen via podcast, I would love if you would go and leave a review — I’d be so grateful.
[22:15] These things — you know, the way that social media and all this stuff works right now — the more people that share it and talk about it and review it and like it and love it and all the things, the more people that it gets to. I would be so grateful if more and more people were like us and choosing to be more conscious and choosing to use these tools to create a better life and living and business and planet for all of us. So, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Have a fabulous week, sweet friends! I look forward to chatting again next week.
We’ve all found ourselves playing in the wrongness of us at some point… but what if we’re never been wrong? There is so much more we can be receiving once we start recognizing that, and with the magical tools from Access Consciousness®, anything is totally possible! Tune in to this episode because I’m sharing yet again more of these tools that you can use wherever and whenever you need them.
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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.
[00:00:10] I am standing in front of the ocean . If you’re watching this on video, I am on Margate Beach and this is the beautiful ocean behind me.
[00:00:22] So, Tools to Get Out of the Wrongness of You. Yeah, I know. This is something that so many of us are addicted to. There’s the church bells. Hopefully you can hear that in the background.
So many of us are addicted to the wrongness of us and going into the wrongness of us and constantly playing with the wrongness of us. What if, what if, what if we’ve never been wrong? Now, we may have made some choices that didn’t create what we desired. We may have done that, but what if we’ve never been wrong?
[00:01:04] One of the things with those things that we’ve judged ourselves as wrong for, if we don’t judge ourselves as wrong for them, guess what? We can receive from them. And guess what occurs when we receive from them? We receive the awareness from them. It creates something totally different rather than this whole idea that I was wrong, I made a bad choice.
[00:01:30] So earlier, and if you’ve been listening to the radio show for this month basically or [in] October, you would’ve heard me talk about travel here in England for the last month and such, and choosing flying in when there was a train strike, and then taking a coach and then spending a couple hours in a coach station because the coach was delayed. For any of you North Americans, that’s [a] bus station. Here in England, they call it a coach station. And so, that was not fun at all. I mean, we chose to have ease, joy, and glory with it and, ooh, not something we wanted to choose again.
[00:02:09] What it gifted us and with me not going into how wrong I was for it, what it gifted me was the awareness that that’s not how I desire to travel around England. What it invited us to was to actually rent a car for the majority of our trip. That wasn’t our plan.
[00:02:27] We had rented a car up in Newcastle at the beginning of our trip for a couple days so we could go out and see some sites of Vera shows. If you watch the murder mystery Vera, we love that series. There’s lots of beautiful scenery and we wanted to go to some of those locations. So we’d got the car for that. After the experience with the coach and all of that and the train strikes, we said, let’s just get a car for the rest of the trip, which is what we did.
[00:02:58] If I would’ve stayed in how wrong I was, I would never have received the awareness from that experience, and that’s ultimately what we’re doing. When we’re in the wrongness we’re not receiving. Yeah, right?
I know it’s tricky. It’s tricky because we think that receiving is something… often we think it’s something totally different. But that is one way that we ensure we don’t receive is through judgment. Right, wrong, good, bad, all-9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, POVADs, and beyonds.®
[00:03:29] That is the Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement. If you’re not familiar, you can go to www.theclearingstatement.com for information about how it works, but it’s like a magic wand, my sweet friends, and it’s so magical in what it can change for you and for anybody running it and for the people around us. When we run it, it’s so magical.
[00:03:48] It really is this space of recognizing that we always have a choice. We can judge ourselves for the choice we made or choices we made, or we can take a moment and just go, “Okay, so what awareness did I receive here? What awareness am I refusing here with this judgment that if I just stopped judging it, it would allow me to receive even more?” That’s kind of a long wordy way of it, but really just to recognize that those judgements are ensuring you don’t receive from whatever it is.
[00:04:27] If I’m judging that it’s too hot today — you know me, I’d probably never judge that. But if I was, then I’m not receiving from the sunshine. If I’m judging when it does rain here, then I’m not receiving from the rain, and it takes a lot of judgment to decide that sun is good and rain is bad. How do I know? Well, my God, I have spent pretty much my entire life in that judgment. Rain is bad and sun is good, and it’s ridiculous.
[00:04:53] I mean, the more that I become aware of the judgments that I’ve used and using, it’s so cool because it’s changing everything. It’s changing where I’m really willing to receive even more.
[00:05:08] That is a tool that, if you’re interested in changing this, start asking yourself: If I didn’t judge, how much more could I receive?
Do you have experiences from your past or situations where you’ve just spent so much time in judgment of you? Then take a moment with those and really look at that. If I didn’t judge this, how much more could I receive from it? What awareness did I receive here that I’ve been refusing?
[00:05:35] When we ask questions like that, we’re not asking from the place of we have to get an answer right away. We’re just asking the question. The awareness may not show up for some time. It may show up right away. Who knows?
But allow yourself that space. Give yourself that space to really be curious. Just be curious, like, if I didn’t judge this, what could I receive from it? Or maybe it’s a person. If I didn’t judge them, what could I receive from them? Yeah, yeah.
[00:06:08] It’ll start to give you this sense of what else is truly possible beyond judgment. That’s what we’re looking for, is beyond the judgment. Yeah. So that’s one tool. Start asking that.
[00:06:20] The other tool, and I talk about this all the time, guys. I just can’t not talk about it with regards to this. Of course, the tool of interesting point of view.
[00:06:31] When you recognize you’re in the wrongness, whether you’re in the wrongness of you or the wrongness of somebody else, it doesn’t matter, interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view. Interesting point of view, I have that point of view… over and over and over so you get out of that addiction, often is what it is.
[00:06:53] It’s this addiction to wrongness. It’s like we don’t know anything else. We only know wrongness and what if? What if we have other choices? I mean, we have a billion other choices with regards to everything. Same with the wrongness. We can choose to be in the wrong. That’s certainly one choice, and what else could we choose?
[00:07:13] Another tool, and this one isn’t probably talked about in this way, but I’m gonna talk about it in this way. It’s the tool of Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures am I going to have?
[00:07:25] This is a tool that we talk about in Access to do every morning. I’ve actually been changing it up a little bit. [I’m] a little bit more present with it so that when I’m in the wrongness, I actually say, “Well, who am I today?”
What I’m inviting myself to look at is who am I today? Am I the Judgy Judgerson that I’ve been choosing or am I the person who doesn’t judge, or a bazillion other things? But who am I today? And then of course, you can finish it with “…and what grand and glorious adventures…”
[00:07:54] What it allows me to recognize is that I have another choice. Maybe that addiction to judgment has been a big thing in my world for a long time, and right now I have another choice… and right now I have another choice… and right now I have another choice. We always have another choice. So, who am I today? Am I that person or am I someone else? Who would I like to be? If I was creating me today, who would I be? Yeah. Yeah.
[00:08:26] To me, it’s such a fun tool to start recognizing that we don’t have to be who we were. It’s often projected onto us that that’s the way it is. We are who we were, and that’s the way it’s gonna be forever and ever. Amen. We don’t have to be. We get to change every 10 seconds. We get to change every second, really. But ultimately we get to change constantly if we would like to. Who am I today? You can even ask Who am I right now? Just to start shifting and changing it so that you can get out of that wrongness.
[00:09:00] The other thing is the question of What’s right about this I’m not getting, or What’s right about me I’m not getting? Just another tool that you can use when you’re in the wrongness ’cause we’re not looking necessarily for what’s right. But ultimately, that question gets us out of the rightness and into the possibilities.
[00:09:21] What’s right about me I’m not getting? What’s right about this I’m not getting? Again, we just ask it. We’re not looking for an answer. We’re not gonna figure it out ’cause there isn’t a way to figure it out. We’re just asking so that there’s so many more possibilities with it rather than the wrongness, the wrongness, the wrongness.
[00:09:37] So there is some tools for you to play with to really start getting out of the wrongness, guys. The thing that I can say, like every other tool that we have, you have to use it. You may not be ready to get out of the wrongness or you may have more value in the wrongness so far. That’s okay. When you’re ready, these tools will be waiting for you.
[00:09:59] Have a fabulous rest of your week, and I look forward to chatting again next week.
Related Shows:
[RADIO SHOW] Ending Your Addiction to Wrongness
[TV SHOW] A Tool to Get Out of Wrongness
[TV SHOW] What is RIGHT About Me?
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