Tools to Increase Your Receiving

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[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you. 

 

[00:00:10] Now, if you’re watching this on video, you will see a beautiful scenery behind me. I am at Land’s End, which is the most southerly west point in England. Apparently if you just kept going that way, you would run into Canada. So, there’s nothing between us. I mean, I’m sure there’s lots but in terms of land, it’s kind of a cool place to be at. 

 

[00:00:33] It’s also extremely beautiful. If I could get down closer, I would. However, it’s not so safe to do that so, here we are. And if you’re not watching this on video, of course, you can find it on video or you could just listen to those waves. I’m hoping my microphone will pick them up for you.

 

[00:00:54] Tools to Receive Even More. Yeah. As you guys know, we’ve been traveling around England for a few weeks now. It’s about mid-October at time of recording. I know this won’t air until the end of October, but we have been going to all sorts of different places and really just being there.

 

[00:01:20] It’s not always been easy. It certainly has been ease, though. For more about that, you might wanna check out last week’s show ’cause I shared a lot about choosing ease with all of this. 

 

[00:01:33] One of the things that I haven’t really spoke about—I have put on social media and I did send out an email with a little bit about it—was that shortly before we left, we actually had to say goodbye to our sweet kitty, Totty, which was very difficult.

 

[00:01:49] It was really this space of letting her choose. She had got pancreatitis again. This is something both her and Gromit, her brother that we had to put down a couple years ago, would get every once in a while and… yeah. With that, we’ve been talking for years about when she’s no longer with us. Now, I never, ever expected that “no longer with us” would be so soon. She was only 11, so [we] kind of expected at least five or six more years with her. 

 

[00:02:29] With this and her going before we left, when we got here, one of the things that we’ve been talking about for a long time is to sell everything at home and just travel the world house sitting or pet sitting or just travel the world. Just have kind of no home, no nothing that we have to be aware of with those sorts of things. And so we got here, and we started looking at, well, what if it’s now? What if it’s now? 

 

[00:03:05] Part of this to me, receiving from everything is also receiving Totty’s choice in going now. Not receiving it meaning I’m okay with it and I’m happy about it. Not that, but just the willingness to actually receive it. Just to be present with it. One day I’ll tell the whole story of the magic. Just not today ’cause we won’t get very far and I will just be crying. But one day I will tell the magic of all of that. But really, just receiving it. 

[00:03:36] One of the things that I do—one of the tools that I use to receive even more is “barriers down, barriers down, barriers down… all levels, layers, lifetimes, universes, realities, barriers down.” I energetically push the barriers down. 

 

[00:03:52] So, say with something like Totty and choosing to say goodbye to her. Afterwards, I could go into all this crazy about it like, “Oh, what if she… what if I didn’t…” like that. All of those are barriers. All of those are walls up to actually receiving, just receiving it. Receiving doesn’t mean making it good or bad, or right or wrong. That’s actually judgment. So, just receiving it. 

 

[00:04:21] And so what I would recognize–there’s a helicopter going over top–is that when I wasn’t receiving it, when I was going into the inventions and the stories and the upset, I would go to barriers down, barriers down, barriers down and really energetically push those barriers down and receive it. Just receive it. 

 

[00:04:43] You know, we can use this in all sorts of things ’cause there could be situations in your life where, you know, maybe you had an upset with somebody years ago and you still play with the crazy of it, or the inventions, or the stories of it. What if you just took a moment and dropped those barriers and received it? 

 

[00:05:00] But please remember, receiving is not making it right or wrong, or good or bad. That’s where a lot of times, especially with what I’ve done in the past – for years before Access Consciousness®, I played a lot with the law of attraction, which was a lot of, at least the way I was doing it, a lot of making things right and good and bad and wrong. The bad and wrong you were supposed to push away or pretend weren’t there, and the right and good you were supposed to, you know, make really significant. At least that’s how I did it. I don’t mean that’s how everybody’s doing it, but that’s how I did it. 

 

[00:05:30] And so, [it’s] really recognizing that when we receive something, we actually just receive it with no judgment whatsoever. It’s not right. It’s not wrong. It’s not good. It’s not bad. It’s just is, and there’s so much space with that. There’s so much space with that.

 

[00:05:48] Especially at the time when I was at home with Totty and in the time before the vet was arriving, just receiving it. And then after the vet left, just receiving it. Again, it was a lot of through tears, absolutely, and there’s been many since. [There] might even be something here now. 

 

[00:06:11] Tears aren’t right or wrong or good or bad. Tears are, a lot of times, it’s our body’s way of releasing what we’ve stored, what we’ve, in a sense, kind of bottled up and brought a bunch of barriers around us, so to speak. Sometimes people will go, “Oh no, I’m not conscious. I’m crying ’cause so-and-so died” or whatever. That’s not unconscious. That’s just allowance. It’s okay to be sad and it’s okay to have tears. There’s no right or wrong or good or bad. Ultimately, there’s no right or wrong or good or bad. 

 

[00:06:49] In grieving, there is nothing. There’s nothing to say what grieving should be or shouldn’t be, or the right way to grieve or the wrong way to. There’s nothing. You just gotta be in allowance of it and receive it. Receive it. 

 

[00:07:04] So, tool number one is the barriers down I’ve been using a lot. The other tool that I’ve been using, and this isn’t so much related to Totty and saying goodbye to her sweet body. This is more just as we’ve been going around England. 

[00:07:19] At some times, it’s like, ugh, you know, I’m kind of done living out of a suitcase and the tiny roads and all this. It kind of gets like, “Oh, I’m just done with this,” and so what I ask is, “What gratitude could I be here?” Not what gratitude could I be for England or for Rodney, which is Hubby for anybody who hasn’t heard his real name, but I usually call him “Hubby”. [It’s] not for something or someone, but what gratitude can I be here? What gratitude can I be here?

 

[00:07:51] Man, I’ll tell you what. That, to me at least, has been shifting my receiving of whatever it is, you know? If it is driving in the car and going down a little tiny road and it’s just, oh my… what gratitude can I be here? It’s like, “Oh… yeah,” and it just shifts everything. 

 

[00:08:11] I don’t have to define it. I don’t have to to figure out what gratitude I can be here. I just get to be gratitude in that moment, which truly, how does it get any better than that? It’s that energy. 

 

[00:08:24] To me, it’s the energy of… us. We BE gratitude. We BE walking, talking, energetic, gratitude, and a lot of times what we’re doing is we’re separating. We’re making things right and wrong and good and bad, and then we’re separating, and then there’s no space for gratitude. You can’t have gratitude and judgment in the same spot. It’s one or the other. 

 

[00:08:47] Those are the two so far we’ve talked about. Barriers down. What gratitude can I be here? The other thing with receiving is the tool that I talk about all the time. You’re gonna listen to me talk about it all the time if you listen to me talk. It’s the “interesting point of view.” 

 

[00:09:03] Because when we’re not receiving, we’re having an interesting point of view. We’re choosing to be not interesting point of view. We’re choosing to have a judgment. We’re choosing to have a point of view. And so, we can’t receive and have a point of view at the same time. 

 

[00:09:20] If I decide that this is bad weather… actually it’s been phenomenal weather. But if I say this is bad weather [and] it should be sunshine-y, it shouldn’t have rained this morning when there was a sunrise or, I mean, there wasn’t a sunrise. It wasn’t a pretty colored sky sunrise because it rained. That shouldn’t have happened…. then all of those energies that I could be receiving from, I’ve now put up those barriers to once again. 

 

[00:09:46] If we just go into every point of view with interesting point of view, even that – this is beautiful weather, that can be a point of view. Sometimes it’s an awareness, but sometimes it’s a point of view because if you get the energetic hit on it, if I’m going, “Well, this is beautiful weather,” it can also have the energy of if it wasn’t like this, it would be bad type of thing, you know? 

 

[00:10:08] We wanna just always be aware of our energy when we are doing these things because that will give you more information, especially for those of us that have played with the tools from Access Consciousness® for a while. Oh boy, ’cause wow. We can really use the tools, in a sense, against us. We can really be in this space of like, “Wow, yeah. It’s such a no point of view type of day today.” I mean, I’m being silly, but you get the idea where we can say the right words, but energetically they don’t match.

 

[00:10:44] We always want to pay attention energetically to where we are when we’re talking, when we’re thinking, when we’re out and about. Where are we energetically? Is it light and expansive and yummy, or is it heavy and contractive? If it’s heavy and contractive, we’re not receiving. 

[00:11:00] Using any of those three tools: dropping the barriers, interesting point of view, I have this point of view, or what gratitude can I be? Yeah. What gratitude can I be? I just love that one so much. 

 

[00:11:14] Gratitude is actually one of the elementals. I’ve done various classes on elementals. We’ll put a link to some of them below, above, wherever the links may be, and in the show notes too. Of course, if you want to check those out, it’s so amazing. Working with and creating magic with the elementals and what’s actually possible? Yeah. 

[00:11:34] So have a great week, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again next week.

 

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