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[00:00:00]: So how can you manifest with your energetic team? Welcome to tools to manifest your dream life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. If you’re watching the video, I am once again at Bright Sand Lake in Saskatchewan, one of my favourite places, and you can see why. If you’re listening to the podcast well, you might want to hop on YouTube and check it out. It’s just beautiful. It’s just beautiful. Anyway, so how can you manifest with your energetic team? First off, let’s talk about manifesting because if you’ve hung out with me for a while, you know that I’ve used lots of different words.

 

[00:00:42]: I’ve used, of course, manifest. I’ve used actual. And if I’m honest, my favorite word would be magic. And I apologize if the microphone is picking up any of this wind, because I’m standing outside doing this at the lake. I just can’t not. I’m sorry. I’m sorry. Anyway, so I prefer the word magicked.

 

[00:01:06]: However, it doesn’t really do that well in SEO. And if people don’t know what it means so anyway, I use the word manifest, but I love the word the energy of magicked. You can magic with your energetic team. You can manifest. You can actualize. Whatever term you wanna use, but it’s basically magicking what you’re asking for. Now sometimes the word magic is misunderstood. So people will think, okay.

 

[00:01:38]: Well, if I’m gonna manifest or magic with my energetic team, then what it means is I’m going to sit on the couch and do nothing, and they will do everything, and it will come that way. I’m here to tell you no. Now if that works for you that’s awesome. I used to think that I tried that for a long time. Never worked for me. So what I find now is it’s more this beautiful co creation with my energetic team where we magic together, where they gift me whispers of information or direct me or guide me or stop me or whatever, and I follow, listen, take action depending on the situation and together we co create, we we magic, whatever it might be. And so when we’re looking at that in terms of, like, how to manifest with your energetic team, there’s a level of presence first that’s required. I would say this is again all of what’s worked for me over these 22 years.

 

[00:02:46]: And this level of presence of knowing what you would like without defining it so tightly that there’s no space for other possibilities. And actually, as I say that, I wanna invite you, if you weren’t part of, I did a free call and it’s called hidden blocks to your dream life. The link will be above or below or in the show notes, depending on how you’re listening. If you can’t find it, reach out. I will get it for you. It’s it’s a gift. It was amazing. And I talk a lot about I can’t remember maybe 6 or 7 different hidden blocks.

 

[00:03:24]: And this is one of them that I talk at length about. But really looking at what you would like, the energies of what you would like, without it having to be so specific. So if you would like a new car, instead of saying I want a red sports car with the Bose sound system with these sorts of rims with, this year and you could just ask for a car that really lights you up when you drive it. Now if you know you have some specifics, specifics, you know that you, are, you know, taking kids to hockey. Maybe you’ve got 3 kids and they all play hockey. You know, probably a sports car is not gonna be it. So you could ask, you know, that fits everybody comfortably. So we’re opening it up.

 

[00:04:08]: We’re being specific with our needs, but we’re not deciding or judging how it has to show up. So that would be kind of the first thing is get present with that. What is it that you would like? And then every day, invite your energetic team in however you would like. I’m gonna walk you through a little exercise here in a minute, of how I do it. But however you would like, invite your team in and then co create with them. Their their job, really, if if we wanna call it a job, is to assist you in what ever way they can. Now most times, people aren’t willing to ask. They’re not willing to acknowledge them.

 

[00:04:46]: There’s no they’re just basically sitting back bored. Don’t let your team be bored, guys. So if you’re willing, then you could ask them and and, you know, converse with them and be like this this these are all the energies of what I would like. Show me. Show me what’s required. Show me who to talk to today. Show me where to go today. And direct me, guide me.

 

[00:05:09]: Like, whatever terms you wanna use. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. You don’t even have to say a word. You can just energetically be in the yumminess of it and then, you know, invite them to to contribute. There’s no right or wrong way with this. You just wanna make sure you’re doing it. It doesn’t have to be long. You could take 2 minutes.

 

[00:05:28]: You could set, you know, every time you go in the shower or every time you brush your teeth or something that you do on a regular occurrence and do it then so that it’s part of your day. It’s part of your your moment. And if you like, do it a few times a day. That doesn’t always you wouldn’t always have time for that. But if you do, a few times a day, just to really get that connection and really be willing to receive because that’s the other part, especially if you’re like me. By me, I’m a control freak of magnitude. There hasn’t been necessarily a lot of receiving from your team. There hasn’t been a lot of allowing them in, because of our control, because of it needs to be a certain way, because we’ve learned that, you know we we are the only ones who who can do it right or whatever crazy we have with that.

 

[00:06:20]: It’s also the willingness to to let go of control and allow energies and, you know, even other people in your life to contribute. So let me take you through this exercise. What I’d like you to do is just as I’m talking right now, start thinking about one thing that you would like to manifest. It could be more money, it could be a certain relationship it could be a different house a car it doesn’t matter just kind of one thing just it’s a little bit easier for us to do this And just closing your eyes and becoming really present with your sweet body. And then energetically expanding out into all of you as the infinite being you truly be. So above you, below you, in front of you, behind you, every direction around you, expanding farther and farther and farther. Yeah. Now from this spaciousness, invite in your team.

 

[00:07:18]: You don’t even have to know what that means. You could just say, hey, team, come on in. Hey, energies, come on in. This might be people that you’ve loved and have crossed over. This might be angels or archangels or guides or fairies, or there’s a bazillion things. And it might just be energies and it might be a mix of things. And it might be things I didn’t even say. There is no definition of a team.

 

[00:07:41]: It’s just all of the energies that would like to contribute. So inviting them in, you’re really spacious, inviting them in, and inviting them so close that they actually, like, touch you. Now touching you doesn’t have to mean you feel it physically, but you’re inviting them to get that close. You’re basically inviting them so that you will receive from them. Yeah. There you go. Okay, cool. Now from this place, what I’d like you to do is start just thinking about that thing that you’re asking for, the thing you would like to manifest.

 

[00:08:12]: I’m just going to give you a moment to just, just think about it. Just think about it. Oh, yeah. Okay. Now, first off, invite your team to assist you to really clear any heavy energies, any limiting beliefs, any blocks, anything that would stop you from actually manifesting it. So I have that be kind of the first step, just invite them to do that. You could, even If you’re visual, you could imagine a rain shower, if you’re more of a feeling, you could just imagine all the heaviness going. Again.

 

[00:08:41]: You don’t have to do anything. You could just ask and it’s being done. So getting rid of all the lies, all the limitations, all the points of views, all the crap. Okay. Cool. So now now there’s the ask, the clarity of it, the lightness of it, the yumminess of it, and just ask them. Hey, guys. Show me.

 

[00:09:02]: Show me what’s required. Show me who to talk to today to manifest this right away. Show me where to go today to manifest this right away. Show me what action to take to manifest this right away? Whatever questions you have and I’ll just give you a moment to ask any questions or any, anything you would like with your team right now. Yeah. Okay. Awesome. And then just take a moment to thank them.

 

[00:09:36]: Just energetically sending out this gratitude for them, And give them permission to guide you throughout the day, to show you throughout the day all that’s required. Also, give them permission to override your insanity. So anywhere that you are, you would stop it or you would change it to to to ensure you don’t receive it. Like, whatever that is, just give them permission to override your insanity so that your ask comes quicker than you have ever imagined possible before. Yeah. More gratitude. And then you can if your eyes are closed, you can just open your eyes. You don’t need to disconnect from them.

 

[00:10:19]: You don’t need to do anything. Because you want them there. You want them connected. Now if you prefer to do that, please do it. Anything that I talk about is things that works for me. But not everything that works for me is gonna work for you. So please do what works for you. And now it’s really anything that you got, any any thoughts you had about it, any, actions, anything.

 

[00:10:43]: Make sure to jot them down, and go and take them. You know, make it, make at least one of those things that came up. If there was any specifics, go and do those today. I did a training recently, called, taking inspired action to manifest your dream life. And I’ll put a link in the show notes or above or below if you’re watching the video. And it’s it was part of the June manifesting membership so you can either purchase all of June’s manifesting membership pieces or you can actually just purchase that training and, of course, come and join us in the membership. I would so love to have you. It is so much fun.

 

[00:11:18]: We do a training every month. We do a facilitation call every month. You get a, energetic exercise every Monday, you get discounts to private sessions. I mean, it’s amazing and it’s 29 US or 39 Canadian a month. So high value, low ticket, would love to have you. And so with that, we want to be looking at those, what I call inspired actions. So that when there’s these things that when we’re asking and we’re connecting and we’re engaging with our our energetic team, guess what? They’re giving us this information, and it doesn’t necessarily mean everything we get that moment that we have to run and take action on. There’s gonna be a time and a place.

 

[00:11:57]: And so you could also be asking, Hey, show me, show me which of these actions. Let’s say you’ve got 3 different actions or ideas or thoughts. Which of these today, or maybe you don’t have time today. Don’t even ask about it then tomorrow when you have the time, which of these right now, really allow that, Allow yourself to be guided. Allow yourself to take that inspired action. And that’s really, to me, how I manifest with my team. Now, another invite is that I have coming up a 4 week journey to engaging with your energetic team. In July, we’re gonna start and depending on when you are hearing this, you will want to check out the bonus until June 30th.

 

[00:12:38]: It’s a 15 minute session with me to connect with your team. And after June 30th, there will be another bonus. I don’t know what it is right now. But but there will be something else there. So just depending on when you’re watching this or listening to this, there will be a bonus. So as I talked about doing this a few times a day is great. Now let’s say you are I don’t know let’s say you’re at the grocery store and you were, you’re just feeling really low about your ask. You’re feeling like it’s impossible.

 

[00:13:06]: Even while you’re walking around the grocery store in that kind of icky energy of what you’re asking for isn’t gonna turn out or happen or whatever. Take a moment. You don’t even have to close your eyes. Just be like, hey, guys. Can you help right now? Hey, team. Whatever however you wanna refer to them. Because they can do that in that moment. They can assist you in that moment too.

 

[00:13:24]: You don’t have to be like at home with the door closed and candles lit. Like you can actually receive their contribution all the time. You just gotta ask for it. You just gotta ask. So have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again soon.

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[00:00:00]: So, did I give up everything? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. I am at, if you’re watching the video, at this beautiful lake called Bright Sand Lake in Saskatchewan. Is very close to where I grew up, where many of my family members still live around. And hubby and I are here for a couple of weeks. We are petless. We are not doing a pet sit right now. We could not actually find one in the area. So we have rented a cabin here and I mean, it’s gorgeous. Now, it’s also very cloudy. So I did go in in the water yesterday in early June. It’s amazing. They call it a cold plunge. That’s really what it is.

 

[00:00:45]: So, anyway, did I really give up everything? I received an email from, someone who had came into my world when I was facilitating classes from Access Consciousness. Many of you are from that time, maybe before, and stayed with me or maybe, you know, came back after, I left Access Consciousness. However you’re here, I’m grateful you’re here.

 

But this person sent in this question that basically the way that I read it was, why did you give up everything? And I’m like, give up everything? And I realized that, you know, to some people, it might seem like I gave up everything. And I when I responded to the email, the first thing I said was I didn’t give up anything, and I no longer facilitate the classes.

 

[00:01:37]: And what it really made me look at so I’m so grateful. If you happen to be the one who sent in that question, please know how grateful I am for it because it really got me to look at it for from a different angle for myself because, wow, yes. People around me could really see it as that I gave up everything. I was a facilitator with access consciousness for over 10 years. I have 10 years of content out there that is me promoting Access Consciousness, whether it was my classes or, the founders classes or whatever. But it’s it’s all about the tools from Access Consciousness. So I gave up everything. And yet, I don’t feel like I gave up anything. In fact,

 

[00:02:19]: I feel like by me choosing to actually take a stand about something that I just don’t agree with. It just doesn’t sit right with me. When I think of consciousness, I do not think about cursing people to die because you disagree with them. So that is that is for any of you who didn’t watch my my video about it, last September or haven’t heard me talk about it. Or I have a 3 part series. We’ll put a link if you wanna purchase it and really deep dive into into all of it with myself, kind of my life beyond access consciousness.

 

There was a lot of me that I gave up to be a part of access consciousness, and that was my choice. So I’m not doing this as they’re wrong and and I’m I’m right and they’re horrible. It’s none of that. There’s there’s a lot of stories out there right now. The, Australian news I can’t remember the exact name

 

[00:03:15]: There’s a whole newspaper in Australia that is doing amazing articles about all the stuff that people should be aware of that, I was a little bit aware of, not not nearly aware of to the degree that it’s going on. But that’s not what I want to talk about it from. I really want to talk about it from what I chose. 

 

And what I chose was to really, basically, separate myself from me because it didn’t go with a lot of what was taught in Access Consciousness. So, when I first started, I was actually a professional medium. Meaning I talked to dead people, people paid me to talk to their dead people and do sessions. Now, I was ready to be done doing that, it was just I’d been doing it for over 10 years. I was ready to be done. And when I entered Access Consciousness,

 

[00:04:04]: one of the things that they spoke about was how disempowering that can be. And I really took that completely. Like, that’s disempowering and I need to stop. And again, this is all me, all my choice. And so I did. So I didn’t. I stopped doing mediumship readings. I didn’t stop right away. It was over a course of a few years until I built up my access business enough to be able to do that. So I did that. 

 

So I cut that off and I see that now. I see that one, I was looking for a way out because I was I was ready to be done, doing those sessions. So it was great for that. It gave me kind of a reason and and a justification for it, but it still cut off a piece of myself because connecting with the spirit world, dead people, angels, guides, whatever you wanna call them, that’s a huge part of my capacities. 

 

[00:05:08]: In fact, starting July 9, 2024, I have an amazing 4 week program all about engaging with your energetic team. And if you join us by June 30, 2024, you will get a 15 minute session with me to basically connect and engage with your team, with your energetic team. Details are above or below. If you can’t find them, reach out and I will get them for you.

And it wasn’t really until I started, stepping away from access that I started looking at what I had what I had given up, what I had cut off for myself to be within that organization. And to, in a lot of ways, especially early early on, to be liked and to be, seen as someone and, you know, all the crazy that goes along with that.

 

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So what I really see is that I didn’t give everything up. I didn’t let go of everything. I really came back to me with my choice of really seeing what is and really being present with what is. And not, again, not from that wrongness, not that not that any of what I chose was wrong. I don’t regret it at all. I don’t look at those 10 plus years and wish I chose something different. I really don’t. What I know is that, I mean, I gained a lot. There were so many gifts in it for myself.

 

[00:06:24]: And the tools, I don’t use a lot of them now. Some of them I do. The ones that I do use though are tools that were brought into access from other modalities and such. So I have done my research to see what what was brought in and what what actually works for me. Not from access tools are bad or wrong because they are not at all. They have helped many many people over the years. It’s just that a lot of times we take it as this is the access tool and yet actually it was brought in from something else, which great. That’s a lot of modalities do

that. They extrapolate where they go, you know, to different modalities and they bring in bits

and pieces and all of that. And so I just wanted to get clear with myself.

 

[00:07:09]: And then that way too, when I’m talking about it, if it’s not a tool that I’ve, in a sense, kind of created on my own, I’ve brought it in from another modality. I wanna be honest with that is. I wanna say, hey. This is a tool from Access Consciousness or from EFT training or I mean, there’s so many things that I’ve done over the years. 

 

And so, you know, kind of going back to that, like, did I give myself up? Did I just, you know, lose it all? And it’s like, I feel like I gained so much. I feel like I’m so much more of me now than I was ever before. And I would say a part of that is because I don’t judge those 10 plus years. I don’t see that as, you know, bad a bad choice or bad choices. It really is just the recognition that I I chose that. And there were so much to be grateful for the the as we would say in access, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Right? It’s not just like, oh, you know, those guys do a certain thing or they shouldn’t be doing that or any of that. There’s all of that, of course. 

 

And you could again, you can read all that stuff from the Australian paper, and I understand there’s more coming out and there’s videos and there’s all sorts of things. So you really want to kind of get the the bigger picture, be sure to check that stuff out. But you don’t have to either. So, you know,

 

[00:08:27]: So, you know, you don’t have to defend staying if if you’re within access consciousness and you want to stay there. Please just stay there. Enjoy it. You do not have to defend it or, you know, judge yourself for staying or anything. For some people, it’s their entire business. You know, for me, it was my entire business. And from the moment that I chose to no longer be an access consciousness certified facilitator, I had an entire year to start shifting and changing things within my business. 

 

Now if that would have been, you know, would have I done that on the day that that occurred? No. Because that’s not smart. Same as, you know, so many years ago when I when I knew that I was done being a professional medium, I didn’t stop the day that it was, like, clear that that was where I was going. It’s like I actually need to be I need to continue. This is our livelihood. So I need to look at how this fits. And because the event happened on the recertification of my license, I had an entire year. I knew I wasn’t recertifying, but I wasn’t. Nobody knew, basically, for that year, and that was more about planning for myself and setting myself up. And again, not because the tools are wrong or scary or bad or evil or any of that, they’re great tools. Absolutely.

 

[00:09:41]: So use what works. And really, what I what I often remind myself in any situation where I’m making a change is that for the most part I want to say a 100%, but I don’t think it’s fair to say a 100% because I’m sure there’s times where that’s not true. But for the most part, when we make a change, it actually does work out for the better. It does create greater. 

 

Now, it doesn’t necessarily mean in that moment it feels greater or that, or that it appears even greater. It might take a while. You know, if you go through a divorce, you may not actually get to that greater. You might not get there for a year or 2, but you’ll get there. I’m sure of it. Again, I can’t say a 100% of the time, but I would say most of the time, any change we make will invite us to greater invite us to greater of ourselves. 

 

[00:10:37]: And so in that case, it might be the greatness that that invites us to is to choose something different. We might choose a certain, you know, person to be our in, you know, a significant other for us and then realize that this isn’t that person. This isn’t who we would like. And so we make a different choice. So, again, it might not be in that moment that you’re saying, oh, this was greater, but it could get you to greater. And this is we talk a lot about this, hubby andI in our pet sitting adventures.

 

[00:11:07]: We actually have a brand new podcast. It is called paw prints and passports, exploring the world through pet sitting. So I’ll put a link above or below to, to check it out if you would like. And it’s one of the things that we talked about in our very first episode was you don’t know until you know. You don’t know until you try. 

 

So I didn’t even know looking after dogs that we didn’t have a fenced yard for, how difficult that was until I looked after dogs that we didn’t have a fenced yard for. So, if we if we get out of this idea that there’s there’s a right thing, there’s a right person, there’s a right situation, there’s a right time, there’s a right job, there’s a right like, if we get out of that idea, then everything can actually just be an invitation to something greater. Because now we know, we’re very clear, that if it says no fenced yard, we’re probably not going to apply.

 

[00:12:01]: However, doesn’t mean we won’t. We’re also flexible. If we know we have 3 days to fill between sits, we probably would take a sit that doesn’t have a fenced yard. Means a little extra work for those 3 days, but actually rather have that in a lot of cases than actually rent a hotel or something like that. 

 

So again, we’ve got to be flexible with it. We’ve got to just be open to the idea that if we’re willing to receive it, there’s so much that we’re being gifted constantly. If we don’t go into the wrongness of it, if we never see it as giving up everything or losing everything or, you know, this is the worst thing ever.

 

[00:12:42]:

And, of course, I’m gonna just preface that with this is I’m talking more general life stuff. Now there’s times where this is the worst thing ever. Of course, we you know, someone we love dies or something like that. Then those aren’t the times I’m talking about. I’m just talking about kind of general choices and such. And so then we could look at it as like, okay. And I love asking. Asking, alright, what what is this inviting me to?

 

[00:13:05]: And I love asking. Asking, alright, what is this inviting me to? What greatness is this inviting me to? And that question is actually from a friend of mine. Her name is Tanya. She’s brilliant. And she was in a class of mine years ago, and she had had a lot of, body problems going on. And she started asking that question. When most of it, to the degree her body that she was struggling with her body, most of us wouldn’t have just got out of bed. Like, that’s how bad it was in, you know, me looking in. And she started asking herself, okay. So what what is this greatness? What am I being invited to? What is my body inviting me to with this? What?

 

[00:13:43]: Like, brilliant. Because you get out of the victim of it into the possibilities of it. So if there’s anything in your life that you’re looking at and you feel like you’re lost everything or you gave up everything or you made a choice that wrecked everything, or it’s the end of the the world because you didn’t choose this thing, or whatever.

 

Please just stop and ask. Okay. What greatness is this inviting me to? What is possible now that wasn’t possible before? What am I aware of now that I wasn’t aware of before this?

 

[00:14:17]: Right? It just puts us into the what I often call is like that. We’re infinitely creative. So it puts us into that creative space, into putting our creative energy into creating greater than creating less. Because it’s I’m gonna say it’s easy to sit around and complain. It’s easy to say how horrible something is, how awful it is, to act like a victim. Just sit back and be like, oh, darn.

Too bad. Guess I’ll just sit here. Now, honestly, I’ll just sit here. You know, if you’re watching the video you’ll see I’m pointing to the lake. I’ll just sit here, but that’s a different that’s a different space. So yeah, there we are. There there’s my little spin on on giving up and letting go of everything. And, man, it’s just an invitation to greater. And especially when things are out of alignment for you. Like that letting that stuff go, having the courage to let that stuff go that truly doesn’t work for you. There’s a freedom there my friend that I cannot put words to.

 

[00:15:21]: I would love to invite you to my manifesting membership. We have so many goodies each month. There’s a facilitation call, there’s a training, you get an energetic exercise every Monday. I mean, there’s just all sorts of magic, and I would love to have you. It is what I call low ticket, high value, $29 US or $39 Canadian a month for all that and more. Check it out. Link is above or below. If you don’t see a link, let me know and I will get it for you. Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again soon.

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* Money, Power, Control and Sex: Inside Access Consciousness Australian News article

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[00:00:00] If you were only going to do one thing and you wanted to manifest your dream life, this would be it. Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. We are currently at a Pet and House It in Montana.

It is so beautiful here, guys. If you’re watching this on the video, you don’t, I mean, you see some nature behind me. Oh, there’s horses over there. There’s mountains. I mean, it is beautiful. Oh, my goodness. So, okay, if you’re going to do this one thing, what the heck would it be? Asking for what you would like.

Now, before you hit stop, I want you to take a moment and it’s not hard. You don’t have to know specifically what you would like. What I am always encouraging people to do is to actually get the energy of what you would like, as opposed to the specifics. 

[00:01:00] And the reason for that is because a lot of times what we’re thinking we would like, what we’ve decided, those specific things. The specifics are usually a conclusion for what we would like. What do I mean by that? Well, let’s say you would like to take your family on a vacation. Just a really beautiful, say, three week vacation. And you want to take your parents and your kids and your spouse and some friends, like let’s say you, you want to take like 20 people on this three week vacation.

Now, most of us. Maybe most of us wouldn’t want to do that, but let’s say the first thing we would go to is, okay, well, if I’d like to do that, then I need money. That’s going to cost, let’s say, 50, 000. So I need to have money. So I’m going to start asking for 50, 000. This is where we get tripped up because we’re asking for the conclusion of what we would like rather than what we would like.

So what I encourage people to do is [00:02:00] look at what that trip, if you were to take all of your friends and family and everybody you would like on that three week vacation, what What does that feel like? Oh gosh, it feels so much fun. It feels like there’s going to be a lot of adventure. Oh man, I feel like so many memories would be made.

Oh, I just, and I feel so proud that I could do it. And so you want to get all of those energies. And then you want to start asking for those energies. And not specifically, but just all, all I suggest people do is daydream. Just take a moment, daydream. You’re doing that vacation, you’ve taken them there all, everybody’s happy there, everybody’s having the time of their life, you’re just daydreaming about it, all those energies.

And you start asking for that. Because those specifics of I need money for this and that. What if you could win it? What if there’s a bazillion other ways that the universe could deliver it, but the minute we ask for the money for it, we’ve, what I often call, [00:03:00] We’ve cut the universe off at the knees Universe could deliver it 5, 000 ways and we’ve said only one way and then I’m probably not going to receive that either Because we are just like that sometimes we are just like that So what we want to recognize is that when I talk about asking if that was the only tool you ever used To manifest your dream life, what I would like you to do is start putting a reminder somewhere, maybe a sticky note on your bathroom mirror, or a note on your phone that can pop up as a reminder every day.

Ask for what you would like. All again, I’m just asking you, daydream a little bit. And then, so simple, it could be something like, universe I’ll have that. So you’re daydreaming about it, you’re getting all the yummy energies, universe I’ll have that. Universal have that. Oh yeah. And for me, at least, there’s a more and more expansive yummy energy as I play with that.

And it doesn’t have to be [00:04:00] long. If you were to take five minutes a day, tops five minutes a day, that would start to shift and change things. Now, will it show up exactly the way that you’re daydreaming about it? Maybe, honestly, probably not. Because what I have found in my experience of using all of these magical tools, specifically the asking one.

is that it often shows up way better than I knew to ask for. Way better than I knew to ask for and I’ll give you an example and this is from years ago But it’s still one of my favorite examples hubby, and I were looking for a new acreage So we were living on an acreage, which is if you’re not familiar with that term it’s like something like this where you have a house and you have more acres than just a house you know, a partial acre.

We had, I think, five or six acres. So we were living, uh, in a certain spot on an acreage. We loved the acreage, but we wanted to be closer to the airport. So this was back in 2017, and I started [00:05:00] looking around, uh, Sherwood Park area, Edmonton area, it’s in Alberta, and what ended up happening, there were so many pieces to this, it was just, it was just like a miracle after miracle after miracle, because what I was asking for was All these yummy energies and I did have some specifics.

I absolutely had some specifics. I had to be able to get good internet because the acreage we were at, at the time, we could not get good acre uh, good internet without good internet. cutting down trees because of the lines and such, and we weren’t willing to do that. So I had some specifics, but for the most part, I just went off energies.

A couple specifics, kept asking. And then we ended up at an Airbnb because I wanted to do a class that was both in person and online. And because our internet wasn’t very good, I rented an Airbnb in Sherwood Park, knowing we wanted to live in that area too. And it happened to have, well, not happened, I rented it [00:06:00] because it had a swimming pool in the back.

And I just, I’ve always been a swimming pool gal. I’ve always been a lake swimmer, not so much an ocean swimmer, just cause I’m not as familiar. Uh, I, all those things, but water for me, absolute water. So I rented this Airbnb, we had it for a week, I did my classes, uh, had friends over, had family over. And the night that we had family over, so Rodney has Hubby, as I call him, uh, but his name is actually Rodney, he has three kids and they all have kids.

So we had grandkids and we had kids and we just had the best time. We just had the absolute best time because we were all together. And everybody could be entertained in whatever way they wanted. So as adults, if we wanted to go swimming, we could. If you were in the pool, you could still visit with people at the table because it was all together.

The kids swimming could kind of play their own stuff, but also could interact with us. It was truly the most fun we’d had, probably. to date at that point. 

[00:07:00] So went to bed that night the next morning and hubby says, you know, I started googling how to care for pools and it’s not that hard. And I thought, What a weird comment.

Because we weren’t looking for a house with a swimming pool. We would never, ever have looked for a house with a swimming pool had we not been at that acreage. Or at that, at that Airbnb. It wasn’t an acreage. So he started Googling it. He was watching YouTube videos. Because this is the type of guy he is.

He loves to educate himself about everything. And then, guess what? Three days later, the house that came up on, uh, for sale had a swimming pool. So, in all of those energies that I was asking for, and the few specifics I had, swimming pool was never part of that. It couldn’t have been. It wasn’t part of my world.

I would say that I had this really interesting idea that, It was silly [00:08:00] to pay for a swimming pool, as a Canadian, for four or five months of the year and the rest of the time it had to be closed up. And it wasn’t until we started looking at it, we had one, we, Hubby searched how to care for it, we started educating ourself, and then all of a sudden this possibility came up.

And it was, it was, it was a big yes for me, and, and Hubby too, I would say, but definitely for me. And that I could not have asked for. And this is where, when I talk about the energies, and specifics if there are some, because we, even with a swimming pool, if there would have been no way to put in good internet, So I could do classes and all that.

We wouldn’t have bought it. I know that because that’s my business, not a hundred percent of my business, but 90 percent of my business was online. And you know, that was 2017. So as we got into 2020 and on, it became even more online, but it was that important. And so those specifics you know that are absolute [00:09:00] deal breakers, absolutely add them in.

But otherwise go with energies, because with those energies, it can show up. Way better than you never truly, truly imagined possible. And that, that to me is where the joy of living is. I remember years ago, I would say probably like 2002, 2003, when I very first started this energy journey, this energy healing and creation and manifestation and all of it.

I did specifics all the time. I, I followed Law of Attraction and the way that I understood Law of Attraction was that I needed to be very specific. So I would make vision boards. I would get very clear. I remember the first acreage we bought, I had a list of like 20 things that, that it had to have, again, so specific.

And that’s, again, not bad. But what would happen for me is every time I would manifest what I was asking for, I actually felt like I was really [00:10:00] a bad person, because I didn’t have the joy with it. There wasn’t the gratitude with it. It was like, oh, okay, yes, I asked for this. Oh, and then I’d have to force myself to be grateful.

And just, you know, it was insane. But what I realized as I started choosing more from energy and manifesting more from energy was that that’s when the beyond what I never imagined possible And that’s where the joy was. And that has made so much difference in my world. Now, with that, you do have to let go of some control.

Obviously not 100 percent because it works for me and I’m still a control freak of magnitude. But, You do need to let go of some control. So that’s where those energies come in without saying, you know, it needs to be a red sports car with these types of rims and this sort of sound system and all of that.

It’s like, okay, what would be fun? What would be fun to drive? Now maybe you need to think about the red [00:11:00] sports car with the rims, like all of that to get the energy. That’s fine. Do that and just allow it to show up however it’s going to show up and really Allow the universe to surprise you. It’s one of the questions that I ask every day as a universe.

How many ways can you surprise and delight me with my asks showing up right away or my dream life showing up right away or however you want to finish it. They’re asking. They’re asking for it. And that is, if you’re only gonna use one tool, please start getting the energies of what you would like daydream about it, and then ask for that universe.

I’ll have this universe show me. Show me what’s required. Another way that I love to ask, another way that I love to ask is something called F four masons. So not F four masons, but F four masons. And this is where you ask why questions of what you would like. 

[00:12:00] Why is it so easy for me to surprise and delight myself with my, my dream life showing up right away? Why is manifesting my dream life so easy for me? Why do I love how quickly things show up for me? Like where you’re asking, It has a why question, what you would like. Now the reason that that works is because our brain is constantly answering the questions that we are asking. It’s just usually we’re asking questions we don’t want answered.

Like, why is life so hard? Why do I have to struggle with this? Why does this never work for me? Stop asking those questions, guys. You do not want to ask those. Start asking the questions you would like. Why is manifestation so easy for me? Why am I magical as fuck? Why is life so fun for me? I ask those questions.

What you’ll notice, at least what I notice, I can’t say for sure you will, but what I notice is the joy and the expansiveness, the more [00:13:00] that I ask those. And it becomes where you’ve got to be a little bit tenacious, where you’re willing to stop Questions you’re asking that aren’t creating what you would like and turn it into questions you would like answered.

So you do need to be willing to catch yourself and turn it into what the what you would like and that’s Honestly, that’s just that’s just gonna be trial and error for yourself. You’re gonna have to just start paying attention especially Especially to the thoughts you’re thinking, because a lot of times we’re really not present with those.

And those ones can be really tricky too. Again, this was supposed to be just one thing. This whole show was supposed to be on one thing, so go back to, you know, asking for what you would like and, and start there. If you would like my morning routine, this is a free gift for you. We’ve got the link above or below.

If you can’t find the link, reach out. And it is my, it’s like a checklist on a PDF, but I’ve also recorded it kind of like a meditation. I call them energetic [00:14:00] exercises. So if you would like to, uh, like to utilize that every morning, it’s got some affirmations in it. It’s got kind of tapping into that energy of what you would like.

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[00:00:00] I would have never guessed that I would do a radio show about this ever, and yet here we are. Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. Yeah, I have done Thousands, maybe hundreds, I don’t know, many radio shows over the years.

This is a brand new one, so if you listen via your favorite podcast app, make sure to find it, Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life and subscribe that way. And I’ve always talked about manifesting and actualizing and creating as though everyone can do it. All the time. Whatever your dream is, you can do it.

Yeah, I’m here to tell you today. Okay. Okay. That, yeah, I’ve matured, let’s call it that. Yes, I am in my fifties, early fifties. I, 51, I think, I don’t even remember. Oh my gosh. 

So, you [00:01:00] know, in my fifties and I have only just in the last little while really started, really started acknowledging what is true with regards to manifesting, creating all of that.

And this is one of the big ones that. I’m really talking about a lot to get out there for everybody, especially if you’ve listened to me in the past and I’ve made it sound like whatever you would like, you can have. Now, with that, do I think that nobody should have dreams or nobody should, you know, look at what they would like to be creating or dream big?

That is not what I’m talking about at all, okay? At all. What I am looking at, though, is How can you be more present with what is? I highly recommend, if you haven’t listened to the first, I believe it was the first show in this new podcast, called Four Truths to Manif Four Hard Truths to Manifestation.

It’ll be linked in the show notes below also. And [00:02:00] also, however you consume this, you might be watching this on video, there should be a link to the show notes somewhere. If not, just reach out, I’ll get them for you. So, in that, in that podcast, I and this one is, is kind of a, a deeper dive with regards to not just privilege and, and acknowledging, you know, your own privilege or maybe where you’ve seen other people manifest things and you’re figuring, trying to figure out why you can’t do it.

And so, you know, maybe acknowledging other people’s privilege, all that sort of stuff. So when we have a dream. We really have a desire of something that we would like. Often we put it into what I refer to as fantasy. If you’re making a thousand dollars a month, the fantasy could be even 10, 000 a month.

Heck, it could be 2, 000 a month. It’s really going to depend. And this is where you need to get present with you. You need to look at what’s actually true for you. 

If you are [00:03:00] working four different jobs and Have no spare time. You’ve got a family and you’re, you’re just barely making ends meet. Well, probably honestly on 1,000 a month, you’re not especially nowadays, but you know, like you’ve got no extra time.

You’ve got no extra space. To go from a thousand to ten thousand is probably impossible in that moment. And so this is where I talk about really, well, I’m just starting to talk about, really getting present with what is. So we’re not taking away the dreaming big. We’re not taking away the, the possibilities energy.

What we want to do is have it be more, more possible for you at that time so that you can work towards a different one. So let’s say it’s a thousand dollars and you don’t have, you’re working for jobs and this is this, this, you have no other space. So what you could look at then maybe it’s, 

Maybe it’s possible within two of those jobs to [00:04:00] ask for a raise. So maybe your, your dream is then to get to 1, 100 a month or 1, 200 a month. So we take it into more of a, what we could call baby steps. Because that’s a much easier to take action on than if we went to this fantasy from 1, 000 to 10, 000. And I know on social media, believe me I know, there’s a million people out there telling you how they did it and it’s just so easy.

Guys, again, we’ve got to look at those people. There’s probably a lot of privilege within those people. And, and I don’t mean that as a judgment, believe me, I am very privileged. I’m very, very privileged in so many ways. And that’s why I think it’s important for me to be talking about this now and really inviting everyone, whether you have lots of privilege, a little bit of privilege, no privilege, whatever it is to really start looking at things.

I’m not a big fan of the word, realistically. But I’m not really sure what else to use right now. 

And so that’s the [00:05:00] best word. So realistically, in the sense of, yes, of course, there’s always another possibility. Always. Is it possible from 1000 to 10, 000? That may not be possible. If you start taking action towards 10, 000.

For some people, that might get them to the 1, 200 and that’s exciting and they can celebrate it. Yay! However, most people are not like that. They go, they’re at 1, 000, they’re asking for 10, 000, and guess what happens? They state, they make 1, 200, but it’s not enough, it’s not 10. So, you know, maybe they get to 13, well it’s not enough, it’s not 10, and then they go into the judgment, the wrongness, and they start going, in a sense, backwards because it’s not the 10.

So if you’re that person, If the 10 is like the deal breaker, you’re a success only if you have the, the 10, the specific thing you asked for, you’re only a success, then change the ask, please, please, because every one of us, [00:06:00] probably, I can’t say for sure, but probably every one of us likes to feel that sense of success, that sense of accomplishment, like we actually, we actually manifested what we asked for.

So if you’re asking for 1, 000 and you are nowhere near 10, 000, it’s, it’s, it’s years away because of what would need to be put in place, then please change it to 100, 1, 050, if that’s, you know, if that’s where your ask is. So I say this because it’s a really easy example for me to, to talk about but please know you don’t have to have it specific with how much money you would like.

In fact, you don’t have to have any specifics when you’re looking at manifesting your dream life. You can actually ask for energies. I recently created this really cool six step process to manifest your dream life. 

The link will be above or below if you want more information about it. And I actually had to go through [00:07:00] and change so much of what I used to do, it used to be a nine step process actually.

And I had to change a bunch of things. And so this was actually one of the questions. So this is what inspired me to do this radio show. Cause I used to have people go through all these different questions. And one of them now is, is this actually possible for me? Is this actually possible? Because if it’s not possible, then what is, what is if 10, 000 isn’t, then what is?

So going back to the, the energies, you know, maybe you would like to feel peaceful. Maybe you’d like to feel peaceful with regards to money. That to me is so much more of,

so much more of what I’m looking for. Okay, so I want you to cut that a little bit too. So for me, that is so much more of what’s true for what I’m looking for. 

Rather 200 or 10, 000 or 200 million a month, of having peace with money. is [00:08:00] so much more of what I’m actually asking for. So often we’re asking specifics when really it’s more of the energy.

So again, you don’t have to have specifics at all in terms of like the amount of money, but what are the energies you would like to have your, with your dream life? And then what I get people to do in this, in this process is actually write it out. So they go through all the pieces and then they write out what their dream life is.

Then they get the energy of that as they read through it over and over, and then they go through all of these questions. One of them being, is this actually possible? And it could even be, is this actually possible right now? Because it’s possible. Of course, everything is possible. I, I have always been, no, not always in the last, you know, 20 plus years, I have, I have always been About possibilities.

Absolutely. My, my why, actually, you know, there’s often with business people say to find out your why. Why are you doing what you’re doing? My why has always been. 

[00:09:00] Always been. So that every person on the planet knows that something else is possible. Not that their biggest dream is possible. No. But that something else is possible.

So again, we go back to those baby steps. And so I guess I, I did know on some level about this idea that maybe the, the, the fantasy isn’t really the thing, but there’s something else possible. And when we, when we break it down like that, you could have even two, two, two goals. You could have one of the 10, 000 a month and then the, you know, the, the other goal of being 1, So maybe you, you start asking for that again, if we’re doing specifics, you do not need to do them.

You can, you can actually receive so much with energies. In fact, they’re probably much funner for you. You just probably have got kind of caught up in what, what you’re supposed to do, which is, you know, what sort of car and what sort of body and what sort of job and how much money and all of those that somehow that means anything.

[00:10:00] Those things, at least for me, Once I started playing with more of what I would like energetically, that’s when the things started to show up because it got me out of concluding what things were. The conclusion that if I have 10, 000 a month, then it’s going to mean blah, blah, blah. That’s just a conclusion.

Ask for the blah, blah, blah. Yes, that’s my technical professional term. Right? So I, I will often ask people, it’s also in that list of questions of, you know, is this a conclusion? Are you asking for the 10, 000 a month so you could, you know buy groceries easily and pay all your bills and have a, a family, you know, event every Sunday?

If that’s the case, please ask for those things instead. Because those things could show up without having to have the 10, 000. Right? You could, you could, I don’t know, win lifetime groceries. Who knows? I’m not, I haven’t seen that, you know, out there, but probably somewhere it [00:11:00] is. 

Or you could win a, I don’t know, a year pass to some rec center that you can hang out all the time at with your kids or something.

There’s, there’s so many other possibilities than this kind of black and white idea that it has to look a certain way or be a certain way. So I’d really like to invite you to look at that for yourself. Look at your, what you are asking for, what you’re dreaming about. And I know money is a big one for a lot of people.

So when we’re watching, say, social media videos like TikTok or Instagram Reels or something like that, and people are making a big income claim, a lot of times it is from total privilege that they’re doing that. And if we don’t acknowledge that. Then we get really upset with ourself. We get really judgy of ourself.

We start, you know, joining into that fantasy that well, if they can do it, so can I. And yes, on one hand, yes, of course. And where are you now? 

Because if they’re making, I saw one last night, a gal making 500, 000 a month in her [00:12:00] coaching business. If you just started your coaching business yesterday, you Don’t, don’t look at her and what she’s doing now and go, okay, well, I’ll have that by Friday because it’s not kind to you at all.

And then you judge you and then you’ll probably quit your coaching business because you’re not making 500k a month. And I know this will be shocking for many of you, but there’s a lot of people who say a lot of things that aren’t actually true on social media. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. You just gotta start paying attention to your energy when you watch some of this or you read some of these posts And i’m not saying you shouldn’t, you know partake in social media.

I do I enjoy it There’s that but once I started really paying attention when people said stuff it was like Oh, wow. This is interesting. The other thing with, say, a lot of the, the typical manifestors, or people that speak about manifestation, which is what she does, is that there’s this idea that we are to, to act as though [00:13:00] it’s true.

That’s part of the energy. And I totally get it, and to a certain degree I agree. But it’s possible that a lot of those that you’re watching are stating what they would like to be true rather than what is true. And I’m not saying it’s not possible for someone to make 500k. I’m not even saying she’s not.

It’s just, I really want you to start paying attention to the energy when you’re being, you know, watching these things. And if there’s this heaviness or ickiness to it, it’s possible that it’s not actually true. And more important than anything is to stop looking at People outside of you and comparing you to that.

In fact, I gosh, this would have been probably two years ago. I think and I was on tick tock a lot and I was doing my alternate day fasting, which I still do occasionally, certainly not like I used to do and I was watching this guy and back then back a couple years ago. 

I was doing it, you know, truly every second day and I was watching this guy on social media [00:14:00] and he was doing alternate day fasting and he’d lost like.

I can’t remember, like a hundred pounds in six months or something like that. I mean, it was incredible. And what I finally noticed when I watched his videos, which he was putting them out quite often, probably every day, if not more I would feel really bad and I would really compare myself to what he had done compared to what I had done.

And I actually, Oh, and then what happened was I went in, I went away for a week and I was just, there was, it was a super busy week. I had no time to be on social media. Specifically Tik Tok. Yeah, I actually didn’t go back on Tik Tok for probably like six or eight months because I realized how much it was impacting my mental health to be comparing myself to people because I didn’t lose whatever he lost in the six months.

Then what am I doing wrong? Every time I watched his video, instead of celebrating him and being inspired, I was like, Oh, Man, I’m wrong again. Or maybe I didn’t do the alternate day. 

Maybe [00:15:00] that day was supposed to be an alternate day to fast that day. And I didn’t choose it. Well, now I’m wrong again because I didn’t choose it.

I ate and I shouldn’t have, but really my body was asking to like, there’s so much insanity. So, I mean, I’m talking a lot about this in different ways. Cause I really, really, really get how magical it could be if we were actually willing. To be honest with ourselves about what is. Be willing to inspire ourselves, be willing to choose greater.

But not into fantasy, not to where we stop ourself. But the, the, the reality again I don’t love that word, but the possibilities that are available right now. There we go. The possibilities that are available right now. If you are in that thousand dollars a month and you don’t have any space to add anything Except maybe a little bit more sleep.

Please choose sleep. And look at what’s the baby step. And maybe it’s not even a dollar amount. Maybe [00:16:00] it’s about peace with money. Maybe it’s about asking somebody that, you know, is, that could help you to help you. Maybe there’s different ways, instead of, you know, just a few hundred extra dollars, maybe there’s something else that would, that would actually be more of what you’re asking for.

Please don’t take from this that nothing is possible, that you’re stuck where you’re at. That is not what I’m saying. What I’m inviting you to is to really be aware of what is possible with what is right now. And know that every baby step you take will get you where you would like to be. It will get you there.

It’s just that, let’s choose baby steps now. And that can actually change your life. Increase your chance of the, the bigger ask, the bigger thing you would like. Alright, as always, I invite you to my manifesting membership. It is so much fun, you guys. 

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Every Monday, you get a new energetic exercise. There’s It’s all sorts of awesomeness in the Facebook group. We are at almost 60 members at this time of recording and I would love if you came and joined us. Information is above or below. If you don’t see it, just reach out and I’ll get it for you.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered why your dreams haven’t come true? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. If you are listening to this via a podcast, please know this is a brand new podcast.

So if you’ve been following me a while, maybe you’ve listened to my other show called Tools to Create a Better Life. You’ll want to make sure to add this podcast to your podcast app. If you’re watching the video, thank you. I’m so grateful. I’m so grateful you’re all here. As always, just. I’m just so incredibly grateful.

So are you wondering why the heck your dreams haven’t come true yet? Yes. So there’s so many reasons really I could probably do a hundred shows about this. And one of them could very well be one of the myths that I talked about in my previous show called Four Hard Truths About Manifestation. We will link that in the 

[00:01:00] show notes below. So please listen to that show. That really is to me. The starting point for all of this. So this one isn’t going to go into those. I am actually going to talk about one thing in particular. And it’s one thing that most people don’t even consider when they are manifesting their dream life or manifesting maybe a specific amount of money or a relationship or whatever it may be.

It doesn’t matter what it is. You want to consider this. And so I’ll start a little bit with some information before I talk about that question. Okay. That we want to look at and then I’ll take you through a little bit of an exercise with it. So the first thing is to look at what it is you would like.

And so what I’d like you to do right now is, is just walk along through this with me. Just think of something specific maybe that you would like to be manifesting. Maybe again, a certain amount of money, maybe you’ve got some energies of what you would like in your, in your life. Just whatever it is, I just want you to bring that to mind.

And in a moment I’m going to ask [00:02:00] you a question and what I’m going to ask you to do is pay attention to your awareness with the response to that question. Now what the heck does that mean? Your awareness is basically an energy. You, when, when I ask you this question you will probably get Big expanse of yummy energy.

like, yum. Or you might get a really heavy, icky, blah, energy. Either are okay. Now you might also get something different too. And it’s usually kind of the expansive or the contractive, the light or the heavy, the, the bright or the dark. There’s lots of ways it can show up. Sometimes when I ask these questions, it’s not so much a feeling or an energy.

You just know, you just have the knowing in the moment that I asked this question. So if you might, if you’re new to reading your own awareness, this might be a bit of a practice 

[00:03:00] for you. And that’s great. That is great. You want it, you want to practice. Okay. So now let’s go back to the energy of what you’re asking for.

I’m going to do it too. So I’m just going to take a moment. Okay. What I would like. Yeah. Okay. Okay. I’ve got it. And what I do in that moment is I kind of close my eyes. I really get the energy of it. Like, Like, like I’m doing it, I’m living it, I’m being it, all of that, just really in the spaciousness of that.

And then the question I will, I’m going to ask you, so I’ll give you a moment, get in the energy of, of what you’re asking for. Truth. Are you willing to receive it?

Right? I know this is something most people don’t ask. They dream big, they have all these ideas, all these things, maybe they’re on social media and they see people having all sorts of amazing experiences and things and houses and all of that and they go after them but they don’t actually check in. 

Are you willing [00:04:00] to receive it?

Slower. Yeah, now here is the super cool thing. If you got, no you are not, you don’t have to go well, I guess I can’t have it then, I guess that’s it, no, we can actually change that. But first we have to acknowledge if we’re not willing to receive it because no matter what, no matter what, if you aren’t willing to receive it, you will not manifest it.

So this is one of the four questions that I ask about people once they’ve kind of got the energy of what they would like and all of that, then I take them through these four questions. But this one is the one that the show is about today. Cause I really want you to start looking at this cause it’s probably the biggest tripping point for people.

And they don’t even recognize. Now, how do we change it? If we’re not willing to receive it, I happen to, when I, when I got the energy of mind and asked that question, I happen to get a yes in 

[00:05:00] this case. A lot of times I don’t. A lot of times it’s a no. But in this case, I happen to get a yes. So that’s exciting.

So I don’t need to do anything. I just get to be excited and and do, take whatever action is required to, to have it occur, have it happen. Yeah. Now, if not, if you got a no, then what you want to look at is how can you change that? What’s required? So for most people, it’s probably a mindset shift that’s required, which means you want to start looking at it.

So let’s say, let’s use the example of you were asking for an additional $1,000 this month. Okay. So you got that you’re not willing to receive that. Okay. So then the question becomes, What is that? So just get super curious. Like, what is that? What is it that you’re not willing to receive an additional $1,000 a month?

Well, maybe, maybe growing up, you heard money. If you wanted money, it was greedy. 

Maybe you’ve [00:06:00] decided it’s impossible. Like an additional thousand dollars. That’s impossible. There could be, you know, a memory come up from earlier in maybe even in childhood where. A thousand dollars was made to be seem like too much money or I mean, there’s so many possibilities with it.

You just want to get really present with it and curious with no judgment. So that if you do have the idea that say the memory comes up when you were telling a friend about receiving some money, let’s say a couple of years ago, somebody paid you. You know, double what they owed you because they were so grateful for what you did.

So they gave you a thousand dollars instead of 500. And maybe your friend that you were telling was like, Oh my gosh, I can’t believe you accepted that you shouldn’t have or something like that. Now here’s the thing, guys, we’re so fricking aware that we don’t even have to have that person. Say those words.

If they thought it, we probably received it energetically. 

[00:07:00] So you want to be aware of that too, but this is what you want to be, you know, present with and look at that and be like, wow, okay. I probably shut off my receiving of that thousand dollars because of, you know, whatever the situation was. Now comes some maybe woo woo energy stuff that I like to do where I would in that case.

So using that example, I would. Imagine myself in that, in that energy again, I would be, be in that space with telling that friend, I would bring up the energy and then I would just energetically melt it like it’s hard to put to words how I do that but you could imagine if you’re visual, you could imagine like, you know, maybe taking fire and burning up all of the the, the, those heavy energies about it.

You could take a water hose and wash away the energies. I mean, you could get really creative, but basically you just want to get rid of that stuff in that moment that came up. 

Now you might not have a [00:08:00] specific memory or thought or anything. You might be like, I have no clue. I’m just not willing to receive it.

So then what you could do, this is one of my favorite tools that I use all the time for all sorts of things, is I pull the sun from the sky, obviously energetically, I pull the sun from the sky and I pull it down into the situation. So in this case, if I only had, I just got no, I’m not willing to receive it, but I have no, no idea why not or what’s occurred or anything.

I just pull that sun energetically down into me, into the situation, into receiving. That whatever my ask is all the way down into the ground and I just hold it there basically until it just shifts the energy of it. And then you just check back in. So truth, am I willing to receive, in this case, an additional thousand dollars this month?

If it’s still a no, there might be some more curiosity with it. 

Sometimes [00:09:00] you need to walk away for a while, sometimes you need to go do something else, get your mind out of it, stop thinking about it you know, go distract yourself, go on TikTok, or watch Netflix, or go for a walk, or something, and then come back maybe tomorrow and, and look at it again.

Sometimes we just need the time to shift it. Sometimes we need the, the space for it to shift. I mean, there’s, again, there’s so many things with it. You just want to be present. Be aware of it, present with it, get curious about it, and don’t push or force it to change. You will change it, that I can guarantee.

How or when, that’s different. That’s just going to take possibly time, you might do it right away. You might do it by the time this, this program ends, whether you’re watching it as a, as a show or you’re listening as a podcast, it might be gone. I mean, how cool would that be that it’s just gone? Yeah. Right. And, and we can be that magical. 

Now, like I said, for [00:10:00] the majority of it, when we get a no, we’re not willing to receive it. It’s probably a mindset thing that’s going on, but if you don’t know, maybe there’s no mindset, there’s no nothing, kind of like what I talked about, you’re just know, you’re not willing to receive it.

Use the sun tool and, and shift it that way, even if you have no clue if it’s mindset, if there was a situation, if it was just an energy thing, I mean. The way that I see things, doesn’t mean you have to see them this way, but the way that I see things is that there are many, many lifetimes that we have lived.

And a lot of times, many of our limitations are from other lifetimes. So then it can get pretty wonky because we don’t actually have the memory of something going on in that lifetime. Or a different lifetime that would cause us to not receive this lifetime. So, rather than having to spend a lot of time trying to figure it out and, and make sense of it and oh gosh, that’s exhausting.

And, and people can actually get really distracted and really mindfuck themself [00:11:00] with all of that. So just bring the sunshine in. Just bring the sunshine in. And, the other thing with the tool of the sunshine, you might pull it in and it might just poof, pop right back out again. Okay, so what you want to do is get even more present with it, pull it in, and hold it there.

Hold it there until it stays there. So have fun with it guys. I would love to hear if you use this, if you shift anything, how you shift it, what’s changing for you. I always love feedback. So you can, however you’re listening to this, if you’re listening by podcast, you can find me on all the socials. And send me a message that way.

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[00:00:00] Are you ready for some hard truths about manifestation? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. And yes, this is a brand new podcast. So, if you listen on a podcast app, make sure to go and search Manifest Your Dream Life, or if you get the show notes, the link to all of the podcast apps are in there otherwise it continues on YouTube and all the other places.

So, grateful to have you here. This is going to be a bit of a different show, my sweet friends. Yes, four hard truths about manifestation. So for me, I actually learned about manifestation back in 2002. So 22 years ago, I started studying it and I mean, I, I delve deep into it. I was so excited about it. It was such, such a yummy 

[00:01:00] energy. And I studied it as though the way that most people talk about manifestation in terms of, if you just think hard enough, You focus hard enough. You make the vision board. You are good enough. Then you’ll get the thing or you’ll have the experience or you’ll feel the feels, whatever it may be. This show is really, really what it is now, at least to me.

Now, you might have a different idea about it. This might not be true for you. That’s totally fine. This is where I’m at with it 22 years later. And I would say probably this started probably about 20 years ago, 20 years, no, two years ago, so probably about 20 years in, when I really started looking at what I mean when I’m talking about manifestation.

So I would say the easiest way to talk about what manifestation is for me now is to talk about what it isn’t, which is these four hard truths. So, number one is 

[00:02:00] that, again, this idea that if we just believe and focus on and think enough about or create enough energy around a certain thing or experience, whatever it is, that it’ll just show up.

And that’s, that’s, that’s what’s required. Now, again, I used to believe that I used to teach that even, but let’s look at this a little bit broader. Let’s consider the people on the planet right now, and there’s many of them going through atrocities. Does that actually make sense then? If they were just to think about not having that go on, if they were just to make a vision board about that not going on, they were just to think positive enough.

No, that is absolute bullshit. And so we’ve got to look at it from that place of it not being. about thinking about it, hoping for it, 

[00:03:00] wishing about it. So that’s the hard truth number one, is it’s not this airy fairy, just, just focus on it and you’ll have it. Ouch, right? So hard truth number two is that manifestation often gets us to bypass our feelings, to pretend that we’re not feeling what we are, or.

We don’t allow ourselves to feel what we feel because we have to stay positive, which is referred to as toxic, toxic Positivity where we’ve got to focus on feeling good to create the thing we would like and that is really really harmful I remember back. I think it was like 2004. So I was a couple years into studying manifestation and My, my kitty at the time died very suddenly.

He had a heart problem and in the vet attempting to save him, it actually killed him. And it was, it was horrible. I was devastated. 

[00:04:00] However, I couldn’t feel those feels because those were negative. So you can’t be sad. You can’t be mad. You can’t feel the feels. You have to put on a happy face and do all of the, the reasoning and the justifying.

Well, he had a good life. Well, we had some time with him. Well, anyway, what ended up happening is that I actually had a session. So a client came to me for a session, something totally unrelated. She sat down in the chair, her and I started talking and I started crying. Not even kidding, my feels came out at the most inappropriate time.

I was horribly embarrassed and I still didn’t see what I was doing. I still didn’t acknowledge it for, for bypassing or not, not getting present with those feels. Now hard truth number four is that there is a lot of victim blaming. in manifestation. And I would say in my 

[00:05:00] experience, because again, myself and also working with so many people manifesting their dream lives is that we either gaslight ourself or we gaslight each other.

Well, did you really think positive enough? Like how much time did you put into creating that vision board? How much time did you did you worry about not getting it? Well, that’s probably why you didn’t get it. Like. Ah, it is so unkind. It is so unhealthy. And especially for that constant judgment of ourselves.

I mean, constant judgment of others or receiving others. Constant judgment, of course, is also not healthy, but that incessant judgment of us and what we did wrong and how bad we are and how we should have just done that one thing. And. No, just stop, just stop with blaming, stop with seeing it as so black and white.

To me there’s so much more, and we’ll get to that in, in a moment here. So hard truth number four is a 

[00:06:00] big kick in the ass for me, it is something that I didn’t want to look at, it is something I wanted to avoid and it’s important for each one of us to really get present with this. A lot of times when we’re using the word manifest, we should actually be using the word privilege.

I know, I know. Years ago, when we bought our dream home, my dream home, Hubby, I mean he enjoyed it, but he didn’t love it as much as I did. It had its own swimming pool, it had a whole bunch of space, I mean it was truly my dream home beyond what I never imagined possible. And when I say I manifested my dream home, often what we would look at with that is, is as though I was given it as a gift, as though someone handed it to me and said, here you go, let’s put your name on the title.

It wasn’t the case. No, I bought the house. 

[00:07:00] So did I manifest it or did the fact that I had money, the, the privilege of money to purchase it? What is it? I know, and this is where we just have to get so honest with ourselves and really looking at when we’re using the word manifest, do we mean it? Is that actually true?

Because so many times it is actually privilege. Now the part of that that I do see as manifestation is the absolute magic that it took to find that house. So in, in, when we were searching. We had looked at lots of places and on the last house we looked at with our realtor, our realtor said, Hey, you know what?

You should also be checking Kijiji, which in Canada is like a Craigslist in the U S it’s, it’s a forum where people can go and sell things. We’d never considered looking for our house on Kijiji. That night when we got home, 

[00:08:00] hubby went and looked on Kijiji and found this incredible house. And it had a aerial view picture, so we could see this big, beautiful pool.

Now, not only that, that we had just got home from spending a week at an Airbnb that had a pool, and Hubby actually said to me, wow, pools are so much easier to care for than I thought. So there was so much magic to us finding that house. All of it, like, you know, these bread crumbs to, to finding it. And the privilege of having the money to purchase it.

So it’s really acknowledging what is and, and not to, not to say that I’m, I’m less than that house was less than because I had the money to pay for it. But no, but also not calling it. I manifested, I didn’t manifest that house. I manifested finding that house. That’s the way I would like to, to, to refer to it.

And I had the privilege of 

[00:09:00] having the money to buy the house. And so it just puts a different shift on things. It doesn’t take away the excitement. It doesn’t take away the gratitude. It doesn’t take away the magic. It actually increases all of those because in that I’m acknowledging what is. There’s no more fantasy of I just sat on the couch and hoped and wished and dreamed for it and it fell in my lap.

Somebody handed me the, you know, the papers to own this house. No. And that’s often how we take manifestation, is that it is this airy fairy, sit on the couch, do nothing, think good thoughts, and your life will be magical. No, actually, no. So what is it then? So for me, manifestation is that magic, is those breadcrumbs, is the following of the energy, following of your energy.

You know, we 

[00:10:00] talk a lot about things feeling really yummy and expansive and following that. Now, when I say that, I don’t mean not feeling non yummy and expansive feelings, right? Go back to the example with, with my kitty dying. That was not a time to be feeling expansive and yummy energies. It was a time to be with what is, as it is, and not pretending or pushing away or bypassing Those feelings.

Now, along with the magic, there is also a very healthy dose of what is now. I don’t mean what is from the very limited energy of, we can just have what, what is possible for us the way that, you know, society has set it out. That’s not what I mean. And for example, if I really wanted to be an astronaut right now, I actually couldn’t be.

I couldn’t be an astronaut right now. There’s various things. One, I’m too 

[00:11:00] old. The, the, the latest age you can become an astronaut is 50. There’s a lot of things that would be have to put in place that would probably take me years to get there and a whole bunch of other things. So being an astronaut for me right now, and I know it’s a silly example, but that’s a silly example.

End. And it’s the best one I have. So when we look at that, when I look at that and I go, Oh my gosh, I really want to be an astronaut. I could put a lot of creative energy into, Okay, but what else is possible? And, and what magic could I be? And, and all of this stuff. Okay, could do that. I’m not saying you shouldn’t do that.

I just wonder, when I look at things now, I look at them through that filter of, What is possible and what, what is that then if I look at, if I’d really like to be an astronaut, what is it that I would like about that? What are the 

[00:12:00] energies I’m looking for? Maybe there’s a sense of excitement and a sense of floating in space that would be super cool.

And doing something that few people have done, like, you know, all of these kinds of energies. So then I could look at how else could I. Create those. How else could I choose those? How else could I experience those? So letting go of maybe the definition of what we’ve decided something needs to be and putting our creative energy into the energies that we would like, just to get us out of all of the things, all of those myths I talked about before, victim blaming and bypassing and all of that insanity, really looking at, okay, what would I like?

Now, for some people, the word create actually much. is a much better match than the word manifest. And that I would recommend if that’s you, please use it instead of the word manifest. Manifest, again, has so many energies on it. There’s so many crazy [00:13:00] ideas of what it is. And so if it’s more comfortable for you, start looking at, okay, well, how can I create my life?

So that, that takes kind of maybe that airy fairy off of it, depending on what definition you’ve had of it. How could I create this? So, let’s say that you have let’s say you’ve been, you know, like me, always had extra weight. Since I was six years old, I’ve had extra weight. And so for years and years, I would put my creative energy into weighing 110 pounds.

Now why 110 pounds? Because if you go to the doctor, they have these charts on the wall. And because I’m not even five foot one in height, 110 pounds is what they say is normal for my body. So I had this fantasy of 110 pounds. That is never going to occur. And I don’t say that as a limitation. I don’t say that as anything except that I am going to get present with what is.

[00:14:00] I’m never going to weigh 110 pounds and actually I’m okay with that. So a few years ago when I was really looking at, okay, body, what would you like body? How, how would you like to be? Yeah, that was a totally different energy. Smaller, yes, at the time I weighed 290 pounds. So yes, she desired to be smaller, absolutely.

There was a lot of action. Yeah, I had to look at that. Was there a lot of action? There was a lot of action. I started doing alternate day fasting, which meant I didn’t eat for, you know, 40 hours, and then I would eat again. Maybe a few meals in an eight hour period and then fast another 40 hours and and then I started walking a lot and then I started running and there was a lot of things that I was choosing a lot of action that I was taking with my body and and then we got to a certain weight and she’s happy she’s happy where we’re at and it is not 110 pounds as you can see and I am happy with that because that hundred and ten pounds that idea of 110 pounds 

[00:15:00] wasn’t it. What I was actually looking for it was all of those energies. It was the spaciousness It was getting out of the judgment. It was the the joy of having a body So much of it had nothing to do with the 110 pounds. So again, yes I created the change in my body. Absolutely. I manifested it. We could use that but also Acknowledging that I had the time To do the walking and do the running I had the space I had the privilege of fasting, and that might not sound like a privilege to many, however, it is not an easy thing to do.

If I had kids that I was feeding, that would be a very difficult thing. I don’t know that I could honestly do it if I was also preparing meals and feeding others. I also know that when I fast, I need to have a lot of space. So I will usually around suppertime, I will go into the bath for an hour or two, and For to, to really get away and be 

[00:16:00] spacious. And the other thing I do is I have a sea salt, sea salt, Epsom salt bath that really assists with, with fasting. Those are all things I can do because I have the privilege to do it. There are many people on the planet that couldn’t. So again, we’re acknowledging all the pieces. It’s not that I manifested the weight loss sitting on the couch, hoping and wishing and dreaming.

So I would love to hear from you. I would love to hear if you’ve looked at privilege in, in what you’ve created in your life. If you’ve, if this is a brand new topic for you what, where are you with it? What, what is it for you? Cause I know I’ve had a couple of years now of really being present with it more.

So I would say in the last few months, And I still chose to use the word manifest in my podcast. I have an amazing, amazing monthly membership called Manifesting Membership, where you’re manifesting your dream life. 

[00:17:00] So, I’m still using the word. I could avoid the word. But I don’t think it’s about that. I actually, I actually get that it’s time for us to really acknowledge what is.

And there is manifesting, and there is creating, and there is privilege, and there is a lot of lies about manifesting. And if you prefer to use a different word, please do that. But just to recognize that there’s so much more here than maybe what we’ve ever considered. And I wonder what might be possible now that has never been possible before when we acknowledge what is and we be the magic that we be and we create the lives that, that really light us up, that really excite us, that are really true for us, not based on the crazy of this reality or what chart is in your doctor’s office.

Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. Have a great week. I look forward to chatting again soon.

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