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[00:00:00] If you were only going to do one thing and you wanted to manifest your dream life, this would be it. Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. We are currently at a Pet and House It in Montana.

It is so beautiful here, guys. If you’re watching this on the video, you don’t, I mean, you see some nature behind me. Oh, there’s horses over there. There’s mountains. I mean, it is beautiful. Oh, my goodness. So, okay, if you’re going to do this one thing, what the heck would it be? Asking for what you would like.

Now, before you hit stop, I want you to take a moment and it’s not hard. You don’t have to know specifically what you would like. What I am always encouraging people to do is to actually get the energy of what you would like, as opposed to the specifics. 

[00:01:00] And the reason for that is because a lot of times what we’re thinking we would like, what we’ve decided, those specific things. The specifics are usually a conclusion for what we would like. What do I mean by that? Well, let’s say you would like to take your family on a vacation. Just a really beautiful, say, three week vacation. And you want to take your parents and your kids and your spouse and some friends, like let’s say you, you want to take like 20 people on this three week vacation.

Now, most of us. Maybe most of us wouldn’t want to do that, but let’s say the first thing we would go to is, okay, well, if I’d like to do that, then I need money. That’s going to cost, let’s say, 50, 000. So I need to have money. So I’m going to start asking for 50, 000. This is where we get tripped up because we’re asking for the conclusion of what we would like rather than what we would like.

So what I encourage people to do is [00:02:00] look at what that trip, if you were to take all of your friends and family and everybody you would like on that three week vacation, what What does that feel like? Oh gosh, it feels so much fun. It feels like there’s going to be a lot of adventure. Oh man, I feel like so many memories would be made.

Oh, I just, and I feel so proud that I could do it. And so you want to get all of those energies. And then you want to start asking for those energies. And not specifically, but just all, all I suggest people do is daydream. Just take a moment, daydream. You’re doing that vacation, you’ve taken them there all, everybody’s happy there, everybody’s having the time of their life, you’re just daydreaming about it, all those energies.

And you start asking for that. Because those specifics of I need money for this and that. What if you could win it? What if there’s a bazillion other ways that the universe could deliver it, but the minute we ask for the money for it, we’ve, what I often call, [00:03:00] We’ve cut the universe off at the knees Universe could deliver it 5, 000 ways and we’ve said only one way and then I’m probably not going to receive that either Because we are just like that sometimes we are just like that So what we want to recognize is that when I talk about asking if that was the only tool you ever used To manifest your dream life, what I would like you to do is start putting a reminder somewhere, maybe a sticky note on your bathroom mirror, or a note on your phone that can pop up as a reminder every day.

Ask for what you would like. All again, I’m just asking you, daydream a little bit. And then, so simple, it could be something like, universe I’ll have that. So you’re daydreaming about it, you’re getting all the yummy energies, universe I’ll have that. Universal have that. Oh yeah. And for me, at least, there’s a more and more expansive yummy energy as I play with that.

And it doesn’t have to be [00:04:00] long. If you were to take five minutes a day, tops five minutes a day, that would start to shift and change things. Now, will it show up exactly the way that you’re daydreaming about it? Maybe, honestly, probably not. Because what I have found in my experience of using all of these magical tools, specifically the asking one.

is that it often shows up way better than I knew to ask for. Way better than I knew to ask for and I’ll give you an example and this is from years ago But it’s still one of my favorite examples hubby, and I were looking for a new acreage So we were living on an acreage, which is if you’re not familiar with that term it’s like something like this where you have a house and you have more acres than just a house you know, a partial acre.

We had, I think, five or six acres. So we were living, uh, in a certain spot on an acreage. We loved the acreage, but we wanted to be closer to the airport. So this was back in 2017, and I started [00:05:00] looking around, uh, Sherwood Park area, Edmonton area, it’s in Alberta, and what ended up happening, there were so many pieces to this, it was just, it was just like a miracle after miracle after miracle, because what I was asking for was All these yummy energies and I did have some specifics.

I absolutely had some specifics. I had to be able to get good internet because the acreage we were at, at the time, we could not get good acre uh, good internet without good internet. cutting down trees because of the lines and such, and we weren’t willing to do that. So I had some specifics, but for the most part, I just went off energies.

A couple specifics, kept asking. And then we ended up at an Airbnb because I wanted to do a class that was both in person and online. And because our internet wasn’t very good, I rented an Airbnb in Sherwood Park, knowing we wanted to live in that area too. And it happened to have, well, not happened, I rented it [00:06:00] because it had a swimming pool in the back.

And I just, I’ve always been a swimming pool gal. I’ve always been a lake swimmer, not so much an ocean swimmer, just cause I’m not as familiar. Uh, I, all those things, but water for me, absolute water. So I rented this Airbnb, we had it for a week, I did my classes, uh, had friends over, had family over. And the night that we had family over, so Rodney has Hubby, as I call him, uh, but his name is actually Rodney, he has three kids and they all have kids.

So we had grandkids and we had kids and we just had the best time. We just had the absolute best time because we were all together. And everybody could be entertained in whatever way they wanted. So as adults, if we wanted to go swimming, we could. If you were in the pool, you could still visit with people at the table because it was all together.

The kids swimming could kind of play their own stuff, but also could interact with us. It was truly the most fun we’d had, probably. to date at that point. 

[00:07:00] So went to bed that night the next morning and hubby says, you know, I started googling how to care for pools and it’s not that hard. And I thought, What a weird comment.

Because we weren’t looking for a house with a swimming pool. We would never, ever have looked for a house with a swimming pool had we not been at that acreage. Or at that, at that Airbnb. It wasn’t an acreage. So he started Googling it. He was watching YouTube videos. Because this is the type of guy he is.

He loves to educate himself about everything. And then, guess what? Three days later, the house that came up on, uh, for sale had a swimming pool. So, in all of those energies that I was asking for, and the few specifics I had, swimming pool was never part of that. It couldn’t have been. It wasn’t part of my world.

I would say that I had this really interesting idea that, It was silly [00:08:00] to pay for a swimming pool, as a Canadian, for four or five months of the year and the rest of the time it had to be closed up. And it wasn’t until we started looking at it, we had one, we, Hubby searched how to care for it, we started educating ourself, and then all of a sudden this possibility came up.

And it was, it was, it was a big yes for me, and, and Hubby too, I would say, but definitely for me. And that I could not have asked for. And this is where, when I talk about the energies, and specifics if there are some, because we, even with a swimming pool, if there would have been no way to put in good internet, So I could do classes and all that.

We wouldn’t have bought it. I know that because that’s my business, not a hundred percent of my business, but 90 percent of my business was online. And you know, that was 2017. So as we got into 2020 and on, it became even more online, but it was that important. And so those specifics you know that are absolute [00:09:00] deal breakers, absolutely add them in.

But otherwise go with energies, because with those energies, it can show up. Way better than you never truly, truly imagined possible. And that, that to me is where the joy of living is. I remember years ago, I would say probably like 2002, 2003, when I very first started this energy journey, this energy healing and creation and manifestation and all of it.

I did specifics all the time. I, I followed Law of Attraction and the way that I understood Law of Attraction was that I needed to be very specific. So I would make vision boards. I would get very clear. I remember the first acreage we bought, I had a list of like 20 things that, that it had to have, again, so specific.

And that’s, again, not bad. But what would happen for me is every time I would manifest what I was asking for, I actually felt like I was really [00:10:00] a bad person, because I didn’t have the joy with it. There wasn’t the gratitude with it. It was like, oh, okay, yes, I asked for this. Oh, and then I’d have to force myself to be grateful.

And just, you know, it was insane. But what I realized as I started choosing more from energy and manifesting more from energy was that that’s when the beyond what I never imagined possible And that’s where the joy was. And that has made so much difference in my world. Now, with that, you do have to let go of some control.

Obviously not 100 percent because it works for me and I’m still a control freak of magnitude. But, You do need to let go of some control. So that’s where those energies come in without saying, you know, it needs to be a red sports car with these types of rims and this sort of sound system and all of that.

It’s like, okay, what would be fun? What would be fun to drive? Now maybe you need to think about the red [00:11:00] sports car with the rims, like all of that to get the energy. That’s fine. Do that and just allow it to show up however it’s going to show up and really Allow the universe to surprise you. It’s one of the questions that I ask every day as a universe.

How many ways can you surprise and delight me with my asks showing up right away or my dream life showing up right away or however you want to finish it. They’re asking. They’re asking for it. And that is, if you’re only gonna use one tool, please start getting the energies of what you would like daydream about it, and then ask for that universe.

I’ll have this universe show me. Show me what’s required. Another way that I love to ask, another way that I love to ask is something called F four masons. So not F four masons, but F four masons. And this is where you ask why questions of what you would like. 

[00:12:00] Why is it so easy for me to surprise and delight myself with my, my dream life showing up right away? Why is manifesting my dream life so easy for me? Why do I love how quickly things show up for me? Like where you’re asking, It has a why question, what you would like. Now the reason that that works is because our brain is constantly answering the questions that we are asking. It’s just usually we’re asking questions we don’t want answered.

Like, why is life so hard? Why do I have to struggle with this? Why does this never work for me? Stop asking those questions, guys. You do not want to ask those. Start asking the questions you would like. Why is manifestation so easy for me? Why am I magical as fuck? Why is life so fun for me? I ask those questions.

What you’ll notice, at least what I notice, I can’t say for sure you will, but what I notice is the joy and the expansiveness, the more [00:13:00] that I ask those. And it becomes where you’ve got to be a little bit tenacious, where you’re willing to stop Questions you’re asking that aren’t creating what you would like and turn it into questions you would like answered.

So you do need to be willing to catch yourself and turn it into what the what you would like and that’s Honestly, that’s just that’s just gonna be trial and error for yourself. You’re gonna have to just start paying attention especially Especially to the thoughts you’re thinking, because a lot of times we’re really not present with those.

And those ones can be really tricky too. Again, this was supposed to be just one thing. This whole show was supposed to be on one thing, so go back to, you know, asking for what you would like and, and start there. If you would like my morning routine, this is a free gift for you. We’ve got the link above or below.

If you can’t find the link, reach out. And it is my, it’s like a checklist on a PDF, but I’ve also recorded it kind of like a meditation. I call them energetic [00:14:00] exercises. So if you would like to, uh, like to utilize that every morning, it’s got some affirmations in it. It’s got kind of tapping into that energy of what you would like.

I’m not sure if it’s five or six or seven minutes. It’s very short. So you could add that to your day every day and really start manifesting your dream life as if by magic. 

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[00:00:00] I would have never guessed that I would do a radio show about this ever, and yet here we are. Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. Yeah, I have done Thousands, maybe hundreds, I don’t know, many radio shows over the years.

This is a brand new one, so if you listen via your favorite podcast app, make sure to find it, Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life and subscribe that way. And I’ve always talked about manifesting and actualizing and creating as though everyone can do it. All the time. Whatever your dream is, you can do it.

Yeah, I’m here to tell you today. Okay. Okay. That, yeah, I’ve matured, let’s call it that. Yes, I am in my fifties, early fifties. I, 51, I think, I don’t even remember. Oh my gosh. 

So, you [00:01:00] know, in my fifties and I have only just in the last little while really started, really started acknowledging what is true with regards to manifesting, creating all of that.

And this is one of the big ones that. I’m really talking about a lot to get out there for everybody, especially if you’ve listened to me in the past and I’ve made it sound like whatever you would like, you can have. Now, with that, do I think that nobody should have dreams or nobody should, you know, look at what they would like to be creating or dream big?

That is not what I’m talking about at all, okay? At all. What I am looking at, though, is How can you be more present with what is? I highly recommend, if you haven’t listened to the first, I believe it was the first show in this new podcast, called Four Truths to Manif Four Hard Truths to Manifestation.

It’ll be linked in the show notes below also. And [00:02:00] also, however you consume this, you might be watching this on video, there should be a link to the show notes somewhere. If not, just reach out, I’ll get them for you. So, in that, in that podcast, I and this one is, is kind of a, a deeper dive with regards to not just privilege and, and acknowledging, you know, your own privilege or maybe where you’ve seen other people manifest things and you’re figuring, trying to figure out why you can’t do it.

And so, you know, maybe acknowledging other people’s privilege, all that sort of stuff. So when we have a dream. We really have a desire of something that we would like. Often we put it into what I refer to as fantasy. If you’re making a thousand dollars a month, the fantasy could be even 10, 000 a month.

Heck, it could be 2, 000 a month. It’s really going to depend. And this is where you need to get present with you. You need to look at what’s actually true for you. 

If you are [00:03:00] working four different jobs and Have no spare time. You’ve got a family and you’re, you’re just barely making ends meet. Well, probably honestly on 1,000 a month, you’re not especially nowadays, but you know, like you’ve got no extra time.

You’ve got no extra space. To go from a thousand to ten thousand is probably impossible in that moment. And so this is where I talk about really, well, I’m just starting to talk about, really getting present with what is. So we’re not taking away the dreaming big. We’re not taking away the, the possibilities energy.

What we want to do is have it be more, more possible for you at that time so that you can work towards a different one. So let’s say it’s a thousand dollars and you don’t have, you’re working for jobs and this is this, this, you have no other space. So what you could look at then maybe it’s, 

Maybe it’s possible within two of those jobs to [00:04:00] ask for a raise. So maybe your, your dream is then to get to 1, 100 a month or 1, 200 a month. So we take it into more of a, what we could call baby steps. Because that’s a much easier to take action on than if we went to this fantasy from 1, 000 to 10, 000. And I know on social media, believe me I know, there’s a million people out there telling you how they did it and it’s just so easy.

Guys, again, we’ve got to look at those people. There’s probably a lot of privilege within those people. And, and I don’t mean that as a judgment, believe me, I am very privileged. I’m very, very privileged in so many ways. And that’s why I think it’s important for me to be talking about this now and really inviting everyone, whether you have lots of privilege, a little bit of privilege, no privilege, whatever it is to really start looking at things.

I’m not a big fan of the word, realistically. But I’m not really sure what else to use right now. 

And so that’s the [00:05:00] best word. So realistically, in the sense of, yes, of course, there’s always another possibility. Always. Is it possible from 1000 to 10, 000? That may not be possible. If you start taking action towards 10, 000.

For some people, that might get them to the 1, 200 and that’s exciting and they can celebrate it. Yay! However, most people are not like that. They go, they’re at 1, 000, they’re asking for 10, 000, and guess what happens? They state, they make 1, 200, but it’s not enough, it’s not 10. So, you know, maybe they get to 13, well it’s not enough, it’s not 10, and then they go into the judgment, the wrongness, and they start going, in a sense, backwards because it’s not the 10.

So if you’re that person, If the 10 is like the deal breaker, you’re a success only if you have the, the 10, the specific thing you asked for, you’re only a success, then change the ask, please, please, because every one of us, [00:06:00] probably, I can’t say for sure, but probably every one of us likes to feel that sense of success, that sense of accomplishment, like we actually, we actually manifested what we asked for.

So if you’re asking for 1, 000 and you are nowhere near 10, 000, it’s, it’s, it’s years away because of what would need to be put in place, then please change it to 100, 1, 050, if that’s, you know, if that’s where your ask is. So I say this because it’s a really easy example for me to, to talk about but please know you don’t have to have it specific with how much money you would like.

In fact, you don’t have to have any specifics when you’re looking at manifesting your dream life. You can actually ask for energies. I recently created this really cool six step process to manifest your dream life. 

The link will be above or below if you want more information about it. And I actually had to go through [00:07:00] and change so much of what I used to do, it used to be a nine step process actually.

And I had to change a bunch of things. And so this was actually one of the questions. So this is what inspired me to do this radio show. Cause I used to have people go through all these different questions. And one of them now is, is this actually possible for me? Is this actually possible? Because if it’s not possible, then what is, what is if 10, 000 isn’t, then what is?

So going back to the, the energies, you know, maybe you would like to feel peaceful. Maybe you’d like to feel peaceful with regards to money. That to me is so much more of,

so much more of what I’m looking for. Okay, so I want you to cut that a little bit too. So for me, that is so much more of what’s true for what I’m looking for. 

Rather 200 or 10, 000 or 200 million a month, of having peace with money. is [00:08:00] so much more of what I’m actually asking for. So often we’re asking specifics when really it’s more of the energy.

So again, you don’t have to have specifics at all in terms of like the amount of money, but what are the energies you would like to have your, with your dream life? And then what I get people to do in this, in this process is actually write it out. So they go through all the pieces and then they write out what their dream life is.

Then they get the energy of that as they read through it over and over, and then they go through all of these questions. One of them being, is this actually possible? And it could even be, is this actually possible right now? Because it’s possible. Of course, everything is possible. I, I have always been, no, not always in the last, you know, 20 plus years, I have, I have always been About possibilities.

Absolutely. My, my why, actually, you know, there’s often with business people say to find out your why. Why are you doing what you’re doing? My why has always been. 

[00:09:00] Always been. So that every person on the planet knows that something else is possible. Not that their biggest dream is possible. No. But that something else is possible.

So again, we go back to those baby steps. And so I guess I, I did know on some level about this idea that maybe the, the, the fantasy isn’t really the thing, but there’s something else possible. And when we, when we break it down like that, you could have even two, two, two goals. You could have one of the 10, 000 a month and then the, you know, the, the other goal of being 1, So maybe you, you start asking for that again, if we’re doing specifics, you do not need to do them.

You can, you can actually receive so much with energies. In fact, they’re probably much funner for you. You just probably have got kind of caught up in what, what you’re supposed to do, which is, you know, what sort of car and what sort of body and what sort of job and how much money and all of those that somehow that means anything.

[00:10:00] Those things, at least for me, Once I started playing with more of what I would like energetically, that’s when the things started to show up because it got me out of concluding what things were. The conclusion that if I have 10, 000 a month, then it’s going to mean blah, blah, blah. That’s just a conclusion.

Ask for the blah, blah, blah. Yes, that’s my technical professional term. Right? So I, I will often ask people, it’s also in that list of questions of, you know, is this a conclusion? Are you asking for the 10, 000 a month so you could, you know buy groceries easily and pay all your bills and have a, a family, you know, event every Sunday?

If that’s the case, please ask for those things instead. Because those things could show up without having to have the 10, 000. Right? You could, you could, I don’t know, win lifetime groceries. Who knows? I’m not, I haven’t seen that, you know, out there, but probably somewhere it [00:11:00] is. 

Or you could win a, I don’t know, a year pass to some rec center that you can hang out all the time at with your kids or something.

There’s, there’s so many other possibilities than this kind of black and white idea that it has to look a certain way or be a certain way. So I’d really like to invite you to look at that for yourself. Look at your, what you are asking for, what you’re dreaming about. And I know money is a big one for a lot of people.

So when we’re watching, say, social media videos like TikTok or Instagram Reels or something like that, and people are making a big income claim, a lot of times it is from total privilege that they’re doing that. And if we don’t acknowledge that. Then we get really upset with ourself. We get really judgy of ourself.

We start, you know, joining into that fantasy that well, if they can do it, so can I. And yes, on one hand, yes, of course. And where are you now? 

Because if they’re making, I saw one last night, a gal making 500, 000 a month in her [00:12:00] coaching business. If you just started your coaching business yesterday, you Don’t, don’t look at her and what she’s doing now and go, okay, well, I’ll have that by Friday because it’s not kind to you at all.

And then you judge you and then you’ll probably quit your coaching business because you’re not making 500k a month. And I know this will be shocking for many of you, but there’s a lot of people who say a lot of things that aren’t actually true on social media. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. You just gotta start paying attention to your energy when you watch some of this or you read some of these posts And i’m not saying you shouldn’t, you know partake in social media.

I do I enjoy it There’s that but once I started really paying attention when people said stuff it was like Oh, wow. This is interesting. The other thing with, say, a lot of the, the typical manifestors, or people that speak about manifestation, which is what she does, is that there’s this idea that we are to, to act as though [00:13:00] it’s true.

That’s part of the energy. And I totally get it, and to a certain degree I agree. But it’s possible that a lot of those that you’re watching are stating what they would like to be true rather than what is true. And I’m not saying it’s not possible for someone to make 500k. I’m not even saying she’s not.

It’s just, I really want you to start paying attention to the energy when you’re being, you know, watching these things. And if there’s this heaviness or ickiness to it, it’s possible that it’s not actually true. And more important than anything is to stop looking at People outside of you and comparing you to that.

In fact, I gosh, this would have been probably two years ago. I think and I was on tick tock a lot and I was doing my alternate day fasting, which I still do occasionally, certainly not like I used to do and I was watching this guy and back then back a couple years ago. 

I was doing it, you know, truly every second day and I was watching this guy on social media [00:14:00] and he was doing alternate day fasting and he’d lost like.

I can’t remember, like a hundred pounds in six months or something like that. I mean, it was incredible. And what I finally noticed when I watched his videos, which he was putting them out quite often, probably every day, if not more I would feel really bad and I would really compare myself to what he had done compared to what I had done.

And I actually, Oh, and then what happened was I went in, I went away for a week and I was just, there was, it was a super busy week. I had no time to be on social media. Specifically Tik Tok. Yeah, I actually didn’t go back on Tik Tok for probably like six or eight months because I realized how much it was impacting my mental health to be comparing myself to people because I didn’t lose whatever he lost in the six months.

Then what am I doing wrong? Every time I watched his video, instead of celebrating him and being inspired, I was like, Oh, Man, I’m wrong again. Or maybe I didn’t do the alternate day. 

Maybe [00:15:00] that day was supposed to be an alternate day to fast that day. And I didn’t choose it. Well, now I’m wrong again because I didn’t choose it.

I ate and I shouldn’t have, but really my body was asking to like, there’s so much insanity. So, I mean, I’m talking a lot about this in different ways. Cause I really, really, really get how magical it could be if we were actually willing. To be honest with ourselves about what is. Be willing to inspire ourselves, be willing to choose greater.

But not into fantasy, not to where we stop ourself. But the, the, the reality again I don’t love that word, but the possibilities that are available right now. There we go. The possibilities that are available right now. If you are in that thousand dollars a month and you don’t have any space to add anything Except maybe a little bit more sleep.

Please choose sleep. And look at what’s the baby step. And maybe it’s not even a dollar amount. Maybe [00:16:00] it’s about peace with money. Maybe it’s about asking somebody that, you know, is, that could help you to help you. Maybe there’s different ways, instead of, you know, just a few hundred extra dollars, maybe there’s something else that would, that would actually be more of what you’re asking for.

Please don’t take from this that nothing is possible, that you’re stuck where you’re at. That is not what I’m saying. What I’m inviting you to is to really be aware of what is possible with what is right now. And know that every baby step you take will get you where you would like to be. It will get you there.

It’s just that, let’s choose baby steps now. And that can actually change your life. Increase your chance of the, the bigger ask, the bigger thing you would like. Alright, as always, I invite you to my manifesting membership. It is so much fun, you guys. 

We do a [00:17:00] training every month. We do a facilitation call every month.

Every Monday, you get a new energetic exercise. There’s It’s all sorts of awesomeness in the Facebook group. We are at almost 60 members at this time of recording and I would love if you came and joined us. Information is above or below. If you don’t see it, just reach out and I’ll get it for you.

Have a wonderful rest of your day, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again soon.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered why your dreams haven’t come true? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. If you are listening to this via a podcast, please know this is a brand new podcast.

So if you’ve been following me a while, maybe you’ve listened to my other show called Tools to Create a Better Life. You’ll want to make sure to add this podcast to your podcast app. If you’re watching the video, thank you. I’m so grateful. I’m so grateful you’re all here. As always, just. I’m just so incredibly grateful.

So are you wondering why the heck your dreams haven’t come true yet? Yes. So there’s so many reasons really I could probably do a hundred shows about this. And one of them could very well be one of the myths that I talked about in my previous show called Four Hard Truths About Manifestation. We will link that in the 

[00:01:00] show notes below. So please listen to that show. That really is to me. The starting point for all of this. So this one isn’t going to go into those. I am actually going to talk about one thing in particular. And it’s one thing that most people don’t even consider when they are manifesting their dream life or manifesting maybe a specific amount of money or a relationship or whatever it may be.

It doesn’t matter what it is. You want to consider this. And so I’ll start a little bit with some information before I talk about that question. Okay. That we want to look at and then I’ll take you through a little bit of an exercise with it. So the first thing is to look at what it is you would like.

And so what I’d like you to do right now is, is just walk along through this with me. Just think of something specific maybe that you would like to be manifesting. Maybe again, a certain amount of money, maybe you’ve got some energies of what you would like in your, in your life. Just whatever it is, I just want you to bring that to mind.

And in a moment I’m going to ask [00:02:00] you a question and what I’m going to ask you to do is pay attention to your awareness with the response to that question. Now what the heck does that mean? Your awareness is basically an energy. You, when, when I ask you this question you will probably get Big expanse of yummy energy.

like, yum. Or you might get a really heavy, icky, blah, energy. Either are okay. Now you might also get something different too. And it’s usually kind of the expansive or the contractive, the light or the heavy, the, the bright or the dark. There’s lots of ways it can show up. Sometimes when I ask these questions, it’s not so much a feeling or an energy.

You just know, you just have the knowing in the moment that I asked this question. So if you might, if you’re new to reading your own awareness, this might be a bit of a practice 

[00:03:00] for you. And that’s great. That is great. You want it, you want to practice. Okay. So now let’s go back to the energy of what you’re asking for.

I’m going to do it too. So I’m just going to take a moment. Okay. What I would like. Yeah. Okay. Okay. I’ve got it. And what I do in that moment is I kind of close my eyes. I really get the energy of it. Like, Like, like I’m doing it, I’m living it, I’m being it, all of that, just really in the spaciousness of that.

And then the question I will, I’m going to ask you, so I’ll give you a moment, get in the energy of, of what you’re asking for. Truth. Are you willing to receive it?

Right? I know this is something most people don’t ask. They dream big, they have all these ideas, all these things, maybe they’re on social media and they see people having all sorts of amazing experiences and things and houses and all of that and they go after them but they don’t actually check in. 

Are you willing [00:04:00] to receive it?

Slower. Yeah, now here is the super cool thing. If you got, no you are not, you don’t have to go well, I guess I can’t have it then, I guess that’s it, no, we can actually change that. But first we have to acknowledge if we’re not willing to receive it because no matter what, no matter what, if you aren’t willing to receive it, you will not manifest it.

So this is one of the four questions that I ask about people once they’ve kind of got the energy of what they would like and all of that, then I take them through these four questions. But this one is the one that the show is about today. Cause I really want you to start looking at this cause it’s probably the biggest tripping point for people.

And they don’t even recognize. Now, how do we change it? If we’re not willing to receive it, I happen to, when I, when I got the energy of mind and asked that question, I happen to get a yes in 

[00:05:00] this case. A lot of times I don’t. A lot of times it’s a no. But in this case, I happen to get a yes. So that’s exciting.

So I don’t need to do anything. I just get to be excited and and do, take whatever action is required to, to have it occur, have it happen. Yeah. Now, if not, if you got a no, then what you want to look at is how can you change that? What’s required? So for most people, it’s probably a mindset shift that’s required, which means you want to start looking at it.

So let’s say, let’s use the example of you were asking for an additional $1,000 this month. Okay. So you got that you’re not willing to receive that. Okay. So then the question becomes, What is that? So just get super curious. Like, what is that? What is it that you’re not willing to receive an additional $1,000 a month?

Well, maybe, maybe growing up, you heard money. If you wanted money, it was greedy. 

Maybe you’ve [00:06:00] decided it’s impossible. Like an additional thousand dollars. That’s impossible. There could be, you know, a memory come up from earlier in maybe even in childhood where. A thousand dollars was made to be seem like too much money or I mean, there’s so many possibilities with it.

You just want to get really present with it and curious with no judgment. So that if you do have the idea that say the memory comes up when you were telling a friend about receiving some money, let’s say a couple of years ago, somebody paid you. You know, double what they owed you because they were so grateful for what you did.

So they gave you a thousand dollars instead of 500. And maybe your friend that you were telling was like, Oh my gosh, I can’t believe you accepted that you shouldn’t have or something like that. Now here’s the thing, guys, we’re so fricking aware that we don’t even have to have that person. Say those words.

If they thought it, we probably received it energetically. 

[00:07:00] So you want to be aware of that too, but this is what you want to be, you know, present with and look at that and be like, wow, okay. I probably shut off my receiving of that thousand dollars because of, you know, whatever the situation was. Now comes some maybe woo woo energy stuff that I like to do where I would in that case.

So using that example, I would. Imagine myself in that, in that energy again, I would be, be in that space with telling that friend, I would bring up the energy and then I would just energetically melt it like it’s hard to put to words how I do that but you could imagine if you’re visual, you could imagine like, you know, maybe taking fire and burning up all of the the, the, those heavy energies about it.

You could take a water hose and wash away the energies. I mean, you could get really creative, but basically you just want to get rid of that stuff in that moment that came up. 

Now you might not have a [00:08:00] specific memory or thought or anything. You might be like, I have no clue. I’m just not willing to receive it.

So then what you could do, this is one of my favorite tools that I use all the time for all sorts of things, is I pull the sun from the sky, obviously energetically, I pull the sun from the sky and I pull it down into the situation. So in this case, if I only had, I just got no, I’m not willing to receive it, but I have no, no idea why not or what’s occurred or anything.

I just pull that sun energetically down into me, into the situation, into receiving. That whatever my ask is all the way down into the ground and I just hold it there basically until it just shifts the energy of it. And then you just check back in. So truth, am I willing to receive, in this case, an additional thousand dollars this month?

If it’s still a no, there might be some more curiosity with it. 

Sometimes [00:09:00] you need to walk away for a while, sometimes you need to go do something else, get your mind out of it, stop thinking about it you know, go distract yourself, go on TikTok, or watch Netflix, or go for a walk, or something, and then come back maybe tomorrow and, and look at it again.

Sometimes we just need the time to shift it. Sometimes we need the, the space for it to shift. I mean, there’s, again, there’s so many things with it. You just want to be present. Be aware of it, present with it, get curious about it, and don’t push or force it to change. You will change it, that I can guarantee.

How or when, that’s different. That’s just going to take possibly time, you might do it right away. You might do it by the time this, this program ends, whether you’re watching it as a, as a show or you’re listening as a podcast, it might be gone. I mean, how cool would that be that it’s just gone? Yeah. Right. And, and we can be that magical. 

Now, like I said, for [00:10:00] the majority of it, when we get a no, we’re not willing to receive it. It’s probably a mindset thing that’s going on, but if you don’t know, maybe there’s no mindset, there’s no nothing, kind of like what I talked about, you’re just know, you’re not willing to receive it.

Use the sun tool and, and shift it that way, even if you have no clue if it’s mindset, if there was a situation, if it was just an energy thing, I mean. The way that I see things, doesn’t mean you have to see them this way, but the way that I see things is that there are many, many lifetimes that we have lived.

And a lot of times, many of our limitations are from other lifetimes. So then it can get pretty wonky because we don’t actually have the memory of something going on in that lifetime. Or a different lifetime that would cause us to not receive this lifetime. So, rather than having to spend a lot of time trying to figure it out and, and make sense of it and oh gosh, that’s exhausting.

And, and people can actually get really distracted and really mindfuck themself [00:11:00] with all of that. So just bring the sunshine in. Just bring the sunshine in. And, the other thing with the tool of the sunshine, you might pull it in and it might just poof, pop right back out again. Okay, so what you want to do is get even more present with it, pull it in, and hold it there.

Hold it there until it stays there. So have fun with it guys. I would love to hear if you use this, if you shift anything, how you shift it, what’s changing for you. I always love feedback. So you can, however you’re listening to this, if you’re listening by podcast, you can find me on all the socials. And send me a message that way.

If you are watching the video, then you can post below wherever that is to, to really let me know what’s happening and how it’s working for you and how you are manifesting your, your dream life. I would love to hear. I would also love to invite you to the Manifesting Membership. We are at almost 60 members, guys. I’m so excited at this time of recording. 

And [00:12:00] I would love to have you come and play. If you’re not in there already, it’s so much fun. The information will be above or below. And if you can’t find the information, just reach out. I would love to get it for you. It is a whole $29 US dollars a month or $39 Canadian. You can choose whichever currency you prefer and have a great week. I look forward to chatting again soon.

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[00:00:00] Are you ready for some hard truths about manifestation? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. And yes, this is a brand new podcast. So, if you listen on a podcast app, make sure to go and search Manifest Your Dream Life, or if you get the show notes, the link to all of the podcast apps are in there otherwise it continues on YouTube and all the other places.

So, grateful to have you here. This is going to be a bit of a different show, my sweet friends. Yes, four hard truths about manifestation. So for me, I actually learned about manifestation back in 2002. So 22 years ago, I started studying it and I mean, I, I delve deep into it. I was so excited about it. It was such, such a yummy 

[00:01:00] energy. And I studied it as though the way that most people talk about manifestation in terms of, if you just think hard enough, You focus hard enough. You make the vision board. You are good enough. Then you’ll get the thing or you’ll have the experience or you’ll feel the feels, whatever it may be. This show is really, really what it is now, at least to me.

Now, you might have a different idea about it. This might not be true for you. That’s totally fine. This is where I’m at with it 22 years later. And I would say probably this started probably about 20 years ago, 20 years, no, two years ago, so probably about 20 years in, when I really started looking at what I mean when I’m talking about manifestation.

So I would say the easiest way to talk about what manifestation is for me now is to talk about what it isn’t, which is these four hard truths. So, number one is 

[00:02:00] that, again, this idea that if we just believe and focus on and think enough about or create enough energy around a certain thing or experience, whatever it is, that it’ll just show up.

And that’s, that’s, that’s what’s required. Now, again, I used to believe that I used to teach that even, but let’s look at this a little bit broader. Let’s consider the people on the planet right now, and there’s many of them going through atrocities. Does that actually make sense then? If they were just to think about not having that go on, if they were just to make a vision board about that not going on, they were just to think positive enough.

No, that is absolute bullshit. And so we’ve got to look at it from that place of it not being. about thinking about it, hoping for it, 

[00:03:00] wishing about it. So that’s the hard truth number one, is it’s not this airy fairy, just, just focus on it and you’ll have it. Ouch, right? So hard truth number two is that manifestation often gets us to bypass our feelings, to pretend that we’re not feeling what we are, or.

We don’t allow ourselves to feel what we feel because we have to stay positive, which is referred to as toxic, toxic Positivity where we’ve got to focus on feeling good to create the thing we would like and that is really really harmful I remember back. I think it was like 2004. So I was a couple years into studying manifestation and My, my kitty at the time died very suddenly.

He had a heart problem and in the vet attempting to save him, it actually killed him. And it was, it was horrible. I was devastated. 

[00:04:00] However, I couldn’t feel those feels because those were negative. So you can’t be sad. You can’t be mad. You can’t feel the feels. You have to put on a happy face and do all of the, the reasoning and the justifying.

Well, he had a good life. Well, we had some time with him. Well, anyway, what ended up happening is that I actually had a session. So a client came to me for a session, something totally unrelated. She sat down in the chair, her and I started talking and I started crying. Not even kidding, my feels came out at the most inappropriate time.

I was horribly embarrassed and I still didn’t see what I was doing. I still didn’t acknowledge it for, for bypassing or not, not getting present with those feels. Now hard truth number four is that there is a lot of victim blaming. in manifestation. And I would say in my 

[00:05:00] experience, because again, myself and also working with so many people manifesting their dream lives is that we either gaslight ourself or we gaslight each other.

Well, did you really think positive enough? Like how much time did you put into creating that vision board? How much time did you did you worry about not getting it? Well, that’s probably why you didn’t get it. Like. Ah, it is so unkind. It is so unhealthy. And especially for that constant judgment of ourselves.

I mean, constant judgment of others or receiving others. Constant judgment, of course, is also not healthy, but that incessant judgment of us and what we did wrong and how bad we are and how we should have just done that one thing. And. No, just stop, just stop with blaming, stop with seeing it as so black and white.

To me there’s so much more, and we’ll get to that in, in a moment here. So hard truth number four is a 

[00:06:00] big kick in the ass for me, it is something that I didn’t want to look at, it is something I wanted to avoid and it’s important for each one of us to really get present with this. A lot of times when we’re using the word manifest, we should actually be using the word privilege.

I know, I know. Years ago, when we bought our dream home, my dream home, Hubby, I mean he enjoyed it, but he didn’t love it as much as I did. It had its own swimming pool, it had a whole bunch of space, I mean it was truly my dream home beyond what I never imagined possible. And when I say I manifested my dream home, often what we would look at with that is, is as though I was given it as a gift, as though someone handed it to me and said, here you go, let’s put your name on the title.

It wasn’t the case. No, I bought the house. 

[00:07:00] So did I manifest it or did the fact that I had money, the, the privilege of money to purchase it? What is it? I know, and this is where we just have to get so honest with ourselves and really looking at when we’re using the word manifest, do we mean it? Is that actually true?

Because so many times it is actually privilege. Now the part of that that I do see as manifestation is the absolute magic that it took to find that house. So in, in, when we were searching. We had looked at lots of places and on the last house we looked at with our realtor, our realtor said, Hey, you know what?

You should also be checking Kijiji, which in Canada is like a Craigslist in the U S it’s, it’s a forum where people can go and sell things. We’d never considered looking for our house on Kijiji. That night when we got home, 

[00:08:00] hubby went and looked on Kijiji and found this incredible house. And it had a aerial view picture, so we could see this big, beautiful pool.

Now, not only that, that we had just got home from spending a week at an Airbnb that had a pool, and Hubby actually said to me, wow, pools are so much easier to care for than I thought. So there was so much magic to us finding that house. All of it, like, you know, these bread crumbs to, to finding it. And the privilege of having the money to purchase it.

So it’s really acknowledging what is and, and not to, not to say that I’m, I’m less than that house was less than because I had the money to pay for it. But no, but also not calling it. I manifested, I didn’t manifest that house. I manifested finding that house. That’s the way I would like to, to, to refer to it.

And I had the privilege of 

[00:09:00] having the money to buy the house. And so it just puts a different shift on things. It doesn’t take away the excitement. It doesn’t take away the gratitude. It doesn’t take away the magic. It actually increases all of those because in that I’m acknowledging what is. There’s no more fantasy of I just sat on the couch and hoped and wished and dreamed for it and it fell in my lap.

Somebody handed me the, you know, the papers to own this house. No. And that’s often how we take manifestation, is that it is this airy fairy, sit on the couch, do nothing, think good thoughts, and your life will be magical. No, actually, no. So what is it then? So for me, manifestation is that magic, is those breadcrumbs, is the following of the energy, following of your energy.

You know, we 

[00:10:00] talk a lot about things feeling really yummy and expansive and following that. Now, when I say that, I don’t mean not feeling non yummy and expansive feelings, right? Go back to the example with, with my kitty dying. That was not a time to be feeling expansive and yummy energies. It was a time to be with what is, as it is, and not pretending or pushing away or bypassing Those feelings.

Now, along with the magic, there is also a very healthy dose of what is now. I don’t mean what is from the very limited energy of, we can just have what, what is possible for us the way that, you know, society has set it out. That’s not what I mean. And for example, if I really wanted to be an astronaut right now, I actually couldn’t be.

I couldn’t be an astronaut right now. There’s various things. One, I’m too 

[00:11:00] old. The, the, the latest age you can become an astronaut is 50. There’s a lot of things that would be have to put in place that would probably take me years to get there and a whole bunch of other things. So being an astronaut for me right now, and I know it’s a silly example, but that’s a silly example.

End. And it’s the best one I have. So when we look at that, when I look at that and I go, Oh my gosh, I really want to be an astronaut. I could put a lot of creative energy into, Okay, but what else is possible? And, and what magic could I be? And, and all of this stuff. Okay, could do that. I’m not saying you shouldn’t do that.

I just wonder, when I look at things now, I look at them through that filter of, What is possible and what, what is that then if I look at, if I’d really like to be an astronaut, what is it that I would like about that? What are the 

[00:12:00] energies I’m looking for? Maybe there’s a sense of excitement and a sense of floating in space that would be super cool.

And doing something that few people have done, like, you know, all of these kinds of energies. So then I could look at how else could I. Create those. How else could I choose those? How else could I experience those? So letting go of maybe the definition of what we’ve decided something needs to be and putting our creative energy into the energies that we would like, just to get us out of all of the things, all of those myths I talked about before, victim blaming and bypassing and all of that insanity, really looking at, okay, what would I like?

Now, for some people, the word create actually much. is a much better match than the word manifest. And that I would recommend if that’s you, please use it instead of the word manifest. Manifest, again, has so many energies on it. There’s so many crazy [00:13:00] ideas of what it is. And so if it’s more comfortable for you, start looking at, okay, well, how can I create my life?

So that, that takes kind of maybe that airy fairy off of it, depending on what definition you’ve had of it. How could I create this? So, let’s say that you have let’s say you’ve been, you know, like me, always had extra weight. Since I was six years old, I’ve had extra weight. And so for years and years, I would put my creative energy into weighing 110 pounds.

Now why 110 pounds? Because if you go to the doctor, they have these charts on the wall. And because I’m not even five foot one in height, 110 pounds is what they say is normal for my body. So I had this fantasy of 110 pounds. That is never going to occur. And I don’t say that as a limitation. I don’t say that as anything except that I am going to get present with what is.

[00:14:00] I’m never going to weigh 110 pounds and actually I’m okay with that. So a few years ago when I was really looking at, okay, body, what would you like body? How, how would you like to be? Yeah, that was a totally different energy. Smaller, yes, at the time I weighed 290 pounds. So yes, she desired to be smaller, absolutely.

There was a lot of action. Yeah, I had to look at that. Was there a lot of action? There was a lot of action. I started doing alternate day fasting, which meant I didn’t eat for, you know, 40 hours, and then I would eat again. Maybe a few meals in an eight hour period and then fast another 40 hours and and then I started walking a lot and then I started running and there was a lot of things that I was choosing a lot of action that I was taking with my body and and then we got to a certain weight and she’s happy she’s happy where we’re at and it is not 110 pounds as you can see and I am happy with that because that hundred and ten pounds that idea of 110 pounds 

[00:15:00] wasn’t it. What I was actually looking for it was all of those energies. It was the spaciousness It was getting out of the judgment. It was the the joy of having a body So much of it had nothing to do with the 110 pounds. So again, yes I created the change in my body. Absolutely. I manifested it. We could use that but also Acknowledging that I had the time To do the walking and do the running I had the space I had the privilege of fasting, and that might not sound like a privilege to many, however, it is not an easy thing to do.

If I had kids that I was feeding, that would be a very difficult thing. I don’t know that I could honestly do it if I was also preparing meals and feeding others. I also know that when I fast, I need to have a lot of space. So I will usually around suppertime, I will go into the bath for an hour or two, and For to, to really get away and be 

[00:16:00] spacious. And the other thing I do is I have a sea salt, sea salt, Epsom salt bath that really assists with, with fasting. Those are all things I can do because I have the privilege to do it. There are many people on the planet that couldn’t. So again, we’re acknowledging all the pieces. It’s not that I manifested the weight loss sitting on the couch, hoping and wishing and dreaming.

So I would love to hear from you. I would love to hear if you’ve looked at privilege in, in what you’ve created in your life. If you’ve, if this is a brand new topic for you what, where are you with it? What, what is it for you? Cause I know I’ve had a couple of years now of really being present with it more.

So I would say in the last few months, And I still chose to use the word manifest in my podcast. I have an amazing, amazing monthly membership called Manifesting Membership, where you’re manifesting your dream life. 

[00:17:00] So, I’m still using the word. I could avoid the word. But I don’t think it’s about that. I actually, I actually get that it’s time for us to really acknowledge what is.

And there is manifesting, and there is creating, and there is privilege, and there is a lot of lies about manifesting. And if you prefer to use a different word, please do that. But just to recognize that there’s so much more here than maybe what we’ve ever considered. And I wonder what might be possible now that has never been possible before when we acknowledge what is and we be the magic that we be and we create the lives that, that really light us up, that really excite us, that are really true for us, not based on the crazy of this reality or what chart is in your doctor’s office.

Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful for you. Have a great week. I look forward to chatting again soon.

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[00:00:00] Would you like some easy to use tools to manifest your dream life? Welcome to Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. And yes, you heard that correctly. The name of this podcast is Tools to Manifest Your Dream Life.

If you’ve been in my world for a while, you’ll know that I have had for 11 years, a different podcast called Tools to Create a Better Life. This is just Just the upgrade, the up leveling that is required at this point. So thank you for joining me. Okay, I want to talk about manifesting for a moment before I get to the tools so that I can really acknowledge what I mean when I talk about manifesting.

A lot of times when, when you hear the word manifesting or you maybe read on social media about people manifesting, a lot of times in 

[00:01:00] myself included. I’m just becoming aware of this now so much more, it’s actually privilege. It’s not actually manifestation. And so what I would really love to do with this podcast is to really invite you to look at what manifesting is for you and also acknowledge where there’s privilege, if there is privilege, what is actually going on in those situations.

To me, it is so important to acknowledge privilege and systems of oppression when it comes to manifesting. So we really want to make sure when we’re calling it manifesting that it actually is. And I’m not saying that so that you have to go into judgment of yourself or, or, uh, mindfucking what was or anything like that.

It’s just, I wonder how much more we can create on the planet with everything and everyone when we acknowledge what is. Rather than putting 

[00:02:00] one big word on potentially many different things. With that let’s start talking about three of my top tools that I use to manifest my dream life Yes So number one is to really get the energy of what we would like and A lot of times, you might hear that it needs to be very specific.

So if you’d like a certain car, you need to be very specific on the type of car and what sort of, you know, sound system it has and what color it is and all of those things. And I actually disagree. I totally disagree. I actually get, for me anyway, the energy of that car. The energy of driving that car for me, having that car for me, is way more important to manifest.

Then actually the specifics of the car because often what we’re doing with that, when we, when we decide that we want the red sports car and it’s got a 

[00:03:00] certain type of sound system with certain type of rims, we’re often doing that from judgment, we’re often maybe we’ve looked at somebody else and what they have and the energy that they be with that.

And we’ve decided it’s that car. that’s why they be that way, rather than acknowledging that that Car has just contributed and everybody’s car is going to be different. Hopefully you’re following along with the analogy so that we can get to the energy of what we would like instead. So, how do you get in the energy?

Well, what you want to look at is imagining or daydreaming or thinking, it doesn’t really matter what word you use, about what, what would your life be like if you had that thing? If you were experiencing that, if you had the car of your dreams, whatever that may be, without having to figure out what that is, what would that feel like?

Yes, it’s very windy. If you’re watching the video, I might have wanted to 

[00:04:00] choose inside for this, but anyway, here we are. So, what does that feel like? When you’re driving that car, if you’re imagining or daydreaming about driving that car, what does it feel like? Maybe it feels really fast and really fun.

Maybe it feels really safe and nurturing. Maybe it feels really practical. Maybe you’ve got a lot of, uh, kids that you transfer around or stuff like that. I mean, you, you just want to get the energies. And, and, uh, I was probably saying the word energy, but it’s, it’s plural. There’s not going to be just one energy.

There’s multiple energies when we’re looking at the thing that we would like. And whether it’s what we would define as big or small or something in between, it doesn’t matter. There’s going to be multiple energies and you want to get into that. One of the ways that I do that is through an energetic exercise, which is kind of like a meditation, but not quite like a meditation.

So I call them energetic exercises because I’m not really sure what else to call them. Uh, and so if you haven’t already downloaded my, my free gift, that’s a morning 

[00:05:00] routine, it’s a checklist for morning routine to manifest your dream life. And I’ve got it on a checklist like a PDF, but I’ve also recorded it as an energetic exercise.

So you could go and grab that. We’ll have the link above or below. If you can’t find the link. Reach out, I’ll get it for you. And you can listen to that every day and what it does is it invites you to get into the energy of whatever it might be. Now this might be a general dream life thing and it might be a specific thing like a, you know, a mode of transport, like a car or something.

It doesn’t matter what it is, you can choose. Every time you listen to it, you could choose something different just to get you into that energy. The second tool that I have been talking about a lot, and I love, and I actually started using back in I think 2010 2011, is something called affirmations. And it’s different from an affirmation.

An affirmation is where you actually Ask it as a question. You’re asking that affirmation as 

[00:06:00] a question. Now, why would you do that? Because our brains are brilliant. And our brains will always prove us right. They’ll always go searching for the information to prove us right. It’s just that usually we are asking the questions that we don’t necessarily want to be proved right about.

Mm hmm. We’re kind of crazy that way. So what we want to look at is start asking what we would like. Like Why is it so easy for me to manifest my dream life? And not just ask it like a bunch of words, like why is it so easy? Not that. Like truly get curious. Like why is it so easy for me to manifest my dream life?

Why is it so easy for me to manifest my dream life? Why do my manifestations show up as if by magic? Why is it so easy for me to manifest my dream life? Why is it so fun for me to manifest everything I’m asking for? Now, if you notice, at 

[00:07:00] least for me, there’s just this beautiful expansiveness with this.

When I ask a question, it’s like, ah, yes. And that’s what we’re looking for. You may have the same result when you ask it as an affirmation. That’s totally cool. Go ahead and, and do what works for you. I just find that affirmations for me, they just fall a little They’re just not as, as expansive for me as that yummy energy of asking the question.

So again, do what works for you, please. With anything that I ever talk about, if it doesn’t work for you, or if you see it as a different way, or if you tried it and it didn’t work, then get curious. Because this isn’t about this is the only way. This is just I’m sharing the tools that I utilize to create this magical life that I am so incredibly grateful for.

We are in Texas right now. Uh, my husband and I, I call him hubby, his name is actually Rodney. And he and I, 

[00:08:00] we travel the world full time, pet and house sitting. So we are at a beautiful house for seven weeks here in Texas and it is, it is for us a dream come true. I know that for many people, it’s like, what are you doing?

That’s insane. I get that. For us, we love it. It has been almost a year, in July of 2024, it will be a year that we’ve been doing this full time and we have no plans of changing it any time soon. We always said we’d give it a year, just to really get the experiences of it. And, uh, since we’ve already booked, uh, until the, until November, I guess we’re doing over a year.

I guess we’re, we’re happy with it and we, we truly are. Now the tool number three that I use is this energy of this. Knowing that the universe always has my back. When I speak about the universe, I’m not speaking about a big energy external to me. And if I do the right things, say the right things, 

[00:09:00] act the, act out the right way, that the universe will take care of me.

It’s not that icky ness, at least that’s icky for me. The universe, for me includes everything, including me. So when I talk about the universe having my back, I have my back too. This beautiful earth has my back all the all the energies have my back like there’s so much more to it So when I talk about the universe having my back it allows me to not go into the heaviness of things at times.

And I will give you an example. Uh, Hubby and I had applied for a six week sit in Edmonton, which is where we’d like to be. It would start at the beginning of July and end the middle of August, which is exact dates we want to be there, uh, the exact location we would like to be in. And it was one cat. And so, if you aren’t familiar with animals, that’s fine.

Sometimes dogs can be more work in terms of taking them out to walk and and bathroom stuff 

[00:10:00] and that sort of thing. So to me everything about this sit, reading it, was perfect. It was meant for us. That’s exactly what we were asking for. And then we applied, of course, and I knew we had to apply quick because I knew it would go quickly.

So we heard back from the person that we applied and she said, okay, we’ll, we’ll chat this weekend. And I sent her a message saying, you know, what our availability was this weekend. And she never got back to me, which I thought was a little bit strange. And then a day later she messaged and just said, Hey, just so you know, I had so many people apply and I’ve already found the, you know, the perfect sitter for us.

Yes. Thank you. Thank you for applying. So the first thing I did was I allowed myself to feel the feelings because to me, this is important. We will often bypass or go ignore or go straight to, well, the universe has my back. So this is working out. Nope. I used to do that. I used to do that a lot. In fact, I used to use tools to do that.

[00:11:00] Now I’m like, okay, you know what? I’m really disappointed. I’m really, really disappointed. I really wanted that set. I was so excited about that. It being pretty much everything we were asking for and even more. And I gave myself a couple hours with that and I don’t mean I sat in that for hours. It’s just that I didn’t look at doing anything else with it except be with it and acknowledge that I was disappointed and

once I allowed myself to feel the feels and just be with it and not pretend and not bypass and none of that. Then it was like, it was like released. It was like that disappointment wasn’t the, the intensity anymore. And then I could really, and this was the tool, once I felt the feels, was to go to, okay, you know what, the universe has our backs.

I know in almost a year of doing this, and of course other areas of my life also, but in this 

[00:12:00] example, there’s always been something better. Even when I felt like that was the one. There has always been something better if we didn’t get it. So, okay. I can just step back. I can get into that space of like, okay, universe, show me.

Like, show me what else is possible. Show me where else we might be required. Because this is the thing, is that, I mean, this might kind of sound a little bit corny, but I know that we are doing these sits for the pets. Who we can contribute to the most. So they’re the ones that are pulling us to certain places.

And I just, I just know that. So it’s like, okay, so that pet wasn’t, wasn’t the one. Who then, who then? What, what pets? And pull us. And I have to also let go, and this is a big one for me, of the control. I loved the idea, because we’re pretty much booked up until the end of June. 

[00:13:00] I loved the idea of having six weeks in the summer booked up. And then there was basically kind of three weeks before we started another six week sit. So it’s like, wow, I loved having it almost like finalized. And it’s okay. I know the universe, which includes me, has my back. And I know that we will create beyond what we never imagined possible. Yeah, so these are my top three tools to manifest my dream life that I’m using right now.

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[00:00:00] Are you tired of letting your limitations stop you? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful. And you can watch this video via YouTube or Facebook, or you can listen to it via all sort of podcast stations, however you would like.

[00:00:19] If you’re watching on video, you will see that yes, I have a swimming pool right now. We are at a amazing six week pet and house sitting adventure in Kingwood, Texas. It’s incredible, incredible, although I never knew humidity until I stayed in Texas. And I’ve been lots of places where there’s humidity, but Texas is a whole other level and it’s only April.

[00:00:43] But anyway, let’s talk about how you can stop letting your limitations stop you. So first I’m going to tell you a story about this whole process for myself recently, a recent story, because I’ve actually been using this tool for a long time. In February of this year, I put together a survey for my people on my email list, people in my world, basically just curious as to what, what are you looking for?

[00:01:13] What, what would you like from me? Business has changed so much in the last year, year and a half that a mentor of mine who helps me with my Shopify store she had sent out a survey to her list and had really great results with feedback. So I looked at her survey as I was creating mine and got inspired by it.

[00:01:33] One of the things that she had on her survey was in terms of like listing things that people would like was a monthly membership, which she offers and which I’m part of for Shopify. So she had that on hers and I thought, well, I mean, let’s just throw it out there. Nobody would be interested, but I’m going to throw it out there anyway, because, because who knows why I put it on there and I, amongst other things.

[00:01:59] And as I was reading through the feedback, I was shocked. To say the least, about the amount of people that were interested in a monthly membership. And I was like, there’s no way, there’s no way, they’re just saying that. Yeah, they’re just saying that. So, I talked to a couple of my good friends, V and Ocean, and they have a membership.

[00:02:26] And they said to me, why don’t you just make up a waiting list? just to see because maybe you’re right. Maybe, maybe people just put that on their form because what the heck. But this way you’d actually know without having to do any of the prep work for it. So I thought, well, perfect. I can put together a waiting list because nobody wants a membership.

[00:02:47] So I put together the waiting list and what I told myself is if I had 30 people join the wait list, then I would create it because there’s no. Believe me, I hear the insanity. There’s no way that anybody is looking for a membership, let alone 30 people. So, imagine my surprise. When 42 people filled out the wait list.

[00:03:19] I was like, okay, I guess I’ll put this together then. But I was still Pretty sure it wasn’t gonna happen. I was sure that people just filled out the waitlist because they had nothing better to do. I mean, I’m making the story a little bit dramatic for the purpose of this show, but really there was a lot of that energy, a lot of limiting energy in it.

[00:03:39] A lot of, I’ve done this before, it never turned out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You get it. So put it together, sent it out to my list, put it on social media, and to date I believe we’re at 53 people. 53 people, like what? I mean it is low ticket and high value so it’s 29 US dollars a month or 39 Canadian whatever currency you want to pay in and high value meaning that if you bought the things individually from me that you get in the membership it would be well over three, four hundred dollars.

[00:04:18] So, yeah. I know, and 53 people, like, I am so incredibly grateful and as each step of this was going and I could hear my crazy and I could hear my limitations and all of that, what I wondered about was, does this have to do with me always saying to my business, to my energy team, to all the energies that contribute.

[00:04:48] Please just override my limitations. There’s the tool guys. There’s the tool. You just start asking, here’s, you know, here’s what I would like, whatever it is. And I, I mean, I certainly wasn’t asking for a membership. What I was asking for was more fun in the business, more ease in the business, more people to play with in the business and a lot more connection in the business.

[00:05:14] And then I would always say, and I’ve been saying this for years, and please just override my limitations. Which means, don’t go to the level I’m willing to go. Go beyond it. And especially with the business. So the way that I see things, and maybe you haven’t heard me talk about this before, and maybe you have, good reminder if you have.

[00:05:34] Is that everything has an energy of its own, including the business. So what happens. with the, with the businesses we can receive from the business as though it’s the most incredible business partner ever. Or we can do what I used to do for years and years and years and bulldoze the business. I didn’t talk to the business, I didn’t pay attention to the business, I just did what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it and was a lot of push and a lot of force.

[00:06:04] So instead I co create with the business. Meaning that I say things like, You know, here’s, here’s what I would like. Here’s what feels yummy and please go beyond my limitations. Bulldoze my limitations. Basically what I used to do it, it, I give it permission to do to me. Like, just, just go where you want to go.

[00:06:22] And so, yes, I mean, I had to take part, I had to add it to the survey in the first place thankfully for, for Monica’s survey that inspired me. And then obviously, you know, my business was pushing, you know, maybe through the keys too to get it done. And then each step away, my business probably got me together with, with V and Ocean to look at, you know, maybe putting out a wait list and, you know, all of the pieces to really get there.

[00:06:44] But I was also willing to be pushed there. And so if you are willing to go. beyond your limitations, I invite you to engage with energetically the things that are part of that. So in this case, it’s a business you know, that, that I’m working with and the creation of the membership that I’m working with, but also you could do it for anything.

[00:07:05] So if there is a, a house you would like, and maybe you don’t even know the house, it doesn’t matter, but energetically you can connect and say, you know, check in with the house and get the energy of the house and receive all the yumminess and just say, Hey, whatever it’s going to take to receive you, just go push, push me beyond my limitations.

[00:07:23] Yeah. Like it’s, it’s such a magical way. And it basically kind of, it’s such a magical way to receive. And I know we’re not taught to receive. I know we’re not taught to. We’re not taught really any of this. We’re taught to suffer and, and have problems and force and push and never be happy with it. And it never working out the way you would like it and all that crap.

[00:07:46] Those are our limitations. Those are things like, like with myself, with the membership, well, I’ve done this before and it didn’t work out. So I’m creating based on those limitations, but by inviting the business to go beyond that, it was, it was able to, 

[00:08:00] and I mean, It, it also not only did it have to go beyond my limitations, but it had to pull me pushing and kicking and screaming along the way. And I’m so incredibly grateful that it did, because there’s so many more possibilities when we allow whatever it is to contribute, it’s a totally different space. So really look at whatever it is you would like more of, or to have, or to create, or to be, whatever the wording is. And then. Connect with it energetically, and that’s like, you could, you could, you could make that really easy.

[00:08:37] Connect with it energetically by just thinking about it. Just start thinking about it. So I, you know, would just think about the business and what I would like. And again, I wasn’t thinking about a membership because I wouldn’t have thought about a membership, but thinking about the energies that I was looking for.

[00:08:52] I would like more ease. I would like more fun. I would like more creation. I would like more connection. So those, okay, tapping into that and it’s like, okay, business, just totally override my limitations. Just go, go where you want to go. Don’t, don’t pay attention to my crazy, basically is what I’m saying.

[00:09:12] And you can do that with anything. And I just wonder, I just wonder how much would act, how much more would actually be possible if you were willing to receive from everything. Oh my goodness. That’s a lot of energy on that, my sweet friend. So with that, whatever the, however that shows up for you, and maybe there wasn’t much energy on it for you, that’s fine.

[00:09:34] But if there was get the energy of that, get that. And it might have been like, for me, there’s a whoosh. Okay. Then you could just let it go. Could see it like a balloon and just letting all the air out of it. You could, you could melt it. Like, whatever, you just want to shift that energy of it. And a lot of times when I’m talking, and especially about stuff like this, where there’s a lot of energies that come up as I’m talking, lots of points of views and 

[00:10:00] limitations and such, they dissipate as I’m talking. Yeah, that’s why I share once I’m basically on the other side of something. So when I’m going through something, I don’t often share about it. When I’m on the other side, I share because I know by my sharing and my words and my voice and the healing energies that I be, that as I share, that however it is in your world similar, it just dissipates it.

[00:10:25] And that’s how magical we can be for each other. And I don’t mean this is just you know, this is just a me thing. This is not, this is, we all have incredible capacities but it’s one of the reasons that People will say to me, I love listening to your voice. I love your voice. And what they’re, what they’re acknowledging is, is what I be when I speak and how I can contribute and shift and change things.

[00:10:49] Yes. Now with that, depending on when you’re listening to this, so May May, 2024, anybody who joins the membership by April 30th, you will actually get a group healing. Yes. So we’re going to do it via Zoom. Of course, the recordings are there afterwards and and it’s something like this. Honestly, I haven’t done a group healing.

[00:11:13] I don’t know if I’ve ever done one. If I have, it’s been many years. So I’m really not sure how it’s going to show up, but it’s the, the, this topic is to stop limiting yourself based on making other people comfortable. I don’t know if you’ve ever done that where you would really like something, you know, But you know that if you receive it, you’d make other people uncomfortable.

[00:11:36] And a lot of times this is not conscious. You’re not aware of this. You just keep questioning, why the do I not have more money? Why the heck do I make the same amount as my siblings or my friends or my husband or my wife or whatever? So, anyway, that’s, that’s the bonus for joining by April 30th.

[00:11:52] Would love to have you come play. And if you’re listening to this later, there’s gonna be a bonus to join each month. So just reach out or of course the link is above or below somewhere. Would love to have you with us. Would love to have you come play. Would love to! You know, have a few hundred in this membership that I wasn’t going to allow to be.

[00:12:11] So, I mean, it’s so incredible. I’m not sure if you can hear the pups back there. There’s a golf course that we’re back onto and they don’t appreciate the golfers that get their balls near the fence line. That is not, that is their territory. So they might be, might be going for that. Also next door to other dogs.

[00:12:29] They don’t love them. So lots of, lots of things to bark at. So. Okay, try it out, let me know how it goes. I’d love to hear from you, I’d love to hear if this is a contribution, if it gave you any awarenesses of your own, and would love to have you come play in the membership. Have a great rest of your week and I’ll talk to you soon!

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