Why You Reject Money

Mar 19, 2023 | Radio Show

Why You Reject Money

There’s so many ways you could be rejecting money!

I know what you think – who would even want to reject money?! Certainly not me! But this is something that a lot of times we’re not even aware of doing. Even I had done it at some point! If that is something you would like to change, tune in to this episode because we will discuss all the ways you could be rejecting money and how you could open yourself up to receiving more.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered why you reject money? If so, stick around. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life. My name is Glenyce Hughes and I am so incredibly grateful that you are here.

[00:00:13] Yeah. Why you reject money and how to stop. I know. This is something that a lot of times we’re not even aware that we’re doing it because it can show up in so many different ways. We could be not receiving compliments. That’s a way of rejecting money.

[00:00:31] We could not be allowing people to gift us. Maybe they would like to take us out for dinner. Maybe we go, but in our mind we’re going, “Okay, I’ll take them out for dinner next week.” We find that way to not receive it, basically. We’re figuring out how to give it back. How to boomerang it, so to speak. There’s so many different ways that we can reject money.

[00:00:56] What you wanna start paying attention to is if that’s what you’re doing. Maybe you recognize that every time, if you have a business, let’s say, and you have a new client phone you. They’re asking if what you do could help them with something that they’ve got going on, and you automatically refer them on. That might be a way of rejecting money.

[00:01:18] Let me tell you how that showed up for me.

When I first started my business over 20 years ago, I would have people phone me just like that. They’d phone, and at the time I was doing reiki sessions and clinical hypnotherapy sessions.

[00:01:31] They would phone and they’d say, “Hey, I’ve got sciatica. Have you ever had success with reiki, with sciatica?”

I would say, “No, but do you know what? I know somebody who could help you,” and I would refer them on.

Now, that’s great if that’s actually true in the moment. But referring everyone on does not make a good business, my friends.

[00:01:53] That was one of the ways that I was rejecting money. I wasn’t willing to receive it. I wasn’t willing to receive them coming in. I wasn’t willing to receive, maybe me not being able to assist them with reiki or whatever they were asking about. We just wanna start paying attention to that.

[00:02:10] Now, the title of the show: “Why You Reject Money.” That’s a pretty blanket statement. Every one of us is gonna be a little bit different. But ultimately, receiving money is about receiving. Receiving.

[00:02:25] To receive money, we have to have a level of receiving that possibly is more than we’ve been willing, or maybe more than what people around us have been willing.

[00:02:37] We reject it (money) right away as a way to ensure that the people around us are comfortable with how much money we’re receiving. To ensure that we don’t receive more than we’re supposed to. Whatever the heck that means. There’s so many different energies.

[00:02:53] But one of the ones in all of the hundreds of thousands of people that I have worked with over the years, I would say the most common is they reject money because the value is in the story as to why they don’t have it than the value being in to actually choosing it.

[00:03:17] So, what does that mean?

If we have a story that we don’t have money because of a recession or a potential recession that’s going on — it’s one that we’re hearing quite often now at the time of recording.

[00:03:33] If we’re telling that story, if we’re saying, “My business is not bringing in the money,” or “My employer can’t pay me more because… ,” that’s a pretty quick notice, guys, that there’s a story going on. When you go to “because,” stop. Stop. That’s a story.

[00:03:54] If you really wanna change it, I mean TRULY change it — most people don’t. Maybe you’re different. Just for you. You don’t need to be saying this out loud to other people because it’s gonna sound weird. But what I’d like you to start doing is actually acknowledging what is true.

[00:04:13] Let’s say you are employed. You’ve asked your employer for money, and they say, “We don’t have the money for it because of the recession,” or whatever story they wanna give you.

[00:04:23] You want to say to you, “I don’t have more money because I’m not choosing more money” instead of “I don’t have more money because my employer isn’t paying me more because of a recession.”

[00:04:41] Can you get the difference between the two? The latter one, it makes you a victim. You can’t change that. What you can change is your choice.

[00:04:51] Now, does that mean that you’re gonna say, “I don’t have money because I’m choosing not to have more money,” and then suddenly it changes? I mean, it could, but chances are when you acknowledge what is, you acknowledge you are the creator of your money, then you might go, “Huh. Okay. Since that employer has said no to anymore, then what else? What else is possible?” You start actually going into question.

[00:05:17] Maybe you go find a totally different employment. Maybe you add on. Maybe there’s something that you love doing that you would add on to the side that would really contribute. There’s a bazillion ways to receive more money if you’re not in the story of whatever the “because” is.

[00:05:36] This is something you really wanna look at if you’re willing to change it. Remember, this is why you’re rejecting money and how to stop it. That’s number one.

[00:05:44] Start calling it like it is. “I don’t have more money because I’m not choosing more money.” That’s the only thing that you know to be true. You can’t say it’s because of the economy, because of your employer, because of business… STOP. All of that is giving up your power and you end up being a victim, and so it is. That’s the way it is for you.

[00:06:09] This is something that, I mean, I keep saying you, but please know, this is something that I have really shifted and changed with myself over the years. It’s to acknowledge what I am choosing and to acknowledge what I’m not choosing.

[00:06:23] When I’m not choosing it, I just acknowledge it. It’s not right, it’s not wrong. You’re not supposed to be doing something. You get to choose every 10 seconds. You get to choose every second you get to choose. You wanna look at that and really be present with that and call it like it is.

[00:06:39] Again, just for you. Announcing that to your friends and family might sound really weird, but you get to choose it for you. You get to acknowledge for you.

“Okay, I’m not choosing that right now.”

Ah… now, what else is possible? Now you can ask more questions.

[00:06:55] I would love to invite you to an upcoming class that I’ve got called “Money Does Not Give a Fuck.” It is all about this. It is all about getting out of pathetic, out of the lack, out of the scarcity, and into the potent creator of magnitude that you truly be. It is on April 1. If you’re listening to this or watching this later, the replay will be available. It’s $50 USD for the call, my sweet friends.

[00:07:24] We’re gonna be using a lot of the new stuff that came out in the recent Global Foundation at Access Consciousness®. Oh my goodness. Presumptive realities and needs of reactive reality. I mean, all the stuff. So, come and join us. You’ll find the link above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out and I will get it for you.

[00:07:42] With the changing of it, the stopping of rejecting money, really acknowledging what is true in that moment, the other thing that you wanna do with that is just be really present with when you are rejecting money. It doesn’t mean you have to not reject it. You don’t have to force yourself.

[00:08:03] But if you could start acknowledging – let’s say a friend comes up to you and they just say, “Wow, I just love your outfit. That is amazing!”

[00:08:11] If you aren’t able to receive that, if it’s really difficult — compliments are a tough thing for a lot of people to receive. If you know that, you just wanna acknowledge for you that you’re rejecting it and that’s okay. Just acknowledge it. That’s the first step.

[00:08:29] And then maybe when you’re on your own, you could really look at that and really look at what you could actually create if you received it. If you did drop those walls and barriers, that separation and just really receive their compliment.

[00:08:43] Now, compliments can sometimes be a bit tricky. Sometimes, when people are giving us a compliment, there isn’t a compliment there. Sometimes, there’s secret agendas attached. There’s lies attached. There’s some unkindness attached.

[00:08:59] You just wanna be present and really aware of what you’re choosing in that moment. If it is a rejection, if it’s just so difficult to receive it, just smile and nod or say “thank you” or do whatever, and get present with it.

[00:09:18] I get a lot of compliments out in the world. It’s really interesting. If I go out shopping and they can be about my glasses because as many of you know, I have lots of different pairs of glasses. It can be about the clothes I’m wearing. It can be about my hair. It is the most random stuff that people will come up to me and just tell me how great, whatever it is, looks, or how much they love it or whatever it is.

[00:09:45] I used to really struggle with that because, well, I did. I just really wasn’t willing to receive it. I was rejecting it. I was rejecting it, and it was really about being an allowance of it.

[00:10:00] The other thing that I had to do is acknowledge what was really going on. They say they like my glasses, my hair, whatever. What they’re aware of with me — most people, not everybody, but most people — is the difference of me. The energy that I be. The contribution that I be in those places and spaces. That’s the way that they acknowledge it. It’s the only way we know in this reality.

[00:10:29] It’s such a really cool energy because that’s what I realized a lot of that kind of rejection was from that it felt funky. It was like what they were saying didn’t really match the energy. Once I acknowledged what was really going on, then it’s like there’s a total match of the energy. It might be something like that for you, also.

[00:10:50] There might be something that you’re actually getting complimented on that isn’t maybe given words to. So, something to keep in mind with that.

[00:10:58] So, some home play for you. Start paying attention to when you’re rejecting money. You could see it even more openly rejecting energy, like the compliments, the dinner, the hug, whatever. Start paying attention. Start calling it like it is. Stop telling the stories. And then, start being in allowance. Start being present. Start being open to receiving even more.

[00:11:25] And come and join us for “Money Does Not Give a Fuck“! I would love to see you there. Have a wonderful week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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How to Have Clarity in Your Business

Mar 12, 2023 | Radio Show

How to Have Clarity in Your Business

What would it take?

Would you be willing to be and do what it takes to have clarity in your business? Are you willing to receive from it wherever, whenever, and however it pops up? Tune in to this episode if this is something you might be interested in, because we will be talking all about clarity and how it can show up not only in your business, but in every area of your life and living, too.

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[00:00:00] Would you be willing to always have clarity in your business like, a hundred percent clarity a hundred percent of the time?

Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:17] First off, I would like to invite you to a free zoom that I’ve got coming up, and it is called “Clarity and Magic in Your Business.” You’ll find the link above or below. You can join us. I would love to have you. It’s basically going to be an energy pull, but of course there’ll be some discussion beforehand about all this magic.

[00:00:37] I did wanna do this show about clarity. Often what we’re talking about when we say we don’t have clarity or we’re not clear, usually what we’re actually saying is, “I don’t know what the right answer is here. Since I don’t know what the right answer is, I’m not clear until I have the right answer.”

[00:01:01] That is what really trips us up, I’m gonna say, in every area of our life and because I’m speaking about business, definitely in business. Because it’s like this loop where suddenly we are in this space of, “I don’t have clarity and I should have clarity. If I don’t have clarity, then I can’t have clarity and I’ll never have clarity…” Oh my gosh.

[00:01:21] That’s not actually true. Clarity is a totally different energy than the right answer. I know, right? It’s so frustrating because often what we’re doing is we’re using words that don’t match what we’re actually talking about.

[00:01:38] What I would like you to do if this is something you do to yourself — “I don’t have clarity, I’m supposed to have clarity, I should have clarity. Once I have clarity, then I’ll do all the things” — I want you to get a sense of that word right now. Clarity in that sense for you. Not what actually clarity is, but what you’re talking about when you’re saying I don’t have clarity.

[00:01:57] I’ll give you a moment… yeah. It’s gross, isn’t it? It’s heavy. It’s contractive. It’s like, ugh, because it’s a lie. It’s not what you’re actually looking for.

[00:02:08] Let me re-say that. Yes, we would love to have the right answer in every area of our life. Absolutely. I will not kid you there. Every one of us would love the right answer. However, we’re not in business to get the right answer because you can’t. There is no right answer in business. There’s choice and lots of it. Choices and choices and choices.

[00:02:33] I remember once this person saying that they basically just threw spaghetti at the wall to see what would stick, and they were referencing their business. They didn’t mean they were just throwing random pieces of spaghetti. Anyway, you get it. I’ve often thought of that, like, you know what? Yeah. Actually, that is what it’s like.

[00:02:52] I’ve been in business for 20 years, so I’ve thrown a lot of spaghetti. When it sticks, it still doesn’t mean it’s the right answer. So when I talk about having clarity all the time, what you’re really looking for — if you actually get the energy, let’s do it a little bit different.

[00:03:13] Let’s get the energy of actual clarity, like true clarity. Yeah. Okay. A much more expansive energy. A much lighter energy, yeah. So, what is that then?

[00:03:30] To me, it’s not having to get it right or wrong. It’s the throwing of the spaghetti. It’s the willingness to try whatever feels yummy in that moment and receive from it.

[00:03:43] Where we feel like, maybe let’s say, in my case, with my type of business, we put on a free call like I talked about before. We put that out there without the idea that it will give me this or it won’t give me that, or it’ll do this or it’ll work like this, or this is the result or this is the expectation. None of that. None of that. I put it on because it feels fun to put it on.

[00:04:09] Part of that is, so I’m working with my sweet host in Dubai right now, Mary Rose. I’m not going to Dubai just yet, but we’re putting on some online classes so that once we sell everything here and we hit the road, we’ll be heading to Dubai. It’ll be one of the very many magical places that I visit.

[00:04:28] When we were discussing the creation — we’ve got four classes coming up. One at the end of March in 2023, and then three in April. They’re all a week apart. You’ll see the link above or below. We called them the “#asifbymagic Clarity Nights.” if you’re in North America like me, it’s actually day time. In Dubai, it’s evening. This is open to anybody because it’s online. You don’t have to be in Dubai to join us. Please know that.

[00:04:54] And so in that discussion of these classes, we were talking about what’s the invitation. What feels yummy with this? Right? We’re throwing spaghetti at the wall, my friends. We were chatting about it, and then Mary Rose said to me, “Let’s just do a quick energy pull from the four classes that we’d got the energy that were Yeses.”

[00:05:16] So, we did that. I was like, “That’s it!” It’s an energy pull that’s a gift to the invitation but without the expectation of, “I’m gonna do this and this is how it’s gonna turn out. I’m gonna do this free call and everybody who comes is gonna join all the four classes.” I mean, cool. What would that take? And also, it feels fun. I’m just throwing spaghetti at the wall.

[00:05:40] It’s not like if I would’ve looked for clarity, if I would’ve looked for clarity the way we were talking about earlier, Mary Rose and I would still be having the conversation. We would be stuck in a loop of going, “Well, what about this?”

“What? I don’t know.”

“What about this?”

“Oh, I don’t know.”

Because there’s no right or wrong. There’s no right or wrong, but that’s what we’re often talking about when we’re talking about clarity.

[00:06:05] Also, it so happens one of the calls that we’re doing for the Clarity Nights – day times is about clarity in the business because that’s one of the things. Mary Rose works with a lot of people and entrepreneurs, and that’s one thing that they’ve been saying to her a lot and I hear a lot, also. People don’t have clarity and they just want clarity, so we’re going to do a whole class on it. We’re gonna do the free energy pull on it. I would love to have you come join us.

[00:06:32] The other thing with those four classes, if you join for all four, you actually get a 10-minute session with me. Yes. I’m not sure I’ve ever given this bonus before. Throwing spaghetti at the wall, guys. No clarity. It just felt super fun as I was putting it together. You just do have to register for all four by, I believe it’s March 22nd, 23rd, something like that. You’ll see it on the page. If you don’t or you don’t see the link to the page, reach out and I’ll get it to you.

[00:07:02] What I would like you to look at when you hear yourself say, “If I only had clarity, I’d know what to do. If I was just clear, then I’d do it,” what I want you to do is tap into what clarity actually is. Get out of the lie that you don’t already have it because you do, and just make some choices. Throw spaghetti at the wall.

[00:07:28] Part of that is get out of the point of view that you can get it wrong or that you can mess it up. You actually can’t. If it doesn’t work out, do something else. That’s the really cool thing.

[00:07:42] It’s one of the things that Access Consciousness® has really contributed to me and my business. It’s the willingness to fail, the willingness to get it wrong, the willingness to mess it up.

[00:07:53] If you’re not willing to do those things, guess what? You will have a very difficult time with clarity because you’ll be very stuck in getting it right. Because you need to get it right so that you don’t fail, so that you’re right.

[00:08:06] Guys, there’s no right or wrong. In fact, there’s no failing either. I know that’s such a cliche. I know you’ve probably heard it a million times, but I really want you to look at that for yourself. Look at a situation where you’ve decided you failed. Did you actually fail or did you receive more awareness?

[00:08:27] If you go to the judgment that you failed, then absolutely you failed and it’s gonna be very difficult for you to actually receive from it. But if you’re willing to go, “Wow, okay,” a question we ask and Access Consciousness®”: “What’s right about this I’m not getting?”

That will allow you to start to receive from it, and it’s a totally different energy compared to I failed, I’m wrong, I’m bad.

[00:08:51] If you would like more about clarity, join us for the free energy pull. And then of course, also join us for the classes. You don’t have to join for all four. There’s business classes and one about fasting. Yes, because in Dubai at that time, they will be fasting so I’m doing a whole call on tips to fasting without killing people. The other three are business related.

[00:09:17] If you got any questions, reach out. Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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Are You Actually Receiving from Your Energetic Team?

Mar 5, 2023 | Radio Show

Are You Actually Receiving from Your Energetic Team?

Imagine the possibilities if you are!

Are you receiving from your energetic team? What even is an “energetic team”?! If you want to know more, tune in to this episode because we will be discussing all about an energetic team, what makes it one, and all the incredible ways it can contribute to your life and have it receive the magic from you, too. Imagine the possibilities that will open up…

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[00:00:00] Are you actually receiving from your energetic team?

Hello and welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. Yeah. So, are you receiving from your energetic team? What the heck do I mean by “energetic team”?

[00:00:23] Years and years ago, I worked as a professional medium which means I talked to dead people for my clients. Yes, I did it for 10 years. I know. It sounds so long, and it’s probably been a good 10 years or so since I’ve done that. However, I still work with my energetic team in all the ways.

[00:00:46] For me, an energetic team is all of the energies, whatever you wanna call them. Angels, guides, people or loved ones that have died, berries, it doesn’t matter. It’s all the energetic beings that would like to contribute to you. What I see that as is your energetic team. You’ve got a team of energy beings that are cheering you on, that are contributing, that are assisting you to create your life.

[00:01:19] Years ago, I used to see my energetic team as my number one. They were more valuable and important than me, so I really let them guide the show. That’s one way.

[00:01:33] Luckily, I now actually guide the show. I’m actually what I call the “CEO of my life,” and they contribute to me. It’s a very different energy. I was very much before being the victim, just sitting back, waiting for them to do the things as though they knew more than me, they knew better than me.

[00:01:54] Now, I actually know that I know. I actually know that I’m the creator of my life and living and I’m willing to receive from everything, including my energetic team – meaning all of the energies, all of the beings. All of the lightness that would like to contribute, they can contribute, too. I will receive that. I will also gift to them. It’s not like it’s just a one way street. It is truly this gifting and receiving.

[00:02:25] When you look at that, if that’s something you’d like to start adding to your life, then there may be different ways to do that for you.

[00:02:33] I know for me, a lot of times it’s an energetic way of being where I’m communicating, but it’s not really communicating. I am communing. I am gifting and receiving with them. I am allowing them to contribute. I’m being present — not all the time but sometimes, most of the time and more than I used to. I’m being present with the information, the awarenesses that are coming in as I’m making choices and following the lightness.

[00:03:07] It becomes like, you know, if you were playing baseball and you were the batter, it’s all the other players on the team that are contributing. Maybe some of them are just standing and cheering you on. Maybe some of them are doing some smack talk to the other team or whatever. That sounds really funny, to think about our energetic team doing smack talk to other people. That’s not what I mean, but you get the idea where they’re contributing, but you’re still the one with the bat.

[00:03:39] If you’re willing to receive from them, it is about engaging with them. It is about allowing them, inviting them, all of that. All of that yummy energy where it’s just this continuous flow, gifting, receiving, choosing, following, lightness, and all the things.

[00:04:03] For me, sometimes depending on where I’m at with whatever I’m looking for their contribution with, I will actually do a meditation where I’ll just sit quietly, close my eyes, and commune with them. Lots of times when I go to sleep at night, I will invite them in, I will engage with them.

[00:04:24] As I’m falling asleep, I really allow them to contribute in whatever way. Sometimes, there’s physical healing that’s going on. Sometimes, there’s information. Sometimes, it’s just a gifting and a receiving, which makes it sounds like it’s lessened, but that’s not what I mean.

[00:04:40] But there’s so many different ways if you’re willing to really, really receive from your energetic team. I use the word “receive,” but it’s like gift and receive. It’s that together. It’s the two together because if you were on that baseball team and you were the one batting but that’s all you did and you didn’t contribute any other way, that’s not gonna be very cool either. It really is this gifting and receiving in whatever way.

[00:05:12] You may want to use meditations. You may want to just find your way. Some people, just by walking in nature has that sense of communion.

[00:05:22] I know when we went on our trip in October of last year when we went for a month to England, I was working with a friend of mine. We were swapping sessions and we were discussing the trip and some of the anxiety, I could say, that I had around flying and all the stuff we hadn’t done for a couple years.

[00:05:41] What she said to me, she said, “Okay, what is the energetic being that is going to assist you with this?”

[00:05:50] As soon as she said that, I saw this really big, beautiful owl. For me, owls have always had a symbolic reference because my grandma used to collect them. She would collect them and I would count them. I mean, they were just figurines. I don’t mean she collected real owls, she didn’t do that. Just figurines.

[00:06:10] Last time I counted, I was probably, I don’t know, 14 or something, and she had over a thousand owl figurines. In fact, as I sit here, I look behind the camera, I can see one of those sitting on my shelf. They’ve always had a symbolic reference for me.

[00:06:26] As soon as I saw that, I was like, oh wow. Okay, cool. It was so amazing how many times the owl showed up in that trip, one of them being right at the airport. I don’t mean that owl showed up. I mean I looked over and there was this big screen in the Calgary airport and there was an owl on it. It just gave me that sense of like, “Okay, yeah, thank you,” and just receiving from the owl in that way.

[00:06:55] Just know that we can gift and receive, that we aren’t here alone, that we aren’t by ourselves, that we do have a whole—I don’t know what we wanna call them, tribe, or group, or huge… I don’t even know what a name would be for it, of these energies that are just cheering us on and contributing and gifting us and receiving and all those things. The more that you are willing to actually receive, the more magic that you can create with them.

[00:07:33] I would love to invite you to an upcoming series I’ve got called “Magical as Fuck,”, and this is one of the calls that we’re going to do. It is “How to Engage with Your Energetic Team to Be Magical as Fuck.”

[00:07:48] In the series, there’s four in total. You get four weekly energetic exercises to really build on what we talked about in the call, to really enhance the entire experience, to really be magical as fuck in every area by receiving from everything.

[00:08:04] We are gonna talk about your ass. We’re gonna talk about how to utilize that to create magic. We’re gonna talk about, obviously, your energetic team. We’re gonna talk about you being magical for you, too. We’re gonna talk about specific capacities to be magical as fuck, and all the things.

[00:08:23] So, please come and join us. I would love to have you. The link is above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out and I will get it for you.

[00:08:30] So, I wonder how much magic you can create this week by receiving from your energetic team, gifting and receiving and engaging with and playing with them. I wonder what might be possible. Have a great week, sweet friends, and I look forward to chatting again soon.

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Why Can’t You Be Magical for You Too?

Feb 26, 2023 | Radio Show

Why Can’t You Be Magical for You Too?

You absolutely can!

A question I’ve often heard from my clients is “How come I can be magical for other people, but I can’t be magical for myself?” What if that isn’t actually the case? What if you can be magical for you too, but you have these notions that might be limiting what’s actually possible for you? Tune in to this episode because now is the time we all start being the magic not only for other people but for ourselves, too!

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered why you can’t be magical for you, too? Hello! Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. Thank you so much for being here. I am so incredibly grateful for you.

[00:00:15] Yeah. It is something that I have probably heard more than anything else from my clients. “How come I can be magical for other people, but I can’t be magical for myself? What is that?” Yeah. What is that? What if you could be magical for you, too?

[00:00:34] Now, this podcast is an invite to an upcoming series that I have called “Magical as Fuck“, a 4-part, oh my gosh, actualization series, receiving series, magical capacity series. I mean, it’s all the things.

[00:00:54] There’s gonna be four calls altogether. One of them is going to be all about being magical for you too, because what if it isn’t what you think? What if it isn’t that you can’t be magical for you? What if you have some sort of bizarre point of view about it? What if you have a belief that’s limiting what’s actually possible for you?

[00:01:17] I know for myself, years ago when I started looking at this for me because I could be very magical for other people, I could create all sorts of magic in their life, in their business, in their money flows, all the things. But when it came to being it for me, not so much. What I recognized was that it kind of stemmed from this idea that I know most of us have heard at one point or another. “It is better to give than to receive.” Yeah, I know, right? Crazy!

[00:01:52] Here’s the thing: you can’t actually just give. Well, I shouldn’t say that. You can. You can do it that way, but then energetically it’s just going out one way, so guess what happens to you? You become depleted. You’re just flowing it one way. But gifting and receiving is an energy not even really like a cycle because it’s not. It seems like there’s gifting and receiving and receiving and gifting and, but it’s one energy and it’s a continuous flow of energy.

[00:02:26] And so when we’ve got any beliefs that it’s better to give than to receive or it has to just flow one way, then chances are we’re using that, in a sense, against us. We’re using that as a way to really limit what’s possible for us.

[00:02:43] Because magical capacities aren’t just for other people. Your magical capacities aren’t just for other people. We want to include them, and you wanna include you also. This is the thing where this flow of you being magical. Not you being magical for them, not you being magical for you even. You being magical.

[00:03:13] Now, what does “magic” really mean? Magic, to me, is the willingness to be or do whatever it takes to create what you desire. Maybe even change the end to create what would create greater. Because sometimes when we have this idea of create what we desire, we have a lot of conclusions around that. We have a lot of ways we think that should look, or the ways that that has to look. What if there’s so many ways? What if there’s so many ways?

[00:03:45] It’s the willingness to be or do whatever it takes to create greater. There we go. I like that. That energy, being that in the world without any barriers up to it, without any exclusions, without any insanity, points of views, limiting beliefs, all of that, then you get to be it, including you. You get to receive from it, also. You get to be it, you get to gift it, you get to receive it, and that’s all the same energy. There’s no separation in there and there’s no barriers as long as we don’t put them there.

[00:04:22] There’s different ways and things to look at. I mean depending on what you believe to be true, sometimes we have other lifetimes where we did things that we maybe took an oath or a vow to never be magical for us again or things like that. Sometimes there’s that sort of stuff, and we’ll talk about that more on the call and really go into changing that.

[00:04:45] But ultimately, if you look at that for yourself, if this is something that you’ve wondered about – why can you be so magical for other people? Why does it work out for them when you contribute, but not when you contribute to you? All those sorts of things, and those are great questions to look at for you. It’s like, so what is that? What is that for you? If you did, then what?

[00:05:06] Sometimes that can bring up that really limiting point of view of if I did, if I was magical for me, then people would hate me, it’d be wrong. I mean, there’s all sorts of things that can come up. You don’t need to dissect those things. You just need to be aware of them. What I find is once we’re aware of them, that’s when we’ll change them. Often it’s just the awareness of it. Like, oh!

[00:05:28] I know for myself again, years ago when I was really looking at this, I was like, you know what? When I let go of that idea that it’s better to give than to receive… In fact, when I was willing to just see the insanity of that message, it was like, wow, there’s so many areas of my life that this could ripple out into, because then it really comes to us being all of us.

[00:05:55] Not going, “Well, I better not receive anything here. I better just be the giver,” and then we get depleted because there’s no energy coming back. We’re not receiving anything from it. Usually, that turns into resentment and then there’s all sorts of insanity with that.

[00:06:12] Once I started to piece it apart for myself, it was, I’m gonna say fairly ease for me to really start going, “What if I was magical for me here too?” again, we’re not doing it so that we exclude it from others now. We’re just including us. We’re just including us so that we can receive it, too. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:06:36] Because really, imagine a world with everybody on it being magical, excluding themselves. Okay, that’s a bizarre energy. Now, imagine a world where everybody’s being magical, including themselves. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, guys. Let’s choose that. Okay, let’s choose that.

[00:06:57] Again, I invite you to the upcoming Magical as Fuck – 4-Part Series to really exponentialize your capacities with magic in ways you never even imagine possible. If you would like more information, you can find the link above or below. If you don’t see a link, reach out and I will get it for you.

[00:07:17] I wonder… I wonder what magic would be possible if we were willing to include ourselves in the magic that we be. Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.

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How to Control the Uncontrollable

Feb 19, 2023 | Radio Show

How to Control the Uncontrollable

Are you willing?

We all cope differently when we find ourselves in situations beyond our control. Some will swim with the tide, others might go against it. But what if there’s a way to “control the uncontrollable”? Join me in another magical episode as I share all about how to be okay when things get out of control and more, because who knows? This might actually bring about the change you’ve been dreaming of!

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[00:00:00] Is there a way to control the uncontrollable? Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so incredibly grateful that you are here.

So ,is there? Is there a way to control the uncontrollable? Now, I know that ultimately we’re looking to get out of control. I know that. I know it’s something I’ve been choosing towards in maybe bits and pieces over many, many years, and I’m way better at being out of control than ever before.

[00:00:36] What does out of control mean? It means allowing it to be what it is. Allowing the situation, the event, the relationship, whatever it is, to be what it is rather than deciding what it has to be and pushing and forcing, and making it be something that I’ve decided. So, I’m way better [with it now.]

[00:00:58] What came up for me the other day, many of you know we’re in the process of getting our house packed up. We’re gonna move everything that we own that we would like to keep into storage, and then we’re hitting the road. We’re gonna sell this beautiful acreage. If anybody’s looking for an acreage near Sherwood Park, Alberta and loves the swimming pool, keep our place in mind.

[00:01:25] What we’re doing is we’re going to go around the world house and kitty sitting – animal sitting. We’ll probably do some dogs in that, but of course, our preference is kitties.

[00:01:38] The other day, there was so much magic that occurred. I had talked to a good friend of mine who’s a realtor. You guys have heard me talk about him before – Chris Hassall. If you ever have realtor needs in Lloydminster, Alberta/Saskatchewan, please reach out to him. He’s amazing.

[00:01:57] We were just chatting about things and he was just giving me some tips and suggestions and such. And then, the next morning I woke up to a random Facebook message from a local realtor who had seen a post that I’d put in one of the local groups two months ago. He was just following up with what I’d post like, what? It was so cool. I spoke with him and all of a sudden it was like, “Oh wow. Shit’s getting real.” Shit’s getting real! What?!

[00:02:31] What was occurring is this feeling of — you guessed it — out of control. What I know about myself with that energy is that often, I can stop it. I can find a way. If I don’t acknowledge what it is, I’ll energetically stop it, which is usually not what I’m asking for. In fact, it’s usually the exact opposite of what I’m asking for.

[00:02:55] As I became aware of that energy, I became aware that I could stop it. I started looking at, okay, yes, stopping it is one. What else though? What else could I actually choose with it? Huh? Okay, what would I require to have ease with it?

[00:03:15] Now, I’m super excited about this possibility. I’m not sitting back going, “Oh, I wish we weren’t doing this.” I’m not. Also, there’s still aspects of it that are totally out of control like what if I pack something away that I require when we’re, say, in Australia? Oh no! Okay, go buy it! Hello?!

[00:03:39] I mean, there’s these energies, right? That come up when there’s things that we can’t control — at least for me, there’s all sorts of insanity that comes with it and this idea that I should control it, that it’s right to control it when that’s the exact opposite of what I’m asking for.

[00:03:56] However, I also have to honor me. I have to trust me. I can’t just go, “Oh, you know what? I need to be out of control, so forget it.” I’m just out of control and go on. No, I have to acknowledge that I like control so much that I may try to stop this magic because of my love for control, the lies I bought into that somehow control is better than out of control, that somehow control is right and out of control is wrong.

[00:04:27] In recognizing that, it was like, “Okay, so what do I actually require to put in place to have that sense of ease with the out of control?” We could call it “controlling the uncontrollable,” which is kind of the title that I used but really, to me, it’s an honoring of me in this process. It’s an honoring of me and Hubby because of course, Hubby’s coming with me so also, what does he require?

[00:05:01] One of the things that he said right from the beginning is he needs to know that if we don’t enjoy it, we could come back and most of our stuff would still be available. I had this idea that we would go and just sell everything and he’s like, “No, I need to know that if we don’t enjoy it, we come back and we don’t have to start from scratch.” Okay, we’ll rent a storage and put the stuff in that we love. We’ll put it into storage. That’s what he needs and there will be more things. But that’s one thing that I was aware of that he needs.

[00:05:35] As I really felt that uncontrollable and attempt to maybe control it, the other day after I talked to the realtor, it was like, “What do I require?” And so what I started doing was going through my stuff almost from a different energy of, “Okay, I would love to have this, but I don’t necessarily need it. Okay. But if I would love to have it, I’m actually gonna keep it for now.”

[00:06:06] This is a few months before we list. We’ll probably list in May when the pool is nice and open and swimmable. Who knows? Maybe that will change. By then, maybe this will change. But for right now, in order to honor me and to honor this process and for me not to stop it, I have to know that I can feel okay through the process. Hopefully, that makes sense, guys. It sure makes sense in my head, but as I’m saying it, I’m starting to question it. So, yeah.

[00:06:41] What do you require to be okay in those situations of uncontrollable? Maybe there’s been situations you haven’t allowed to get there because you haven’t looked at that. What if that’s possibly the missing piece?

[00:06:57] Maybe you wanted to change a job. Maybe you don’t love where you work and you’d like to change that. A lot of times people go, “Oh, well. I just couldn’t go through all of that.” But you don’t have to do it. What if you started looking at what you might require to be okay with that?

[00:07:17] Maybe you start looking at what’s available without telling yourself you can’t. You just start looking at what jobs could you apply for. Maybe there’s one that feels really great to apply for. Maybe you apply for it, but you tell yourself you don’t actually have to take it. Even if you get it, you don’t have to take it. Like, allowing yourself.

[00:07:39] To me, it’s like a baby step. We can be so kind and caring to ourselves through these times of change that maybe it’s the change we’re asking for. It’s a change we’ve been dreaming of, such in my case, but also, be honorable. Be honoring of you to recognize when you might need a little bit of space or a little bit of assistance or the baby steps or whatever it is so that you can maybe feel a little bit in control through the uncontrollable.

[00:08:18] We don’t wanna control it, but we also really need to honor where we’re at. At least I do, or I’m gonna kill it. These are things I know about myself and that comes to being so honest with ourselves. The willingness to be so honest with ourselves about what is, what we require, what we might choose, and really honor that.

[00:08:45] A couple of things I would love to invite you to is the Bars. We’ve got one coming up in May. I’m gonna co-facilitate with Kim in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia. Yes, we’re going on the road! I’m so excited. I believe, if I have the dates correct, that’s May 25 for Bars and then I’m following up with me facilitating Foundation there. Come and play. I would love to hug you in person.

[00:09:13] Even though we’re listing, I still set a Pool Party Bars and Foundation. I was like, “You know what? I can always move it.” If we have to move it somewhere, we’ll move it. We’ll move it. Hopefully, I could find an Airbnb with a pool or something. Otherwise, the name will just be funny.

[00:09:28] But Pool Party Bars and Foundation, I did move it into June though for this year. If you can get here guys, I would love to have you come and play, and I truly wonder what else is possible and where else we will have these magical classes as we start going around the world? So excited.

[00:09:47] Thank you so much for being here. I’m so incredibly grateful, and I look forward to chatting again next week.

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How to Get Paid to Share What You Love

Feb 12, 2023 | Radio Show

How to Get Paid to Share What You Love

Another magical revenue stream!

What if I tell you that you can totally get paid just by sharing the things that you love? Yes, sweet friends – that’s absolutely possible! Tune in to this episode because I will be sharing how I turned things that I enjoy into “profitable revenue streams”, and how you can start doing it too. HDIGABTT?!

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[00:00:00] Have you ever wondered how to get paid to share the things you love? Well, stick around because I’m gonna share all about that in this podcast episode. Welcome to Tools to Create a Better Life with myself, Glenyce Hughes. I am so grateful that you are here. Let’s get into it!

[00:00:19] Getting paid to share what you love could also be called “affiliate programs,” “referral programs.” It’s basically where you sign up with a company that you love and you get what’s called a “special link.” When you share that special link and somebody uses it to buy the thing, you then get a percentage or whatever the company has set up for the affiliate program.

[00:00:44] It’s magical. I love it! I have been choosing so much more of this in the past, probably a year or so, and it’s such a magical way to receive more money and also to get paid to share what you love.

[00:01:00] If you would like a more in-depth training about this, I happen to have one. It is called the “Get Paid to Share What You Love – Quickie Money Training.” You will find the link above or below. It’s in my brand new shop. I’m so excited, guys! If you haven’t checked out my new shop, go check it out. It’s amazing.

[00:01:19] What I wanna talk about with this is for me. This doesn’t mean this is for you, but for me personally, I actually have to have an energy about the thing I’m selling. I have to actually love it really. I know there’s so many people on the planet who don’t, who could just sell anything, and that’s great. I’m happy for them. I actually have to have an energy where I truly love it or enjoy it or use it or whatever. That’s just always been my way.

[00:01:55] That’s a thing that I wanted to talk about today. One of the quickest ways to get started is look at the things you love. Are you constantly on Amazon ordering? What about becoming an affiliate with Amazon? Do you love a certain brand of coffee? Have you checked? Do they have an affiliate [program]?

[00:02:15] As I say that, I’m like, I’m actually gonna check with the company that had the coffee I use. I use Kicking Horse Coffee and it is from British Columbia, the province next door to us here in Alberta, and it’s so delicious. I love it so much. Anyway, so… squirrel!

[00:02:32] You start looking at the things. Look at the things you use every day, all day, and then start looking on those webpages. Go check them out. I’m gonna check out Kicking Horse. The brand or the name of my coffee is Kickass, of course, but it’s a Kicking Horse. I’ll go to that webpage.

[00:02:52] Usually, I just scroll right down to the bottom and it’ll talk about affiliates. If you don’t see any information, reach out! Just email them. Tell them what you would like to do. Who knows, right? The worst you can get is “no.” There’s so many companies.

[00:03:08] I get asked a lot, actually, if I have an affiliate program. I have over the years, on and off. The one thing from a business standpoint that you need to run is affiliates. I don’t know if you “need” it, but I really appreciate it. It’s a really good kind of program that is able to track all the links and all the sales and all of that.

[00:03:32] I haven’t been overly happy with the ones I’ve used in the past. Now with Shopify, I can do that. Possibly in the next few months, you will see that come out where you’ll be able to be an affiliate for things in the store. I haven’t taken the time to research it, but it is on my list so it’s possible in the future, and I’ve had people reach out, also.

[00:03:51] Now, some of the things. If you buy certain programs from me, then you go straight to a link where you could sign up to be an affiliate because, again, where it’s being sold has a really great affiliate tracking.

[00:04:04] But really, start looking at those things that you love. Start searching for those and check out what they offer. You’re probably already sharing the information anyway. You’re probably already saying, “Oh guys, have you tried out this new app?” “Have you tried this new thing?” “Have you read this book?” There’s so many things that we can be affiliates for.

[00:04:29] And then if you happen to run a business, then what are you constantly telling your customers or your clients about that you could maybe become an affiliate?

[00:04:38] For me, I sell different Canva templates in different programs, and so I became an affiliate with Canva because I’m telling people I’m selling things that are using Canva to utilize them. If somebody wants them and doesn’t happen to have an account, they can use that link, etc.

[00:04:57] So really, just get excited about the possibilities with multiple profitable revenue streams. That’s what I often refer to them as. Look at all the really fun, unique ways that you can share those links.

[00:05:14] The one thing you do want to be aware of is that in many countries, when you share an affiliate link, you do need to say that. It does need to be posted along with it if you’re doing a social media or link or post or something like that. Just keep that in mind. It’s easy enough to do.

[00:05:33] For the most part, people that are appreciating your referral or your suggestion, they’re so grateful for that. They don’t care. They’re happy to, you know, have you get paid a little bit or whatever. It may not be money, it might be something else depending on what the program has set up, but there’s so many different ways. I just wanted to share that and really get you maybe a little bit more open to the possibilities to, again, multiple profitable revenue stream.

[00:06:00] So first step, go and search the things you love and sign up for those affiliate programs and just get started. You would like more information? Of course you can check out the “Get Paid to Share What You Love (a.k.a Affiliate Program) Money Quickie Training“.

[00:06:19] All right. Have a great week, sweet friends. I look forward to chatting again next week.